The non LEO perils of mongering
The non LEO perils of mongering.
We have all discussed the perils of mongering as it pertains to LEO. Some of these perils also apply to non pros and pros we repeat with. Recently-within a week span of time-despite being well treated and at times overpaid my entire stable of providers has bailed. It was surprising at first but given thought it is not surprising at all. But losing an entire stable of providers in a week is just one of the pitfalls of this hobby.
1. The Relationships.
I have lost not one but two girlfriends because of my mongering. And yes despite using burner phones, fake apps, always buying condoms just before the act and disposing of them right afterwards (guys if you are in a relationship never keep condoms. But the pack of 3, use what you need, and throw away the rest. Don't keep them.) women always seem to be snooping. I actually had one pay some Indian guy online to hack my monger email once years ago. Given that I will never stop mongering the loss of my gf's I hate to say is part of the chance you take. Oh well.
2. The disappeared provider.
Some providers you see for weeks at a time. You even might fix their door in the house or have a Starbucks together. All is fine. And then poof! They disappear. Phone disconnected, emails either not responded to or email account is deleted. Given we all know a P4 P situation can't last forever after having such a good business relationship you wonder why these women disappear. The human in us makes us wonder-did she find more business, is she hurt / injured etc. I learned that after two emails and two calls I no longer try again and never respond if they ever reach out again.
3. The Never contact me again.
Non Pros are famous for this. One day, out of the blue, you get an email or sms saying "please never contact me again". This is despite all the extra things you did that you shouldn't have done for the non pro and all the the extra money you would give sometimes. Now most of the time these non pros suddenly get a bf or find a job and thus you are not needed anymore. What I always find funny is when you check their Facebook or Instagram you find out the real story. They now have a husband or something. The non pros are always the hardest to swallow because you do generate a relationship with the person. I had a UCLA girl that did that after I lent her $200 bucks. And that angered me because clearly she used me and I saw on her Instagram she went out the night before with her new boyfriend (with my money). So stupid girl that she is I found her mom in Facebook and forwarded her all of her daughters slutty emails. Wrong yes I know but her actions were uncalled for.
4. Diseases.
A part of this hobby rarely discussed. After seeing a video about herpes I no longer even get BBBJ anymore. One provider I saw recently in Long Beach had some seriously suspect healing sores down there. I simply packed up and left. I even know where boxers when getting FS to avoid as little skin to skin contact as possible. Sounds extreme I know but take the time to see a video about herpes and the LIFELONG horror it brings. You will be the same.
With that said if any of you guys have a provider or two to share this week pass it on. As with past instances when I build up my stable again I will be happy to share.
Now if I can find ANY provider at all or especially a pregnant one.
Dinnerout.