[QUOTE=Benz1;6008239]If SBJsister returns, what could we do to make sure a UTR that likes to fuck and suck is safe from mongers that have a dominance and daddy fetish?
She likes to play but not that way.
Saying NO doesn't seem to matter to them. Every UTR needs gentlemen not assholes.
There's information in the New Member Guide about UTR etiquette
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?31718-New-Member-Guide[/URL][/QUOTE]The UTR could ask mongers for references of providers they have seen. I have had that happen in other cities and while it may delay a first date for a day or so while they checked, it worked fine in getting a regular relationship going.
They ask for a name the monger is using and a distinguishing physical characteristic to be sure the guy doesn't use someone else's screen name. The password thing may work for a group of just a couple guys but not if the circle is any bigger as you don't really know what a monger is actually doing in his sessions.