Some cheap "skank" would be no use as reference anyway!
[QUOTE=Ioerror001;1380133]I'm a first timer. Been on here a while, and finnially decided to schedule with the lovely nicole and she won't without references. Obviously I want to meet someone that won't get me in any trouble, but if all need references anyone have any idea how I'm supposed to meet a nice lady without having to buy some skank that doesn't screen first? Just wondering how you all go about scheduling with her. Kinda confused here.[/QUOTE][b]Providers who want to check references are only going to accept other providers whom they, in turn, trust as references anyway[/b]: so anonymous BP advertisers would be as useless, as references, as street_walkers! You either need to find someone who's willing to screen your identity & employment herself; or you're going to need to pay to join one (or more: if you have zero provider experiences) of the Verification services: Prefered-411 ("P411") , RoomService2000 ("RS2k") , or DateCheck ("DC") ; some providers may accept background-checks & employment-checks{checking that you're not employed by any government-agency, or some business, or some profession (news reporters, preachers, social workers, etc.) that wants to put providers out of business} from 2 or 3 of these screening-services in lieu of any other screening: others may still want to do additional screening themselves. How discreet you need to be, &\or who your employer is, may be the limiting factor[s] for your choices!
Either that; or go to one of the Legalized licensed brothels in one of only 10 sparsely populated rural-desert Counties in Nevada {by t' w' Las Vegas (Clark County) does NOT have legal prostitution: the closest licensed brothel, in Parhump, is about 50miles across the desert} to "pay to play" legally & safely!
Sorry there isn't any happier answer: "it is what it is" is just the way it works; sincerely: A K
Warning! Bianka capri is back
From previous posting she got busted and was working for LEO. Pic are very old and she is not that attractive.
So you should stay far, far away from this one.
[url]http://nashville.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/bianka-capri-is-back-specials-33/4013849[/url]
"Low risk" gals are safER precisely BECAUSE they screen!
[QUOTE=RoadWarrior615;1381430]Too many girls around to do a reference with one. I would NEVER EVER give a working girl my employment info and background! Good way to get blackmailed which happens alot. Only thing a working girl needs to know about me is how many inches my dick is.[/QUOTE]The newbie asked.
[QUOTE=Ioerror001; 1380133]how you all go about[/QUOTE]Getting references to give for an app't w' any [u]low-risk[/u] ("[u]safe[/u]") gal (who requires references) so I gave him info (which I believe to be accurate, complete, & correct) to help make his decision! The "low risk"/safe gals are such BECAUSE they don't take app't's w' just any old hairy dick that calls or txt's 'them: by reducing their risk that, in turn, helps reduce our risk! Everyone of us has to evaluate how much risk, & what type[s] of risk[s] we're willing to gamble on when we choose to play; but our calculations should be based on the totality of accurate, complete, & correct info when we do!
If you don't want to risk even well-reviewed prov' (or escort-services) who have never been accused of extortion having your identity & verification info: then your only other option (if you want an app't w' someone who req' references) is to pay to be verified by 1 or 2 or 3 of those nation-wide verification-services, & hope that that will suffice!
Play safe & stay safe; sincerely: A K