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[QUOTE=SClatinguy;1902939]Does anyone have any experience with ash mad (you can figure it out) site on hooking up? I did it a few years ago but seemed like a bunch of fake ads but they sure do advertise a lot and a friend of a friend supposedly had success. I'd like to hear if others have had any luck.[/QUOTE]I have been on the site for some time. There are a lot of fake adds but I have been fortunate enough to hook up on at least 4 or 5 occasions. It has worked out well for me overall.
[QUOTE=DuckSouth;1903124]I have been on the site for some time. There are a lot of fake adds but I have been fortunate enough to hook up on at least 4 or 5 occasions. It has worked out well for me overall.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the info. Hopefully I'll be able to have the same luck.
[QUOTE=Playwithme483;1887706]I'm not sure if it's inappropriate to ask off-topic questions here. Hopefully this is okay. I will be coming to Charlotte for extended stretches and was hoping some of you ladies and / or gentlemen could point me a to some of the extended stay places with cheap weekly rates. This hobby usually fosters a thorough knowledge of cheap hotels. Any help would be appreciatedd. Feel free to PM.[/QUOTE]I stayed at the Quality Inn on Queen City BLVD. It's located right near the Charlotte Airport. Weekly Rates were 299.00. Nice Area with Great Restaurants within walking distance.
[QUOTE=Bouinage;1876058]Read a report about how watching LOTS of porn negatively affects men's sex-drive / stamina. So decided to stop watching so much and it did make a difference. And here all this time I thought it was good practice! LOL[/QUOTE]By negatively affecting stamina, do you mean it's harder and takes longer to finish? This is my problem. No Issue getting to attention, but I've yet to finish with any provider...Even going for a full hour. YES, it is very frustrating. Don't suppose they make a pill for that.
[QUOTE=Corneliusguy40;1903579]By negatively affecting stamina, do you mean it's harder and takes longer to finish? This is my problem. No Issue getting to attention, but I've yet to finish with any provider...Even going for a full hour. YES, it is very frustrating. Don't suppose they make a pill for that.[/QUOTE]Damn.
I get it so infrequently that I lose it way before I want to.
Corneliusguy could it be meds you are taking? I had some pain meds for a back problem that caused the same issue. When I talked to Dr about it he said common with a lot of meds even some that I had unrelated to pain.
[QUOTE=Corneliusguy40;1903579]By negatively affecting stamina, do you mean it's harder and takes longer to finish? This is my problem. No Issue getting to attention, but I've yet to finish with any provider...Even going for a full hour. YES, it is very frustrating. Don't suppose they make a pill for that.[/QUOTE]
LOL there's a simple solution to all of this.
Corneliusguy needs to jack off less. Wildcat needs to jack off more, preferably once the day before his dates.
[QUOTE=Rbw88;1903642]Corneliusguy could it be meds you are taking? I had some pain meds for a back problem that caused the same issue. When I talked to Dr about it he said common with a lot of meds even some that I had unrelated to pain.[/QUOTE]I am on meds that probably is making it worse, but I've always had this "problem". I get too much "in my head" and can't get a wave of sensation started that I can ride into the finish. Even little things like the bed squeaking or the TV on can cause a problem. The look on her face, a lazy attitude, a un-fresh smell. Once I become aware of it, it's over and done with. I may still be hard, but finishing is out of the question...especially with a new person. But it even happens with the wife.
[QUOTE=PieMonger;1903698]LOL there's a simple solution to all of this.
Corneliusguy needs to jack off less. Wildcat needs to jack off more, preferably once the day before his dates.[/QUOTE]Agreed...to a point. As I mentioned below. It's not just a physical issue. I was thinking of trying one of those tantric sex "therapist".
Condoms lessen the sensation and sometimes make it harder to get off. Some providers I haven't been able to get off at all while covered in their pussy. Some of these gals have a lot of space to fill up. I have found the ultra thin condoms do help when this is a problem. Other times I just have to go with a hand or mouth finish.
[QUOTE=Corneliusguy40;1903579]By negatively affecting stamina, do you mean it's harder and takes longer to finish? This is my problem. No Issue getting to attention, but I've yet to finish with any provider...Even going for a full hour. YES, it is very frustrating. Don't suppose they make a pill for that.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Corneliusguy40;1903702]I am on meds that probably is making it worse, but I've always had this "problem". I get too much "in my head" and can't get a wave of sensation started that I can ride into the finish. Even little things like the bed squeaking or the TV on can cause a problem. The look on her face, a lazy attitude, a un-fresh smell. Once I become aware of it, it's over and done with. I may still be hard, but finishing is out of the question...especially with a new person. But it even happens with the wife.[/QUOTE]I hate to admit this but sometimes I'm just a freaking head case with these girls. I will be into the moment and get distracted. It may be the bed squeaking, a smell. Hell the other day, it was a passing helicopter that was loud as hell. Once distracted, finishing is difficult. I was once very much in the middle of a situation when she made a small noise that reminded me of my ex. Needless to say, my ex is a ***** and junior decided he was protesting. That sucked! I think I may need a shrink or a sex therapist. I'm a wreck sometimes. Luckily it's not the majority of the time but it still sucks. Anyone know a good sex therapist?
[QUOTE=Corneliusguy40;1903579]By negatively affecting stamina, do you mean it's harder and takes longer to finish? This is my problem. No Issue getting to attention, but I've yet to finish with any provider...Even going for a full hour. YES, it is very frustrating. Don't suppose they make a pill for that.[/QUOTE]Maybe you should try setting up your own distraction free place, instead of going to her place. Spring for a room and have her meet you there. At least this way you've already started off in a comfort zone. I've also heard that to much vitamin V can cause that problem.
As far as the porn goes, this particular report was stating over stimulation for men wasnt "healthy" for their sex drive, then saw another report saying almost the opposite.
I've been lurking for quite some time. Doing my homework on here and elsewhere as best I can. This past week I tried to set up appointments with two very classy and well reviews ladies. One closer to home one closer to work. Both had reputations of screening process which I found comforting but I also knew would be a challenge as I am brand new to this. Both replied back with options on how to get through the process without a reference. I believe I did everything right from that point on but both stopped communicating. One was a coffee meet and greet prior to feel each other out, the other was a professional web link. Never got a reply and both simply stopped. But I would get a one line email as if they were still interested but when I provided my availability they both just quit. My responses were almost immediate after receiving theirs. Is it normal for them to just go dark like that? What could I have done to turn them off? Looking for advice from a fellow hobbiest to help get started. Honestly I'm looking for just one or two quality ladies to be regulars not looking to drop the coin on low end just to get screened. Is this something I need to accept as part of the game? Little help here please. Remember you all were rookies once. Please don't flame me.
[QUOTE=Rockandfire22;1912751]I've been lurking for quite some time. Doing my homework on here and elsewhere as best I can. This past week I tried to set up appointments with two very classy and well reviews ladies. One closer to home one closer to work. Both had reputations of screening process which I found comforting but I also knew would be a challenge as I am brand new to this. Both replied back with options on how to get through the process without a reference. I believe I did everything right from that point on but both stopped communicating. One was a coffee meet and greet prior to feel each other out, the other was a professional web link. Never got a reply and both simply stopped. But I would get a one line email as if they were still interested but when I provided my availability they both just quit. My responses were almost immediate after receiving theirs. Is it normal for them to just go dark like that? What could I have done to turn them off? Looking for advice from a fellow hobbiest to help get started. Honestly I'm looking for just one or two quality ladies to be regulars not looking to drop the coin on low end just to get screened. Is this something I need to accept as part of the game? Little help here please. Remember you all were rookies once. Please don't flame me.[/QUOTE]Welcome RF3,
Don't worry about it. I've had the same thing happen to me. They probably just got nervous. It happens. Espically with the current atmosphere towards the hobby. Lots of ladies don't really have a screening process, many are found on BP, this also means that you need to do your own screening! Also you should build up some cred if you expect good intel (if you've read the boards then you already know this). Maybe start with some AMP / MP's.
Most guys really only want 1 or 2 ladies as regulars, so I wouldn't expect them to give up their gems! LOL. It will take some research, time and maybe some bummer sessions to find what your looking for, or maybe you will get lucky and meet her firstt off! Good luck!
Met this spinner today. Nice tall, spinner, small tits, decent face, clean. Claims she's 29 but I'd say closer to 35-40. BBBJ. Open minded, will prob repeat. 80/ qv. She claims she hasn't been doing this long and won't so take advantage while it's available.
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