Respect is different from domination
[QUOTE=Camhole;5805988]Or it could just be that some of us have enough power and respect in our personal and professional lives. We don't feel the need to degrade and piss on a hooker to feel better about what a pathetic, sad little loser boy that you have grown into. You don't want to pay to fuck fat bitches, then don't. I know I wouldn't but I also know that some dudes like to, to each their own.
You keep talking about what a real man does. LMAO. Like you have any idea. You think that a real man goes online and makes posts that reads somewhere between a 13 yrs old hissy fit and a low rent version of Penthouse Forums. Get off the dialup little boy, you're mom needs to make a phone call.[/QUOTE]I don't disagree, that women deserve respect and equality. The problem with women nowadays is, they don't want just respect and equality: They want domination. Nowadays, on a real dating site, if a man says he wants a woman who believes in mutual respect, that is a negative for the women who see that. They want a man who will let her dominate him, and trample on him.
And, you seem to also believe, that that's the way men should be: Kowtow to women.
The feminist version of equality
Feminist's vision of equality: women get the authority of men, the privileges of women, the accountability of children, and the self-awareness of a fetus.
RE: This Isn't a Dating Site
The problem with your reply is that this isn't a dating site. I think this highlights just how confused you really are.
Are you seeing providers simply because you are unable to connect with females in any other way? That sounds like a potential problem in your part.
What's up with all of the pro-abuse incels on this forum lately? Also a lot of alts floating around here in the past several months. I'm not sure a lot of these "reports" are actually valid and real, I think about 20%, at the very least, of what we read here is absolute bullshit. Some of these posts seem to be written by guys who need to inflate their own sense of lacking masculinity. "I wanted to fuck her in the ass, she said "no" so I MADE her do it". That sounds dangerously close to rape. Who gets-off on that? Well, apparently some here do. Now, whether these reports are true or not, well....I think there's a lot of fantasy posted here to make some powerless guys here feel as if they're so-called "real" men.
[QUOTE=BrianShinamot;5806029]I don't disagree, that women deserve respect and equality. The problem with women nowadays is, they don't want just respect and equality: They want domination. Nowadays, on a real dating site, if a man says he wants a woman who believes in mutual respect, that is a negative for the women who see that. They want a man who will let her dominate him, and trample on him.[/QUOTE]
Ridiculous feminism transcends real dating and the hobby alike
I am on EHarmony. I wrote that I believe in mutual respect. I reached out to a woman. She is 41. Here is a paraphrase of her reply to me. Keep in mind, she could have just closed me out, but she wrote this back:
How is your evening? I looked at your profile. You look like trouble. I am too old for trouble, heh.
Because we all have to pay to be on EHarmony, I do not believe that this is a scammer or troll, but I do wonder. For one, that does not sound like a 41 year old woman response. If she thinks she's too old for trouble, then why doesn't she act like it? I expect that kind of reply from a 22 hear old girl. Heh? What the hell is that from a woman over 40?
Second, there is absolutely nothing about my profile that spells trouble. If anything, my profile says boring, uninteresting, not very exciting. Nothing about me would make me stand out, to a woman who has many options.
So, here is what I conclude: Basically, because my profile doesn't say that all women are superior, women are always right, women always wear the pants in every relationship, men need to let women trample all over them, that makes me look like a trouble guy, in her mind.
If I read that a guy got that response from her, heh, I would have thought that this bio read that he likes to party, smoke weed, do drugs, and bed as many women as possible. Believe me, my profile is nothing like that.
And, there are so many simp men, who would agree with this woman, that my boring profile sounds like trouble. The same kind of simp men that are on TNA, and now on this board. This permeates the hobby world, and real life dating.
Oh, and if a 41 year old woman says she's too old for trouble, is she basically saying, that when she was younger, she outright looked for trouble guys?
You can be kind and respectful without being a pushover
I don't get the logic that you need to be mean or aggressive or in-your-face to somebody or you are a weakling.
Yes, there are girls out there with serious attitude, serious GPS, and and an obnoxious sense of entitlement. The answer is easy: move on. There is always more pussy out there. And remember that venues change over time and the quality of service changes over time. If you are getting shit service in the venues you know, try a different one.
There are a lot of people with unrealistic expectations out there. I agree that any girl that wants $500 for an unenthusiastic CBJ is pretty obnoxious, but so is a guy that wants BBBJ, BBFS, CIP, and CIA with a hot slender 21 year old blonde for $100. What I think is driving it all is that people want a **sure thing* Most of us are presumably adults and know this is a risky activity and there ain't any such thing.
COVID has bitched up a lot of stuff, and certainly has seriously trashed mongering. My two very best girls ever are both permanently out of the biz. But life goes on and there are always more girls, somewhere.