Sorry to be so Crass, But
Do yourself a favor and stay away from the ladies that advertise on the "gator" and similar websites. These ladies are the lowest of the low, one small step above Warsaw Ave streetwalkers. Most of them are uneducated rubes, have poor hygiene, poor skills, poor attitude, for that matter poor everything. Not to mention largely unattractive, obese, sloppy and dope fiends addicts to boot. Don't stoop to their level which is nickel dime nasty and is about their worth as a SW. You can and should do better. Sorry, Not sorry.