"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

Using the SA App, if they swipe right, it will fav you without them looking at your profile.

[QUOTE=BobbyRichmond;4083013]I have a person who favorited me with out actually viewing me. Is that possible?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JZLizard;4086531]

Guys with lots of game find it very hard to believe that any SD would give a girl thousands per month in cash and gifts (but they are out there). Guys without game who haven't had much luck getting pussy without paying for it, believe that all SBs are hookers.

The reality of it is that the range of personalities and human behaviors is beyond the comprehension of most people.

The reality is that the spectrum of SBs can run the gamut from full-on escorts at one side of the extreme, to girls with very little sexual experience at the other end of the extreme. Anyone who doesn't understand that is not experienced enough in the lifestyle for their opinions to be taken seriously on any level.

[/QUOTE]This is my first post, and I would like to first thank JZLizard and all the bros on here for the invaluable education. The advice on here helped save me lots of wasted time and money. I have been on SA for about four months, so compared to some of the guys on here, I am a total newbie, but I can say that it works!

I have been married for many years, so my game was pretty rusty. But I've basically been batting 1000 on SA. I have only done two meet and greets that didn't lead to the FC, most of them on first meeting, the rest on the second. The two that didn't go anywhere were my choice. One was a transsexual who had posted someone else's photos. I had arranged a coffee meet at a time and place that was convenient for me, and they actually bought their own coffee. So I was out no money and little time, although the encounter did sort of ruin my day. The other one was a college freshman who had gained the "freshman 15" or maybe the "freshman 25" since her photos were taken so I just didn't want to bother.

I have taken nine SB's to the FC, three of them multiple times. There could have been lots more with more time and money. I am 58, the youngest SB's were 19 (two of those), the oldest one was 27. (So far, the 18 year old unicorn has eluded me, but I'm not complaining.) All nice looking girls and some of them incredibly hot. The worst sex I've had was still great, and the best was up there with the best experiences of my life, and there have been a lot.

The most amazing thing to me is that out of nine girls who have been to the FC, six of them did not set a price or talk about money at all first. Unbelievable! I suppose I could have stiffed them (after giving them my stiffie) but I have never done that. I always slipped cash into their purse or something afterwards. I know what I am paying is on the low end of the range for my area, and yet most of them are happy to come back for more. (One girl did send me a nastygram text afterwards complaining about the amount, but not before I had spent a memorable afternoon enjoying her undivided attention and a body that was at least a 9. 5.) The three who did bring up money first all accepted my offer without negotiation. Right now I am seeing two of the best of the nine on a fairly regular basis, while I continue to scout for new talent. My standards for new talent have gotten pretty high.

I would rate myself as looking average for my age. I used to be pretty good looking, but years have taken their toll. I go to the gym regularly and am more fit than average for my age. I feel my game online is weak. The whole internet dating thing, and even the texting thing, came along after my time. However, I think my game in person is tops. In my view, the cash is sort of ancillary. The girls need it, and I am happy to provide it. But the SB's I like are regular college girls, not pros, and its not simply a matter of paying them. You need to talk your way into their pants. This is something I've done my whole life, and I enjoy it. Bottom line, if I can do it, most anyone can.

Many have complained here about the investment of time required, and in my experience it does take a lot time. My response percentage is tiny. But, my God, it is time spent searching out pretty young girls online, comparing their photos and deciding which girls are the choicest, and flirting with them, first online and then in person. Is that "work"? Not in my view. It's an enjoyable hobby in itself. Of course, its made more enjoyable with the anticipation of eventually seeing them on their knees sucking my dick and the knowledge that enough of them will. The sex with these girls is incomparably better than with pros and makes it all worthwhile. I've had lots of hobbies, and have spent plenty on them over the years. This hobby has given my far more pleasure than any of them.

So yeah, there are all manner of girls on SA. Tons of garden variety pros. Lot of gold diggers. A surprising number of girls who seem to view it as "just a dating site. " Some of them actually claim to be "marriage-minded. " You can find just about any kind of girl you want on there and plenty you don't want. Lots of them I wouldn't fuck with your dick. But my God, there are some real gems among them, and some of them can be persuaded to give you anything you want, just the way you want it, and seem delighted to do so! I swear I feel like I'm acting in a porn film sometimes.

Viva SA!

[QUOTE=DogBert77;4092159]This is my first post, and I would like to first thank JZLizard and all the bros on here for the invaluable education. The advice on here helped save me lots of wasted time and money. I have been on SA for about four months, so compared to some of the guys on here, I am a total newbie, but I can say that it works!

I have been married for many years, so my game was pretty rusty. But I've basically been batting 1000 on SA. I have only done two meet and greets that didn't lead to the FC, most of them on first meeting, the rest on the second. The two that didn't go anywhere were my choice. One was a transsexual who had posted someone else's photos. I had arranged a coffee meet at a time and place that was convenient for me, and they actually bought their own coffee. So I was out no money and little time, although the encounter did sort of ruin my day. The other one was a college freshman who had gained the "freshman 15" or maybe the "freshman 25" since her photos were taken so I just didn't want to bother.

I have taken nine SB's to the FC, three of them multiple times. There could have been lots more with more time and money. I am 58, the youngest SB's were 19 (two of those), the oldest one was 27. (So far, the 18 year old unicorn has eluded me, but I'm not complaining.) All nice looking girls and some of them incredibly hot. The worst sex I've had was still great, and the best was up there with the best experiences of my life, and there have been a lot.

The most amazing thing to me is that out of nine girls who have been to the FC, six of them did not set a price or talk about money at all first. Unbelievable! I suppose I could have stiffed them (after giving them my stiffie) but I have never done that. I always slipped cash into their purse or something afterwards. I know what I am paying is on the low end of the range for my area, and yet most of them are happy to come back for more. (One girl did send me a nastygram text afterwards complaining about the amount, but not before I had spent a memorable afternoon enjoying her undivided attention and a body that was at least a 9. 5.) The three who did bring up money first all accepted my offer without negotiation. Right now I am seeing two of the best of the nine on a fairly regular basis, while I continue to scout for new talent. My standards for new talent have gotten pretty high.

I would rate myself as looking average for my age. I used to be pretty good looking, but years have taken their toll. I go to the gym regularly and am more fit than average for my age. I feel my game online is weak. The whole internet dating thing, and even the texting thing, came along after my time. However, I think my game in person is tops. In my view, the cash is sort of ancillary. The girls need it, and I am happy to provide it. But the SB's I like are regular college girls, not pros, and its not simply a matter of paying them. You need to talk your way into their pants. This is something I've done my whole life, and I enjoy it. Bottom line, if I can do it, most anyone can.

Many have complained here about the investment of time required, and in my experience it does take a lot time. My response percentage is tiny. But, my God, it is time spent searching out pretty young girls online, comparing their photos and deciding which girls are the choicest, and flirting with them, first online and then in person. Is that "work"? Not in my view. It's an enjoyable hobby in itself. Of course, its made more enjoyable with the anticipation of eventually seeing them on their knees sucking my dick and the knowledge that enough of them will. The sex with these girls is incomparably better than with pros and makes it all worthwhile. I've had lots of hobbies, and have spent plenty on them over the years. This hobby has given my far more pleasure than any of them.

So yeah, there are all manner of girls on SA. Tons of garden variety pros. Lot of gold diggers. A surprising number of girls who seem to view it as "just a dating site. " Some of them actually claim to be "marriage-minded. " You can find just about any kind of girl you want on there and plenty you don't want. Lots of them I wouldn't fuck with your dick. But my God, there are some real gems among them, and some of them can be persuaded to give you anything you want, just the way you want it, and seem delighted to do so! I swear I feel like I'm acting in a porn film sometimes.

Viva SA![/QUOTE]Great first post! I agree that there are gems but definitely a ton that I wouldn't touch. I'm not on the site to fuck every girl I can although it's been an incredible year for me. A few bad ones, a ton of good ones, and plenty of amazing experiences with girls who are absolutely beautiful. Are you in the Richmond area?

[QUOTE=RVASpider;4093634]Great first post! I agree that there are gems but definitely a ton that I wouldn't touch. I'm not on the site to fuck every girl I can although it's been an incredible year for me. A few bad ones, a ton of good ones, and plenty of amazing experiences with girls who are absolutely beautiful. Are you in the Richmond area?[/QUOTE]I am not actually in the Richmond area. My area is much more expensive, so I didn't post any numbers and I won't be of use for referrals. I posted on the Richmond board because you guys seem to have the most active discussion of SB's and SA of any city in the country. Although details and prices will vary in different cities, there is a lot about the girls that I think won't change.

One thing I didn't mention in my previous post. I never negotiate or even discuss prices online. I now that is different from the preference of a lot of guys on here so I think it's worth mentioning. If a girl asks how much online, or quotes me a price, I pretty much cross them off my list. Sometimes I will keep talking to them online just for price research. A lot of girls I just tell, very nicely, that they are out my budget, but I don't counter offer. Quite a few of those end up negotiating against themselves and drop their ask, which I find amusing. I may eventually be tempted to hit one of those, but it hasn't happened yet.

To me, a true SB, or at least a SB that I want, is one that I can penetrate without talking price first.

I've had 4 arrangements that each lasted more than a year. Money was never discussed prior to first meet. We met the first time with no expectation of money or intimacy.

In each case, the chemistry and attraction was so strong we couldn't keep our hands off of each other and we had intimacy (mulitple times) that same night.

Even though we never discussed allowance, I slipped $'s in their pockey or purse before they left.

I still am in contact and remain friends with all of them.

[QUOTE=DogBert77;4093714]I am not actually in the Richmond area. My area is much more expensive, so I didn't post any numbers and I won't be of use for referrals. I posted on the Richmond board because you guys seem to have the most active discussion of SB's and SA of any city in the country. Although details and prices will vary in different cities, there is a lot about the girls that I think won't change.

One thing I didn't mention in my previous post. I never negotiate or even discuss prices online. I now that is different from the preference of a lot of guys on here so I think it's worth mentioning. If a girl asks how much online, or quotes me a price, I pretty much cross them off my list. Sometimes I will keep talking to them online just for price research. A lot of girls I just tell, very nicely, that they are out my budget, but I don't counter offer. Quite a few of those end up negotiating against themselves and drop their ask, which I find amusing. I may eventually be tempted to hit one of those, but it hasn't happened yet.

To me, a true SB, or at least a SB that I want, is one that I can penetrate without talking price first.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DogBert77;4092159]This is my first post, and I would like to first thank JZLizard and all the bros on here for the invaluable education. The advice on here helped save me lots of wasted time and money. I have been on SA for about four months, so compared to some of the guys on here, I am a total newbie, but I can say that it works!

I have been married for many years, so my game was pretty rusty. But I've basically been batting 1000 on SA. I have only done two meet and greets that didn't lead to the FC, most of them on first meeting, the rest on the second. The two that didn't go anywhere were my choice. One was a transsexual who had posted someone else's photos. I had arranged a coffee meet at a time and place that was convenient for me, and they actually bought their own coffee. So I was out no money and little time, although the encounter did sort of ruin my day. The other one was a college freshman who had gained the "freshman 15" or maybe the "freshman 25" since her photos were taken so I just didn't want to bother.

I have taken nine SB's to the FC, three of them multiple times. There could have been lots more with more time and money. I am 58, the youngest SB's were 19 (two of those), the oldest one was 27. (So far, the 18 year old unicorn has eluded me, but I'm not complaining.) All nice looking girls and some of them incredibly hot. The worst sex I've had was still great, and the best was up there with the best experiences of my life, and there have been a lot.

The most amazing thing to me is that out of nine girls who have been to the FC, six of them did not set a price or talk about money at all first. Unbelievable! I suppose I could have stiffed them (after giving them my stiffie) but I have never done that. I always slipped cash into their purse or something afterwards. I know what I am paying is on the low end of the range for my area, and yet most of them are happy to come back for more. (One girl did send me a nastygram text afterwards complaining about the amount, but not before I had spent a memorable afternoon enjoying her undivided attention and a body that was at least a 9. 5.) The three who did bring up money first all accepted my offer without negotiation. Right now I am seeing two of the best of the nine on a fairly regular basis, while I continue to scout for new talent. My standards for new talent have gotten pretty high.

I would rate myself as looking average for my age. I used to be pretty good looking, but years have taken their toll. I go to the gym regularly and am more fit than average for my age. I feel my game online is weak. The whole internet dating thing, and even the texting thing, came along after my time. However, I think my game in person is tops. In my view, the cash is sort of ancillary. The girls need it, and I am happy to provide it. But the SB's I like are regular college girls, not pros, and its not simply a matter of paying them. You need to talk your way into their pants. This is something I've done my whole life, and I enjoy it. Bottom line, if I can do it, most anyone can.

Many have complained here about the investment of time required, and in my experience it does take a lot time. My response percentage is tiny. But, my God, it is time spent searching out pretty young girls online, comparing their photos and deciding which girls are the choicest, and flirting with them, first online and then in person. Is that "work"? Not in my view. It's an enjoyable hobby in itself. Of course, its made more enjoyable with the anticipation of eventually seeing them on their knees sucking my dick and the knowledge that enough of them will. The sex with these girls is incomparably better than with pros and makes it all worthwhile. I've had lots of hobbies, and have spent plenty on them over the years. This hobby has given my far more pleasure than any of them.

So yeah, there are all manner of girls on SA. Tons of garden variety pros. Lot of gold diggers. A surprising number of girls who seem to view it as "just a dating site. " Some of them actually claim to be "marriage-minded. " You can find just about any kind of girl you want on there and plenty you don't want. Lots of them I wouldn't fuck with your dick. But my God, there are some real gems among them, and some of them can be persuaded to give you anything you want, just the way you want it, and seem delighted to do so! I swear I feel like I'm acting in a porn film sometimes.

[/QUOTE]Welcome, and I did want to say that if you stayed calmly at the table with the tranny that brought his own coffee, and wrapped that meet up politely, your patience for cat fishing is greater than mine will ever be. I guess I've been lucky that nothing like that has never happened in my M&Gs. I suspect the reason it hasn't might have something to do with the amount of online dating experience I had before the SD sites even came along. Dating sites came about around the same time I was divorcing my ex, and I watched them evolve from when a lot of women were apprehensive about meeting a stranger they met online in person, to an extremely common method of dating. I did get cat fished a few times during online civy dating, but so far it has never happened from an SD site (knock on wood), and while I did have one POT that was less attractive in person than her photos, it is usually actually the other way around with my meets (the photos don't do justice).

One reason might be that my instincts or process of elimination skills were well-developed from lots of civy online dating experiences. Some of the potential catfish or general photo-related warning signs I lookout for:

1. Many pics, but all taken from the same camera angle or the same circumstances -- often an indication of hiding something.

2. Little to no pics of butt / hips / legs, or all pics taken while they are standing to the side (kardashian-like centaur-bodies where their hips are disproportional can't be identified as well from side pics, but then again some guys like or even prefer centaur-bodied girls).

3. "Modified" pics (I. E. Snapchat) are understandable for public photos, but if she cannot provide pics privately that are unmodified, she is suspect.

4. Lighting of photo too soft (potentially using filters to hide skin problems).

5. Stripper photos -- not necessarily a warning sign but it puts me on alert for certain things. I'm a big fan of strippers and some of my best SBs were girls I met at a strip club, but I have found that employed strippers who join SD sites are a different game. They have experience extracting money from men, so some of them are hoping to tap into what they see as the "premium" market. My advice for guys who like strippers is to find them in strip clubs. Getting the one you want can be challenging, but I actually enjoy that challenge. Best part about in-person stripper hunting is you get to see what you're getting, almost fully naked even, before deciding if you want to proceed. Notice I said "stripper photos" though. If you meet an SB who happens to be a dancer, but is not using "stripper photos" to market herself online, she might be more likely to be capable of the "true" SB experience.

6. Original join date is not recent -- not necessarily a problem but I would confirm she is sending recent pics, she might have joined SA 4 years ago and already had two kids since, or became a consumer of junk food, etc.

Then there are non-visual warning signs that come from interactions with them, which some of my prior posts have delved into. It's a bit harder to make a useful list of these, because of course dialog and behavior is more complex to assess and harder to catalog than visuals in a photo.

Thanks for the tips, JZ! I have to admit the online "spidey sense" and online game are still a work in progress for me. Still, I feel that for a beginner, my batting average is great, and I am willing to put in the practice to get better!

With the tranny meet and greet, yes, I did stay calm. Was I pissed? Sure. But I just wanted to get out of there. I would have been a lot more pissed if I had gone out of my way to meet them or incurred expense.

With the "freshman 15" girl, it was a lot more complicated. She was actually a sweet girl, she just looked a lot less attractive than in her pics. I ended up buying her lunch while I thought about it. She was just 18 and very naive in an appealing way. If I had never seen her hot pics, I might have been willing to bang her in her chubby state. But having seen what she looked like before, I just couldn't get past it.

Both situations could have been avoided by asking them to send me a picture holding up a certain number of fingers, or a piece of paper with my username written on it or something. That is a common suggestion I have seen on this forum.

[QUOTE=JZLizard;4074974]College aged girls have had to deal with this Generation-Z syndrome where the guys they know fall into specific buckets -- they guys they meet either grew up with "special snowflake syndrome", or they are an outright drug-addled moron. Add to that the "gender confusion" movement, where young males are penalized by the media for behaving like men or any other display of true masculinity. Movies, social media, even modern video games, more and more, are starting to portray women as not only the intellectually superior gender, but also the PHYSICALLY superior gender (I'll come back to this). Producers of this media are increasingly gay males (who could give a fuck one way or the other as long as there is enough shock value to sell tickets), so they create this fictitious image of bad-ass women, who go around karate-kicking and back-flipping their way out of fights with men carrying assault rifles.

While that kind of shit might strike a chord with a 12 year old girl, an 18-22 whose hormones and sex drive are starting to really kick in has usually had enough. I said I would come back to the statement above. While all of that sci-fi media portrayal shit is great for kids, these girls (who, as we know, DO mature emotionally faster than males) get to a point where the fiction isn't good enough anymore and they want something real. I hate to sound like Charlie Sheen here (LOL). But honestly I think the Gen-X male is "winning" from all of this if they possess the right characteristics.

Not all girls are born SB material. Mileage may vary, but my own observation has been that most SBs have daddy issues of one variety or another. The reason this lifestyle is becoming more prevalent is because the trend seems to be that the population of girls with daddy issues is ever-increasing.

Why is that? Not rocket science. Most of this can be traced back to the Equal Rights Amendment of the 70's. Lots of women back then opposed the movement, because they knew it would disrupt the family unit, resulting in a disruption of society that would ultimately break down the family unit in a way that America would never be able to adequately cope with. But, the ones in favor of the movement ultimately won out, saying society would adjust.

Both sides were right. America adapted to this by accepting the dissolution of traditional family roles as the norm. Fast forward and what is the net effect? More career women that have babies and raise them alone because they can, many of which have broken or non-existent relationships with their father. This creates fertile ground for the birth of enormous amounts of sugar babies, and there is no sign of it letting up any time soon (how could we reverse it, remove women's right to vote or work? LOL). Fundamentally, the girls born out of these conditions will always have a craving for older men. This makes the score -10 points for guys their age, and +10 for guys old enough to represent the father figure they long for. They certainly do sometimes struggle with issues of peer pressure in the college aged range, that makes them want to keep their secret craving private, but once they leave the "school yard gossip" scene and are fully immersed in adulthood (approx 25 years old and up), they no longer even care about this.

So basically, the next time you unload your wad deep into some college girl, take a moment to step back and thank the proponents of the ERA movement of the 70's. I know I can say without question, their actions, more than anyone, have blessed my life with unlimited access to prime quality pussy.[/QUOTE]Great posting.

The millennial generation of soy boys is frightening to observe, but very helpful to those of us over 40.

I've seen several posts on this subject; thought I'd share my experience. I'm hesitant to get on seeking--privacy and cost issues- so I've been on skout for a couple of years. It's a bit of a grind, but I've had some nice successes too.

I spent the morning with a 19 yo hard body Hispanic college girl. Total cost was 120 plus room. This was our second get together, and I plan to continue. She's got a gorgeous, tight body, perky full b / small c's, and she lets me do everything bare (my preference).

There are plenty of young women on skout who are looking for a sugar arrangement, you just have to weed through the fakes and the one's wanting money up front via cashapp or whatever, and the one's looking for actual dating.

She's not the first young hottie I've hooked up with from there. Point is, if you put in the time it's there. Good luck!

I agree with everyone downstream — these are two factors that I often look to for weeding out purposes. Agree with most of JZ's points (though I like curvy and even hourglass big so long as I know in advance). I also generally agree that discussing allowance up front is a red flag. However there are exceptions. Sometimes you need to talk the talk with a woman that is new to this to get her comfortable. I look at when and how the topic comes up. If it is in the first few messages I am usually done. If it is before we have moved to text and I have shared a pic I am usually done. I'm ok with it after we have had a real convo.

Switching gears, I just learned that a friend's 30 something daughter passed away suddenly, unexpectedly, and due to suicide. She fit the profile of a typical SB in many ways — outgoing, attractive, vivacious, yet also complicated, struggling, and living beyond her means. I say this just as a gentle reminder to us to be mindful of mental health as much as physical and emotional health.

[QUOTE=GuyInTheCorner;4097540] Switching gears, I just learned that a friend's 30 something daughter passed away suddenly, unexpectedly, and due to suicide. She fit the profile of a typical SB in many ways outgoing, attractive, vivacious, yet also complicated, struggling, and living beyond her means. I say this just as a gentle reminder to us to be mindful of mental health as much as physical and emotional health.[/QUOTE]I always make a genuine effort to leave them slightly better off than I found them. I almost always learn something about them and help them see something that's at the root of whatever issues they might be having, or share some life experience that gets them thinking in the right direction. Every now and then I will get a comment along the lines of "See, this is what I needed out of this. I never had anyone to even care enough to explain that to me" (in other words absent daddy syndrome, usually), and when I do get those comments it's very rewarding to hear. Whether or not the advice ever really impact their lives positively, I'll never know.

Every now and then I get a drama queen or some signs of stability issues. If it's something I'm unable to defuse or fix, I just make sure I don't aggravate the problem.

[QUOTE=DogBert77;4092159]This is my first post, and I would like to first thank JZLizard and all the bros on here for the invaluable education. The advice on here helped save me lots of wasted time and money. I have been on SA for about four months, so compared to some of the guys on here, I am a total newbie, but I can say that it works!

I have been married for many years, so my game was pretty rusty. But I've basically been batting 1000 on SA. I have only done two meet and greets that didn't lead to the FC, most of them on first meeting, the rest on the second. The two that didn't go anywhere were my choice. One was a transsexual who had posted someone else's photos. I had arranged a coffee meet at a time and place that was convenient for me, and they actually bought their own coffee. So I was out no money and little time, although the encounter did sort of ruin my day. The other one was a college freshman who had gained the "freshman 15" or maybe the "freshman 25" since her photos were taken so I just didn't want to bother.

I have taken nine SB's to the FC, three of them multiple times. There could have been lots more with more time and money. I am 58, the youngest SB's were 19 (two of those), the oldest one was 27. (So far, the 18 year old unicorn has eluded me, but I'm not complaining.) All nice looking girls and some of them incredibly hot. The worst sex I've had was still great, and the best was up there with the best experiences of my life, and there have been a lot.

The most amazing thing to me is that out of nine girls who have been to the FC, six of them did not set a price or talk about money at all first. Unbelievable! I suppose I could have stiffed them (after giving them my stiffie) but I have never done that. I always slipped cash into their purse or something afterwards. I know what I am paying is on the low end of the range for my area, and yet most of them are happy to come back for more. (One girl did send me a nastygram text afterwards complaining about the amount, but not before I had spent a memorable afternoon enjoying her undivided attention and a body that was at least a 9. 5.) The three who did bring up money first all accepted my offer without negotiation. Right now I am seeing two of the best of the nine on a fairly regular basis, while I continue to scout for new talent. My standards for new talent have gotten pretty high.

I would rate myself as looking average for my age. I used to be pretty good looking, but years have taken their toll. I go to the gym regularly and am more fit than average for my age. I feel my game online is weak. The whole internet dating thing, and even the texting thing, came along after my time. However, I think my game in person is tops. In my view, the cash is sort of ancillary. The girls need it, and I am happy to provide it. But the SB's I like are regular college girls, not pros, and its not simply a matter of paying them. You need to talk your way into their pants. This is something I've done my whole life, and I enjoy it. Bottom line, if I can do it, most anyone can.

Many have complained here about the investment of time required, and in my experience it does take a lot time. My response percentage is tiny. But, my God, it is time spent searching out pretty young girls online, comparing their photos and deciding which girls are the choicest, and flirting with them, first online and then in person. Is that "work"? Not in my view. It's an enjoyable hobby in itself. Of course, its made more enjoyable with the anticipation of eventually seeing them on their knees sucking my dick and the knowledge that enough of them will. The sex with these girls is incomparably better than with pros and makes it all worthwhile. I've had lots of hobbies, and have spent plenty on them over the years. This hobby has given my far more pleasure than any of them.

So yeah, there are all manner of girls on SA. Tons of garden variety pros. Lot of gold diggers. A surprising number of girls who seem to view it as "just a dating site. " Some of them actually claim to be "marriage-minded. " You can find just about any kind of girl you want on there and plenty you don't want. Lots of them I wouldn't fuck with your dick. But my God, there are some real gems among them, and some of them can be persuaded to give you anything you want, just the way you want it, and seem delighted to do so! I swear I feel like I'm acting in a porn film sometimes.

Viva SA![/QUOTE]Just wondering, with such an age difffernce between you and your SBs, what is your approach to connecting with them? I just find I don't have any life experiences in common with real young ladies. Is there a particular kind of gal you look for?

[QUOTE=LongLasting;4101402]Just wondering, with such an age difffernce between you and your SBs, what is your approach to connecting with them? [/QUOTE]Don't make them feel like ***** -- until you are pulling their hair and they scream "fuck me in the ass daddy" and they ask you to.

20 something boys are boys and SBs want a man. They don't care how old they are -- for the most part -- so long as you cross the threshold of being fit and attractive, what they really want is someone to treat them like the princess they think they are. Admittedly, some have daddy issues and are especially attracted to men who could be their dads, just as some are repulsed by the idea. Granted, I've only dipped below 20 2 x and both had serious daddy issues.

Send them flowers, buy them a gift (not just lingerie and toys) they can show off to friends. They are addicted to RomComs but live in a world of clueless wimps. They like manly men, but can't admit it to their Me Too addled friends and co-workers.

Compliment them. Tell them how pretty they are (not just hot or sexy) and compliment their hair, outfit / shoes. And especially when you are banging them, tell them how lucky you are such a gorgeous young thing will share her time (and 2 to 3 holes) with you.

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4101886]Don't make them feel like ***** -- until you are pulling their hair and they scream "fuck me in the ass daddy" and they ask you to.

20 something boys are boys and SBs want a man. They don't care how old they are -- for the most part -- so long as you cross the threshold of being fit and attractive, what they really want is someone to treat them like the princess they think they are. Admittedly, some have daddy issues and are especially attracted to men who could be their dads, just as some are repulsed by the idea. Granted, I've only dipped below 20 2 x and both had serious daddy issues.

Send them flowers, buy them a gift (not just lingerie and toys) they can show off to friends. They are addicted to RomComs but live in a world of clueless wimps. They like manly men, but can't admit it to their Me Too addled friends and co-workers.

Compliment them. Tell them how pretty they are (not just hot or sexy) and compliment their hair, outfit / shoes. And especially when you are banging them, tell them how lucky you are such a gorgeous young thing will share her time (and 2 to 3 holes) with you.[/QUOTE]Thanks much, great advice. I've gotten a lot of tips here. Had some good luck and sometimes spent too much or didn't do my homework first. It's all a journey. I'm in Tampa area, there are a ton of pros posing as SB on SA here. Caveat emptor!

I've been on SA for a while. I tried Seeking Benefits, but it was a bunch of BS. How about what's your price?