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[QUOTE=Lukkylou;4444445]Cutelexi123 is one of the euro ****** advertising for the rebranded NG2!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e3f6d55e-ed77-4c4b-b83f-cd83339d586f[/URL]
[URL]https://www.yesbackpage.de/105/posts/8-Adult/122-Female-Escorts/1454053-KLAUDIA-KLAUDIA-KLAUDIA-.html[/URL][/QUOTE]Are you guessing or do you know this for a fact?
[QUOTE=DynoJr;4444539]Are you guessing or do you know this for a fact?[/QUOTE]That's her. Same tattooes on the shoulder / arms.
[QUOTE=DynoJr;4444539]Are you guessing or do you know this for a fact?[/QUOTE]The same flower tattoo with the same detail on her chest. Face is enhanced but same girl.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cdce74a2-5c93-4937-9a18-8d75cd631d5c[/URL]
Asking for 600 out of the gate. No real conversation. If those pics are real she looks great! 600 though. Nope.
How many of you have actually met women from Seeking?
And how was the experience?
I'm contemplating trying out the premium service for a month, but don't want to waste money if they are all fake / flakey.
Anyone have an average price they've paid for fun?
Please shoot me a pm or mention on here.
Happy dreaming!
Hey she hit me up for $1 K a few days ago so if she's at 600 now maybe she's slowly getting the hint 😂.
I've had a bunch of GPS lately, more so than usual. Two or three coming in at 1 K, some 800's and 600's, several 500's. Hit the bricks sweetheart nobody is dropping that kinda cash for you.
[QUOTE=AndrewT3333;4444796][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cdce74a2-5c93-4937-9a18-8d75cd631d5c[/URL]
Asking for 600 out of the gate. No real conversation. If those pics are real she looks great! 600 though. Nope.[/QUOTE]
First post. Beware of this one. Had to provide a heads up on this one. We were going to meet or drinks the other night. Asked me to move the time back a couple of times so she could get ready. Texting during the day. I show up. 15 min after scheduled time I check SA and she blocked me. No response to text. She is listed as 32 but probably late 30's.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/82d556b2-df13-4ee6-90d4-588db945fc44[/URL]
[QUOTE=KarlSpackler;4445842]First post. Beware of this one. Had to provide a heads up on this one. We were going to meet or drinks the other night. Asked me to move the time back a couple of times so she could get ready. Texting during the day. I show up. 15 min after scheduled time I check SA and she blocked me. No response to text. She is listed as 32 but probably late 30's.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/82d556b2-df13-4ee6-90d4-588db945fc44[/URL][/QUOTE]You linked your messages and not her direct profile.
Both played the game really well from start to (almost) finish. From SA messaging to texting / snap, sending pics, etc. They came across as totally legit. Until just before its time to meet they hit you with they need $ upfront. First one tried the excuse that she's been burned in the past. Second one was needing $ for Uber. She wouldn't let me call her an Uber (not safe to know her location). Told her to get a taxi and I pay for it when she got her, she declined.
Smilingheart_93.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/df1a03b5-4c7b-4b0c-9ee8-bf87b86c1f9d[/URL]
Spicy Sasha.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f1216b49-8d9e-415d-9124-0ff2adeedc6b[/URL]
[QUOTE=PauFord;4446457]Both played the game really well from start to (almost) finish. From SA messaging to texting / snap, sending pics, etc. They came across as totally legit. Until just before its time to meet they hit you with they need $ upfront. First one tried the excuse that she's been burned in the past. Second one was needing $ for Uber. She wouldn't let me call her an Uber (not safe to know her location). Told her to get a taxi, she declined.
Smilingheart_93.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/df1a03b5-4c7b-4b0c-9ee8-bf87b86c1f9d[/URL]
Spicy Sasha.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f1216b49-8d9e-415d-9124-0ff2adeedc6b[/URL][/QUOTE]That's too bad. Both look hot. If that's really their pics.
Why would a woman need a premium membership on SA? My understanding is that women don't need premium. Are they fakes?
[QUOTE=AndrewT3333;4446657]Why would a woman need a premium membership on SA? My understanding is that women don't need premium. Are they fakes?[/QUOTE]Premium is free for most girls from what I know of it. For sure. Edu emails.
[QUOTE=AndrewT3333;4446657]Why would a woman need a premium membership on SA? My understanding is that women don't need premium. Are they fakes?[/QUOTE]They don't need it but being Premium doesn't equate to fakes. Students get it free which is probably the lions share of premium accounts. Paid premium is cheap for women, something like $15/ mo and it gives them advanced features like hiding profile from search, show or not show join or last log in dates, better visibility, etc.
[QUOTE=WenRegnom88;4445168]How many of you have actually met women from Seeking?
And how was the experience?
I'm contemplating trying out the premium service for a month, but don't want to waste money if they are all fake / flakey.
Anyone have an average price they've paid for fun?
Please shoot me a pm or mention on here.
Happy dreaming![/QUOTE]There are many reports here from guys who have met up with girls. I have met a few myself. It really depends on what you are after. If you want good service, you are probably better off with a well reviewed girl. I mean you are not going to find too many SA girls who will swallow and then have the biggest smile on her face like she just won the lottery like MCE Autumn. But if you find the idea of turning a normal girl into a girl who accepts money for sex exciting, then SA is worth a try. I joined SA mostly to get BBFS. More than half of the girls I have met were BBFS friendly.
If you have to think about joining because you worry about wasting $90, then SA is not for you.
Yes, there are a lot of scammers, fakes and flakey girls on there. But once you get a hang of it, they are easy to spot. And read the reports here for tips on spotting them.
[QUOTE=PauFord;4446457]Both played the game really well from start to (almost) finish. From SA messaging to texting / snap, sending pics, etc. They came across as totally legit. Until just before its time to meet they hit you with they need $ upfront. First one tried the excuse that she's been burned in the past. Second one was needing $ for Uber. She wouldn't let me call her an Uber (not safe to know her location). Told her to get a taxi and I pay for it when she got her, she declined.
Smilingheart_93.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/df1a03b5-4c7b-4b0c-9ee8-bf87b86c1f9d[/URL]
Spicy Sasha.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f1216b49-8d9e-415d-9124-0ff2adeedc6b[/URL][/QUOTE]Mr ford. You backed her into a corner and she had no way out so she declines or goes silent. That is the way I like to play it as well. Say anything, it's what people do that I am always looking at! The weird part about it and some will call me the ultimate sucker for this statement, however if the stupid c**t would just be honest and say look I need money and I have no intention of ever f**king you I may be incllined to give her a small donation for her honesty. There is so much money to be made in this game on their side and I have known a girl or two that was shaking down guys until they were nearly broke, however they offered a legit service. A guy made a choice to drain his retirement fund to drain his balls regularly. That was on him, not her. Again nice move and keep cornering them. I am just a wannabe in all of this and learning as I go.
You'll avoid getting ripped off. If she wants money let her earn it before you pay her. No exceptions. That's the way I play this game.
[QUOTE=GoldenGreek;4446094]You linked your messages and not her direct profile.[/QUOTE]She blocked me so I can't go to her profile. But she was on almost everyday if you search / filter for Chicago Loop + 25 miles you'll see her.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/df1a03b5-4c7b-4b0c-9ee8-bf87b86c1f9d[/URL]
This one message first, dtf, but not my cup of tea.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f114afa6-ca61-4a4b-886d-5c6e07c9e5b4[/URL]
Still working on it, will see.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7ebed416-65ef-4570-af77-675bb02bd029[/URL]
Scammer for sure, but these fuck up scammers do have good tastes in women photo for sure.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ba9f011b-9a3b-4a91-8476-fa94ef17dc41[/URL]
Still work, this will take time and effort for sure.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cdce74a2-5c93-4937-9a18-8d75cd631d5c[/URL]
This one message me first and she's nut, gps for sure, I will pass.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/265df7c4-5ca7-43d6-86e4-1f7cc3865600[/URL]
Chat with this one but I will pass, may be a pro or more.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d6246f1e-809a-2b64-1f34-629d11a6af32[/URL]
Chat with this one, still thinking, maybe plan b, I really not sure about moving forward or not.
Here is sucks to be fat, old, short and ugly asian guy, this is mission impossible, I try but zero respond, maybe some of you Casanova and get their pussy, will see.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ef512786-b46e-45ac-9081-bc8849ba1b8c[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/238e94ec-575b-4979-ae3d-f427c983b242[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ff9b5856-bd3e-4f3d-8992-1495010988c4[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c39223c7-e171-4544-84d9-069ab30855d4[/URL]
To be continue.
[QUOTE=WenRegnom88;4445168]How many of you have actually met women from Seeking?
And how was the experience?
I'm contemplating trying out the premium service for a month, but don't want to waste money if they are all fake / flakey.
Anyone have an average price they've paid for fun?
Please shoot me a pm or mention on here.
Happy dreaming![/QUOTE]Destiny was a great girl for a while. Very sexy. But I think she got spoiled by a bigger spender. Negative attitude at the end of our affair. Had an on again, off again thing with her for almost a year. Sugar ranged anywhere from one to two pics of Benjamin Franklin depending on her bills at the time. I never even talked her down to that, that's just how little she wanted.
Each meet would last at least 2 hours, often 3. She would relax, light up some 420. We would talk and watch TV. Eventually she would start playing with herself, staring at me with those "fuck me" eyes, and lifting her shirt up, etc. And put on a little show to signal she was ready. BBFS / CIP many times, MSOG every time we met. She was never on the pill, so I got her Plan B twice. But after a while we just let it ride. I'm lucky I didn't knock her up. Tried BB backdoor, but I couldn't get inside. Too tight. She loves being rimmed just as much or more as she loves DATY. Loves attention to her feet, which are pretty and soft. Massage, toe sucking, etc. Very clean and well kept girl, always fresh. Coochie and asshole were always smooth and squeaky clean.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5462274e-7962-4d88-90c1-e65413adb973[/URL]
[QUOTE=Dbomb;4447468]Destiny was a great girl for a while. Very sexy. But I think she got spoiled by a bigger spender. Negative attitude at the end of our affair. Had an on again, off again thing with her for almost a year. Sugar ranged anywhere from one to two pics of Benjamin Franklin depending on her bills at the time. I never even talked her down to that, that's just how little she wanted.
Each meet would last at least 2 hours, often 3. She would relax, light up some 420. We would talk and watch TV. Eventually she would start playing with herself, staring at me with those "fuck me" eyes, and lifting her shirt up, etc. And put on a little show to signal she was ready. BBFS / CIP many times, MSOG every time we met. She was never on the pill, so I got her Plan B twice. But after a while we just let it ride. I'm lucky I didn't knock her up. Tried BB backdoor, but I couldn't get inside. Too tight. She loves being rimmed just as much or more as she loves DATY. Loves attention to her feet, which are pretty and soft. Massage, toe sucking, etc. Very clean and well kept girl, always fresh. Coochie and asshole were always smooth and squeaky clean.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5462274e-7962-4d88-90c1-e65413adb973[/URL][/QUOTE]Wow! Or maybe a few words. The price is right or at least was!
[QUOTE=WenRegnom88;4445168]How many of you have actually met women from Seeking?
And how was the experience?
I'm contemplating trying out the premium service for a month, but don't want to waste money if they are all fake / flakey.
Anyone have an average price they've paid for fun?
Please shoot me a pm or mention on here.
Happy dreaming![/QUOTE]I've been on SA off and on for a number of years, and I've done quite well for an old man. I've had few SB's that lasted for months, up to a year, if we got along well. I've also met many girls for a one time hit. I have an SB now and am talking to at least 5 more as of today. They may pan out, they may not, that's the mystery of SA, you never know when she'll say Yes! But it takes an effort, you have to do the work to get to text, and then more work to get them to actually meet. For me its a game I love playing, and I usually get girls 18-24. I envy you 40 yr old guys you must be knee deep in poon! Happy hunting.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fca14b96-9619-4218-b6af-48821d6dc13b[/URL]
I actually think this one probably is real, by my chance to get her pussy is probably zero, but the last pic of the two girls in bikini will give me a boner tonight.
[QUOTE=Pal5600;4447645][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fca14b96-9619-4218-b6af-48821d6dc13b[/URL]
I actually think this one probably is real, by my chance to get her pussy is probably zero, but the last pic of the two girls in bikini will give me a boner tonight.[/QUOTE]The boat pic was taken in Chicago. I would shell out a lot to bag her. Message sent. Chance of reply. . zero.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b4368786-37a3-430c-a82e-b9b034dd08de[/URL]
In the work, trying to work out a deal here, not sure if she will do it, nothing is for sure until my dick is in her pussy.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/74dbe2b6-53eb-4fa0-8e1b-49d9132be95b[/URL]
Not sure about this one, probably a few drinks / volkas then she look a lots better, will see maybe plan b or c.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/249e87da-2923-479c-a3d4-0ce933211226[/URL]
Not sure about this one, some pic look good, other pic not that good, maybe a few drinks, plan b or c.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9345fb78-d3c1-4209-a2a3-6d4fc27820e5[/URL]
Probably a pro, I will pass.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f114afa6-ca61-4a4b-886d-5c6e07c9e5b4[/URL]
Set up a date and time with this one already, not sure if she will show up or not, will see.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1793a1c2-91ea-4b0f-b0b5-b79bca311733[/URL]
This is a scammer with shitty pic. If you are a scammers at least find many hot 18-19 years old coed bikini pic. Not just one face pic stupid fuck, probably an ass hole amateur scammer.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7e7d11ec-38ea-4f7e-b44a-8486433df710[/URL]
She message me first, not my cup of tea.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4d3310d6-00cf-416c-9fa4-c41c7f8f3e8c[/URL]
She seems like a cool chick, but platonic friendship only bullshits.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/42f7078a-d458-4233-8d04-5860cfa967c0[/URL]
Everything is set up but know if she will show up or not, not the best but doable to me.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/df1a03b5-4c7b-4b0c-9ee8-bf87b86c1f9d[/URL]
This one message me first, likely dtf, but not my cup of tea.
That's all for yesterday, we will see, what's going on for tonight, to be continue.
The last one on your list is a scammer. See my post from a couple days ago. She will play the game but then prior to actually meeting will require that money be sent in advance.
It's kinda funny, one thing I didn't pick up on until after the fact in dealing with her is that she never even viewed my profile. We were making plans to meet yet she hadn't even looked at my profile. Dead give away but I didn't notice until after wasting a bunch of time messaging with her. My bad, pay attention next time, 😂.
[QUOTE=Pal5600;4449222]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/df1a03b5-4c7b-4b0c-9ee8-bf87b86c1f9d[/URL]
This one message me first, likely dtf, but not my cup of tea.
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[QUOTE=PauFord;4449305]The last one on your list is a scammer. See my post from a couple days ago. She will play the game but then prior to actually meeting will require that money be sent in advance.
It's kinda funny, one thing I didn't pick up on until after the fact in dealing with her is that she never even viewed my profile. We were making plans to meet yet she hadn't even looked at my profile. Dead give away but I didn't notice until after wasting a bunch of time messaging with her. My bad, pay attention next time, 😂.[/QUOTE]I get many girls like her message me first, I don't even respond, because I have zero interested, I am only interested in certain type, and that's about it.
I never thought this would happen to me, but I met this SB on SA and fell for her almost immediately. We just had that chemistry, we spent hours on the phone and passionate sex when we'd see each other. Of course I bought her outfits, a laptop, sent her money and she would feed my imagination with this dream that we'd have a future together. She even went as far to cancel her SA account. Unfortunately, it was short lived and this Wednesday out of the blue she stopped answering my texts, my calls were going straight to voicemail, and I sent her money and finally got a call. It was from her ex, and he told me to stop sending his girl money, that he's back and they're "good".
At 30 years old, this was a crushing blow to my ego and I've honestly never felt so devastated. I can't sleep and this sadness almost feels overwhelming.
My mind is consumed thinking of her smell, her touch, her so called love for me.
[QUOTE=BroScience;4449579]I never thought this would happen to me, but I met this SB on SA and fell for her almost immediately. We just had that chemistry, we spent hours on the phone and passionate sex when we'd see each other. Of course I bought her outfits, a laptop, sent her money and she would feed my imagination with this dream that we'd have a future together. She even went as far to cancel her SA account. Unfortunately, it was short lived and this Wednesday out of the blue she stopped answering my texts, my calls were going straight to voicemail, and I sent her money and finally got a call. It was from her ex, and he told me to stop sending his girl money, that he's back and they're "good".
At 30 years old, this was a crushing blow to my ego and I've honestly never felt so devastated. I can't sleep and this sadness almost feels overwhelming.
My mind is consumed thinking of her smell, her touch, her so called love for me.[/QUOTE]I'm sorry to hear that. :/ That is always tough to deal with.
[QUOTE=BroScience;4449579]I never thought this would happen to me, but I met this SB on SA and fell for her almost immediately. We just had that chemistry, we spent hours on the phone and passionate sex when we'd see each other. Of course I bought her outfits, a laptop, sent her money and she would feed my imagination with this dream that we'd have a future together. She even went as far to cancel her SA account. Unfortunately, it was short lived and this Wednesday out of the blue she stopped answering my texts, my calls were going straight to voicemail, and I sent her money and finally got a call. It was from her ex, and he told me to stop sending his girl money, that he's back and they're "good".
At 30 years old, this was a crushing blow to my ego and I've honestly never felt so devastated. I can't sleep and this sadness almost feels overwhelming.
My mind is consumed thinking of her smell, her touch, her so called love for me.[/QUOTE]The older you get the easier it gets getting over a girl. That first feeling of Devastation about a failed relationship goes away as you get older. Right now everything is great. But if my current setup goes south I'm going to be good.
[QUOTE=BroScience;4449579]I never thought this would happen to me, but I met this SB on SA and fell for her almost immediately. We just had that chemistry, we spent hours on the phone and passionate sex when we'd see each other. Of course I bought her outfits, a laptop, sent her money and she would feed my imagination with this dream that we'd have a future together. She even went as far to cancel her SA account. Unfortunately, it was short lived and this Wednesday out of the blue she stopped answering my texts, my calls were going straight to voicemail, and I sent her money and finally got a call. It was from her ex, and he told me to stop sending his girl money, that he's back and they're "good".
At 30 years old, this was a crushing blow to my ego and I've honestly never felt so devastated. I can't sleep and this sadness almost feels overwhelming.
My mind is consumed thinking of her smell, her touch, her so called love for me.[/QUOTE]Don't stress out about it and just move on. It would be worst if it happen after a long serious relation or even further engagement. Good luck.
[QUOTE=BroScience;4449579]I never thought this would happen to me, but I met this SB on SA and fell for her almost immediately. We just had that chemistry, we spent hours on the phone and passionate sex when we'd see each other. Of course I bought her outfits, a laptop, sent her money and she would feed my imagination with this dream that we'd have a future together. She even went as far to cancel her SA account. Unfortunately, it was short lived and this Wednesday out of the blue she stopped answering my texts, my calls were going straight to voicemail, and I sent her money and finally got a call. It was from her ex, and he told me to stop sending his girl money, that he's back and they're "good".
At 30 years old, this was a crushing blow to my ego and I've honestly never felt so devastated. I can't sleep and this sadness almost feels overwhelming.
My mind is consumed thinking of her smell, her touch, her so called love for me.[/QUOTE]I feel your pain. I too had very strong feelings for a wonderful young lady. For reasons out of our control, we cannot be together. I find myself thinking of her often. Hope you pull through soon.
[QUOTE=BroScience;4449579]I never thought this would happen to me, but I met this SB on SA and fell for her almost immediately. We just had that chemistry, we spent hours on the phone and passionate sex when we'd see each other. Of course I bought her outfits, a laptop, sent her money and she would feed my imagination with this dream that we'd have a future together. She even went as far to cancel her SA account. Unfortunately, it was short lived and this Wednesday out of the blue she stopped answering my texts, my calls were going straight to voicemail, and I sent her money and finally got a call. It was from her ex, and he told me to stop sending his girl money, that he's back and they're "good".
At 30 years old, this was a crushing blow to my ego and I've honestly never felt so devastated. I can't sleep and this sadness almost feels overwhelming.
My mind is consumed thinking of her smell, her touch, her so called love for me.[/QUOTE]Have been there in a situation that was a "real" (not play for pay) gf and then one day it was gone and never to return. It's so difficult to listen to others as I did not and even went back to the well again after being in a major depression over the situation the first time around. After the second breakup I was off on tilt for several months and it cost me a lot in cash and career. It did happen. I was the one that never thought in a million years a woman could really get to me. I was wrong. So I can only say this. Keep doing things you like to do that make you feel good and try to stay in a positive routine. Playing those tapes over and over and over like you mention above offer comfort, however really are fantasies now. It went for a reason. Again I listened to know one and eventually did pick myself up and keep walking on through life. You may never find a replacement. Again that just is and I know you hurt and you want to tell the world. Unfortunately what I found out is the world only wants to know for entertainment purposes only and has no interest in helping you see it through. It is indeed a cruel world. Lesson learned. Oh BTW I am twice plus your age and learn everyday.
[QUOTE=BroScience;4449579]I never thought this would happen to me, but I met this SB on SA and fell for her almost immediately. We just had that chemistry, we spent hours on the phone and passionate sex when we'd see each other. Of course I bought her outfits, a laptop, sent her money and she would feed my imagination with this dream that we'd have a future together. She even went as far to cancel her SA account. Unfortunately, it was short lived and this Wednesday out of the blue she stopped answering my texts, my calls were going straight to voicemail, and I sent her money and finally got a call. It was from her ex, and he told me to stop sending his girl money, that he's back and they're "good".
At 30 years old, this was a crushing blow to my ego and I've honestly never felt so devastated. I can't sleep and this sadness almost feels overwhelming.
My mind is consumed thinking of her smell, her touch, her so called love for me.[/QUOTE]Been there myself and it really does hurt like hell. You'll be smarter next time and never give hope on finding the correct woman. One thing to keep in mind if I may: Find someone who wants to be with you and vice versa, not your money. Working girls as there called may not be the best to the start a relationship with because with most they're looking for the next, bigger, better score that will come along.
In time you will be fine, just don't give up hope because everyday is a new day and you may just bump into the love of your life when you least expect it.
[QUOTE=BroScience;4449579]I never thought this would happen to me, but I met this SB on SA and fell for her almost immediately. We just had that chemistry, we spent hours on the phone and passionate sex when we'd see each other. Of course I bought her outfits, a laptop, sent her money and she would feed my imagination with this dream that we'd have a future together. She even went as far to cancel her SA account. Unfortunately, it was short lived and this Wednesday out of the blue she stopped answering my texts, my calls were going straight to voicemail, and I sent her money and finally got a call. It was from her ex, and he told me to stop sending his girl money, that he's back and they're "good".
At 30 years old, this was a crushing blow to my ego and I've honestly never felt so devastated. I can't sleep and this sadness almost feels overwhelming.
My mind is consumed thinking of her smell, her touch, her so called love for me.[/QUOTE]I understand how you feel. It is tough. I've been with a SB for over a year. I am a little older than you so let me share my experience. SBs are sex workers. It has it's own unique characteristics, but these girls are only fucking us because of the money. There may be a connection that includes some sort of friendship. But at the end of the day it is transactional in nature. Don't fall in love with a woman who fucks you for your money. I have had to learn not to be delusional. The funny thing is, in a few months you may get a text when she needs money. Then, you can fuck her if you want or you have moved on. So time, fucking some new girls and honest introspection will get you thru this. Hopefully a little wiser.
Normally you really, really don't want to find wife or girlfriends on SA, if you want to find a partner that love you for who you are, try church, friend of a friends, park, social group, grocery store, [URL]match.com[/URL], ect. But on SA looking for love, for real?? The fact SA is about guys looking for young pussy (that's me anyway) and girls looking for $$ if you looking for love man, go somewhere else, anywhere else but SA, that's just my 2 cents.
[QUOTE=BroScience;4449579]I never thought this would happen to me, but I met this SB on SA and fell for her almost immediately. We just had that chemistry, we spent hours on the phone and passionate sex when we'd see each other. Of course I bought her outfits, a laptop, sent her money and she would feed my imagination with this dream that we'd have a future together. She even went as far to cancel her SA account. Unfortunately, it was short lived and this Wednesday out of the blue she stopped answering my texts, my calls were going straight to voicemail, and I sent her money and finally got a call. It was from her ex, and he told me to stop sending his girl money, that he's back and they're "good".
At 30 years old, this was a crushing blow to my ego and I've honestly never felt so devastated. I can't sleep and this sadness almost feels overwhelming.
My mind is consumed thinking of her smell, her touch, her so called love for me.[/QUOTE]When a woman says something about how she feels about you, always add "for now" or "right now" to the end of it. "I love you (for now)" etc. It's just how it is.
[QUOTE=BroScience;4449579]I never thought this would happen to me, but I met this SB on SA and fell for her almost immediately. We just had that chemistry, we spent hours on the phone and passionate sex when we'd see each other. Of course I bought her outfits, a laptop, sent her money and she would feed my imagination with this dream that we'd have a future together. She even went as far to cancel her SA account. Unfortunately, it was short lived and this Wednesday out of the blue she stopped answering my texts, my calls were going straight to voicemail, and I sent her money and finally got a call. It was from her ex, and he told me to stop sending his girl money, that he's back and they're "good".
At 30 years old, this was a crushing blow to my ego and I've honestly never felt so devastated. I can't sleep and this sadness almost feels overwhelming.
My mind is consumed thinking of her smell, her touch, her so called love for me.[/QUOTE]I feel your pain, too. It's easy to say you shouldn't get your heart mixed in with the pay-to-play world, but not so easy in real life where you're sharing very intimate time with a very attractive woman. When the usual lines and boundaries start to blur it gets very hard to navigate emotionally. Give yourself some time. If you still feel the urge to play, make it relatively meaningless and don't push to find a "replacement" quickly. You'll creep out the girls looking for more casual no strings things and only double down on your low feelings.
One thought reading your story, and not to try build false hope, but have you heard any communication at all from the girl herself? This sounds a little like some thuggish overbearing guy getting control of his girl's phone and scaring off any competition. Obviously not sure of your girl's situation, but there's plenty of stories of low life baby daddies, dealers, etc doing that kind of thing and holding it over the girl's head for access to her kids, etc. I definitely wouldn't keep reaching out and sending gifts, but I'd keep the lines of communication open just in case. But if she does circle back around, you may still be better off with a clean break, since now you have to question whether she exchanges gifts with you out of genuine affection of if its just to "enrich" her life with some other guy.
Good luck, and someday you'll be able to just enjoy the memory of having that kind of connection, something plenty of people miss in life.
Time heals all wounds, you'll be ok in due time. Live and learn my friend, sometimes its easier said than done but you really have to be careful about blurring the lines on SA. The point of SA is so that feelings do NOT get involved. It's about having fun and leaving the feelings & complications out of the equation. Guys who deep down inside are hoping to find love or a GF will find that SA is not the pond you should be fishing in.
[QUOTE=BroScience;4449579]I never thought this would happen to me, but I met this SB on SA and fell for her almost immediately. We just had that chemistry, we spent hours on the phone and passionate sex when we'd see each other. Of course I bought her outfits, a laptop, sent her money and she would feed my imagination with this dream that we'd have a future together. She even went as far to cancel her SA account. Unfortunately, it was short lived and this Wednesday out of the blue she stopped answering my texts, my calls were going straight to voicemail, and I sent her money and finally got a call. It was from her ex, and he told me to stop sending his girl money, that he's back and they're "good".
At 30 years old, this was a crushing blow to my ego and I've honestly never felt so devastated. I can't sleep and this sadness almost feels overwhelming.
My mind is consumed thinking of her smell, her touch, her so called love for me.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BroScience;4449579]I never thought this would happen to me, but I met this SB on SA and fell for her almost immediately. We just had that chemistry, we spent hours on the phone and passionate sex when we'd see each other. Of course I bought her outfits, a laptop, sent her money and she would feed my imagination with this dream that we'd have a future together. She even went as far to cancel her SA account. Unfortunately, it was short lived and this Wednesday out of the blue she stopped answering my texts, my calls were going straight to voicemail, and I sent her money and finally got a call. It was from her ex, and he told me to stop sending his girl money, that he's back and they're "good".
At 30 years old, this was a crushing blow to my ego and I've honestly never felt so devastated. I can't sleep and this sadness almost feels overwhelming.
My mind is consumed thinking of her smell, her touch, her so called love for me.[/QUOTE]I'm old enough to be your dad so the first thing I'd do is smack you in the face and say grow a pair.
So consider it a lesson learned. In the end you sound like a guy who is looking for a GF well do you really want a GF that you found on SA.
"So Dear how did you meet".
It's not the we will laugh 10 yrs from now story but you did it to urself.
Buying her computers and shit.
Dude this is a transactional arrangement. NEVER FORGET IT.
Yes I have a few ladies I consider friends and I would say drive them somewhere after sex or pick them up perhaps buy a few things at BP. Like a soda. But cigarettes and shit that comes out of the donation.
If they fuck you w / out payment (I've had a few).
Then you have a friendship.
I suggest going to church or social club and meeting a nice girl who will fuck your brains out for dinner and a movie.
Marry her then when your tired of her come back to SA.
Until then get over it.
[QUOTE=BroScience;4449579]I never thought this would happen to me, but I met this SB on SA and fell for her almost immediately. We just had that chemistry, we spent hours on the phone and passionate sex when we'd see each other. Of course I bought her outfits, a laptop, sent her money and she would feed my imagination with this dream that we'd have a future together. She even went as far to cancel her SA account. Unfortunately, it was short lived and this Wednesday out of the blue she stopped answering my texts, my calls were going straight to voicemail, and I sent her money and finally got a call. It was from her ex, and he told me to stop sending his girl money, that he's back and they're "good".
At 30 years old, this was a crushing blow to my ego and I've honestly never felt so devastated. I can't sleep and this sadness almost feels overwhelming.
My mind is consumed thinking of her smell, her touch, her so called love for me.[/QUOTE]Dude, hope you learn your lesson, but you CAN NOT buy Love on SA, you buy Pussy on SA, go else where to find love and good luck, after you get old, fat and ugly like me, then go back to SA and buy Pussy, make sure it is nice young pussy tho, you still young starting hit the bars again or maybe [URL]match.com[/URL].