Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

I tried AM a couple of years ago and it was a total waste of time and money. It was constantly buying tokens to read messages and I got nothing out of it at all.

[QUOTE=JustMikey;5726705]AM and AFF produced nothing for me. SA is somewhat okay if you network and get some leads or have lots of time to pick the flyshit out of the pepper, but its basically over with as a reliable source of girl next door or neglected wife pussy.

I do wonder what will be the next SA. There will be women looking for discrete dick and women looking for dick attached to a wallet. Always has been and always will. But, where will they go next? What new site or app or social media conduit will they embrace? Hmmm.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, thanks for the tips guys, I don't think I'll waste my money on either site now. Like a previous poster said, I had some success on AM back around 2015. But the thought of having to buy tokens forever message sounds like a scam. I had a pretty good feeling they never recovered after that identity scandal.

Out of the blue, a SA girl I met 2 years ago just messaged me and wants to meet next week. She must have broke up with her BF. I plan to take good care of her next week 👍.

[QUOTE=JustMikey;5726705]AM and AFF produced nothing for me. SA is somewhat okay if you network and get some leads or have lots of time to pick the flyshit out of the pepper, but its basically over with as a reliable source of girl next door or neglected wife pussy.

I do wonder what will be the next SA. There will be women looking for discrete dick and women looking for dick attached to a wallet. Always has been and always will. But, where will they go next? What new site or app or social media conduit will they embrace? Hmmm.[/QUOTE]Yes AM is junk, as soon as my credits are used I'll bail.

AFF, is so so, at least you don't have to buy tokens.

I've had good luck on secret benefits. You have to buy tokens but if you are smart with them you can make them last. The verification videos are nice, amazing what girls are doing to edit pics but the video is the way they really look. I'm banging one girl from SB for free, CIP all she wanted was a "daddy" meaning she wants to be dominated in bed. Had a great girl in Hickory FS CIP, 24 grad student. She cost me but was worth it. A few others that came and went.

My whole take on SA is that now you just need to expand your search and you may have to travel 3-4 hours if you want decent variety.

Gone are the days of a fully stocked local pond. You need to go deep sea fishing more or lesss.

I plan on doing another road trip in the spring and will be trying my luck wherever I stop.

Apple pay scammer. Couldn't answer what part of Charlotte they were in, other than to reference my location.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b994d16b-3d77-43c5-98ba-7f8eae542101[/URL]

So I finally pay for a month of SA. After the initial blitz of what appeared to be scammers, I started messaging girls. After nearly 100 attempts over 4 locations (I travel for work), I'm currently having conversations with about 15 girls. A couple I can tell are pros which I'm ok with as long as they look like their photos. Others are very proud of themselves and rude about it, and all but one are terrible communicators. Like, don't even check their messages for days bad communicators. Which would be ok except we almost had something lined up that day until crickets. Finally, the one that was extremely promising, like may have been free as long as I was as tall as I claimed and looked like my pics. I discovered her real name and social media only to see that she looks nothing like her profile pics. It's the same girl, just so filter she's almost unrecognizable.

So of the GPS and pros left over I'm a little unsure of what to offer for ppm. So far I've offered a little less than the escort sites base on what they look like. If they look like higher end babes, I'll offer a range of 3 to 4. For example, there's one in south Charlotte that offered a short meet and greet to confirm but was 500 ppm. If she's the girl in the pics and doesn't rush, I'll do it at least once. But if they are STG level, I just say 150 to 250 depending on level of intimacy. Am I ok in this offer or should I like most other negotiations, let them tell me and work down from there.

[QUOTE=CaptCipher;5724149]I gave up on seeking after my ban wasnt worth the hassle and I couldn't pull anything worthwhile.[/QUOTE]I've been banned because my credit card company flagged transaction as fraud.

Tried a few times to open up new accounts and they shut me down the second I try to upgrade account.

I've tried different IP address, wifi locations, email accounts, different credit cards and pre paid cards.

Anyone know what am I missing here?

Maybe SA is doing me a favor by not taking my 109.00.

I have been finding these girl are 300 or nothing really. If they look in any way decent they aren't dealing for anything less then that most times. Of course you will find a Dimond in the rough once in a while. Goodluck.

[QUOTE=GutterMind4;5731588]So I finally pay for a month of SA. After the initial blitz of what appeared to be scammers, I started messaging girls. After nearly 100 attempts over 4 locations (I travel for work), I'm currently having conversations with about 15 girls. A couple I can tell are pros which I'm ok with as long as they look like their photos. Others are very proud of themselves and rude about it, and all but one are terrible communicators. Like, don't even check their messages for days bad communicators. Which would be ok except we almost had something lined up that day until crickets. Finally, the one that was extremely promising, like may have been free as long as I was as tall as I claimed and looked like my pics. I discovered her real name and social media only to see that she looks nothing like her profile pics. It's the same girl, just so filter she's almost unrecognizable.

So of the GPS and pros left over I'm a little unsure of what to offer for ppm. So far I've offered a little less than the escort sites base on what they look like. If they look like higher end babes, I'll offer a range of 3 to 4. For example, there's one in south Charlotte that offered a short meet and greet to confirm but was 500 ppm. If she's the girl in the pics and doesn't rush, I'll do it at least once. But if they are STG level, I just say 150 to 250 depending on level of intimacy. Am I ok in this offer or should I like most other negotiations, let them tell me and work down from there.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Banger12;5731751]I've been banned because my credit card company flagged transaction as fraud.
Tried a few times to open up new accounts and they shut me down the second I try to upgrade account.
I've tried different IP address, wifi locations, email accounts, different credit cards and pre paid cards.
Anyone know what am I missing here?
Maybe SA is doing me a favor by not taking my 109.00.[/QUOTE]One important thing is whatever debit or credit card you are using must be capable of international transactions.

There are a few pre-paid cards out there that support international transactions, but you need to read the fine print on the back & bottom of the packages before you buy & load a pre-paid one if you go that route. You may have to go on the card issuer's website & set up a USA name & address before it will process an international transaction?

Other than that, I don't know what to suggest.

I've been on & off of seeking and would not feel like I'm losing out if they didn't take my money, but I understand it is frustrating having to jump through more hoops.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1b1c7f9a-6fbf-457f-a0b4-a19351617fef[/URL]

She is back in new incarnation. She is a known con artist!

Does anyone have any reviews or information about Bumble?

New to the thread, but not to the forum.

I have been reading through the posts, and figured out most of the SAs are time wasters these days, and it involves recurring annoying SA membership to test the waters.

Reviews show there are some genuine SBs and some DTF; and reviewers usually post the SA link and experiences.

What is the norm of this thread; do reviewers care to share the details like phone numbers over PM; or do they want fellow mongers to explore and get it through taking SA membership.

If someone can share details over PM; they can save lot of time and money for a fellow monger.

Please let me know.


CTL.

[QUOTE=BrianPeter;5736664]Does anyone have any reviews or information about Bumble?[/QUOTE]To me, Bumble is a dating app just like Tinder. I've dabbled with it a few times during travel. If you're a stud and connect with someone who wants to date or have a casual hookup you might get lucky. But like I said, it's a dating app and to me produces no better results. But that's just been my experience. Same with some of my friends. Others may have had different results.

I recently upgraded to premium on SA, as the basic subscription gives you almost nothing. The plan is to rack up as much info and numbers to keep off line as possible. After about 2 weeks of hustling (and parts of my life I'll never get back), I'm finding the effort to be very futile. And although I've only spent the subscription upgrade of $109, so far I think I could have had more success getting to know strippers at the club and ordering take out. Out of about 200 messages sent, less than 10% reply and even less are DTF. Hell, you can see when the messages have been read and half of them don't even look. I have only found one selling pictures, I found a couple of pros that just said to text them the day of and they will meet (they never want to get to know you first), about 7 to 10 that may be worth chasing but the communication is very slow. I insulted a couple of GPS girls that wanted money to just have lunch, and they didn't even look that good either. I've only have one so far that seemed like a legit "struggling student needing to make ends meet". She just didn't meet the bar on looks. Keep in mind, I'm trying to cover 3 states and still can't flush a cute one out. At the end of the day, the only benefit I'm hearing is that it could come at a reduced price or unlimited time compared to an escort. If things improve, I'll be sure to report.

[QUOTE=ChicagoTrueLov;5736802]New to the thread, but not to the forum.

I have been reading through the posts, and figured out most of the SAs are time wasters these days, and it involves recurring annoying SA membership to test the waters.

Reviews show there are some genuine SBs and some DTF; and reviewers usually post the SA link and experiences.

What is the norm of this thread; do reviewers care to share the details like phone numbers over PM; or do they want fellow mongers to explore and get it through taking SA membership.

If someone can share details over PM; they can save lot of time and money for a fellow monger.

Please let me know.


CTL.[/QUOTE]

I bet the women to men ratio is 10 to 1 or worse. For someone with a pussy between their legs I bet their mailboxes get flooded?

[QUOTE=GutterMind4;5737201]I recently upgraded to premium on SA, as the basic subscription gives you almost nothing. The plan is to rack up as much info and numbers to keep off line as possible. After about 2 weeks of hustling (and parts of my life I'll never get back), I'm finding the effort to be very futile. And although I've only spent the subscription upgrade of $109, so far I think I could have had more success getting to know strippers at the club and ordering take out. Out of about 200 messages sent, less than 10% reply and even less are DTF. Hell, you can see when the messages have been read and half of them don't even look. I have only found one selling pictures, I found a couple of pros that just said to text them the day of and they will meet (they never want to get to know you first), about 7 to 10 that may be worth chasing but the communication is very slow. I insulted a couple of GPS girls that wanted money to just have lunch, and they didn't even look that good either. I've only have one so far that seemed like a legit "struggling student needing to make ends meet". She just didn't meet the bar on looks. Keep in mind, I'm trying to cover 3 states and still can't flush a cute one out. At the end of the day, the only benefit I'm hearing is that it could come at a reduced price or unlimited time compared to an escort. If things improve, I'll be sure to report.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=NCTransplant;5737211]I bet the women to men ratio is 10 to 1 or worse. For someone with a pussy between their legs I bet their mailboxes get flooded?[/QUOTE]Many more guys than girls. Although I haven't been on in a month or longer I picked up several contacts and been working through them I literally couldn't keep up with meet and greet there were so many I was actually double booking some and had to cancel on a few. I have 3 solid friends in the 200-250 range with no demons just normal college girls or single moms. One of them showed me her messages the other day, there were 137 unread messages. For that day. She said she scans through them but doesn't really read the message unless the profile jumps out at her. But it is true most of the good ones aren't really seeking too hard. Once they get a semi consistent arrangement I think they are good. I have 200 contacts in the past year with only subscribing 3 months worth. Obviously not all are good companions but several are good for a random hook up at a reasonable rate if you are patient until they find the time to see you that's why I l I'll keep all the options. I do have several messages from prospects that I now can't read since I'm not active but I may sign back up if they run a V day special.

[QUOTE=NCTransplant;5737211]I bet the women to men ratio is 10 to 1 or worse. For someone with a pussy between their legs I bet their mailboxes get flooded?[/QUOTE]As bad as seeking is these days, there are still more women than men on it. The ratio is like 8 women for every 3 men where as with online dating its about 9 men for every 1 woman. Its extremely difficult unless you're a top tier guy (looks / height).

[QUOTE=LolBoat;5738746]As bad as seeking is these days, there are still more women than men on it. The ratio is like 8 women for every 3 men where as with online dating its about 9 men for every 1 woman. Its extremely difficult unless you're a top tier guy (looks / height).[/QUOTE]No way ratio is 8-3. (maybe if you count all the fake and bot accounts) I've had many SA chicks tell me they receive more messages a day then they could ever read through.

I'll chime in here too. I have had pretty good luck on the site. I typically have about a 90% response rate. I've found that you need to message them when they are online, as it puts your message at the top of their inbox. The ones that are active do get a alot of messages. If they don't respond in a about a week, I'll message again with something short about wanting to chat, and usually get a response. I've had really good times and a few not so great times. Success rate of actually meeting someone is about 30% I'd say. But my requirements lower the pool quickly. I usually only message white girls, my preference, and as soon as they talk about sending money, I'm done. Also anyone wanting more than 300, I've found that if you get them down to the 2-3 rate the service is terrible. I'm not knocking the guys paying the premiums, its supply and demand. And my play supply demands I stay in that 2-3 range. I have met 2 that required absolutely no money. One was strictly sex. The other was almost like a GF, nights out, nights in, staying at eachothers places. She would pay for stuff I'd say about 30-40% of the time, So those unicorns are out there. It does take a lot of time, but I'm a single guy with nothing else to do, honestly enjoy the chase. I'll say the last 6-12 months have been a lot harder, more hos wanting money just sent to them or 5 bills. LOL bitches be crazy. You can't be afraid to meet them in public for a m&g, the success rate post m&g is about 100%. If not that night, the next meet is almost guaranteed. I don't repeate when it's a wham bam thank you ma'am, one nut and leave, if they are willing to hang, go a few round, and actually talk, that's what keeps me repeating. Just my. 02.

Keep it nasty.

-CCK.

[QUOTE=AdamEve7;5704167]Have anyone experienced this nerd. Pm me or reply to post with your experiences I am curious as she looks like pro.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ff8e0ef0-4ca7-4e4a-b957-0b4541b21e43[/URL][/QUOTE]Did you ever end up getting with her? Your inbox is full.

[QUOTE=FrmLurker;5730623]Apple pay scammer. Couldn't answer what part of Charlotte they were in, other than to reference my location.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b994d16b-3d77-43c5-98ba-7f8eae542101[/URL][/QUOTE]She creates short videos in real time. She takes direction. I spent $150 one week when I was bored.

[URL]https://pinger-prod-communications.s3.amazonaws.com/communications/1326052285/2021/60fb1df767daf7.46760720.mp4[/URL]

She wouldn't get a covid vax so I lost interest.

[QUOTE=MilkyWy;5734959][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1b1c7f9a-6fbf-457f-a0b4-a19351617fef[/URL]

She is back in new incarnation. She is a known con artist![/QUOTE]Looks like a guy to me.

My former SB is coming back to the CLT area and is open to a few new friends. Feel free to PM if interested.

She asked for a deposit before meeting. And blocks you when you decline. Possible scammer.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9e062958-004d-4baf-af79-443d4f482055[/URL]

[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;5742509]She asked for a deposit before meeting. And blocks you when you decline. Possible scammer.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9e062958-004d-4baf-af79-443d4f482055[/URL][/QUOTE]Yeah, definitely a scammer. Did the same to me.

Any info on this one.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/998a02f9-0df8-4537-8e61-c4e50027d496[/URL]

She's in Rock Hill.

Saw this one. Asked 300 for 3 hours. I did 200. Sweet girl, but a lot of loose skin from what looks to be a dramatic weight loss. Offers BBBJ, BBFS, creampie. I passed on the latter 2. Will not repeat, maybe just for BBBJ.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/17a512d4-dc5b-43e6-a01a-a14ccff0dc11[/URL]

Any info. Texted with her for a while. She Said nothing less than 275.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3f538e4a-6a93-4e84-a32f-5c950afff0f7[/URL]

Been chatting with this one. Asking 500 but I think she may come down. Anyone have any experience with her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7acdc43e-c524-402e-bd73-7d4d7049c21a[/URL]

[QUOTE=BrianPeter;5742985]Been chatting with this one. Asking 500 but I think she may come down. Anyone have any experience with her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7acdc43e-c524-402e-bd73-7d4d7049c21a[/URL][/QUOTE]I believe she is legit, just hard to schedule. I spoke with her a few years ago but our schedules never lined up it seems. YMMV.

[QUOTE=BrianPeter;5742954]Saw this one. Asked 300 for 3 hours. I did 200. Sweet girl, but a lot of loose skin from what looks to be a dramatic weight loss. Offers BBBJ, BBFS, creampie. I passed on the latter 2. Will not repeat, maybe just for BBBJ.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/17a512d4-dc5b-43e6-a01a-a14ccff0dc11[/URL][/QUOTE]Sent you a message.

[QUOTE=BrianPeter;5742985]Been chatting with this one. Asking 500 but I think she may come down. Anyone have any experience with her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7acdc43e-c524-402e-bd73-7d4d7049c21a[/URL][/QUOTE]I met her on SA back in 2019 under a similar name. Super down to earth girl, highly intelligent, very fit and easy to communicate with. She works uptown and stays super busy though! I actually had to meet her near her office after work because she only had 30-45 min to spare for a quick coffee. I would have pursued her as a legit sugarbaby but I didn't think the scheduling would work. She is definitely a keeper if you have the patience and budget.

[QUOTE=BrianPeter;5742943]Any info on this one.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/998a02f9-0df8-4537-8e61-c4e50027d496[/URL]

She's in Rock Hill.[/QUOTE]Greasy hair. Smells bad. Dirty fingernails. Looked like she hadn't bathed in a while. I made an excuse and dropped her back at her trailer.

[QUOTE=LoveLatina;5744902]Greasy hair. Smells bad. Dirty fingernails. Looked like she hadn't bathed in a while. I made an excuse and dropped her back at her trailer.[/QUOTE]You could've wash her😃.

[QUOTE=Ltus20;5744928]You could've wash her😃.[/QUOTE]It is her in the pictures but she has put on weight and has bad skin now. Is missing a couple of teeth.

[QUOTE=MikeoDamerika;5462317]Avoid this girl.

Saw her once. The second time she went silent as I waited for her at the hotel. When she finally responded she had the most idgaf attitude.

Used to ask for 300. Now she asks for 800.

She is not reliable and a huge flake!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/fed2df85-d043-4dab-827f-19471a4f25d7[/URL][/QUOTE]Same experience for our 2nd meet and I was dumb enough to book and check in to the room waiting on her... I mean it was our 2nd visit so why not right? I drove closer to her from upstate sc too to help her out.
She absolutely ghosted 30 minutes before her ETA. Im not sure she even left her house. No idea why. I was angry but calm and she flipped her shit on me for being upset that she stood me up when she replied hours later.. After some back and forth she said she was going to get my tag number from my car from her front office apartment (I met her there for the first visit). Said she would tell them I tried to tape her and steal from her house. Then show them and the cops all of our texts and my cashapp as proof. I laughed it off because I knew it was all talk. But what a nutjob. She's cute but fricking looney tunes.

[QUOTE=VincentSpies;5746113]Same experience for our 2nd meet and I was dumb enough to book and check in to the room waiting on her... I mean it was our 2nd visit so why not right? I drove closer to her from upstate sc too to help her out. She absolutely ghosted 30 minutes before her ETA. Im not sure she even left her house. No idea why. I was angry but calm and she flipped her shit on me for being upset that she stood me up when she replied hours later.. After some back and forth she said she was going to get my tag number from my car from her front office apartment (I met her there for the first visit). Said she would tell them I tried to tape her and steal from her house. Then show them and the cops all of our texts and my cashapp as proof. I laughed it off because I knew it was all talk. But what a nutjob. She's cute but fricking looney tunes.[/QUOTE]Can you post a screen shot pic? I clicked the link and it looks like that profile is gone. But you know these girls also get blocked from Sa after getting reported and just open new accounts.

[QUOTE=BrianPeter;5742943]Any info on this one.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/998a02f9-0df8-4537-8e61-c4e50027d496[/URL]

She's in Rock Hill.[/QUOTE]She's a street walker in Fort Mill. I never met her personally but I live in Fort Mill and have seen her in the " Paradise" area. It's a name for the hood area here.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9a0753fe-aabe-4630-a7c7-893c47bd1232[/URL]

Needs 1 of you player to break her into the game.

[QUOTE=RyanBB;5746311]She's a street walker in Fort Mill. I never met her personally but I live in Fort Mill and have seen her in the " Paradise" area. It's a name for the hood area here.[/QUOTE]I live in Fort Mill. Where is the paradise area? Never heard of.