"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=JustLonely;4049134]I am getting ready to TOFTT with this one. She seems a bit different than most I've messaged on SA. Any concerns from anyone who has seen her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/54538dee-788c-4d84-90e7-d2154b9682a8[/URL][/QUOTE]I think this is a new profile or she pulled it down for a while. I got her digits and we texted for a day or two and I just didn't pull the trigger because I had someone else lined up that, quite frankly, was much better looking with a bit more meat on her bones. She seemed legit while texting and claimed to not really care about the allowance. But that often changes once you start getting serious about actually meeting!

It may just be me but it seems the last three or four SBs I've met up with this year all claim to be nurses who work at nursing homes! Anybody else have this experience? I mean, in some way, it makes sense. Anyone in that profession has a natural empathy and is all about giving! LOL. And if it's true, I suspect some of them know one another and have shared their experiences in the bowl. But I'd like to know where this facility is because I'm going to be needing a nursing home here in a few years and that's the place I want to live out my last few years! LMAO.

[QUOTE=CoolPix;4051222]It may just be me but it seems the last three or four SBs I've met up with this year all claim to be nurses who work at nursing homes! Anybody else have this experience? I mean, in some way, it makes sense. Anyone in that profession has a natural empathy and is all about giving! LOL. And if it's true, I suspect some of them know one another and have shared their experiences in the bowl. But I'd like to know where this facility is because I'm going to be needing a nursing home here in a few years and that's the place I want to live out my last few years! LMAO.[/QUOTE]Ahmen! My friends joke I'll be chasing skirts with my walker.

[QUOTE=CoolPix;4051222]It may just be me but it seems the last three or four SBs I've met up with this year all claim to be nurses who work at nursing homes! Anybody else have this experience? I mean, in some way, it makes sense. Anyone in that profession has a natural empathy and is all about giving! LOL. And if it's true, I suspect some of them know one another and have shared their experiences in the bowl. But I'd like to know where this facility is because I'm going to be needing a nursing home here in a few years and that's the place I want to live out my last few years! LMAO.[/QUOTE]I can vouch for that as took a SB from hotel to nursing home when her car wasn't running. Funny thing it turned out be within 5 minutes of where I work. She might still be there by the time I need one. She loved the work.

[QUOTE=CoolPix;4051222]It may just be me but it seems the last three or four SBs I've met up with this year all claim to be nurses who work at nursing homes! Anybody else have this experience? I mean, in some way, it makes sense. Anyone in that profession has a natural empathy and is all about giving! LOL. And if it's true, I suspect some of them know one another and have shared their experiences in the bowl. But I'd like to know where this facility is because I'm going to be needing a nursing home here in a few years and that's the place I want to live out my last few years! LMAO.[/QUOTE]Nurses learn pretty quickly in their work to be pragmatic and realistic, and those traits carry over to their personal lives; nurses who work with the elderly and dying (nursing homes, home care and hospice services) get that double, plus a good dose of "live for today, none of us are promised tomorrow" on top of it. As medical people, they're often more aware of and in tune with their bodies and their sexual needs than civvies. And nursing home / home care / hospice providers, especially the less-skilled ones (home health aides, LPNs, phlebotomists / renal support / etc.) are generally on the bottom rung of the pay scale for medical professions. Combine those things, and it's no surprise that a lot of the SBs we see come out of that field of work: they're broke, horny, and not afraid to use the latter to fix the former. I've had two long-term SBs in that category, and have met quite a few others.

[QUOTE=CoolPix;4051222]It may just be me but it seems the last three or four SBs I've met up with this year all claim to be nurses who work at nursing homes! Anybody else have this experience? I mean, in some way, it makes sense. Anyone in that profession has a natural empathy and is all about giving! LOL. And if it's true, I suspect some of them know one another and have shared their experiences in the bowl. But I'd like to know where this facility is because I'm going to be needing a nursing home here in a few years and that's the place I want to live out my last few years! LMAO.[/QUOTE]Just generally, I find it interesting the demographics that are on seeking. Definitely nurses, but also nannies, cosmetologists, hairdressers. Someone should do a PhD thesis explaining it all. Some of it may be vanity, a girl wants to be thought of as a special beauty, if she can get someone to pay a lot of $ to be w / her it confirms that aspiration.

[QUOTE=GuyInTheCorner;4047873]Apologies for asking again but I didn't see a response to the previous message. What are you all doing for payment to SA? I had been trying to handle payment through a prepaid card. Didn't go through so I messaged support as I have done a half dozen times in the past. This time SA sent me a message that I had to fill out a form and send it back, no way.

I looked further and realized the Vanilla card I had was US only, and the website requires international ones. I looked at the international version, but all of those seem to require you provide your identity and drivers' license. I'd prefer to avoid if possible but is that my only option?[/QUOTE]The only way I have found is BitCoin. It is volatile as is the stock market. If you fund your BitCoin wallet and use it immediately should be good. If there is enough interest I can post how to do it.

[QUOTE=CoolPix;4051209]I think this is a new profile or she pulled it down for a while. I got her digits and we texted for a day or two and I just didn't pull the trigger because I had someone else lined up that, quite frankly, was much better looking with a bit more meat on her bones. She seemed legit while texting and claimed to not really care about the allowance. But that often changes once you start getting serious about actually meeting![/QUOTE]Agree it's a new profile, but pretty sure I used to see her. She's super cool and extremely accommodating. Really nice girl. But for those of you who've been around for awhile think Donna. Not a bad thing but depends on what you like and what you're willing to pay I guess?

[QUOTE=InTight;4052677]The only way I have found is BitCoin. It is volatile as is the stock market. If you fund your BitCoin wallet and use it immediately should be good. If there is enough interest I can post how to do it.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the offer. That's probably too much effort for me.

For what it is worth I did try the more complicated and in depth international Vanilla card. You do have to register it with your real name and address through Vanilla, but I was then able to sign up on SA with a modified name and address— only zip code matched — and that worked. I think that accomplishes my goal, which is to avoid having my name and address sitting in SA's files.

[QUOTE=CoolPix;4051209]I think this is a new profile or she pulled it down for a while. I got her digits and we texted for a day or two and I just didn't pull the trigger because I had someone else lined up that, quite frankly, was much better looking with a bit more meat on her bones. She seemed legit while texting and claimed to not really care about the allowance. But that often changes once you start getting serious about actually meeting![/QUOTE]I didn't pull the trigger on this one after all. Like you a better fit for me worked out.

Needs to be a pinned post on here. Anything, and I do mean anything from phone minutes to gas money to a subscription to a gift to anything and everything where someone is asking you for something that costs money, sight unseen prior to meeting, is a scam. Every. Single. Time. Automatically move on the 2nd you get something like that and save yourself some time.

[QUOTE=EasyeOne;4041556]Anybody talk to or meet with this one? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3cfa3a4c-471f-40da-b97e-9e428c5341ba[/URL].

Taking it easy. Sounds good but sounds fake. Soon after sending a message I got this:

Takin It Easy about 23 hours ago.

Thanks for the message! Sadly I have found this site to be a huge waste of time, so to cut through the BS, I am going to try something new and just be right up front with everything.

I am married, and my profile does say that. My husband is a bit of control freak, but not like you see in a movie so don't think hes crazy. He rather me be a stay at home house wife, we have one vehicle even though we can afford 2, but its just to keep me at home. Our iPhones are linked together, so he can see what apps I have / who I text.

My mom got sick of him reading our texts so she bought be a prepaid flip phone he doesn't know about, which is how I am on here.

No I don't have snapchat, whatsapp, tinder, textfree, any other app. Its a flip phone. Sorry, just been asked that question a lot. I also have no interest in emailing.

I am willing to send photos, but if you are going to ask for nudes right away, please look elsewhere. Also not interested in talking dirty right off the start, at least get to know me first.

I am not a "sugar baby" My options are limited so I choose this site. I don't want your money. I am looking for a friend with benefits.

With saying that, I do still have some needs. I would need an uber / lyft to meet you. I will not get picked up by you, I'm sorry.

Since my phone is prepaid, I will need it refilled as needed to keep in touch.

I am NOT LOOKING for a time / date relationship where we set a time and date and not talk until then. Sorry, communication and connection is important to me. So I would really like to talk to you some before we set a date in stone. I also need a 48 hour notice.

Sorry if this is a deal breaker, but yeah, just done with the games on here. Please let me know regardless. Thank you.

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[QUOTE=GuyInTheCorner;4047873]Apologies for asking again but I didn't see a response to the previous message. What are you all doing for payment to SA? I had been trying to handle payment through a prepaid card. Didn't go through so I messaged support as I have done a half dozen times in the past. This time SA sent me a message that I had to fill out a form and send it back, no way.

I looked further and realized the Vanilla card I had was US only, and the website requires international ones. I looked at the international version, but all of those seem to require you provide your identity and drivers' license. I'd prefer to avoid if possible but is that my only option?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CoolPix;4051222]It may just be me but it seems the last three or four SBs I've met up with this year all claim to be nurses who work at nursing homes! Anybody else have this experience? I mean, in some way, it makes sense. Anyone in that profession has a natural empathy and is all about giving! LOL. And if it's true, I suspect some of them know one another and have shared their experiences in the bowl. But I'd like to know where this facility is because I'm going to be needing a nursing home here in a few years and that's the place I want to live out my last few years! LMAO.[/QUOTE]Lotta Nurses on SA! Maybe there's so many nurses because they're used to touching a million gross, old, flaccid penises all day and they already know they can get through an "FC-date" without vomiting! LOL! They have to deal with the most disgusting things imaginable everyday to get their pay check. I guess SA's not much of a stretch.

[QUOTE=AngryDragon;4055180]Lotta Nurses on SA! Maybe there's so many nurses because they're used to touching a million gross, old, flaccid penises all day and they already know they can get through an "FC-date" without vomiting! LOL! They have to deal with the most disgusting things imaginable everyday to get their pay check. I guess SA's not much of a stretch.[/QUOTE]I'm sure there are some VCU nursing students on SA too.

I think I well a fever coming on. LOL.

I'm thinking about joining SA. I've had three SB that I found on my own.

One a waitress in Wilmington, that turned into a real serious relationship for over two & a half years, a stripper in Fayetteville that is ongoing at two & a half years & a ebony model in Norfolk that only lasted a month last March. (Fronted her cash, rookie mistake. She was ready for Greek, really regret that!)

Ages when met, 23,23 & 24. Less than half my age. All three beautiful in different ways. Waitress, all half my age.

I like the hunt with the civilians. Surprisingly, the stripper took the longest to get to the FC. She only liked girls, but once I finally ate her, she was mine!

Cultivating SB #1's friend in Wilmington currently. Bartender at the same restaurant. Blonde, 30, pretty, great ass & tits, just ran the NY marathon. I have a different marathon in mind. Had dinner with her three times, lot's of flirting & touching. Have to time your move just right with civies. Too early you can spook them, too late you can be in the dreaded "friend zone", fuck that!

If I join SA I'd look in Nova, Raleigh & Wilmington. Too risky here. I have the free membership and between that and the boards there, looks like Raleigh & Nova is loaded with prospects, as well as verified Babies.

To be continued.

I've also met a couple of dental techs / hygienists as well. The first one I met thought I was going to come in (she hosted in Springfield), bust a nut, and then leave. I took her to three rounds (I have no idea how I was able to do that, she wasn't smoking hot and I'm usually a one and done old dude) and wore her ass out. She was like, "damn, most guys are out of here in 30 minutes. ".

Yep, I'm proud of myself and bragging a tad bit. But there is definitely something about playing with civvies that brings out the best in ol' junior! I do enjoy the bowl, that's for sure.

Be nice to them fellow mongers.