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It's really not complicated. It's called respect. You must show the providers respect and understand their limits and if you ask a question about a service and they say no then just accept it and don't bring it up again. The golden rule still applies even in this hobby. I know everyone has different kinks and desires and if you have something you like and a certain provider doesn't like it or provide it don't force it just move on to someone else who does.

[QUOTE=Benz1;5967842]I'm teaching her to be assertive. The next guy that tries that Dom Daddy shit, she'll kick him in the balls.

However I don't think the team will get another swing. Maybe Gvcc11 can give us some advice on how this won't happen again and we keep the new UTRs happy to be in the hobby.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TitLover420;5967089][URL]https://grand-rapids.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/lets-have-some-fun-babe/987273782955[/URL] she's hot. Anyone seen her?[/QUOTE]I saw her months ago when she was starting, and she was pretty legit. She did do BBBJ and she is into cuckolding too if that is your kind of thing. Not sure how she is nowadays.

[QUOTE=Gvcc11;5967869]It's really not complicated. It's called respect. You must show the providers respect and understand their limits and if you ask a question about a service and they say no then just accept it and don't bring it up again. The golden rule still applies even in this hobby. I know everyone has different kinks and desires and if you have something you like and a certain provider doesn't like it or provide it don't force it just move on to someone else who does.[/QUOTE]I would add to this, an experience I had with a provider. A client came to meet her with no mentioning of a spanking fetish. I guess that is what it can be called. IDK. She's a little lady so unable to defend herself. He sat in a chair and asked her to undress. So she did it. Nothing out of line. He grabbed her and bent her over his knees and began spanking. No. Beating her. I saw her 3 days after this incident and the welts could still be easily seen. Why mention this? In case this might be someone, we may know, we should tell him to back off. To me, this is an assault. Let's all treat our providers with care and respect and not push any of the boundaries they have set. Just be a good humane being.

I get that some guys have fetishes and I get that providers don't like discussing particulars with someone they haven't met, but why would you think it is ok to do anything like that without first talking to the provider about it? I mean worst case scenario is you get there and discuss it and find out she isn't ok with it and you just have a regular visit and move on looking for someone to meet your fetish needs. I guess I am lucky I don't have any sort of fetish, so I don't have any issues like this but sadly it makes some decent providers that I might really enjoy leave the hobby before I get a chance to meet them. So I guess in a way I still lose out.

[QUOTE=BrentRS;5968335]I would add to this, an experience I had with a provider. A client came to meet her with no mentioning of a spanking fetish. I guess that is what it can be called. IDK. She's a little lady so unable to defend herself. He sat in a chair and asked her to undress. So she did it. Nothing out of line. He grabbed her and bent her over his knees and began spanking. No. Beating her. I saw her 3 days after this incident and the welts could still be easily seen. Why mention this? In case this might be someone, we may know, we should tell him to back off. To me, this is an assault. Let's all treat our providers with care and respect and not push any of the boundaries they have set. Just be a good humane being.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BrentRS;5968335]I would add to this, an experience I had with a provider. A client came to meet her with no mentioning of a spanking fetish. I guess that is what it can be called. IDK. She's a little lady so unable to defend herself. He sat in a chair and asked her to undress. So she did it. Nothing out of line. He grabbed her and bent her over his knees and began spanking. No. Beating her. I saw her 3 days after this incident and the welts could still be easily seen. Why mention this? In case this might be someone, we may know, we should tell him to back off. To me, this is an assault. Let's all treat our providers with care and respect and not push any of the boundaries they have set. Just be a good humane being.[/QUOTE]I had a provider I have seen on and off for a few years, tell me that she will now only see regulars because some new John had tried to choke her. At first she went along with it, but then she actually became afraid for life. He was also into hair pulling and being verbally abusive. I saw her a few days after this happened and she had perfectly shaped finger shaped bruises on her neck. No wonder most girls have a pimp or BF around for protection. She said she didn't know if this guy was like Ted Bundy or just a John with a choking fetish. I swear some mongers don't see providers as real people, and think they can be used and abused. Sad state of affairs.

Here I am, nearly 70 years old (and looking 55), wanting to find a nice person to have extracurricular activity with, with a penchant for easy-to-ask-about fetishes. Think ebony, hairy pussy, small boobs, shorts and knee highs (ah, high school in the early 70's), and, from the days when swinging, finding someone who plays well with more than one fellow; hence, I love sloppy seconds or sloppy lasts. It is no big deal if they say no. That is their right and prerogative. There may be someone out there. But being my age and in quite good health, I don't know how much longer I'll be given to monger.

(My ex would entertain married male friends and we would have a lot of fun. She drank herself into an assisted care facility so that ended that. We have read about providers who self destructed. Well, she cratered an $85 k a year job as well as a marriage from alcohol. Choices.)

Being new to this board of course, it is much more difficult to find someone since I have so few posts and people don't know me in order to recommend me to an UTR. I'm looking for **one** provider since I am in an LTR that is more platonic than intimate and my availability is limited. (She is ebony from Africa and I am Caucasian with a little peepee (laugh, dammit).

To read about people abusing others makes me very angry. I would hope that nobody on this board would behave like this, so it seems that these stories are preaching to the choir. I feel badly for the providers because they do not deserve that at all from anyone.

I just needed to sound off on this topic. Also need to get to senior level otherwise I might expire before getting references to a nice lady with aforementioned features and who likes to be rubbed with soft hands and nibbled in the right places. Just sayin'. Thanks for reading.

[QUOTE=Benz1;5965827]The whole nation is talking about inflation on usasexguide. It appears the girls decided to give themselves a raise.

The girls giving the discounts are getting their business and then some. Some are having it rougher than others.

Emmie wants to do her part , helping the economy. Emmie told me She's offering 40 BBBJCIM car dates in Hudsonville. She's been tent camping and promises to let the sweat off her nipples drip into your mouth during a FS visit for 80. She tells me the drippings will taste like Vodka.
If we're looking for discount, we might have to give up the Air Conditioning.[/QUOTE]Is there a link or contact for your Emmie?

[QUOTE=Aniles;5968763]Is there a link or contact for your Emmie?[/QUOTE]You have Mail.

I sent you digits.

I also have digits for Jenna doing 50 dollar BBBJCIM. Her Tryst account isn't working and she has new temporary WiFi digits. Last time I saw Jenna there was some gaps in communication but I was patient because she warned me her current digits are WiFi only. Kinda of a pain but I got off in her mouth and she swallows everything. It was worth the wait.

It got too hot for the tenting experience. Emmie has a room in the same area offering BBBJCIM 60 and FS 100. She was surprised in the interest in the slippery nipples. Emmie said if you still want the dripping vodka nipples, she'll do her best to make that happen.

[QUOTE=Benz1;5969376]It got too hot for the tenting experience. Emmie has a room in the same area offering BBBJCIM 60 and FS 100. She was surprised in the interest in the slippery nipples. Emmie said if you still want the dripping vodka nipples, she'll do her best to make that happen.[/QUOTE]I've had people message me for her number. Not mine to give out. y'all need to contact Benz directly.

[URL]https://tryst.link/escort/lilly-vrega[/URL]

Very much a blast from the past. I saw Lilly well before I even knew there was a community forum online. I think I found her ad initially on Listcrawler? Anyway, she was always a good time. Beautiful inside and out. Very open menu. Offered me a shower after our date and joined me in said shower! Haha. Yes, I really miss this one as a provider but the update I am offering is not a years old session review. I recently have been in contact with her regarding her abrupt departure from this work. Mind you, I hadn't seen her in years, as I say. She informed me that her father passed and she was thrust into taking over his business. She also has kids so she stays very busy learning the new business, raising the kids, and other typical societal norms. She mentioned the negativity she received from former clients that tried to blackmail her into keeping their business and even one that went so far as to find out a lot of her personal information and threaten to dox her! Listen, if she was on the fence at that point about returning to this world, that likely put her over the edge to stay away.

If my tone in this anecdotal note isn't clear, allow me to be. We are a community of men with a shared, expensive hobby. You want the best? Please be respectful. These girls are humans too. We have all heard stories from providers about other members or even nonmember clients. Not all stories are funny or good. These women remember. There's one woman, Kimberly that was mentioned below in a review, that told me she saves ALL of her texts. I conveyed to her that not all men are the same. What's more, not all guys are bad. I hope she takes that to heart. But guys, there shouldn't have even been need for the conversation. We have to do better. Our world is constantly evolving. Women are raising rates, Benz stated he is considering keeping his UTRs close to the chest, women are getting more restrictive on who they see, etc. And can we blame them?

I hope we all take an honest look at how we interact with these girls and in that reflection determine if we are helping or hindering our community of hobbyists.

Stay safe team.

[QUOTE=SlyGuy12;5968549]I had a provider I have seen on and off for a few years, tell me that she will now only see regulars because some new John had tried to choke her. At first she went along with it, but then she actually became afraid for life. He was also into hair pulling and being verbally abusive. I saw her a few days after this happened and she had perfectly shaped finger shaped bruises on her neck. No wonder most girls have a pimp or BF around for protection. She said she didn't know if this guy was like Ted Bundy or just a John with a choking fetish. I swear some mongers don't see providers as real people, and think they can be used and abused. Sad state of affairs.[/QUOTE]There's no excuse for this type of behavior I was raised in an environment where please and thank you meant everything. When I approach a provider under this premise I can do all the choking hair pulling and get all the BLS CIM CIMWS and COF I can handle with no complaint from the girls I see. Things just have to be agreed on ahead of time. How hard is that? This is the whole issue of YMMV. It's assholes like this that screw it up for the rest of us that treat providers with respect and care that they deserve regardless of being a Sex Worker.

She wouldn't entertain an app without a deposit from a cash app.

At least tonight, she is a mess.

[QUOTE=SlyGuy12;5968549]I had a provider I have seen on and off for a few years, tell me that she will now only see regulars because some new John had tried to choke her. At first she went along with it, but then she actually became afraid for life. He was also into hair pulling and being verbally abusive. I saw her a few days after this happened and she had perfectly shaped finger shaped bruises on her neck. No wonder most girls have a pimp or BF around for protection. She said she didn't know if this guy was like Ted Bundy or just a John with a choking fetish. I swear some mongers don't see providers as real people, and think they can be used and abused. Sad state of affairs.[/QUOTE]This is why LEO / FBI troll these sites, and rightly so. A lot of serial killers target sex workers as they are low hanging fruit for these perverts. It makes me more emphatic to the providers who are paranoid, many of these girls are single moms and fear for their lives. That is why I encourage girls to be UTR and establish 10-15 regulars, but that never seems to work.

Just when I thought I finally found my go-to provider, she goes M. I. A. Last STG post is from some weeks ago.

I know shit happens, so I don't want to assume too much and she might just be taking care of business. Me and her clicked pretty well and never had a bad date, so I doubt it's just her avoiding me.

Just curious to see if any of her regulars troll this board and have any info on what's going on with her.

On a side note:

Saw Allison (petite Allison not crack head Ally) for the first time the other night. Not really much to say LOL. I could make my guesses as to why she's so mixed here when it comes to reviews, but I can say that my experience was on the side of not bad. Some have mentioned that she can be caught at a good time, so I'm guessing I just got lucky, but I didn't get any 'crazy' out of her, even conversation wise. She was fully there and honestly pretty chill and laid back during our date. Pics are her, though minorly filtered. She is actually that petite, but not nearly as toned as her ad would suggest. Like others have pointed out, Bjs are not really her selling point and whether it will be a BBBJ seems to be down to whether she likes you or not, but she took the pounding well. Mostly just wanted to sate my curiosity about her and I accomplished that, so I'm not planning on making her my go to or anything, but she will be a fall back option if Angel stays M. I. A. And I can't find another good provider.

Honestly, GR is really slim pickings compared to some of the other states I've been to, and that sucks cause this is my home. But, given what I'm seeing about the mistreatment of UTR's and guys that have some stupid ass chip on their shoulder (sorry I mean fetish), I can see why shit is shaping up the way it is here lately.