The Small Head and the Heart
[QUOTE=DocHolliday35;5171425]I agree with you on the money part. Spending a few dollars extra is not going to fuck anybody up. What fucks people up are the emotional games these girls play. They claim to be single when they are really married to 1 or 2 people in multiple countries, have kids or want to use you to get a greed card. I was very naive at first before I figured the game out, just don't want to see a guy go off the deep end emotionally from one of these girls.
We have all been texted the same stuff. Good morning, good night, are you busy, I miss you, handsome, come see me, etc.[/QUOTE]I don't want to see anyone get emotionally crushed by a provider, either. But I don't think it's out of line for them to flirt over text, either. We all like the tease and we all like to feel desired. I'm guessing many of us reply to those texts. I'm also guessing that most mongers also don't tell the truth about their relational status to providers, either.
We can never remind ourselves enough that most providers literally massage naked people and jerk cocks for a living, some of them literally seven days a week for 10 hours a day. This is their livelihood and the business model. It is only complicated when WE want to change the rules of engagement from one of a business transaction to a romantic one where we don't have to pay for a sex act. This is not the provider's fault, this is small headed thinking on our part. Better is to detach yourself from emotional commitment to a provider and instead enjoy it like the vacation that it can be from regular life.