"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4023209]A. AirBnB.

B. teach her how to be discrete. This isn't going to be her last cocksucking-for-cash experience so she needs to learn the ropes. Does she have vanity plates that can be I'd'd by a friend driving by? Is there a side entrance she can go in to avoid the lobby / being seen (many fire exits are one way, but you can come down and let her in). Will you be meeting after dark (5 pm this time of year) which adds to privacy? She should appreciate the tutorial so she can keep feeding her appetite for cash and fucking around.[/QUOTE]Do they think a private home visit is safer than a hotel? I see it the other way around. She wanted me to pay for videos first and then would meet me. I said I don't pay for videos when I can get them free on the internet. Xvideos is great.

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[QUOTE=RVASpider;4024186]Do they think a private home visit is safer than a hotel? I see it the other way around. She wanted me to pay for videos first and then would meet me. I said I don't pay for videos when I can get them free on the internet. Xvideos is great.[/QUOTE]She didn't give any specifics. Just said that she couldn't meet me at s hotel. I thought the hotel was a safe option. She didn't ask me to purchase any videos. No big deal. The bowl is too big to miss one scoop of sugar.

[QUOTE=TheDude1;4024188]What is the best prepaid card for SA that actually works?[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.onevanilla.com/[/URL]

You have to define the zip code on their site then use on SA.

Now that SA allows a profile to specify an age range that they are seeking, I personally find it a little frustrating when I find some unrealistically low numbers there. That said, I've been contacted / favorited by POTS who's age limit was ten+ years younger than me, and I guess there is some value to the hint that you might want to triage a profile down a bit if you're outside her profile's age range. Not that I've ever seriously online-civvie-dated, I can only imagine the situation is much worse for those of us who find ourselves on the wrong side of 50, even if only by a couple of years.

But I did have the satisfaction of some validation from my current SB recently. Started out by her asking whether she appeared older or younger than the characters in the show we were streaming. I told her that her looks allow her a lot of flexibility. She can easily look her 20-something age, or with the right outfit and / or makeup, shoot for young-30-something and pull that off too.

I turned it around and asked her what she'd guess my age would be if she didn't already know. I was happy to hear that she'd peg me at 47/48. I took it one step further and asked what my age group my personality and demeanor would suggest. For that, she said that once she'd gotten to know me, I seemed more like a 30-something to her. Or maybe an upper-30-something because "you have your act together".

I guess I wouldn't go so far as to call that "game", as the term is used here, especially since she's correct in that it takes awhile to really get to know my personality and shed some age-related preconceptions. But it's certainly part of what "game" is trying to accomplish: reduce that age barrier.

Anyway, nothing terribly new there, but was a satisfying moment.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bd43dece-db54-4b30-8567-7c0e66bcc5b7[/URL]

Been talking to this one, anyone have experience with her?

Hi I am from Michigan and thought I would answer here because of the high traffick. So from what I have been reading I know it's an uphill battle if someone is on Seeking and is just universally unattractive so my point being is I am an unattractive overweight guy who is willing to spend more than the average sugar daddy, so if I offer hot sugarbabes more money will I have a chance to get intimate with them.

[QUOTE=HotHot;4028218][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bd43dece-db54-4b30-8567-7c0e66bcc5b7[/URL]

Been talking to this one, anyone have experience with her?[/QUOTE]Haven't met her, but she quoted me $$$ 8 for the first date and said she was willing to go down to $$$ on the second date if I gave it to her good. LOL she sounds like a legit college girl but she's runnin the kitty like a pro. Good luck and let me know if you have a nice time.

[QUOTE=FirstTry;4030086]Hi I am from Michigan and thought I would answer here because of the high traffick. So from what I have been reading I know it's an uphill battle if someone is on Seeking and is just universally unattractive so my point being is I am an unattractive overweight guy who is willing to spend more than the average sugar daddy, so if I offer hot sugarbabes more money will I have a chance to get intimate with them.[/QUOTE]First, be nice. They want to be treated with respect. Second, pick a girl who has her own idea of what her arrangement will be like... I'm saying pick one who is realistic and wants to have a set schedule and is willing to be committed to you in a monogamous agreement. Thats what SA is for, to keep you from using hookers that see tons of guys! Third, If you want to stay with one girl who can take care of you and not be meeting a bunch of guys, her looks and perfect body will matter less to you than her willingness to be a fun partner. Fourth, don't offer a ton of money for her to go to the FC. Start talking to her about how much a month will be coming out of your wallet to make sure she is happy. Emphasize that you are always a reliable payer and a good daddy if she treats you right. Don't act desperate, that turns women off and they'll shut you down. Remember that you are one of a thousand fat ugly guys that they'll have sex with if you are a good guy and pay them for their time.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4464cd2b-b55c-40d7-8264-5dc8230d5658[/URL]

Who can give a review of this baby? I heard she likes to play.

Uptick in babies communicating. Before the weekend, had probably one to two prospects, after about 10 and the weekend is not over. Had one willing to meet at my place at 1 am, that felt desperate on her end. Anyway Christmas is coming in more ways than one!!

[QUOTE=HotHot;4028218][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bd43dece-db54-4b30-8567-7c0e66bcc5b7[/URL]

Been talking to this one, anyone have experience with her?[/QUOTE]I met her when she came to Charlottesville. $300 plus cheap hotel room.

Pretty face, great bod -- long legs and rack as advertised.

Nice BBBJ, cums easily and often. Very squeaky girly voice, which I found annoying.

MSOG. Semi pro single mom for sure.

I have had a few GPS experiences lately that made me wonder what the girls were thinking. I would like to offer more than the obvious. There are some submissive girls who consider themselves 'brats', they want to be recalcitrant and be forced to comply. I have been messaging w / one who was asking for the moon (200 just to meet, for example) but when I started heavy on her w / how I was her dom, etc. She suddenly came to hand. So, that's one approach if you are messaging w / a girl who is giving you GPS. Even if you have no inkling she is submissive, it is so common on the site, you should never assume she is not. The other type is the girl who fantasized that she wants to be a sugar baby, but in her heart / subconscious can't really do it. The way to get a profile on the site and offer that up, try it on for size, etc. Without really being committed to do it is to ask for the moon, that no SD will ever meet. I think these you just move on from.

Everyone has heard the old joke: Guy is in a bar, a girls comes in and he asks her 'would you sleep with me for a million dollars? She replies 'sure, I guess so'. He follows with 'would you sleep with me for a hundred dollars?; and she retorts 'what kind of a girl do you think I am?' He says, rightly, 'we've already established that, we are just haggling about the price'. If a girl really wants ridiculous sums to FC w / me, well, that really shows what she thinks of me, which is not much. I am in the bowl b / c I want someone who is actually going to be into it, and not be there just for the buck. I have found that, many times. I also just have high standards. I once said here my life goal is to fuck as much *high quality* p* as I can, and I am moving in that direction. FFA.

[QUOTE=HotHot;4028218][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bd43dece-db54-4b30-8567-7c0e66bcc5b7[/URL]

Been talking to this one, anyone have experience with her?[/QUOTE]Sometime back she sent me a message for my reply 'someone told her I am not as generous as they want'.

They must be some inter communication channels for them!

From the other post on this girl, looks like I am generous enough with 300 per meet what I usually offer most hot ones.

I guess not this one since know more about her now!

I have some I regularly see which I am very happy with almost all are 8 to 10 in scale, now I am talking to a fresh face who says doesn't want to go all the way but do 'other things'.

Settled on compensation waiting for the meet next week, She is smoking hot and young my hunch is she might be the younger sister of one of my current SB's. Looks exactly like her!

I have had a lot of weird experiences on SA, but the weirdest thing so far happened few days ago that I wanted to share. I messaged this 20 yr college girl who put up the profile few days ago. It was a premium profile. Just one stock photo, standard college profile stuff, mentorship, tuition support etc. Listed as Asian. Thought it was fake but contacted her with my standard message. Here is the conversation:

Her: how are you?

Me: I am very good. How about you?

Her: You look sexy is the profile photo. I need more photos of you.

Me: Lets chat a bit here. I will send you more.

Her: Nice! To be straight, I have an incredible body and love older men. Spoil me, and I will fuck you like you have never fucked before.

Me: Wow! Now I am wondering if you are real.

Her: Call me xxx-xxx-xxxx. Ill show you.

Now I know she / he is playing a game. Anyway, for some stupid reason I called her (from my burner phone). I talked to her about 10 min. She had Asian accent (probably Indian). She said she was born here. In college pre-med, track (junior). I asked bit more about college, she really sounded like a college kid based on her answers. She wanted to set up a meet next day, and we could have fun at her apartment. I asked her about that message, she said she liked teasing. Then she asked if I like more photos. I said yes. I hung up. There comes a number of naughty photos. Nice curvy body. And she was saying how bad she wants to fuck me, how wet she is etc. Then I noticed a call from her. I did't pick. Then comes a text saying she badly needs some phone sex with me. I thought about it for about 10 min. Little head took over. I called her. I have had few phone sex sessions in the fast, but this was the best so far. She was telling me everything she was doing, sound etc. Lasted for about 10 min until I unloaded. She wanted to set up a meet next day, and was going to text me the address. There was no mention of allowance or anything for phone sex or meet up. I texted her right away to set up meet. She didn't text me. After about hour I logged on to SA, and noted she blocked me. Through my other account I confirmed she she was still online, but blocked me. I texted her why she blocked me. After about an hour she texted saying somebody reported her, so the account was inactivated. She was trying to fix. I know she lied, because she was online at that time. I texted few more times next few days, she never replied. I called her to check out. It went to voice mail. Interesting the voice mail greeting tells here real name. The same voice of the girl I had phone sex with. I did some some search with the name. I confirmed everything she said was true including her school, major, where she lives. I left a message she never replied. This is puzzling to me. If she blocked me on SA, why she did't block my number. Why the hell she gave me a free phone sex session if she didn't want to see me? Is that what she wants. Just have phone sex with a random guy and then block him. I am still scratching my head. I really want to bang her though. Not sure how I go about it. Create a new SA profile and contact her and use a different number? But not have phone sex (she will recognize my voice). I thought I have seen everything is SA. Apparently not!

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.