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[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c0cb5702cf113ea1[/URL]
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Has anyone had any contact with the profile below? We exchanged messages but schedules have not been able to sync.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c0cb5702cf113ea1[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/be448ba2-9afb-4904-b720-12fd3cd97612[/URL]
Anyone try this MILF?
I exchanged messages with her. Pics are pretty dated and seemed like a bit of a dud.
[QUOTE=SavageThing;6676768][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/be448ba2-9afb-4904-b720-12fd3cd97612[/URL]
Anyone try this MILF?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=SavageThing;6676768][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/be448ba2-9afb-4904-b720-12fd3cd97612[/URL]
Anyone try this MILF?[/QUOTE]MILF means "I'd like to fuck".
That chick's forehead is the largest I have ever seen, like she is out of some 1950's Alien movie, and not one of the humans.
[QUOTE=Swimmer123;6676726]Have chatted and almost met with her for a ppm. That being said, a few points: 1. She has a lot of old modeling pics up, she doesn't look like that anymore. She's cute, but not in her modeling prime anymore. 2. Ppm will run you 6 ish. She's not cheap. 3. I also like to establish expectations with SB's upfront. Some consider 1 round a completed arrangement. Seeking girls are trying to get the most money for the least amount of work, always keep this in mind. She did NOT like going into my specifics. She liked to "go with the flow", that's code for them running out the clock so they can take their money and go. Given all that I passed. I have some SB I can just tell how many rounds I want and everything that I want done and they don't blink. That's the ideal.[/QUOTE]I've tried chatting with her a couple of times and she is pretty close to insane IMHO. She def has some mental demons. But based on her most recent insta and snap stories, she is looking pretty good right now. But idk if I could deal with her personality disorders.
This is her bio:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8b6401c4-474e-4011-9e16-61a42ef9241c[/URL]
She will start with good coms, then the sob stories will start to pile up just as she starts to ask you for $5 here and $10 there for "food and snacks for the kid"or whatever.
Is anyone aware of any discount codes?
My membership expired and I'd like to renew it. Usually I'm offered a 20% discount just about every time I log in, but now that I'd actually like to renew the offers aren't forthcoming.
[QUOTE=LikesGirls;6678607]Is anyone aware of any discount codes?
My membership expired and I'd like to renew it. Usually I'm offered a 20% discount just about every time I log in, but now that I'd actually like to renew the offers aren't forthcoming.[/QUOTE]This worked for me a couple weeks ago.
ABANFAV33.
[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6678620]This worked for me a couple weeks ago.
ABANFAV33.[/QUOTE]Perfect. Good discount, too. Thank you.
Just had a weird experience: spoke to someone with a new account all morning, then the account went offline; looks to have been banned. But a new account cropped up with one of the same pictures and the same account name; figured she had problems with the first one and made another one rather than troubleshoot (happened before).
The odd bit: this new account is clearly a bullshit scammer account. They barely speak English and the vibe is completely different.
My current hypothesis: a scammer found a legit new account, reported it to get it banned, then opened a new one with the same pic to try and scam people. Anyone seen anything similar?
UPDATE: The new account blocked me when I called them on it. Reported, and pinged the original on social media, if only to confirm if both were fake or just the second one.
Link to the fake profile: [url]https://members.seeking.com/member/7c3b6093-5e51-492c-b444-7dea5fe23882[/url]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/db77b924-ef76-4571-8965-ab1fd1433bf3[/URL]
Nice girl, very pretty, great attitude but her PPM expectations are very high at $1100
Almost met with her, I worked her down to 600. Pretty and nice, but at that allowance range there is younger and prettier. The play their game, we play ours.
[QUOTE=LikesGirls;6681162][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/db77b924-ef76-4571-8965-ab1fd1433bf3[/URL]
Nice girl, very pretty, great attitude but her PPM expectations are very high at $1100[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=LikesGirls;6681162][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/db77b924-ef76-4571-8965-ab1fd1433bf3[/URL]
Nice girl, very pretty, great attitude but her PPM expectations are very high at $1100[/QUOTE]$1100?? Out of her GD mind.
I also could not get her to go below 700.
[QUOTE=ElectricHug;6681199]$1100?? Out of her GD mind.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=ElectricHug;6681199]$1100?? Out of her GD mind.[/QUOTE]Obviously it was a starting point, I'm sure she didn't expect me to say yes to that amount. But that's a long way from what I had in mind so we parted ways amicably.
This would be a good time to calibrate on what's a reasonable and realistic range of allowance in Raleigh area for a 2-3 hour meeting. Is 300-400 good enough?
[QUOTE=LikesGirls;6681276]Obviously it was a starting point, I'm sure she didn't expect me to say yes to that amount. But that's a long way from what I had in mind so we parted ways amicably.[/QUOTE]
It's more complicated than it used to be. Depends on her looks and how long she's been on. The longer she's been on the higher her expectations. You can low ball them when they are really new and don't know the market value. But after a while they eventually get a one time whale payment and that sets their new bar. Then they want over market. I'm mid 30's decent looking guy, decent game. I'd say generally attractive girls who know they are attractive won't take less than 500. I'm more inclined to say the attractive girl average is 5-600 first meet. Attraction is subjective but the ones I shoot for it's that. Really hot / attractive you can scoop for 800. This is all for a first meet. After a first meet you can negotiate more I've found. But the hot girls know they are hot and are looking for 600 for a first meet. I look for 4-5 hour to overnight meets though, multiple rounds. I don't even bother with meet and greet, come right to the room or I don't bother. So my requests require a premium to an extent. There are some insane ones looking for 1 k, especially in Charlotte. Charlotte is feeling the GPS for the hot ones. Don't get pissed saying I'm pushing the numbers up, I'm not, that's just the going rate for the hot ones now.
[QUOTE=Wizoz56;6681295]This would be a good time to calibrate on what's a reasonable and realistic range of allowance in Raleigh area for a 2-3 hour meeting. Is 300-400 good enough?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Wizoz56;6681295]This would be a good time to calibrate on what's a reasonable and realistic range of allowance in Raleigh area for a 2-3 hour meeting. Is 300-400 good enough?[/QUOTE]I almost exclusively play in the $300-$500 range and this gets me fun / hot encounters with early 20's college students / grad students / young professionals with hot bodies.
There are a lot of variables to consider as well as whole lot of randomness.
I've met women from SA who refused to accept money; they just wanted casual sex.
I've met women from SA who claimed to get $5 K per month from a guy from the site.
There is also a ton of competition for the most desirable ladies. They are getting lots of messages and lots of offers. I don't think there is anything wrong with offering something that gets you noticed if you're after the models. That's capitalism.
All of us are after the unicorn. They exist but it may take a lot of patience.
Bachelor1234.
[QUOTE=LikesGirls;6681162][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/db77b924-ef76-4571-8965-ab1fd1433bf3[/URL]
Nice girl, very pretty, great attitude but her PPM expectations are very high at $1100[/QUOTE]1100,600, 700? Damn! She has upped her game a lot since I saw her. I feel like I practically got a pity fuck at this point!
Of course now I see why she didn't want to repeat with me. She is definitely a good looking and very cool girl. I would absolutely see her again and make it a regular thing but not at what you guys are getting quoted.
[QUOTE=Wizoz56;6681295]This would be a good time to calibrate on what's a reasonable and realistic range of allowance in Raleigh area for a 2-3 hour meeting. Is 300-400 good enough?[/QUOTE]I've been sticking to the 300-500 range. I would occasionally extend that but honestly some of my best experiences have been at the 300 mark. Unfortunately it seems to be a rarity now, at least for me. It seems lately like most girls won't entertain anything less than 500 or 600.
Some of the girls on SA have ultra high expectations in exchange for what they are bringing to the table. On the other hand, if a hot girl is throwing out a high number and guys are willing to pay I can't knock her game at all. Supply and demand is definitely in play for this marketplace but so is the law of diminishing returns.
I wonder how the other side of the equation plays into the amount that gets quoted, that is, if one is relatively fit, better than average looking, with decent conversation skills one probably gets better deal.
[QUOTE=Bh400;6681478]I've been sticking to the 300-500 range. I would occasionally extend that but honestly some of my best experiences have been at the 300 mark. Unfortunately it seems to be a rarity now, at least for me. It seems lately like most girls won't entertain anything less than 500 or 600.
Some of the girls on SA have ultra high expectations in exchange for what they are bringing to the table. On the other hand, if a hot girl is throwing out a high number and guys are willing to pay I can't knock her game at all. Supply and demand is definitely in play for this marketplace but so is the law of diminishing returns.[/QUOTE]
Has anyone here ever had a Public Meet Up and / or Arrangement with blueyedgirl07?
Back when I used to be very active, I'd constantly see her on that site, and she's been on SA for several years. From memory, always had this same pic. I have talked with her in the past on seeking, but when it came time to exchanging numbers or taking the convo outside SA, it always fell through. Just curious if anyone has seen her and what was she like in terms of IRL personality, chemistry, PPM, etc.
[QUOTE=Wizoz56;6681510]I wonder how the other side of the equation plays into the amount that gets quoted, that is, if one is relatively fit, better than average looking, with decent conversation skills one probably gets better deal.[/QUOTE]I suspect the SD's overall attitude and demeanor play an important role too.
[QUOTE=Wizoz56;6681295]This would be a good time to calibrate on what's a reasonable and realistic range of allowance in Raleigh area for a 2-3 hour meeting. Is 300-400 good enough?[/QUOTE]300 is getting harder and harder to make work, unless you are doing it as some kind of implied consistent allowance (so say $1200 a month to meet once a week).
350-500 does work well though. Like some of my friends in this thread, that has been getting me hot chicks in their early to mid twenties. I had a smoking hot 21 yo asian chick for about a year who would do overnights for 500. Anything above that level here and they either have to be extremely hot or you are doing something wrong in your approach.
That Gigi chick is out of her god damn fucking mind if she thinks she's a $700 chick nevermind four figures. I'm an average looking dude in my 50's and I match with chicks as hot if not hotter than her on vanilla dating apps. So why the fuck would I pay her? I would hesitate to even drop 350 on her. Unless you're in your 70's with a personality disorder you should never have to drop that on a weak chick like her.
For the less hot chicks, I have had some decent success getting consistent sex just for treating them nicely. I have also had some good success now getting sugar babies on the vanilla dating apps and those generally have lower gps as they aren't being messaged by hundreds of dudes on seeking. Easier for me to play that game being single, I know many of you are married and that is a riskier approach.
[QUOTE=SaintMan3500;6676095]Has anyone here seen Adessa1? She's been on Seeking Arrangements for More Than 5 YEARS, & has a large ESSAY of a profile. Looks wise, her PFP does look very attractive.
From pure Memory: I did reach out to her 2-3 years ago. And she was communicative in terms of text. At the time she wanted something substantial in terms of Money for a M&G. I decided not to meet due to IRL stuff and things beyond my control.[/QUOTE]I saw her during the height of Covid, like February-June 2020,3 times in a nice RDU hotel. You are right, she had a real bohemian vibe. We got along great, no M&G was required, straight to the FC. She stayed about 2 1/2 - 3 hours. I thing we drank, smoked some weed, had Chinese food & drank. Allowance was $400, tried to get her to take $300, when she wouldn't, I had 4-5 in my rotation at the time at $200-$300 & ghosted her.
Two of my buddies saw her before me. One had her drive to Fayetteville and gave her an extra $100, for the driving. She had put on just a couple of pounds since the first pic, more like the last two, but still great body. The sex was great, might have been BBBJ, CFS, loved to kiss & went nuts with DATY, got to love a cheering section. MSOG.
If I was going to see her again, I'd want to do a M&G, but only if unpaid. I don't do paid M&Gs. Only done a few, with the understanding if we click, right to my hotel for adult fun. This ain't Christian Mingle! LOL.
Good luck if you see her, love to see what you think.
[QUOTE=Ral613;6676758]Has anyone had any contact with the profile below? We exchanged messages but schedules have not been able to sync.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c0cb5702cf113ea1[/URL][/QUOTE]Any intel gentlemen?
[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6681774]
That Gigi chick is out of her god damn fucking mind if she thinks she's a $700 chick nevermind four figures. I'm an average looking dude in my 50's and I match with chicks as hot if not hotter than her on vanilla dating apps. So why the fuck would I pay her? I would hesitate to even drop 350 on her. [/QUOTE]Exactly, that's what I was getting at.
[QUOTE=ElectricHug;6682263]Exactly, that's what I was getting at.[/QUOTE]It;'s funny because I had chatted with her thinking she might be cheap or even free but she didn't have conversation skills either so didn't even find out this comical ask.
Chick:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/19266bbb-5ff3-4b23-87aa-80ba20b7d5bb[/URL]
This one was really aggressive and angry during texts, but I ended up setting up a meet early next week. Today, she just blocked me with no explanation. Don't waste your time.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e60cefc6-f731-4e49-99b2-4c52a6892946[/URL]
Doesn't live in Raleigh, but rather out between Winston and Greensboro. It was funny because she mentioned she was "willing to drive up to 40 minutes," but her actual location is already an hour+ away from her listed one (Raleigh). I wish this trend of SBs putting fake locations would end; my search radius is set to how far I'm willing to drive.
This Gigi girl quoted me $700 and I walked off. Like most have said the amount depends on the girls, I always propose than asking them for a number because I find that that they will start high and then you have to negotiate which I hate. I go with $300-$400 and have had lot of success. I have only paid $500 to two women who I really had the hots for and they were worth it.
The girls I go for are in the late 20's or early 30's, professional women. I find the younger chicks in early 20's are not very dependable and likely to ghost. I also avoid the pros. These women are usually happy with that amount. I don't bother with model type or super attractive as they would likely have a GPS. Funny enough I have had some average girls quote me 1 k and 1. 5 k for ppm.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2b8674e7-b5c7-4045-a36d-afa998d839c0[/URL]
Another one that wants $1 k ppm. I am tempted to set up a meet and greet at a comedy club and tell her to go on stage and tell more of her jokes there.
Gents please tell me none of you are giving bang average chicks like her this kind of $.
[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6683989][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2b8674e7-b5c7-4045-a36d-afa998d839c0[/URL]
Another one that wants $1 k ppm. I am tempted to set up a meet and greet at a comedy club and tell her to go on stage and tell more of her jokes there.
Gents please tell me none of you are giving bang average chicks like her this kind of $.[/QUOTE]" I've been told I have high standards". I bet tf she has smh. I'd give her 5 for an overnight.
[QUOTE=PurpleMango;6684188]" I've been told I have high standards". I bet tf she has smh. I'd give her 5 for an overnight.[/QUOTE]Not meaning to throw my friend under the bus, he'll read my response, but he paid 700 for 3 hrs with Bunny for two sessions with her.
Bunny is testing the market in the Triangle area.
My friend is a lurker and I wish he would join some of these discussions because the guys I have talked to have relocated from areas like LA, Chicago, New York and San Francisco.
Tell me it's insulting to try to keep the price at 300 - 400 ppm.
I don't agree with that I think the gentlemen moving into the Triangle are changing the market rate for ppm.
Example I had a waitress from Kenly, NC tell me that to just meet her was a 100 dollars plus dinner and if she decided.
We would do more than it would be 500 ppm for an hour. Does anyone know how much the starting hourly salary is for someone that works at HWY 55? I know it can't be a 500 dollars an hour.
We are the customer, customer is always right, don't negotiate dumb shit with them. Your contribution is the allowance, that's all you have to do. Any more hoops and they can take a hike. I make my offer, it's for the FC, nothing else. I don't want dinner, will occasionally make an exception for drinks. Always be ready to walk, you get your power back when you are. They want / need your money more then you need them. Give them your offer, say "I'll remain interested, let me know if you change your mind", and then walk. About 50% of the time they come back and drop their bullshit. This is the attitude you need to have, don't fall in love with any particular one.
[QUOTE=NiteLifed69;6685050]Not meaning to throw my friend under the bus, he'll read my response, but he paid 700 for 3 hrs with Bunny for two sessions with her.
Bunny is testing the market in the Triangle area.
My friend is a lurker and I wish he would join some of these discussions because the guys I have talked to have relocated from areas like LA, Chicago, New York and San Francisco.
Tell me it's insulting to try to keep the price at 300 - 400 ppm.
I don't agree with that I think the gentlemen moving into the Triangle are changing the market rate for ppm.
Example I had a waitress from Kenly, NC tell me that to just meet her was a 100 dollars plus dinner and if she decided.
We would do more than it would be 500 ppm for an hour. Does anyone know how much the starting hourly salary is for someone that works at HWY 55? I know it can't be a 500 dollars an hour.[/QUOTE]I know I'm new here and yall can take what I say with a grain of salt. But I have never paid a girl more than 400 unless it was for an overnight. I've done my research. Thanks to this website and others. I feel like 3-4 is a sweet spot. Last girl I saw was 450 for BBFS for an overnight. I gave her an extra 50 for a plan b pill bc I cip. I'm a decent looking dude in his 40's so YMMV but still. I've had pretty good success being a decent human being and being straightforward w my intentions. These girls know what's up. They know we're in it for sex, they're in it for money. Find a girl who thinks you're decent looking, throw her some cash, and you're golden.
[QUOTE=NiteLifed69;6685050]Not meaning to throw my friend under the bus, he'll read my response, but he paid 700 for 3 hrs with Bunny for two sessions with her.
Bunny is testing the market in the Triangle area.
My friend is a lurker and I wish he would join some of these discussions because the guys I have talked to have relocated from areas like LA, Chicago, New York and San Francisco[/QUOTE]Tell your buddy (or he can read here) he can pay me $300 an hour for lessons on how to get these girls for 400 a meet. After a couple of meets he will be ahead.
Bro whoever you are I feel sorry you felt the need to give a mediocre chick in this area that much money. You overpaid.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/01fd237b-7571-4036-8717-f39d675d914b[/URL]
Does anyone have any experience with her? Would love to know how she is. Feel free to DM if preferred.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/7GBPdRga0r9vkDm5Q2On6DwW[/URL]
Talked for a week, made plans, confirmed plans 15 minutes before we were to be at the restaurant. Ghosted. Avoid.
Any information on this lady will be appreciated. PM is fine.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/856db8ad-c770-4fe6-bf39-301361f4b423[/URL]