Things are definitely looking up!
My brothers (Mandy included) ,
I got back into town last night after a lovely long weekend of RandR, and was delighted to read all the posts on the various exploits, considered opinions, and helpful advice from you all. This has got to be the Greatest Thread In The World, right?
Joe, by now you are on the other side of your overnight, and I am certain it was all you hoped for and most probably more. If you are like I was after my first, you are sitting quietly somewhere, staring out the window with a silly grin on your face. Please share when you are able to make coherent sentences!
George, welcome to the Bowl. It sounds like you may have had a little experience under your belt already, but as we all can attest, you never stop learning or polishing your game. Nando and the rest have commented eloquently on the issue of sugar, monogamy, personal revelations etc, so I will refrain from adding my two cents with one exception, which is to second the cautionary statement about revealing [I][B]anything[/B][/I] to a Nando 1. There is just no upside in it. It will not engender trust, closer feelings, greater intimacy or anything like that. The only thing it does is expose you to potentially catastrophic trouble. Someone mentioned the difficulty in maintaining their alter-ego, and while I agree to a point, it is also paramount to understand the level of baby you are playing with. If you can't stay under deep cover, don't mess with the 1's.
As for me, I had a lovely morning talking with a trusted friend, and am hoping that continues to be a constant as our schedules allow.
Brit and I are arranging a play date for next week, when the Mater will be safely back in Texas.
Polo is back in the on-deck circle, though no firm arrangement has been made, the week being almost over and me not being an eccentric millionaire but in reality someone who has to work from time to time. She has promised to bring some of her favorite toys to our next get-together, so that is something to look forward to. She also tells me that the recent sunshine we have had has upped her freckle count somewhat, so a thorough examination is clearly in order.
As predicted, Cherokee princess has dived down her burrow again, and is refusing all my entreaties to come out and play. I am going to proceed here as if it were an impossibility, and just something that is amusing to pursue as time and inclination allows. If she comes to the net, all to the good. If not, I will not sweat it.
My ATF and I have plans to get together on Friday for lunch and, if all goes well, a little hide-and-seek at the new apartment. I did not want to burden you all with my insecurities, but I had really thought she was gone for good this time, but apparently she was just overwhelmed with the move, work, end of school and so forth. I'm so relieved.
Keep up the excellent work, my friends. I look forward to hearing of your escapades!
Scott
Could this be our clubhouse t-shirt?
[QUOTE=Hernando;1444195]I have never had bad sex with anyone, some are just better than others.[/QUOTE]Nando,
Yet again, you strike to the heart of the matter. Sometimes I wish I weren't Irish, and so could be a little more pithy. I also agree with your statement that entering into any new relationship is a combination of anticipation and anxiety. We just don't know how things will turn out until they turn out. Hope for the best, and give the baby a chance, or maybe two. What did Joe say a while back, something about it being just like real life, only we both know it's pure fantasy? To me, that encapsulates the reality that it is both ours and the baby's responsibility to preserve and contribute to the relationship / illusion. My ATF calls our time together "vacations". I like that.
Scott
I've got a Stage 5 Clinger.
Ok, maybe it's not quite that bad, but my overnight with Unemployed Sugar Baby (USB), though very nice, was not without drama.
I picked her up Monday after work, and she looked absolutely amazing. Her hot, form fitting dress was just about the perfect mix of sexy and classy, and her fuck me pumps were whispering my name all night. We stopped at the hotel so I could change, and as much as I wanted to get down to business right there, we had dinner reservations nearby that kept us on our best behavior. Dinner was wonderful--great conversation, flirty looks and touches, amazing food. We passed on dessert because we were both stuffed, but also because we were both eager to return to the room. The indoor fun began almost as soon as the hotel room door closed behind us. Oh. My. God. This girl is an absolute freak. I have to admit I was a little intimidated by her in the first few minutes; I'm good at following directions, but she was shouting out orders like a drill sergeant. Not normally my cup of tea, but since it was clear every possible option was on the menu, I happily got into it. And this is not to imply that the entire show was about her. She was very concerned with ensuring that I was having a good time as well.
After a marathon of a session, we decided to relax for a while. She wanted to get out of the room again, so we walked over to the nearby casino for some drinks and people watching (neither of us is much of a gambler). It was there that the trouble, if you want to call it that, started. She clearly had had a good time to this point in the evening, as had I, and while thanking me for arranging everything, she said,"I really like you, and I'm worried about your home life, because you seem unhappy. I would hate to lose you."
Given that we were in a public place, I tried to avoid a scene, but I was astonished. I am not unhappy at home, and I have consciously tried to avoid giving her the impression that I am. And she would hate to lose me? I admit that I look for an emotional connection with a SB, but this is moving way too fast, way too early. We've only been meeting up about a month.
I think I was able to handle it diplomatically at the time by trying to acknowledge her feelings while noting that she really shouldn't be concerned. But it put a damper on the rest of the night, at least for me. And I'm not so sure she got the message. I like spending time with her (and did I mention that she's a freak in bed?), but we will have to discuss this before we meet again. As much as I like the GFE, I can't have a clinger. There is absolutely no circumstance under which USB could ever, ever become anything more than a SB.
On another front, and perhaps in a bit of fortuitous timing, I had a second M&G with the 23 year-old hot SB (SB23). We met at a sushi lounge that she picked for its more intimate setting, and it turned out to be a nice choice. Some of you may recall that I was a bit concerned about her age and possible immaturity, but every time I talk with her, those concerns subside even more. She definitely has her head on straight. The conversation was very nice, if a little forward. She has said she hasn't done this before, though I'm not so sure I believe that, and she wanted to know what I was looking for and what she could expect. I gave an honest, straightforward answer, as did she to my probing questions. The topic of an allowance came up, and I think I avoided pinning myself down about as well as I could. In the end, I think we both have similar expectations, and I see things progressing very nicely.
SB23 told me at the end of our first M&G last week that, if we met again, she had a "surprise" for me. Honestly, I had forgotten all about that, but she announced last night that she's a dancer at a local club. Check please. My ATF is a dancer, and I tend to gravitate to dancers for some reason. So, it wasn't that much of a "surprise," but I'm glad she felt comfortable enough to tell me. Overall, the evening was very nice. We had good conversation, and as the night progressed, she kept sliding closer to me on the couch, touching me in that flirty way that a girl touches a guy when she laughs or wants to emphasize something she's saying. It was very cute.
If forced to chose between the two (and I eventually want to focus on only one), I think SB23 has much more promise than USB. SB23 has a couple of jobs, which earns significant bonus points, and she doesn't exhibit any of the signs (that, in retrospect, I should have seen in USB) that she's prone to overly-emotional involvements. So, wish me luck as I try to cool things off with USB and ramp things up with SB23.
As always, I enjoy reading the commentary here, so keep up the good work.
Regards,
Joe
