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Does the VIP special mean "special" 1 on1 time with FS? Is that the case? I just don't want to pay 180 to get blue balls only.

Obviously I'm new here.

I read those who put "NO MEETUPS" in their IG bio as code for they definitely provide in the club, just not outside the club. And I'm sure for the right price some will OTC despite saying that.

[QUOTE=CaseyX;6389099]Typical. Lani does has plenty of pictures on her instagram that don't seem enhanced. As for the original question, I've VIPed with her and had are rated fun never was offered FS or CBJ. Doesn't mean that she doesn't do it but I haven't asked.[/QUOTE]

I have found "no meetups" a couple of times also meant no meetups in the club.

I generally steer clear of no meetup declaring dancers. They may be a dancer only with a legit serious boyfriend / girlfriend on the side, or they just have an attitude.

[QUOTE=Roland2418;6392450]I read those who put "NO MEETUPS" in their IG bio as code for they definitely provide in the club, just not outside the club. And I'm sure for the right price some will OTC despite saying that.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Roland2418;6392450]I read those who put "NO MEETUPS" in their IG bio as code for they definitely provide in the club, just not outside the club. And I'm sure for the right price some will OTC despite saying that.[/QUOTE]I'm working on an OTC with a popular Synn dancer right now. She texted me to ask if we can meet up and spend time together. We discussed time and rate then she suddenly ghosted me. I checked Synn's roll call and it showed she was working. My guess is that she made a killing that night and then changed her mind on our date. This is why I don't do OTC with strippers because they are so flakey. They don't have a sense of commitment in doing outcalls especially the ones making good money stripping. Most of them don't want to go through the trouble which is why they work in COI clubs. If I went through on a date with her, I wouldn't expect her to know the basic outcalls standards and etiquette.

[QUOTE=TheSkinnyPete;6392388]Does the VIP special mean "special" 1 on1 time with FS? Is that the case? I just don't want to pay 180 to get blue balls only.

Obviously I'm new here.[/QUOTE]A VIP "special" or room rate guarantees you absolutely nothing except time in a room with the dancer, & probably a clothed lap dance (not air dance). Although you will likely be disappointed by failing to get even that on an occasion or five before your monger career is over. "Specials" are just a selling device to get more customers a) paying to get into the club, and b) paying to get into the VIP room. Yes, you pay a little less, but if you spend when you otherwise wouldn't, they profit.

Full service is never offered, promoted or guaranteed, esp by the club. The biggest mistake any monger can make is assuming it's a given with any particular stripper on any particular day for any particular price, like you're ordering off the value menu. That's prostitution & illegal in this state. You're buying the dancers' time, and if some "off menu" deal is reached between you & her, you will likely get it but you are making an illegal and unenforceable deal, don't be looking to management for a refund because she wouldn't touch your throbber.

I wish "new" users were the only one making this mistake, but read these forums long enough and you'll see it a lot from guys who should know better. It's like buying a used car from the shadiest of dealers: you need to work the art of the deal, get a clear promise & price before you spend a cent, and make them happy (enough) with the deal you've sold them so they deliver the goods. Practice makes perfect. Reporting your adventures & getting feedback is the best way to learn if you're making a good deal or bad. Good luck to you.

[QUOTE=PelicanT99;6392930]A VIP "special" or room rate guarantees you absolutely nothing except time in a room with the dancer, & probably a clothed lap dance (not air dance). Although you will likely be disappointed by failing to get even that on an occasion or five before your monger career is over. "Specials" are just a selling device to get more customers a) paying to get into the club, and b) paying to get into the VIP room. Yes, you pay a little less, but if you spend when you otherwise wouldn't, they profit.

Full service is never offered, promoted or guaranteed, esp by the club. The biggest mistake any monger can make is assuming it's a given with any particular stripper on any particular day for any particular price, like you're ordering off the value menu. That's prostitution & illegal in this state. You're buying the dancers' time, and if some "off menu" deal is reached between you & her, you will likely get it but you are making an illegal and unenforceable deal, don't be looking to management for a refund because she wouldn't touch your throbber.

I wish "new" users were the only one making this mistake, but read these forums long enough and you'll see it a lot from guys who should know better. It's like buying a used car from the shadiest of dealers: you need to work the art of the deal, get a clear promise & price before you spend a cent, and make them happy (enough) with the deal you've sold them so they deliver the goods. Practice makes perfect. Reporting your adventures & getting feedback is the best way to learn if you're making a good deal or bad. Good luck to you.[/QUOTE]That's one of the big lessons I've learned over the years as well. Just because one guy did or did not get a type of service or extra at a particular price, doesn't mean another guy will or won't get the same. I think in the strip club arena, it's mostly a matter of timing and / or mood. She may or may not like your look / smell / attitude ect, or she may be in a different mood / situation than what she was in yesterday, which could make all the difference in what she will or won't be willing to provide today. It's always nice to hear about a performer who has gone the extra mile to please, but I never assume that I'm guaranteed to get the same performance at the same price.

Heck, I'm the same way. I'm always competent, but some days I'm really gung-ho and my perfomance is at 100%, and some days, I'm operating at 80%, which is generally enough to get the job done, but nothing outstanding.

[QUOTE=PelicanT99;6392930]A VIP "special" or room rate guarantees you absolutely nothing except time in a room with the dancer, & probably a clothed lap dance (not air dance). [/QUOTE]It really depends on the type of club you're at. In nude clubs, the VIP room are nude lap dances. In an alcohol club, it clothed lap dances.

[QUOTE=PelicanT99;6392930] "Specials" are just a selling device to get more customers a) paying to get into the club, and b) paying to get into the VIP room. Yes, you pay a little less, but if you spend when you otherwise wouldn't, they profit. [/QUOTE]In the case of Kim clubs, special may get you no savings at all. For example, Synn will advertise buy one VIP, get next one for half price with the same dancer. If you do the math that $180 for 30 min. Their regular half hour VIP is $180. You save nothing. Be careful when you at a Kim's club they are clip joints.

Fortunate or unfortunate enough, depends on how you see it. I have been able to have OTC fun with some Synn Dancers. 2 of them are indeed A+ lookers (eye candy). Nice dinner, drinks and some FS fun for a decent buck $. Nothing crazy or outrageous was reque $ted. On the other hand I also had a similar experience with another dancer that the first time we settled for a reasonable amount but after the 3rd time she wanted 7 XX for couple of hours and another dancer asked me for 8 xx / Per hour. The obvious answer was hell no! I've haven't been to Synn almost this entire year. I've been heading to SRCoi and with a 110 retreat 20 min I've had great GFE with some new cuties for a $50-100 tip, which was NOT requested. And the beauty of SRCoi for me, at least, is that it's a bit pricy but cleaner, don't have to worry about waitress harassing me over buying drinks, nor do I worry about someone keeping my change. I've had never been there until this year but still I'm puzzled why is almost always empty, lots of parking, more educated and classy and beautiful gals than Synn. So why ah expensive dancers but if tipping less and buying drinks ms when I want not when I am sorta forced and there is parking and a place to sit the. SRCoi over Synn for me. Only few are classy and educated as well as beautiful at Synn.

[QUOTE=Jeep5151;6392898]I'm working on an OTC with a popular Synn dancer right now. She texted me to ask if we can meet up and spend time together. We discussed time and rate then she suddenly ghosted me. I checked Synn's roll call and it showed she was working. My guess is that she made a killing that night and then changed her mind on our date. This is why I don't do OTC with strippers because they are so flakey. They don't have a sense of commitment in doing outcalls especially the ones making good money stripping. Most of them don't want to go through the trouble which is why they work in COI clubs. If I went through on a date with her, I wouldn't expect her to know the basic outcalls standards and etiquette.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CuziletYou72;6393774]I've haven't been to Synn almost this entire year. I've been heading to SRCoi and with a 110 retreat 20 min I've had great GFE with some new cuties for a $50-100 tip, which was NOT requested. And the beauty of SRCoi for me, at least, is that it's a bit pricy but cleaner, don't have to worry about waitress harassing me over buying drinks, nor do I worry about someone keeping my change. I've had never been there until this year but still I'm puzzled why is almost always empty, lots of parking, more educated and classy and beautiful gals than Synn. So why ah expensive dancers but if tipping less and buying drinks ms when I want not when I am sorta forced and there is parking and a place to sit the. SRCoi over Synn for me. Only few are classy and educated as well as beautiful at Synn.[/QUOTE]SRCOI has developed a really bad rep over the decades. For a long time, SRCOI considered itself upscale gentleman's club. It had high priced. They were the first to put in a VIP room and they charged $400/ half hour. They had a dress code that they enforced. Lot of please got turned away at the door for wearing t-shirts or shorts. Not to mention SRI was the original home of the crew. Some of the veteran dancers are still charging GPS prices at SRI.

Lot of old time please, has sworn off for SRI because of the way they have been treated by management in the past. SRI is trying to rehab its rep. Especially with the weekly specials. I think it going to take time.

XBiker, thanks for sharing some history and indeed that makes perfect sense. Then for sure it will take years before they are trusted once again by people like us. Any info on Paradise you can share. Never been there. It sounds like much older gals work there and not necessarily nice fit bodies. Is it worth it?

[QUOTE=XBiker;6395269]SRCOI has developed a really bad rep over the decades. For a long time, SRCOI considered itself upscale gentleman's club. It had high priced. They were the first to put in a VIP room and they charged $400/ half hour. They had a dress code that they enforced. Lot of please got turned away at the door for wearing t-shirts or shorts. Not to mention SRI was the original home of the crew. Some of the veteran dancers are still charging GPS prices at SRI.

Lot of old time please, has sworn off for SRI because of the way they have been treated by management in the past. SRI is trying to rehab its rep. Especially with the weekly specials. I think it going to take time.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CuziletYou72;6395277]XBiker, thanks for sharing some history and indeed that makes perfect sense. Then for sure it will take years before they are trusted once again by people like us. Any info on Paradise you can share. Never been there. It sounds like much older gals work there and not necessarily nice fit bodies. Is it worth it?[/QUOTE]IF you are looking for Synn and SRI quality girls. I would say skip Paradise. While quality at Paradise has come up, it nowhere near Synn and SRI. I've notice they're starting to hire more black girls if that your thing. My last couple trip has been slow and boring. Left will a full wallet.

[QUOTE=CaseyX;6389093]You can get just the list of names by clicking the list icon right under the date. The one that looks likes three parallel lines with dots next to them. This wasn't obvious to me at first and it always defaults to the pictures view.

I still miss being able to see previous days / weeks to try to figure out dancer's schedules. But over all I think having pictures is a win for the PL. Like you said, it's good to know who to avoid.[/QUOTE]I started to put together a scraper / db to save this info. I'll probably try to post once a week with the two previous weeks of roll calls. I only have a few days at this point, but it will look something like below. I may be able to add other Kim clubs on request. Sorry for the not so great formatting at this point (fixed width font vs proportional, and stupid line breaks).

Club_name date shift dancers.

Synn-industry 2023-03-31 day Raya, Blaze, Andrea, Dime, Aioki, Jocelyn, Lorraine, Gina, M.

Ya, Shirley, Gemma, Fiji, Velvet, Gemini, Sweets, Teddy, Jodi, Shay, Cattleya, Emerald, Suzzy, Mercedes.

Synn-industry 2023-03-31 night Anara, Ava, K2. , Cinnamon, Andrea, Nikki, Aioki, Evee, Lex.

Katrina, Capri, Fiji, Honey, Kiana, Shyane, Tara, Vikki, Nadia, Klair, Kassy, Ruby, Isabella, Sakura, Salena, Irie.

Synn-industry 2023-04-01 day Lizzy, Katrina, Velvet, Gemini, Shorty, Raven, Teddy, Shay.

Sakura, Cattleya, Emerald.

Synn-industry 2023-04-01 night K2. , Cinnamon, Saweetie, Bonnie, Roxxxy, Andrea, Sierra, Alina, Lorraine, Cherish, Daisy, Nova, Princess, Katrina, Tiny.

Sapphire, Josie, Klair, Keyoko, Ruby, Isabella, Miley.

Synn-industry 2023-04-02 day Lizzy, Sunny, Evee, Shirley, Velvet, Gemini, Teddy, Josie.

Synn-industry 2023-04-02 night Precious, K2, Saweetie, Bonnie, Bambi, Daisy, Krystal, Tiny Dream, Renee,

Sapphire, Nadia, NeNe, Nyoko, Miley, Irie, StacyJay.

Thanks for the intel.

[QUOTE=XBiker;6395919]IF you are looking for Synn and SRI quality girls. I would say skip Paradise. While quality at Paradise has come up, it nowhere near Synn and SRI. I've notice they're starting to hire more black girls if that your thing. My last couple trip has been slow and boring. Left will a full wallet.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=XBiker;6395269]SRCOI has developed a really bad rep over the decades. For a long time, SRCOI considered itself upscale gentleman's club. It had high priced. They were the first to put in a VIP room and they charged $400/ half hour. They had a dress code that they enforced. Lot of please got turned away at the door for wearing t-shirts or shorts. Not to mention SRI was the original home of the crew. Some of the veteran dancers are still charging GPS prices at SRI.

Lot of old time please, has sworn off for SRI because of the way they have been treated by management in the past. SRI is trying to rehab its rep. Especially with the weekly specials. I think it going to take time.[/QUOTE]Haha that shit was in the pre & early 2000's. After about 2007 they started with the specials & variety of room rates. Yeah it was more expensive, and you had to deal with the Crew. But the quality was there. I'd pay SRI's upcharge any day rather than go to that freak show Deja Vu, which was very cheap but full of freak customers and bottom-of-the -trailer-park dancers. I still laugh at how its fans used to rave about "balloon dances" with the waitresses (some Hooters like BS, but without the food). Deja Vu COI was the 99 Cents Only Store to SRI's Neiman Marcus. Synn (then called Exotica) was more like Mervyns, low prices and occasionally some good value. They all lived in the shadow of Hawaii Theater, of course.

Went back recently and did a VIP with Amber, a 22 cutie with a great natural rack. Promised a good time and while I was skeptical, the vibe felt promising so I gave it a shot. Did not disappoint at all. Didn't negotiate a tip beforehand, but did ask if I had one after. What's a fair tip in this scenario being that I got everything I was hoping for? I've been out of the game for a while.

[QUOTE=IntoNOut;6398814]Went back recently and did a VIP with Amber, a 22 cutie with a great natural rack. Promised a good time and while I was skeptical, the vibe felt promising so I gave it a shot. Did not disappoint at all. Didn't negotiate a tip beforehand, but did ask if I had one after. What's a fair tip in this scenario being that I got everything I was hoping for? I've been out of the game for a while.[/QUOTE]I've always tipped a Benji there for my Vips but most of the regulars know me and have been accustomed to that amount from me.

[QUOTE=Rickers;6398986]I've always tipped a Benji there for my Vips but most of the regulars know me and have been accustomed to that amount from me.[/QUOTE]Oops. I wasn't as generous. Hopefully she's not too upset. If I go back, I'll make it up to her. She was cute and seemed into it.

[QUOTE=IntoNOut;6398814]Went back recently and did a VIP with Amber, a 22 cutie with a great natural rack. Promised a good time and while I was skeptical, the vibe felt promising so I gave it a shot. Did not disappoint at all. Didn't negotiate a tip beforehand, but did ask if I had one after. What's a fair tip in this scenario being that I got everything I was hoping for? I've been out of the game for a while.[/QUOTE]I generally pay $120 there for FS. I've paid $140 a couple times for first times, but haven't repeated with those girls. I'd like to pay $100 like the old days, but since I'm older & white & look well off, it often generates bad attitudes if I low ball.

This is sorta my range for most clubs, but it's getting harder (apart from old faves where I'm grandfathered in). Paradise is still a bargain bin, but many there aren't my type. If you can get it for a Benji or less, good work!

[QUOTE=IntoNOut;6399008]Oops. I wasn't as generous. Hopefully she's not too upset. If I go back, I'll make it up to her. She was cute and seemed into it.[/QUOTE]I'm sure she was fine with what you gave her.

Anyone knows what's going with Alyssa, Roxxxy and Bella? Dancing anywhere else? Or retired or semi-retired with their man?

[QUOTE=PelicanT99;6396579]Haha that shit was in the pre & early 2000's. After about 2007 they started with the specials & variety of room rates. Yeah it was more expensive, and you had to deal with the Crew. But the quality was there. I'd pay SRI's upcharge any day rather than go to that freak show Deja Vu, which was very cheap but full of freak customers and bottom-of-the -trailer-park dancers. I still laugh at how its fans used to rave about "balloon dances" with the waitresses (some Hooters like BS, but without the food). Deja Vu COI was the 99 Cents Only Store to SRI's Neiman Marcus. Synn (then called Exotica) was more like Mervyns, low prices and occasionally some good value. They all lived in the shadow of Hawaii Theater, of course.[/QUOTE]Yes, that was pre 2000's, I know a lot of PL who still holding grudges against them for not letting them in because of the dress code.

Lot of Zboners were fans of DVCOI.

None of today's clubs will ever match Randy's Evil Empire in its heyday. RIP Randy.

[QUOTE=CuziletYou72;6396162]Thanks for the intel.[/QUOTE]I forgot to mention, good number of the pictures on Paradise RC are misleading. Lot of the girls are larger or older (mostly both) then they look on the RC.

[QUOTE=XBiker;6399358]Yes, that was pre 2000's, I know a lot of PL who still holding grudges against them for not letting them in because of the dress code….[/QUOTE]Haha, holding a grudge for 20+ years because they didn't let someone in wearing Dolphin shorts commando or maybe MC Hammer parachute pants?

My go-to club wear has been slick sweat pants with a loosely-tied elastic waist over boxer briefs, & a polo shirt. Freshly laundered of course. I think I've been refused entry over the sweat pants 3-4 times over the years during the day, maybe more at night. Hats seem to be the big trigger at clubs. Doing the old man ball walk in thin BB shorts should be. So any tales about what's led to being refused admission from others here?

[QUOTE=CuziletYou72;6399356]Anyone knows what's going with Alyssa, Roxxxy and Bella? Dancing anywhere else? Or retired or semi-retired with their man?[/QUOTE]Where have you been dawg? All three GPS and followed Suki into retirement yo.

Alyssa is officially retired. Roxxxy and Bella still pop up occasionally, just last week both were in. Guessing these 2 don't have problems finding ways to make money outside the clubs so can afford to come in less.

[QUOTE=CuziletYou72;6399356]Anyone knows what's going with Alyssa, Roxxxy and Bella? Dancing anywhere else? Or retired or semi-retired with their man?[/QUOTE]

With this generation of younger dancers I find it pays better to at least dress with a little style to play the game. Of course a huge bankroll can overcome anything.

[QUOTE=PelicanT99;6400384]My go-to club wear has been slick sweat pants with a loosely-tied elastic waist over boxer briefs, & a polo shirt. Freshly laundered of course. I think I've been refused entry over the sweat pants 3-4 times over the years during the day, maybe more at night. Hats seem to be the big trigger at clubs. Doing the old man ball walk in thin BB shorts should be. So any tales about what's led to being refused admission from others here?[/QUOTE]

Had a bad experience at Synn lately (some good ones too but nothing crazy), worst was Kaylani. Went back for a 2 for 40 with her and she told me it was an additional 20 tip to touch her at all. Considered just walking there but instead got an incredibly awkward dance.

I've known my ATF (Synn dancer) for three years. During this time, we have spent immense time both inside and outside the club. She would text or call me whenever she's dancing and also to know how my day was going.

Recently as of late, not sure what happened but she's been distant. She did tell me about her plans after dancing and the new endeavor she's been pursuing, so maybe she is focusing on that. I guess this is why you should try new dancers and not stick with just one, LOL. Man, it's just that she checks every box that I look for in a fantasy showgirl. Anyways, how long did you last with an ATF? When did you know it was time to part ways? Did you part in good terms? Do you still keep in contact with your ATF?

[QUOTE=PelicanT99;6400384]Haha, holding a grudge for 20+ years because they didn't let someone in wearing Dolphin shorts commando or maybe MC Hammer parachute pants?

My go-to club wear has been slick sweat pants with a loosely-tied elastic waist over boxer briefs, & a polo shirt. Freshly laundered of course. I think I've been refused entry over the sweat pants 3-4 times over the years during the day, maybe more at night. Hats seem to be the big trigger at clubs. Doing the old man ball walk in thin BB shorts should be. So any tales about what's led to being refused admission from others here?[/QUOTE]I got refused couple of times for wearing t-shirts, usually concert shirts or single-color T. Nothing loud like an Ed Hardy or something. Dress code required collars on all shirts. Also, got refused entry for cargo shorts. Back then some of door men really had sticks up their you know what. Triple digit heat and they wouldn't get guys in with shorts.

Sounds like falling in love with a stripper. But seriously not much can be learned from these situations. Most of these girls are unpredictable and flaky or wouldn't be in this line of work. Who was this? There are probably several other guys with the same story from this same girl. Enjoy it while it lasts.

[QUOTE=TcoMan;6402334]I've known my ATF (Synn dancer) for three years. During this time, we have spent immense time both inside and outside the club. She would text or call me whenever she's dancing and also to know how my day was going.

Recently as of late, not sure what happened but she's been distant. She did tell me about her plans after dancing and the new endeavor she's been pursuing, so maybe she is focusing on that. I guess this is why you should try new dancers and not stick with just one, LOL. Man, it's just that she checks every box that I look for in a fantasy showgirl. Anyways, how long did you last with an ATF? When did you know it was time to part ways? Did you part in good terms? Do you still keep in contact with your ATF?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TcoMan;6402334]I've known my ATF (Synn dancer) for three years. During this time, we have spent immense time both inside and outside the club. She would text or call me whenever she's dancing and also to know how my day was going.

Recently as of late, not sure what happened but she's been distant. She did tell me about her plans after dancing and the new endeavor she's been pursuing, so maybe she is focusing on that. I guess this is why you should try new dancers and not stick with just one, LOL. Man, it's just that she checks every box that I look for in a fantasy showgirl. Anyways, how long did you last with an ATF? When did you know it was time to part ways? Did you part in good terms? Do you still keep in contact with your ATF?[/QUOTE]Amen to "enjoy it while it lasts. " I've had many Current Favorites ("All-Time" precludes moving on), but they all eventually fade for one reason or another. Sometimes them, sometimes me.

I don't count them as a CF unless I'm seeing them at least twice a month (usually more) for at least 3 months. And I have to enjoy their company beyond just the porking. I had several 2-3 years, one 6 years, one almost 10. They usually find a bigger whale, or get greedy, or decide to have kids, or want a ring LOL, or just lose interest (tho I usually lose interest first: my money has more staying power than their fungible pussy). 10 years was married & just doing it as a lark and for me alone (she says, I don't care), and I really like her personality, and she's the only one I've kept in touch with even though the banging stopped 6-7 years ago. With the others I've tried to part on good terms, tho some make that impossible. You never know.

Thou shall not fall in love with thy stripper. LOL.

In all seriousness, you're right. A majority of dancers tend to be unreliable and careless, which I think stems from deep problems like coming from a broken family, traumatic childhood, making poor choices in life, etc. The dancer who I'm referring to has these issues. Indeed, I will enjoy it while it lasts.

[QUOTE=TcoMan;6406281]Thou shall not fall in love with thy stripper. LOL.

In all seriousness, you're right. A majority of dancers tend to be unreliable and careless, which I think stems from deep problems like coming from a broken family, traumatic childhood, making poor choices in life, etc. The dancer who I'm referring to has these issues. Indeed, I will enjoy it while it lasts.[/QUOTE]It sounds like you have the right mentality with your "relationship " . Definitely enjoy it as long as it lasts. I've done the same thing throughout the years and need to keep myself disciplined but they can been a lot of fun. Best of luck.

[QUOTE=PelicanT99;6404452]Amen to "enjoy it while it lasts. " I've had many Current Favorites ("All-Time" precludes moving on), but they all eventually fade for one reason or another. Sometimes them, sometimes me.

I don't count them as a CF unless I'm seeing them at least twice a month (usually more) for at least 3 months. And I have to enjoy their company beyond just the porking. I had several 2-3 years, one 6 years, one almost 10. They usually find a bigger whale, or get greedy, or decide to have kids, or want a ring LOL, or just lose interest (tho I usually lose interest first: my money has more staying power than their fungible pussy). 10 years was married & just doing it as a lark and for me alone (she says, I don't care), and I really like her personality, and she's the only one I've kept in touch with even though the banging stopped 6-7 years ago. With the others I've tried to part on good terms, tho some make that impossible. You never know.[/QUOTE]Sounds like you have had fun with a lot of dancers.

I got to expand my horizons with new dancers. It's just that I'm very particular with the type of dancer that I want on my lap, LOL.

[QUOTE=Rickers;6406522]It sounds like you have the right mentality with your "relationship " . Definitely enjoy it as long as it lasts. I've done the same thing throughout the years and need to keep myself disciplined but they can been a lot of fun. Best of luck.[/QUOTE]Thanks man. I agree, discipline is key.

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[QUOTE=TcoMan;6407104]Sounds like you have had fun with a lot of dancers.

I got to expand my horizons with new dancers. It's just that I'm very particular with the type of dancer that I want on my lap, LOL.[/QUOTE]There's nothing wrong with going with the same girl over and over again. It's natural because her services are consistent / predictable and you don't have to take risks in getting ripped off by a new girl. Also conversation and chemistry carries over time. The trouble is labeling a girl as ATF. Your feelings and attachment for her will never be reciprocated. You're out looking for a good time and she looking for money. The intend is not the same. As soon as your VIP session with her ends, she will completely forget about you and be looking for another guy to pay her bills. I had girls that I developed feelings for over the years but I will always leave that inside the club or the hotel because this fantasy doesn't mix with real life. Im thinking of a girl as Im writing this but Im sure as hell she hasnt thought about me.

Noticed that Mindy has posted on IG that she will be back at SR COI after a long time away. Perhaps had a kid? Never had the chance myself. Was she a GPS queen? Any reviews on her?

[QUOTE=Roland2418;6408047]Noticed that Mindy has posted on IG that she will be back at SR COI after a long time away. Perhaps had a kid? Never had the chance myself. Was she a GPS queen? Any reviews on her?[/QUOTE]She does have a kid.

[QUOTE=Jeep5151;6407852]There's nothing wrong with going with the same girl over and over again. It's natural because her services are consistent / predictable and you don't have to take risks in getting ripped off by a new girl. Also conversation and chemistry carries over time. The trouble is labeling a girl as ATF. Your feelings and attachment for her will never be reciprocated. You're out looking for a good time and she looking for money. The intend is not the same. As soon as your VIP session with her ends, she will completely forget about you and be looking for another guy to pay her bills. I had girls that I developed feelings for over the years but I will always leave that inside the club or the hotel because this fantasy doesn't mix with real life. Im thinking of a girl as Im writing this but Im sure as hell she hasnt thought about me.[/QUOTE]Well said. We have to keep reminding ourselves that some of these girls are better liars than we are. I can't believe how many of these girls have spouses who willingly drop them off every night to "entertain" numerous guys at the club.