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[QUOTE=Sarag;3234688]I moved this to the Prickyard as not everyone will like what I have to say. To answer your question, yes this was an invite only event. We posted some funnies about it to poke fun in jest at the ones invited that didn't make it as it's always a good time and to spark interest for future events.

Various people host meet and greets and have their own criteria for who's included.

Now for the part some won't like.

Every host or hostess sets their own standards, criteria, parameters what have you. Some people will say a ho is a ho is a ho. Others will say there is a hierarchy amongst providers in the hobby. However you look at it there's a relatively clear distinction that I look at. Obviously some are in this business due to human trafficking (pimps) or drug use or some other reason that's kind of sad. They oftentimes are reckless with their own safety. Then you have your reputable providers that have established themselves as safe and as quality. They screen for their safety. They do not use illegal substances. They have a history of all positive reviews and the like. They are also known for playing safe. These ladies are the ones that I would consider.

Now the part many will really not like. And I only speak for a meet and greet that I am involved with.

For the guys included in the invites they too must have established them selves as safe and reputable and playing safe. Frankly guys who see streetwalkers or providers known to use (especially heroin, crack or meth), that come across on the board as degrading towards women or cheap, that don't play safe bragging of BBFS, that make fun of a providers appearance will never find themselves at one I have any control over. Seeing street walkers, known drug users or providers with other risky behavior such as known for offering or allowing BBFS could put all of our safety at risk. If those providers don't screen for their safety I'm not comfortable with their ability to be discreet and smart and not putting us at risk. You may be a great guy. Don't know, but unfortunately you have a history of seeing streetwalkers and for seeing Clarissa for example. Ironically, Clarissa was at the heart of a lot of heated discussing in June over the last meet and greet as she was an unknown, was reported as allowing BBFS, and started out as a streetwalker. Eventually I believe it came out that a bf or someone else came into play in a bad way but I can be mistaken. Anyhow guys that choose anonymity rather than allowing reputable providers do the necessary amt of screening to ensure their safety, or reckless behavior in their hobbling are a pass in my book.

Another thing I look at is your reputation in the hobby as far as have you possibly made an effort to get to know other mongers? There are quite a few of us that are almost in a circle of friends.

Now for the guys that weren't at the last one but at the first one, you may not have been invited this time as no fault of your own, but rather trying to get a variety of both male and female participants. Not all of the same guys nor all of the same providers were invited because variety is the spice of life. I also looked at the participants from the last one to see if the men took advantage of meeting the ladies as a meet and greet is a marketing tool for the ladies. It's nice to put a name to a face, but for the ladies it also will hopefully lead to future clients.

Also some of the ladies will include established clients that they know are safe and they are vouched for. Bottom line no one that isn't vouched for by a reputable Hobbyist or provider will make it in the door.

So by all means I am not trying to discourage anyone from seeing streetwalkers, drug users, or other ladies that may be a risk to herself, the hobbyist or others they meet. Those participating in a meet and greet depend on the discretion of the other participants and need to feel safe that no problems would arise from their participation. So those known to participate in risky hobbying are a pass for me.

I also tend to not invite someone that canceled last minute male or female without a plausible explanation that is wayed on a case by case basis. Frankly "I'm sick" is kind of a bullshit answer to me and if you don't make it after I put weeks and weeks of planning into something and you said that you were going to come up to even the day before, that's fine, just you won't be taking somebody else's space next time.

So in a very big nutshell I hope I answered your question.[/QUOTE]I appreciate your efforts to keep all of us safe.

KG1.

Damn Ilapp. I met some great people on NR. I will say USA bets anything I've seen in my long years in the hobby. I have spent time with GB and didn't think it was the golden vagina either!

NR started out very good, with everything you needed in one spot, I'm was unhappy when it turned to shit (with a take over) it was worthless. There has been some changes and improvements over time at USA to make it what it is today.

I'll take a tongue lashing with a smile from a respected Senior and like it, but options are like assholes. Everyone has one and some of them stink! And that was mine, I do try to keep myself from having a stinking ass.

BG,

Have fun, play safe, give and get respect, do your research, find some crazy good and TPHFB!

[QUOTE=Ilapp;3234817]I do agree with you, but you are badly mistaken this time in my opinion. This board was way better than NR in its short lived day. It was crap actually, a poor imitation of a site which was great, though in no way similar to this one, that being the sorely missed [URL]E.Com[/URL]. Personally I say good riddance to NR, but hey, if they had been really good they would still be here. E sadly was collateral damage from the IRS screwing with the parent companies porno vid operations. Funny, all of us perverts and miscreants as we were thought to be here by NR devotees are still hanging around, just like the cockroaches in a nuclear aftermath. Somewhere in the cockroach thing is a great handle or thread in the making. USA mongers on par and equating with cockroaches on so many different levels. I like it. Maybe we should have an old timers club of tenured members known as the CR Club.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=HeatMan;3234919]Thank you for enlightening me Sara. I only asked because the first one was highly advertised on the board.[/QUOTE]There was a ton of drama around the last one. It was even to the point some of us helping coordinate it were debating if it was wise to cancel.

If you want to be a potential invitee, I suggest you do just as jjbee states in his below post.

Indy Guy.

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;3234843]Getting on the guest list is an honor, it's an Academy Award nomination. You're being recognized as someone outstanding, not only by the finest providers in the area, but by some of the best of the area mongers. In order to get the attention of the Academy, you need to participate in a serious way.[/QUOTE]Or you can be a sneaky bastard like me. Stalk a redheaded vixen and sneak in the back door once you get the address.

Indy Guy.

[QUOTE=Sarag;3234688]Also some of the ladies will include established clients that they know are safe and they are vouched for. Bottom line no one that isn't vouched for by a reputable Hobbyist or provider will make it in the door.[/QUOTE]Post counts are not reputation.

I'm not active here (not my main geographic area), but am elsewhere.

But I am known to a number of the ladies here.

Trust is the bigger consideration.

Establish the trust and the M&G invites will come.

And Sara. Thanks for organizing a great evening out, those that bailed at the lat minute missed out.

[QUOTE=IndyGuy123;3235175]Or you can be a sneaky bastard like me. Stalk a redheaded vixen and sneak in the back door once you get the address.

Indy Guy.[/QUOTE]Doesn't sneaking in the back door cost extra?

I met Sara two years ago at another board Meet-and-Greet. I respect her because she not only looks out for her own safety, the safety of others in the hobby. She's a great gal!

I was Invited to the last one and I was not able to make it.

I did make the Invite list this last time. For me to feel safe going I prefer that it not be advertised all over the board. Sara and the other organizers handled the preparations, Invite list in a safe, discrete manner.

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;3234843]I was about to answer on the other thread with a simple "They are always by personal invite only. " Only a fool would post something like "I'm having a bunch of escort friends at my house Saturday. Everybody welcome, bring who you want, my address is below. " Clearly you're not a fool.

I wasn't on the guest list, and I understand and approve of that. Here's why:

Getting on the guest list is an honor, it's an Academy Award nomination. You're being recognized as someone outstanding, not only by the finest providers in the area, but by some of the best of the area mongers. In order to get the attention of the Academy, you need to participate in a serious way.

Participation is not only in what you do and who you do it with, it's about what you don't do as well. As Sara outlined above, the standards are high, as they should be.

Over the past 6 months I haven't been active, not in the hobby and not on the board. I haven't done my part to earn the recognition. I don't feel hurt or slighted. I'm happy that the invitation process is as well thought out as it is.

If you didn't get on the guest list, here's the secret of how to make it next time.

1. Be yourself. Every board has a few superstuds. Their reviews are self-promoting porn. They brag about everything and get offended if anyone questions their stories. Along with "be yourself", be someone worth meeting.

2. Play safe. If you keep falling for the cash and dash queens, you're not paying attention to the forum. You're a danger to yourself and others. If you're out there seeking BBFS, you're not just unsafe, you're an idiot. If you want BBFS find a woman, date her, marry her, keep her satisfied and never cheat on her. Otherwise you're just saying "I want a disease and I don't care which one I get. ".

3. (The Big One) Respect. Respect your fellow mongers, respect the providers. They are all people trying to get through life. If you're here, you're in no position to judge the others here.

4. Contribute. If 6 of your 8 posts are requests for help, you're not a contributor, you're a leech. I'm amazed at the number of posts that begin with "I'm a long time monger. Can someone tell me. " If you're such an expert, where are the reviews? Why are you asking questions that have been answered 50 times before? If you need someone to hold your hand on the board, how will you ever handle a meet & greet? Post reviews, post opinions, join the various conversations, make your name one that people recognize.

That's really all you need to do. Be nice, be active, be smart and be safe. Eventually you'll find yourself on the guest list. Unless you complain about not being on the guest list. Nobody likes a whiner.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;3235217]Doesn't sneaking in the back door cost extra?[/QUOTE]Don't sneak in. That's just rude. Besides don't you dip a toe in to check how it feels first?

If I remember correctly about 99% of the drama was centered around one person. As soon as that person was out of the equation all was well again.

I was at the June meeting and had a great time. I met one lady that I met up with later and had a grand time, one that works part time and I live out of the city so planning is difficult, one that is no longer a provider two that I thought would be fun just hadn't had the chance to set up a meeting two that I would respectfully decline and I think there were two ladies that didn't show. My point is that Sara is correct, variety is key. I was not invited to the latest one but I doubt it's bc I treated anyone poorly. More likely bc I'm not very active. So I'm glad the ones that went had a great time and there will always be another one.

Dave.

[QUOTE=Sarag;3234688]I moved this to the Prickyard as not everyone will like what I have to say. To answer your question, yes this was an invite only event. We posted some funnies about it to poke fun in jest at the ones invited that didn't make it as it's always a good time and to spark interest for future events. Various people host meet and greets and have their own criteria for who's included.

So in a very big nutshell I hope I answered your question.[/QUOTE][B][red]BIG[/red][/B] Nutshell your explanation was. So to make it easier for those of you who don't like reading a big nutshell.

When anyone is throwing a Meet and Greet, if they know and trust you (reasons need not have to be explained) then you are invited. I don't care if it's Sarag or the famous Lacy. Lacy had one at the Wild Beaver Saloon downtown 5 years ago and it wasn't posted on the board. Private invitations were sent out via e-mail or PM's and a greeter met hobbyists and providers at the door to insure those who tried to enter were real invitee's. This isn't Matchdotcom or ChristianCafedotcom where anyone registered can attend.

So in other words, "It Is What It Is". Thus a small nutshell.

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;3235217]Doesn't sneaking in the back door cost extra?[/QUOTE]Normally yes but that changes when to everyones surprise you bring the "entertainment".

[QUOTE=DaveRue;3235251]I was at the June meeting and had a great time. I met one lady that I met up with later and had a grand time, one that works part time and I live out of the city so planning is difficult, one that is no longer a provider two that I thought would be fun just hadn't had the chance to set up a meeting two that I would respectfully decline and I think there were two ladies that didn't show. My point is that Sara is correct, variety is key. I was not invited to the latest one but I doubt it's bc I treated anyone poorly. More likely bc I'm not very active. So I'm glad the ones that went had a great time and there will always be another one.[/QUOTE]Dave, just so you are aware you were not excluded intentionally in any way. Sara just attempted to invite a variety of new people.

Sincerely Signed,
The Biggest Prick in the Yard.

I was there 5 years ago, first time seeing a freckle freak, RUN! He has a black, long, serpent tongue, his harrier ass and long hang down bag is a scary site in a huge vagina!

I remember a guy with a lady for up north, getting it on in front of anyone that cared to watch, anyone remember that crazy dude?

BG,

[QUOTE=FreckleFreak;3235342][B][red]BIG[/red][/B] Nutshell your explanation was. So to make it easier for those of you who don't like reading a big nutshell.

When anyone is throwing a Meet and Greet, if they know and trust you (reasons need not have to be explained) then you are invited. I don't care if it's Sarag or the famous Lacy. Lacy had one at the Wild Beaver Saloon downtown 5 years ago and it wasn't posted on the board. Private invitations were sent out via e-mail or PM's and a greeter met hobbyists and providers at the door to insure those who tried to enter were real invitee's. This isn't Matchdotcom or ChristianCafedotcom where anyone registered can attend.

So in other words, "It Is What It Is". Thus a small nutshell.[/QUOTE]

A blond is escorted into the doctors office by the nurse and seated. The doctor comes in and asks what her concerns are. She explains she has two large round rashes one on the inside of either thigh. The doctor directs her to go to the changing room put on a green gown and come back and sit on the end of the table. She complies. The lady doctor directs her to put her legs up over the doctors shoulders and she begins to examine the patient.

After about five minutes the doctor smiles and says I can tell you three things for sure One your condition is neither serious or contagious. Two you my dear are a lesbian. To which the patient asks and you know that how? The lady doctor smiles and says that applies to number three. I want you to go back to the changing room put on your regular clothes take out your cell phone and call your girlfriend. Tell her she needs to throw away her ear rings she wears when she is with you They aren't real. Moral of the story is be very careful of everything that finds it's way up between your legs. Have a good day all.

[QUOTE=SneakyP15;3243875]It always surprises me how often that is offered so I know there are people into that, but it sure seems like more risk than its worth. I often won't let them do a BBBJ for that same reason. Cross that one off my list.[/QUOTE]This definitely goes both ways. It is shocking how many ladies are open to it. To me it is more of a shock on the mongers. Even low volume providers see many more clients than mongers see providers.

Being close friends with a number of providers it is amazing to hear the stories and logic that mongers will use attempting to convince providers to break safe sex practices. Not only does this give you a bad name with that provder (even when they don't tell you then) but it also has other effects. They tell their provider friends who then likely no longer want to see you plus it is not uncommon for your practices to be reported in some of the screening sources that providers share. Ever wonder why a sustained quality provider you have seen before will then refuse to respond to you.

Sincerely Signed,
The Biggest Prick in the Yard.

[QUOTE=IndyGuy123;3243959]This definitely goes both ways. It is shocking how many ladies are open to it. To me it is more of a shock on the mongers. Even low volume providers see many more clients than mongers see providers.

Being close friends with a number of providers it is amazing to hear the stories and logic that mongers will use attempting to convince providers to break safe sex practices. Not only does this give you a bad name with that provder (even when they don't tell you then) but it also has other effects. They tell their provider friends who then likely no longer want to see you plus it is not uncommon for your practices to be reported in some of the screening sources that providers share. Ever wonder why a sustained quality provider you have seen before will then refuse to respond to you.

Sincerely Signed,
The Biggest Prick in the Yard.[/QUOTE]This one always baffles me. Maybe it's because I first started really hitting my stride when AIDS was front page news every day. Then there was the time when a date was right up to the goal line and the woman stopped me and gave a lecture about my assumption that she had the whole birth control thing covered.

If a provider will bareback with you, she'll do it with someone else. From there it's just a short step to going bb with anyone. If any of those people have seen a provider that uses needles, you're playing a dangerous game. Add HIV and Hep C to chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, genital warts and the delightful herpes. If you've got a significant other, try explaining to her why she needs to see the doctor and how you caught it. Think she'll be pissed to find out you've been playing on the side? That's nothing compared to when she finds put she's stuck with herpes for life.

Ever hear of Lorena Bobbit?

It doesn't help that Indiana rates pretty high on the list for STD infection.

Then there's always that "surprise! You're a daddy" phone call, complete with summons and child support payments.

If you can't keep it covered, keep it in your pants.

Is it really necessary for the same person to report on the same provider over and over and over? If you see a lady, report on her. If you see a lady again and something changes or there is new info, report on her again with the updates. Is it really necessary or beneficial for the same monger to report on the same provider every week to two weeks saying "Saw her again" and nearly the same exact report?

Sincerely Signed,
The Biggest Prick in the Yard.