Well, with me, its either my way, or the highway!
[QUOTE=Alejhenry;5326843]I wanted to share my experience over my last 15 years. Lots of people talk about a provider's menu as a list of options they can choose from. While I still think there's a menu, I have a different approach.
Now I'll start with my preference. I don't want to start a argument about bare, but my 1st choice is always BBFS with CIP. Is that the only thing I enjoy? No! Amazing CFS is better than okay CFS, which is better than nothing. [/QUOTE]I respect your modus oprandi! Everyone has an approach that works for them. With me, it took a tad longer than 15 years to settle on what is now pretty much my standard MO. For me, unless intel is definitive, I pre-negotiate BBFS. The only times I do not, is if I have reason to believe that discussion of services would scare the girl off, because she may think I'm an LE sting. But I DO NOT feel that CFS can ever be "amazing". For me, covers are a TOTAL deal breaker. So if, pre-negotiation or not--if they won't fuck raw, I either take a BBBJ booby prize, and if a rubber penis strangler is required even for that, I simply walk, tell the girl to have a nice day, and lose the whole donation. And I would never return to try to get them to lose the rubber tournequet, "next time". Because there was just a SINGLE time that that scenario EVER ever materialized, and that was 15 years ago!
CIP is also my first choice, for the deposit, but I really don't have a problem pulling out, all other things being equal. Because its not so much WHERE I cum, which is significant to me--its HOW I GET THERE! For me, that means traversing a love tunnel without a barrier--because for me, rapidly approaching my 8th decade, condoms make like my dick feel it is surroundeded by The Great Wall of China!