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Arial
Here's her link.
Just know that she can be quite difficult to get something set up with. I've had a couple different appointments set up the day prior. And when I texted about 1 hour before our appointment to confirm, crickets.
[URL]https://detroit.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/post/315357724721[/URL]
[QUOTE=TheBigDog890;5527298]Hello, do you have a link?
Thank you in advance.
Bigdog.[/QUOTE]
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Coco
It's this the Coco everyone is talking about?
[URL]https://detroit.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/coco-love-in-romulusforalimite/187601652714[/URL]
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Regulars
[QUOTE=RockHard403;5527245]Just my 2 cents, I've been following some of you guy's experiences, and I feel bad for you all. I'm glad I don't have to deal with all that bs, the only girl I see is Arial / Shawna, and she never disappoints. Almost 5 years now and going strong. 👍.[/QUOTE]I have only been in the hobby a little over six months and I only indulge every two weeks on average so my experience is limited, but I am really intrigued by the concept of "a regular". On the one hand having a regular provider could be kind of nice in terms of fostering the whole GFE thang, improving Your Mileage May Vary to Your Mileage Is Good and likely reduces scheduling anxiety. What I'm currently struggling with, honestly, is emotional attachment. Now before you guys dump on me for turning this into a kumbaya feelings session, I have a valid biochemical concern. As I understand it, recent research shows that women imprint quickly on their sexual partners until repeatedly taking new partners "burns out" that mechanism so they lose the ability to imprint, or love, anyone. I think that is part of the development of what I call "the thousand wad stare" (I'm considering copyrighting that phrase), where after a girl has been with too many guys she loses the ability to form a strong bond. Men are different, they can freely skip from partner ot partner until repeatedly having sex with one or more forms a strong connection in his mind. To put it briefly (too late) I haved been concerned about falling for my 3 ATFs and the effects that would have on me. So, I have decided to avoid my ATFs for the most part for a while while I develop a thicker skin and learn to compartmentalize my emotions regarding sex.
Has anyone else had a similar experience? Any coping strategies to share?
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One idea
[QUOTE=LotharioPK;5527473]I have only been in the hobby a little over six months and I only indulge every two weeks on average so my experience is limited, but I am really intrigued by the concept of "a regular". On the one hand having a regular provider could be kind of nice in terms of fostering the whole GFE thang, improving Your Mileage May Vary to Your Mileage Is Good and likely reduces scheduling anxiety. What I'm currently struggling with, honestly, is emotional attachment. Now before you guys dump on me for turning this into a kumbaya feelings session, I have a valid biochemical concern. As I understand it, recent research shows that women imprint quickly on their sexual partners until repeatedly taking new partners "burns out" that mechanism so they lose the ability to imprint, or love, anyone. I think that is part of the development of what I call "the thousand wad stare" (I'm considering copyrighting that phrase), where after a girl has been with too many guys she loses the ability to form a strong bond. Men are different, they can freely skip from partner ot partner until repeatedly having sex with one or more forms a strong connection in his mind. To put it briefly (too late) I haved been concerned about falling for my 3 ATFs and the effects that would have on me. So, I have decided to avoid my ATFs for the most part for a while while I develop a thicker skin and learn to compartmentalize my emotions regarding sex.
Has anyone else had a similar experience? Any coping strategies to share?[/QUOTE]Marry one of them. I can't say I've ever married a pro sex worker, but for me, marriage has always been pretty effective at squelching the emotional attachment.
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New Girls
A couple of new girls popped up on LC that appeal to me but have a lot of unknowns. I was hoping for somer feedback from the forum.
Emily: [URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/detroit/66631382[/URL]#.
A real young cutie that appeared in Los Angeles a few weeks ago and migrated to Southfield a few days ago. The phone is an LA area code and doesn't seem to be associated with any other ads. Her pics are not selfies, they were taken by a photographer in a hotel room but they don't Google back to ay other ads. She is IMHO very attractive but not TGTBT. No reviews and only been posting since Aug 16th in either SoCal or Southfield.
Yet another Lexiii: [URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/detroit/66539178[/URL].
Sketchy but I want her to be real. Phone # went active in early July with first pics being of an attractive young MILF with a little boy but then added pics of a hot blond and hot latino brunette.
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Regulars
I'm just adding to the thread here.
I've had several regulars over the years. They were all great but as time went on, they either left the business or in the case of my last one, moved out of state. Of course, there are benefits to having regulars. You get to know them, like them and know what to expect. They know what to expect as well: a safe, comfortable and fairly steady income source. Did I like my regulars? Of course I did! Was I foolish enough to think it was anything more than a business arrangement? Absolutely not! If you allow yourself to get drawn into the trap of thinking that they really care for you or that you're special and start developing feelings, you're setting yourself up for emotional and possibly financial disaster.
Keep reminding yourself that YOU are PAYING THEM to fuck you! Feeling emotional? Ask them to come over, spend a few hours and fuck you without any kind of compensation involved. After she gives you a ton of excuses or just declines outright, ask yourself again about how much she cares for you or how special you are.
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Thick Skin
[QUOTE=Incognito1234;5527563]I'm just adding to the thread here.
I've had several regulars over the years. They were all great but as time went on, they either left the business or in the case of my last one, moved out of state. Of course, there are benefits to having regulars. You get to know them, like them and know what to expect. They know what to expect as well: a safe, comfortable and fairly steady income source. Did I like my regulars? Of course I did! Was I foolish enough to think it was anything more than a business arrangement? Absolutely not! If you allow yourself to get drawn into the trap of thinking that they really care for you or that you're special and start developing feelings, you're setting yourself up for emotional and possibly financial disaster.
Keep reminding yourself that YOU are PAYING THEM to fuck you! Feeling emotional? Ask them to come over, spend a few hours and fuck you without any kind of compensation involved. After she gives you a ton of excuses or just declines outright, ask yourself again about how much she cares for you or how special you are.[/QUOTE]I think you've just described the skin thickening / compartmentalization process I need to through. Meanwhile, I'm still exploring and currently looking for a really socially inappropriate (but legal) age-gap date. I'm turning 60 soon, whatcha got?
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It goes both ways
[QUOTE=Incognito1234;5527563]I'm just adding to the thread here.
I've had several regulars over the years. They were all great but as time went on, they either left the business or in the case of my last one, moved out of state. Of course, there are benefits to having regulars. You get to know them, like them and know what to expect. They know what to expect as well: a safe, comfortable and fairly steady income source. Did I like my regulars? Of course I did! Was I foolish enough to think it was anything more than a business arrangement? Absolutely not! If you allow yourself to get drawn into the trap of thinking that they really care for you or that you're special and start developing feelings, you're setting yourself up for emotional and possibly financial disaster.
Keep reminding yourself that YOU are PAYING THEM to fuck you! Feeling emotional? Ask them to come over, spend a few hours and fuck you without any kind of compensation involved. After she gives you a ton of excuses or just declines outright, ask yourself again about how much she cares for you or how special you are.[/QUOTE]Nothing is free in relationships. If she tried to get free money and gifts out of you just for the asking, a smart guy would have the same excuses, no matter how much "love" is there, everyone draws a line somewhere.
And any good relationship is built on a trade anyway: she's in it for what she wants, and you're in it for what you want. When either stops getting what they want, the relationship ends, and cheating begins. Two pennies.
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[QUOTE=Incognito1234;5527563]I'm just adding to the thread here.
I've had several regulars over the years. They were all great but as time went on, they either left the business or in the case of my last one, moved out of state. Of course, there are benefits to having regulars. You get to know them, like them and know what to expect. They know what to expect as well: a safe, comfortable and fairly steady income source. Did I like my regulars? Of course I did! Was I foolish enough to think it was anything more than a business arrangement? Absolutely not! If you allow yourself to get drawn into the trap of thinking that they really care for you or that you're special and start developing feelings, you're setting yourself up for emotional and possibly financial disaster.
Keep reminding yourself that YOU are PAYING THEM to fuck you! Feeling emotional? Ask them to come over, spend a few hours and fuck you without any kind of compensation involved. After she gives you a ton of excuses or just declines outright, ask yourself again about how much she cares for you or how special you are.[/QUOTE]And therein is the difference between an escort and a sugar baby. An SB will hang with you, go on dates, text you every day etc. If you're generous enough you'll get lots of sex and exclusivity. But make no mistake that if you weren't paying her bills she wouldn't give you the time of day in 98% of the arrangements.
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Pontiac
Being lazy and not scanning the forum, but I recall someone trying to reach this one before but no response. I messaged her late / early am and got an answer plus a couple pics. Was going to TOFTT, but her rates are higher than I'm looking to entertain. For example, for an ss bbeej she quoted 140. For 3 benjis, you can have your way with her for an hour.
[URL]https://detroit.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/exotic/fresh-face-with-a-mouth-that/727101464748[/URL]
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[QUOTE=Jimbalaya;5527655]Being lazy and not scanning the forum, but I recall someone trying to reach this one before but no response. I messaged her late / early am and got an answer plus a couple pics. Was going to TOFTT, but her rates are higher than I'm looking to entertain. For example, for an ss bbeej she quoted 140. For 3 benjis, you can have your way with her for an hour.
[URL]https://detroit.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/exotic/fresh-face-with-a-mouth-that/727101464748[/URL][/QUOTE]FWIW, I messaged with her a couple weeks ago. I saw an ad on callescort. I asked her if she smoked, she said No. In this ad she indicated yes. Could be a red flag. Caveat emptor.
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[QUOTE=Jimbalaya;5527655]Being lazy and not scanning the forum, but I recall someone trying to reach this one before but no response. I messaged her late / early am and got an answer plus a couple pics. Was going to TOFTT, but her rates are higher than I'm looking to entertain. For example, for an ss bbeej she quoted 140. For 3 benjis, you can have your way with her for an hour.
[URL]https://detroit.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/exotic/fresh-face-with-a-mouth-that/727101464748[/URL][/QUOTE]Take a look at the pics. Not all the tattoos match up, even accounting for mirror images. Even accounting for possible old pics with / without the upper chest tattoo. Another red flag.
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[QUOTE=LookinFourFun;5527382]Here's her link.
Just know that she can be quite difficult to get something set up with. I've had a couple different appointments set up the day prior. And when I texted about 1 hour before our appointment to confirm, crickets.
[URL]https://detroit.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/post/315357724721[/URL][/QUOTE]Some guys have had a hard time getting to see her but IMHO she's worth the effort. Lookingforfun thanks for posting her link.
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Emily: [URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/detroit/66631382[/URL]#.
That Emily looks tempting for sure. I hate messaging just to kick the tires and get a quote. Not cool and might get you blocked. But I suppose one could ask if she takes appointments and get a quote.
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[QUOTE=RockHard403;5527245]Just my 2 cents, I've been following some of you guy's experiences, and I feel bad for you all. I'm glad I don't have to deal with all that bs, the only girl I see is Arial / Shawna, and she never disappoints. Almost 5 years now and going strong..[/QUOTE]Don't you get bored with same one every time? I'm not saying you need a different one every single time, but a little variety is the spice of life, and it gives you options if you're favorite go-to isn't available.
Can you share a link to show who's gotten your undivided attention for so long?