Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;5694533]Since Seeking added that extra security (can't use incognito efficiently) and price hike, I will not renew for some time. I am sharing two girls I've had my fun with. I've shared them before here but a second time doesn't hurt.

Veebug is from Stratford, cool chick, stripper and okay body. Not fat but not slim. BBFS available. Range $200-$300. She cannot host. Loves to smoke weed.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bbd16dd0-efa0-4f4e-9717-6a017eb82f57[/URL]

This one is Beeiscute, she is 19, BBFS available and cannot host. Donation $200-300. Location is in Enfield. Loves to smoke weed.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ed9df35e-8f55-49da-b73f-2e3823130e48[/URL]

Merry Christmas![/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c088c85c-6164-476a-9dfe-84f887cc2ec7[/URL]

Is this the same girl? Used this screen name for one day, if so.

Had been seeing this one on and off. Just mother on SA. Anyone else partake?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a928389b-1636-4c6d-bdd0-68718eeed96a[/URL]

[QUOTE=MyHobby;5706997]Had been seeing this one on and off. Just mother on SA. Anyone else partake?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a928389b-1636-4c6d-bdd0-68718eeed96a[/URL][/QUOTE]I had tried to connect, even texted and came to a $200 agreement visit her at her place. It still hasn't materialized.

[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5686496]I decided that seeking was getting too expensive so the beginning of January I'll be done. Suddenly, I'm getting some good action. I'm still waiting for the college twosome to get home from break. I've got Hartford young ladies ages 20 and 24 who have agreed to meet me at very reasonable rates. They both have bought the idea that I don't usually pay over $200 for a meet. Also, if they can't host I need to take $50 out for room expenses. I've told them I'm looking for a regular, and since they are unknown quantities, and I'm not sure how we will match up sexually, I will pay $100 for the first meet and $150 for the next few. After that, a possible shopping trip is necessary, and I'll pay $200 per meet thereafter. We are going to go out to dinner, which they will not get paid for, or ask for any money for gas or anything else, and check each other out and see if we want to continue with the arrangement. The first one I am seeing Tuesday night at a restaurant on the Berlin Turnpike. She has already asked me if we can go to the motel afterwards and I said sure. The second one, hasn't figured out what's a good time to meet because of the holidays. I've also got the two college student duo that are sway for the holiday break. They were reasonable. There's also two other duos that I am chatting with. Please don't PM me for usernames, I will leave a review after I've successfully met up with any of them. More than likely if I do give out the identity of any of them, somebody on here will message them and say that they hear that they are taking my prices. Then I'm fucked- not the way I am hoping for! Talking to a few others but nothing promising yet. Too many times I've gotten to the point where dinner is in the books and I get that text that they need money for something. I've learned to tell them up front not to bother asking.[/QUOTE]Okay, I promise to update you guys with these prospects that I had. The two that agreed to reasonable rates both disappeared. The first one ghosted me starting the morning of our date and deleted her profile. The second one kept putting the date off and then deleted her profile! I am hoping that at least one of the two duos I've been chatting with get together with me now that school is starting again. My seeking membership expires in the next couple of days. I'm not sure I'm going to redo it anytime soon. It's a lot of work and this past year hasn't paid off as much as others. I was lucky enough to get a 35-year-old in Waterbury that wasn't looking for money, she was just horny and wanted the sex. She lost her job as a manager at Macy's in Waterbury when they closed down the mall and she disappeared! Probably the most fun I had was getting a very favoriable arrangement with Pink Sugar very early in her career! I had half a dozen one night stands, and then there's the grade school teacher who is an absolute nymphomaniac who I still see periodically. We get along very nicely and sometimes just go out to dinner. She's extremely picky about who she goes out with and I have set her up with a couple of guys on this site, but she's adamant that I have to know them very well. Please don't PM me.

Blue.

Not great. $100,45 minutes, cannot host.

She's thick but firm. Late 20's has a young child.

The real issue is her limits: Only light kissing, covered everything. BBBJ might be in the cards after a few dates, but I won't play it out to find out.

Biggest plus: Soft hands and she likes touching.

[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/lmz6PW1dL0kwpaa0qEbwMDy8[/URL]

[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5709131]Okay, I promise to update you guys with these prospects that I had. The two that agreed to reasonable rates both disappeared. The first one ghosted me starting the morning of our date and deleted her profile. The second one kept putting the date off and then deleted her profile! I am hoping that at least one of the two duos I've been chatting with get together with me now that school is starting again. My seeking membership expires in the next couple of days. I'm not sure I'm going to redo it anytime soon. It's a lot of work and this past year hasn't paid off as much as others. I was lucky enough to get a 35-year-old in Waterbury that wasn't looking for money, she was just horny and wanted the sex. She lost her job as a manager at Macy's in Waterbury when they closed down the mall and she disappeared! Probably the most fun I had was getting a very favoriable arrangement with Pink Sugar very early in her career! I had half a dozen one night stands, and then there's the grade school teacher who is an absolute nymphomaniac who I still see periodically. We get along very nicely and sometimes just go out to dinner. She's extremely picky about who she goes out with and I have set her up with a couple of guys on this site, but she's adamant that I have to know them very well. Please don't PM me.

Blue.[/QUOTE]You just saved me purchasing another membership. Your post is exactly as I found it my last go round with the exception of the school teacher. She was a very nice nympho when I met her two years ago. Tell her I said hello!

Poo.

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;5714679]You just saved me purchasing another membership. Your post is exactly as I found it my last go round with the exception of the school teacher. She was a very nice nympho when I met her two years ago. Tell her I said hello!

Poo.[/QUOTE]You are very welcome, sir. What exactly do I tell her- "Poo says Hi"? PM me if you want to tell me how to do it. I have you to thank for my seeing her. I had to join Seeking in order to do it, so I guess I have you to blame for all the money I've spent on my membership! LOL! I have to say that I have had some fun in the hunt on there. I think that the hunt is one of the reasons I used to enjoy the Waterbury SWer scene. I can remember 8 to 10 years ago when it was just a matter of driving around the loop a couple times, not in search for a good one, but deciding which one you wanted to pick up. Sometimes it was a difficult choice. Now it's dead most of the time. I did see one yesterday on Seeking. She is thick and a tad heavier than I usually like, however she is a ton of fun and has a very responsive body. When I first started talking to her she was in an apartment in Bristol and we were having difficulty matching up our schedules. I got a text from her earlier in the week and there was some kind of problem with some hazardous material in her apartment and the town of Bristol condemned it. She was out on the street. Her two kids are with her ex now.

She ran out of money in hotels and is still waiting for the town of Bristol to put her in some housing. She's hot to trot and looking for help. PM me if you are a senior that I know well and have worked with before, and I will give you her username and maybe my name to drop. She won't know me by Blue, she will know me by my username. If I don't know you well and haven't worked with you in the past I will delete your message. She definitely could use some help today and tomorrow. I got her down to $200 when she was living in her apartment. Because of her circumstances I honored that price. I also took her out for some food. I know I'll be able to see her again for less.

Blue.

Prior to their price increase, I was getting promotional emails from them daily.

I won't renew as my biggest gripe is the scam and spam members they allow and force us to report. I don't know if there's a better way they can screen the women but having them pay a nominal fee to join has to be better than the current state of allowing any “female” for free. The price increase amounts to a slap in the face to clean their site faster. It’s become a never ending battle. No thanks.

BMD.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5714728]Prior to their price increase, I was getting promotional emails from them daily.

I won't renew as my biggest gripe is the scam and spam members they allow and force us to report. I don't know if there's a better way they can screen the women but having them pay a nominal fee to join has to be better than the current state of allowing any female for free. The price increase amounts to a slap in the face to clean their site faster. Its become a never ending battle. No thanks.

BMD.[/QUOTE]I hear you man, but I did sign up for the premium membership in late December because I had time to kill (took vacation from work). And man, am I glad I did. I fuck around half dozen college age coeds the past two weeks and still have plenty lining up for the coming weeks. I would have brought more to the FC if I had more time and money. The Holiday and Winter break sure to bring out the young ladies. You guys should be breaking your dicks during this period.

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;5714679]You just saved me purchasing another membership. Your post is exactly as I found it my last go round with the exception of the school teacher. She was a very nice nympho when I met her two years ago. Tell her I said hello!.[/QUOTE]I told her that you said "Hi" and she laughed and said "That was a long time ago". I've seen her a few times and never had one that loved it so much!

Blue.

So, about 10 days ago my membership expired and I decided not to renew it because of the price increase. I had about six that I was texting off site. The one that was most immediately promising was the Bristol girl added lost her apartment and was in Southington. I saw her once and it was very good. Because of the experience I helped her out a little bit more and had promises for a continued relationship. Then things turned ugly and she went off the deep end about something stupid in a text message. She is certifiably crazy and I stopped giving out her phone number, because I'm not sure how she would react to anybody that was sent by me! The next day after breaking that off, I got a text message from a young lady that I hadn't heard from since August! We were just about ready to meet, when she suddenly stopped texting. About a week later I get a message from her saying that she had been in the store and there was a robbery, she ended up getting shot and going to the hospital. She was not in very good shape at all! We chatted and she had just had some financial setbacks and her phone was about to be shut off. Her daughter started a GoFundMe page to help pay for her hospital stay. I put $40 in as in good will gesture. I tried texting her a few more times with no answer because her phone was shut off. I forgot all about her. Then, right after the Southington debacle, I get a text from the other one. She had found my messages in her phone and remembered that I had sent something to help her out. She wanted to know if I wanted to get together. We had set a price for 100 PPM and she was willing to do that. I met her this past weekend and she has an amazing spinner body for a 41-year-old that's had three kids! You would never know what at all. Had a great time, and great skills! I've got three others that I'm talking to right now that are close to seeing. So, for those of you who say that it's a waste of time being kind to these girls, I'll say that I stand by doing that. It got me a really good one that I'm going to be seeing on a regular basis. Hopefully a couple of others will work out also so my Seeking time wasn't a waste of time.

Blue.

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;5694533]Since Seeking added that extra security (can't use incognito efficiently) and price hike, I will not renew for some time. I am sharing two girls I've had my fun with. I've shared them before here but a second time doesn't hurt.

Veebug is from Stratford, cool chick, stripper and okay body. Not fat but not slim. BBFS available. Range $200-$300. She cannot host. Loves to smoke weed.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bbd16dd0-efa0-4f4e-9717-6a017eb82f57[/URL]

This one is Beeiscute, she is 19, BBFS available and cannot host. Donation $200-300. Location is in Enfield. Loves to smoke weed.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ed9df35e-8f55-49da-b73f-2e3823130e48[/URL]..[/QUOTE]Wow didn't know veebug did BBFS, last time she wouldn't even do a regular CBJ. Said she doesn't do that. Couple pics I've found of her online.

[QUOTE=Iphone97;5727491]Wow didn't know veebug did BBFS, last time she wouldn't even do a regular CBJ. Said she doesn't do that. Couple pics I've found of her online.[/QUOTE]She does BBFS but refuses to give any type of BJ. Which boggles my mind. But damn these pics make me want to hit her back up again LOL.

Unfortunately she's ghost a lot and it's kinda annoying to set up a meeting with her, I'm not sure how you guys actually saw her.

[QUOTE=DaReal86;5727711]She does BBFS but refuses to give any type of BJ. Which boggles my mind. But damn these pics make me want to hit her back up again LOL.[/QUOTE]I remember you telling me about her a while ago, so I messaged her. I guess she isn't into older guys, because I never got a response! LOL!

Blue.

She enjoys CIV but struggles a lot with BJ.

I guess so many people are hitting her up now that she gets to choose who is next.

[QUOTE=DaReal86;5727711]She does BBFS but refuses to give any type of BJ. Which boggles my mind. But damn these pics make me want to hit her back up again LOL.[/QUOTE]I've dated women who would simply not suck dick. It had nothing to do with safety, they were simply grossed out by oral.

[QUOTE=Woody50;5729847]I've dated women who would simply not suck dick. It had nothing to do with safety, they were simply grossed out by oral.[/QUOTE]As a younger pup, I had a civilian girl friend like that. Point blank NO BJ, no CBJ, and nothing in that neighborhood for the rest of my life.

I had two words to say. First one for her, "really"?

The next word, mentally for me when getting dressed and walking out, "NEXT"!

Yada, yada, yada, Seinfeld and the Soup Nazi still owe me royalties. LOL.

BMD.

[QUOTE=Woody50;5729847]I've dated women who would simply not suck dick. It had nothing to do with safety, they were simply grossed out by oral.[/QUOTE]I was married to one!

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5729890]As a younger pup, I had a civilian girl friend like that. Point blank NO BJ, no CBJ, and nothing in that neighborhood for the rest of my life.

I had two words to say. First one for her, "really"?
BMD.[/QUOTE]When I was young, I worked on cruise ships for about 8 years. "We'll never be here again. " goes a long way with tipsy chicks on vacation. After several hundred one or two nighters, I'd say about 10% of women fall into the no BJ category.

[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5725114]I told her that you said "Hi" and she laughed and said "That was a long time ago". I've seen her a few times and never had one that loved it so much!

Blue.[/QUOTE]The school teacher is a gem.

Responding to your other thread on generosity. Agreed, it can be a crap shoot. I've had good and bad, more good. Currently have two UTR single Moms (met both on SA) with no limits who rock my world.

[QUOTE=WillSmith96;5730218]The school teacher is a gem.

Responding to your other thread on generosity. Agreed, it can be a crap shoot. I've had good and bad, more good. Currently have two UTR single Moms (met both on SA) with no limits who rock my world.[/QUOTE]What is the PPM?

[QUOTE=LuckyCT;5730262]What is the PPM?[/QUOTE]We were talking about the school teacher and he mentioned to UTR's. I don't know which one you are asking about. I only know about the school teacher and I have referred her to others but she would rather give the price. So, you would have to contact her on SA. She and I actually do dinner every once in awhile, and just dinner. No dessert! LOL.

Blue.

[QUOTE=LuckyCT;5730262]What is the PPM?[/QUOTE]Pay Per Meet. Compared to others looking for an allowance.

Avoid allowances as you're paying for the week or month but might not get as much action as you hoped for. While she may agree to a set fee for a month for 4 meetings in that month, it's not uncommon that she might try to whittle you down to 3 or 2 then promise "make up" meetings that never happen.

Stay with exact $ per meet. It's less ambiguous and prevent the girl from taking advantage of you.

BMD.

[QUOTE=Woody50;5729915]When I was young, I worked on cruise ships for about 8 years. "We'll never be here again. " goes a long way with tipsy chicks on vacation. After several hundred one or two nighters, I'd say about 10% of women fall into the no BJ category.[/QUOTE]My problem is my need for BBBJ-cim-nqns, anywhere, anytime, standing, sitting, laying down, in sickness or in good health. LOL.
It might be more torturous to get the bbbj but no cim, no swallow.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5730336]Pay Per Meet. Compared to others looking for an allowance.

Avoid allowances as you're paying for the week or month but might not get as much action as you hoped for. While she may agree to a set fee for a month for 4 meetings in that month, it's not uncommon that she might try to whittle you down to 3 or 2 then promise "make up" meetings that never happen.

Stay with exact $ per meet. It's less ambiguous and prevent the girl from taking advantage of you..[/QUOTE]I have actually had some pretty good luck with some of the younger ones, and the new ones on the site who are completely inexperienced with the way arrangements work. When they start asking questions about a monthly allowance, I will say that I have had monthly allowances of up to $800 a month. That usually sounds pretty good to them. Then I tell them that because we haven't gotten together yet and we may not be compatible in bed that I like to start off with PPMs, that way it's fair to both of us. I tell them that the initial PPM that I like to start off at is $200 and increase it from there or go to a monthly fee. Now typically they can't host. If that's the case I'll say that I will have to take $50 off it for the room. Then, sometimes I'm able to get them to agree to a slightly lower price for our very first meet to see if we click. Sometimes I can get another $50 off for that. So, I start off with $100 for the first time and then do $150 for the next couple, making sure I see her, or at least try to see her more than once in a week. This gets it into her head that we could be doing it often. If I'm still around. I can start talking to her about a monthly arrangement. Now, we go to the $600 or $800 a week that we might have discussed a month or so earlier. Then I start throwing numbers at her like, telling her does she realize that I might see her twice or more a week for that amount of money. Then, the $200 PPM starts sounding good! The only problem is, you have to go through so many fakes and scammers to get to this point.

Blue.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5730336]Pay Per Meet. Compared to others looking for an allowance.

Avoid allowances as you're paying for the week or month but might not get as much action as you hoped for. While she may agree to a set fee for a month for 4 meetings in that month, it's not uncommon that she might try to whittle you down to 3 or 2 then promise "make up" meetings that never happen.

Stay with exact $ per meet. It's less ambiguous and prevent the girl from taking advantage of you.

BMD.[/QUOTE]LOL Blue. I know what ppm is. I was asking what the ppm for these girls is? The going rates? I have been on hiatus for a while but have been keeping up. Thank you guys for all of your posts. They are very much appreciated!

I'm totally ok with ladies who don't swallow, bot no CIM? What's the point, I van get that at home.

[QUOTE=LuckyCT;5730462]LOL Blue. I know what ppm is. I was asking what the ppm for these girls is? The going rates? I have been on hiatus for a while but have been keeping up. Thank you guys for all of your posts. They are very much appreciated![/QUOTE]Personally I've had wildly varying rates. I have one SB now that's 150 ppm. She's cute, not gorgeous, small tits, but overall nice body. I've seen similar girls ask for 500 ppm. Insane. It seems to me though that you can have a college age 8 or better for 300 ppm. That seems reasonable to me. Some of you may balk at that price, but the competition from OF is getting pretty steep. When they read about girls making 10 k a week for doing cam shows, it really sets expectations. That and the ones who claim they are whisked around the world by billionaires hurt for sure as well. As always, YMMV.

[QUOTE=JoeSchlosser33;5731355]Personally I've had wildly varying rates. I have one SB now that's 150 ppm. She's cute, not gorgeous, small tits, but overall nice body. I've seen similar girls ask for 500 ppm. Insane. It seems to me though that you can have a college age 8 or better for 300 ppm. That seems reasonable to me. Some of you may balk at that price, but the competition from OF is getting pretty steep. When they read about girls making 10 k a week for doing cam shows, it really sets expectations. That and the ones who claim they are whisked around the world by billionaires hurt for sure as well. As always, YMMV.[/QUOTE]With patience, I have found a few very nice ones willing to do $100 PPM. I even had one I just wanted to sex, didn't want the money! There are all sorts out there including the ones that want $1,000 PPM. Most I have paid was $400, and that was because I was extremely attracted to her. It's just a matter of how.

Patient you want to be. It would be a whole lot easier if there weren't so many fakes and scammers. It's because of them I decided to at least take a break, if not leave entirely.

Blue.

[QUOTE=LuckyCT;5730262]What is the PPM?[/QUOTE]$$. 5 in each case.

[QUOTE=Joey1994;5730505]I'm totally ok with ladies who don't swallow, bot no CIM? What's the point, I van get that at home.[/QUOTE]And, it's a little awkward to discuss that with some of these girls prior to a meet. It's not like this is STG!

Blue.

I haven't been on SA in a while but tried some other sites like sugardaddymeet and even bumble LOL. I have about 10 girls that are just DTF and aren't looking for dinners or anything like that. Trying to find someone new as I am not on any sites anymore. If you want to trade info send me a pm. Most of these girls are around the $300-400 range. Some are a little less. Most around western ma, some boston area, and some ct.

Only 60 k a year. LOL. Chicas and their reading blogs.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bf465deb-9ea6-40c9-b66f-c6c6375b5f26[/URL]

[QUOTE=Steve99;5746087]Only 60 k a year. LOL. Chicas and their reading blogs.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bf465deb-9ea6-40c9-b66f-c6c6375b5f26[/URL][/QUOTE]Hey, but like she explained, everything in life can't be free! LOL!

Blue.

[QUOTE=Steve99;5746087]Only 60 k a year. LOL. Chicas and their reading blogs.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bf465deb-9ea6-40c9-b66f-c6c6375b5f26[/URL][/QUOTE]Pretty demanding for a fat chick.

[QUOTE=JoeSchlosser33;5748587]Pretty demanding for a fat chick.[/QUOTE]Maybe she's charging by the pound.

Here is one for you high rollers. Hot black girl in the port. She has * account and real porn clips. Looks like good performer. She doesn't drive so you have to uber or pick her up. Too high for me. First she said 400 last week and I came in at 250. Then went to 3. She said no. For couple hours. BBBJ. Sex maybe no condom. Tried again this week and now 500 and she says plenty of demand. She could be good or might be turning into a pro now and non-GFE. If any of you sluts nails her report back. I won't go that high.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4fd596b2-be21-4754-82d9-cc3e0af918d1[/URL]

I have the exact same gratification and satisfaction from bbbjcimtc and bbbjcimws. If they take every drop I could care less what they do with my deposit. Swallow or walk to the bathroom and spit it out. Is swallowing actually a deal breaker for some guys?

[QUOTE=Joey1994;5730505]I'm totally ok with ladies who don't swallow, bot no CIM? What's the point, I van get that at home.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JDeller;5750990]I have the exact same gratification and satisfaction from bbbjcimtc and bbbjcimws. If they take every drop I could care less what they do with my deposit. Swallow or walk to the bathroom and spit it out. Is swallowing actually a deal breaker for some guys?[/QUOTE]I don't get why it would be a deal breaker, either. Yes, I'm more impressed with one that collects every drop, but I figure she's collected it, it's hers to do whatever she wants with it.

Blue.