Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=Guillaume123;5093120]After reading this thread the past month I finally started on the sugar route and I must say it is a much better option than escorts for us young ones. I always thought the girls in there were only interested in people 30+ so I never even bothered to get a seeking account but that's only some of them. Truth is for someone in his 20's that has a good job, his own place and is tall you can get much more than with escorts. I am only average looks for my age group and even with high height online dating does not work for me. However, on seeking I was able to see 3 girls in two weeks that are much hotter and younger than high end escorts I have seen in Boston. They are always apprehensive at first because they don't trust young SDs at all but when you get them comfortable and snap with them a bit they open up.

For two of them I did not pay them anything directly just took them on a date, went back to my place, drank some wine and had an overnight. Much better and chill than with escorts. One was down with BBFS and frankly going raw in a hot 20 yo beats any escort out here. For some reason I don't get, these kind of girls would not go on a date with me if they saw me on Bumble but on seeking they do without asking for any money.

Third one came to my place directly, she was 25 and a PA. We spent around 4 hours together, started with some wine and dancing then DFK, BBFSCIP and multiple sessions with some cuddling at the end. No blowjob for some reason. She is the only one to ask for something at the end but she was happy when I offered 200 so I might have overpaid.

I am going to significantly cut back on escorts and focus on seeking for now, just much more bang for the buck[/QUOTE]Any links for them?

Made contact and did the standard what we are looking for exchange. Bottom line she doesn't go below $500 and she wants nsa which I translated to platonic. Any one with deep pockets may want to give it a go but hard pass for me. She was very blunt so negotiations ended quickly.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2cf22e054f7fcecb[/URL]

[QUOTE=Guillaume123;5093120]Third one came to my place directly, she was 25 and a PA. We spent around 4 hours together, started with some wine and dancing then DFK, BBFSCIP and multiple sessions with some cuddling at the end. No blowjob for some reason. She is the only one to ask for something at the end but she was happy when I offered 200 so I might have overpaid.[/QUOTE]You did not overpay. Hot college girls or young 20-somethings on SA who are not pros are typically at least 300 the first time. If she becomes a regular you can then negotiate a better arrangement. You did well my young master.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dd6d16c3-d960-4882-a7d0-adc76ddbc0bb[/URL]

Seems nice and responsive. Going for a drink on Friday. Wanted to see if anyone else partook.

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[QUOTE=LordOfThEeyes;5094703][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dd6d16c3-d960-4882-a7d0-adc76ddbc0bb[/URL]

Seems nice and responsive. Going for a drink on Friday. Wanted to see if anyone else partook.[/QUOTE]Not a shy first timer. Had her, 150 all holes open.

[QUOTE=LordOfThEeyes;5094703][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dd6d16c3-d960-4882-a7d0-adc76ddbc0bb[/URL]

Seems nice and responsive. Going for a drink on Friday. Wanted to see if anyone else partook.[/QUOTE]Will be interested to hear your report. Her profile is about nothing other than 'buy me jewelry, buy me bags, treat me like a princess. ' Based on the profile I'd not have messaged.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;5094194]Made contact and did the standard what we are looking for exchange. Bottom line she doesn't go below $500 and she wants nsa which I translated to platonic. Any one with deep pockets may want to give it a go but hard pass for me. She was very blunt so negotiations ended quickly.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2cf22e054f7fcecb[/URL][/QUOTE]I always assume nsa ("no strings attached") means casual sex. But clearly some of the young women online seem to disagree. Where would the "strings" be if it were platonic?

[QUOTE=Syedna;5092385]I'm curious if anyone has had anyone had hooked up with any Asian women from SA?? I haven't ran across one yet that I would even bother sending a message to.[/QUOTE]I have with three but took a lot of effort and expectations are high. I have found one recently who is less demanding but not all that attractive.

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[QUOTE=Bran001;5094953]I always assume nsa ("no strings attached") means casual sex. But clearly some of the young women online seem to disagree. Where would the "strings" be if it were platonic?[/QUOTE]Yes I would agree with your interpretation typically. I did mention in our discussion I was looking for a casual arrangement that wasn't platonic however she replied nsa at 500. I never inquired more after she had a firm 500.

She has a hotel room in Dover and. H. Through Friday if anyone is interested will accept 150 I will also post this in and. H. I have not met her just texted.

[QUOTE=ActonMan;5096597]She has a hotel room in Dover and. H. Through Friday if anyone is interested will accept 150 I will also post this in and. H. I have not met her just texted.[/QUOTE]Is there a link? Can't find her on SA.

Chatted with this one, she told me " 600 for a ppm and 2000 for a monthly allowance". . and she doesn't even host.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f9453f6c-2541-4197-98e0-f6f839f65a8a[/URL]

I asked about this a few days ago and received some decent replies so I made a date with her Funny thing happened as soon as we had a deal she left the site or maybe just blocked me but when I asked her she said she was off seeking. Well she told me to meet her at D. D. On rt 140 at noon She never showed This chick has had poor reports in the past so beware she will be back and better options are out there.

[QUOTE=JoeParkers;5097824]Chatted with this one, she told me " 600 for a ppm and 2000 for a monthly allowance". . and she doesn't even host.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f9453f6c-2541-4197-98e0-f6f839f65a8a[/URL][/QUOTE]She's on crack thinking she can ask 600!

[QUOTE=Lily1234;5095257]I have with three but took a lot of effort and expectations are high. I have found one recently who is less demanding but not all that attractive.[/QUOTE]I know a UTR Korean MILF down here in Southern Mass who wants to meet / fuck as much as possible. She's older, 50's, but attractive still. Body is a 6 maybe. She sucks a good cock, and can take a dick (condom). I don't see her much (3-4 x a year) as she cannot host and I rarely can.

Can introduce you if you want.

[QUOTE=BigIrishBalls;5098476]She's on crack thinking she can ask 600![/QUOTE]Crack would be realistic, pretty college girls on there don't even ask for that much.

[QUOTE=TexasYesMan;5098568]I know a UTR Korean MILF down here in Southern Mass who wants to meet / fuck as much as possible. She's older, 50's, but attractive still. Body is a 6 maybe. She sucks a good cock, and can take a dick (condom). I don't see her much (3-4 x a year) as she cannot host and I rarely can.

Can introduce you if you want.[/QUOTE]Yeah I've been all over SA going back and forth with 3 different Asians and it's very frustrating because it never pans out. Always too much talk of mega dollars and then that totally kills it. I would rather spend less and see them more frequently.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/50fd7218-2bbd-440c-9ad1-411314e9850d[/URL]

Expensive at $4+ but she's kind of normal. A bit of a boisterous personality. She can host in Providence. BB everything. Repeated a few times then our schedules never really lined up, COVID happened etc. Good body, little baby damage, loves to ride. May smoke but not during our time together (huge turn off for me and I hate smelling like smoke later).

Sounds like my fwb. She does enjoy being sexual. Lives near Foxboro?

[QUOTE=TexasYesMan;5098568]I know a UTR Korean MILF down here in Southern Mass who wants to meet / fuck as much as possible. She's older, 50's, but attractive still. Body is a 6 maybe. She sucks a good cock, and can take a dick (condom). I don't see her much (3-4 x a year) as she cannot host and I rarely can.

Can introduce you if you want.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TexasYesMan;5098568]I know a UTR Korean MILF down here in Southern Mass who wants to meet / fuck as much as possible. She's older, 50's, but attractive still. Body is a 6 maybe. She sucks a good cock, and can take a dick (condom). I don't see her much (3-4 x a year) as she cannot host and I rarely can.

Can introduce you if you want.[/QUOTE]Is she the Korean MILF who's been on SA in the past? I haven't seen her online in over a year now.

Destiny has been reviewed here before, but I had a different experience than others.

It was really easy to set up a meeting, but she couldn't host and I got a room which was fine because I had a free one on my [URL]hotels.com[/URL] account.

She was running late and the way over but communicated the whole way. She asked if I'd be down to smoke a blunt when she arrived and I was happy to oblige. When she arrived she looked just like her photos and she was really friendly albeit visibly nervous, which is to be expected upon a first meet. We smoked the blunt and did the deed. A fun time was had by all. She was responsive and happy to talk dirty throughout. Damage was $$ I'll repeat.

Anyone see Serena724? She joined seeking in 2014 and is 33. I know someone on here seen her LOL, location says boston.

Now I am in the third month of my 3-month subscription. Feel like the right time for another update.

Probably achieved 80% of my pre-set goals (see the quoted below). Had met two 20 year old college girls that I consider very promising for long-term weekly dates. Another 23 yea-old graduate student with tight schedule. May only get to see her once a month for ppm. A handful of single mothers that are hard to pull trigger on because they always have to care for the kids, this might improve as there is a hope that kids are going back to regular school in a few months.

Reflecting on my experience for the past 2+ months. My expectation and approach have certainly morphed. At first I was hoping / trying to get some quick ppm opportunities. There are certainly a lot of chances for that and I probably won't turn them down if fallen onto my lap. But now I realize if you are willing to put in some effort, there are plenty of young girls that will be happy to meet three, four times a month to have their rent covered. If they can do that with one guy, there is not much incentive for them to find ppm dates every week. I don't care if the girl is seeing other dudes. As long as my needs are met, what difference does it really make, anyway?

Money-wise this is def. A lot more expensive than picking up streetwalkers. And also more than what most of the STG girls charge. Most undergraduates cannot host so hotel rooms are still needed. But there is a real chance that one can get GFE. I am sure if you are younger-looking and can sweet-talk, with a bit luck / persistence, you can land great girls that are happy to tired you out in bed, asking not much more than what escorts charges.

I am still thinking that I will not renew my subscription right away (end of this month). There are still five or six that I am texting with now and then but for one reason or another have not decided to meet in person yet. I feel most of them will change their minds at some point to either meeting me or cutting off communications. They should keep me occupied when I am not doing anyone.

[QUOTE=Satine;5061169]I have been on SA from the beginning of Oct. For the first time. So I guess that makes me a rookie still, but I am willing to do a little summary on my experiences / thought to share here.

My goal is to find two or three that I can go a little-longer term, and maybe get a handful numbers for ppms. I may not immediately extend my subscription if I reach my goal in another months.

A little statistic:

Girls that:

I sent messages first: 120.

Getting a response from: 80.

Exchanged more than a couple of messages: 35.

Move them off to text: 25 (most of them would be interested in meetups in some form).

Only do ppm: 15 (went with 2). Might go with another 3 or 4. The rest are asking too much for me.

Actual m&g:5 (fucked one so far), these are the ones I try to get into longer term arrangements.

Got stood up at coffee / lunch hotel rooms: 6.

Don't pm me for the girls numbers / info, especially if you don't have an account or cannot get her contact on SA. They are on SA so they can do some screening.

There had been probably 50 girls messaged me first. I think most, if not all, of them are professionals. Nothing wrong with THAT but most of them are very pushy and certainly asking a lot more than their STG prices.

I think there are a few things that can increase the odds that the girls will reply to you. Of course some more work are still needed but if she doesn't reply, there is no game to play.

1) have a picture in your profile. There are ways to greatly mask your identity, but the young generations grew up with social networks and visual cue is a must.

2) I uses canned openers for the first message to the girls, but do read their profile carefully. Especially the long ones. If they put in a 600-word about-me, they won't you to actually read it.

Again I might share which girl (I think) is real but cannot really share the info of those cases here. I worked too hard to give it away. I do / did share bad experiences so others don't have to waste their time.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Satine;5100968]
There are still five or six that I am texting with now and then but for one reason or another have not decided to meet in person yet. I feel most of them will change their minds at some point to either meeting me or cutting off communications. They should keep me occupied when I am not doing anyone.[/QUOTE]You'll find that those texting conversations can go on forever. Unless you stop.

There is a significant pool of women on SA who like the idea of this, (and maybe even have done it once or twice,) but just can't get motivated ENOUGH to make it happen. Or they have a full time bf, or other stuff in their life, to where they are available very infrequently at random times.

I used to think that having a backup list like that was helpful. In my experience trying to get a real date out of those types of backups proved very difficult. I have way better luck with finding someone new who is ready to make it happen vs moving someone that's been text-only for 3 months into actually meeting up. YMMV of course.

[QUOTE=Bran001;5101353]You'll find that those texting conversations can go on forever. Unless you stop.

There is a significant pool of women on SA who like the idea of this, (and maybe even have done it once or twice,) but just can't get motivated ENOUGH to make it happen. Or they have a full time bf, or other stuff in their life, to where they are available very infrequently at random times.

I used to think that having a backup list like that was helpful. In my experience trying to get a real date out of those types of backups proved very difficult. I have way better luck with finding someone new who is ready to make it happen vs moving someone that's been text-only for 3 months into actually meeting up. YMMV of course.[/QUOTE]Bran is absolutely correct. Don't get caught up in that game as a lot of the girls play back and forth and may be sharing it with thier GFs. Make contact and discuss whatvyou want and what they want. Put yourself out there as when, where and how available you are and then tell them to HYU when they want to play. Otherwise they are in control and will play with your head (s). Move on to the next one and hopefully she will contact you in a week or so. Then you have a bite and you can reel her in.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;5101920]Bran is absolutely correct. Don't get caught up in that game as a lot of the girls play back and forth and may be sharing it with thier GFs. Make contact and discuss whatvyou want and what they want. Put yourself out there as when, where and how available you are and then tell them to HYU when they want to play. Otherwise they are in control and will play with your head (s). Move on to the next one and hopefully she will contact you in a week or so. Then you have a bite and you can reel her in.[/QUOTE]Yes and for all of those "I'll be in Boston next week / month / whatever," I just say "OK you know how to find me" and drop it. Chasing those girls takes time away from finding someone who'll meet you in the next few days. If anyone won't meet within a few days of starting to chat / text, it's a losing proposition thereafter.

Anyone know or talking to this one? Think I was blocked and deleted messages so I can't help with a link.

[QUOTE=Bran001;5101984]Yes and for all of those "I'll be in Boston next week / month / whatever," I just say "OK you know how to find me" and drop it. Chasing those girls takes time away from finding someone who'll meet you in the next few days. If anyone won't meet within a few days of starting to chat / text, it's a losing proposition thereafter.[/QUOTE]This is a sound advice. I am starting to trim the list that I text with.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;5102325]Anyone know or talking to this one? Think I was blocked and deleted messages so I can't help with a link.[/QUOTE]Don't recognize her but I'm usually looking only w / in 25 miles of BOS.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dae0fec2-b35c-4db6-bb2e-565f8879ef19[/URL]

I've been on here for a little while and now that I've read a few reports I think I have the hang of it and figured I'd share one.

Met this one a week ago. Messaged a few times on the site and switched to kik to continue. Discussed meeting. She could host the day we messaged on so I went. Run down area and house. Room she hosted in was filthy. Leather couch had no more leather left on it. She was pretty, nice bolt ons and dressed very sexy. Everything covered and rushed like someone was coming or already there. Barely got hard enough to do the deed. Did get going and finished reverse cow girl in the bag. Was there all of 12 minutes. Damage $$ No smell and no obvious demons but I could be wrong though on the demons. Wouldn't repeat but YMMV.

[QUOTE=Monstagoo;5102709][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dae0fec2-b35c-4db6-bb2e-565f8879ef19[/URL]

I've been on here for a little while and now that I've read a few reports I think I have the hang of it and figured I'd share one.

Met this one a week ago. Messaged a few times on the site and switched to kik to continue. Discussed meeting. She could host the day we messaged on so I went. Run down area and house. Room she hosted in was filthy. Leather couch had no more leather left on it. She was pretty, nice bolt ons and dressed very sexy. Everything covered and rushed like someone was coming or already there. Barely got hard enough to do the deed. Did get going and finished reverse cow girl in the bag. Was there all of 12 minutes. Damage $$ No smell and no obvious demons but I could be wrong though on the demons. Wouldn't repeat but YMMV.[/QUOTE]That sounds awful. But one can find that on SA. $$ is ridiculous. I've walked out of situations like that. . . Surprised you didn't.

[QUOTE=Bran001;5099281]Is she the Korean MILF who's been on SA in the past? I haven't seen her online in over a year now.[/QUOTE]She is no longer on but sees referrals and regs. May not be everyone's cup of tea but oral skills are an A. Cool chick, no drama, reliable.

[QUOTE=Monstagoo;5102709][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dae0fec2-b35c-4db6-bb2e-565f8879ef19[/URL]

I've been on here for a little while and now that I've read a few reports I think I have the hang of it and figured I'd share one.

Met this one a week ago. Messaged a few times on the site and switched to kik to continue. Discussed meeting. She could host the day we messaged on so I went. Run down area and house. Room she hosted in was filthy. Leather couch had no more leather left on it. She was pretty, nice bolt ons and dressed very sexy. Everything covered and rushed like someone was coming or already there. Barely got hard enough to do the deed. Did get going and finished reverse cow girl in the bag. Was there all of 12 minutes. Damage $$ No smell and no obvious demons but I could be wrong though on the demons. Wouldn't repeat but YMMV.[/QUOTE]Anyone that wants to meet right away is a red flag for me.

[QUOTE=Monstagoo;5102709][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dae0fec2-b35c-4db6-bb2e-565f8879ef19[/URL]

I've been on here for a little while and now that I've read a few reports I think I have the hang of it and figured I'd share one.

Met this one a week ago. Messaged a few times on the site and switched to kik to continue. Discussed meeting. She could host the day we messaged on so I went. Run down area and house. Room she hosted in was filthy. Leather couch had no more leather left on it. She was pretty, nice bolt ons and dressed very sexy. Everything covered and rushed like someone was coming or already there. Barely got hard enough to do the deed. Did get going and finished reverse cow girl in the bag. Was there all of 12 minutes. Damage $$ No smell and no obvious demons but I could be wrong though on the demons. Wouldn't repeat but YMMV.[/QUOTE]The girl from SA that is now my regular was like this, wanted to meet quickly. It was in a shitty multi family in Salem. We fucked on a dirty futon in the living room. No obvious demons but I kept going back because her body type is spot on for me, she's bareback and full GFE. After the fourth visit she invited to her apartment in Danvers. Really nice place, now we fuck in her bedroom and it's a totally different experience than before. Super GFE with cuddles, we shower together. It's pretty awesome. I see her every week for $$.

Just saying that if she checks your boxes with regards to what is physically attractive, you might end up with a better situation long term.

Has anyone see this girl? She was my first SA hookup way back when but I lost her contact info. Not sure if she is still active but I liked her except she was unable to host. I burned thru a lot of hotel reward points seeing her.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7934c3d7-fbdc-4302-bedc-b4077c679fe7[/URL]

[QUOTE=RobbrKing;5103061]The girl from SA that is now my regular was like this, wanted to meet quickly. It was in a shitty multi family in Salem. We fucked on a dirty futon in the living room. No obvious demons but I kept going back because her body type is spot on for me, she's bareback and full GFE. After the fourth visit she invited to her apartment in Danvers. Really nice place, now we fuck in her bedroom and it's a totally different experience than before. Super GFE with cuddles, we shower together. It's pretty awesome. I see her every week for $$.

Just saying that if she checks your boxes with regards to what is physically attractive, you might end up with a better situation long term.[/QUOTE]Do you have a link for her? Yes I'm a member.

Thanks.

[QUOTE=Monstagoo;5102709][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dae0fec2-b35c-4db6-bb2e-565f8879ef19[/URL]

I've been on here for a little while and now that I've read a few reports I think I have the hang of it and figured I'd share one.

Met this one a week ago. Messaged a few times on the site and switched to kik to continue. Discussed meeting. She could host the day we messaged on so I went. Run down area and house. Room she hosted in was filthy. Leather couch had no more leather left on it. She was pretty, nice bolt ons and dressed very sexy. Everything covered and rushed like someone was coming or already there. Barely got hard enough to do the deed. Did get going and finished reverse cow girl in the bag. Was there all of 12 minutes. Damage $$ No smell and no obvious demons but I could be wrong though on the demons. Wouldn't repeat but YMMV.[/QUOTE]Thats a really horrible session, sorry it happened to you but thanks for sharing so we can avoid. And while most of us are looking for the SB's that will go bare, was glad to read that you covered up on that one! LOL.

[QUOTE=Bran001;5101353]You'll find that those texting conversations can go on forever. Unless you stop.

There is a significant pool of women on SA who like the idea of this, (and maybe even have done it once or twice,) but just can't get motivated ENOUGH to make it happen. Or they have a full time bf, or other stuff in their life, to where they are available very infrequently at random times.

I used to think that having a backup list like that was helpful. In my experience trying to get a real date out of those types of backups proved very difficult. I have way better luck with finding someone new who is ready to make it happen vs moving someone that's been text-only for 3 months into actually meeting up. YMMV of course.[/QUOTE]This is a secondary rule to the messaging rule on SA. If you can't move a girl off the site messaging system in 2-4 messages move on. While I give a longer leash when texting if she keeps having reasons to delay meeting chances of actually meeting are slim to none.