This Will Not Affect My Very Appreciated Guest's
[QUOTE=Cincyeast52; 1859653]I agree Scup, maybe the benefit of the doubt and a follow up by Blake is in order. I sold a car once and the buyer turned to stroll out of my office and I had to stop him and say "Excuse me but you forgot to give me the cashier's check!" He was embarrassed and reached into his pocket and pulled it out.
And I've got to tell Blake that the providers who are casual about the gift and deal with us in a spirit of trust are SO preferred. I hope she retains that way of dealing with people. It would be a shame if this truly caused her to become cynical.[/QUOTE]In way shape or form will my guest's be reprimanded for the unfortunate action's of my inconsiderate guest.
I feel, as a professional and established artist, my technique when gift's are concerned will not be altered at this point, due to the action's of this one date.
And I agree fully that my guest deserve's the benefit of the doubt, I also understand that mistake's happen. However it is now 11 p. M the following night, and still nothing.
Blake will take it to the chin, and keep moving forward, as I love what I do, and do what I love!
Thank you for the kind feedback stay safe.
Love always, Blake
I Have Taken Your Insight Into Consideration
[QUOTE=Scup1958;1859631]Blake, I understand your being upset. But since this is apparently behavior that is inconsistent with the guy's history, is it possible that he just forgot to leave the donation, and turned his hobby phone off after the meeting. Try contacting him by PM, email or some method other than the phone. I know my hobby phone is normally turned off unless I'm actively working to make contact with a provider. And I'm embarrassed to say that I have left a session without paying. Fortunately, I realized my error before I got to the car, and hurried back to take care of it before she called to remind me.[/QUOTE]Ere
You are absolutely right and I agree that this is not in his character. We had a great time, there was no rush, we talked for at least 20 minute's prior to him leaving. It wasn't one minute after I shut the door that I started calling him. We chatted his entire travel here, I also asked him to let me know when he got home so I knew he made it safe, considering he lived an hour away from me. I am almost certain this is his only phone and he say's he is single. I've tried giving him the benefit of the doubt but it's now 24 hour's later. One would think he has checked his mailbox or message's by now. Like I previously stated, I am taking this unfortunate event to the chin and moving forward. It his his reputation and if this is how he wishes to portray his character so be it. However, I will not let this affect my future encounter's nor focus on the donation aspect for I find that very unflattering. Thank you for touching base on this.
Stay safe, Blake
Sorry to hear about this Blake
[QUOTE=CharmingBlake; 1858691]This is why I allowed my guest's to nonchalantly leave their gift on the table and pick it up at ome point after our date, because I had a sense of trust, moreover, confidence because of their signature and reference's on this forum. I feel as a professional artist this was my way of making the donation the "least" important aspect of our date. But this has all came to a sudden stop tonight due to a member on this site walking out on our date without paying. Drove an hour home from my location without answering his 50 phone call's from me, nor calling me to tell me he made an honest mistake. I am reporting him on this site and other's to prevent this from happening again and putting my fellow provider's in this AWFUL AND MOST INVADING situation in the future. I realize collecting my gift should be my responsibility, however that is not the way Blake operate's, giving her guest's a real experience without the stress of the donation. This is a lesson learned and from now on I will respectfully accept my gift first and foremost.
Stay Safe, Blake[/QUOTE]I usually leave my donation out for a well reviewed provider regardless or maybe I'm just a nice person and expect decent service. Anyhow, both parties expect and should separate happy. I feel for ya
First Time In My Entire Career
[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams;1861115]Ugh sorry hun. Looks like he isn't going to respond for his actions either which is a double douche bag thing. I will definitely put him on my do not see list, and again sorry you had to go through this. Remember for whatever it's worth they are not all like this. XOXO[/QUOTE]Look's that way huh. I'm ok with it really, first time ever, I'd say that's pretty awesome. He's the one that has to carry that on his shoulder's not me. That's compensation enough for me doll face. Our guy's on here exceed that behavior. Stay safe,
Love Blake xxxxxx
Thank You For Taking Time To Reflect On This
[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;1861017]Stiffing a provider is very uncool, I've been reading the post on this for a few days now and it doesn't look like this guy is going to make good on this. Look I check this site 3-4times a day and I'm sure most people providers or mongers do the same or check at least once a day, it stands to reason this guy has checked this site and knows what's going on, now did he do this on purpose I don't think so he could have been ripped off by another provider years ago and when he got his chance here he just went with it. And look nobody can convince me he didn't know he hadn't paid look at the monger rules only take what you are going to pay the provider tip included so he stopped somewhere gas something to eat or just got home and saw the extra money he just said fuck it. Hopefully this guy gets his paycheck or gets a sense of what's right and pay this girl. If not as they say what goes around comes around. My. 002 cents I'm out. Oh sorry about what happened miss Blake if you keep doing business the same way that's great but remember just like us mongers never fully trust anyone.[/QUOTE]Amen baby! One bad apple doesn't ruin the tree. Stay safe and sexy,
Love Blake
Spoken Like A Highly Respected Hobbyist
[QUOTE=LakersFan29;1860856]I usually leave my donation out for a well reviewed provider regardless or maybe I'm just a nice person and expect decent service. Anyhow, both parties expect and should separate happy. I feel for ya[/QUOTE]Thanks LK29, They can't all be like you.
Xxxx,
CB
