The Prickyard

[QUOTE=Emme33;3225372]While I do have your number, I will NOT be ringing your phone. You have my number.

Desperation makes some people do crazy things.[/QUOTE]My post was directed at the girls on BP who aren't reliable and can't provide consistent quality service. The flakes and the addicts, the users and abusers. I would never place you, or any of the other wonderful ladies here in that group.

I expect you will start seeing more repeat customers from the people who enjoyed a visit, but then decided to go the cheapest route. If they can't find those $40, $60 specials on BP they'll remember how good it can be if they're willing to pay a fair price.

As FF said, the demand is still there. If a big part of the supply is harder to find, the rest should benefit.

[QUOTE=TryinAgain2;3225571]You and I have never met, and likely won't, but it's still obvious to me you're hardly the "typical BP girl". Like Indyguy stated before me, there's a wide range of providers out there from pro to semi-pro to looking-for-the-next-fix.[/QUOTE]Oh she is always trying to get her fix. Thankfully I like to step in and provide that fix. (Couldn't resist).

Sincerely Signed,
The Biggest Prick in the Yard.

[QUOTE=IndyGuy123;3226050]Oh she is always trying to get her fix. Thankfully I like to step in and provide that fix. (Couldn't resist).

Sincerely Signed,
The Biggest Prick in the Yard.[/QUOTE]I want you, I need you OH BABY OH BABY!

Xoxo,

-Daddy's Princess- **wink wink** Happy now IG?!

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;3225926]My post was directed at the girls on BP who aren't reliable and can't provide consistent quality service. The flakes and the addicts, the users and abusers. I would never place you, or any of the other wonderful ladies here in that group.

I expect you will start seeing more repeat customers from the people who enjoyed a visit, but then decided to go the cheapest route. If they can't find those $40, $60 specials on BP they'll remember how good it can be if they're willing to pay a fair price.

As FF said, the demand is still there. If a big part of the supply is harder to find, the rest should benefit.[/QUOTE]Gotcha. -wink-.

[QUOTE=XNatalieX;3226348]I want you, I need you OH BABY OH BABY!

Xoxo,

-Daddy's Princess- **wink wink** Happy now IG?![/QUOTE]I would certainly be happy LOL I think BP going down is a kind of blessing but I ask the GOOD MEN AND WOMEN The bad seed out there will only survive if they continue to be used and visited by the men with no standards and continue to provide them with the resources they need to continue their business ways and habits. As I have said MANY TIMES THE FUCKING OPERATIVE WORD IN THE HOBBY IS NOOOOO! On both sides of the isle. Pick your "lovers" well then go for it.

It is a business If you can be a friend and deal with each other in good faith then it will work. If not the "LADIES" should win out not the addicts, sleep ins, C and Ders etc. Those who provide good service will win out. The men who think with their dicks only and overlook bad business practices may get what they want but how much bitching will both sides have to endure and listen to in the process. Men are on here to get what they are not getting at home. Women are on here to get what they think they need to live a lifestyle the way they envision that lifestyle. Have a good day.

We don't have to make it great again, USAsexguide has been the best sense NR went south! This is a good community with some great members! and few assholes !

BG,

Play safe, have fun, do your research, give and get respect, find some crazy-good and TPHFB, if you find freckles PM the Freckle Freak.

[QUOTE=BigMack;3226875]I would certainly be happy LOL I think BP going down is a kind of blessing but I ask the GOOD MEN AND WOMEN The bad seed out there will only survive if they continue to be used and visited by the men with no standards and continue to provide them with the resources they need to continue their business ways and habits. As I have said MANY TIMES THE FUCKING OPERATIVE WORD IN THE HOBBY IS NOOOOO! On both sides of the isle. Pick your "lovers" well then go for it.

It is a business If you can be a friend and deal with each other in good faith then it will work. If not the "LADIES" should win out not the addicts, sleep ins, C and Ders etc. Those who provide good service will win out. The men who think with their dicks only and overlook bad business practices may get what they want but how much bitching will both sides have to endure and listen to in the process. Men are on here to get what they are not getting at home. Women are on here to get what they think they need to live a lifestyle the way they envision that lifestyle. Have a good day.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BigGuyUAteMe;3227068]Play safe, have fun, do your research, give and get respect, find some crazy-good and TPHFB, if you find freckles PM the Freckle Freak.[/QUOTE]I have missed that closing line of yours with your noted absence. Geeh what was her name again? Now all we got to do is get FF to bring back the P.S. Lines. Maybe he ran out of them?

Sincerely Signed,
The Biggest Prick in the Yard.

[QUOTE=HeatMan;3234643]Apparently I missed another meet and greet? I read this board every day and never saw any mention of it until now. Was this by personal invitation only?[/QUOTE]I moved this to the Prickyard as not everyone will like what I have to say. To answer your question, yes this was an invite only event. We posted some funnies about it to poke fun in jest at the ones invited that didn't make it as it's always a good time and to spark interest for future events.

Various people host meet and greets and have their own criteria for who's included.

Now for the part some won't like.

Every host or hostess sets their own standards, criteria, parameters what have you. Some people will say a ho is a ho is a ho. Others will say there is a hierarchy amongst providers in the hobby. However you look at it there's a relatively clear distinction that I look at. Obviously some are in this business due to human trafficking (pimps) or drug use or some other reason that's kind of sad. They oftentimes are reckless with their own safety. Then you have your reputable providers that have established themselves as safe and as quality. They screen for their safety. They do not use illegal substances. They have a history of all positive reviews and the like. They are also known for playing safe. These ladies are the ones that I would consider.

Now the part many will really not like. And I only speak for a meet and greet that I am involved with.

For the guys included in the invites they too must have established them selves as safe and reputable and playing safe. Frankly guys who see streetwalkers or providers known to use (especially heroin, crack or meth), that come across on the board as degrading towards women or cheap, that don't play safe bragging of BBFS, that make fun of a providers appearance will never find themselves at one I have any control over. Seeing street walkers, known drug users or providers with other risky behavior such as known for offering or allowing BBFS could put all of our safety at risk. If those providers don't screen for their safety I'm not comfortable with their ability to be discreet and smart and not putting us at risk. You may be a great guy. Don't know, but unfortunately you have a history of seeing streetwalkers and for seeing Clarissa for example. Ironically, Clarissa was at the heart of a lot of heated discussing in June over the last meet and greet as she was an unknown, was reported as allowing BBFS, and started out as a streetwalker. Eventually I believe it came out that a bf or someone else came into play in a bad way but I can be mistaken. Anyhow guys that choose anonymity rather than allowing reputable providers do the necessary amt of screening to ensure their safety, or reckless behavior in their hobbling are a pass in my book.

Another thing I look at is your reputation in the hobby as far as have you possibly made an effort to get to know other mongers? There are quite a few of us that are almost in a circle of friends.

Now for the guys that weren't at the last one but at the first one, you may not have been invited this time as no fault of your own, but rather trying to get a variety of both male and female participants. Not all of the same guys nor all of the same providers were invited because variety is the spice of life. I also looked at the participants from the last one to see if the men took advantage of meeting the ladies as a meet and greet is a marketing tool for the ladies. It's nice to put a name to a face, but for the ladies it also will hopefully lead to future clients.

Also some of the ladies will include established clients that they know are safe and they are vouched for. Bottom line no one that isn't vouched for by a reputable Hobbyist or provider will make it in the door.

So by all means I am not trying to discourage anyone from seeing streetwalkers, drug users, or other ladies that may be a risk to herself, the hobbyist or others they meet. Those participating in a meet and greet depend on the discretion of the other participants and need to feel safe that no problems would arise from their participation. So those known to participate in risky hobbying are a pass for me.

I also tend to not invite someone that canceled last minute male or female without a plausible explanation that is wayed on a case by case basis. Frankly "I'm sick" is kind of a bullshit answer to me and if you don't make it after I put weeks and weeks of planning into something and you said that you were going to come up to even the day before, that's fine, just you won't be taking somebody else's space next time.

So in a very big nutshell I hope I answered your question.

[QUOTE=BigGuyUAteMe;3227068]We don't have to make it great again, USAsexguide has been the best sense NR went south! This is a good community with some great members! and few assholes !

BG,

Play safe, have fun, do your research, give and get respect, find some crazy-good and TPHFB, if you find freckles PM the Freckle Freak.[/QUOTE]I do agree with you, but you are badly mistaken this time in my opinion. This board was way better than NR in its short lived day. It was crap actually, a poor imitation of a site which was great, though in no way similar to this one, that being the sorely missed [URL]E.Com[/URL]. Personally I say good riddance to NR, but hey, if they had been really good they would still be here. E sadly was collateral damage from the IRS screwing with the parent companies porno vid operations. Funny, all of us perverts and miscreants as we were thought to be here by NR devotees are still hanging around, just like the cockroaches in a nuclear aftermath. Somewhere in the cockroach thing is a great handle or thread in the making. USA mongers on par and equating with cockroaches on so many different levels. I like it. Maybe we should have an old timers club of tenured members known as the CR Club.

[QUOTE=Sarag;3234688]I moved this to the Prickyard as not everyone will like what I have to say. To answer your question, yes this was an invite only event. We posted some funnies about it to poke fun in jest at the ones invited that didn't make it as it's always a good time and to spark interest for future events.

Various people host meet and greets and have their own criteria for who's included.

Now for the part some won't like.

Every host or hostess sets their own standards, criteria, parameters what have you. Some people will say a ho is a ho is a ho. Others will say there is a hierarchy amongst providers in the hobby. However you look at it there's a relatively clear distinction that I look at. Obviously some are in this business due to human trafficking (pimps) or drug use or some other reason that's kind of sad. They oftentimes are reckless with their own safety. Then you have your reputable providers that have established themselves as safe and as quality. They screen for their safety. They do not use illegal substances. They have a history of all positive reviews and the like. They are also known for playing safe. These ladies are the ones that I would consider.

Now the part many will really not like. And I only speak for a meet and greet that I am involved with.

For the guys included in the invites they too must have established them selves as safe and reputable and playing safe. Frankly guys who see streetwalkers or providers known to use (especially heroin, crack or meth), that come across on the board as degrading towards women or cheap, that don't play safe bragging of BBFS, that make fun of a providers appearance will never find themselves at one I have any control over. Seeing street walkers, known drug users or providers with other risky behavior such as known for offering or allowing BBFS could put all of our safety at risk. If those providers don't screen for their safety I'm not comfortable with their ability to be discreet and smart and not putting us at risk. You may be a great guy. Don't know, but unfortunately you have a history of seeing streetwalkers and for seeing Clarissa for example. Ironically, Clarissa was at the heart of a lot of heated discussing in June over the last meet and greet as she was an unknown, was reported as allowing BBFS, and started out as a streetwalker. Eventually I believe it came out that a bf or someone else came into play in a bad way but I can be mistaken. Anyhow guys that choose anonymity rather than allowing reputable providers do the necessary amt of screening to ensure their safety, or reckless behavior in their hobbling are a pass in my book.

Another thing I look at is your reputation in the hobby as far as have you possibly made an effort to get to know other mongers? There are quite a few of us that are almost in a circle of friends.

Now for the guys that weren't at the last one but at the first one, you may not have been invited this time as no fault of your own, but rather trying to get a variety of both male and female participants. Not all of the same guys nor all of the same providers were invited because variety is the spice of life. I also looked at the participants from the last one to see if the men took advantage of meeting the ladies as a meet and greet is a marketing tool for the ladies. It's nice to put a name to a face, but for the ladies it also will hopefully lead to future clients.

Also some of the ladies will include established clients that they know are safe and they are vouched for. Bottom line no one that isn't vouched for by a reputable Hobbyist or provider will make it in the door.

So by all means I am not trying to discourage anyone from seeing streetwalkers, drug users, or other ladies that may be a risk to herself, the hobbyist or others they meet. Those participating in a meet and greet depend on the discretion of the other participants and need to feel safe that no problems would arise from their participation. So those known to participate in risky hobbying are a pass for me.

I also tend to not invite someone that canceled last minute male or female without a plausible explanation that is wayed on a case by case basis. Frankly "I'm sick" is kind of a bullshit answer to me and if you don't make it after I put weeks and weeks of planning into something and you said that you were going to come up to even the day before, that's fine, just you won't be taking somebody else's space next time.

So in a very big nutshell I hope I answered your question.[/QUOTE]I was about to answer on the other thread with a simple "They are always by personal invite only. " Only a fool would post something like "I'm having a bunch of escort friends at my house Saturday. Everybody welcome, bring who you want, my address is below. " Clearly you're not a fool.

I wasn't on the guest list, and I understand and approve of that. Here's why:

Getting on the guest list is an honor, it's an Academy Award nomination. You're being recognized as someone outstanding, not only by the finest providers in the area, but by some of the best of the area mongers. In order to get the attention of the Academy, you need to participate in a serious way.

Participation is not only in what you do and who you do it with, it's about what you don't do as well. As Sara outlined above, the standards are high, as they should be.

Over the past 6 months I haven't been active, not in the hobby and not on the board. I haven't done my part to earn the recognition. I don't feel hurt or slighted. I'm happy that the invitation process is as well thought out as it is.

If you didn't get on the guest list, here's the secret of how to make it next time.

1. Be yourself. Every board has a few superstuds. Their reviews are self-promoting porn. They brag about everything and get offended if anyone questions their stories. Along with "be yourself", be someone worth meeting.

2. Play safe. If you keep falling for the cash and dash queens, you're not paying attention to the forum. You're a danger to yourself and others. If you're out there seeking BBFS, you're not just unsafe, you're an idiot. If you want BBFS find a woman, date her, marry her, keep her satisfied and never cheat on her. Otherwise you're just saying "I want a disease and I don't care which one I get. ".

3. (The Big One) Respect. Respect your fellow mongers, respect the providers. They are all people trying to get through life. If you're here, you're in no position to judge the others here.

4. Contribute. If 6 of your 8 posts are requests for help, you're not a contributor, you're a leech. I'm amazed at the number of posts that begin with "I'm a long time monger. Can someone tell me. " If you're such an expert, where are the reviews? Why are you asking questions that have been answered 50 times before? If you need someone to hold your hand on the board, how will you ever handle a meet & greet? Post reviews, post opinions, join the various conversations, make your name one that people recognize.

That's really all you need to do. Be nice, be active, be smart and be safe. Eventually you'll find yourself on the guest list. Unless you complain about not being on the guest list. Nobody likes a whiner.

Too much to quote. Should have just had you write this but I figured you were packing for South America. And I would welcome you any day but you've got that love thing going on. LOL.

[QUOTE=Sarag;3234688]I moved this to the Prickyard as not everyone will like what I have to say. To answer your question, yes this was an invite only event. We posted some funnies about it to poke fun in jest at the ones invited that didn't make it as it's always a good time and to spark interest for future events.

Various people host meet and greets and have their own criteria for who's included.

Now for the part some won't like.

Every host or hostess sets their own standards, criteria, parameters what have you. Some people will say a ho is a ho is a ho. Others will say there is a hierarchy amongst providers in the hobby. However you look at it there's a relatively clear distinction that I look at. Obviously some are in this business due to human trafficking (pimps) or drug use or some other reason that's kind of sad. They oftentimes are reckless with their own safety. Then you have your reputable providers that have established themselves as safe and as quality. They screen for their safety. They do not use illegal substances. They have a history of all positive reviews and the like. They are also known for playing safe. These ladies are the ones that I would consider.

Now the part many will really not like. And I only speak for a meet and greet that I am involved with.

For the guys included in the invites they too must have established them selves as safe and reputable and playing safe. Frankly guys who see streetwalkers or providers known to use (especially heroin, crack or meth), that come across on the board as degrading towards women or cheap, that don't play safe bragging of BBFS, that make fun of a providers appearance will never find themselves at one I have any control over. Seeing street walkers, known drug users or providers with other risky behavior such as known for offering or allowing BBFS could put all of our safety at risk. If those providers don't screen for their safety I'm not comfortable with their ability to be discreet and smart and not putting us at risk. You may be a great guy. Don't know, but unfortunately you have a history of seeing streetwalkers and for seeing Clarissa for example. Ironically, Clarissa was at the heart of a lot of heated discussing in June over the last meet and greet as she was an unknown, was reported as allowing BBFS, and started out as a streetwalker. Eventually I believe it came out that a bf or someone else came into play in a bad way but I can be mistaken. Anyhow guys that choose anonymity rather than allowing reputable providers do the necessary amt of screening to ensure their safety, or reckless behavior in their hobbling are a pass in my book.

Another thing I look at is your reputation in the hobby as far as have you possibly made an effort to get to know other mongers? There are quite a few of us that are almost in a circle of friends.

Now for the guys that weren't at the last one but at the first one, you may not have been invited this time as no fault of your own, but rather trying to get a variety of both male and female participants. Not all of the same guys nor all of the same providers were invited because variety is the spice of life. I also looked at the participants from the last one to see if the men took advantage of meeting the ladies as a meet and greet is a marketing tool for the ladies. It's nice to put a name to a face, but for the ladies it also will hopefully lead to future clients.

Also some of the ladies will include established clients that they know are safe and they are vouched for. Bottom line no one that isn't vouched for by a reputable Hobbyist or provider will make it in the door.

So by all means I am not trying to discourage anyone from seeing streetwalkers, drug users, or other ladies that may be a risk to herself, the hobbyist or others they meet. Those participating in a meet and greet depend on the discretion of the other participants and need to feel safe that no problems would arise from their participation. So those known to participate in risky hobbying are a pass for me.

I also tend to not invite someone that canceled last minute male or female without a plausible explanation that is wayed on a case by case basis. Frankly "I'm sick" is kind of a bullshit answer to me and if you don't make it after I put weeks and weeks of planning into something and you said that you were going to come up to even the day before, that's fine, just you won't be taking somebody else's space next time.

So in a very big nutshell I hope I answered your question.[/QUOTE]But Sara, why don't you tell us how you really feel. You should be careful though, that sort of frankness and truth might make you seem divisive, not accepting of our diversity here, prejudiced and non-inclusive. Why God forbid, you might even hurt someone's feelings, their self esteem as a monger damaged forever. Someone might even call you a mysogynist (not to be confused with a massagonist which I know you to be). I for one applaud you for your efforts and your thoughts, and no, I was neither an invitee nor a no-show, but I can appreciate the statement, membership has its privileges.

[QUOTE=Sarag;3234688]I moved this to the Prickyard as not everyone will like what I have to say. To answer your question, yes this was an invite only event. We posted some funnies about it to poke fun in jest at the ones invited that didn't make it as it's always a good time and to spark interest for future events.

Various people host meet and greets and have their own criteria for who's included.

Now for the part some won't like.

Every host or hostess sets their own standards, criteria, parameters what have you. Some people will say a ho is a ho is a ho. Others will say there is a hierarchy amongst providers in the hobby. However you look at it there's a relatively clear distinction that I look at. Obviously some are in this business due to human trafficking (pimps) or drug use or some other reason that's kind of sad. They oftentimes are reckless with their own safety. Then you have your reputable providers that have established themselves as safe and as quality. They screen for their safety. They do not use illegal substances. They have a history of all positive reviews and the like. They are also known for playing safe. These ladies are the ones that I would consider.

Now the part many will really not like. And I only speak for a meet and greet that I am involved with.

For the guys included in the invites they too must have established them selves as safe and reputable and playing safe. Frankly guys who see streetwalkers or providers known to use (especially heroin, crack or meth), that come across on the board as degrading towards women or cheap, that don't play safe bragging of BBFS, that make fun of a providers appearance will never find themselves at one I have any control over. Seeing street walkers, known drug users or providers with other risky behavior such as known for offering or allowing BBFS could put all of our safety at risk. If those providers don't screen for their safety I'm not comfortable with their ability to be discreet and smart and not putting us at risk. You may be a great guy. Don't know, but unfortunately you have a history of seeing streetwalkers and for seeing Clarissa for example. Ironically, Clarissa was at the heart of a lot of heated discussing in June over the last meet and greet as she was an unknown, was reported as allowing BBFS, and started out as a streetwalker. Eventually I believe it came out that a bf or someone else came into play in a bad way but I can be mistaken. Anyhow guys that choose anonymity rather than allowing reputable providers do the necessary amt of screening to ensure their safety, or reckless behavior in their hobbling are a pass in my book.

Another thing I look at is your reputation in the hobby as far as have you possibly made an effort to get to know other mongers? There are quite a few of us that are almost in a circle of friends.

Now for the guys that weren't at the last one but at the first one, you may not have been invited this time as no fault of your own, but rather trying to get a variety of both male and female participants. Not all of the same guys nor all of the same providers were invited because variety is the spice of life. I also looked at the participants from the last one to see if the men took advantage of meeting the ladies as a meet and greet is a marketing tool for the ladies. It's nice to put a name to a face, but for the ladies it also will hopefully lead to future clients.

Also some of the ladies will include established clients that they know are safe and they are vouched for. Bottom line no one that isn't vouched for by a reputable Hobbyist or provider will make it in the door.

So by all means I am not trying to discourage anyone from seeing streetwalkers, drug users, or other ladies that may be a risk to herself, the hobbyist or others they meet. Those participating in a meet and greet depend on the discretion of the other participants and need to feel safe that no problems would arise from their participation. So those known to participate in risky hobbying are a pass for me.

I also tend to not invite someone that canceled last minute male or female without a plausible explanation that is wayed on a case by case basis. Frankly "I'm sick" is kind of a bullshit answer to me and if you don't make it after I put weeks and weeks of planning into something and you said that you were going to come up to even the day before, that's fine, just you won't be taking somebody else's space next time.

So in a very big nutshell I hope I answered your question.[/QUOTE]Thank you for enlightening me Sara. I only asked because the first one was highly advertised on the board.

And this one was not. I was not whining about not getting invited as other members seem to believe.

[QUOTE=HeatMan;3234919]Thank you for enlightening me Sara. I only asked because the first one was highly advertised on the board.

And this one was not. I was not whining about not getting invited as other members seem to believe.[/QUOTE]I didn't take it that you were whining at all I just learned from the last ones to not advertise.

And Ilapp actually I told people to invite you I just don't know what happened.

I couldn't agree more with what you had to say. I find it refreshing that you are confident in your words and say what you mean I hope that someday I am able to earn the respect of the community and earn an invite. That being said I will do my part to try and earn that respect. Be safe.

[QUOTE=Sarag;3234688]I moved this to the Prickyard as not everyone will like what I have to say. To answer your question, yes this was an invite only event. We posted some funnies about it to poke fun in jest at the ones invited that didn't make it as it's always a good time and to spark interest for future events.

Various people host meet and greets and have their own criteria for who's included.

Now for the part some won't like.

Every host or hostess sets their own standards, criteria, parameters what have you. Some people will say a ho is a ho is a ho. Others will say there is a hierarchy amongst providers in the hobby. However you look at it there's a relatively clear distinction that I look at. Obviously some are in this business due to human trafficking (pimps) or drug use or some other reason that's kind of sad. They oftentimes are reckless with their own safety. Then you have your reputable providers that have established themselves as safe and as quality. They screen for their safety. They do not use illegal substances. They have a history of all positive reviews and the like. They are also known for playing safe. These ladies are the ones that I would consider.

Now the part many will really not like. And I only speak for a meet and greet that I am involved with.

For the guys included in the invites they too must have established them selves as safe and reputable and playing safe. Frankly guys who see streetwalkers or providers known to use (especially heroin, crack or meth), that come across on the board as degrading towards women or cheap, that don't play safe bragging of BBFS, that make fun of a providers appearance will never find themselves at one I have any control over. Seeing street walkers, known drug users or providers with other risky behavior such as known for offering or allowing BBFS could put all of our safety at risk. If those providers don't screen for their safety I'm not comfortable with their ability to be discreet and smart and not putting us at risk. You may be a great guy. Don't know, but unfortunately you have a history of seeing streetwalkers and for seeing Clarissa for example. Ironically, Clarissa was at the heart of a lot of heated discussing in June over the last meet and greet as she was an unknown, was reported as allowing BBFS, and started out as a streetwalker. Eventually I believe it came out that a bf or someone else came into play in a bad way but I can be mistaken. Anyhow guys that choose anonymity rather than allowing reputable providers do the necessary amt of screening to ensure their safety, or reckless behavior in their hobbling are a pass in my book.

Another thing I look at is your reputation in the hobby as far as have you possibly made an effort to get to know other mongers? There are quite a few of us that are almost in a circle of friends.

Now for the guys that weren't at the last one but at the first one, you may not have been invited this time as no fault of your own, but rather trying to get a variety of both male and female participants. Not all of the same guys nor all of the same providers were invited because variety is the spice of life. I also looked at the participants from the last one to see if the men took advantage of meeting the ladies as a meet and greet is a marketing tool for the ladies. It's nice to put a name to a face, but for the ladies it also will hopefully lead to future clients.

Also some of the ladies will include established clients that they know are safe and they are vouched for. Bottom line no one that isn't vouched for by a reputable Hobbyist or provider will make it in the door.

So by all means I am not trying to discourage anyone from seeing streetwalkers, drug users, or other ladies that may be a risk to herself, the hobbyist or others they meet. Those participating in a meet and greet depend on the discretion of the other participants and need to feel safe that no problems would arise from their participation. So those known to participate in risky hobbying are a pass for me.

I also tend to not invite someone that canceled last minute male or female without a plausible explanation that is wayed on a case by case basis. Frankly "I'm sick" is kind of a bullshit answer to me and if you don't make it after I put weeks and weeks of planning into something and you said that you were going to come up to even the day before, that's fine, just you won't be taking somebody else's space next time.

So in a very big nutshell I hope I answered your question.[/QUOTE].