Strip Club Situationships
Over the past five years, I've spent a lot of time in strip clubs and found myself in different situationships with dancers, around ninety or so if I'm being honest. Along the way, I started to notice patterns, not just in them but in myself too. Many of these women carry deep emotional pain, often rooted in things like childhood trauma, sexual assault, or strained relationships with their parents. Some turn to substances to cope, while others hide behind confidence and charm. I realized that I often took on the role of wanting to "save" them because it made me feel needed, like I could somehow fix what was broken. But after my last experience, I decided to step away from that world completely. At the end of the day, most of them are chasing fast money and a certain lifestyle that I will not longer provide them. I don't judge them for it anymore, but I've learned not to take it personally or get emotionally attached. You can care, but you have to know when to let go. Let me know your experiences? I bet we have delta with the same girls. LOL.