"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

I still think the number of truly wealthy guys on SA is infinitely small. If a wealthy guy is that concerned with discretion he'll use one of the many very well established escort agency whose whole reason for being is supplying 9's and 10's for big bucks or something like striper bars. And that bartender at the restaurant, the thousand (or two) a pop she gets is a bit to drop her panties and very much so to keep her mouth shut. We're not talking about dating here but a sugar scenario.

All this to say that when all these girls on SA claim they're used to getting big big bucks I know it's a lie every single time.

[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;3887894]I'm sure there are wealthy men on SA for the reasons you describe. It makes sense to remain anonymous, discreet and find variety.

I know a very wealthy guy that hangs out at strip clubs. He throws ridiculous money to have strippers spend private time with him at his condo. The girls know he is a big spender, likes variety and won't get attached. For many of the girls it's ideal when they are in a pinch and need quick funds. Like a safety net. He's not the best looking guy, is arrogant and controlling, but the girls aren't looking for a relationship. I know he is also on SA.

When girls on SA tell me about big money their last SD gave them, I ask them why it didn't last. I tell them I'm fortunate I haven't had to pay that much and have had several succesful arrangements last over a year. I either peak their interest or quickly filter out GPS.[/QUOTE]

The truly wealthy don't have the time it takes to find the gems on SA. Their time is worth more than any woman's they could find on the site.

So other than just sharing a photo and saying "ill give you $1000 to spend the night as my sex slave" I don't see them spending the time on it.

Anyone know where this one is dancing? She has not responded to my inquiry.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bb29f68d-0c9a-4cbc-bf15-1e979363c2b0[/URL]

[QUOTE=JustLonely;3888291]Anyone know where this one is dancing? She has not responded to my inquiry.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bb29f68d-0c9a-4cbc-bf15-1e979363c2b0[/URL][/QUOTE]I don't know where. But she quoted me 5 bills before those panties hit the floor.

I haven't had much luck finding sustaining SBs on the site lately. I have had several one-and-dones. I started going back to girls I was seeing last summer, multiple times, but no contact for many months. Much to my pleasant surprise, two were receptive, I will re-M&G with them next week. One a mid-20's volleyball player, another a 21 YO honor student (1/3 my age), both submissive. Anyone have similar experience w / retreads?

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;3888000]I still think the number of truly wealthy guys on SA is infinitely small. If a wealthy guy is that concerned with discretion he'll use one of the many very well established escort agency whose whole reason for being is supplying 9's and 10's for big bucks or something like striper bars. And that bartender at the restaurant, the thousand (or two) a pop she gets is a bit to drop her panties and very much so to keep her mouth shut. We're not talking about dating here but a sugar scenario.

All this to say that when all these girls on SA claim they're used to getting big big bucks I know it's a lie every single time.[/QUOTE]There is another discriminating feature, married or not. If I were single and had all my current assets, I would be like a kid in a candy store, I would have a grand old time w / SBs. Some have said you can get pretty much anyone on the site for 500 per. However, w / a SO, there are many limitations, including hiding the $ drain. Splitting up isn't a solution because the assets aren't what they were. And, I am confident an escort agency could not provide me what I have gotten from some amazing SBs I have been lucky enough to meet and am still friendly with.

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;3888000]I still think the number of truly wealthy guys on SA is infinitely small. If a wealthy guy is that concerned with discretion he'll use one of the many very well established escort agency whose whole reason for being is supplying 9's and 10's for big bucks or something like striper bars. And that bartender at the restaurant, the thousand (or two) a pop she gets is a bit to drop her panties and very much so to keep her mouth shut. We're not talking about dating here but a sugar scenario.

All this to say that when all these girls on SA claim they're used to getting big big bucks I know it's a lie every single time.[/QUOTE]I think this is spot on. If I'm wealthy, and I'm not, I'm going with a very well established high end escort service that is going to guarantee me nothing but 10's who are going to make me believe they are in love with me. I'm certainly not on SA. I'm not convinced that any of the "10's" that are on the site are real women. The two that sought me out were scammers. I may be wrong, but one man's 5 is another man's 10!

Well, I didn't go to FC with her. Just had a dinner with her. She told me this just 3 hrs before we planned to hit the FC first time.

Dr. S.

[QUOTE=CantWinLosin;3884195]Whether or not I believed her would depend on how she told me. If she told me in a manner that demonstrated some concern for me since she would have potentially exposed me to the STD, then I'd be more likely to believe her. If she didn't, I'd ask to see the test results "before contacting my doctor" - her response (or lack of it) to that request would confirm the suspicions, or not.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BlueFalcon123;3888408]I don't know where. But she quoted me 5 bills before those panties hit the floor.[/QUOTE]Yikes! I think I will join RVA Spider and wait on the coeds comings in a few weeks. Need to get to them before they start reading the SA Blog for Women and get GPS.

[QUOTE=JustLonely;3889001]Yikes! I think I will join RVA Spider and wait on the coeds comings in a few weeks. Need to get to them before they start reading the SA Blog for Women and get GPS.[/QUOTE]I'm talking to one now who I thought I was going to meet yesterday. She bailed and now wants me to pay her $50 before we meet at Starbucks. Hot blonde college student. She said she has several guys from the site paying her just to text. I told her that she's a lucky girl. I've got plenty of cash set aside to spend on good times but I'm not overpaying even though it seems like there are plenty of SDs driving up the prices. Two more weeks and we should see the girls coming back to school.

[QUOTE=RVASpider;3889122]I'm talking to one now who I thought I was going to meet yesterday. She bailed and now wants me to pay her $50 before we meet at Starbucks. Hot blonde college student. She said she has several guys from the site paying her just to text. I told her that she's a lucky girl. I've got plenty of cash set aside to spend on good times but I'm not overpaying even though it seems like there are plenty of SDs driving up the prices. Two more weeks and we should see the girls coming back to school.[/QUOTE]I've had several "gals" want to share pictures and videos for cash but now they expect cash for texting? Good grief.

I'm curious though brother mongers, has the site changed a bit this summer or is this just a normal thing that happens this time of year? I mean, when I get the SBs to texting, we quickly come to an agreement on moving forward or cutting bait. But for the past month, I just seem to be attracting SBs that just want to text every once in awhile but can't seem to commit to meeting. I hope this is an anomaly because I'm getting pissed at all the time wasters.

[QUOTE=CoolPix;3890030]I've had several "gals" want to share pictures and videos for cash but now they expect cash for texting? Good grief.

I'm curious though brother mongers, has the site changed a bit this summer or is this just a normal thing that happens this time of year? I mean, when I get the SBs to texting, we quickly come to an agreement on moving forward or cutting bait. But for the past month, I just seem to be attracting SBs that just want to text every once in awhile but can't seem to commit to meeting. I hope this is an anomaly because I'm getting pissed at all the time wasters.[/QUOTE]I've found the same thing since the start of summer but I wasn't on the site last year so I'm not sure if this is part of the normal cycle. I'm starting to look in Va Beach hoping that it's different there.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c39b053f-c36c-42f8-bfb9-ede580e682b8[/URL], open relationship, like hubby to watch.

[QUOTE=RVASpider;3890276]I've found the same thing since the start of summer but I wasn't on the site last year so I'm not sure if this is part of the normal cycle. I'm starting to look in Va Beach hoping that it's different there.[/QUOTE]I have had good luck in VA Beach. Although with the 2 major road projects on 64 this year, I haven't been down since the winter. Summertime traffic is too heavy and it is very time consuming to see anyone there if you are driving from Richmond.

Generally speaking I get more replies from my initial messages from women down there. My target group are waitresses over 21. A lot are working short shifts and need the extra cash and don't seem as finicky about seeing older men. Also moms in Chesapeake are a good bet. Everyone I have taken to the Amber Lantern restaurant on the the Elizabeth River for a M & G has went straight to the FC for dessert. Unfortunately with a SO back home I usually have to find someone with daytime availability. Those rare occasions when the SO goes to Roanoke to see family is when I can do the dinner dates.

It's funny how we (myself included) generally see high school girls as too young but these same girls are fair game as soon mom and dad drop them off at college 3 months later. By September, SA will be overflowing with 18 yo SBs looking for daddy; freshman girl is my favorite dessert for fall.