The Case for GPS. Provocateur / Baroness
". So you know I was the keynote speaker at the Sugarbaby Summit in April, speaking as a sex and relationship therapist. ".
It's women like this that contribute to the GPS frenzy. She speaks to other potential SBs and promotes her style of being an SB.
I've read Blogs where women justify being an SB as a "full time legitimate job". They spend lots of time and money making themselves look good and polishing their social skills to attract "a real SD". They promote "knowing your worth" and not accepting less. They discuss how to avoid the "intimacy issue" by hinting at future intimacy. They claim to create great experiences for their SD's, but yet are actively searching for a new SD every day.
I've asked the question: If you are creating such a great experience why are you looking for a new SD everyday and not having ongoing arrangements with your SD?
Much of what attracts many girls to the site is the promise of Big Fish that are willing to spend lots of money and won't expect intimacy (or at least can be held at bay with unfulfilled promises of intimacy).
[QUOTE=BStreet;3886110]The Baroness. Somehow I had totally forgotten her former profile, yeah she is full of it.
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I know it's shark week but.
[QUOTE=BStreet;3886128]Don't do monthly either. I have faked it some saying we can work up to that as we build trust, but still not happening. Have had a couple pre-pays I have done in the past cause they needed the money now before we could meet again, which I had only agreed to because we had met before and had some fun, with the promise I will get mine later, still waiting for later.
.[/QUOTE]Once you find that one that lives alone in her own apartment, is hot in bed, appreciates all the little gifts you give her, makes time for you by moving her schedule around, you'll know that you are going to be giving her an allowance. Or at least a number of cash payments each month adding to an allowance.
I've found that one girl that deserves an allowance. I get to bareback her and not worry about it. Her boyfriend is on the west coast and I get to beat that pussy up twice a week for way less than a hooker would charge.
There are a few girls on SA that are in it to be a good SB. Don't paint them all as sharks.
Agreed, for sure. It's a lot of work finding the hidden gem.
I agree it is a lot of work finding the right one that you know you can work a real arrangement with. I would not be comfortable if the girls started dictating terms before we met. There were plenty of them that I talk to and I told them what my idea of a fair monthly allowance would be and they were just too high and I moved on. The best thing about SA is that you can pretty quickly weed out the girls that are unrealistic without even meeting them. I thought I should just put in my two cents about making an arrangement versus buying a date and leaving the future unresolved. The good ones aren't really going to be interested in doing that.
If you do set the expectations up front that she can count on a steady stream from you, it gets really easy to move to the FC. I try to go with the idea that I'm going to be a perfect gentleman at the first meeting look her over, make the decision pretty quickly if I'm going to slide that first envelope cash over to her at that lunch or dinner or whatever. If I decide that I'm going to bed this girl four to six times a month why wouldn't I slip her a few hundred bucks if I'm getting the vibe that she wants to get to know me better. Right there I'm establishing my level of serious interest she knows I'm for real. With the girl I'm seeing now the next time we met we were in bed in under 15 minutes. You have to be willing to risk a little cash to gain their trust. You are going to have to tell them what you want and what your monthly budget is.
For me it turns out that this is a girl who had one boyfriend in high school, another guy who is 2000 miles away and comes back almost never, has no tattoos no piercings pretty much the ideal SB. She likes older guys she likes to be treated special and I'm hoping it's a good long run for the both of us.
[QUOTE=EvilTmp;3886653]The plain truth is that for the right girl most guys on the site would be thrilled to provide any type of allowance she desires. However the girls that are on there to scam, lie, steal are the vast majority and you simply cannot give them the benefit of the doubt until you know for sure who you're dealing with. You can bet your bottom dollar that any girl that asks for a monthly allowance up-front is going to ghost you. Same for someone you've seen that asks for an advance as she triple-promises to make it up to you later (yeah right).
So yeah, there are a few good ones on there but it's a game of needle in a haystack.[/QUOTE]
Agreed, but it's unrealistic for all but a very few places
[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;3886383]". So you know I was the keynote speaker at the Sugarbaby Summit in April, speaking as a sex and relationship therapist. ".
It's women like this that contribute to the GPS frenzy. She speaks to other potential SBs and promotes her style of being an SB.
I've read Blogs where women justify being an SB as a "full time legitimate job". They spend lots of time and money making themselves look good and polishing their social skills to attract "a real SD". They promote "knowing your worth" and not accepting less. They discuss how to avoid the "intimacy issue" by hinting at future intimacy. They claim to create great experiences for their SD's, but yet are actively searching for a new SD every day.
I've asked the question: If you are creating such a great experience why are you looking for a new SD everyday and not having ongoing arrangements with your SD?
Much of what attracts many girls to the site is the promise of Big Fish that are willing to spend lots of money and won't expect intimacy (or at least can be held at bay with unfulfilled promises of intimacy).[/QUOTE]There are places that can support that sort of SB culture, but they're few and far between. Not every town is LA, DC, NYC or Chicago; in most places, few men have the financial wherewithal to live that lifestyle, and their number is made much smaller by the nature of the location. Here in RIC, for example: at the end of the day, this is still a relatively small, southern, bible-belt town, and even those with the means and desire to support a SB in that kind of lavish lifestyle worry about the social / family / business aspects of being seen out on the town with arm candy. And the competition for those few men is stiff.
As for why they're always looking: being a full-time SB is essentially a cashflow-based sales business. They have to keep the pipeline filled with prospects, because guys are falling out the other end of the pipe all the time. Barroness and those like her know that any of their current mealtickets can bail on them at any time, so they're constantly working to find new meat even when their schedule is full, and thet're adept at keeping guys on the hook until they can fit them into the rotation. Their lifestyle becomes a take on the 1st Gas Law: the outgo always expands to consume all the available income. But they get very accustomed / addicted to it when times are fat, and want to make very sure the lean times are kept at bay.
Sooner or later, time and gravity catches up to us all. And while some may have truly been smart and packed away a great nestegg for the golden years, those are really few and far between. My bet is that sooner or later, you'll find most of the Barroness' of this world behind the counter at Wawa because their looks and figure are gone and they have no skills or work history to draw on for finding anything better. (Well, if Barroness really has the education and experience she claims, she will probably do OK. Most won't.).
