Enthusiasm vs looks course correction.
I wasn't going to chime in on this but there are so many responses going down the wrong way of thinking IMO. This isn't a situation where you should have to make a choice between the two. You're not trying to decide to invite the fun girl or the pretty girl to the prom. This is a service that you are paying for. Enthusiasm is a given. If a girl doesn't have that she is not doing her job. Looks are a matter of taste. Some guys like spinners, some like BBW's, some like something in between. Ass men, boob guys, leg men, whatever thing you are into all factors into looks.
Look, we have all had sex with a girl that is so hot that she thinks all she has to do is lay there. She knows she's hot and it's just such a privilege for you to be lucky enough to get to bang her. That kind of shit may work in the dating world if a guy has low self esteem but not in the professional world. If I'm paying for sex luck has nothing to do with it. If you go to a restaurant and the waiter brings out your meal and the presentation is so beautiful that it makes you hungrier just looking at it. Your mouth is watering and you can't wait to get that first bite into your mouth. Then you taste it and it tastes like a cat vomited on a piece of dog shit. Are you going to go back to that restaurant for more? No matter how good it looks if it doesn't taste good it's not worth your money. By the same token if something looks so disgusting your not sure if you can get it in your mouth without vomiting but it tastes amazing you probably wouldn't pay money for that either. I mean you might but why not have something that looks good and tastes good for the same money?
My analogies are a little extreme to make my point. Obviously even bad sex is better then no sex. If all you care about is a pretty girl then just sit home and jerk off to Emily Ratajkowski for free. When it comes time to part with your money you should get exactly what you want. Providers have their lists of services offered but enthusiasm is just a base service that is expected to be part of the package. If they are not providing that then they are in the wrong business.
D Nut started this conversation asking the ladies to pay attention to the answers. In fact it was a loaded question with an obvious answer. I wasn't going to chime in but I feel like it is taking things off course. I suspect he had an experience with a very attractive provider that lacked enthusiasm. I'm sure he wants to see her again but without the enthusiasm it's just not worth the money and he's hoping she will read these posts and change her attitude. I'm down with that 100 percent. I'm directing my post to the mongers. You don't have to choose between looks and enthusiasm. You should get both for your money. If you see a provider's add that meets your definition of beautiful and make an appointment with her but when you arrive she looks nothing like her pictures and is not attractive to you at all. Would you keep going back to her? Don't keep giving your money to a provider who is not doing her job. If a girl is using fake pictures you would post it on here. If a girl looks good but is not enthusiastic and is a bad lay you should post it here. Let the market decide. When she stops getting business she will either change her attitude or get out of the business. Either way is a win for us. The elimination of bad providers creates a better provider community as a whole. As soon as we accept the idea that we have to choose between looks and enthusiasm we all lose.
Was thinking of seeing LilSexyMe69
There have been a few reviews from short time low # seniors so I did a search on her phone # and came up with nothing.
She looks hot as can be but my gut says be careful. Any review from a well respected Senior would be Appreciated.
Senior? Check. Well Respected. Ahhhh, not so sure about that.
[QUOTE=Upullandpay; 1767721]There have been a few reviews from short time low # seniors so I did a search on her phone # and came up with nothing.
She looks hot as can be but my gut says be careful. Any review from a well respected Senior would be Appreciated.[/QUOTE]UPP,
Noe sure if this helps but I think we'll be well rewarded for your exploration. Hot as can be? Yep.
I posted a review a couple weeks ago. Had the pleasure of pleasure again recently and can assure you the experience was outstanding on round one. It has only improved since. If I could write a Phat-review, it would take pages but I'm a simple man.
She looks as good as the pics, if not better. Tastes as good as she looks, if not better. Has a terminally horny streak a mile wide, if not wider. High energy with no "no" list.
I'll leave it at "just do it".
Good luck. Leave room for others.
Have a great day.
Dz (possibly a well respected senior. We'll see, eh?)
How a Provider can Connect successfully to a Client
[QUOTE=D Nut; 1766914]This is a question for the guys, but it's really the ladies that should pay attention to the answers.
Looks vs. Enthusiasm? What is more important? I vote enthusiasm.[/QUOTE]Good question D nut. However; looks and enthusiasm covers only about half of it. Successful qualities of a Provider in a session with the Hobbyist include other qualities. Most clients prefer being appreciated and pampered IMHO. I think the providers that are successful out there because of how intently they value their client's companionship. They show that they care about you and show that they really want to see you again.
Here's my list of what I look for and notice when I see a provider.
Is She very punctual, arrives on sessions on time.
Is She enthusiastic no matter how weary she may be that day.
Does She Go that extra mile and remain bushy-tailed throughout the session.
Does She refrain from doing things not like by you the client.
Is She appropriately dressed and maintain proper hygienic.
Is She very respectful and focus on you the client.
Just my view on being in the Hobby for decades.
Harpo
Have seen Hannah several times
[QUOTE=Tit Man Too; 1768759]I guess I don't get out much. This was the first provider I have met that had needle marks and a bad vain in her arm. The service was just OK – she might have been a little strung out, I don't know.
Will not repeat.
TMT[/QUOTE]I know Hannah and have seen her several times with our most recent date about a week and a half ago. I have never noticed any needle marks, bad veins or anything reported here. I can also say she has never appeared to be "strung out." All my visits have been pleasant and Hannah sweetly sees that all my needs are met. She seems to enjoy the visit as well. She is multi-orgasmic and I find that a turn-on. I plan on seeing her again later this week and I expect her to be the cute and sweet young lady I have come to know. I find this report a bit difficult to believe quite frankly.
You would be eliminating 80% of the providers
[QUOTE=GolfGuy; 1769131]So, you set up a date with the provider go and meet her notice needle marks and a bad vein and you think she may be a little strung out and you still decide to stay and go through it. Really? Why?
I don't know but I just don't get it. Do we really want to keep saying providers that are shooting heroin around. I would say we just quit seeing them and hopefully they will go away. I don't think we need that in our community. Just saying.
Stay safe people[/QUOTE]Maybe more. Some are more adept at concealing their addiction but if you were to scratch from your list providers you are willing to see, based on that, there would be almost none left. No offense to those providers not using but the numbers are extremely high, higher than most think. And some of them are intermittent users so you never really know when they are on it or not. Although, there are times when it is quite obvious.
Addiction is a bad thing.
[QUOTE=Gitanacv;1769422]Maybe more. Some are more adept at concealing their addiction but if you were to scratch from your list providers you are willing to see, based on that, there would be almost none left. No offense to those providers not using but the numbers are extremely high, higher than most think. And some of them are intermittent users so you never really know when they are on it or not. Although, there are times when it is quite obvious.[/QUOTE]My regular is addicted to coitus LOL.
Sarah in norwood (alltalltoday)
Has anybody seen here recently? Any good reviews? Tried search seems that its been awhile since anyone has reviewed. T. I. A