[QUOTE=Swm11;5672991]Any contact info?
I'm looking for a good massage.[/QUOTE]She deleted it so no info available but she had a number in her profile, most probably a scam.
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[QUOTE=Swm11;5672991]Any contact info?
I'm looking for a good massage.[/QUOTE]She deleted it so no info available but she had a number in her profile, most probably a scam.
[QUOTE=Chudakkad;5673397]She deleted it so no info available but she had a number in her profile, most probably a scam.[/QUOTE]I don't see where he said she had a number in her profile. There's no way they would allow her to do that. That's the type of thing they review carefully in a profile. Any of us guys who let our membership expire would be able to contact her.
Blue.
[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5674910]I don't see where he said she had a number in her profile. There's no way they would allow her to do that. That's the type of thing they review carefully in a profile. Any of us guys who let our membership expire would be able to contact her.
Blue.[/QUOTE]I think you are confusing me with two people, I was the OP on this and I had said that there was a number in the profile, probably that's why it was deactivated, it was not a CT area code so I had a feeling it was a scam, anyways its a waste of time to discuss a deactivated profile.
When I asked what town in CT, she replied.
"I prefer not to tell strangers exactly where I live".
Here's a fake cutie:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/83a95c53-70c3-4b86-a236-28f29b770b1f[/URL]
She's new to it so she would "need a partial upfront payment."
The number of phonies is amazing. Had one gal try to get me to invest in crypto. Another who said she didn't kiss (sounds like a streetwalker to me), and dozens who either want to sell photos first or need that advance. And we won't even get into the lists of restrictions.
Though I have had two great experiences (which I prefer not to share), so perhaps it's worth digging.
[QUOTE=WilliamArthur;5678626]Here's a fake cutie:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/83a95c53-70c3-4b86-a236-28f29b770b1f[/URL]
She's new to it so she would "need a partial upfront payment."
The number of phonies is amazing. Had one gal try to get me to invest in crypto. Another who said she didn't kiss (sounds like a streetwalker to me), and dozens who either want to sell photos first or need that advance. And we won't even get into the lists of restrictions.
Though I have had two great experiences (which I prefer not to share), so perhaps it's worth digging.[/QUOTE]That wasn't her profile, it was a link to messages.
Blue.
[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5679179]That wasn't her profile, it was a link to messages.
Blue.[/QUOTE]My mistake, but she's been booted already anyway.
I got an email from SA stating, " Price Increase starting January 4, 2022 ". It didn't state the increase amount.
BMD.
[QUOTE=Chudakkad;5677608]When I asked what town in CT, she replied.
"I prefer not to tell strangers exactly where I live".[/QUOTE]I live in the northwest corner of the state, and I have no desire to go east of the Connecticut River, or lower Fairfield County. Even southeastern New Haven County is too far for me. So, when their profile says Connecticut, Connecticut, I always ask them what part of the state they live in. I know there's a lot of fakes on seeking that use the Connecticut Connecticut, but there's also some that are scared to give away their location. It's usually pretty easy to spot the fakes soon, but it's hard to tell the ones who are just looking to get you to send them some upfront money for gas, or their hair done, or a babysitter. There are some though that you can tell there are real and just very scared to give out their location. I can understand them not wanting to give out their address to someone right away or even at all if they're not hosting, but what the hell difference does it make if they give out the town? To those who seem real enough to pursue, I say " What do you think I'm going to do if you give me the town, hunt you down? I live on North Main Street in Torrington. Come find me! " I usually get the town, then.
What I have noticed is that almost everyone of the young ladies that wants me to use an app like WhatsApp, or Kik, or Snapchat is a fake. I hate to generalize, but it's been my experience. Anybody else?
Price increase in January. I think I'm done for a while. I've got a few potentials at the moment and Tiffany2 & a UTR in Waterbury, not to mention the loop.
Be careful out there.
Blue.
[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5680256]
What I have noticed is that almost everyone of the young ladies that wants me to use an app like WhatsApp, or Kik, or Snapchat is a fake. I hate to generalize, but it's been my experience. Anybody else?
.[/QUOTE]You're not the only one.
As soon as a chic tell me to use one of those app to communicate, I blocked them and move on.
If you can't text, you can't fuck.
[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5680256]
Blue.[/QUOTE]I agree on all points.
[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5680052]I got an email from SA stating, " Price Increase starting January 4, 2022 ". It didn't state the increase amount.
BMD.[/QUOTE]And upgrade now to keep old pricing!!
[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5680052]I got an email from SA stating, " Price Increase starting January 4, 2022 ". It didn't state the increase amount.
BMD.[/QUOTE]Haha! Thtas really funny, first they should weed out those fakes.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a96ab785-855d-47db-910b-d175cbf6ed43[/URL]
Asked for three hundred allowance, brought her down to 250.
[QUOTE=Chudakkad;5680731][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a96ab785-855d-47db-910b-d175cbf6ed43[/URL]
Asked for three hundred allowance, brought her down to 250.[/QUOTE]How frequently would the allowance be paid? Have you visited yet?
[QUOTE=Chudakkad;5680731][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a96ab785-855d-47db-910b-d175cbf6ed43[/URL]
Asked for three hundred allowance, brought her down to 250.[/QUOTE]That's either a bad pic or she got a mustache.
[QUOTE=JonMels;5681056]How frequently would the allowance be paid? Have you visited yet?[/QUOTE]Every meet, haven't seen her yet.
Got an email today saying as of Jan. 4 there will be a price increase. Done with that sight.
[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5680052]I got an email from SA stating, " Price Increase starting January 4, 2022 ". It didn't state the increase amount.
BMD.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BoredinCT12;5683304]Got an email today saying as of Jan. 4 there will be a price increase. Done with that sight.[/QUOTE]Yeah. They want us to spend more money and our time to weed out their spam and fake ads. Somehow, we know the fakes and frauds when we see it but they don't.
BMD.
[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5683324]Yeah. They want us to spend more money and our time to weed out their spam and fake ads. Somehow, we know the fakes and frauds when we see it but they don't.
BMD.[/QUOTE]I had a girl attempt to blackmail me a while back. I notified the site. She was back a short time later with a new profile. Notified again. She came back again. I gave up. Same profile pics each time BTW.
Clearly not that interested in getting rid of negative behaviors.
[QUOTE=Sutigel2;5683405]I had a girl attempt to blackmail me a while back. I notified the site. She was back a short time later with a new profile. Notified again. She came back again. I gave up. Same profile pics each time BTW.
Clearly not that interested in getting rid of negative behaviors.[/QUOTE]Same here. Saw this girl a few times then she threatened to out me to my family. She made the mistake of sending me a pic from her FB page. Quick search online and found her address, family etc. She text me again and I laid that info on her. Told her to basically go fuck herself. Never saw her on Seeking again.
[QUOTE=BoredinCT12;5685276]Same here. Saw this girl a few times then she threatened to out me to my family. She made the mistake of sending me a pic from her FB page. Quick search online and found her address, family etc. She text me again and I laid that info on her. Told her to basically go fuck herself. Never saw her on Seeking again.[/QUOTE]Can you both post a pix or link so we know who to stay away from. Thanks!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cb336977-7e06-428c-bffd-df14256fddee[/URL]
Asked for $500 first, then got tons of attitude, and doubled her price. The pix she sent were gorgeous, but I'm wondering if they were real. She definitely did not know how to play sugar baby game. Told her good luck.
I decided that seeking was getting too expensive so the beginning of January I'll be done. Suddenly, I'm getting some good action. I'm still waiting for the college twosome to get home from break. I've got Hartford young ladies ages 20 and 24 who have agreed to meet me at very reasonable rates. They both have bought the idea that I don't usually pay over $200 for a meet. Also, if they can't host I need to take $50 out for room expenses. I've told them I'm looking for a regular, and since they are unknown quantities, and I'm not sure how we will match up sexually, I will pay $100 for the first meet and $150 for the next few. After that, a possible shopping trip is necessary, and I'll pay $200 per meet thereafter. We are going to go out to dinner, which they will not get paid for, or ask for any money for gas or anything else, and check each other out and see if we want to continue with the arrangement. The first one I am seeing Tuesday night at a restaurant on the Berlin Turnpike. She has already asked me if we can go to the motel afterwards and I said sure. The second one, hasn't figured out what's a good time to meet because of the holidays. I've also got the two college student duo that are sway for the holiday break. They were reasonable. There's also two other duos that I am chatting with. Please don't PM me for usernames, I will leave a review after I've successfully met up with any of them. More than likely if I do give out the identity of any of them, somebody on here will message them and say that they hear that they are taking my prices. Then I'm fucked- not the way I am hoping for! Talking to a few others but nothing promising yet. Too many times I've gotten to the point where dinner is in the books and I get that text that they need money for something. I've learned to tell them up front not to bother asking.
[QUOTE=WilliamArthur;5685861]Can you both post a pix or link so we know who to stay away from. Thanks![/QUOTE]Haven't seen her in there since before the pandemic started.
[QUOTE=Sutigel2;5687135]Haven't seen her in there since before the pandemic started.[/QUOTE]Actually, out of curiosity, I just did several searches based on various locations that I either: a) met her in; or b) her various profiles claimed that she lived there.
No current profiles are obviously her. She would have had to have changed her pictures, look, etc.
Appears to no longer be on the site.
[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5686496]I decided that seeking was getting too expensive so the beginning of January I'll be done. Suddenly, I'm getting some good action. I'm still waiting for the college twosome to get home from break. I've got Hartford young ladies ages 20 and 24 who have agreed to meet me at very reasonable rates. They both have bought the idea that I don't usually pay over $200 for a meet. Also, if they can't host I need to take $50 out for room expenses. I've told them I'm looking for a regular, and since they are unknown quantities, and I'm not sure how we will match up sexually, I will pay $100 for the first meet and $150 for the next few. After that, a possible shopping trip is necessary, and I'll pay $200 per meet thereafter. We are going to go out to dinner, which they will not get paid for, or ask for any money for gas or anything else, and check each other out and see if we want to continue with the arrangement. The first one I am seeing Tuesday night at a restaurant on the Berlin Turnpike. She has already asked me if we can go to the motel afterwards and I said sure. The second one, hasn't figured out what's a good time to meet because of the holidays. I've also got the two college student duo that are sway for the holiday break. They were reasonable. There's also two other duos that I am chatting with. Please don't PM me for usernames, I will leave a review after I've successfully met up with any of them. More than likely if I do give out the identity of any of them, somebody on here will message them and say that they hear that they are taking my prices. Then I'm fucked- not the way I am hoping for! Talking to a few others but nothing promising yet. Too many times I've gotten to the point where dinner is in the books and I get that text that they need money for something. I've learned to tell them up front not to bother asking.[/QUOTE]How did Tuesday night go?
[QUOTE=WilliamArthur;5685861]Can you both post a pix or link so we know who to stay away from. Thanks![/QUOTE]She has not been on any site for at least two years. No pics or links but she did always post out of Rockville.
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Got together with this one last week.
Easy to communicate and was dtf. Exchanged some text messages, discuss numbers and set up time to met at a FC in downtown the next day. You can bang her for a few hours for a very fair fee.
Too bad everything is cover with her, and can't hold a conversation too well. Other than that, she was pretty sweet and show up on time and can take a good beating without complaints. I won't repeat, but here's her profile.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/87d48fc9-8f69-4dfe-b55a-45d01a156f9a[/URL]
P.S.: Don't contact me for her digits, you got her profile link so get to work lmao.
[QUOTE=TopGun9;5692695]Got together with this one last week.
Easy to communicate and was dtf. Exchanged some text messages, discuss numbers and set up time to met at a FC in downtown the next day. You can bang her for a few hours for a very fair fee.
Too bad everything is cover with her, and can't hold a conversation too well. Other than that, she was pretty sweet and show up on time and can take a good beating without complaints. I won't repeat, but here's her profile.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/87d48fc9-8f69-4dfe-b55a-45d01a156f9a[/URL]
P.S.: Don't contact me for her digits, you got her profile link so get to work lmao.[/QUOTE]Good luck with your request to not contact you for her number. I have probably requested that a couple dozen times and never has at least one, usually multiple times. Most of the time it starts "I know you asked not to be contacted, but. " and the explanations on how it's "okay, because their situation is different. " This one seems like as close to a sure thing as it gets, so I'm thinking at least two, maybe as many as six. Nice find.
Blue.
[QUOTE=Chudakkad;5680731][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a96ab785-855d-47db-910b-d175cbf6ed43[/URL]
Asked for three hundred allowance, brought her down to 250.[/QUOTE]Is the mustache included?
Since Seeking added that extra security (can't use incognito efficiently) and price hike, I will not renew for some time. I am sharing two girls I've had my fun with. I've shared them before here but a second time doesn't hurt.
Veebug is from Stratford, cool chick, stripper and okay body. Not fat but not slim. BBFS available. Range $200-$300. She cannot host. Loves to smoke weed.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bbd16dd0-efa0-4f4e-9717-6a017eb82f57[/URL]
This one is Beeiscute, she is 19, BBFS available and cannot host. Donation $200-300. Location is in Enfield. Loves to smoke weed.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ed9df35e-8f55-49da-b73f-2e3823130e48[/URL]
Merry Christmas!
[QUOTE=BigBoss203;5694533]Since Seeking added that extra security (can't use incognito efficiently) and price hike, I will not renew for some time. I am sharing two girls I've had my fun with. I've shared them before here but a second time doesn't hurt.
Veebug is from Stratford, cool chick, stripper and okay body. Not fat but not slim. BBFS available. Range $200-$300. She cannot host. Loves to smoke weed.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bbd16dd0-efa0-4f4e-9717-6a017eb82f57[/URL]
[/QUOTE]Veebug is a fun girl, can take a pounding. I would say about a 6 in the body. Only con is that she doesn't give BJs.
Haven't posted in a while since I've been seeing two from the site regularly and having a great time.
I'm really surprised by the price increase with everything that is going on right now. Maybe they thing since inflation is high they can just say they had to raise their price. Just nuts.
I haven't been on there since the spring since I joined for a month and found 7 women to meet. Met them all, continues with two and still see some of the others occasionally. Good luck all!!
Not sure what made me think of this but for anyone new to SA, here is something I wrote a while back that is a pretty good read on using the site. If you are looking for STG types don't read it, it doesn't apply. It's just one strategy that works for me. Many here have had much success doing other stuff.
Not sure why the link doesn't seem to be working. It's post #3641 in this thread.
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?26376-Seeking-Arrangement-and-Other-Dating-Site-Reviews&p=5394453&viewfull=1#post5394453
Care to share what is your go-to first liner?
[QUOTE=TSmithers24;5394453]I doubt many will read this all but I've had a ton of success on SA the past two years and wanted to write up how I've had success. This may not be the right site for this but whatever, I'm bored this morning. Might get roasted for this, might not but it has worked for me!
I have met with almost 20 women from the site over those two years and could've met with probably 10 more. I've also had 3 long term arrangements as well. Probably over half have been what some here call UTRs but I call real everyday beautiful young woman and they have been great! This is how I get THOSE women. If you are looking for STG types, don't read this and good luck. That's not why I'm writing this. This is just my personal experience and strategy and you may have a different one that works for you. Also, this takes a lot of time that you may not have. There are some women that want to get right to the point and if so, I do and will meet them quickly if the price is right. Again, this is not for them but I still go through the beginning part of this process to get them comfortable. Most are much more willing to go lower than what they want with someone they feel comfortable with! My range is 2-4 per meet and have had a lot of success with that with some really hot women and some just above average but I could tell that they would be a great time. Haha!
Here goes. YMMV!
I join the site usually every 6-8 months or so and during that time I build a literal spreadsheet of names and numbers that I get. I start by sending tons and tons of messages to women I'm interested in. It takes time but I read their profiles, mention something from it, explain I have experience, say I'm looking for something long term and ask them to review my profile. The message is very polite, not too long but not just "how are you". My profile is detailed and has the description of a real sugar daddy looking for something long term, which I am but also will do one time meets but don't say that there. Most of these women want to think they are getting what they read about, a real sugar daddy to "take care of them". They don't want to feel like hookers. This is all to get the conversation started and when it does I don't talk about sex or how much or anything like that (unless they do) and just try to have a fun conversation. I am overly nice during this time, compliment them a lot and try to make them laugh or smile. I get a lot of "awww, you're so sweet" and "You aren't like the other guys on here" comments. This gets them to drop their guard a little because they finally met one of the nice guys on SA after so many "How much for how long? "Do you do anal? "Lets meet tonight? The good ones want to be wooed.
When they ask what I'm looking for I say I like to start with per meet and have two to three dates per month. I like fun dates like dinners and drinks, shopping, outdoor activities and even weekend trips later in the arrangement and that once we build trust we can move to an allowance that works for both of us. Then I say that all my previous arrangements involved intimacy as well (I never use the term sex or anything like that just intimacy). Then I ask if that is all OK with them. Some will say sounds good but for how much and I'll ask them to move to text to have the money conversation at this point. Some will say yes and nothing else and I'll also ask to go to text so we can get to know each other further and discuss more.
When we get to text I don't go right into how much or details about what sexual stuff they are OK with unless they ask. I continue just being nice, asking about them, telling them about me, telling them about my previous long term arrangements and other stuff. After a bit of that, it's time to talk money. By this time she is already drawn in. She already knows she's dealing with a normal good guy and not an asshole who's going to just use and abuse her but instead someone who will hopefully stick around for a while. So when she says 4 or 5 or even 6-7 to meet and I say 2-3 she is much more likely to say OK or meet closer to my number because she's comfortable. Some understand that in the end she will get a lot more from one guy over time and have stability. She might get that 4-7 per meet from someone else but will have to meet with a bunch of different guys, deal with the asshole aspect on SA, that danger aspect of meeting many and the money will be more sporadic. The ones who don't realize it, I will actually say that to them and sell them on that point of stability and long term for less and it usually works but some call bullshit saying we'll meet once for low amount and I'll bolt and it's hard to get past. If they agree and they are comfortable, you can read if it's the right time to talk more sexually with them. Most will be good with it and it moves everything along.
Then I ask for a date since we've talked enough where they mostly trust me and we've had some sexual conversations and they know that the first date will end in a room. This whole process saves me from doing a bunch of meet and greets. If I think it's someone I want to start something with then I will do a little something extra for the date. One thing I've found they really like is to find out their favorite drink and then make it in the room for them. We then usually have a great and really comfortable date because of the connection we built in text. In some cases we even skip the outside stuff and I'll bring drinks and order food to the room. Most of my in room time lasts from 3-5 hours and even spent 7 hours with one woman, which was awesome. After the date, it's up in the air how it goes. Sometimes we start something, sometimes we won't. Sometimes I will see them again, sometimes I won't, sometimes they want to see me again, sometimes they won't. Either way it was a great night with a beautiful young lady for the amount I'm looking for.
Key terms to use: arrangement, intimacy, connection, trust.
Be nice, be respectful, treat like you would a woman you are trying to make your girlfriend and you will get very far.
Yes, it's a lot of work but to me personally it's worth it. I enjoy the hunt and getting to know these young women. That's not for everyone. I like the longer term stuff while sprinkling in some one nighters for some variety. For those that read this far, I'm surprised but glad you did.[/QUOTE]
Here are a few pictures of her.
[QUOTE=BigBoss203;5694533]Since Seeking added that extra security (can't use incognito efficiently) and price hike, I will not renew for some time. I am sharing two girls I've had my fun with. I've shared them before here but a second time doesn't hurt.
Veebug is from Stratford, cool chick, stripper and okay body. Not fat but not slim. BBFS available. Range $200-$300. She cannot host. Loves to smoke weed.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bbd16dd0-efa0-4f4e-9717-6a017eb82f57[/URL]
This one is Beeiscute, she is 19, BBFS available and cannot host. Donation $200-300. Location is in Enfield. Loves to smoke weed.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ed9df35e-8f55-49da-b73f-2e3823130e48[/URL]
Merry Christmas![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BigBoss203;5697159]Care to share what is your go-to first liner?[/QUOTE]All depends on the profile. At first I just wrote something and pasted it over and over and changed the name but that didn't work. Then I went to a more personalized first message and it worked so much better. Always try to work in a question about something they like to do from their profile. Give them something to type up. Something that won't warrant a one word answer. Got to get them engaged.
[QUOTE=BigBoss203;5697421]Here are a few pictures of her.[/QUOTE]It says she hasn't been active since September. Do you mind pm her snap or a number?