[QUOTE=Snake27]In the past 10 yrs I've found (on 3 occasions) a rare kind of prostitution. You sometimes find these girls in bars, but it is so rare. At least for me. That you can't really recommend a specific bar because if you go there 25 times you'll probably not find them.
A specific example is the girl I've been seeing for a few months now. She's a recently divorced single mom, working two jobs and struggling to make ends meet. She's one of the most beautiful women I've known. Athletic, cheerleader type. And fairly clever (sufficient to exploit me) and a good conversationalist. As far as I know she doesn't advertise and may not do this with many other guys, though it's a little hard to tell and doesn't really matter. Apparently, she lives in a small apartment with hardly any furniture and with her young child. While she has a good native intelligence, her vocational skills are lacking, but she's working on improving that (and more power to her).
Signs she is a prostitute: she charges me money and she doesn't want to know my name or anything about me. Initially she charged $200 but after a couple months when I said I could not afford to see her often she. Amazingly. Offered to charge "whatever I could pay", which is $100 for now. It's a good deal, financially, though there is also an emotional cost to these kinds of "relationships".
Signs that it is rather different from the garden-variety prostitution: she enjoys sex (sometimes regular pro's do too but I think they don't typically have orgasms), she wants to do things socially with me like go to bars and restaurants with me (which I'm reluctant to do because of reputation), she sends frequent text messages to cheer me up or to praise me, and she hugs and kisses me. Surely this is not the norm for prostitution.
I guess the way this will end is she will find a real boyfriend someday. She should.
I'm wondering if anyone else has encountered this and can compare notes?
I've had a couple others girlfriends like this over the past 10 years, and they were all different. One of them ended up becoming a full-time prostitute with online ads, which made me strangely jealous, even though I had always treated her like a prostitute (money paid and no names).[/QUOTE]I've had this happen, both times I found them on the casuel encounters area on CL.
One girl was about 19. Lived 2 sub divisions over. It was perfect. Started off at 100$ then worked it ways down until I was paying nothing. Got to the point always every day on my home from work, I'd stop in. Unload a nut. And head home. Girl did it all too, and was smoking hot. Lost her job, smoked to much weed and needed money. It was all on the menu too. BBBJ, BBFS, greek. Anything I wanted. She ended up moving, or getting evicted. I haven't heard from her in months.
Another girl same story. Just didn't see her as often. Went over. She was young 19 or 20. Broke. Electricity was turned off so we fucked in the dark. BBBJ, BBFS. But no greek. Girl wasn't a pro. Only saw a few guys. We ended up hanging out for a few weeks and she gave it up for nothing.
There are gems out there. I just haven't been able to find them lately.
