Vasectomy plans and reality
Asking for a friend:
He is a SD, 50+, married, no sex W mrs for months now.
He wants to have a vasectomy for obvious reasons but without the wife knowing somehow.
Is that even possible?
He knows the procedure is simple and the scar is small but the post-op recovery of several days and the insurance process seem to make it impossible for him to hide this?
What do you think?
An Interesting Excuse from a SB
This may have happened to some of you, but going to share this as it is the first time happened to me (reason for not showing up). It is intriguing to me. I was taking to this 18 yr old girl on SA. She is a premium member, so don't know when she joined. Well figured slim girl. Much better communication than any other 18 yr old on SA I talked to. After about a week of chat we set up a meet and greet for a dinner. She was on time. Well mannered sweet girl. We got alone very well. Told be she had a SD before. She never asked or mentioned about allowance. Anyway, I gave her $50 gift card after the dinner. We kissed good bye. She was interested on a date and we set up a date few days later. We discussed about me getting a hotel room, she was up for that. I din't see any hesitation at all. She never mentioned about an allowance. We have been chatting and confirming the date. We were supposed to meet at 3 PM, she confirmed in the morning too. Around 12 noon, I get a text from her that she went to the doctor day before and get tested for STD and two STD's came back positive, so she had to cancel the date. I asked her to take care of the situation and wished luck. My first reaction was that it was an iron clad way of shutting me from trying to see her again for some reason. But, if that was the case (if she didn't like me) why she agreed for a date after meeting me. May be she had a cold feet. Or found a better SD. I noted it has been about 3 weeks she didn't log on to SA after that day although her profile is still there. She told me when we met that she works part time at a health clinic, may be this is true. Anyway, just though of sharing.
Stay Safe.
Dr. S.