Massage Parlor Reports

[QUOTE=HeavyHitter12;5029320]Hit up Chalet Spa a couple days ago. Asked for a Latina, and got the only one they had. Think she said Sofie, but wouldn't swear to it. 24 yo, beautiful natural set of C's, and what looked to be a cesarean scar, but the light was pretty low. So, straight to it, said no CBJ, just HJ to get me started then had to put the damn condom on myself. Only position offered was mish, said she couldn't handle me in any other position. So about 20 min into it she stops me and asked "why haven't you came yet?" My reply was I paid good money (BTW) and intended on getting the most out of it. So after a minute conversation of how it was hurting her to bad and I had to hurry we get back to it. Pounded for a while more, but just wasn't a good session. Went to a deep place mentally to finish, then cleaned my self up. Bad experience and def won't repeat with this girl. Should've just stuck with a cheap LC girl. Live and learn.[/QUOTE]I had one just like that 2 years ago not worth the money she was at spring its like after a few min it hurts the last time I just quit and went home bad gps jest call and say she is no good I go other place!

[QUOTE=RogerWilico;5025248]Went and treated myself about a week ago. One lady was a bit older while the other was younger. Massage was great, they performed well together and there was a ton of teasing. On the flip the older lady got to stroking while the younger popped her tits out, was choking me and kept saying "fuck me, fuck me" lmao. Was a fun time. Will do it again in the future.[/QUOTE]Yes, got a text a couple weeks ago from the younger one, I've know her for about 4 years.

Went there Thurs and had a great time.

Is worth the visit. All I'm going to say. I guess there was just an older lady there for a long time.

[QUOTE=GunLvr;5023053]I'll probably someday marry my provider, I met her 3 years ago, was her first guest, we have chatted every day since, I tolerated her business because I wanted to see if she would leave the business on her own and she did, she told me many stories, but actually I think she's a good girl, I'll see her for lunch, or she'll bring food to my work, also she'll come stay at my cabin on weekends, she seems genuine and has never ask me for anything nor have I given her any cash, I know we're not supposed to get in this deep with our providers but damn it I did, so far so good.[/QUOTE]Met a provider in John's Creek about 9 years ago. Got 4 or 5 massages before I got the nerve to ask for her number as she was strictly legit. Taking it slow I waited a month to ask her out but after that we got very close very fast. 3 months and she quit the biz to "Make me feel more comfortable". Fast forward, I now have a great setup with a stay home wife and 2 kids. Keep at it if you have it good. I know I wouldn't change a thing.

[QUOTE=FatMan247;5029866]Met a provider in John's Creek about 9 years ago. Got 4 or 5 massages before I got the nerve to ask for her number as she was strictly legit. Taking it slow I waited a month to ask her out but after that we got very close very fast. 3 months and she quit the biz to "Make me feel more comfortable". Fast forward, I now have a great setup with a stay home wife and 2 kids. Keep at it if you have it good. I know I wouldn't change a thing.[/QUOTE]Glad it worked out for you but let's be real here. For every story like yours there are a hundred, or more, stories where it either doesn't work out or never had a chance to work out because of the obvious problems associated with falling in love with a provider. If you are a romantic then you don't care. If you are a realist then you don't become involved in the first place.

[QUOTE=FatMan247;5029866]Met a provider in John's Creek about 9 years ago. Got 4 or 5 massages before I got the nerve to ask for her number as she was strictly legit. Taking it slow I waited a month to ask her out but after that we got very close very fast. 3 months and she quit the biz to "Make me feel more comfortable". Fast forward, I now have a great setup with a stay home wife and 2 kids. Keep at it if you have it good. I know I wouldn't change a thing.[/QUOTE]She's Chinese, I presume? And did she bring the kids into the marriage or did you have them together?

Lots of people asking about T+ lately but no reviews. Good, bad, indifferent??

So made the trek this weekend. Started at TAO on HBR. Walked in, waited a couple minutes, then hit the bell but nothing. Waited a few more minutes and finally left. Headed over to Excellent massage (old Ivy). Walked in and greeted by a not so attractive 40 ish provide. Asked if anyone else available. She said no, so I bailed. Thinking to myself, what's up with theses places. Decided to head over to Rose (now Luna) expecting this place to be somewhat alive. Well, when I pulled in there was only one car there. Walked in, nobody in the front, waited a minute, then two girls came up. One was Na Na and the other not sure. Both looked like they both just woke up from a deep sleep. I'm thinking. What kind of session would I get from these girls that were still half asleep. So I kindly declined. About to call it a day, decided to check out Top V across the street from Rose next to the CVS. Walked in immediately greeted by a very cute girl. Probably mid 30's. So hard to tell with mad, but she had a petite and nice figure. Very friendly. In the room, barely got my clothes off, she walks in (no knock), helps me undress, touching and saying, oh you have very good body, I like! Massage was light touch with much attention below. On the flip, no negotiation, right into it. HJ was a little mechanical to start but she grabbed my hand and put them on here ass. Game on! She would position herself so I could touch all over. I'm not the type to push first visit but, UTC top unbuttoned, bra unlatched. UTC below, ass only. Didn't try for front, although probably could have. Overall a great first-time there session. Walking out, seen a couple more providers sitting around on the massage chairs. Looks average, but then again can't be sure. 60/60 I will repeat.

[QUOTE=Makwah;5030480]So made the trek this weekend. Started at TAO on HBR. Walked in, waited a couple minutes, then hit the bell but nothing. Waited a few more minutes and finally left. Headed over to Excellent massage (old Ivy). Walked in and greeted by a not so attractive 40 ish provide. Asked if anyone else available. She said no, so I bailed. Thinking to myself, what's up with theses places. Decided to head over to Rose (now Luna) expecting this place to be somewhat alive. Well, when I pulled in there was only one car there. Walked in, nobody in the front, waited a minute, then two girls came up. One was Na Na and the other not sure. Both looked like they both just woke up from a deep sleep. I'm thinking. What kind of session would I get from these girls that were still half asleep. So I kindly declined. About to call it a day, decided to check out Top V across the street from Rose next to the CVS. Walked in immediately greeted by a very cute girl. Probably mid 30's. So hard to tell with mad, but she had a petite and nice figure. Very friendly. In the room, barely got my clothes off, she walks in (no knock), helps me undress, touching and saying, oh you have very good body, I like! Massage was light touch with much attention below. On the flip, no negotiation, right into it. HJ was a little mechanical to start but she grabbed my hand and put them on here ass. Game on! She would position herself so I could touch all over. I'm not the type to push first visit but, UTC top unbuttoned, bra unlatched. UTC below, ass only. Didn't try for front, although probably could have. Overall a great first-time there session. Walking out, seen a couple more providers sitting around on the massage chairs. Looks average, but then again can't be sure. 60/60 I will repeat.[/QUOTE]Probably a slow Sunday. As for Excellence, be glad you bailed as it's legit. None of the girls will do shit there. As for Top V, sounds like you either got Cici or Judy. Cici is somewhat bigger than Judy and has ample tits. No kids so her tits are firm. Judy is more slender, but has smaller, softer tits as she's had a kid. Though Cici gives a mechanical ending, Judy's is worse. The hustle game is really bad at Top V now, so I wouldn't suggest anyone waste time there.

[QUOTE=Makwah;5030480]So made the trek this weekend. Started at TAO on HBR. Walked in, waited a couple minutes, then hit the bell but nothing. Waited a few more minutes and finally left. Headed over to Excellent massage (old Ivy). Walked in and greeted by a not so attractive 40 ish provide. Asked if anyone else available. She said no, so I bailed. Thinking to myself, what's up with theses places. Decided to head over to Rose (now Luna) expecting this place to be somewhat alive. Well, when I pulled in there was only one car there. Walked in, nobody in the front, waited a minute, then two girls came up. One was Na Na and the other not sure. Both looked like they both just woke up from a deep sleep. I'm thinking. What kind of session would I get from these girls that were still half asleep. So I kindly declined. About to call it a day, decided to check out Top V across the street from Rose next to the CVS. Walked in immediately greeted by a very cute girl. Probably mid 30's. So hard to tell with mad, but she had a petite and nice figure. Very friendly. In the room, barely got my clothes off, she walks in (no knock), helps me undress, touching and saying, oh you have very good body, I like! Massage was light touch with much attention below. On the flip, no negotiation, right into it. HJ was a little mechanical to start but she grabbed my hand and put them on here ass. Game on! She would position herself so I could touch all over. I'm not the type to push first visit but, UTC top unbuttoned, bra unlatched. UTC below, ass only. Didn't try for front, although probably could have. Overall a great first-time there session. Walking out, seen a couple more providers sitting around on the massage chairs. Looks average, but then again can't be sure. 60/60 I will repeat.[/QUOTE]Very nice review, don't suppose you got the girls name?

[QUOTE=FatMan247;5029866]Met a provider in John's Creek about 9 years ago. Got 4 or 5 massages before I got the nerve to ask for her number as she was strictly legit. Taking it slow I waited a month to ask her out but after that we got very close very fast. 3 months and she quit the biz to "Make me feel more comfortable". Fast forward, I now have a great setup with a stay home wife and 2 kids. Keep at it if you have it good. I know I wouldn't change a thing.[/QUOTE]Happy with mine after 7 years too.

Yestheydo.

[QUOTE=Niteluvr;5030173]She's Chinese, I presume? And did she bring the kids into the marriage or did you have them together?[/QUOTE]Yeah she's Chinese. We have 2 kids together.

[QUOTE=HobbyMan51;5030070]Glad it worked out for you but let's be real here. For every story like yours there are a hundred, or more, stories where it either doesn't work out or never had a chance to work out because of the obvious problems associated with falling in love with a provider. If you are a romantic then you don't care. If you are a realist then you don't become involved in the first place.[/QUOTE]I've read and seen guys get used by these girls. Luckily for me I got one fresh off the boat, 30+, and one that quickly realised "Fuck this massage shit". I'm definitely a hardcore realist but when you're standing in front a 4'11 Chinese chick with a gymnast body and a great smile, a fella starts to dream. If you've seen Kim at DS Health take her frame and add 10 pounds of muscle on the legs.

[QUOTE=Niteluvr;5030507] The hustle game is really bad at Top V now, so I wouldn't suggest anyone waste time there.[/QUOTE]This. 100% agree with night on this. I used to frequent top v as well but it's gotten so bad with time being shorted and one hand phone massage, I quit going. Girls used to be cuter too but at least they are still under 50.

[QUOTE=FatMan247;5030900]I've read and seen guys get used by these girls. Luckily for me I got one fresh off the boat, 30+, and one that quickly realised "Fuck this massage shit". I'm definitely a hardcore realist but when you're standing in front a 4'11 Chinese chick with a gymnast body and a great smile, a fella starts to dream. If you've seen Kim at DS Health take her frame and add 10 pounds of muscle on the legs.[/QUOTE]Finding a wife in this business is almost impossible and a mountain to climb that is not for everyone.

These girls are masters at extracting value out of you to suite them, from $, to gifts, to vacations, to green cards.

Especially those of us that are dreamers, lonely and gullible for their sweet words and attention.

I have been in 2 relationships and seen both sides, very familiar with the inner workings, the girls and how they exploit some guys.

Here is one: Ask a guy that is truly in love with her to go shopping and buy la prairie makeup $3000 (they like the expensive stuff) just to sell it to one of the other girls at 1/2 the cost. Plane tickets, boob jobs.

Saw Sarah, from what I can tell. Late 30's to early 40's?

Doesn't talk much but her English is good.

Looks 6/10.

Massage 7/10.

Performance 6. 5/10.

Overall, decent experience but probably will not repeat. There was another girl working (Coco) but I didn't get a look at her.

Per Sarah, she has been there for 2 months and does not know when she will be going on vacation and as for Coco she has only been there for 3 weeks.

8 1 hr house and 1. 4 cfs.

Guys, will be in Windy Hill area soon and can't decide between these three CAMPs. Provider Recommendation Please!

[QUOTE=FatMan247;5030900]I've read and seen guys get used by these girls. Luckily for me I got one fresh off the boat, 30+, and one that quickly realised "Fuck this massage shit". I'm definitely a hardcore realist but when you're standing in front a 4'11 Chinese chick with a gymnast body and a great smile, a fella starts to dream. If you've seen Kim at DS Health take her frame and add 10 pounds of muscle on the legs.[/QUOTE]Getting one fresh off the boat, who hasn't been jacking dicks and who has a good attitude is a rarity. Most are the opposite.

Hello fellow mongers. I'm from the upstate SC area, Greenville, so usually looking there. But will be in the Atlanta area mid week next week to check on a rental property. I'm looking for suggestions for a good place with at least a younger cute girl for a massage with a HE. Also if anyone knows where I might be able to get one for after work hours asvibwill be staying in a local hotel overnight. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

[QUOTE=AmpVader;5031194]Finding a wife in this business is almost impossible and a mountain to climb that is not for everyone.

These girls are masters at extracting value out of you to suite them, from $, to gifts, to vacations, to green cards.

Especially those of us that are dreamers, lonely and gullible for their sweet words and attention.

I have been in 2 relationships and seen both sides, very familiar with the inner workings, the girls and how they exploit some guys.

Here is one: Ask a guy that is truly in love with her to go shopping and buy la prairie makeup $3000 (they like the expensive stuff) just to sell it to one of the other girls at 1/2 the cost. Plane tickets, boob jobs.[/QUOTE]Same story here, doesn't matter what you do. Had 2 different ones at different times staying with me during shutdown. There are always 10 other guys more lonely with bigger pockets. After 6 figures I know its all about money. Some still believe in unicorns, but I never met one.

[QUOTE=Niteluvr;5031299]Getting one fresh off the boat, who hasn't been jacking dicks and who has a good attitude is a rarity. Most are the opposite.[/QUOTE]I Agree with this. I wouldn't go looking for a wife at these places.

[QUOTE=AmpVader;5031194]Finding a wife in this business is almost impossible and a mountain to climb that is not for everyone.

These girls are masters at extracting value out of you to suite them, from $, to gifts, to vacations, to green cards.

Especially those of us that are dreamers, lonely and gullible for their sweet words and attention.

I have been in 2 relationships and seen both sides, very familiar with the inner workings, the girls and how they exploit some guys.

Here is one: Ask a guy that is truly in love with her to go shopping and buy la prairie makeup $3000 (they like the expensive stuff) just to sell it to one of the other girls at 1/2 the cost. Plane tickets, boob jobs.[/QUOTE]


Not as hard if u have a strong mind, and a good pair of mountain climbing shoes. LOL.

If not they are as you said very good at extracting max value for themselves.(it has to be mutually beneficial)

That said, you dont have to be a rocket scientist to see it, although most think with the wrong head.

[QUOTE=ShyGuy1011;5031307]Hello fellow mongers. I'm from the upstate SC area, Greenville, so usually looking there. But will be in the Atlanta area mid week next week to check on a rental property. I'm looking for suggestions for a good place with at least a younger cute girl for a massage with a HE. Also if anyone knows where I might be able to get one for after work hours asvibwill be staying in a local hotel overnight. Any help would be greatly appreciated.[/QUOTE]If you narrow it down a little to a specific area, someone here will point you in the right direction.

[QUOTE=SarcasticKing;5031181]This. 100% agree with night on this. I used to frequent top v as well but it's gotten so bad with time being shorted and one hand phone massage, I quit going. Girls used to be cuter too but at least they are still under 50.[/QUOTE]Perhaps I'll reconsider a repeat visit then. Maybe I got good service being the first time there. But, not seeing a whole lot of good options in the Norcross / Doraville area lately. Nonetheless, thanks for the advice.

Anywhere in the northwest GA area. Marietta, Smyrna, Kennesaw, or within 20 minutes or so. Thanks again!

[QUOTE=OopaRam;5031295]Guys, will be in Windy Hill area soon and can't decide between these three CAMPs. Provider Recommendation Please![/QUOTE]A1 is hit or miss with older women. Li Massage you'll leave happy but you may have to spend 100 to see and feel some bare titties. I hear Holiday women also may have GPS. If you got some $$ and like younger girls then hit the last 2.

I have been getting massages from Anna for 4 years now. She is a very nice lady. What you can expect from her is the best massage in Atlanta, a beautiful smile, and friendly conversation. She gives a first class massage with no extras. I see her because she is a great masseuse.

[QUOTE=Tj1987;5027532]I went the PCT 74 the girl is look like 30-40, She's took off everything vary tasty kitty, hair plenty. She gave me CFS, so let me get the point. And then I puted my D in her mouth. 60 min lots of fun.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MassageAwesome;5031836]A1 is hit or miss with older women. Li Massage you'll leave happy but you may have to spend 100 to see and feel some bare titties. I hear Holiday women also may have GPS. If you got some $$ and like younger girls then hit the last 2.[/QUOTE]How about No. 1? Remember some good posts from a few months back. Mei Mei is around there as well but next to a very busy Japanese Restaurant (may not be discrete enough). Don't remember seeing any report on that one.

[QUOTE=Red1992;5031237]Saw Sarah, from what I can tell. Late 30's to early 40's?

Doesn't talk much but her English is good.

Looks 6/10.

Massage 7/10.

Performance 6. 5/10.

Overall, decent experience but probably will not repeat. There was another girl working (Coco) but I didn't get a look at her.

Per Sarah, she has been there for 2 months and does not know when she will be going on vacation and as for Coco she has only been there for 3 weeks.

8 1 hr house and 1. 4 cfs.[/QUOTE]Sounds like Sarah isn't worth 1,4 for cfs. Perhaps a fellow monger could give us good intel on Coco. As I will be there this Fri. Or sat Thanks for anything;.

[QUOTE=ShyGuy1011;5031718]Anywhere in the northwest GA area. Marietta, Smyrna, Kennesaw, or within 20 minutes or so. Thanks again![/QUOTE]You will have plenty of choices there. PM'ed you the best.

I know this topic has been brought up before but I've been searching for the old Yan elite. A couple of them popped at other stores but I haven't heard anything about my fav Julie. Any new intel on whereabouts? Pm's welcome and thanks.

[QUOTE=Mike454;5031472]Not as hard if u have a strong mind, and a good pair of mountain climbing shoes. LOL.

If not they are as you said very good at extracting max value for themselves.(it has to be mutually beneficial)

That said, you dont have to be a rocket scientist to see it, although most think with the wrong head.[/QUOTE]I presume a strong mind not to be taken for a ride and making sure you are happy with the benefits you extract.

If you want to make one of these girls your wife then you would need to be very Open Minded, they see this job as work and usually 6 days a week 12 hrs, easiest to make the most money compared to working a $3 k restaurant or market job.

One girl told me once, having her boobs touched does not cost her anything, she does not loose anything so why not. It is the tools in her toolbox. The culture is different and that is why their husbands don't care. Just how much money did you bring home, how much can you send to the family back in China etc.

Now of course there are variance for those that tolerate some light touching to all the way BBFS.

You will be amazed how they save mongers numbers, . Everyone have a nickname. Could be the car you drive, a physical appearance thing, race, attitude, tip and a combination of all above so when you call or text they know who of the 100's of mongers you are.

[QUOTE=AmpVader;5032795]I presume a strong mind not to be taken for a ride and making sure you are happy with the benefits you extract.

If you want to make one of these girls your wife then you would need to be very Open Minded, they see this job as work and usually 6 days a week 12 hrs, easiest to make the most money compared to working a $3 k restaurant or market job.

One girl told me once, having her boobs touched does not cost her anything, she does not loose anything so why not. It is the tools in her toolbox. The culture is different and that is why their husbands don't care. Just how much money did you bring home, how much can you send to the family back in China etc.

Now of course there are variance for those that tolerate some light touching to all the way BBFS.

You will be amazed how they save mongers numbers, . Everyone have a nickname. Could be the car you drive, a physical appearance thing, race, attitude, tip and a combination of all above so when you call or text they know who of the 100's of mongers you are.[/QUOTE]"you think these young, pretty Chinese girls are so nice, they are sometimes real witches. ".

[QUOTE=AmpVader;5032795]I presume a strong mind not to be taken for a ride and making sure you are happy with the benefits you extract.

If you want to make one of these girls your wife then you would need to be very Open Minded, they see this job as work and usually 6 days a week 12 hrs, easiest to make the most money compared to working a $3 k restaurant or market job.

One girl told me once, having her boobs touched does not cost her anything, she does not loose anything so why not. It is the tools in her toolbox. The culture is different and that is why their husbands don't care. Just how much money did you bring home, how much can you send to the family back in China etc.

Now of course there are variance for those that tolerate some light touching to all the way BBFS.

You will be amazed how they save mongers numbers, . Everyone have a nickname. Could be the car you drive, a physical appearance thing, race, attitude, tip and a combination of all above so when you call or text they know who of the 100's of mongers you are.[/QUOTE]Avoiding the gold diggers should be easy for a monger. If a provider is getting you to shell out for gifts, then you are already lost. Do not take the romance route of spending a lot of money on someone you barely know.

If you have real chemistry with a provider and want to pursue romance, you can take it slow and keep it on your terms to keep yourself safe. You should be vigilant as you would with any other woman if you are looking for love. And remember, they will be naturally cautious about YOU. The good ones have heard and seen a lot of things already that would probably blow your mind or drive you crazy. And since they work so much, you're not going to suddenly get sex every day of the week during the honeymoon period of your dating.

Next you will have to confront the idea that they are touching dicks all day long as part of their job. You will eventually tire of knowing that every day, guys are hitting your girl up openly for sex. You will tire of knowing that she is faking or flirting her way through sexy moves nearly every day. You will be worried someone will treat her poorly and not tip her because she won't blow her client or let her client finger blast her. You will worry that she gets turned on sometimes when she's rubbing down a hot guy, no matter what she tells you. You will be occasionally or often jealous, especially if she comes home tired after milking 5-7 cocks in one day and just doesn't have the energy to crank YOUR cock. And when that happens, you will become resentful that her job is to perform sex acts on everyone else, and it takes away from your own sex life.

But honestly the harder part is the cultural gap if you are dating or married to someone who moved here as a young adult or later. Many providers have a very strong survivor mentality that comes with being an immigrant. They, like you, grew up in a culture that defines their worldview and it is not easy for them (or you) to change. The language barrier, unless she is truly fluent, will always be an issue. The subtleties in talking are almost always compromised until you've spent many many hours together and know each other. This seems trivial until you are trying to make gains as a couple, and you realise that communication breakdowns require constant vigilance. And when the breakdowns happen it is easy to be resentful of their career choice and cultural attachments that conflict with yours.

My default position is to treat providers very well, to be friendly and sweet and play the game so that I can feel great about my experience. And developing friendly relationships can be very rewarding when they happen. But it also can lead to damaging emotional attachment that most guys are not prepared for.

[QUOTE=AmpVader;5032795]I presume a strong mind not to be taken for a ride and making sure you are happy with the benefits you extract.

If you want to make one of these girls your wife then you would need to be very Open Minded, they see this job as work and usually 6 days a week 12 hrs, easiest to make the most money compared to working a $3 k restaurant or market job.

One girl told me once, having her boobs touched does not cost her anything, she does not loose anything so why not. It is the tools in her toolbox. The culture is different and that is why their husbands don't care. Just how much money did you bring home, how much can you send to the family back in China etc.

Now of course there are variance for those that tolerate some light touching to all the way BBFS.

You will be amazed how they save mongers numbers, . Everyone have a nickname. Could be the car you drive, a physical appearance thing, race, attitude, tip and a combination of all above so when you call or text they know who of the 100's of mongers you are.[/QUOTE]You are spot on! Great post.

This is the one on Buford Highway across the street from Food Terminal and Magic Hands massage. It's so close to Buford that it could act as a median.

I had Eden as my provider and she was dressed quite well like she was going out to a nice dinner. Her hair was done up and her pants fit her slender figure really well. She had a beautiful face (from what I could tell with the mask). The massage itself was OK, her ass and nipple play was good; however, when I asked if she would play, she politely said she can't. A couple of times.

With the mask, she could of had two sets of angry teeth, so who knows. But she was prettier than I have seen in ahwile, dressed stylishly and well, and very demure. I know some mongers are looking for this type of massage that doesn't cross the line so thought I would share.

If anyone has had success with her or at this spa, please send a PM my way. Might go back to see her for a 2nd time to see what happens.

[QUOTE=TomDay;5031867]I have been getting massages from Anna for 4 years now. She is a very nice lady. What you can expect from her is the best massage in Atlanta, a beautiful smile, and friendly conversation. She gives a first class massage with no extras. I see her because she is a great masseuse.[/QUOTE]So Tom are you saying TJ just got lucky or Anna has upped her game by offering EXTRAS? These are top-shelf offerings on a typical CAMP menu.

[QUOTE=LuvThemTugs;5032808]"you think these young, pretty Chinese girls are so nice, they are sometimes real witches. "[/QUOTE]Mongers, Don't fall into their trap by their sweet talk such as honey, baby, kisses or love emoji texts, or promises etc. They are all fake! Remember they are in this field of work is to make money out of you. So don't be a fool and fall for them! Just have fun, enjoy, and Be safe!

[QUOTE=OopaRam;5033064]So Tom are you saying TJ just got lucky or Anna has upped her game by offering EXTRAS? These are top-shelf offerings on a typical CAMP menu.[/QUOTE]Could be a different girl, but sounds like Oldti got a new login.

[QUOTE=TheWiseacre;5032820]Avoiding the gold diggers should be easy for a monger. If a provider is getting you to shell out for gifts, then you are already lost. Do not take the romance route of spending a lot of money on someone you barely know.

If you have real chemistry with a provider and want to pursue romance, you can take it slow and keep it on your terms to keep yourself safe. You should be vigilant as you would with any other woman if you are looking for love. And remember, they will be naturally cautious about YOU. The good ones have heard and seen a lot of things already that would probably blow your mind or drive you crazy. And since they work so much, you're not going to suddenly get sex every day of the week during the honeymoon period of your dating.

Next you will have to confront the idea that they are touching dicks all day long as part of their job. You will eventually tire of knowing that every day, guys are hitting your girl up openly for sex. You will tire of knowing that she is faking or flirting her way through sexy moves nearly every day. You will be worried someone will treat her poorly and not tip her because she won't blow her client or let her client finger blast her. You will worry that she gets turned on sometimes when she's rubbing down a hot guy, no matter what she tells you. You will be occasionally or often jealous, especially if she comes home tired after milking 5-7 cocks in one day and just doesn't have the energy to crank YOUR cock. And when that happens, you will become resentful that her job is to perform sex acts on everyone else, and it takes away from your own sex life.

But honestly the harder part is the cultural gap if you are dating or married to someone who moved here as a young adult or later. Many providers have a very strong survivor mentality that comes with being an immigrant. They, like you, grew up in a culture that defines their worldview and it is not easy for them (or you) to change. The language barrier, unless she is truly fluent, will always be an issue. The subtleties in talking are almost always compromised until you've spent many many hours together and know each other. This seems trivial until you are trying to make gains as a couple, and you realise that communication breakdowns require constant vigilance. And when the breakdowns happen it is easy to be resentful of their career choice and cultural attachments that conflict with yours.

My default position is to treat providers very well, to be friendly and sweet and play the game so that I can feel great about my experience. And developing friendly relationships can be very rewarding when they happen. But it also can lead to damaging emotional attachment that most guys are not prepared for.[/QUOTE]You speak from experience. I have been there.

[QUOTE=TheWiseacre;5032820]Avoiding the gold diggers should be easy for a monger. If a provider is getting you to shell out for gifts, then you are already lost. Do not take the romance route of spending a lot of money on someone you barely know.

If you have real chemistry with a provider and want to pursue romance, you can take it slow and keep it on your terms to keep yourself safe. You should be vigilant as you would with any other woman if you are looking for love. And remember, they will be naturally cautious about YOU. The good ones have heard and seen a lot of things already that would probably blow your mind or drive you crazy. And since they work so much, you're not going to suddenly get sex every day of the week during the honeymoon period of your dating.

Next you will have to confront the idea that they are touching dicks all day long as part of their job. You will eventually tire of knowing that every day, guys are hitting your girl up openly for sex. You will tire of knowing that she is faking or flirting her way through sexy moves nearly every day. You will be worried someone will treat her poorly and not tip her because she won't blow her client or let her client finger blast her. You will worry that she gets turned on sometimes when she's rubbing down a hot guy, no matter what she tells you. You will be occasionally or often jealous, especially if she comes home tired after milking 5-7 cocks in one day and just doesn't have the energy to crank YOUR cock. And when that happens, you will become resentful that her job is to perform sex acts on everyone else, and it takes away from your own sex life.

But honestly the harder part is the cultural gap if you are dating or married to someone who moved here as a young adult or later. Many providers have a very strong survivor mentality that comes with being an immigrant. They, like you, grew up in a culture that defines their worldview and it is not easy for them (or you) to change. The language barrier, unless she is truly fluent, will always be an issue. The subtleties in talking are almost always compromised until you've spent many many hours together and know each other. This seems trivial until you are trying to make gains as a couple, and you realise that communication breakdowns require constant vigilance.[/QUOTE]If newbies can't learn anything from your post, they'll have to learn the hard way. When I was 19 and a young buck in Korea, I started falling head over heals for a hot Korean woman two years older than me. Sook Hui had a gorgeous face, big tits and a body to die for. She seemed better than the average Korean SW because she didn't stand out on the street begging for business, but I knew what she did for a living. She and her friends were "independents," (not run by a mamasan) so they could pick and choose who to fuck. We had a lot of great times during the day when she wasn't working. She would spend her own money showing me cool places around Seoul. Perhaps she was looking for a naive guy who would ignore her occupation and marry her. One Sunny Saturday afternoon I decided to stop by and surprise her. Got there, heard some noises, slid the door open and she was wearing a schoolgirl uniform, tits hanging out and bouncing up and down on an old man's dick. At the time, he was old enough to be my grandfather. When she realized I was there, she stopped with a look of shock on her face. I quietly closed the door and left. That did it for me and I'm just saying that I was wise enough not to get too emotionally close to providers from a relatively young age.

Fast forward to several weeks ago when I stopped in at a CAMP. A dude was ahead of me and he had that stereotypical "shy guy, woe is me" look about him. He literally stood there with one hand folded over the other, head bowed slightly, and in a soft voice said to the girl, "Hi, my name is (blank). I called and asked to come in at (blank) pm. If it's not too much trouble, may I get a massage?" It wasn't his words that got me, it was his looks and demeanor. This guy looked like he had never worked out in his life, hair was unkempt and I'm guessing he probably never got a date for his high school prom either. I wanted to tell him, "Look, it's a massage parlor. No need to hem and haw. Just tell the girl what the hell you want," but I didn't say a word.

My point is, if any guy is going to fall for all of the provider crap you described above, it would be someone like him.