Real after all. And not trans thank goodness
Let me curiosity got the best of me wanting to find out what's up, so met with her for coffee. Figured what the hell, would TOFTT and at least get together in public to discover one way or the other what's up.
Turns out she looked almost completely different, in a good way, in person. Has a California girl vibe, dressed in a lace halter top. Though she also has a Valley girl-type thing going on which you either like or you don't. At once innocent but also a bit air-headed. She has this sweet voice and says she works as a nanny caring for a few little kids. And yet turned out to be like super freaky. She's also very direct in a way that seems to come out of nowhere given how she talks and acts otherwise. Combine that with the Valley Girl cadence of her voice where everything ends like a question and she says things like "I want to really get pounded. ?
She's thankfully not trans. That was evident at the start, but went back to her place and she's got a great, tight body and she's a squirter, so either she's got the best doc ever to transition her or she's the genuine article. If squirting is your thing you'll be happy. Though she's very quick to get down to business, which normally would would be the sign of a UTR girl, but honestly it was hard to tell because she seemed so giggly and naive when she wasn't asking to get "pounded" LOL. It's possible she wants to be UTR but doesn't even know how to go about it and is still learning. But certainly wasn't going to ask her, and she wanted to be ridden hard so who was I to judge.
[QUOTE=TinyTim123;4928701]Well that would definitely not be good.
The profile pics are certainly not the greatest all cosplaying it up. A normal pic she sent looked much more natural (and feminine). But that's an excellent point, sounds like proceeding with caution, if at all, is wise here[/QUOTE]
If they find it off putting
[QUOTE=Pathfinder04;4937083]No offense, this was fun to read, but scammers aren't likely to read your profile, and non scammers are likely to find this a little off-putting and annoying. Just an unsolicited suggestion from a fellow monger.[/QUOTE]Then they take themselves way too seriously for my tastes.
Exactly, if they message or favorite me without seeing my profile, I don't bother replying.
Long Paragraphs. Rapid fire
[QUOTE=Lobsid;4941869]Texted long paragraphs in seconds. She also has some BS story about being hungry with no food. We have all heard this story before, so I just block her.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3a395bfd-a8b5-4a54-8c85-5620aa25d36f[/URL][/QUOTE]I've learned in a short period of time here when the long response start coming very quickly, it usually means cut and paste for a girl who has a routine. They slip up usually as there are sentences that don't belong or are not related to the topic so it's usually pretty easy to detect.
My latest batch of failures
Over the last several weeks, I went from two regular SBs to potentially adding three new ones (none listed here)! So overall, I can't complain with how well things are going these days! That said, there's bound to be missed opportunities & fails. Some of these SBs have been reviewed here before, so perhaps someone here will have better luck than I:
[B]AlexaJordan_babe[/B] ([URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c62ff0e3-67aa-449d-88d3-812db4323b99[/URL]) - DC.
Call it intuition, but I can't shake the feeling that this one's either a pro or a fraud. She sought me out and we shared private pics. I still liked where our convo was heading (and those legs), so we agreed on a date in Bethesda. However, I canceled three days out owing to an emergency. We rescheduled for the following weekend, but then she canceled a few days out too. Said she had to "fly back to Los Angeles for work. " We agreed to try again once she returned, but neither of us has messaged since then. Admittedly, I suck at using TinEye and all those other online services to discern if a provider is using pics that aren't their own or have been previously published. So she could be real, could be a pro, could be fake. Who knows?
[B]J_24[/B] ([URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/29b4e97c-4dc1-4cba-9fdc-52646c14f203[/URL]) - Leesburg, VA.
I believe this positively-reviewed SB deactivated her account a couple weeks ago. A huge shame as our convo seemed to be going quite well: very similar arrangement expectations, didn't expect to be wined-and-dined, and cool with hosting. The fact that she had one helluva spinner body and said I was exactly who she was looking for really grabbed my attention! Unfortunately, her profile disappeared within a day after I shared my number (didn't get her's). Dammit, another fantastic opportunity missed.
[B]veronicagz10[/B] ([URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3945b662-105c-49e1-b028-8ba73c884eba[/URL]) - Fredericksburg, VA.
This one's been positively reviewed before. A huge bummer that it didn't pan out! After I initiated the convo, she replied two weeks later after reclaiming her Seeking account's password. She recently left Gaithersburg, MD, and had moved down to Fredericksburg, VA. While that's even further out of my way, I still liked how things were moving right along. We shared numbers and then texted at length about our prior arrangements and what we expected from the other. She said she wasn't interested in sex for every meet, but that she also wasn't expecting pay every time either. Sounded like she wanted to build natural chemistry, have a memorable time with someone she could trust before jumping into bed with them. I said that was perfectly fine and agreed to a simple meet-and-greet close to her town; however, she canceled a few days out and I haven't heard back since. Going off prior reporting, she sounds like an awesome time. Might be for the best though as that gas mileage would've really started to add up!
[B]Lovingblonde1[/B] ([URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/00bdb4cb-9128-4730-9b55-068a695b3361[/URL]) - Baltimore, MD.
I initiated the convo a month ago, then she dropped off the earth before replying to an older question I had asked two weeks prior. She claimed to have been in quarantine and was still awaiting a negative COVID test result (fair enough). She also went on about being financially unable to enroll for college and caring for her sick family (ruh-roh, where have we heard that before). Eventually, she asked what my previous arrangements looked like. I then explained in broad details what the most recent one was like--and then I got blocked a day later. Last I checked, she had FWB as one of her Seeking tags. Plus, I'm always careful about wording things on that site's messaging. Ah well, moving on.
[B]missjoy04[/B] ([URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/85509081-580a-4ed8-ba5a-42ccb1285c67[/URL]) - Hanover, MD.
Out of all the ones I'm sharing here, this one still surprises me regarding how suddenly she dropped off without warning. Stunning pics, great convo, both of us seeking the exact same thing, and not too far from each other? A match made in heaven! She shared her Kik messaging handle and said she was going to probably close her Seeking account soon (still hasn't happened yet, though it's been months since she's logged back on too). I was out-of-state when we first talked, but we agreed to meet that same weekend when I returned. We confirmed two days prior that everything was still good to go, but then she canceled the day of and said she had heatstroke. She apologized and said she was really looking forward to meeting. So I wished her a speedy recovery and that I looked forward to meeting whenever she felt better. A week passed, so I reached out again asking if she wanted to meet next weekend? Crickets--not even a read receipt. It's possible that she has given up on sugaring altogether (though I sincerely hope not!) . We'll see what happens, though I'm not holding my breath as it's been a few weeks since our last contact.
[B]Chrissie9[/B] ([URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/55b8a2d4-06e5-4ef7-92bb-e2360ab9cde2[/URL]) - Crofton, MD.
A SB with prior positive reports. Asians have always been my weakness, so I sent her an initial message nearly a month ago. She did respond back that day, but the problem is that she logs on the site infrequently. Looking over our past messages, there's a 3-5 day gap in between each message! Perhaps we ought to just swap numbers and make it easy on ourselves, but we haven't for some reason. Not giving up quite yet, so hopefully it'll work out since Crofton is within easy driving distance of me.
[B]Cheyycat[/B] ([URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1c8eb905-47ae-4de2-a9f9-255561e22d5b[/URL]) - Gaithersburg, MD.
22 yo blonde who's been negatively reported on last October. I didn't research her on here until later, so that was my mistake. I sent an initial message in late June, then followed up one last time earlier this month. She responded to that message a few days later, claiming to have been taking a break from Seeking. While her town is a bit out of the way, we agreed to meet for lunch and see how things progressed. She then canceled a few days prior, saying her friends were hosting a surprise b-day party. Cool beans, no problem at all as she at least told me well in advance! While rescheduling, she asked what compensation she can expect from a meet-and-greet. I replied that I always pay for a lady's food and that, if things go well, monetary compensation would follow in subsequent private meets. She then claimed that she usually gets 200 just for a meet-and-greet. I didn't even bother replying.