The Woodshed

[QUOTE=HuntDog30;2863717]I'm going to stand on my soap box for a minute here so hear me out. This is really meant for you ladies out there.

Isn't it amazing that some of these providers that are married or are in relationships actually think these men are in love with them? Any man that allows his wife / girlfriend to sell themselves is no more in love with them than we are. How can some of these women be so nieve?

I'm not bashing Ann here. I'm glad for her that she's getting out of the relationship if this is the case. Good for her!

I was with little Miranda one time a while back and she was showing me some pictures that she had taken. I asked her who had taken them and she said her boyfriend. I acted shocked of course but really wasn't. I asked her how he felt about her being a provider and she said he was fine with it but that he didn't know exactly what all she did. I called bullshit on that right away. She said no that he was OK with it because they needed the money and he was kind of a deadbeat without a job at the time. She said that they loved each other and that they had to do what they had to do to get by. I told her there was no way that a man in love with her would allow her to do what she was doing. Sure eneough, it wasn't long after that that he beat the crap out of her. She finally got out of the relationship and moved out. Of course, now she's in another relationship and pregnant with who knows who's baby. And of course, this guy knew what she was doing to. Just another bad decision which will lead to more heartache and another mouth to feed in the end. I wish her nothing but the very best, I really do. But it's hard to feel sorry for her because she's the one that keeps putting herself in these situations when she really could do much better.

Just my thought here but there isn't a chance in hell that I could ever let / allow / force a woman I loved or even cared about put herself on backpage to sell blowjobs and her pussy. Ladies, listen, if you have an old man that knows / allows or has forced you to sell yourself to the men, THEY ARE NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU. They just want you around for the free pussy and the money your pussy earns.

I'm done! Guys, you may agree or disagree, I get that. These are simply my thoughts on the matter.[/QUOTE]Tough one HD. I get exactly where you are coming from. I fully get if the bf is not encouraging her to do something else. No way he's really in love if he doesn't at least try to get her to quit. I certainly couldn't let it continue for long. I know people do what it takes to get by but sometimes you can't take the easy way out.

Then again there are some really messed up people in this world who don't really know what love is. Some are incapable of loving others because they don't really love themselves. They get caught up in the feeling of the moment and fail to realize the truth. Love is not just about the feeling. It is also about caring for another even at times over and above oneself.

Now those that actually encourage girls to continue this lifestyle are doing so because they love the money it brings in more than the girl.

There's always exceptions to the rule so please don't take offense for just an opinion.

[QUOTE=HuntDog30;2863717]Isn't it amazing that some of these providers that are married or are in relationships actually think these men are in love with them? Any man that allows his wife / girlfriend to sell themselves is no more in love with them than we are. How can some of these women be so naive?
[/QUOTE]These situations come in all sorts of flavors. I knew a girl, Chinese and here in the USA on a student visa to attend college. She overstayed after graduating and while working, met a twice married "prospective" golf pro. Actually, he was living large on Mommy and Daddy's money. The girl needed a ticket to stay in the USA and he was it. They landed in south Florida once Daddy died and the plan was to get by until Mommy followed and collect all the estate money. Then they could live the good life. But Mommy did not cooperate and kept on living. As an interim solution the girl started taking cash jobs. First in restaurants and later as a hostess in a gentleman's club. Being entrepreneureal as many Chinese are she found she could make more cash by adding additional services to her "menu. " And the West Palm Beach clientele paid well. From there it did not take long before she started moving off campus for dates. With hubby's concurrence. While it paid pretty well the income was sporatic so she moved to dancing in clubs. But apparently clubs in Tampa are more lucrative than West Palm so they relocated. That's where I found her. She worked the clubs and moonlighted too. Both she and hubby liked the money. He especially, because it allowed him to pursue a host of frivolous activities that never amounted to anything. But age catches up to women and once she approached 40 she was tired of the business, quit the work and moved on to legitimate employment. He, on the other hand, remains a manipulative, demanding, deadbeat.

Oh and what about Mommy's money? Seems Daddy's business partner had controlling share of the business and while Mommy got a nice chunk of change, her eventually nursing home bills ate most of it up.

[QUOTE=DrewPark;2864024]These situations come in all sorts of flavors. I knew a girl, Chinese and here in the USA on a student visa to attend college. She overstayed after graduating and while working, met a twice married "prospective" golf pro. Actually, he was living large on Mommy and Daddy's money. The girl needed a ticket to stay in the USA and he was it. They landed in south Florida once Daddy died and the plan was to get by until Mommy followed and collect all the estate money. Then they could live the good life. But Mommy did not cooperate and kept on living. As an interim solution the girl started taking cash jobs. First in restaurants and later as a hostess in a gentleman's club. Being entrepreneureal as many Chinese are she found she could make more cash by adding additional services to her "menu. " And the West Palm Beach clientele paid well. From there it did not take long before she started moving off campus for dates. With hubby's concurrence. While it paid pretty well the income was sporatic so she moved to dancing in clubs. But apparently clubs in Tampa are more lucrative than West Palm so they relocated. That's where I found her. She worked the clubs and moonlighted too. Both she and hubby liked the money. He especially, because it allowed him to pursue a host of frivolous activities that never amounted to anything. But age catches up to women and once she approached 40 she was tired of the business, quit the work and moved on to legitimate employment. He, on the other hand, remains a manipulative, demanding, deadbeat.

Oh and what about Mommy's money? Seems Daddy's business partner had controlling share of the business and while Mommy got a nice chunk of change, her eventually nursing home bills ate most of it up.[/QUOTE]Oh that sweet smell.

The absence of a plan, and most importantly an "exit strategy" almost always invites incalculable losses.

When the skin sags, muscles soften, the hair is brittle from over tinting, well its too late. Then these girls are reduced to an "oddities" compelled to do for less what there fresher and younger counterparts don't have to , to remain "relevant".

But then again a "blow job is better than no job". I suppose.

The House always wins if you linger too long.

J4 me.

How long do you guys wait until after the scheduled appointment time before you call it quits? I feel like I find my self waiting in the parking lot for these girls to "get ready" for way too long after the scheduled time. It never gives me a good feeling waiting in the parking lot. Sketches me out in fact. How long do you guys wait?

[QUOTE=RedSoxFan28;2864320]How long do you guys wait until after the scheduled appointment time before you call it quits? I feel like I find my self waiting in the parking lot for these girls to "get ready" for way too long after the scheduled time. It never gives me a good feeling waiting in the parking lot. Sketches me out in fact. How long do you guys wait?[/QUOTE]10 minutes tops! Even if they text me when I leave, I don't come back. If they double book that's their problem. I don't play those games.
Go Sox!

[QUOTE=RedSoxFan28;2864320]How long do you guys wait until after the scheduled appointment time before you call it quits? I feel like I find my self waiting in the parking lot for these girls to "get ready" for way too long after the scheduled time. It never gives me a good feeling waiting in the parking lot. Sketches me out in fact. How long do you guys wait?[/QUOTE]Honestly, depends on how the little guy feels.

[QUOTE=RedSoxFan28;2864320]How long do you guys wait until after the scheduled appointment time before you call it quits? I feel like I find my self waiting in the parking lot for these girls to "get ready" for way too long after the scheduled time. It never gives me a good feeling waiting in the parking lot. Sketches me out in fact. How long do you guys wait?[/QUOTE]Three minutes on the mark I leave and would never call back. T!

[QUOTE=SexyAnn;2857971]You know what Lana?

You're right. I probably could have come up with a better word than racist. I apologize for the controversy that I apparently started.

Sorry all.[/QUOTE]What is wrong with having a preference or not? It should be a persons right to do whatever they want to do with whom ever they want. Used to be, years ago, if a white woman dated a black man, she was labeled all kinds of names, none of them good. Today, there seems to be a lot more of it and many with kids. Grandparents used to be embarrassed because their grandchildren were "mixed". Today, you can't publicly feel that way, you are called the are word. Look at all the shows on TV and movies today. Not only do you have to have a black person, you Ave to have a gay person as well. Oscars? Oh my god, no blacks, must be racist. They won several oscars a few years ago, deserved them too, but that doesn't mean you HAVE to have one every year. Look at all of the black only shows, bands, movies, award shows etc. Anyone call them racists? God no. We are just allowing ourselves to get f'ed up on everything. Just venting.

[QUOTE=Luknaround;2867038]What is wrong with having a preference or not? It should be a persons right to do whatever they want to do with whom ever they want. Used to be, years ago, if a white woman dated a black man, she was labeled all kinds of names, none of them good. Today, there seems to be a lot more of it and many with kids. Grandparents used to be embarrassed because their grandchildren were "mixed". Today, you can't publicly feel that way, you are called the are word. Look at all the shows on TV and movies today. Not only do you have to have a black person, you Ave to have a gay person as well. Oscars? Oh my god, no blacks, must be racist. They won several oscars a few years ago, deserved them too, but that doesn't mean you HAVE to have one every year. Look at all of the black only shows, bands, movies, award shows etc. Anyone call them racists? God no. We are just allowing ourselves to get f'ed up on everything. Just venting.[/QUOTE]Nothing that you speak of has anything to do with Getty pussy.

[QUOTE=Luknaround;2867038]What is wrong with having a preference or not? It should be a persons right to do whatever they want to do with whom ever they want. Used to be, years ago, if a white woman dated a black man, she was labeled all kinds of names, none of them good. Today, there seems to be a lot more of it and many with kids. Grandparents used to be embarrassed because their grandchildren were "mixed". Today, you can't publicly feel that way, you are called the are word. Look at all the shows on TV and movies today. Not only do you have to have a black person, you Ave to have a gay person as well. Oscars? Oh my god, no blacks, must be racist. They won several oscars a few years ago, deserved them too, but that doesn't mean you HAVE to have one every year. Look at all of the black only shows, bands, movies, award shows etc. Anyone call them racists? God no. We are just allowing ourselves to get f'ed up on everything. Just venting.[/QUOTE]I agree this politically correct world we live in is really out of control. People have their likes and dislikes. Personally I hate fat elbows on a girl. I think that's just disgusting and a turn off for me when the fat hangs over like that. But that's my perk. Doesn't mean I'm a racist against fat women. Theres alot of cute fat girls. Just my PREFERANCE to not be with a fat elbowed chick. LOL. Just my. 02 T!

[QUOTE=Tonto25;2867571]I agree this politically correct world we live in is really out of control. People have their likes and dislikes. Personally I hate fat elbows on a girl. I think that's just disgusting and a turn off for me when the fat hangs over like that. But that's my perk. Doesn't mean I'm a racist against fat women. Theres alot of cute fat girls. Just my PREFERANCE to not be with a fat elbowed chick. LOL. Just my. 02 T![/QUOTE]Fat elbows and race is completely different. No, not liking fat elbows does not make you a racist you are just missing out.

An old timer many moons ago told me this.

"ITS ALL PINK INSIDE KID!

[QUOTE=Tonto25;2867699]An old timer many moons ago told me this.

"ITS ALL PINK INSIDE KID![/QUOTE]So true! Sending you PM of my NO AA story in which I win, happened today. LOL.

[QUOTE=Tonto25;2867699]An old timer many moons ago told me this.

"ITS ALL PINK INSIDE KID![/QUOTE]Your mailbox is full.

A2 sent me an email. Inbox all clear. T!!