Ghosted Let's do set the record straight
[QUOTE=KarmynBankz;6238662]I paid you for a bathroom remodel and you ghosted me! Now you're saying because I charged back the money I gave you that I'm a ripoff? Should've thought about this a bit more before you posted it because I'm on your ass now.[/QUOTE]Let's set your bullshit straight. I agreed to 'help' restore the bathtub plumbing and walls in your dilapidated kids bath in your dilapidate townhouse as a friend. I ASKED NOTHING, and I repeat 'NOTHING' in return. You graciously gave me $200 (which BTW as you know I never asked for) after 12 hours of labor, my 'friend' labor rate just so you know is $40/ hr. To my calulations if I were being "paid' by you for my work you still owe me about $350 once your generous $200 donation is taken into consideration. At job end I made arraingments WITH you the day before to put up the last 20 4 x4 missing tiles, again never asking for or expecting any payment. When I arrived no one was home and you could NOT be reached by phone and had not let me know that you wouldn't be home. In other words you blew me off. What is your procedure when clients blow you off? You never contacted me ANYTIME after that to make arraignmets to have me come back over to complete the work, which I would have done even after you blew me off.
Fast forward to over a year later you called crying for money and asking if I would loan you $200-$300. I sent you $300, (no mention of the bathroom cluster fuc_). After over a month I tried to reach you to see if you could repay the money I loaned you, I suggested that you could even repay me in $100 payments if that worked for you. You said that when your kids finished trick or treating you would send the money. What happened? Crickets. Your business must not be doing to well I guess. I really don't mind not being repaid as I had counted that 'loan' as loss (money a FRIEND needed) when I sent it to you, you were what I considered a friend needing some help. However, I did AT LEAST expect you to let me know what was going on. Again your favorite 'trick' was employed. You ghosted me and as reported I reported had RIPPED ME OFF! That 'loan' as you well know was just that. One has nothing to do with the other. If it did you owe me $300 for the loan and an additional $350 for labor. Don't worry 'friend' I never expect to see a cent from you. If you would do this to a 'friend' I felt the need to let our friend here know what your 'word' means and how you might well treat their deposit money.
The golden rules and formula
[QUOTE=BobbyLinn;6239338]Let's set your bullshit straight. I agreed to 'help' restore the bathtub plumbing and walls in your dilapidated kids bath in your dilapidate townhouse as a friend. I ASKED NOTHING, and I repeat 'NOTHING' in return. You graciously gave me $200 (which BTW as you know I never asked for) after 12 hours of labor, my 'friend' labor rate just so you know is $40/ hr. To my calulations if I were being "paid' by you for my work you still owe me about $350 once your generous $200 donation is taken into consideration. At job end I made arraingments WITH you the day before to put up the last 20 4 x4 missing tiles, again never asking for or expecting any payment. When I arrived no one was home and you could NOT be reached by phone and had not let me know that you wouldn't be home. In other words you blew me off. What is your procedure when clients blow you off? You never contacted me ANYTIME after that to make arraignmets to have me come back over to complete the work, which I would have done even after you blew me off.
Fast forward to over a year later you called crying for money and asking if I would loan you $200-$300. I sent you $300, (no mention of the bathroom cluster fuc_). After over a month I tried to reach you to see if you could repay the money I loaned you, I suggested that you could even repay me in $100 payments if that worked for you. You said that when your kids finished trick or treating you would send the money. What happened? Crickets. Your business must not be doing to well I guess. I really don't mind not being repaid as I had counted that 'loan' as loss (money a FRIEND needed) when I sent it to you, you were what I considered a friend needing some help. However, I did AT LEAST expect you to let me know what was going on. Again your favorite 'trick' was employed. You ghosted me and as reported I reported had RIPPED ME OFF! That 'loan' as you well know was just that. One has nothing to do with the other. If it did you owe me $300 for the loan and an additional $350 for labor. Don't worry 'friend' I never expect to see a cent from you. If you would do this to a 'friend' I felt the need to let our friend here know what your 'word' means and how you might well treat their deposit money.[/QUOTE]Seems you're still thinking on the wavelength that got you into this situation in the first place.
No need to go into all this detail, just say you broke some cardinal rules of the hobby and shit went sideways. Nobody should be mixing real life and hobby activities, loaning money, trying to negotiate for future transactions with these women.
The takeaway here is everybody should be sticking to the formula.
Anonymous introductions and setup
Meet at the agreed anonymous place
fuck
pay cash
leave
repeat.
Thank you, thank you very much!
[QUOTE=PearishBA;6242664]You're a senior, RTFF. Its nobody's job to spoonfeed you updates on conversations you jump into midstream. Acting like you haven't already taken her side, not knowing what actually happened. Because after all you had a visit with her once. And she was such a well-behaved "absolute sweetheart" for that hour or two. So of course that's how she must be the other 23 hours of the day, 365 days a year! LOL.
I'm hoping you're still young with plenty of time to live and learn. Because whether they're a card carrying wh0-re or not, women don't respect or desire men that kiss their ass and give them everything they want.[/QUOTE]Don't forget to tip your servers and bartenders, Pearish will be back tomorrow and he's here all week! LMFAO.
