Rants Raves and Stupid Shit in Seattle.

[QUOTE=MickRichards;5057969]This poor guy. Two very well know BBFS providers are slamming him with this alert.

Both are in the same stable.

[URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/showthread.php?2079246-Denied-Ripping-the-Condom-Refuses-to-show-me-his-test-results[/URL]

They are trashing a long time member of that board.

That place is horrible.[/QUOTE]The sad part is that condoms do break. I don't do BBFS, don't have any interest in it and it happens to me about once per year. I find it beyond ridiculous that people are losing their shit. There are risks to everything. Act like fucking adults about it.

That place. What a joke man. Glad we can speak the truth here, because if you even say anything close to the truth over there you'll get banned or get a ton of those stupid little red dots, and the fact is about 3 months ago I dropped a load in the OP that's complaining and she had no problem with it in fact talked about how hot it was. I can't decide what is worse, her hypocrisy by going after this dude, or the sackless dorks piling it on thinking that it's going to get them favor with these hookers. Stupid.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;5058744]The sad part is that condoms do break. I don't do BBFS, don't have any interest in it and it happens to me about once per year. I find it beyond ridiculous that people are losing their shit. There are risks to everything. Act like fucking adults about it.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JNimble;5057312]I've been looking for an answer to this for weeks. I would never visit hobby sites without a VPN but STG wouldn't connect to anything from the multiple I tried (TunnelBear, NordVPN, ProtonVPN, etc.). I finally found one that shows me as in Great Britain on [URL]Whatsmyip.com[/URL] but STG will connect to. It's a free Chrome add-in called Hola available in the chrome store as a free extension. Enjoy!

Jack.[/QUOTE]Yup or just use TOR (Onion) browser. That works well with Seeking.

[QUOTE=MickRichards;5057969]This poor guy. Two very well know BBFS providers are slamming him with this alert.

Both are in the same stable.

[URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/showthread.php?2079246-Denied-Ripping-the-Condom-Refuses-to-show-me-his-test-results[/URL]

They are trashing a long time member of that board.

That place is horrible.[/QUOTE]LOL Parker Phoenix aka Hallie Young lecturing about rubber removal. That girl has had more loads in her than an Amazon semi truck.

Her new manager must be cracking down on the fill ups.

[QUOTE=Flyer99;5059253]LOL Parker Phoenix aka Hallie Young lecturing about rubber removal. That girl has had more loads in her than an Amazon semi truck.

Her new manager must be cracking down on the fill ups.[/QUOTE]Given her insane up charge to take it bare, I'm not surprised.

[QUOTE=BBPornoGeek;5059676]Given her insane up charge to take it bare, I'm not surprised.[/QUOTE]Seems most of the cum dumpsters eventually fall into the "transformation" phase when people start noticing just how many quarts have been deposited.

She's hot and the pussy is good but not THAT good. They're banking on the perpetual beta cuck train in the PNW.

[QUOTE=EvilScout;5058989]That place. What a joke man. Glad we can speak the truth here, because if you even say anything close to the truth over there you'll get banned or get a ton of those stupid little red dots, and the fact is about 3 months ago I dropped a load in the OP that's complaining and she had no problem with it in fact talked about how hot it was. I can't decide what is worse, her hypocrisy by going after this dude, or the sackless dorks piling it on thinking that it's going to get them favor with these hookers. Stupid.[/QUOTE]If anyone can tell me where I can file a claim to get back the last 15 fucking minutes I wasted reading that goddamn "torn condom accusation" thread on TNA, I would appreciate it.

I used to visit numerous providers from that "other" site, but it hasn't gotten BEYOND ridiculous with the drama and the inflated pricing.

Note to self, no matter how much it seems worth it to click through to TNA, don't because it will only make you wish you hadn't.

[QUOTE=RockChalk;5060008]If anyone can tell me where I can file a claim to get back the last 15 fucking minutes I wasted reading that goddamn "torn condom accusation" thread on TNA, I would appreciate it.

I used to visit numerous providers from that "other" site, but it hasn't gotten BEYOND ridiculous with the drama and the inflated pricing.

Note to self, no matter how much it seems worth it to click through to TNA, don't because it will only make you wish you hadn't.[/QUOTE]Yup. They all BB. They all claim not to. This is a good opportunity for the "community" as a whole (pussy cartel) to come out during covid and show solidarity. This is their version of the 2017 Pink Hat (Pussy March) . Only this time. There is no cause. It is COVID. The cartel has been hit hard. They all banded together to keep their prices (more or less) stable. Now this happens. And it does not matter if it is true or not. That is not important. They have their handle. The perfect excuse to let loose and relieve stress. Come out in "virtual" numbers and complain. Crusify the poor man. And if anyone speaks up. Shut him / her down immediately. Each of them is LOVING this shit right now. Right now they are online more than ever. Refreshing their screens. Looking out for new posts on this thread. It is a time for the Pussy Cartel to come out and show just much men are hated - "You have no right to be on our site / our community" . And of course they have their standard chumps who are also standing there. Posters in hannd. Letting them know that even though they have a swinging dick. They think like pussies. And want to curry favor. It is a microcosm of 2020 in a nutshell.

She got stiffed on a 3 hour date. She is an idiot.

[URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/showthread.php?2080552-3-hr-date-and-didn%92t-pay-me[/URL]

[QUOTE=DrtyHarry;5060440]Yup. They all BB. They all claim not to. This is a good opportunity for the "community" as a whole (pussy cartel) to come out during covid and show solidarity. This is their version of the 2017 Pink Hat (Pussy March) . Only this time. There is no cause. It is COVID. The cartel has been hit hard. They all banded together to keep their prices (more or less) stable. Now this happens. And it does not matter if it is true or not. That is not important. They have their handle. The perfect excuse to let loose and relieve stress. Come out in "virtual" numbers and complain. Crusify the poor man. And if anyone speaks up. Shut him / her down immediately. Each of them is LOVING this shit right now. Right now they are online more than ever. Refreshing their screens. Looking out for new posts on this thread. It is a time for the Pussy Cartel to come out and show just much men are hated - "You have no right to be on our site / our community" . And of course they have their standard chumps who are also standing there. Posters in hannd. Letting them know that even though they have a swinging dick. They think like pussies. And want to curry favor. It is a microcosm of 2020 in a nutshell.[/QUOTE]It is not Big Tech that needs to broken up. TNA needs to be broken up and sent to the ether. The collusion there is much worse and impacts us in much worse ways. Without TNA the market will rebalance. What the hell happened to that site. We used to have late teens, early 20's hot spinners taking it bare in every hole. Now it is full of BS providers with their contacts set up and regulated worse than the f*cking federal government.

[QUOTE=RockChalk;5060008]If anyone can tell me where I can file a claim to get back the last 15 fucking minutes I wasted reading that goddamn "torn condom accusation" thread on TNA, I would appreciate it.

I used to visit numerous providers from that "other" site, but it hasn't gotten BEYOND ridiculous with the drama and the inflated pricing.

Note to self, no matter how much it seems worth it to click through to TNA, don't because it will only make you wish you hadn't.[/QUOTE]Yea I am with you on hating TNA. The inflated prices are getting insane. Also writing a review on there is a joke. I've had two providers ask me via PM to take my reviews down because they were negative and if I don't they will talk to an admin to forcefully take them off. It's dumb as hell. You get punished for being honest, than half the reviews are basically dishonest false positives because they need references. I've been burned a couple of times from reading glowing reviews and then having a shit experience....

[QUOTE=LeeGroinman;5061038]She got stiffed on a 3 hour date. She is an idiot.

[URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/showthread.php?2080552-3-hr-date-and-didn%92t-pay-me[/URL][/QUOTE]She is a drama queen. Has been quiet on the board lately. But earlier she interfere in other peoples reviews and complaints and just stirred up stupid shit all the time. Works out of a trailer and is only average in bed.

[QUOTE=LeeGroinman;5061038]She got stiffed on a 3 hour date. She is an idiot.

[URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/showthread.php?2080552-3-hr-date-and-didn%92t-pay-me[/URL][/QUOTE]As I read it, it sounds just like the thousands of ROB reports I've read from guys over the years.

[QUOTE=RockChalk;5060008]If anyone can tell me where I can file a claim to get back the last 15 fucking minutes I wasted reading that goddamn "torn condom accusation" thread on TNA, I would appreciate it.

I used to visit numerous providers from that "other" site, but it hasn't gotten BEYOND ridiculous with the drama and the inflated pricing.

Note to self, no matter how much it seems worth it to click through to TNA, don't because it will only make you wish you hadn't.[/QUOTE]I didn't read it. I don't use TNA other than to read something someone references there through USASG. I think it's poorly run and most of the girls posting there aren't girls I'd ever want to see. Most seem pretty worn out.

[QUOTE=DrtyHarry;5070883]Works out of a trailer and is only average in bed.[/QUOTE]Well below average during my only visit with her. I actually left and booked with a beautiful traveling Thai girl when I left her place. Now that was a fine fuck. Wish that place in Des Moines was still around. They had a few good ones rotate through there.

[QUOTE=TheNovelist;5072732]I didn't read it. I don't use TNA other than to read something someone references there through USASG. I think it's poorly run and most of the girls posting there aren't girls I'd ever want to see. Most seem pretty worn out.[/QUOTE]About 90% of the time, I look at their photo and actually say "Ewwww" out loud.

This one is interesting [URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/showthread.php?2090267-Assault[/URL]!-Very-dangerous! Asshole!

I think the pooner is telling the truth but he'll have to dump that account for sure.

[QUOTE=Jonderin;5085567]This one is interesting [URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/showthread.php?2090267-Assault[/URL]!-Very-dangerous! Asshole!

I think the pooner is telling the truth but he'll have to dump that account for sure.[/QUOTE]Both of them were cretinously idiotic.

That could have just as easily escalated to deadly force, since both of them were willing to get physical over a couple hundred bucks. So if one of them had a knife or a gun we'd be hearing about this on the TV news and not on the idiot drama board. Either one of them could have just said, "Fuck you, take the money" and then written a report on that hell board and probably be considered 100 percent in the right.

[QUOTE=Jonderin;5085567]This one is interesting [URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/showthread.php?2090267-Assault[/URL]!-Very-dangerous! Asshole!

I think the pooner is telling the truth but he'll have to dump that account for sure.[/QUOTE]I hope that one stays up. A good story of two trainwrecks meeting. It reads like a domestic dispute. Her twitter has pictures of the cuts and bruises and yet she posted a new ad today.

[QUOTE=Jonderin;5085567]This one is interesting [URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/showthread.php?2090267-Assault[/URL]!-Very-dangerous! Asshole!

I think the pooner is telling the truth but he'll have to dump that account for sure.[/QUOTE]Yes. I also feel he's telling a majority of the truth also. The fact that the police came and he wasn't arrested is quite telling. The fact that absolutely nothing happened and he took his money and tried to leave and an altercation occurred is also very telling. The fact that after all of that she is complaining that she didn't get paid (for nothing) is also very telling.

Could he have handled it better? Hell, yeah! Unfortunately, the other board seems to think that all hookers are delicate flowers and incapable of launching themselves at men. They believe that even if she did launch herself at him, he has no right to defend himself (and then declare that they are feminists). I think most of us rational people know better.

I look at it as 4 years on the board, 22 reviews, 14 references without a problem, then suddenly he's beating hookers. Doesn't make sense.

[QUOTE=EngrJoe;5085718]I hope that one stays up. A good story of two trainwrecks meeting. It reads like a domestic dispute. Her twitter has pictures of the cuts and bruises and yet she posted a new ad today.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Michael1967;5085719]Yes. I also feel he's telling a majority of the truth also. The fact that the police came and he wasn't arrested is quite telling. The fact that absolutely nothing happened and he took his money and tried to leave and an altercation occurred is also very telling. The fact that after all of that she is complaining that she didn't get paid (for nothing) is also very telling.

Could he have handled it better? Hell, yeah! Unfortunately, the other board seems to think that all hookers are delicate flowers and incapable of launching themselves at men. They believe that even if she did launch herself at him, he has no right to defend himself (and then declare that they are feminists). I think most of us rational people know better.

I look at it as 4 years on the board, 22 reviews, 14 references without a problem, then suddenly he's beating hookers. Doesn't make sense.[/QUOTE]This was a train wreck waiting to happen. I agree that his story seems more believable. BTW if that was me. I would not pay for a visit that was ending before we did anything either. He stood his ground, but that situation clearly went WAY out of control. Not cool. With the cops and everything else. This was a terrible experience all around.

Her story reads like complete BS. He has far more credible details in the background of the story. Maybe it's because at some point, every hobbyist has had to deal with one crazy situation with a girl that just loses it for no fault of the guy.

Without a doubt, there are some very bad guys out there, but the fact that the police let him walk should tell you something.

Having seen the pictures she posted on Twitter, there's no way to prove those are or aren't actually from him. One of them actually looks like a cat scratch. I've had enough for those to know what they look like.

Regardless, she just seems unstable in my book. Sure's beautiful, but probably dealing with substance abuse and mental heath problems. Not buying her version of the story at all.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;5085719]Yes. I also feel he's telling a majority of the truth also. The fact that the police came and he wasn't arrested is quite telling. The fact that absolutely nothing happened and he took his money and tried to leave and an altercation occurred is also very telling. The fact that after all of that she is complaining that she didn't get paid (for nothing) is also very telling.

Could he have handled it better? Hell, yeah! Unfortunately, the other board seems to think that all hookers are delicate flowers and incapable of launching themselves at men. They believe that even if she did launch herself at him, he has no right to defend himself (and then declare that they are feminists). I think most of us rational people know better.

I look at it as 4 years on the board, 22 reviews, 14 references without a problem, then suddenly he's beating hookers. Doesn't make sense.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TheNovelist;5086008]Her story reads like complete BS. He has far more credible details in the background of the story. Maybe it's because at some point, every hobbyist has had to deal with one crazy situation with a girl that just loses it for no fault of the guy.

Without a doubt, there are some very bad guys out there, but the fact that the police let him walk should tell you something.

Having seen the pictures she posted on Twitter, there's no way to prove those are or aren't actually from him. One of them actually looks like a cat scratch. I've had enough for those to know what they look like.

Regardless, she just seems unstable in my book. Sure's beautiful, but probably dealing with substance abuse and mental heath problems. Not buying her version of the story at all.[/QUOTE]See her pornhub videos. This one actually gets off on rough sex. Almost all of her videos have some rough stuff in it. No wonder she was out working 4 hrs later. She is just using this gain sympathy and drum up business for herself. Smart cookie. Until the day she meets the wrong guy and won't just restrain himself and scratch her.

[QUOTE=TheNovelist;5086008]Her story reads like complete BS. He has far more credible details in the background of the story. Maybe it's because at some point, every hobbyist has had to deal with one crazy situation with a girl that just loses it for no fault of the guy.

Without a doubt, there are some very bad guys out there, but the fact that the police let him walk should tell you something.

Having seen the pictures she posted on Twitter, there's no way to prove those are or aren't actually from him. One of them actually looks like a cat scratch. I've had enough for those to know what they look like.

Regardless, she just seems unstable in my book. Sure's beautiful, but probably dealing with substance abuse and mental heath problems. Not buying her version of the story at all.[/QUOTE]Just the first few scrolls across her Twitter page shows enough man hating chaos to fill in an entire HBO miniseries plotline.

With your dick fuck I would not says Yoda. That's second level crazy shit.

[QUOTE=Flyer99;5086047]Just the first few scrolls across her Twitter page shows enough man hating chaos to fill in an entire HBO miniseries plotline.

With your dick fuck I would not says Yoda. That's second level crazy shit.[/QUOTE]It's pretty typical that every provider commenting is coming to her defense, along with all the White Knights on TNA. I don't get it. Do they think she's going to give them a discount?

She's clearly unstable! After reading the back and forth, he's not doing himself any favors, but I find him more credible than her. Now that I've seen her Twitter and Pornhub videos, she could have gotten those bruises and scratches from anyone. Her "evidence" wouldn't hold up in court. If anything, it sounds like he was defending himself and exercising some restraint.

A lot of guys would have probably done far worse. I hope that never happens to her. She seems very unstable.

Edit: Having watched her Pornhub videos & Twitter videos, I'm not that impressed with her. If anything, completely turned-off. First, her personality - kinda LRTT. Second, her bedroom skills seem rather lackluster. Finally, I watched a video from 7 months ago and one from 2 weeks ago. Each time, tons of bruises, some scratches, lots of rash-pimples on various parts of her body, much like what she posted from her "attack".

[QUOTE=Michael1967;5085719]Yes. I also feel he's telling a majority of the truth also. The fact that the police came and he wasn't arrested is quite telling. The fact that absolutely nothing happened and he took his money and tried to leave and an altercation occurred is also very telling. The fact that after all of that she is complaining that she didn't get paid (for nothing) is also very telling.

Could he have handled it better? Hell, yeah! Unfortunately, the other board seems to think that all hookers are delicate flowers and incapable of launching themselves at men. They believe that even if she did launch herself at him, he has no right to defend himself (and then declare that they are feminists). I think most of us rational people know better.

I look at it as 4 years on the board, 22 reviews, 14 references without a problem, then suddenly he's beating hookers. Doesn't make sense.[/QUOTE]I'm just wondering what he told the cops? The truth, I came to see a hooker and she got crazy or made up a scenario as q date he met online. I would've booked it before the cops got there, but that prolly would've made me look guilty. Tough situation!

[QUOTE=BusSit69;5086456]I'm just wondering what he told the cops? The truth, I came to see a hooker and she got crazy or made up a scenario as q date he met online. I would've booked it before the cops got there, but that prolly would've made me look guilty. Tough situation![/QUOTE]I'd probably just tell them the truth. Honestly a prostitution charge is less of a hassle than an assault charge which either of them could have been looking at at that point.

Again, they were BOTH insanely stupid.

A lot of girls, especially the crazier ones, have a weapon (or weapons) in their incall. How would this situation looked if she would have used a knife on the dude rather than bit him? And a lot of guys are packing, so what would have happened if he pulled out a pistol and shot her when she bit his arm? Once you it escalates to physical there aren't a lot of boundaries and neither party had any control of the situation.

(Note on "the crazier ones": my experience is that most of the girls in the biz are at least a little bit crazy).

[QUOTE=MarkoRamius;Craft5086711]I'd probably just tell them the truth. Honestly a prostitution charge is less of a hassle than an assault charge which either of them could have been looking at at that point.

Again, they were BOTH insanely stupid.

A lot of girls, especially the crazier ones, have a weapon (or weapons) in their incall. How would this situation looked if she would have used a knife on the dude rather than bit him? And a lot of guys are packing, so what would have happened if he pulled out a pistol and shot her when she bit his arm? Once you it escalates to physical there aren't a lot of boundaries and neither party had any control of the situation.

(Note on "the crazier ones": my experience is that most of the girls in the biz are at least a little bit crazy).[/QUOTE]This entire Situation sounds crazy. I hope I don't run into something like this!

[QUOTE=Michael1967;5085719]Yes. I also feel he's telling a majority of the truth also. The fact that the police came and he wasn't arrested is quite telling. The fact that absolutely nothing happened and he took his money and tried to leave and an altercation occurred is also very telling. The fact that after all of that she is complaining that she didn't get paid (for nothing) is also very telling.

Could he have handled it better? Hell, yeah! Unfortunately, the other board seems to think that all hookers are delicate flowers and incapable of launching themselves at men. They believe that even if she did launch herself at him, he has no right to defend himself (and then declare that they are feminists). I think most of us rational people know better.

I look at it as 4 years on the board, 22 reviews, 14 references without a problem, then suddenly he's beating hookers. Doesn't make sense.[/QUOTE]Yep. Sounds like he didn't realize what an unstable wacko he was dealing with until it was too late.

Looks like they deleted about half the replies on that thread. It appears anyone who questioned her viewpoint had their posts deleted, then they closed the thread.

[QUOTE=Jonderin;5086963]Looks like they deleted about half the replies on that thread. It appears anyone who questioned her viewpoint had their posts deleted, then they closed the thread.[/QUOTE]Why is that not surprising at all. That site has not only lost it's soul. But also it's moral compass. Predictable. Do what you have to ensure you can propogate a false reality and use the board to make as much money for the SPs as possible even if that compromises the safety and security of the people who pay to keep that board running.

Has anyone noticed that many of the women on SA when you meet and talk to them have had a pretty messed up childhood? So far I have encountered the following.

One who lost their dad at young age and seems to be jumping from guy to guy.

One who started dating her older brothers friend when she was 14 and he 21.

One who started being molested by grandfather at 12, pregnant at 15.

One who had no dad in her life that just likes having sex, she said why not get something in return.

There are others but has anyone met a woman that doesn't have a messed up background?

[QUOTE=BrstMan;5087013]Has anyone noticed that many of the women on SA when you meet and talk to them have had a pretty messed up childhood?

...

There are others but has anyone met a woman that doesn't have a messed up background?[/QUOTE]No, not really.

The arrangement world really is the Island of Misfit Toys.

[QUOTE=BrstMan;5087013]Has anyone noticed that many of the women on SA when you meet and talk to them have had a pretty messed up childhood?

There are others but has anyone met a woman that doesn't have a messed up background?[/QUOTE]My preference run toward the more mature ladies. Those seem to have a better balance to their lives. Yes, they are usually divorced, but that is kind of the nature of the beast. Most have children that are somewhat grown, as I do, so we actually have something to talk about after coitus. One was / is a professional (not that way, like a doctor / lawyer).

And to be quite frank, looking in the mirror, my background is not the most Mayberry and Cleavers either. Not that I was abused, but my folks had some pretty old-school ideas, and a certain part of my outlook on life and choosing to play in the world of pay to play has a lot with those puritanical attitudes.

[QUOTE=SugarNuts;5086168]Did you read the 2015 Everett Herald herald DOT net stories? Double Yikes![/QUOTE]Not sure why you guys are acting like wussies. It wasn't her who pulled the trigger. Upon reading the article I feel that she was innocent just doing her provider job and was simply at the wrong place at the wrong time.

[QUOTE=Jonderin;5086963]Yep. Sounds like he didn't realize what an unstable wacko he was dealing with until it was too late.

Looks like they deleted about half the replies on that thread. It appears anyone who questioned her viewpoint had their posts deleted, then they closed the thread.[/QUOTE]Typical. It's why I don't waste my fingertips typing there. They probably did that to any negative reviews that she had too (just like all negative reviews there).

[QUOTE=BrstMan;5087013]Has anyone noticed that many of the women on SA when you meet and talk to them have had a pretty messed up childhood? So far I have encountered the following.

One who lost their dad at young age and seems to be jumping from guy to guy.

One who started dating her older brothers friend when she was 14 and he 21.

One who started being molested by grandfather at 12, pregnant at 15.

One who had no dad in her life that just likes having sex, she said why not get something in return.

There are others but has anyone met a woman that doesn't have a messed up background?[/QUOTE]It's why I avoid the younger ones on there. Nothing is a bigger turnoff than hearing how they were molested by xxxxx or raped by her brother's friend when she was 12. At least the older people have learned to deal with their issues.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;5087263]It's why I avoid the younger ones on there. Nothing is a bigger turnoff than hearing how they were molested by xxxxx or raped by her brother's friend when she was 12. At least the older people have learned to deal with their issues.[/QUOTE]That's always advisable. I've found that avoiding girls under 28 is always the best. Rarely do they have a good level of maturity, but there's also the prowess factor. The women over 28 usually have perfected techniques and developed a real lust for intimacy. Girls 18-28 may have firmer bodies, but 9. 5 times out of ten, they are as sexually interesting as banging your own hand. Hey, at least my hand knows what I like, isn't going to rush me, have a nasty smell of being unclean, or ruin the mood by talking.

Cute little thing; encounter just went south and they both stood their ground. It happens.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;5087263]It's why I avoid the younger ones on there. Nothing is a bigger turnoff than hearing how they were molested by xxxxx or raped by her brother's friend when she was 12. At least the older people have learned to deal with their issues.[/QUOTE]There are no shortage of the older ones with issues as well, though. On the average I prefer them a little older myself but I've ran into plenty of batshit over the years from sugar babies in their thirties.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;5087263]It's why I avoid the younger ones on there. Nothing is a bigger turnoff than hearing how they were molested by xxxxx or raped by her brother's friend when she was 12. At least the older people have learned to deal with their issues.[/QUOTE]75% of the ones with issues I have met or talked to were over 30, there was one who was about 35 and I asked what happened to her bathroom door and her ex-BF had put her head into it, another older one had been raped by and ex-BF, another lost her parents in an accident and had no emotional or financial support so was on SA, when I made the post I was not specifically talking about any age group.

I found 1 right now that is young and seems to have few issues, steady job, own place, close but not too close, doesn't want too much in return and randomly sends me pics and tells me she wants to get together.