Suggestions on Techniques
[QUOTE=JWSearching;4905564]Correct about the car.
Picked Bella up from her place on the backroads. Drove around for a few and then dropped her off. Heavy smell of stale cigs, which is a turnoff. Dressed a little below casual. Some dentistry issues.
Might upgrade from "unlikely to repeat" to "maybe in a pinch. " Just expect some considerable depreciation from the appearance in her pictures.[/QUOTE]For those that are sensitive to cig smoke or other odors, there are a few things one can and should do when setting up dates. First when I contact a girl I ask if she smokes and gauge her reaction. Might mention I don't like the smell. Also others have noted they have SOs with VERY sensitive noses and they can not risk coming home with cig odor on them. So a girl who takes her business seriously should be willing to accommodate you and make sure she doesn't smell like smoke. In one of the DE thrreads there is a report where a guy complained about the smoke smell on a girl, followed by a report on the same girl where the dude reported he talked to her up front and she showed up odor free. So depending on how you operate YMMV. Girls can't read your mind, and guys aren't shy about asking about BBBJ, etc. So why not any odor issues? Same goes for dress code. If there is something you like, then mention that up front. THEN when a girl can't get it together to meet your needs, then she is a no repeat.
There was one girl that I dated where this was an issue and her situation didn't allow her to show up odor free so I fixed that with a spritz of Fabreez and a quick mouthwash rinse. Have seen others complain that some girls aren't "fresh. " Taking a girl to a notel and tossing her in the shower usually fixes that too!
Point is that if you want perfect dress, manicure and perfume one needs to fish in the high end waters: Eros or Tryst. Otherwise it makes some sense to communicate ones desires and turn offs before the date, or be prepared to fix them yourself. Finding a girl with skilz that match needs is often hard in this hobby so when one finds one, working with them to fix a few issues makes sense.
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Winner, Winner, Chicken Dinner!
[QUOTE=PPJones;4924504]I posted a review about her a while back after the first time I saw her and someone mentioned her name. That was probably A yr ago. Saw her again a little more recently, maybe couple months ago 🤔. Newborn baby in the apt with her.
Nice enough, seems like she's still clean, and good flute skills 😊.[/QUOTE]You are right! Caitlyn C- I think the name on her D / L is spelled with a C, and her advert is about 8 years lite on the age. Found a pic from back then.
Thanks for helping with the brain fart!
Lessons Learned. Book Learning or EXperiential Learning?
[QUOTE=MoveAtMidnight;4966609]Watch out for this one. I gave her a try yesterday. Pulled up to the hotel (well-known hangout for seedy types). She directed me to her room. I saw another provider ([URL]http://delaware.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/country-beauty-wanting-to-make/689788687060[/URL]) and some sketchy white dude creeping around outside. I got the room. Cute girl, spinner type, better than her photos IMO. We never discussed compensation, but I threw down a reasonable donation. Started with some DFK. Got her undressed and she said she didn't have a wrapper, asked if I was "clean" and wanted to go for it anyway (fuck that!) I said I'd go back to my car and get a wrapper. She told me to keep the door open and come back. I did just that, but the door was closed and locked. Suspecting I'd been played, I still knocked a few times. Eventually some whacked out white dude (same guy as before, I realized) answers the door and tries to play it like I've got the wrong room. I think he, the spinner, and the other "country beauty" chic are running a racket together. I left with my wallet lighter and my balls heavier.
I've been in this hobby a very long time now and have never gotten played like this. First time for everything. Be careful boys.
[URL]http://delaware.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/want-to-know-how-i-look-from-a/707347619466[/URL][/QUOTE]Sorry for your bad experience. It really sucks when you are mid things and it gets cut short! Thanks for the heads up about the girl. Appreciate you having the guts to post and warn others. Kudos!
Not sure if this girl is a ripoff artist or not, OR if she just saw an opening that was given her and took it? That said, hate to say it but this one appears to be on you. Why did you "throw down a reasonable donation" BEFORE the date was over? [B]One of the key rules of the hobby is never pay upfront.[/B] So when you left to go get a hat, why not pick up the donation and take it with you?
Second, just wondering why are you hobbying and not carrying your own supplies? Relying on the girls to have a cover is destine to get you BBBJ, HJ or nothing. You want CFS, bring the cover. Sorry to be so harsh. But unless you are paying north of $300 and going to a 4-star hotel with a well reviewed high class girl, these drug addled girls can not be relied on.
Finally, I wonder how the dude got into the room? Did he dash in when you went to the car or he was already in the room hiding in the bathroom?
So chalk this experience up as paying some tuition to learn a lesson about some of the 'rules' of the hobby. Sounds like you got away with things for a while and finally the hobby bit you in the butt. This is why I pound the table on the rules.
What frustrates me about this is that there is plenty of info on these threads / site to educate guys on the "how to's" of the hobby, but we still see guys making the same mistakes over and over, even guys who have been in the hobby a very long time. Stuff like this doesn't need to happen, especially if guys would read & understand the rules. These girls will look for weakness or an opening, so knowing 'how to" keeps you from a bad experience. Don't give them an opening or opportunity to make you a victim. Even the nicest girl is going to be tempted to take the money and run if you leave it with her and then leave the room. But hey, ignoring or ignorance of the rules IS a choice one makes.
For those who want to "book learn" and avoid situation like this, here are the rules for internet dating:
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?13919-My-Suggestions.-Rules-For-BackPage[/URL]
For those who think they know it all, or that they don't need no stinking rules or think they can play things by ear, well get in line behind this dude as eventually the hobby will deal you a bad hand.
Glad the payment for a 'lesson' was only monetary and you made it out safe. Thanks again for posting a warning!
Good luck hobbying and stay safe!
Additional info for fellow hobbyist
[QUOTE=MoveAtMidnight;4966609]Watch out for this one. I gave her a try yesterday. Pulled up to the hotel (well-known hangout for seedy types). She directed me to her room. I saw another provider ([URL]http://delaware.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/country-beauty-wanting-to-make/689788687060[/URL]) and some sketchy white dude creeping around outside. I got the room. Cute girl, spinner type, better than her photos IMO. We never discussed compensation, but I threw down a reasonable donation. Started with some DFK. Got her undressed and she said she didn't have a wrapper, asked if I was "clean" and wanted to go for it anyway (fuck that!) I said I'd go back to my car and get a wrapper. She told me to keep the door open and come back. I did just that, but the door was closed and locked. Suspecting I'd been played, I still knocked a few times. Eventually some whacked out white dude (same guy as before, I realized) answers the door and tries to play it like I've got the wrong room. I think he, the spinner, and the other "country beauty" chic are running a racket together. I left with my wallet lighter and my balls heavier.
I've been in this hobby a very long time now and have never gotten played like this. First time for everything. Be careful boys.
[URL]http://delaware.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/want-to-know-how-i-look-from-a/707347619466[/URL][/QUOTE]Sorry to hear about your experience as well. In reference to second ad at bottom that is Bridgette. Use to be clean and decent provider. Hosted from shitty trailer in woodside then moved her drama to motel behind Miss Bbq. Think she has been reviewed (Bridgette). Def a user and has a pimp. Back shot pick is def not her but the front shot is her. You can see all the pimples. Lack of hygiene. Stay safe.