The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/636e16fc-8e92-3ed0-3855-96022f725d3c[/URL]

Got his from her.

"I don't see Indians for less than 2000 per visit. ".

[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;3158164][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/636e16fc-8e92-3ed0-3855-96022f725d3c[/URL]

Got his from her.

"I don't see Indians for less than 2000 per visit. ".[/QUOTE]I had emailed a bit with her. Was quoted 500. Generally if I'm getting pricing when I don't even show a pic, I assume she's an UTR "pro" and opt out!

[QUOTE=MrNCbob;3153488]I have been away from the Hobby but the break allowed me to reflect. With all the risk of BP, I am considering SA. But it sounds like a lot of effort. I don't have a lot of time to be meeting and screening. I also don't have extra large amounts of cash. So my first question for the group is; how much time / effort are you putting into this and would it be better to go for angencies if my time is limited?

Second question; about how much should one expect to shell out for most encounters? I don't want to insult anyone.

Third; do I need to include a photo? I simply can't do that.

Final Question; how many ads are real? I checked out AM and ALL the profiles seemed fake to me, it was soooo obvious, especially when popular porn stars are featured, along with corny names all with with sex innuendo. And I think there was a revelation of people hired just to write fake profiles. SA free membership allows me to see basic info, it does not seem as fake. AF seems a bit fake. What is your experience with the truth in advertising?

Sorry for long post but thanks for info. I got into this hoping to find a few regulars I could get to know, like FWB, but that seems impossible with all the inconsistencies of BP gals. With tips, angencies would get expensive, with very limited time for the $.[/QUOTE]You will find plenty of utr and pros on SA. Go for them and that cuts your time and screenings down. The cost will be determined by what your looking for but plenty in the BP range. As far as a photo write a good profile as to what your looking for. That goes along way. I have never used a photo and have plenty of responses. Pic can be sent when you get to texting phase. Send a recent pic when you do. You will be able to sort out the worki g girls from the real deal pretty fast.

Ok, thank you guys for the feedback. It sounds like SA is real but less efficient, though possibly a good source for UTR if I am willing to do a little ground work. So next question; has anyone found a refillable credit card that can be used on this site? Most cards say no international purchases.

[QUOTE=MrNCbob;3160168]Ok, thank you guys for the feedback. It sounds like SA is real but less efficient, though possibly a good source for UTR if I am willing to do a little ground work. So next question; has anyone found a refillable credit card that can be used on this site? Most cards say no international purchases.[/QUOTE]I've always used the AMEX Serve (I think it's called that) card. You can get it at any CVS (maybe Walgreens). It's prepaid at the register, so you will need to know the $ amount you want to upload before you buy. There is no fee to buy the card, it's anonymous for online transactions, and you can just throw it away after the transaction / purchase. The last time I tried to use it I had to contact SA support and give them the card info, which they cleared in 24 hours. Good luck, and let us know how it worked out!

Yaya.

Is this the girl from Dunn that others were discussing earlier this year? Has anyone had any dealings with her? Been talking with her, no red flags so far, but wanted to see if anyone had already tried.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9a906d3d-62d2-42d8-b412-bf6911a21fb1[/URL]

First message I receive after joining SA premium. Just wow.

"What do you look like why would you hide your face unless you realize your very ugly".

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8f509341-e171-4655-b855-9ddcbc51589e[/URL]

So I joined SA just to check it out. I already have a few messages but I have not paid for premium. . 8 for one month? Am I missing something here? Is it really worth that? Is there a way to read messages without paying? And as far as posting a picture, are you guys using your actual picture? I just can't seem to bring myself to put my pic up for fear someone will see it that knows me.

[QUOTE=JRoy12;3192986]So I joined SA just to check it out. I already have a few messages but I have not paid for premium. . 8 for one month? Am I missing something here? Is it really worth that? Is there a way to read messages without paying? And as far as posting a picture, are you guys using your actual picture? I just can't seem to bring myself to put my pic up for fear someone will see it that knows me.[/QUOTE]I paid for premium and would have to say, YES it's worth it. I have NOT posted a picture and have had a couple of meetings already and several other offers. Some are just crazy with their asking price, but others I have found are very reasonable. They almost all do ask for a picture, but even when I have provided one, I have blurred my face.

[QUOTE=JRoy12;3192986]So I joined SA just to check it out. I already have a few messages but I have not paid for premium. . 8 for one month? Am I missing something here? Is it really worth that? Is there a way to read messages without paying? And as far as posting a picture, are you guys using your actual picture? I just can't seem to bring myself to put my pic up for fear someone will see it that knows me.[/QUOTE]I put my picture up in the private, but I won't post it publicly. You have to pay to send messages. There's no way around it.

The first month is $54, so I figured I'd try it, see where it gets me, and if nowhere, then I'll cancel. I don't know if I have the charm or the game for this side of the hobby LOL. Should be an interesting month trying to feel it out.

[QUOTE=JRoy12;3192986]So I joined SA just to check it out. I already have a few messages but I have not paid for premium. . 8 for one month? Am I missing something here? Is it really worth that? Is there a way to read messages without paying? And as far as posting a picture, are you guys using your actual picture? I just can't seem to bring myself to put my pic up for fear someone will see it that knows me.[/QUOTE]I suggest you upload any pictures you may have as private. That way you control who gets to see them and who doesn't. IMO it is totally worth the fee to get access. I suggest you message any and all that interest you as it is a numbers game. Also suggest you take your communication off the site (such as text or email) after a few messages have been exchanged so that you have a way of contacting them after your month has expired. Good luck, and let us know how it goes!

Yaya.

I've talked to more hotties in the last 5 days than I have in years. This site is pretty awesome. Who knows if any of these will pan out, but I've got several prospects right now. And random ones hitting up my inbox on the daily.

I'm trying to learn as I go. I might be doing this all wrong right now, but it's fun at least.

[QUOTE=Tomas247;3198481]I've talked to more hotties in the last 5 days than I have in years. This site is pretty awesome. Who knows if any of these will pan out, but I've got several prospects right now. And random ones hitting up my inbox on the daily.

I'm trying to learn as I go. I might be doing this all wrong right now, but it's fun at least.[/QUOTE]It's the time of the season. They need Christmas money. I've been off the site for a month or so but have an inbox full of messages that I'm not sure I want to pay to read.

[QUOTE=Tomas247;3198481]I've talked to more hotties in the last 5 days than I have in years. This site is pretty awesome. Who knows if any of these will pan out, but I've got several prospects right now. And random ones hitting up my inbox on the daily.

I'm trying to learn as I go. I might be doing this all wrong right now, but it's fun at least.[/QUOTE]You need to go to the Richmond, VA thread on here and look for 'Highlights' - its an archive of everything you ever want to know about being a SD, and using SA.

Anyone have any experience with this chick?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e71ab282-a77a-44fe-906d-36eb385a7365[/URL]

I think she's cute as hell. We've sent 80 or more messages just talking, but she seems a bit strange and now is saying she's thinking about deleting her acct bc she's never had a SD, and she's not sure it's for her.

I told her straight up to delete her acct if she wants to, that's her call. If I didn't find her so damn cute (I'm partial to asians), I'd just stop even trying.

I told her that her expectations were also a bit excessive. Was asking for $ $$$ or $ $$$$ for a short block of time, then I told her for that I could easily find other options for far less and she seemed intrigued. She also thinks that all the guys on this site are extremely wealthy, so I was trying to get her to take her blinders off LOL.

And this one is claiming to be a virgin. I'm almost inclined to believe her.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9ae8b099-8619-4fbd-bce3-e60031332100