Stupid Bullshit that has nothing to do with getting laid.

Someone on the Sugarbowl tab posted a while ago about not having an avenue to talk about his SB to anyone.

I think a lot of guys are missing an opportunity to get stuff off their chests or stick out their chests proudly when you have developed a strong bond with a provider or SB. I have recently lost my long term SB / mistress / Guma (Italian for mistress) & was more than a little upset.

I had a on deck batter / SB that I have been seeing for almost as long (two years plus) that I discussed my main SB with many times, especially when we had periods of not seeing each other for weeks because of the distance between us and both having live in SOs.

Also four escorts I am close to that we text even though two are in Cali & travel here just a few times a year. The key is to not give up your identity by telling them too much. Think about it, who else can you talk to about stuff like this? This board helps but my PT SB gave me dead nuts on advise because, no offense guys, she has a female mind and a vag!

I told a boss several years ago to go fuck himself. He wanted to fire me but since I was the #1 producer for the company in North America, the President told me he knew the guy was a dick and they were sending me to a shrink just to satisfy his worthless ass.

If you went to college, you know which major had the most fucked up people in it? Yup, psychology majors. The guy I saw was no exception.

I treat my special friends just like that, special. In return I get a lot back. Many things that aren't normally on the menu, someone to text & sometimes sext when I'm on the road and a very valuable FWB & way better sex because we have established a true connection.

Anyone else fucking their therapist? LOL.

DF.

WOW Bob, Really! $30 an hour?

What a stunad. He should have just.

Got a "private sisboombaa" from one of the hot Patriots cheerleaders.

https://www.google.com/amp/www.espn.com/nfl/story/_/id/26055197/patriots-owner-robert-kraft-charged-solicitation-prostitution%3fplatform=amp

There's no doubt, this is a great negative object lesson. Anyone here can screw this up, and if you're not on your guard, you will get bitten in the butt. What worries me was the surveillance in the parlor he went to. A virtue of a more 'private' venue you get in the sugar bowl.

Everyday my phone wakes up from snooze, saying that a particular girl is typing in Snapchat. I never get a resultant message. I have can't figure out if that girl is typing something meant for me and 1. Simply does not push the send button. Or 2. Wants to wake up my phone, by typing, not push the send button, and therefore ghost me to see if I'm awake and active. Or 3. Is typing something that she will send to somebody else and not me and my phone is merely telling me that she is awake and online. Or 4. Has typed something intended for me and chickens out and doesn't push send. Anyone know if it could be all or some of the above? Thanks Bob.

This weekend, the ol lady decides she wants to install 360 on my phone, as she has done on hers, and her mom and sister. She claims we can track each other without having to call. Actually, that can be a benefit as I am on the road almost daily, and she has a long commute. But you know where I'm going with this. What do I do about hobby visits? If I turn off the app, she can see that. I wonder if this is coincidental with the big news in FL this weekend too. She hates RK and was glad he was busted. I acted dumb. Admin, chime in too, I like your input.

[QUOTE=MetalHead63;4167984]This weekend, the ol lady decides she wants to install 360 on my phone, as she has done on hers, and her mom and sister. She claims we can track each other without having to call. Actually, that can be a benefit as I am on the road almost daily, and she has a long commute. But you know where I'm going with this. What do I do about hobby visits? If I turn off the app, she can see that. I wonder if this is coincidental with the big news in FL this weekend too. She hates RK and was glad he was busted. I acted dumb. Admin, chime in too, I like your input.[/QUOTE]1. Take your balls out of her purse.

2. leave your main phone at the last site you worked at, do your mongering with a burner phone and have the calls forwarded from your main phone to your burner. Then once done, go back and pick your main phone up and unforward the calls. This way it appears that you are physcally at one location but can still answer your phone if your wife calls.

3. Take your balls out of her purse.

1 & 3 couldn't resist.

[URL]www.wikihow.com/forward-your-cell-phone[/URL]

[QUOTE=Tdog69;4168112]1. Take your balls out of her purse.

2. leave your main phone at the last site you worked at, do your mongering with a burner phone and have the calls forwarded from your main phone to your burner. Then once done, go back and pick your main phone up and unforward the calls. This way it appears that you are physcally at one location but can still answer your phone if your wife calls.

3. Take your balls out of her purse.

1 & 3 couldn't resist.

[URL]www.wikihow.com/forward-your-cell-phone[/URL][/QUOTE]1, Doesn't work that way, I own the purse and everything else.

2. Doesn't work for my situation, but I use burners. I'm not concerned about calling. It is real time tracking.

3. Doesn't work that way. I own the purse and everything else. Could not resist. But thanks though.

[QUOTE=MetalHead63;4168436]1, Doesn't work that way, I own the purse and everything else.

2. Doesn't work for my situation, but I use burners. I'm not concerned about calling. It is real time tracking.

3. Doesn't work that way. I own the purse and everything else. Could not resist. But thanks though.[/QUOTE]"Just breaking balls".

[QUOTE=Tdog69;4168112]1. Take your balls out of her purse.

2. leave your main phone at the last site you worked at, do your mongering with a burner phone and have the calls forwarded from your main phone to your burner. Then once done, go back and pick your main phone up and unforward the calls. This way it appears that you are physcally at one location but can still answer your phone if your wife calls.

3. Take your balls out of her purse.

1 & 3 couldn't resist.

[URL]www.wikihow.com/forward-your-cell-phone[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MetalHead63;4168436]1, Doesn't work that way, I own the purse and everything else.

2. Doesn't work for my situation, but I use burners. I'm not concerned about calling. It is real time tracking.

3. Doesn't work that way. I own the purse and everything else. Could not resist. But thanks though.[/QUOTE]With respect, if you can't tell her "no," who owns the purse is pretty irrelevant. She owns your balls. I danced around this issue for a while. We both got a location app in order to keep track of the kids. She kept nagging me to activate for my phone so she could track me. After procrastinating as long as I could, I had to flat out tell her no. She asked what I could have to hide. I told her that the app was fine for tracking kids, but I wasn't a kid and didn't need mommy to watch me. Deleted app entirely (my kids aren't that hard to track anyway) and check phone periodically (before each expedition, if I remember).

My pants feel a little more snug with my balls tucked back in, but it's worth it!

[QUOTE=DogBert77;4169024]With respect, if you can't tell her "no," who owns the purse is pretty irrelevant. She owns your balls. I danced around this issue for a while. We both got a location app in order to keep track of the kids. She kept nagging me to activate for my phone so she could track me. After procrastinating as long as I could, I had to flat out tell her no. She asked what I could have to hide. I told her that the app was fine for tracking kids, but I wasn't a kid and didn't need mommy to watch me. Deleted app entirely (my kids aren't that hard to track anyway) and check phone periodically (before each expedition, if I remember).

My pants feel a little more snug with my balls tucked back in, but it's worth it![/QUOTE]Good points. I did see that the app does put a drain on the battery. So I will uninstall it, tell her that. If she does not like that reason, I will use your message. It is my phone I use for work, so it must be with me. As I'm typing this, I had a thought. If enroute to a hobby place, I can just turn off phone and say that it must have died. Unballsy, I know. Just an option.

[QUOTE=Tdog69;4168559]"Just breaking balls".[/QUOTE]I should have taken it that way, I do a lot of that too. Apologies.

[QUOTE=MetalHead63;4169623]Good points. I did see that the app does put a drain on the battery. So I will uninstall it, tell her that. If she does not like that reason, I will use your message. It is my phone I use for work, so it must be with me. As I'm typing this, I had a thought. If en route to a hobby place, I can just turn off phone and say that it must have died. Unballsy, I know. Just an option.[/QUOTE]OK, I have broken balls enough for this week. Here is another suggestion for a reason which may actually be useful for you. I had planned to use it if the direct approach wasn't enough.

Tell your wife that you are concerned about loss of privacy online, and that however runs the tracking app could share your data or store and share it later, in ways that you can't fully envision but don't like. This line of reasoning is easier if one or both of the following is true (I) you have history of distrust of social media and protecting your privacy (definitely true for me); and / or you have political views or hobbies (aside from mongering) that could be used to your detriment. For example, if you are Trump supporter in Bernie Sanders country, or vice versa, or if shooting is your favorite hobby and you live in an anti-gun area. Use whatever potentially unpopular traits or views you might have, and weave it into a vague "don't trust the tech giants" sort of thing.

Good luck, and whatever you do, keep putting it where your wife doesn't want it to go!

[QUOTE=EBob1111;4426662]"Let me choke, slap, spit on, and generally destroy her. " - mommy issues anyone?[/QUOTE]While I don't personally derive any pleasure from choking / slapping (and spitting is an outright turnoff), you might be surprised at how many girls in the 18-22 range want this, or at least various forms of rough sex. I think Internet porn culture has conditioned them to believe that only sex with extremes is exciting.

If an SD does it because they have a craving or fetish for humiliating women, then yeah there is likely an underlying psychological cause, but when the girl wants it then I see it as making the overall sexual experience better, because rough sex turns her on.

Although, I would advise anyone to make sure its what she wants first, and finding that out I think is more of a learned skill or intuition than directly asking her how rough she wants it. Some girls want it rough, some girls want it slow and sensual. When you can read what they want without forcing them to spell it out, it often leads to very good things. What a rush it is for a guy in his fifties to hear a 23 year old wants to be his girlfriend with no allowance required!

[QUOTE=EBob1111;4426662]"Let me choke, slap, spit on, and generally destroy her. " - mommy issues anyone?[/QUOTE]Since that is 6 pages back I see you have been looking at my post history. Glad you're enjoying my reviews.

[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4426816]Since that is 6 pages back I see you have been looking at my post history. Glad you're enjoying my reviews.[/QUOTE]Certainly appreciate your insight and experiences with SBs, just wondering what's behind your need to repeatedly mention how big your dick is and how you like to "destroy" young girls.