Revoking the whistleblower's USASG membership
It is unfathomable that some (one) would give this site out to a service provider (SP). We can go into the "why," but how does the topic come up to begin with? The information contained within should be truthful and informative, without fear of any retaliation. While I don't monger much anymore; USASG is part of my daily reading and I try my best to keep up to date with both facts and opinions from it's members. Who knows; a special jewel might be reviewed that changes my mind on mongering.
I won't go as far in saying the information here is compromised, however, using a post 'formatting' which ensures some level of anonymity could be wise. Just as Amateur11 stated; everyone should avoid revealing every little detail (date / time / specific acts) and just provide a general synopsis of the session. Should additional information be required, you can delve into that via PM. Doing this should "mask" who is actually submitting the information, thus removing any leverage a SP may think they have. Additionally, it allows a member to fully express their opinion while providing the valuable data needed for everyone here to make informed decisions.
Cheers: Thresh.
RE: What put me over the edge
[QUOTE=ByAllMeans;2974142]This posts expresses what I've been feeling for 3 years. We should ask ourselves, "why are we seeing these girls?
My reason is looking for the girl who is a ten, a knockout, playboy material. I'm willing to pay for that. When I first started mongrring, it was during the Eros hay days and 7 out of ten of them were acceptable and they were knockouts. Now we have the water buffaloes, ugly, and on drugs. So now I search 150 ads and would pick 3 maybe. So if they are not the Eros girl, then why are we paying?
The girls think that if you show up there, we are obligated to stay there or they start with the, " you're wasting my time", crap. If anybody saw pretty woman, then this should be our motto. " I say who! I say when, I say who! Not them. We have all the power, not them. If you feel any apprehension about it, then remember that statement. I have used that philosophy for two years and am not going to be hustled by lying ugly Buffaloes. I don't know why they post. [b]Like kitty and the hair. Unbelievable.[/b][/QUOTE]Kitty and the hair! Thank you! Wish she would stop posting. Wish all of the Monsters would stop posting.
Body Shaming and Forum Attitude
I don't understand these posts insulting providers for their body type. I really hope none of them ever learn of those posts. Regardless of what you like or don't like they are still people with feelings. Some men obviously like them otherwise they would not be able to make a living in this line of work. If you are not into them why the hell click the ad or watch the videos, much less just so you can talk shit about them later. With all the freaky things people are into, is overweight women is really so disturbing.
Additionally, I wish everyone would recognize this forum as a place to learn whom to see and whom to avoid, and not look at it as "us verses them". There are great providers out there from spinners to bbw, we need to support their business and avoid the bad providers. That is all. That will allow the good ones to thrive and the bad to quit or move on. IMHO.
Well I certain; why didn't mean to offend you
[QUOTE=GermanChris;2975050]Most of the high end providers I have seen know about this site and TER before I ever found this site. The only girls who aren't aware are the ones with problems and most of them can't focus on much more then getting habits, shelter and food next day or two in that order. I just felt like the posts on this topic are getting a bit too preachy so here is a synopsis from one guy.
DO NOT.
-let a girl influence what you write on the site!
-try and use the forum as leverage when talking to a new girl (lower rates, extra time etc).
-try and discuss reviews with a habitual girl who you have a good working relationship with (many of these girls have regulars they treat great for convience, then later that night / week will scam some dude they weren't interested in).
Acceptable references.
-she brings it up, you say you are familiar with it and said nice things no details included.
-tell a provider you haven't seen you write reviews as a shield, just like saying I found you on yelp to a personal business its a reminder that actions with you will influence their business.
This is a forum to protect and inform us and the wrong girls finding out about it is a bad thing. Just wanted to pump the brakes on the if you have ever talked about our site with providers you must leave village posts. If a smart girl with a laptop searches bp in Raleigh I bet this comes up on first page, so idea that we are 100% safe is a bit silly. Keep valuing trusted members and do your best to make hobby safer and more enjoyable for all.[/QUOTE]1) If you don't like me "preaching" - like A2 said. Ignore me. 2), I'm 1000% certain" high-end providers" already know about the site. And those are the kinds of girls who have NO interest in drama or causing any more spotlight on themselves than you would want to bring on yourself. So, no worries there. We're talking about run of the mill Backpage heroin-trash.