Would you marry an Asian massage girl?

That is the question. If you are over 50 been married before and your wife has died or you are divorced would you consider marrying an Asian massage woman and or prostitute. Am not talking about from only the sex angle but having a fondness for Asian culture and women. Maybe she isn't working anymore or she goes out of town to work for a couple of weeks per month or so and brings a little money home to boot.

We pay good money to spend time with them so would having them carrying out the normal wife type things like helping cook, clean and whatever wives do be cool or would having someone recognize her in public be too much to bear. Perhaps being with a woman that people would pay money to have sex with is an ego boost?

So would you do it?

They are women, just like other women. I have met a couple who I would have without a question dated.

It would depend on a large number of factors.

I dated a provider outside the hobby and it was a wild trip but it came with many potential complications and required a lot of emotional stability with both parties. And you're right there is a bit of an ego boost to have a woman who other men pay to be with call you up because she is feeling horny and you are her choice. But it has a huge potential downside as well.

So to answer your question, maybe, it would depend on the woman. Actually I would be less likely to date or marry an AMP girl since I have been there, done that, as far as Asians. And no she wasn't in the hobby. I'm just kind of well over the cultural curiosity thing. It can get to be a pain in the ass after a while.

Satya.

I am a 63 yr old man and even I would consider dating a woman from another country. I have dated several Russian women in the past and had a great time. Even went as far as traveling to Moscow and Kiev to visit their families but sadly it did not workout. Maybe one day I will find the right lady.

If we were truly in love, why not? I don't judge what anyone does (or did). And I certainly wouldn't want them judging me. But is it my fantasy? No. I currently live with a an asian UTR girl. But we are not in love, just great friends. the amount of emotional support we give each other really helps us get through the tough times we both have.

I have married my semi retired Chinese girl friend. The nature of her working has changed a bit. She only works 2 weeks at a time in Boston because Boston AMPs rarely provide FS which she doesn't now. In Boston the mongers go to RI for FS so this keeps her safe.

Different people would have different reasons for doing something like this, but probably most of the time it's not a good idea because it's unlikely your motives are in line with hers.

If you like / love her and she likes / loves you and you have no problem with her doing sexual favors with men at her work (BIG ifs) then it would be okay. The problem is, she is money- and opportunity-motivated, so her goal may be to use you.

To the person who said "prostitutes are just like other women'. This is not true. Most women draw the line at what they're willing to do for money and that line definitely does not include any sexual activity.

The Provider I'm seeing has asked me because her Immigration Status is termed Violated. Assuming that if Immigration was after her, I might. I like her and don't want her to be flown back to her Home Country. She's a Sweet Girl and just trying to Survive.

[QUOTE=RonM;1973901]The Provider I'm seeing has asked me because her Immigration Status is termed Violated. Assuming that if Immigration was after her, I might. I like her and don't want her to be flown back to her Home Country. She's a Sweet Girl and just trying to Survive.[/QUOTE]If your intention is to help her get a "green card" you should remember a couple things. She is not going to love you the way we Americans consider it, that does not mean that she will not treat you very well when she is at your home but you will nothing about her going in. Very many providers (Asian) have gambling problem more specifically with Baccarat in casinos. Also she is a prostitute and they have problems with genuine intimacy, they get fucked by more than a few men weekly and they get numb to it and cold hearted. You should also consider that you will be married although you may not take in seriously the state does, you would not be able to marry again until you are divorced and you may not be able to find her.

I don't know what you heard but it takes quite awhile to get a "Green Card" for permanent residency, first the I-130 form must be filed, petition for sponsorship, then a I-895 (green card application) so we are talking more than a year for sure. I filed the I-130 in July and am still waiting.

It is a lot of work and a lot of hassle so make sure she pays you at least $3,000 and visits you twice a month for a couple days for sexual services. That way you won't be spending money on other AMPs.

Lastly you also have to put her name on some things like a bank account.

So good luck with it.

[QUOTE=Satya;1974065]If your intention is to help her get a "green card" you should remember a couple things. She is not going to love you the way we Americans consider it, that does not mean that she will not treat you very well when she is at your home but you will nothing about her going in. Very many providers (Asian) have gambling problem more specifically with Baccarat in casinos. Also she is a prostitute and they have problems with genuine intimacy, they get fucked by more than a few men weekly and they get numb to it and cold hearted. You should also consider that you will be married although you may not take in seriously the state does, you would not be able to marry again until you are divorced and you may not be able to find her.

I don't know what you heard but it takes quite awhile to get a "Green Card" for permanent residency, first the I-130 form must be filed, petition for sponsorship, then a I-895 (green card application) so we are talking more than a year for sure. I filed the I-130 in July and am still waiting.

It is a lot of work and a lot of hassle so make sure she pays you at least $3,000 and visits you twice a month for a couple days for sexual services. That way you won't be spending money on other AMPs.

Lastly you also have to put her name on some things like a bank account.

So good luck with it.[/QUOTE]Thanks Satya for the Info. I really appreciate it. As of now Immigration isn't knocking down her Door. She only asked me to Marry her should Immigration go after her.

A lot of people, guys included don't want to be alone. For me. Being alone is better then being miserable. You can always rent a girl for companionship for one hour or take with on vacation and its will be cheaper than getting married.

Also, consider that some one in your family will find out she was a working girl: can you deal with it? If you truly have feelings for each other, it shouldn't matter. It didn't for me.

The Chop lived with a working girl for over a year. I didn't work out. First she brought her kid in from her home country, then she wanted a good new car, and on and on. She wanted to get her green card. I wanted her to sign a prenuptial; she would not. I had to move to get her out.

OK, I'm done spilling my guts.

There are multiple reasons for doing it, and multiple ways to deal with it.

An engineer I used to work with in the '80's would go back to Peking every 3 years and marry another woman that he knew, having just divorced the last one. He did this for decades, and was back in Peking when Tiananmen Square went down. He hated the Chinese government with a passion, and was slowly pulling all of his friends out of China. Back then, the period was 3 years to keep your permanent residency; now it's 5 years (AFAIK). No money changed hands, as he was doing it to get them out of a dangerously repressive regime.

A different guy I used to work with was. Special. He's a Permanent Virgin or something similar: none of the gals would date him. He eventually ended up with a Thai girlfriend that he met through an offshore dating service, and since he didn't know the ropes, HE paid HER and HER FAMILY many thousands of dollars to get her over. He's affectionately known as a 'Chump'. Going rate should have been $3 K to $10 K from her family to get someone permanent residency status using the 'marriage fiction'.

It would be interesting.

Yes, I'd marry an Asian massage girl. As long as she is hot. Haha. Hell I'd marry any woman, I don't care where they are from, as long as they are good looking.

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