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BuyingSmiles
07-18-16, 18:43
So I took a break for about 18 months from the hobby to recently return. Before I took my break I was using Buddah's Girls on a somewhat regular basis. Now I hear nothing of Buddah? He seems to have pretty hot girls at resonable prices.Buddha has gone legit. I didn't believe it when he claimed that he was done, but I talk to someone that knows him. I said straight up, is he done with the business & the reply I got was, 100%. Take that for what it is worth.
After Sasha & cupcake left he was kinda fucked. Jordan was a great girl with no drama but I think that was about as far as solid chicks. She seems to have retired after having her last child. Unless she went UTR. He had Alexis who was hooked on the devil and that nut job Desire (spelling). If Alexis didn't have to deal with Desi, I think she would have been much better off. She was an addict but she wasn't a a complete idiot like Desi. I think dealing with these two & a drove him to leave the business, JMHO.
PitDropper
07-18-16, 19:06
Two of my atf's are in the uncles house they were setup by a LEO here. Made the appointments and got nabbed. They are two of the top that have been here for some time, be careful everyone, remember this is a free site, they are here also Pm me for details.One of my favorite is resting at LEO also from someone that got her number on the board. So watch out, because LEO is.
First Half
07-18-16, 20:48
One of my favorite is resting at LEO also from someone that got her number on the board. So watch out, because LEO is.The girls need to demand and check references. I've seen several girls that take it on faith if I'm from this board and a senior. It's a good way to wind up in the pokey.
John HandCock
07-18-16, 21:24
One of my favorite is resting at LEO also from someone that got her number on the board. So watch out, because LEO is.Are these girls getting caught in stings or individually. LEO usually doesn't target individuals unless they have a side business going on.
Providers available but not advertising.
Have been trying to reach a few providers on babylon list crawler. Some haven't advertised for over a month, never return calls but their reviews are raking up. Does this mean they are fake reviews?, Or the provider is working in a different location than listed?, Or she is now working under a new name? Or a UTR, which one is it?
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DickHerDown
07-19-16, 17:05
They were setup individually I now this first hand and the leos are members here.I sent a couple pms to find out more info. Could you get back to me sir? Want to stay safe! Thanks.
DickHerDown
07-19-16, 17:07
The girls need to demand and check references. I've seen several girls that take it on faith if I'm from this board and a senior. It's a good way to wind up in the pokey.When it comes to $ and drugs. Most of the girls won't hesitate to take that risk.
Smilesallround
07-19-16, 17:18
The girls need to demand and check references. I've seen several girls that take it on faith if I'm from this board and a senior. It's a good way to wind up in the pokey.I've been surprised by several recent providers who didn't even ask for a pm to confirm that I am the member I say I am.
Cincyfunguy
07-19-16, 18:13
I sent a couple pms to find out more info. Could you get back to me sir? Want to stay safe! Thanks.Hope to hear from the kind sir soon. Be safe, everyone.
CFG.
FatDaddy3750
07-19-16, 18:56
They were setup individually I now this first hand and the leos are members here.I'd be surprised if LEO were not monitoring this site. Use your best judgment.
Do you know that guys have been saying this since the day Jax opened the doors?
Do you know the number of times that one of the 2 million posts here has been used in court?
That would be zero.
Who gives a shit if cops read the forum, we have retired cops down here that used to read the forum to find hot chicks to fuck. Nothing here is of any use to them.
A2
First Half
07-19-16, 21:43
They were setup individually I now this first hand and the leos are members here.Are you planning to play this secret squirrel shit until you run it in the ground? Several people have sent you PMs and got nothing. I'm starting to think you're just full of shit.
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Not here for you guys posted this to help the ladies you guys are on your own, too many of you guys that can't be trusted, no way to know who is who here.You said "top provides", who? I've not noticed one top provider missing, starting not to believe anything from you, put it out there and even say pm for more info, but gives no info. Hmmm!
First Half
07-20-16, 08:02
You said "top provides", who? I've not noticed one top provider missing, starting not to believe anything from you, put it out there and even say pm for more info, but gives no info. Hmmm!I can't find a single provider that has had any problems. Look through Numbnuts posting history. He's just a drama queen.
I've been surprised by several recent providers who didn't even ask for a pm to confirm that I am the member I say I am.I avoid providing my username if possible. I just offer references if they want that. Haven't had any problems with that. Exceptions are when I've made contact via the board.
Are you planning to play this secret squirrel shit until you run it in the ground? Several people have sent you PMs and got nothing. I'm starting to think you're just full of shit.I'm not starting to think he's full of shit. I've been thinking that. Just wants attention, so he throws out the LE bomb. If the "top providers" were being scooped up, CockNumb would definitely not be the only monger that knows anything about it.
I'd be surprised if LEO were not monitoring this site. Use your best judgment.
Do you know that guys have been saying this since the day Jax opened the doors?
Do you know the number of times that one of the 2 million posts here has been used in court?
That would be zero.
Who gives a shit if cops read the forum, we have retired cops down here that used to read the forum to find hot chicks to fuck. Nothing here is of any use to them.
A2When you guys wind up in court for the misdemeanor charge of paying for pussy, I promise you the prosecutor won't be holding up your fabled postings on a fucking bulletin board as evidence. It will be because you're in a room with a bunch of money in your pocket for answering an ad with a chick that has a bulk ordered box of rubbers and possibly the phone you didn't turn off.
A fucking men
Thanks,
A2
MollyDaniels
07-20-16, 12:55
Only one provider is showing up on the hamilton county court website for prostitution on 7/13 -- what is freaky is that the charge also says 'warrant only'. So WTF? Did the Po-Po get serviced, and then came back later with an arrest warrant? Did she mention naughty acts on the phone, and then they sent a warrant?
I'm not starting to think he's full of shit. I've been thinking that. Just wants attention, so he throws out the LE bomb. If the "top providers" were being scooped up, CockNumb would definitely not be the only monger that knows anything about it.It does seem like you have captured the essence of it all. Not sure what is the purpose of all this as an end goal, but its rotten any which way you see it.
I can't find a single provider that has had any problems. Look through Numbnuts posting history. He's just a drama queen.And you are a closet queen bullying will get you no where asshole.
First Half
07-20-16, 16:56
And you are a closet queen bullying will get you no where asshole.Ha. Fuck off with your stupid shit bottom feeder. I know who you've been going on about and while they may be nice girls, they've never been reference checkers and have had drug issues. Of course for you that might be "top shelf" providers.
Fucking sphincter.
I have not seen this kind of unprecedented LEO activity in any city. Why is this so prevalent in Cincy area? Is it because they have nothing to do. Some user discussions in other cities have no monger reviews for providers and no reports of LE.
I have not seen this kind of unprecedented LEO activity in any city. Why is this so prevalent in Cincy area? Is it because they have nothing to do. Some user discussions in other cities have no monger reviews for providers and no reports of LE.I'm not sure what you mean. I haven't noticed anything different than usual other than the recent shit here in the Octagon.
I think it's because they like pretending they are Tony Montana or something.
A2
GracePreston
07-22-16, 11:14
The girls need to demand and check references. I've seen several girls that take it on faith if I'm from this board and a senior. It's a good way to wind up in the pokey.Part of the issue is. So many of the gents that have contacted myself from this site act like they've never heard of a reference. I've received more fake references here in Cincinnati alone than in my entire 8 prior years in the hobby in other markets. I can understand why girls, who may need to make ends meet, aren't screening- it is a ***** to screen in this city, particularly if you are somewhat new to the area.
I had to eventually make the decision to go P411 only-- and just tour. It isn't worth the fight and hassle here.
KnottyWood
07-22-16, 12:17
I have not seen this kind of unprecedented LEO activity in any city. Why is this so prevalent in Cincy area? Is it because they have nothing to do. Some user discussions in other cities have no monger reviews for providers and no reports of LE.There is a slight increase in activity by LEO in Dayton but that may be because recently activated street cameras has freed up some time for them to look else where.
I'm not sure what you mean. I haven't noticed anything different than usual other than the recent shit here in the Octagon.
I think it's because they like pretending they are Tony Montana or something.
A2Thanks A2. General observation I made with the news reports and some mongers here posting of LEO. Thats it. I have lobbied elsewhere in larger cities and was just comparing.
Increased Activity == It is an election year.
I have not seen this kind of unprecedented LEO activity in any city. Why is this so prevalent in Cincy area? Is it because they have nothing to do. Some user discussions in other cities have no monger reviews for providers and no reports of LE.
I'm not sure what you mean. I haven't noticed anything different than usual other than the recent shit here in the Octagon.
I think it's because they like pretending they are Tony Montana or something.
A2You mean say hello to THIS bad guy? LOL!!
Part of the issue is. So many of the gents that have contacted myself from this site act like they've never heard of a reference. I've received more fake references here in Cincinnati alone than in my entire 8 prior years in the hobby in other markets. I can understand why girls, who may need to make ends meet, aren't screening- it is a ***** to screen in this city, particularly if you are somewhat new to the area.
I had to eventually make the decision to go P411 only-- and just tour. It isn't worth the fight and hassle here.Thanks for jumping into this. What is a "fake reference"?
This is good stuff. I really don't know what the other side of it all looks like (beyond chatting between pops and all). Do the girls really give fake references to each other? What's the motivation behind that?
Thanks A2. General observation I made with the news reports and some mongers here posting of LEO. Thats it. I have lobbied elsewhere in larger cities and was just comparing.So just so it's clear, you don't know anything that indicates higher levels of LEO activity in CVG beyond the bullshit that's been posted here?
Not being a dick (although I'm sure it seems that way) just making sure.
Ha. Fuck off with your stupid shit bottom feeder. I know who you've been going on about and while they may be nice girls, they've never been reference checkers and have had drug issues. Of course for you that might be "top shelf" providers.
Fucking sphincter.May want to go have a sexy love-fest somewhere. This seems personal! .
Hey all, I actually typed this up about 2 weeks ago after I saw a senior take a shit on a new person's post, mostly because it was new AND because it didn't go along with the world-view of the senior.
I get that we are all skeptical, and we are looking for reasons to disbelieve something that doesn't match whatever we have in our head. But I think it chases off new talent if you inflict those views on someone that is just trying to contribute.
Sure, there are legitimate reasons to be reserved. The thing is, and this is JUST my opinion, we can't automatically dismiss or trash people that are willing to take the time to type and share their experiences. In fact, I think we should embrace new people, not be assholes to them.
At any rate, I'm not Abraham Lincoln, so not gifted in the oratory arts. But as a new person, I have to say I don't think new people are really made to feel welcome here. If that's what you want, congratulations. If not, well, in a few years you'll find out that seniors really aren't worth as much as newbies.
Just sayin. I'm not a senior.
Increased Activity == It is an election year.I sense Python. I like Python.
Increased Activity == It is an election year.Election year definitely sounds like it. Generally a small town as well I think. Big cities LEO is generally stretched thin defending the streets.
So just so it's clear, you don't know anything that indicates higher levels of LEO activity in CVG beyond the bullshit that's been posted here?
Not being a dick (although I'm sure it seems that way) just making sure.Roger that.
First Half
07-23-16, 10:16
Increased Activity == It is an election year.I sense a fellow coder in the house.
First Half
07-23-16, 10:41
Thanks for jumping into this. What is a "fake reference"?
This is good stuff. I really don't know what the other side of it all looks like (beyond chatting between pops and all). Do the girls really give fake references to each other? What's the motivation behind that?It's when the client provides a bullshit reference using a girl he's never seen. He's hoping that by providing the reference it makes him look legit enough that the reference doesn't get checked.
Smilesallround
07-23-16, 12:09
Part of the issue is. So many of the gents that have contacted myself from this site act like they've never heard of a reference. I've received more fake references here in Cincinnati alone than in my entire 8 prior years in the hobby in other markets. I can understand why girls, who may need to make ends meet, aren't screening- it is a ***** to screen in this city, particularly if you are somewhat new to the area.
I had to eventually make the decision to go P411 only-- and just tour. It isn't worth the fight and hassle here.I appreciate hearing the provider perspective, because I feel like we're all in this together to keep mongers safe from stings and quality providers active. You'll notice that the long-term quality providers do mostly request references, so demanding them is almost like a stamp of quality in a way.
For a while I was sending reference info along with my initial contact, but it seemed like most of the providers didn't even care, so now I just offer to send references if requested and I'm surprised by how many don't request. These girls are taking a big risk IMO. I'm afraid it's on many of the providers and not just us mongers though, as I've been told by respected providers that some girls either don't reply to reference checks, will only reply to providers they get along with, or even worse will reply "he's ok" without even checking.
LEO increase marketing to the community that they care about neighborhoods -- plus arrests ==.
Free Press==almighty votes LOOK WHAT WE HAVE DONE its all political.
Election year definitely sounds like it. Generally a small town as well I think. Big cities LEO is generally stretched thin defending the streets.
NotYourAverage
07-23-16, 12:56
Hey all, I actually typed this up about 2 weeks ago after I saw a senior take a shit on a new person's post, mostly because it was new AND because it didn't go along with the world-view of the senior.
I get that we are all skeptical, and we are looking for reasons to disbelieve something that doesn't match whatever we have in our head. But I think it chases off new talent if you inflict those views on someone that is just trying to contribute.
Sure, there are legitimate reasons to be reserved. The thing is, and this is JUST my opinion, we can't automatically dismiss or trash people that are willing to take the time to type and share their experiences. In fact, I think we should embrace new people, not be assholes to them.
At any rate, I'm not Abraham Lincoln, so not gifted in the oratory arts. But as a new person, I have to say I don't think new people are really made to feel welcome here. If that's what you want, congratulations. If not, well, in a few years you'll find out that seniors really aren't worth as much as newbies.
Just sayin. I'm not a senior.While I am now a senior on this site, I can attest for the attitude that some seniors seen to have. Just look at some of my previous posts stating my views on the subject.
It is funny that, as a "regular", seniors expected me to share information and digits of ladies I reviewed, but only a select few ever offered anything in return, or answered a PM that I sent asking for information.
Aren't we all here to share experiences and stay safe indulging in the hobby?
If not, then why doesn't everyone just stay UTR and gamble on their own gut feelings?
It's when the client provides a bullshit reference using a girl he's never seen. He's hoping that by providing the reference it makes him look legit enough that the reference doesn't get checked.I once had a guy ask if he could use me as a reference for a provider I reviewed. I had never even heard of him. I didn't reply and warned the lady. Because guys know that some girls don't check, they figure they can throw out a name and hope for the best. Some of the girls are also to blame because they don't help each other out. I guess they think that by not cooperating they will keep the guy all to themselves, or they just want to hurt the other girl.
NotYourAverage
07-23-16, 13:16
I once had a guy ask if he could use me as a reference for a provider I reviewed. I had never even heard of him. I didn't reply and warned the lady. Because guys know that some girls don't check, they figure they can throw out a name and hope for the best. Some of the girls are also to blame because they don't help each other out. I guess they think that by not cooperating they will keep the guy all to themselves, or they just want to hurt the other girl.I have had more than one member on USA ask if they could use me as a reference to see a provider that I had experience with. One even wanted me to contact the provider to vouch for him. LMMFAO! Maybe I should have charged for the reference? Or maybe it was LE looking for an open door? Bottom line is. Do your own work before you rely on others to spoon feed you.
Some people don't get it, some are just too lazy (like the constant requests for information on well known and reviewed providers! And some apparently are just plain ignorant.
I once had a guy ask if he could use me as a reference for a provider I reviewed. I had never even heard of him. I didn't reply and warned the lady. Because guys know that some girls don't check, they figure they can throw out a name and hope for the best. Some of the girls are also to blame because they don't help each other out. I guess they think that by not cooperating they will keep the guy all to themselves, or they just want to hurt the other girl.If I ask a girl I've seen to provide a reference and she doesn't do it, I just won't see her again. Fuck that silly bullshit.
John HandCock
07-23-16, 13:29
I once had a guy ask if he could use me as a reference for a provider I reviewed. I had never even heard of him. I didn't reply and warned the lady. Because guys know that some girls don't check, they figure they can throw out a name and hope for the best. Some of the girls are also to blame because they don't help each other out. I guess they think that by not cooperating they will keep the guy all to themselves, or they just want to hurt the other girl.Vouching really doesn't work. For mongers reviews help greatly but you have to keep in mind that YMMV from day to day especially with the BP or CL girls. The higher end girls found on p411 or the other site are usually pretty reliable, ask for vouches and cost more. The reference for mongers usually don't work if the reference can't or won't respond or just being pissy. I had one p411 girl turn down the referral of another p411 girl because the girl was 19 and too young in her words.
Hey all, I actually typed this up about 2 weeks ago after I saw a senior take a shit on a new person's post, mostly because it was new AND because it didn't go along with the world-view of the senior.
I get that we are all skeptical, and we are looking for reasons to disbelieve something that doesn't match whatever we have in our head. But I think it chases off new talent if you inflict those views on someone that is just trying to contribute.
Sure, there are legitimate reasons to be reserved. The thing is, and this is JUST my opinion, we can't automatically dismiss or trash people that are willing to take the time to type and share their experiences. In fact, I think we should embrace new people, not be assholes to them.
At any rate, I'm not Abraham Lincoln, so not gifted in the oratory arts. But as a new person, I have to say I don't think new people are really made to feel welcome here. If that's what you want, congratulations. If not, well, in a few years you'll find out that seniors really aren't worth as much as newbies.
Just sayin. I'm not a senior.Alright. I am not a senior but I will tell you this, life is too short to be making our own mistakes. If a senior comes here throwing shit at me, I take it if there is a lesson in it. Wisdom is precious in any which form it comes grab it. Just like us they are humans too and are wanting to share their opinions, rants and life with us. But I understand where you coming from. To each his own.
OneBigRichard
07-23-16, 18:45
Part of the issue is. So many of the gents that have contacted myself from this site act like they've never heard of a reference. I've received more fake references here in Cincinnati alone than in my entire 8 prior years in the hobby in other markets. I can understand why girls, who may need to make ends meet, aren't screening- it is a ***** to screen in this city, particularly if you are somewhat new to the area.
I had to eventually make the decision to go P411 only-- and just tour. It isn't worth the fight and hassle here.Grace if you would reply to people texts or calls you wouldn't have to travel to find work, what's the sence of posting an add every day. Even for people you have seen before. Enjoy the road.
Grace if you would reply to people texts or calls you wouldn't have to travel to find work, what's the sence of posting an add every day. Even for people you have seen before. Enjoy the road.Agreed. I wouldn't' contact her because I think she's a fatty. But I agree there's plenty of business if she works some regulars.
Alright. I am not a senior but I will tell you this, life is too short to be making our own mistakes. If a senior comes here throwing shit at me, I take it if there is a lesson in it. Wisdom is precious in any which form it comes grab it. Just like us they are humans too and are wanting to share their opinions, rants and life with us. But I understand where you coming from. To each his own.What's your point? I was saying that treating new people poorly is a bad idea. What's your addition to that?
If I ask a girl I've seen to provide a reference and she doesn't do it, I just won't see her again. Fuck that silly bullshit.These ladies aren't doing themselves or anyone else a favor if they don't give out a reference. It's been a few years since I need one, but the lst time I tried to set up references I gave a potential date 4 references and NONE of them responded. I never contacted them again, but I know that one provider kept positng ads saying she needed more clients. She didn't get any more $ from me.
TheGardener1
07-24-16, 09:01
Agreed. I wouldn't' contact her because I think she's a fatty. But I agree there's plenty of business if she works some regulars.Fatty? LOL. Sounds like your looking for anorexic women. She's not anything remotely close to a fatty.
Fatty? LOL. Sounds like your looking for anorexic women. She's not anything remotely close to a fatty.Is a BBW. So unless she's gone on the keto diet in the last few months, she is remotely close to a fatty.
While I am now a senior on this site, I can attest for the attitude that some seniors seen to have. Just look at some of my previous posts stating my views on the subject.
It is funny that, as a "regular", seniors expected me to share information and digits of ladies I reviewed, but only a select few ever offered anything in return, or answered a PM that I sent asking for information.
Aren't we all here to share experiences and stay safe indulging in the hobby?
If not, then why doesn't everyone just stay UTR and gamble on their own gut feelings?There are only two cases where I won't share info with a regular member. If the only posts he has are asking about this girl or that girl. Or if I only have permission to give info out to a few people and then I'll usually just pm certain seniors that have shared info with me. That's how it should be in my opinion. You can't just take, you have to give a little.
What's your point? I was saying that treating new people poorly is a bad idea. What's your addition to that?If you are against treating people poorly why didn't you just say that Grace was not your type instead of what you did say / type? The reason that most seniors "treat" newbies here is the same as in any male dominated field, you the newby need to prove yourself trustworthy and accurate. Some seniors just give a hand up like a grandfather would, but most here want to be safe. When a newby proves himself trustworthy and accurate, not just by the visible posts you read but by intel that is usable by others, you will gain support. The newbies that do nothing but post "hey what about this one?" with no evidence of doing any research are very annoying. The excuse of "I don't know how to do this or that" is not acceptable, because if anyone would spend the "time" reading what you are supposed to when you sign up and then the forum threads here (back several months) you will gain most of knowledge that most newbies ask about all of the time.
MuffDiverDan
07-24-16, 12:14
Agreed. I wouldn't' contact her because I think she's a fatty. But I agree there's plenty of business if she works some regulars.I've not seen Grace in a year or so, but in her behave, she's not anywhere near being fat, that would be like calling you a genius, we know that's not true, and she tries to get back to you, If you have no patients, or start thinking she's ignoring you, then you're out of luck. Grace is one of a kind, should be treated well, some of these girls actually have a life outside of the hobby.
Peace.
NotYourAverage
07-24-16, 12:15
There are only two cases where I won't share info with a regular member. If the only posts he has are asking about this girl or that girl. Or if I only have permission to give info out to a few people and then I'll usually just pm certain seniors that have shared info with me. That's how it should be in my opinion. You can't just take, you have to give a little.I agree with your reasoning. It doesn't matter to me if you are a senior or regular, I look at the posts and determine whether they are a deserving contributor, or a chronic beggar seeking a free meal (or booze and cigarette money! I also keep in mind who has been generous enough to share with me. Hell, there are regulars with triple digit posts that haven't reviewed more than 2 or 3 providers, and seniors with no reviews within the last year, so quality far outweighs quantity in my opinion.
This is a before and after shot of Lindsay. As you can see, the carpets matched the drapes. Or the collars matched the cuffs, if you are a James Bond fan. I prefer that the floors be slick. We met last Wednesday for a photoshoot shaving session. As you can see, I did a pretty good job with the razor.
I've not seen Grace in a year or so, but in her behave, she's not anywhere near being fat, that would be like calling you a genius, we know that's not true, and she tries to get back to you, If you have no patients, or start thinking she's ignoring you, then you're out of luck. Grace is one of a kind, should be treated well, some of these girls actually have a life outside of the hobby.
Peace.You didn't read down far enough. But whatever. Careful not to drop that shiny shield you got there.
TheGardener1
07-24-16, 18:35
Is a BBW. So unless she's gone on the keto diet in the last few months, she is remotely close to a fatty.
Grace Preston? I stand corrected. I thought you might have meant Grace May
I appreciate hearing the provider perspective, because I feel like we're all in this together to keep mongers safe from stings and quality providers active. You'll notice that the long-term quality providers do mostly request references, so demanding them is almost like a stamp of quality in a way.
For a while I was sending reference info along with my initial contact, but it seemed like most of the providers didn't even care, so now I just offer to send references if requested and I'm surprised by how many don't request. These girls are taking a big risk IMO. I'm afraid it's on many of the providers and not just us mongers though, as I've been told by respected providers that some girls either don't reply to reference checks, will only reply to providers they get along with, or even worse will reply "he's ok" without even checking.I completely agree with Grace Preston. I ask for references and about 50% of clients say they don't know what that means. After explaining, they understand and provide (although as she stated, there are alot of gentlemen that provide fake references) . My point is, if they don't provide 1 of the 3 people that get back with me quickly and understand this isn't about competition, etc. And we all share the wealth, then it's pointless. 90% of the women that post on USA will NOT return texts or calls regarding reference checks. That's just stupid because they contact me and I ALWAYS answer, but I don't get the same respect back. Only from a VERY select few. Bottom line, I totally agree, it's very hard to verify references.
So now your true colors are revealed. Is this Fatboy under another handle or did she not give you what you wanted for $20? I saw her last week and not even close to anything you mention. So come clean. Why you MAD bro? Hahaha.There has to be two Graces, Grace May is NOWHERE near even chubby, LOL. I don't know Grace Preston, I'm thinking this is a different Grace, but either way, I'm sure she's not obese either. LOL.
CloudHopper
07-24-16, 20:13
Just wondering. On average, how many guys a girl sees in about a day or week or so. Just courious. Ladies?
I completely agree with Grace Preston. I ask for references and about 50% of clients say they don't know what that means. After explaining, they understand and provide (although as she stated, there are alot of gentlemen that provide fake references) . My point is, if they don't provide 1 of the 3 people that get back with me quickly and understand this isn't about competition, etc. And we all share the wealth, then it's pointless. 90% of the women that post on USA will NOT return texts or calls regarding reference checks. That's just stupid because they contact me and I ALWAYS answer, but I don't get the same respect back. Only from a VERY select few. Bottom line, I totally agree, it's very hard to verify references.BTW the above commenter is Ashleigh DD, one of the class acts here on USA. As the computer programmers used to say, GIGO- Garbage In, Garbage Out. Mongers who don't understand safety or manners, then wonder why so many good providers leave. THINK!
The good dr.
MuffDiverDan
07-24-16, 20:43
You didn't read down far enough. But whatever. Careful not to drop that shiny shield you got there.My bad, no shiny shields here, but never knew but one Grace on here., Never had the displeasure of meeting Fat Grace Never heard of her and don't sound like I want to
I agree with your reasoning. It doesn't matter to me if you are a senior or regular, I look at the posts and determine whether they are a deserving contributor, or a chronic beggar seeking a free meal (or booze and cigarette money! I also keep in mind who has been generous enough to share with me. Hell, there are regulars with triple digit posts that haven't reviewed more than 2 or 3 providers, and seniors with no reviews within the last year, so quality far outweighs quantity in my opinion.Terrifically said. Whenever seniors post here saying PM me for details and if a newbie sends them requesting contact number, they never respond. And these are the same seniors that are asking other seniors who are here who have never reviewed a provider or maybe 1 in 6 months. Some newbies have Tofft-ed many times over. It seems the seniority system is broken. Other thoughts?
MuffDiverDan
07-24-16, 22:42
You didn't read down far enough. But whatever. Careful not to drop that shiny shield you got there.I see you been around for two months, I was unaware you read every post to the letter, and know all the heavy hitters, like Fat grace, please forgive me, I'll remember the white night comment also after reading about 60 dead uninformative posts of yours, before I stopped reading. Seems mostly like you just flap your gums
How about a weekend masquerade drink party: mongers and providers. No real names just handles.
How about a weekend masquerade drink party: mongers and providers. No real names just handles.You are fucking crazy. And you posted less than a week ago about a LEO being in our company? Sure let's get everyone together. Did you really think about that before posting it or what? I may still be new to this, but not stupid. Sorry to be blunt.
How about a weekend masquerade drink party: mongers and providers. No real names just handles.It can be done with proper precautions taken. Set it up!
Black Knight69
07-25-16, 01:00
How about a weekend masquerade drink party: mongers and providers. No real names just handles.Sounds like The perfect opportunity for a round up.
You are fucking crazy. And you posted less than a week ago about a LEO being in our company? Sure let's get everyone together. Did you really think about that before posting it or what? I may still be new to this, but not stupid. Sorry to be blunt.Relax its just a thought. I 've attended a few before they are fun. These are just like normal parties.
Bobaloo859
07-25-16, 01:16
How about a weekend masquerade drink party: mongers and providers. No real names just handles.They do this in Flordia several times a year. But I don'; t think it will work here!!
Simp4ebony
07-25-16, 07:39
Just wondering. On average, how many guys a girl sees in about a day or week or so. Just courious. Ladies?One provider once told me, on a good Friday or Saturday night, she could see around 8 guys.
First Half
07-25-16, 08:38
One provider once told me, on a good Friday or Saturday night, she could see around 8 guys.I'm assuming this is mostly QV or half-hours? That's a lot of guys.
I'm assuming this is mostly QV or half-hours? That's a lot of guys.That is a lot of guys, that is why I don't hesitate to walk out when I see a provider with tell tale signs of any rashes and such even remotely. She does not need to get it from anyone, it just develops on its own after going through so many. A very hot provider sometimes sees 15-20 in a day including qv, half and one hr.
BuyingSmiles
07-25-16, 17:58
Couple years ago, Buda's girls had a party. I don't remember how many guys showed up. If my memory serves me right, it was Rebecca, Sasha & cupcake, maybe Jordan. Along with maybe five or mongers. The reviews can be found here. Sounded like the gents had a good time.
That is a lot of guys, that is why I don't hesitate to walk out when I see a provider with tell tale signs of any rashes and such even remotely. She does not need to get it from anyone, it just develops on its own after going through so many. A very hot provider sometimes sees 15-20 in a day including qv, half and one hr.Where do you get your facts? If there are any providers who can see 15-20 clients in a day, that would be less than 1% of providers. The schedule would have to be made well in advance. It would be a revolving door situation meaning clients running into clients at the door! And the provider would have to have great stamina to endure all that exercise! Not likely!! 8-10 maybe, but that would be pushing it.
2nd issue is your party. Not a good idea in these parts, especially since uncle is always watching and the legal ramifications that could be exaggerated out it would not be worth it. Doesn't matter if the charges stick, the fact they would make front page news would ruin most. Good luck if you do attempt it! Count me out!!
Where do you get your facts? If there are any providers who can see 15-20 clients in a day, that would be less than 1% of providers. The schedule would have to be made well in advance. It would be a revolving door situation meaning clients running into clients at the door! And the provider would have to have great stamina to endure all that exercise! Not likely!! 8-10 maybe, but that would be pushing it.
2nd issue is your party. Not a good idea in these parts, especially since uncle is always watching and the legal ramifications that could be exaggerated out it would not be worth it. Doesn't matter if the charges stick, the fact they would make front page news would ruin most. Good luck if you do attempt it! Count me out!!I do know a provider that saw 15 guys in one day, once. And she regretted it because she couldn't work for several days after that, she was so sore. It's possible if you have an iron vagina hahaha! I would say the average is around 5.
Where do you get your facts? If there are any providers who can see 15-20 clients in a day, that would be less than 1% of providers. The schedule would have to be made well in advance. It would be a revolving door situation meaning clients running into clients at the door! And the provider would have to have great stamina to endure all that exercise! Not likely!! 8-10 maybe, but that would be pushing it.
2nd issue is your party. Not a good idea in these parts, especially since uncle is always watching and the legal ramifications that could be exaggerated out it would not be worth it. Doesn't matter if the charges stick, the fact they would make front page news would ruin most. Good luck if you do attempt it! Count me out!!This guy is so wrong and clueless on so many levels. I am so irritated by him. I seriously doubt that any provider in this site ever had seen 15/20 clients in one day. That's a stupid remark that is definetely not backed up by truth. There are not enough hours in the day if you count setting up driving, etc. And that's not even the main issue. It's just not realistic. At all. I was reading some of his like 98/99 posts. Some are just obviously for the sake of posting to obtain senior status. Asking what happens when a girl gets busted, what happens to the guy, etc. Very opinionated as well. I don't trust him for obvious reasons. I find him to act like a know it all. I also find him very annoying.
Bobby Linn
07-25-16, 20:18
I do know a provider that saw 15 guys in one day, once. And she regretted it because she couldn't work for several days after that, she was so sore. It's possible if you have an iron vagina hahaha! I would say the average is around 5.A well known ebony provider who used to post on this site told me that she 'played' with 15 guys one night at a local swing club. Knowing her as I did, there was no reason to doubt her. She told me that she partied all night long, and was worn out (I would think that would be an understatement) by the end of the evening, I mean morning. BTW she went there with her husband (driver), yeah her hubby used to drive her to her appointments. Now that would have been something to see!
BuyingSmiles
07-25-16, 22:34
This guy is so wrong and clueless on so many levels. I am so irritated by him. I seriously doubt that any provider in this site ever had seen 15/20 clients in one day. That's a stupid remark that is definetely not backed up by truth. There are not enough hours in the day if you count setting up driving, etc. And that's not even the main issue. It's just not realistic. At all. I was reading some of his like 98/99 posts. Some are just obviously for the sake of posting to obtain senior status. Asking what happens when a girl gets busted, what happens to the guy, etc. Very opinionated as well. I don't trust him for obvious reasons. I find him to act like a know it all. I also find him very annoying.Seems like someone is trying to fit in alfully hard. I think he is our Uncle. But that's just IMHO.
A well known ebony provider who used to post on this site told me that she 'played' with 15 guys one night at a local swing club. Knowing her as I did, there was no reason to doubt her. She told me that she partied all night long, and was worn out (I would think that would be an understatement) by the end of the evening, I mean morning. BTW she went there with her husband (driver), yeah her hubby used to drive her to her appointments. Now that would have been something to see!As I understand it there was a time when she partied at the swing clubs rather a lot and often.
She has a very colorful past. She told me she would routinely do 5 to 6 guys a day when she started out. She did appear to get somewhat burned out and became very sporadic in her last few years, preferring to work BP only long enough to get a steady set of regulars before going UTR for months at a time.
It can be done with proper precautions taken. Set it up!I don't mind setting it up, however one monger already has sh*t his pants saying I am out of my mind and another one did say it won't work here. I think it works in more cosmopolitan areas. Its officially still midwest here so people are conservative ya know.
Seems like someone is trying to fit in alfully hard. I think he is our Uncle. But that's just IMHO.LMFAO. Its a free country. You are entitled to your opinion and I am to mine. Stay safe and hobby clean fellas. Military training has taught me to ignore useless.
MontyCliff
07-26-16, 00:19
As I understand it there was a time when she partied at the swing clubs rather a lot and often.
She has a very colorful past. She told me she would routinely do 5 to 6 guys a day when she started out. She did appear to get somewhat burned out and became very sporadic in her last few years, preferring to work BP only long enough to get a steady set of regulars before going UTR for months at a time.She was a lot of fun that's for sure! I saw an ad within the last year, texted without any luck. I did grab a pic from her post.
She was a lot of fun that's for sure! I saw an ad within the last year, texted without any luck. I did grab a pic from her post.She sounds like a cool cat. Unlike other providers here with attitudes.
DickHerDown
07-26-16, 07:46
I don't mind setting it up, however one monger already has sh*t his pants saying I am out of my mind and another one did say it won't work here. I think it works in more cosmopolitan areas. Its officially still midwest here so people are conservative ya know.I know it can work because they have been done in the past, though I've never attended. It's very difficult for me to have a free night to myself. You should set it up though. Invite Amon and he can BB all the girls LOL.
Simp4ebony
07-26-16, 08:04
She was a lot of fun that's for sure! I saw an ad within the last year, texted without any luck. I did grab a pic from her post.Damn, I really want to meet Alaya right now! LOL.
FatDaddy3750
07-26-16, 12:11
I know it can work because they have been done in the past, though I've never attended. It's very difficult for me to have a free night to myself. You should set it up though. Invite Amon and he can BB all the girls LOL.Consider this my rsvp to your party invitation.
I recall numerous stings where police sent post cards to various parolees, felons, escapees, etc. The post cards indicated that 'You have won $500. Please come to xxxxx between 9-5 to collect your prize. ' The 'prize winners' were disappointed and there were many winners. This 'party' appears to be the internet version of that sting.
I will not be attending, but I can't wait for the reviews of the 'party'.
While I would decline the invitation myself there is a hole in your logic. There is nothing illegal about belonging to or posting on this forum.
A2
DickHerDown
07-26-16, 17:15
Consider this my rsvp to your party invitation.
I recall numerous stings where police sent post cards to various parolees, felons, escapees, etc. The post cards indicated that 'You have won $500. Please come to xxxxx between 9-5 to collect your prize. ' The 'prize winners' were disappointed and there were many winners. This 'party' appears to be the internet version of that sting.
I will not be attending, but I can't wait for the reviews of the 'party'.
While I would decline the invitation myself there is a hole in your logic. There is nothing illegal about belonging to or posting on this forum.
A2I'm not an expert on law, but how could there be a sting when you're not doing anything illegal. I don't think you can get arrested by showing up at a party. Idk, I may be wrong. Just curious as to why everyone is Leary about it.
I'm not an expert on law, but how could there be a sting when you're not doing anything illegal. I don't think you can get arrested by showing up at a party. Idk, I may be wrong. Just curious as to why everyone is Leary about it.I think that, if it were a sting, the bust wouldn't come down until things got interesting. Social orgies are not illegal, but, if LEO can show that money changed hands, then that is another story.
A social gathering would not be a problem. After all everything here is fantasy, dreams or something a friend has told us.
However there could be no business arrangements made at the party. If there was it could get ugly. How would I prove I was a member or who I was.
It would be fun though. The party Buddah had was with members he already had a relationship with.
Good luck with it.
Fdx.
John HandCock
07-26-16, 18:38
I just don't see how this works. Just a regular social party would be no big deal but just don't see your A list providers showing up.
I mean what is there to gain from it?
On the subject of swing clubs on the right night things can get pretty active. I had one woman tell me for her 40th BD she had 8 guys and 2 girls. This is usually a life style and the hubbies are there. Most usually don't play separately. Oh and the midwest has one of the largest swing population around LOL.
Orgie parties are becoming advertised more frequently. Now you might get your drugged out swers to participate in those if that's your thing.
TheDaytimer
07-27-16, 14:59
Couple years ago, Buda's girls had a party. I don't remember how many guys showed up. If my memory serves me right, it was Rebecca, Sasha & cupcake, maybe Jordan. Along with maybe five or mongers. The reviews can be found here. Sounded like the gents had a good time.It didn't work out as smoothly as planned. Not all of the ladies who were at the party were of the same mindset. Some of them were playful and other (s) not as playful.
Couple years ago, Buda's girls had a party. I don't remember how many guys showed up. If my memory serves me right, it was Rebecca, Sasha & cupcake, maybe Jordan. Along with maybe five or mongers. The reviews can be found here. Sounded like the gents had a good time.The only reason it was a viable proposition was that all invired attendees have been vetted by Buddha himself; only his trusted past clients got invites to the party. Even if you had previoudly seen one of the ladies he did scheduling for, if the girls say you were a douche, you did not get an invite.
Closed parties of vetted attendees are something completely different than open invite soirées.
UOnlyLiveOnce
07-27-16, 15:33
I just don't see how this works. Just a regular social party would be no big deal but just don't see your A list providers showing up.
I mean what is there to gain from it?
On the subject of swing clubs on the right night things can get pretty active. I had one woman tell me for her 40th BD she had 8 guys and 2 girls. This is usually a life style and the hubbies are there. Most usually don't play separately. Oh and the midwest has one of the largest swing population around LOL.
Orgie parties are becoming advertised more frequently. Now you might get your drugged out swers to participate in those if that's your thing.At least for me, the whole idea is to get my needs met without getting caught. The fewer people that know about this particular addiction of mine, the better. I'm lucky I've gone this long in the game without ever getting caught, though I did have a close call once (a provider saw me someplace where, if she'd wanted to, could have figured out my identity and caused me trouble).
Addiction69
07-27-16, 16:34
At least for me, the whole idea is to get my needs met without getting caught. The fewer people that know about this particular addiction of mine, the better. I'm lucky I've gone this long in the game without ever getting caught, though I did have a close call once (a provider saw me someplace where, if she'd wanted to, could have figured out my identity and caused me trouble).I like the idea of having a group of people you could meet up with and have some drinks watch a football game and potentially have some hot women there to have some fun with. May be an afternoon of no charges for the girls that would then potentially lead to future steady income from regulars. A buffet of sorts to see and experience the girls personalities (for those interested in that) or potentially a service that you realize you can no longer live without in the future.
I also like the idea of potentially meeting some other seniors to swap stories and glories from past and present.
What stops me is like another monger on here mentioned is the fact that I have been at this for a number of years, never been caught because of keeping things UTR. That alone is what would keep me from most likely not attending an event like this.
What if I show up and one of you are family (Father, Son, Uncle, Nephew) or someone that I know or a family friend that can't keep their mouth shut?
As much as I would like to get to know some of you on a friendlier basis, I don't anticipate putting myself at that risk at this current time.
John HandCock
07-27-16, 17:42
I like the idea of having a group of people you could meet up with and have some drinks watch a football game and potentially have some hot women there to have some fun with. May be an afternoon of no charges for the girls that would then potentially lead to future steady income from regulars. A buffet of sorts to see and experience the girls personalities (for those interested in that) or potentially a service that you realize you can no longer live without in the future.
I also like the idea of potentially meeting some other seniors to swap stories and glories from past and present.
What stops me is like another monger on here mentioned is the fact that I have been at this for a number of years, never been caught because of keeping things UTR. That alone is what would keep me from most likely not attending an event like this.
What if I show up and one of you are family (Father, Son, Uncle, Nephew) or someone that I know or a family friend that can't keep their mouth shut?
As much as I would like to get to know some of you on a friendlier basis, I don't anticipate putting myself at that risk at this current time.The friendly get together with hot providers not charging is a good dteam but never ever happen. Figure that's what most for the idea is hoping for. The best you would get is the drugged out swers for reduced price. You would still get a big turn out for that.
Smilesallround
07-28-16, 00:39
Anytime this happens, every member on here should agree never to see said provider. That's the only way the low life providers will stop pulling this kind of BS.I respect the sentiment here, but I reserve the right to review the posted information and decide for myself. It's just too easy for an incomplete story, a misunderstanding, a he said / she said situation, or even a malicious falsehood from a BF or unsatisfied customer to get blown out of proportion. Its in the interest of all us guys to keep quality providers working, not drive them out of business.
A few weeks ago it was Cristin Cremes who had a misunderstanding about how her time was to be used and lost a lot of customers before it got straightened out. If you feel you have been ripped off PLEASE report it promptly, but with enough information that everyone can make a judgment for themselves. For example, today I reviewed the report to see if it seemed fishy, checked the posts of the two reporters, looked back at the review history on the provider in question and made a decision about whether or how to proceed. In this case I went ahead with caution, had a good meeting, and from talking with Luscious Lips it sounds more like a miscommunication issue than a true ripoff.
Keep sharing info, that's what makes it all work, not telling everyone else what to do.
TheGenteelMan
07-28-16, 09:31
This is more of a rant than advice, but thankful nonetheless for the platform.
Note to the Ladies:
If you want to keep the clients that are zero drama, are decent looking fit gentry, and don't try to negotiate your rate, then may I suggest the following.
Do NOT take drugs just prior to my visit and then pass out upon my arrival.
This is very bad form, especially when you contact me first to visit you; and I've rearranged my schedule to make it happen (usually equating to making my following day being more f'd than normal).
Ah, now that is off my chest I can have closure =)
TGM
p.s. Respectfully, I will not be naming names. However, if this behavior continues, I am certain I will not be the only one discussing it on these boards herein.
I respect the sentiment here, but I reserve the right to review the posted information and decide for myself. It's just too easy for an incomplete story, a misunderstanding, a he said / she said situation, or even a malicious falsehood from a BF or unsatisfied customer to get blown out of proportion. Its in the interest of all us guys to keep quality providers working, not drive them out of business.
A few weeks ago it was Cristin Cremes who had a misunderstanding about how her time was to be used and lost a lot of customers before it got straightened out. If you feel you have been ripped off PLEASE report it promptly, but with enough information that everyone can make a judgment for themselves. For example, today I reviewed the report to see if it seemed fishy, checked the posts of the two reporters, looked back at the review history on the provider in question and made a decision about whether or how to proceed. In this case I went ahead with caution, had a good meeting, and from talking with Luscious Lips it sounds more like a miscommunication issue than a true ripoff.
Keep sharing info, that's what makes it all work, not telling everyone else what to do.There was no miscommunication at all. The meeting was set up more the 24 hrs in advance. Verified the night before. And a check-in was done an hour prior. All of this and discovering someone else hiding in the room, being led out of the room under the pretense of going to another room, only to have her close the door behind me. And then refusing to answer any attempt to call or text. Nope, no miscommunication at all. I understood her message very clearly. Thanks for the money and fuck off.
But everyone can make their onw choices. She had been good to me in the past, figured this would have been no different. Wasted several hours that morning on one of my few trips I get back to The Cincy area.
Sorry to rant on, but I don't want her to try to spin this off as anything but what it was. A ripoff, flat and simple.
John HandCock
07-28-16, 10:49
K I just don't get this so maybe someone can explain. Have seen and read reviews and rants on this but never understood it.
I can see where a monger can be upset and pissed about being ripped off by providers who book them for first time and have know idea that they are drug users.
What I don't understand is the mongers that seem to insert themselves into these drug using womens lives, knowing that they are users and get pissed because they get ripped off or appointments go wrong. Is it because they thought that they were so close they wouldn't do it to them or are they truly expecting stellar sessions from a druggie. This is something I've never understood so anyone, monger or provider that wants to explain feel free to chime in.
TheGenteelMan
07-28-16, 14:34
K I just don't get this so maybe someone can explain. Have seen and read reviews and rants on this but never understood it.
I can see where a monger can be upset and pissed about being ripped off by providers who book them for first time and have know idea that they are drug users.
What I don't understand is the mongers that seem to insert themselves into these drug using womens lives, knowing that they are users and get pissed because they get ripped off or appointments go wrong. Is it because they thought that they were so close they wouldn't do it to them or are they truly expecting stellar sessions from a druggie. This is something I've never understood so anyone, monger or provider that wants to explain feel free to chime in.Understandable judgement on your part. If something doesn't make sense, in my experience it usually means I am missing some information.
For the record, of the prior times we met, I had never experienced any type of drugs or drug induced state. Just took me by surprise. On the other hand, if I'm going back to see a girl that is emaciated with a dozen or so bruises all over (shame of me), I definitely would not have been surprised. Make no mistake, I own up to my decisions. And that particular day, I decided to get out of bed ;)
TGM
K I just don't get this so maybe someone can explain. Have seen and read reviews and rants on this but never understood it.
I can see where a monger can be upset and pissed about being ripped off by providers who book them for first time and have know idea that they are drug users.
What I don't understand is the mongers that seem to insert themselves into these drug using womens lives, knowing that they are users and get pissed because they get ripped off or appointments go wrong. Is it because they thought that they were so close they wouldn't do it to them or are they truly expecting stellar sessions from a druggie. This is something I've never understood so anyone, monger or provider that wants to explain feel free to chime in.Can't speak for others, as eveyone is different. But I guess I got too relaxed with that fact that previous meetings had been good. Let my guard down I suppose. This was the first time I have ever had anything of this level done to me and I got really pissed about it. Now that being said, I should have known better and I realize that now. I'll just chaulk it up as a learning experience and move on.
Prefer girls to take drugs before seeing me since they more likely to do the nasty things I like since they are high. Easier to manipulate them too hehehe.
This is more of a rant than advice, but thankful nonetheless for the platform.
Note to the Ladies:
If you want to keep the clients that are zero drama, are decent looking fit gentry, and don't try to negotiate your rate, then may I suggest the following.
Do NOT take drugs just prior to my visit and then pass out upon my arrival.
This is very bad form, especially when you contact me first to visit you; and I've rearranged my schedule to make it happen (usually equating to making my following day being more f'd than normal).
Ah, now that is off my chest I can have closure =)
TGM
p.s. Respectfully, I will not be naming names. However, if this behavior continues, I am certain I will not be the only one discussing it on these boards herein.
What if I show up and one of you are family (Father, Son, Uncle, Nephew) or someone that I know or a family friend that can't keep their mouth shut?
As much as I would like to get to know some of you on a friendlier basis, I don't anticipate putting myself at that risk at this current time.Yeah, I imagine sitting down to dinner with your son in-law would never be the same if you were to meet him there.
There are a few here who have helped me in the past and I have considered trying to pm a meeting. Then I start thinking being anonymous definitely has some advantages.
This is a good reason not to see anyone without pics. Occasionally someone comes here and states "I know her, or I work with her". Walking into a scenario like that might make you an easy blackmail target.
Yeah, I imagine sitting down to dinner with your son in-law would never be the same if you were to meet him there.
There are a few here who have helped me in the past and I have considered trying to pm a meeting. Then I start thinking being anonymous definitely has some advantages.
This is a good reason not to see anyone without pics. Occasionally someone comes here and states "I know her, or I work with her". Walking into a scenario like that might make you an easy blackmail target.There is a provider who advertises that works for the same company as I do, on the same floor. Not going to say who it is, but needless to say, she is one provider I will not be seeing. She has no idea I know her alter ego, and certainly her knowing some of my nocturnal activities will do me no good. Silence is a powerful ally.
Can't speak for others, as eveyone is different. But I guess I got too relaxed with that fact that previous meetings had been good. Let my guard down I suppose. This was the first time I have ever had anything of this level done to me and I got really pissed about it. Now that being said, I should have known better and I realize that now. I'll just chaulk it up as a learning experience and move on.I got myself into that situation in the same way IndyNutt descibes, but I would add that a lot of these people are able to maintain that sort of lifestyle because they are good at lying and are very manipulative.
BuyingSmiles
07-29-16, 08:06
There is a provider who advertises that works for the same company as I do, on the same floor. Not going to say who it is, but needless to say, she is one provider I will not be seeing. She has no idea I know her alter ego, and certainly her knowing some of my nocturnal activities will do me no good. Silence is a powerful ally.She will be walking around at work looking at every guy, wondering, Is he D Nut?
Addiction69
07-29-16, 15:59
I found this article the other day and wanted to share with you all and curious if any of you have ever tried rubbing alcohol on your member after messing around with a woman you suspect may have some kind of disease or saw evidence while doing the deed? I found this article from 2012 and thought I'd share. I gave it a try last night just to see how it felt and it didn't burn my dick but definitely felt warm on my nuts as it soaked in. On a side note, I got a massage and happy ending I posted about on Backpage forum (Doterra) a number of weeks back, and that provider actually had a spray bottle with water mixed with rubbing alcohol. She used it to spray down my naked body in her bathroom after the massage to help break down the oil she used so I wasn't a grease ball (or grease balls!) when I left. I may make a little travel bag to take in with me to providers moving forward and begin to wash my member before leaving their place in the future. Stay safe!!
BTW, if any of you have any further knowledge on the subject, please share your experience.
http://www.winonadailynews.com/news/local/features/dr-frank-bures-simple-rubbing-alcohol-reason-to-be-thankful/article_7bc21024-3029-11e2-b509-001a4bcf887a.html
TheGenteelMan
07-29-16, 16:04
Prefer girls to take drugs before seeing me since they more likely to do the nasty things I like since they are high. Easier to manipulate them too hehehe.The thought crossed my mind. Instead, I left a small donation (after all, I am TheGenteelMan) and left, locking the door behind me. If I find myself in that situation again, I'll hit you up ;)
TGM
NonEssential
07-29-16, 16:24
I found this article the other day and wanted to share with you all and curious if any of you have ever tried rubbing alcohol on your member after messing around with a woman you suspect may have some kind of disease or saw evidence while doing the deed? I found this article from 2012 and thought I'd share. I gave it a try last night just to see how it felt and it didn't burn my dick but definitely felt warm on my nuts as it soaked in. On a side note, I got a massage and happy ending I posted about on Backpage forum (Doterra) a number of weeks back, and that provider actually had a spray bottle with water mixed with rubbing alcohol. She used it to spray down my naked body in her bathroom after the massage to help break down the oil she used so I wasn't a grease ball (or grease balls!) when I left. I may make a little travel bag to take in with me to providers moving forward and begin to wash my member before leaving their place in the future. Stay safe!!
BTW, if any of you have any further knowledge on the subject, please share your experience.
http://www.winonadailynews.com/news/local/features/dr-frank-bures-simple-rubbing-alcohol-reason-to-be-thankful/article_7bc21024-3029-11e2-b509-001a4bcf887a.htmlYou get STDs if there is break in the skin. If your member has a skin break or suffers a break because of the friction of the act, then transmission has probably occurred by the time you pull out. The rougher the sex the more likely for skin break, usually an abrasion. Rubbing alcohol is good for cleaning the skin, especially removing oils, but it doesn't kill anything. Chlorhexidine is bactericidal on contact, but it won't help if transmission has already occurred. If there was no transmission during the act then soap and water cleanup is as good as anything. There's no substitute for using a condom if you want to protect against STDs during intercourse.
UOnlyLiveOnce
07-29-16, 16:33
You get STDs if there is break in the skin. If your member has a skin break or suffers a break because of the friction of the act, then transmission has probably occurred by the time you pull out. The rougher the sex the more likely for skin break, usually an abrasion. Rubbing alcohol is good for cleaning the skin, especially removing oils, but it doesn't kill anything. Chlorhexidine is bactericidal on contact, but it won't help if transmission has already occurred. If there was no transmission during the act then soap and water cleanup is as good as anything. There's no substitute for using a condom if you want to protect against STDs during intercourse.The best measure is condoms for every act, FS or BJ, 100% of the time. I'd like to bury my face in a nice shaved mound attached to a hot 20-something year old, but I just don't go there. I'm lucky to have made it this far without catching anything.
Prefer girls to take drugs before seeing me since they more likely to do the nasty things I like since they are high. Easier to manipulate them too hehehe.You do realize that what you describe is a situation where the provider cannot give consent, right? I am not going to use the "R word", but the one consideration I have when justifying to myself the ethics of paying for sex is that everyone involved has consented to all that transpires and was in a state of mind to be able to give that consent.
Seems like someone is trying to fit in alfully hard. I think he is our Uncle. But that's just IMHO.I think he's uncle. I've been gone for a while (getting ready for blackhat) but I absolutely think this dude is uncle and have been PMing a couple of seniors. Just read his shit.
I've been out of the stream for a few days, but I honestly believe FKNow is uncle. Just saying. You guys make you're own decision.
Talltreeman
07-29-16, 18:48
The best measure is condoms for every act, FS or BJ, 100% of the time. I'd like to bury my face in a nice shaved mound attached to a hot 20-something year old, but I just don't go there. I'm lucky to have made it this far without catching anything.Great topic. My 2 cents.
The Asians love alcohol and I believe it is for oil removal and cheap sanitation, it kills Viruses.
Hibiclens 4% is sold next to the Alcohol at the drugstore and is cheap, just consider it super soap and will destroy bacteria and provides defense for up to 24 hrs.
It is often recommended prior to elected surgery to help prevent Staph infections.
I have two friends -- not me. Who recently had problems:
(A) BBBJ presented and was confirmed as Chlamydia. Clap is a bacterial infection of the sexual juices, no alternative explanation for how contracted to the SO. So maybe Hibiclens would help on this one. I thought Clap from BBBJ was impossible.
(B) Molluscum Contagiosum small painless bumps, highly contagious, viral must be removed mechanically, Dermatologists have long waits to be seen. Completely reversible and a condom would not protect. Again difficult to explain to the SO. My buddy was afraid he contracted the Herp or Warts.
FYI both buddies live out of state, so there is NO implications of anyone local. Just education and awareness.
TTM.
I've been out of the stream for a few days, but I honestly believe FKNow is uncle. Just saying. You guys make you're own decision.Beyond the idea that cops would waste their time here, seriously it would be a waste of time, not my opinion, the opinion of all the retired cops I know that live down here. So fucking what if he is? Nothing you say here can be evidence and if a person is STUPID enough to meet somebody in reality from a board like this without having interacted with them for years, and years, and fucking YEARS then well, Darwin was right.
My opinion.
A2.
Prefer girls to take drugs before seeing me since they more likely to do the nasty things I like since they are high. Easier to manipulate them too hehehe.I agree that this borders on are. A drink or two to relax her may be okay but this this gives us mongers a bad rap. I would NEVER encourage anyone to take drugs. I avoid anyone that I suspect is a user. My 2 cents.
You do realize that what you describe is a situation where the provider cannot give consent, right? I am not going to use the "R word", but the one consideration I have when justifying to myself the ethics of paying for sex is that everyone involved has consented to all that transpires and was in a state of mind to be able to give that consent.I would not have seen this ad because Amon is on my ignore list. Seems like it was a wise thing to do to remove the troll. As A2 says don't feed the troll. Good advise for all. No trolls are good trools.
Progressou812
07-30-16, 01:22
There was no miscommunication at all. The meeting was set up more the 24 hrs in advance. Verified the night before. And a check-in was done an hour prior. All of this and discovering someone else hiding in the room, being led out of the room under the pretense of going to another room, only to have her close the door behind me. And then refusing to answer any attempt to call or text. Nope, no miscommunication at all. I understood her message very clearly. Thanks for the money and fuck off.
But everyone can make their onw choices. She had been good to me in the past, figured this would have been no different. Wasted several hours that morning on one of my few trips I get back to The Cincy area.
Sorry to rant on, but I don't want her to try to spin this off as anything but what it was. A ripoff, flat and simple.Newbie here and my VERY first date was with Luscious. I had read of her recent issues but decided to take a chance, big mistake. Set appointment 2 days prior, agreed to terms via text, was grateful she accepted a newbie without references. The day of we texted 2-3 times to finalize things, she was supposed to text when she got the room, then she went dark.
Drove from Dayton to her general location, was still optimistic, I am an idiot. No texts an she wouldn't answer her phone. Live and learn I guess.
Member #5260
07-30-16, 07:48
Newbie here and my VERY first date was with Luscious. I had read of her recent issues but decided to take a chance, big mistake. Set appointment 2 days prior, agreed to terms via text, was grateful she accepted a newbie without references. The day of we texted 2-3 times to finalize things, she was supposed to text when she got the room, then she went dark.
Drove from Dayton to her general location, was still optimistic, I am an idiot. No texts an she wouldn't answer her phone. Live and learn I guess.Setting a date with 99% of the providers 2 days in advance might as well have been setting it 2 months in advance. Even setting one the night before can be a crap shoot. When heading off to any date, have at least 2 or 3 other numbers with you in case it falls through.
Simp4ebony
07-30-16, 08:34
Beyond the idea that cops would waste their time here, seriously it would be a waste of time, not my opinion, the opinion of all the retired cops I know that live down here. So fucking what if he is? Nothing you say here can be evidence and if a person is STUPID enough to meet somebody in reality from a board like this without having interacted with them for years, and years, and fucking YEARS then well, Darwin was right.
My opinion.
A2.If I were a cop, trying to catch an escort, I'd just call girls on Backpage, or wherever. There would be no need to go through all this extra work. If I wanted to catch a client, I'd put up a fake ad, and arrest him on location. Again, there would be no need to go through this extra layer of effort.
John HandCock
07-30-16, 09:28
If I were a cop, trying to catch an escort, I'd just call girls on Backpage, or wherever. There would be no need to go through all this extra work. If I wanted to catch a client, I'd put up a fake ad, and arrest him on location. Again, there would be no need to go through this extra layer of effort.Cops aren't interested in this shit. What they are interested in is drugs. When you guys whine, cry or brag about your drugged out girls or possibly pm each other as to who can get their hands on the good stuff then it becomes interesting. Especially to the rats who are trying to keep their assess out of the pokey. These are the ones that are going to work this type of info and take it straight to LEO. Guys just chasing pussy usually just get caught up in the occasional sting which is a hazard of the hobby. So when someone starts crying about their girl getting busted and there was no sting its usually going to bbe because she had a side business going on and mongers was passing the word.
Beyond the idea that cops would waste their time here, seriously it would be a waste of time, not my opinion, the opinion of all the retired cops I know that live down here. So fucking what if he is? Nothing you say here can be evidence and if a person is STUPID enough to meet somebody in reality from a board like this without having interacted with them for years, and years, and fucking YEARS then well, Darwin was right.
My opinion.
A2.I'm only saying it because I don't plan to go to one of his "meet and greets. " or provide PM details on contacting providers. Otherwise, I really couldn't give a shit less.
I'm only saying it because I don't plan to go to one of his "meet and greets. " or provide PM details on contacting providers. Otherwise, I really couldn't give a shit less.Dude there is no meet and greets. That was an idea. It happens in other cities so was suggested and discussed. If you really can't tell the difference between a hobbyist and an Uncle, you have a long way to go sir. Probably after 10,000 posts? Lmao.
I'm only saying it because I don't plan to go to one of his "meet and greets. " or provide PM details on contacting providers. Otherwise, I really couldn't give a shit less.I think it is suspicious that both you and FKnow have been here about the same amount of time and have similar numbers of posts and one is calling the other out for being LEO hmmmm and both have a lot of shit to say and few reviews. I would not put credence into either of your reps until proven otherwise. On the other issue of this site, it is safe in the context that it is meant to be. Will anyone get in trouble for things here NO! Is LEO here reading yes and using all the info to their advantage. The only convergence of this and the real world would be when you tie them together, as in I'm twisted69 from usasg etc and I'm here to see SP specific name given.
Just grooving from Memphis. Drinking a chard. Hello to my friends in Cincinnati. If you are in my fair city. Let me know. Will contact to you best in Memphis. Just let me know.
And am also smoking a LEA Dormiaca Digga Cigara. LOL.
I think it is suspicious that both you and FKnow have been here about the same amount of time and have similar numbers of posts and one is calling the other out for being LEO hmmmm and both have a lot of shit to say and few reviews. I would not put credence into either of your reps until proven otherwise. On the other issue of this site, it is safe in the context that it is meant to be. Will anyone get in trouble for things here NO! Is LEO here reading yes and using all the info to their advantage. The only convergence of this and the real world would be when you tie them together, as in I'm twisted69 from usasg etc and I'm here to see SP specific name given.I dunno about Roger but I am a very picky fokker since I recently met a nice chick. I don't want the mongering to ruin my relationship besides I have always been a selective monger. All covered pretty much takes all providers off my list. And I have said this over and over, since lots of providers are into substances for whatever reasons I really don't care its their business, I stay away. Homes I don't visit to indulge if a provider advertises. I am not interested in SWs. So I really sample very few and keep it that way. Shouldn't stop others to have their share of fun.
I think it is suspicious that both you and FKnow have been here about the same amount of time and have similar numbers of posts and one is calling the other out for being LEO hmmmm and both have a lot of shit to say and few reviews. I would not put credence into either of your reps until proven otherwise. On the other issue of this site, it is safe in the context that it is meant to be. Will anyone get in trouble for things here NO! Is LEO here reading yes and using all the info to their advantage. The only convergence of this and the real world would be when you tie them together, as in I'm twisted69 from usasg etc and I'm here to see SP specific name given.Maybe you should be a detective. While my posts might not all be reviews, they definitely aren't just me asking a bunch of questions and suggesting a meet and greet.
This is my last post about this issue though. I'm on this board to get pussy, not drama. So I apologize if I've stirred the pot and I wish the best of luck to all of you on getting laid.
Maybe you should be a detective. While my posts might not all be reviews, they definitely aren't just me asking a bunch of questions and suggesting a meet and greet.
This is my last post about this issue though. I'm on this board to get pussy, not drama. So I apologize if I've stirred the pot and I wish the best of luck to all of you on getting laid.You are the drama here. I suggested a masquerade anonymous party not a meet and greet. A masquerade party is discreet and no one knows each other. Don't twist words. Stop your drama and spare us the pain in the ass.
Hey all, I actually typed this up about 2 weeks ago after I saw a senior take a shit on a new person's post, mostly because it was new AND because it didn't go along with the world-view of the senior.
I get that we are all skeptical, and we are looking for reasons to disbelieve something that doesn't match whatever we have in our head. But I think it chases off new talent if you inflict those views on someone that is just trying to contribute.
Sure, there are legitimate reasons to be reserved. The thing is, and this is JUST my opinion, we can't automatically dismiss or trash people that are willing to take the time to type and share their experiences. In fact, I think we should embrace new people, not be assholes to them.
At any rate, I'm not Abraham Lincoln, so not gifted in the oratory arts. But as a new person, I have to say I don't think new people are really made to feel welcome here. If that's what you want, congratulations. If not, well, in a few years you'll find out that seniors really aren't worth as much as newbies.
Just sayin. I'm not a senior.Some seniors are a bit closed off but I can understand why most will not share info with a newbie when quite a few of them say the same thing over and over. "Any info on this one, Has anyone seen this girl. Etc". I never expected a senior to give me the digits when I started off. I took my time and read a lot of the posts and when I had trouble on how to look up something I asked. I used the seniors post to help me have great dreams. I don't have hundreds of posts but I have contributed here and there and so a few seniors trusted me enough with numbers. As long as you contribute I would think a lot of seniors won't mind sharing here and there. But if you're the kinda guy that all you do is ask for info with out providing any then don't expect a warm welcome. This is not in reference to You personally. I'm just saying in general. Just my. 02. Stay safe.
Knight.
You do realize that what you describe is a situation where the provider cannot give consent, right? I am not going to use the "R word", but the one consideration I have when justifying to myself the ethics of paying for sex is that everyone involved has consented to all that transpires and was in a state of mind to be able to give that consent.A thousand times this. I've walked out more than once because a provider was smashed out of her mind. Consent is crucial whether I'm paying for it or not.
HuntLadys29
08-02-16, 05:04
Some seniors are a bit closed off but I can understand why most will not share info with a newbie when quite a few of them say the same thing over and over. "Any info on this one, Has anyone seen this girl. Etc". I never expected a senior to give me the digits when I started off. I took my time and read a lot of the posts and when I had trouble on how to look up something I asked. I used the seniors post to help me have great dreams. I don't have hundreds of posts but I have contributed here and there and so a few seniors trusted me enough with numbers. As long as you contribute I would think a lot of seniors won't mind sharing here and there. But if you're the kinda guy that all you do is ask for info with out providing any then don't expect a warm welcome. This is not in reference to You personally. I'm just saying in general. Just my. 02. Stay safe.
Knight.I remember when I first came on this board and every new guys first report was a LEO sighting, or a sting report. I don't mind giving info to anybody that contributes I just won't do the work for someone who is lazy or scared. We all have lives and things at risk if something went wrong in this hobby that's why it is important to share good info I just don't want to deal with somebody that just wants to eat the bread and not help make it. Like the guy who makes up an account and pms you for information on a girl you wrote about or the guy that always says you got digits. HL29.
Noelle Von
08-03-16, 13:15
Hello All,
I hope everyone has been on their best behavior during my absence. As many of you know I did relocate back to Cincinnati this summer from Los Angeles (Hometown). I'm glad to be back and reconnecting with old friends & meeting new ones.
Every now and then I do a search on my entertaining persona. This is the 1st time I have ever run across a fellow provider bashing me to elevate herself. Here is my response:
I had to go look and see who SilkyWetness was prior to responding to her opinion of me. Never have I had any interaction with this young lady, but definitely willing to open a line of communication.
I remember when I felt the need to belittle someone. In high school. I remember why I did it too. There was something about all those people I envied and I lived for the attention. I wanted to impress those I thought were important.
As a huge advocate in exercising Freedom Of Speech, SilkyWetness, I appreciate you expressing your opinion of me. No matter the lack of personal experience. I hope it worked in your favor. I wish you nothing but the best in your endeavors, whatever they may be.
2016 has been a great year for me and I foresee a greater future.
Never have I had "beef" with another provider and I won't start now.
Noelle von is a fake up charge up sell and not who she says she is I remember a while back she had beef with another provider and that other provider shut her down rather quickly but thank you for your kind words I'm one of a kind and unique in my own way hope to keep bringing joy and happiness now that it's summer I can wear my daisy dukes and sexy skirts so excited hope you all have a fantastic day and stay horny.
UOnlyLiveOnce
08-03-16, 15:55
I judge the new guys on a case by case basis. I've received a couple PMs in the past from newbies who were trying to get me to reveal info about a provider. In one case, I suspect it was a jealous ex. In another case, the guy was trying to get me to be more specific about a provider's geographic location (this provider did incall at her own place). You can just kind of tell who's up to no good.
SilkyWetness
08-03-16, 15:57
And looking back now you're right I shouldn't have said anything for that I do apologize.
Hello All,
I hope everyone has been on their best behavior during my absence. As many of you know I did relocate back to Cincinnati this summer from Los Angeles (Hometown). I'm glad to be back and reconnecting with old friends & meeting new ones.
Every now and then I do a search on my entertaining persona. This is the 1st time I have ever run across a fellow provider bashing me to elevate herself. Here is my response:
I had to go look and see who SilkyWetness was prior to responding to her opinion of me. Never have I had any interaction with this young lady, but definitely willing to open a line of communication.
I remember when I felt the need to belittle someone. In high school. I remember why I did it too. There was something about all those people I envied and I lived for the attention. I wanted to impress those I thought were important.
As a huge advocate in exercising Freedom Of Speech, SilkyWetness, I appreciate you expressing your opinion of me. No matter the lack of personal experience. I hope it worked in your favor. I wish you nothing but the best in your endeavors, whatever they may be.
2016 has been a great year for me and I foresee a greater future.
Never have I had "beef" with another provider and I won't start now."when they go low, I go high". Well played, Ms. Von!
Full disclosure- I am a NV regular and am very glad she is back. A TOTAL class, professional act in every way. I have nothing against Silk (even though she did go 0 for 3 on confirmed appointments with me) but I'd advise her to be more careful in throwing negatives in the future.
The good dr.
Noelle Von
08-04-16, 08:40
Thanks Silk. I appreciate the professionalism displayed. I'm glad we were able to speak on the matter without anyone getting bent out of shape.
Stay safe & beautiful.
Xx.
And looking back now you're right I shouldn't have said anything for that I do apologize.
If you guys keep kissing and making up would you please post photos?
Pretty please?
A2
Noelle Von
08-04-16, 08:56
The Good Doctor.
Thank you for the kind words.
All I desire is to keep this choice in lifestyle safe and exciting. All the other stuff is unimportant. It benefits no one. We have the whole world against us choosing to partake in activities as such. We need to stick together & help one another. Women and men.
"when they go low, I go high". Well played, Ms. Von!
Full disclosure- I am a NV regular and am very glad she is back. A TOTAL class, professional act in every way. I have nothing against Silk (even though she did go 0 for 3 on confirmed appointments with me) but I'd advise her to be more careful in throwing negatives in the future.
The good dr.
I remember the situation very well. Karmyn Banks made some comments about NV's ethnic background. She said something to the effect of, "black girls shouldn't describe themselves as French mixed with Cuban or Italian mixed with Caribbean. " I don't think she specifically named NV, but it was very obvious who she was referring to.
The Good Doctor.
Thank you for the kind words.
All I desire is to keep this choice in lifestyle safe and exciting. All the other stuff is unimportant. It benefits no one. We have the whole world against us choosing to partake in activities as such. We need to stick together & help one another. Women and men.AMEN! And in order to seal the peace process, I volunteer to mediate a peace and love duo with you, me and Silk!
Off to dream.
The good dr.
AMEN! And in order to seal the peace process, I volunteer to mediate a peace and love duo with you, me and Silk!
Off to dream.
The good dr.You and Jimmy Carter dude! Makin' peace where-ever you go. Your selfless dedication to the peace (piece) process is simply breathtaking! LOL.
Noelle Von
08-04-16, 17:00
Thank you for giving me an insight as to what transpired as I never saw that post.
I understand there are ill feelings towards me from a certain individual. My door is open when they are ready to address whatever their situation may be. I won't hold my breath however.
I can not apologize for knowing and embracing my culture. I love conversing with a fellow Haitian immigrant and my Quinceanera was phenomenal.
I found I dislike the label Ebony. For some reason it has obtained a very bad meaning and attract the wrong people for me in this field. Therefore I choose not to use it when labeling myself. Those who care enough are welcome to disagree.
I remember the situation very well. Karmyn Banks made some comments about NV's ethnic background. She said something to the effect of, "black girls shouldn't describe themselves as French mixed with Cuban or Italian mixed with Caribbean. " I don't think she specifically named NV, but it was very obvious who she was referring to.
MollyDaniels
08-04-16, 17:15
Once again, I have to commend Steve at EE. His average response time to each client reference request that I have ever sent to him is less than 100 seconds. A few years ago, Steve also acted as the 'middle-man' for me. I used to have a 'beef' with another reputable provider, and I would need to get client reference requests from her. I would send him the information, he would text her as if the reference was for him and the EE agency, and then relay that information back to me. I have been extremely busy in civvie life in the last few weeks, and I haven't been 'hobbying' much. As I was catching up on my emails this morning, Steve provided me with, and approved, 4 separate client reference requests for me in less than an hour. He deserves an award for that.
Guys, if you have been on the fence, or totally against, using an agency, or dealing with a male scheduler, there's no need to be. He's consistently professional, punctual, and isn't a bull-shitter.
Gals, if you are feeling overwhelmed by the scheduling and screening aspect of the hobby, give Steve a call. He can take care of all of that, and all you have to do is smile, show up on time, and bring home the bacon.
Kisses,
MD.
You and Jimmy Carter dude! Makin' peace where-ever you go. Your selfless dedication to the peace (piece) process is simply breathtaking! LOL.My goal- The Nobel Piece Prize!
The good dr.
Spreading piece (s) and joy everywhere I go.
NateTheGreat19
08-07-16, 11:19
Not sure where to post this. Just a general question.
Do providers prefer to do incalls or outcalls??
I see a lot of ads on BP with "incall only". I am sure a lot has to do on the state of the girl and if she has a car or not.
My goal- The Nobel Piece Prize!
The good dr.
Spreading piece (s) and joy everywhere I go.Or the Noelle Piece Prize. I know which one I'd like to award myself.
Not sure where to post this. Just a general question.
Do providers prefer to do incalls or outcalls??
I see a lot of ads on BP with "incall only". I am sure a lot has to do on the state of the girl and if she has a car or not.I think most girls like incalls better, because they have more control of the environment and feel safer that way. Or they are just not mobile / too lazy to go somewhere.
Outcall for me is fine if I'm in a hotel room and the girl has a great reputation. I've never invited a girl to my house, but guys are all different about that sort of thing. Some have a lot of trust for girls they've known a long time. But it's been my experience that everyone starts out seeming normal. Crazy chicks look a lot like non-crazy chicks, so I don't take chances.
Hope that's helpful.
OneBigRichard
08-07-16, 18:27
Not sure where to post this. Just a general question.
Do providers prefer to do incalls or outcalls??
I see a lot of ads on BP with "incall only". I am sure a lot has to do on the state of the girl and if she has a car or not.I would think it comes down to a few factors, do they have transportation? Do they have someone to watch them for new clients? Being in a safe hotel has its advantage, she can watch the parking lot, she can watch you out the window, and change there mind after seeing you. Because you may be in the parking lot, but you still need a room number to meet. And if things go bad for her she can always make a lot of noise, because the last thing the John wants is trouble. And face it are you going to the front desk and complaine? Didn't think so. Myself I like incall, I have the choice to back out once seeing the girl, with nothing to lose but my time. And because no way I'm bringing them to my house. Have you seen risky bussines? They cleaned him out. LOL and I get tired of getting rooms and the girls late or no show and I waste $70. After 4 years of playing around with this stuff I've still not met one to bring home yet. Be safe OBR.
First Half
08-07-16, 18:30
Couple years ago, Buda's girls had a party. I don't remember how many guys showed up. If my memory serves me right, it was Rebecca, Sasha & cupcake, maybe Jordan. Along with maybe five or mongers. The reviews can be found here. Sounded like the gents had a good time.I thought that Cat scooped up quite a bit of the income from that one, even though Rebecca did a lot of the fucking and upkeep on that party.
First Half
08-07-16, 18:32
Where do you get your facts? If there are any providers who can see 15-20 clients in a day, that would be less than 1% of providers. The schedule would have to be made well in advance. It would be a revolving door situation meaning clients running into clients at the door! And the provider would have to have great stamina to endure all that exercise! Not likely!! 8-10 maybe, but that would be pushing it.
2nd issue is your party. Not a good idea in these parts, especially since uncle is always watching and the legal ramifications that could be exaggerated out it would not be worth it. Doesn't matter if the charges stick, the fact they would make front page news would ruin most. Good luck if you do attempt it! Count me out!!No way those numbers work. Sorry if I'm behind on these things, just catching up on some of these posts.
I know it can work because they have been done in the past, though I've never attended. It's very difficult for me to have a free night to myself. You should set it up though. Invite Amon and he can BB all the girls LOL.I know it can work as I have participated in more of them than I can count. Well over a dozen anyway. The first ones were organized through the Indypendent site forums and were strictly meet and greet events. High profile ladies did attend and met new friends for more intimate visits at a later time. As we became a closer group of friends, meetings were organized through back channel communications. New people were only invited if they were personally known, active participants in the hobby. Lots of sex occurred at these gatherings, mostly BCD, but in a couple of cases, what would be best described as orgies broke out. In the hot tub, on the patio furniture, in the kitchen. Exchange of money was always done BCD. No problems ever resulted from any of the activities. Staying safe requires a great deal of organization. Everyone attending should be known by face to face contact with the person vouching for them, not just board interaction. Just like being vouched for a session. I organized one of them myself and believe me, it's not easy to hold it together. I swore that was the last of my party organizing efforts. My thanks to Molly and Rhonda for making the trip to Indy and making that one a great day.
Cincyfunguy
08-10-16, 17:46
Once again, I have to commend Steve at EE. His average response time to each client reference request that I have ever sent to him is less than 100 seconds. A few years ago, Steve also acted as the 'middle-man' for me. I used to have a 'beef' with another reputable provider, and I would need to get client reference requests from her. I would send him the information, he would text her as if the reference was for him and the EE agency, and then relay that information back to me. I have been extremely busy in civvie life in the last few weeks, and I haven't been 'hobbying' much. As I was catching up on my emails this morning, Steve provided me with, and approved, 4 separate client reference requests for me in less than an hour. He deserves an award for that.
Guys, if you have been on the fence, or totally against, using an agency, or dealing with a male scheduler, there's no need to be. He's consistently professional, punctual, and isn't a bull-shitter.
Gals, if you are feeling overwhelmed by the scheduling and screening aspect of the hobby, give Steve a call. He can take care of all of that, and all you have to do is smile, show up on time, and bring home the bacon.
Kisses,
MD.Not that I need nor ask for anyone to provide references very often but Steve has happily provided reference for me on a few occasions in the past. Very professional of him.
Likewise, Miss Molly is not only a fabulous Provider, she has also been a reference for me a few times. True professionalism, in addition to her other admirable assets and talents!
Hat's off to them both for understanding and valuing the importance of references in the biz!
Thank you!
CFG.
TheGenteelMan
08-11-16, 13:28
Just had to comment on the hilarity of some of these email-me-first ad's. The prose is just ridiculous, LOL.
Pleases you to call me. I am an object of sharp pleasures to be implemented onto your sensation areas giving you long life in return for obstructing my orifices...
TGM
Just had to comment on the hilarity of some of these email-me-first ad's. The prose is just ridiculous, LOL.
Pleases you to call me. I am an object of sharp pleasures to be implemented onto your sensation areas giving you long life in return for obstructing my orifices...
TGMWe *really* need a Like button!
Thanks,
Bam.
TheGenteelMan
08-12-16, 11:22
We *really* need a Like button!
Thanks,
Bam.You may be on to something my friend. Interesting idea =).
TGM
UOnlyLiveOnce
08-12-16, 14:45
Random thought about the Sharonville fire chief who is all over the news now (see link in News and Media thread):
Residential incall locations are generally better than lower-end motel incalls in terms of LE risk. But residential is obviously not foolproof.
Once again, LE saw fit to ruin someone because he sought what he wasn't getting, or getting enough of at home. Yes, the media reports say the investigation is focused on both the hobby and on drugs, and who knows, maybe there really was enough BS going on to make that environment unpleasant for other residents not involved in the scene. However, it is clear from years of evidence that both the war on drugs and the war on the hobby have been utter failures, yet LE keeps doing the same old blasted thing anyway. Thanks so much, LE.
CletusTheYokel
08-12-16, 16:22
Ditto. The only silver lining is that the political conversation is finally changing. But we are likely a long way from smarter and more humane policies. Vote accordingly.
Random thought about the Sharonville fire chief who is all over the news now (see link in News and Media thread):
Residential incall locations are generally better than lower-end motel incalls in terms of LE risk. But residential is obviously not foolproof.
Once again, LE saw fit to ruin someone because he sought what he wasn't getting, or getting enough of at home. Yes, the media reports say the investigation is focused on both the hobby and on drugs, and who knows, maybe there really was enough BS going on to make that environment unpleasant for other residents not involved in the scene. However, it is clear from years of evidence that both the war on drugs and the war on the hobby have been utter failures, yet LE keeps doing the same old blasted thing anyway. Thanks so much, LE.
HuntLadys29
08-12-16, 17:48
Random thought about the Sharonville fire chief who is all over the news now (see link in News and Media thread):
Residential incall locations are generally better than lower-end motel incalls in terms of LE risk. But residential is obviously not foolproof.
Once again, LE saw fit to ruin someone because he sought what he wasn't getting, or getting enough of at home. Yes, the media reports say the investigation is focused on both the hobby and on drugs, and who knows, maybe there really was enough BS going on to make that environment unpleasant for other residents not involved in the scene. However, it is clear from years of evidence that both the war on drugs and the war on the hobby have been utter failures, yet LE keeps doing the same old blasted thing anyway. Thanks so much, LE.It's also crazy how he gets suspended from his job and wasn't charged or convicted of anything. That means he could be at work kicking it with his friends and say yes I go over Candice house slip her 60 bucks and get the knober of my life. Then the next day he gets suspended. I'm telling you these guys don't play fair. HL29.
UOnlyLiveOnce
08-12-16, 18:32
It's also crazy how he gets suspended from his job and wasn't charged or convicted of anything. That means he could be at work kicking it with his friends and say yes I go over Candice house slip her 60 bucks and get the knober of my life. Then the next day he gets suspended. I'm telling you these guys don't play fair. HL29.Problem is, he admitted he saw her. Regardless, the same thing could easily happen to me, except they'd go straight to firing me instead of giving me any kind of leave or suspension.
I honestly don't know what to do. I usually tell myself I'm getting out of this deal whenever I read about something like this (but I obviously always end up back in the game). It's unsettling because I've done some hobbying in that part of town recently. But my little soldier has some good years left and I'm about take any vows of celibacy.
While I figure out what to do, I'm just going to keep hitting the gym and keep flirting with chicks.
Remember: It is an Election year.
Ditto. The only silver lining is that the political conversation is finally changing. But we are likely a long way from smarter and more humane policies. Vote accordingly.
It's also crazy how he gets suspended from his job and wasn't charged or convicted of anything. That means he could be at work kicking it with his friends and say yes I go over Candice house slip her 60 bucks and get the knober of my life. Then the next day he gets suspended. I'm telling you these guys don't play fair. HL29.He had the right to remain silent. Confession may be good for the soul, not so much public office.
Stay safer.
LM.
He had the right to remain silent. Confession may be good for the soul, not so much public office.
Stay safer.
LM.But it likely wouldn't have prevented him from being suspended. The right to remain silent only matters in court, not with your employer.
This is Sunny from last Thursday. She meets all of my well known qualifications. You can see more of her on the Memphis Escort Report Board, including the most erotic photo I have posted in years.
Calling BS on KidKuddi. Not being a white knight on his comments about Sexy Sass, but bullshit.
I went back and read some of his recent posts and he adds nothing useful to the conversation. Mostly short, poorly written comments, mostly bashing providers.
Whew. Feeling better now.
Nice to see that I'm still a topic 😜128540;.
As I understand it there was a time when she partied at the swing clubs rather a lot and often.
She has a very colorful past. She told me she would routinely do 5 to 6 guys a day when she started out. She did appear to get somewhat burned out and became very sporadic in her last few years, preferring to work BP only long enough to get a steady set of regulars before going UTR for months at a time.
Once I read his previous posting I knew he was just hating, Because I wouldn't have dinner with him and stopped answering his calls. LOL thanks for knowing facts from BS!!
Oxoxo.
Calling BS on KidKuddi. Not being a white knight on his comments about Sexy Sass, but bullshit.
I went back and read some of his recent posts and he adds nothing useful to the conversation. Mostly short, poorly written comments, mostly bashing providers.
Whew. Feeling better now.
DINNER?? WHAT DINNER?? I never asked you to dinner? Why would I need to go to dinner with a prosititue?? Lmao. Stopped answering my calls I haven't called you since the time I saw you last. Do you really want me to PUT YOUR SHT ON BLAST hear?? I KNOW what I saw in those drawers. And I know what motel and where in cincy we were. Even the room number. Do I really need to air it as prrof I seen you? SMFH I shoot dope. There was multiple needles in the drawer. It's that simple. I felt that guys are kissing you. And eating your pussy. And your skin bbbjs then people should know you use needles. This site is FOR OUR SAFETY. If people choose not to believe me then let them be dumb. That's not on me. I didn't say anything bad about you other then you shoot dope and obviously use needles. I know the truth so it's all good. You can't call me a list cause I saw them with my own eyes. DINNER? That's funny as hell.
JohnnyBoy69
08-16-16, 00:36
How many points (not that I'm going to get more. Lesson learned) can one get before consequences?
JB.
Bobby Linn
08-16-16, 06:25
Nice to see that I'm still a topic 😜128540;.That story is legend! Hope all is well from a "Old Man".
DINNER?? WHAT DINNER?? I never asked you to dinner? Why would I need to go to dinner with a prosititue?? Lmao. Stopped answering my calls I haven't called you since the time I saw you last. Do you really want me to PUT YOUR SHT ON BLAST hear?? I KNOW what I saw in those drawers. And I know what motel and where in cincy we were. Even the room number. Do I really need to air it as prrof I seen you? SMFH I shoot dope. There was multiple needles in the drawer. It's that simple. I felt that guys are kissing you. And eating your pussy. And your skin bbbjs then people should know you use needles. This site is FOR OUR SAFETY. If people choose not to believe me then let them be dumb. That's not on me. I didn't say anything bad about you other then you shoot dope and obviously use needles. I know the truth so it's all good. You can't call me a list cause I saw them with my own eyes. DINNER? That's funny as hell.I believe you, because it's a pretty safe bet. Not because I think you're a good guy. You remind me of CockNumb, and he's a dirty piece of shit. I can believe there are two of you idiots fucking the world up out there, but I can also believe that you are the same person with different usernames. Doesn't matter. You speak like a total cvnt. But I believe you. Because it's most likely the case. The guys who doubt that she's on H are delusional, or at least haven't presented any credible evidence to dispel it. Most old timers will have gone through the process of convincing themselves a girl is clean, only to see her wind up dead via OD. And old timer doesn't mean decades. A year or two is enough with the shit that's out there now.
Thing is, if she has a drawer full of needles, she's probably pretty clean about it and that removes some of the concern. Not all. And most guys don't care, because again, most girls who suck dick for money do so because they have habits to feed. It's like that thing I never understood. Guys say shit like: "She might have been acting, but either way I had a great time". Which just doesn't work for me. These same guys can also ignore reality in other ways, such as the prevalence of heroin use among the girls they see.
If I was going to see her, which I have never been interested in, I would be more worried about why I was going to pay to fuck a girl who looks like Eyeore.
You remind me of CockNumbHe's had two other names, Ghost23 and BarebakBart both of them were banned for acting like an asshole. I reckon it's only a matter of time before I ban this one as well.
Still doesn't excuse the horde that piled on him on the review thread.
A2
I believe you, because it's a pretty safe bet. Not because I think you're a good guy. You remind me of CockNumb, and he's a dirty piece of shit. I can believe there are two of you idiots fucking the world up out there, but I can also believe that you are the same person with different usernames. Doesn't matter. You speak like a total cvnt. But I believe you. Because it's most likely the case. The guys who doubt that she's on H are delusional, or at least haven't presented any credible evidence to dispel it. Most old timers will have gone through the process of convincing themselves a girl is clean, only to see her wind up dead via OD. And old timer doesn't mean decades. A year or two is enough with the shit that's out there now.
Thing is, if she has a drawer full of needles, she's probably pretty clean about it and that removes some of the concern. Not all. And most guys don't care, because again, most girls who suck dick for money do so because they have habits to feed. It's like that thing I never understood. Guys say shit like: "She might have been acting, but either way I had a great time". Which just doesn't work for me. These same guys can also ignore reality in other ways, such as the prevalence of heroin use among the girls they see.
If I was going to see her, which I have never been interested in, I should be more worried about why I was going to pay to fuck a girl who looks like Eyeore.I really don't care if you think I'm a good guy. I have friends in REAL life. I don't need any from a seX review site. Thanks. I use this site for safety for the very few times I hit a girl up. That is what it should be used for. Not for a huge long message describing in full detail every single detail of the time you had seeing the girl. Some of the posts I see are sad and pathetic. But hey that's jut me. Keep it simple fellas. Good time. Bad time. GFE. Not GFE. Safe location. Not safe. And anything that went bad. I'm cool with all that eXtra silly stuff. TAKE CARE.
BigGusDickUs55
08-17-16, 17:11
All this talk about Sassy brought up the memory of the last time we were together. On my 2nd pop she was doing this thing were she flicked her tongue against the head of my cock while I was coming and it was great. Every time she flicked her tongue on my cock head it was like a mini orgasm that never ended. Oh shit what were we talking about. I had something sarcastic to say but forgot about it. LOL OH yeah Kid welcome to my ignore bin that if full oh hind tit suckers, so you will have friends in there. Didn't want you to be lonely in your REAL life.
I really don't care if you think I'm a good guy. I have friends in REAL life. I don't need any from a seX review site. Thanks. I use this site for safety for the very few times I hit a girl up. That is what it should be used for. Not for a huge long message describing in full detail every single detail of the time you had seeing the girl. Some of the posts I see are sad and pathetic. But hey that's jut me. Keep it simple fellas. Good time. Bad time. GFE. Not GFE. Safe location. Not safe. And anything that went bad. I'm cool with all that eXtra silly stuff. TAKE CARE.
Bobaloo859
08-17-16, 23:15
Every time she flicked her tongue on my cock head it was like a mini orgasm that never ended. .Susan45 does something similar. What a terrific experience! And I've tried to tell other providers how to do this and they are clueless / Is it an innate intuition?
That's my secret bag of red and I have many many more to show!!
Oxoxo after all BBBJ is my most favorite hobby!!
Oxoxo kisses.
All this talk about Sassy brought up the memory of the last time we were together. On my 2nd pop she was doing this thing were she flicked her tongue against the head of my cock while I was coming and it was great. Every time she flicked her tongue on my cock head it was like a mini orgasm that never ended. Oh shit what were we talking about. I had something sarcastic to say but forgot about it. LOL OH yeah Kid welcome to my ignore bin that if full oh hind tit suckers, so you will have friends in there. Didn't want you to be lonely in your REAL life.
UOnlyLiveOnce
08-19-16, 11:11
The deal in Reading with the fire chief, the breaking news with the deputy's wife, and the arrest in Mason all happened in the past week. I don't remember the last time there have been 3 separate local hobby related stories in the media in just a week's time. Scary.
A2, or anyone.
I know we have a policy against posting private info, or arrest information. But what is the policy on posting info regarding something as important as providers who test as HIV positive, as is being reported in the news about 2 much seen and talked about providers? Does the board safety overrule the privacy issue?
A2, or anyone.
I know we have a policy against posting private info, or arrest information. But what is the policy on posting info regarding something as important as providers who test as HIV positive, as is being reported in the news about 2 much seen and talked about providers? Does the board safety overrule the privacy issue?HIPAA (Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act) is a federal mandate, and protects someone from having their health history disclosed without their consent. Serious monetary penalties can be accrued by those violating this mandate. Speaking for myself, I would certainly steer clear of posting anything health related about anybody publicly.
UOnlyLiveOnce
08-19-16, 15:29
I never saw the two providers who are the subject of current media coverage. But the current story, plus the other ones covered in the media recently are still a sign I need to give this up for good.
It won't be easy. You can't have dreams about providers like May, Remmy, Khloe21, or Busty Red and just erase that from memory. But I have to do it anyway. I'm just going to hit the gym and work on my game so I can bag babes without having to worry about LE and other things. I'll check in once in a while to make sure nothing from the past is coming back to bite me, but otherwise, it's that time.
Thanks to all for the great advice given here, and thank you A2 for providing the forum. Stay safe, one and all.
TheStigyEh
08-19-16, 15:38
I never saw the two providers who are the subject of current media coverage. But the current story, plus the other ones covered in the media recently are still a sign I need to give this up for good.
It won't be easy. You can't have dreams about providers like May, Remmy, Khloe21, or Busty Red and just erase that from memory. But I have to do it anyway. I'm just going to hit the gym and work on my game so I can bag babes without having to worry about LE and other things. I'll check in once in a while to make sure nothing from the past is coming back to bite me, but otherwise, it's that time.
Thanks to all for the great advice given here, and thank you A2 for providing the forum. Stay safe, one and all.Maybe visit Thailand or Buenos Aries once or twice a year instead. The Land of Smiles is fantastic.
A2, or anyone.
I know we have a policy against posting private info, or arrest information. But what is the policy on posting info regarding something as important as providers who test as HIV positive, as is being reported in the news about 2 much seen and talked about providers? Does the board safety overrule the privacy issue?Admin can correct me if I am wrong, but I believe that it is all right to post such information on the forum if it is based on publicly available sources, as it is in the current case of the two sisters. Otherwise, you just have hearsay and, often, vindictive reports that are impossible to verify.
I never saw the two providers who are the subject of current media coverage. But the current story, plus the other ones covered in the media recently are still a sign I need to give this up for good.
It won't be easy. You can't have dreams about providers like May, Remmy, Khloe21, or Busty Red and just erase that from memory. But I have to do it anyway. I'm just going to hit the gym and work on my game so I can bag babes without having to worry about LE and other things. I'll check in once in a while to make sure nothing from the past is coming back to bite me, but otherwise, it's that time.
Thanks to all for the great advice given here, and thank you A2 for providing the forum. Stay safe, one and all.Amen. Good luck to you all but I'll be taking a break from this.
Member #5197
08-19-16, 17:17
I am out as well. Good luck to all in the future.
A2, or anyone.
I know we have a policy against posting private info, or arrest information. But what is the policy on posting info regarding something as important as providers who test as HIV positive, as is being reported in the news about 2 much seen and talked about providers? Does the board safety overrule the privacy issue?The earlier story of the two providers having tested positive for HIV has been retracted by the media. The report has been changed to just an arrest.
Those who have seen the providers in question can breathe a little easier now.
DrBnode 73
08-20-16, 17:58
I never saw the two providers who are the subject of current media coverage. But the current story, plus the other ones covered in the media recently are still a sign I need to give this up for good.
It won't be easy. You can't have dreams about providers like May, Remmy, Khloe21, or Busty Red and just erase that from memory. But I have to do it anyway. I'm just going to hit the gym and work on my game so I can bag babes without having to worry about LE and other things. I'll check in once in a while to make sure nothing from the past is coming back to bite me, but otherwise, it's that time.
Thanks to all for the great advice given here, and thank you A2 for providing the forum. Stay safe, one and all.I saw one of the sisters just (unspecified) weeks ago at the location pictured in the coverage. WAY too close of a call. I agree that it is time to lay low and stay out of the hobby, maybe till after the election. And given some time for reflection, maybe I'll be out for good. There's just too much to lose. Right now there's a convergence of provider carelessness (surely due to hard drug use) plus what seems to be increased scrutiny followed by successful, or at least highly publicized, LE operations. A storm I'd rather weather indoors.
Looks like the strip clubs will be making more money in the next couple months LOL!
Be safe, always the first priority.
Does anyone know if D-1 massage Florence is still open /.
Thanks.
I saw one of the sisters just (unspecified) weeks ago at the location pictured in the coverage. WAY too close of a call. I agree that it is time to lay low and stay out of the hobby, maybe till after the election. And given some time for reflection, maybe I'll be out for good. There's just too much to lose. Right now there's a convergence of provider carelessness (surely due to hard drug use) plus what seems to be increased scrutiny followed by successful, or at least highly publicized, LE operations. A storm I'd rather weather indoors.
Looks like the strip clubs will be making more money in the next couple months LOL!
Be safe, always the first priority.Agreed, time to lay low for awhile.
Approposer
08-20-16, 19:48
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I believe DNut has addressed this a few posts before this one.
A2
Bobaloo859
08-20-16, 20:49
Agreed, time to lay low for awhile.Maybe a weekend trip to Miami?
I was talking to someone Friday about Chrisee and Morgan arrest, the person I was talking to is in state attorney general office, they said that a big bust is coming down on the east side in the next few days. Now you can take this with a grain of salt but I'm avoiding the hobby for a week or so. Sorry girls.
Member #5260
08-21-16, 07:46
I bet AA is going to blow a gasket when he sees all these posts from this Ave Hunter guy.
I see a lot of the girls' ads, and some reports, referring to GFE activity. I know it stands for "girl friend experience", but what exactly does that mean? I'm a bit of a newbie to the site and still learning. Thanks, Guys.
This is Bea, from last Wednesday. A nice follow-up from Sunny. I love this semi-retirement.
Winston1984
08-22-16, 22:15
I see a lot of the girls' ads, and some reports, referring to GFE activity. I know it stands for "girl friend experience", but what exactly does that mean? I'm a bit of a newbie to the site and still learning. Thanks, Guys.This one is so obvious, but what the hell I'm trying to "earn my stripes" so I will have credit with other members. Go to http://www.urbandictionary.com and type any acronym you don't know. I like definition number 6 the best for GFE.
FitAndHung
08-23-16, 08:46
Agreed, time to lay low for awhile.These busts serve to remind me why I generally don't partake in the hobby. Too many nosy people who don't mind their own business. Neighbors, whoever. It's just too risky.
I know there are mongers from this site who recently visited the sisters because I read the reviews. Are they worried? Do the cops go through phones and look at numbers or texts? I guess I don't know how that works but if you've communicated with them and texted or something it would seem to me it would be easy for the LE to look you up and trace you or whatever. Do they go after the other customers?
Wish it were easier, or legal. Just seems too risky for me.
These busts serve to remind me why I generally don't partake in the hobby. Too many nosy people who don't mind their own business. Neighbors, whoever. It's just too risky.
I know there are mongers from this site who recently visited the sisters because I read the reviews. Are they worried? Do the cops go through phones and look at numbers or texts? I guess I don't know how that works but if you've communicated with them and texted or something it would seem to me it would be easy for the LE to look you up and trace you or whatever. Do they go after the other customers?
Wish it were easier, or legal. Just seems too risky for me.Is everyone laying low for the time being? I've seen several providers in the last week and they say business has been really slow. I guess in just too addicted to this hobby to quit. Hahaha!
Addiction69
08-24-16, 16:44
I tried taking one for the team today with this girl, but she refused to send me any pics nude. I first asked her where I could find reviews of her (as there were none on here). She said she has no reviews because she is just starting in the business. So I said I needed a way to verify her and she informed me she doesn't send nude pics. I explained I have to have a way to verify her, my thoughts are because her pics are very tame, no nudity.
I then asked her if she would be willing to meet somewhere for a drink to meet in person, she declined and said she doesn't do that.
So much for her.
My question is what are girls hang ups with sending nude pics? IMHO that verifies they aren't LEO or part of a sting. But I've been turned down on numerous requests to different girls over time.
Do anyone have any info?
Regarding the recent string of busts, I am trying to be cautious, but also tired of the same old girls and same old reviews.
http://cincinnati.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-in-town-mya-is-here-qv80-hh130-hr200/31067108
Black Knight69
08-24-16, 17:24
I tried taking one for the team today with this girl, but she refused to send me any pics nude. I first asked her where I could find reviews of her (as there were none on here). She said she has no reviews because she is just starting in the business. So I said I needed a way to verify her and she informed me she doesn't send nude pics. I explained I have to have a way to verify her, my thoughts are because her pics are very tame, no nudity.
I then asked her if she would be willing to meet somewhere for a drink to meet in person, she declined and said she doesn't do that.
So much for her.
My question is what are girls hang ups with sending nude pics? IMHO that verifies they aren't LEO or part of a sting. But I've been turned down on numerous requests to different girls over time.
Do anyone have any info?
Regarding the recent string of busts, I am trying to be cautious, but also tired of the same old girls and same old reviews.
http://cincinnati.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-in-town-mya-is-here-qv80-hh130-hr200/31067108Same feeling as hot as she is, I want to see her but the sharonville area screams "it's a trap!" to me.
Member #5260
08-24-16, 17:45
I tried taking one for the team today with this girl, but she refused to send me any pics nude. I first asked her where I could find reviews of her (as there were none on here). She said she has no reviews because she is just starting in the business. So I said I needed a way to verify her and she informed me she doesn't send nude pics. I explained I have to have a way to verify her, my thoughts are because her pics are very tame, no nudity.
I then asked her if she would be willing to meet somewhere for a drink to meet in person, she declined and said she doesn't do that.
So much for her.
My question is what are girls hang ups with sending nude pics? IMHO that verifies they aren't LEO or part of a sting. But I've been turned down on numerous requests to different girls over time.
Do anyone have any info?
Regarding the recent string of busts, I am trying to be cautious, but also tired of the same old girls and same old reviews.
http://cincinnati.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-in-town-mya-is-here-qv80-hh130-hr200/31067108She is also advertising on the USA site:
http://usaadultclassifieds.info/classifieds/-35/posts/1-Independent-Escorts/1-Independent-Escorts/19280-Come-see-mya-available-all-night-.html
These busts serve to remind me why I generally don't partake in the hobby. Too many nosy people who don't mind their own business. Neighbors, whoever. It's just too risky.
I know there are mongers from this site who recently visited the sisters because I read the reviews. Are they worried? Do the cops go through phones and look at numbers or texts? I guess I don't know how that works but if you've communicated with them and texted or something it would seem to me it would be easy for the LE to look you up and trace you or whatever. Do they go after the other customers?
Wish it were easier, or legal. Just seems too risky for me.That's why you should get a trac phone and don't register it with any of your real information, when I got mine it did not require any info, it asked and I declined. Why anyone would use their real phone is not smart and for $20 for 60 days it's worth it.
MichaelGem88
08-24-16, 19:49
This may sound stupid but. I don't really get it how LEO can bust a monger. Like "they" always say $ is exchanged just for time, and whatever happen is between 2 adult persons. So what is the case here?
LusciousLips
08-24-16, 20:55
I tried taking one for the team today with this girl, but she refused to send me any pics nude. I first asked her where I could find reviews of her (as there were none on here). She said she has no reviews because she is just starting in the business. So I said I needed a way to verify her and she informed me she doesn't send nude pics. I explained I have to have a way to verify her, my thoughts are because her pics are very tame, no nudity.
I then asked her if she would be willing to meet somewhere for a drink to meet in person, she declined and said she doesn't do that.
So much for her.
My question is what are girls hang ups with sending nude pics? IMHO that verifies they aren't LEO or part of a sting. But I've been turned down on numerous requests to different girls over time.
Do anyone have any info?
Regarding the recent string of busts, I am trying to be cautious, but also tired of the same old girls and same old reviews.
http://cincinnati.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-in-town-mya-is-here-qv80-hh130-hr200/31067108All the girls receive tons of texts each day from guys who have absolutely no intention of ever visiting. These men Always ask for nude pics. This is the main reason,but there is also a safety factor. Just like you guys are nervous to get caught up with LEO, the girls are to. If you tell the girl your username for the USA site and they can see that you really are serious and you do follow through with visits,they probably wouldn't have a problem sending. Hope this helps.
This may sound stupid but. I don't really get it how LEO can bust a monger. Like "they" always say $ is exchanged just for time, and whatever happen is between 2 adult persons. So what is the case here?Assuming you're serious, it's because your legislature has passed a criminal statute making it illegal. That's the case here, and all other States except for one county in Nevada.
I tried taking one for the team today with this girl, but she refused to send me any pics nude. I first asked her where I could find reviews of her (as there were none on here). She said she has no reviews because she is just starting in the business. So I said I needed a way to verify her and she informed me she doesn't send nude pics. I explained I have to have a way to verify her, my thoughts are because her pics are very tame, no nudity.
I then asked her if she would be willing to meet somewhere for a drink to meet in person, she declined and said she doesn't do that.
So much for her.
My question is what are girls hang ups with sending nude pics? IMHO that verifies they aren't LEO or part of a sting. But I've been turned down on numerous requests to different girls over time.
Do anyone have any info?
Regarding the recent string of busts, I am trying to be cautious, but also tired of the same old girls and same old reviews.
http://cincinnati.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-in-town-mya-is-here-qv80-hh130-hr200/31067108Why should she send you nude pics? She doesn't know you. How can she know you're not a minor pretending to be a monger asking for nude pics? How can she know you're not LEO trying to build a case against her in a sting?
How about this, since you obviously don't think it's a big deal and consider discretion to be "a hang up", why don't YOU send her nude pics first, to prove you're not LEO or a minor, then maybe she can feel safe enough to send you one.
A nude pic is not required for verification. How about asking her, "Hey! Can you verify it's you in the photos in the ad by sending me a photo with your fingers doing the Peace sign? How about a winking picture? Or blowing a kiss?
Seriously! The level of entitlement some guys have to EXPECT nude photos from someone who has never met them, and to actually complain about it in an open forum when their demands are not met, is astounding.
With that said, if you only did some searching, you would have found another ad, in CALGARY, for the same girl. If you did, you need not have bothered trying to get that girl to jump through hoops.
http://calgary.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-in-town-mya-is-here-special-before-3-am-outcall-only/14460510
I tried taking one for the team today with this girl, but she refused to send me any pics nude.
My question is what are girls hang ups with sending nude pics? IMHO that verifies they aren't LEO or part of a sting. But I've been turned down on numerous requests to different girls over time.
http://cincinnati.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-in-town-mya-is-here-qv80-hh130-hr200/31067108Would YOU want someone you don't know to have a nude pic of you that they could hold permanently and use against you in the future? These women have personal lives beyond their sex business, and many of them are not sure how long they are going to be doing this. They may have children, significant others, or parents and not want a picture in the hands of someone they don't know that could be used against them later.
Addiction69
08-25-16, 09:26
Why should she send you nude pics? She doesn't know you. How can she know you're not a minor pretending to be a monger asking for nude pics? How can she know you're not LEO trying to build a case against her in a sting?
How about this, since you obviously don't think it's a big deal and consider discretion to be "a hang up", why don't YOU send her nude pics first, to prove you're not LEO or a minor, then maybe she can feel safe enough to send you one.
A nude pic is not required for verification. How about asking her, "Hey! Can you verify it's you in the photos in the ad by sending me a photo with your fingers doing the Peace sign? How about a winking picture? Or blowing a kiss?
Seriously! The level of entitlement some guys have to EXPECT nude photos from someone who has never met them, and to actually complain about it in an open forum when their demands are not met, is astounding.My first inclination is to tell you to Fuck Off! But I also see you actually did give some suggestions regarding me requesting a specific picture of her doing something with her hand or me sending a nude pic and also another post from LL made me realize that these women are probably getting this kind of request all day every day. It is still too sketchy out there for me to take any major risks right now, so that is why I chose to pass on her, and especially given that area of Sharonville and the heat that has been discussed on the forum.
But back to the Fuck Off part, entitlement? Give me a break! Expecting nude photos from a woman I've never met. WTF, us mongers show up and have all sorts of sexual adventures with women we have never met before. Literally, walk in the door and within 2-5 minutes completely naked and having intimate encounter with a complete stranger. Your logic in your statement regarding asking for nude photos from someone they never met being out of the question is just silly.
In this moment of mongering in our area, its better to be overly cautious than not. I don't owe this woman any sort of anything to begin, especially considering she has no reviews and no history.
Addiction69
08-25-16, 09:40
All the girls receive tons of texts each day from guys who have absolutely no intention of ever visiting. These men Always ask for nude pics. This is the main reason,but there is also a safety factor. Just like you guys are nervous to get caught up with LEO, the girls are to. If you tell the girl your username for the USA site and they can see that you really are serious and you do follow through with visits,they probably wouldn't have a problem sending. Hope this helps.Thank you for your response. You made me realize how many requests for pictures I had not taken into consideration. I wasn't thinking about all the horny teenagers and other guys not ever planning to actually make an appointment.
Because you have reviews, I wouldn't ask that of you. But when you were first starting out, and didn't have reviews. If someone had messaged you and asked for some way to try and verify you. How would you respond?
This girl never gave any offer of how to resolve the issue. Simply said she had no reviews and wouldn't send nudes and wouldn't meet me for a drink close to where she was out in public place. Even when I said I really wanted to meet her and wanted to try to overcome that challenge.
If she and I were as smart as DNUT, I could have suggested a specific pose and her make something with her hand, but I really never thought about that as it was almost 5 PM and I wanted to get it done. Or if she truley has been traveling the country, I find it hard to believe she wouldn't know about this site and wouldn't have any reviews from other locations she could have referenced. DNUT posted a link to a Calgary ad. And another monger posted that she actually is advertising on USA now too. But who cares about the ad, I want to see reviews to verify this person.
Another point is that quite a few women on here also request verification before meeting any new clients. They won't see you unless you have proof from another provider you are not LE.
John HandCock
08-25-16, 09:44
This may sound stupid but. I don't really get it how LEO can bust a monger. Like "they" always say $ is exchanged just for time, and whatever happen is between 2 adult persons. So what is the case here?If your just paying for time then you can't complain when she pulls out the checker board for whatever time you payed for.
John HandCock
08-25-16, 09:59
Thank you for your response. You made me realize how many requests for pictures I had not taken into consideration. I wasn't thinking about all the horny teenagers and other guys not ever planning to actually make an appointment.
Because you have reviews, I wouldn't ask that of you. But when you were first starting out, and didn't have reviews. If someone had messaged you and asked for some way to try and verify you. How would you respond?
This girl never gave any offer of how to resolve the issue. Simply said she had no reviews and wouldn't send nudes and wouldn't meet me for a drink close to where she was out in public place. Even when I said I really wanted to meet her and wanted to try to overcome that challenge.
If she and I were as smart as DNUT, I could have suggested a specific pose and her make something with her hand, but I really never thought about that as it was almost 5 PM and I wanted to get it done. Or if she truley has been traveling the country, I find it hard to believe she wouldn't know about this site and wouldn't have any reviews from other locations she could have referenced. DNUT posted a link to a Calgary ad. And another monger posted that she actually is advertising on USA now too. But who cares about the ad, I want to see reviews to verify this person.
Another point is that quite a few women on here also request verification before meeting any new clients. They won't see you unless you have proof from another provider you are not LE.When a girl doesn't have or won't give out reviews its simple, TOFTT or move on. Pics still don't give you any idea as to performance whether nude or peace sign. With newbies or most any BP girl its a roll of the dice on any given day. YMMV applies always.
MichaelGem88
08-25-16, 14:57
So I just read some articles about spros stings. Turn out there should be a cop undercover to be a monger to bust the girls, or undercover as a h004 er to bust a monger. So, it should be safe if we go with the girls we already known or at least got reviewed.
The reason I asked that stupid question was I affraid the cop would bust in when we are in business.
Assuming you're serious, it's because your legislature has passed a criminal statute making it illegal. That's the case here, and all other States except for one county in Nevada.
IWannaPlay
08-26-16, 10:22
Hello All,
Long, long time lurker here but I been around a while. Such a long time that I remember Dallas and the old "Sinsinnati" website. I think he went by the title "the Mayor" back then.
Anyway I used to get out a lot more than I do, of course you got to have the $$ to play and that sometimes is hard to come by.
If I get out I'll write a review as best I can, that seems to be what we in the "hobby" can do for each other.
Until then be careful.
IWP.
. But back to the Fuck Off part, entitlement? Give me a break! Expecting nude photos from a woman I've never met. WTF, us mongers show up and have all sorts of sexual adventures with women we have never met before. Literally, walk in the door and within 2-5 minutes completely naked and having intimate encounter with a complete stranger. Your logic in your statement regarding asking for nude photos from someone they never met being out of the question is just silly. Sending nude pics just because you asked and having an intimate encounter has absolutely nothing yo do with the other. Anyone can make a nude pic request with nothing vested other that a few key strokes and 1 kb of internet bandwidth. What does that get the girl? Most likely nothing other than compromising pbotos being in the hands of someone she has never met. Meeting and having sex is her job, and for that she gets paid, and her bills paid, and food, and housing, and car payments. To be in that room with her means you have made the investment to commit to a time, commit to the money, commit to the act, and make some effort.
It has nothing to do with modesty and everything to do with discretion. You want to see them naked? Put some skin in the game.
Have doubts? Move on. If you still want to see her, TOFTT.
But no one is entitled to nude pics just because you asked, and as much as this is a monger centric forum, most here know that the ladies have boundaries.
Addiction69
08-26-16, 13:26
Sending nude pics just because you asked and having an intimate encounter has absolutely nothing yo do with the other. Anyone can make a nude pic request with nothing vested other that a few key strokes and 1 kb of internet bandwidth. What does that get the girl? Most likely nothing other than compromising pbotos being in the hands of someone she has never met. Meeting and having sex is her job, and for that she gets paid, and her bills paid, and food, and housing, and car payments. To be in that room with her means you have made the investment to commit to a time, commit to the money, commit to the act, and make some effort.
It has nothing to do with modesty and everything to do with discretion. You want to see them naked? Put some skin in the game.
Have doubts? Move on. If you still want to see her, TOFTT.
But no one is entitled to nude pics just because you asked, and as much as this is a monger centric forum, most here know that the ladies have boundaries.I see your points and I don't disagree. I do appreciate the advice regarding request for what to ask for in a pic for verification rather than simply a nude pic. I am constantly learning on here and appreciate your feedback. Hope this also helps any others that may have had the same game plan or mind set I had.
HELP Adventurous Asian This evening Can be in an AMP My gift to mo LOL Can't disappoint myself sigh.
THANKS.
Apologies in advance if this isn't the place for this. I saw a provider today and it dawned on me that each time they do this lately I like it less and less. Seems like everytime I go I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there. I leave and I ask myself if it's really worth it. This is my third year doing this and reality is rearing its ugly head; this lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone involved. I know there are guys that have retired that still read this board and I would really like to hear your thoughts on knowing when it's time to give it up and then getting over the hump of actually doing it. If anyone cares to PM I would appreciate it. Sorry to break up the fighting with my introspection. I'm just hoping some of you have been where I am and have figured things out that I don't know yet. Thanks for reading, and let the slugfest resume.
Apologies in advance if this isn't the place for this. I saw a provider today and it dawned on me that each time they do this lately I like it less and less. Seems like everytime I go I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there. I leave and I ask myself if it's really worth it. This is my third year doing this and reality is rearing its ugly head; this lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone involved. I know there are guys that have retired that still read this board and I would really like to hear your thoughts on knowing when it's time to give it up and then getting over the hump of actually doing it. If anyone cares to PM I would appreciate it. Sorry to break up the fighting with my introspection. I'm just hoping some of you have been where I am and have figured things out that I don't know yet. Thanks for reading, and let the slugfest resume.You stop when the ROI is no longer worth it to you. What you put in and what you get out is entirely on you and no one can tell you when it's time to hang up your monger spurs.
Apologies in advance if this isn't the place for this. I saw a provider today and it dawned on me that each time they do this lately I like it less and less. Seems like everytime I go I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there. I leave and I ask myself if it's really worth it. This is my third year doing this and reality is rearing its ugly head; this lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone involved. I know there are guys that have retired that still read this board and I would really like to hear your thoughts on knowing when it's time to give it up and then getting over the hump of actually doing it. If anyone cares to PM I would appreciate it. Sorry to break up the fighting with my introspection. I'm just hoping some of you have been where I am and have figured things out that I don't know yet. Thanks for reading, and let the slugfest resume.Another said it. Anymore it feels as if you are just masterbating in a vagina. Just need to find the vagina that fills both mental and physical need. This is the reason for keep spreading your seed.
Another said it. Anymore it feels as if you are just masterbating in a vagina. Just need to find the vagina that fills both mental and physical need. This is the reason for keep spreading your seed.I'm sure amon777 has that same sentiment. Hahaha!
I'm sure amon777 has that same sentiment. Hahaha!There are exceptions, and he his one. He loves to spread his seed, blood and all. Forgot about him for a second.
3-Minute Passion
08-27-16, 00:36
Apologies in advance if this isn't the place for this. I saw a provider today and it dawned on me that each time they do this lately I like it less and less. Seems like everytime I go I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there. I leave and I ask myself if it's really worth it. This is my third year doing this and reality is rearing its ugly head; this lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone involved. I know there are guys that have retired that still read this board and I would really like to hear your thoughts on knowing when it's time to give it up and then getting over the hump of actually doing it. If anyone cares to PM I would appreciate it. Sorry to break up the fighting with my introspection. I'm just hoping some of you have been where I am and have figured things out that I don't know yet. Thanks for reading, and let the slugfest resume.I'm getting close to hanging it up. You look at the cash outlay, $100 to $160 a week typically, and ask yourself if it is really worth it. I'm not sure that it is. I have been cutting back lately. The feelings tend to ebb and flow, though, so like an addiction it is tough to quit cold turkey. Who knows. That might be the best way to do it, quit cold turkey. The interesting thing is that when I go on vacation and am away for a couple of weeks I find I really haven't missed the hobby. So the question is, why continue with something that is expensive when you really don't miss it. The $10,000 question.
Apologies in advance if this isn't the place for this. I saw a provider today and it dawned on me that each time they do this lately I like it less and less. Seems like everytime I go I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there. I leave and I ask myself if it's really worth it. This is my third year doing this and reality is rearing its ugly head; this lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone involved. I know there are guys that have retired that still read this board and I would really like to hear your thoughts on knowing n it's time to give it up and then getting over the hump of actually doing it. If anyone cares to PM I would appreciate it. Sorry to break up the fighting with my introspection. I'm just hoping some of you have been where I am and have figured things out that I don't know yet. Thanks for reading, and let the slugfest resume.I am glad you brought this up. I have the same feelings. For me, I just turned 60 yrs old. While I am in good physical shape, I still want to prove to myself that I can still get the JOB done, that I still have it. After I get the JOB done, I don't feel any better. Actually more like I just wasted $$ and I feel bad that I did. I am not married and I work a lot. I wonder if I am just really looking for company, or companionship more than trying to fulfill an urge. When the hour is up, its time to go back home, feeling empty. I think I am on top of hump, I just don't want to go over. Afraid of getting old. There I said it.
Resipsaloquito
08-27-16, 08:40
Apologies in advance if this isn't the place for this. I saw a provider today and it dawned on me that each time they do this lately I like it less and less. Seems like everytime I go I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there. I leave and I ask myself if it's really worth it. This is my third year doing this and reality is rearing its ugly head; this lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone involved. I know there are guys that have retired that still read this board and I would really like to hear your thoughts on knowing when it's time to give it up and then getting over the hump of actually doing it. If anyone cares to PM I would appreciate it. Sorry to break up the fighting with my introspection. I'm just hoping some of you have been where I am and have figured things out that I don't know yet. Thanks for reading, and let the slugfest resume.What we all seem to miss is some kinf of emotional connection. Lately I've gone the actual sugar daddy route and am really enjoying it. Real discussions of real life events, sometimes over great lunches, fine wine or a great dinner. It's made the hobby a lot more enjoyable again and without the fear of LEO involvement. Of course, its more expensive to do it right, but I am finding it worthwhile.
This hobby is too expensive to lose the fun.
John HandCock
08-27-16, 09:35
Apologies in advance if this isn't the place for this. I saw a provider today and it dawned on me that each time they do this lately I like it less and less. Seems like everytime I go I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there. I leave and I ask myself if it's really worth it. This is my third year doing this and reality is rearing its ugly head; this lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone involved. I know there are guys that have retired that still read this board and I would really like to hear your thoughts on knowing when it's time to give it up and then getting over the hump of actually doing it. If anyone cares to PM I would appreciate it. Sorry to break up the fighting with my introspection. I'm just hoping some of you have been where I am and have figured things out that I don't know yet. Thanks for reading, and let the slugfest resume.Sounds like you know the answer so why even ask it. Your the only one who knows whether its worth it for you or not.
Living in a town with 30,000 sex workers and the hobby being legal I got to say that a couple times a year I just get tired of pussy. I'm also getting older and while I like sex it's not the drive it once was. You said something in your post that would be worth contemplating. "I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there" when I go see one of my regulars there is a feeling of friendship, some of them are really nice chicks, but the feeling I'm mostly chasing is a superior blowjob. I know what you're talking about because I've been there in the past. I went through a difficult time years ago and I was fucking 3-4 chicks a day, it wasn't about sex, it was about something that was missing from my life and I was using sex to fill a different need. Addiction is never about the what, it's always about the why. If you're chasing something more than casual, available, sex then brother your idea about taking a pause and assessing is not the worst idea you have ever had.
I miss the intimacy of more traditional relationships at times but the truth is 3-6 months into every relationship I ever had the only thing I wanted was out so for me, until I find a woman that's looking for the same liberty in a committed relationship that I am overall I'm better (happier) doing what I'm doing. Nobody else can answer this for you, this is a road you need to walk alone and find out what's on it for you.
A2.
3-Minute Passion
08-27-16, 10:26
If you're chasing something more than casual, available, sex then brother your idea about taking a pause and assessing is not the worst idea you have ever had.
A2.That hits it on the head. Anytime there is confusion in this regard, sober up quickly. Men want sex, (these) women want money. Since sex, for most of us, is associated with passion, emotions, caring, etc. confusion can arise, for some. The impulse is to feel a connection with someone who has ABSOLUTELY no desire to reciprocate except to extract more money. Never forget this. Never be confused over this. NEVER.
Apologies in advance if this isn't the place for this. I saw a provider today and it dawned on me that each time they do this lately I like it less and less. Seems like everytime I go I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there. I leave and I ask myself if it's really worth it. This is my third year doing this and reality is rearing its ugly head; this lifestyle is not sustainable for anyone involved. I know there are guys that have retired that still read this board and I would really like to hear your thoughts on knowing when it's time to give it up and then getting over the hump of actually doing it. If anyone cares to PM I would appreciate it. Sorry to break up the fighting with my introspection. I'm just hoping some of you have been where I am and have figured things out that I don't know yet. Thanks for reading, and let the slugfest resume.I have been in the hobby over 20 years now even when I was married and got caught by my wife at the time. I agreed to go to therapy for my "sex addiction" to save my marriage. I always had great sex with my wife but after 15 years of marriage I guess I was getting bored and wanted something different. I was making a lot of money at the time and could afford to see escorts without hurting my family financially. I became what they call "master of the universe" where I thought I could do anything I wanted without regard to my wife or family. I quit the hobby during this time realizing how much I hurt my wife. We stayed married a few more years but it was never the same and we ended up getting divorced after the kids went to college. After a year I started dating and was in a serious relationship with a good woman who loved sex but she wanted to get married and I just wanted a female companion at my advanced age after going through two divorces in my life. I eventually returned to the hobby and I too have ask my self if it was worth it after seeing a so so provider where there wasn't chemistry but I have also been with fantastic providers who treat me like a boyfriend and I feel great after seeing them. The sex drive isn't as strong now but I still love pussy which is a natural normal feeling. It also is very healthy and theraputic for all human beings to enjoy sex. I love to feel all those chemicals going off in my head after a big O. This hobby isn't for everyone but for single men like me it provides me with female companionship once or twice a month with no strings attached which is what I want at this time in my life. I get my needs taken care of and the SP makes some money. Everybody wins!!
That hits it on the head. Anytime there is confusion in this regard, sober up quickly. Men want sex, (these) women want money. Since sex, for most of us, is associated with passion, emotions, caring, etc. confusion can arise, for some. The impulse is to feel a connection with someone who has ABSOLUTELY no desire to reciprocate except to extract more money. Never forget this. Never be confused over this. NEVER.From the perspective of a relative newbie to this, I have already been burned thinking that friendship is part of the deal. The best advice I have received so far from this board came from TapItnRun. His motto has served me well.
That hits it on the head. Anytime there is confusion in this regard, sober up quickly. Men want sex, (these) women want money. Since sex, for most of us, is associated with passion, emotions, caring, etc. confusion can arise, for some. The impulse is to feel a connection with someone who has ABSOLUTELY no desire to reciprocate except to extract more money. Never forget this. Never be confused over this. NEVER.This is all true, but I've noticed that often, unless a provider is a really good actress, I can't suspend my disbelief in the role she's playing, and that prevents me from enjoying my time with her. When I begin to think about how she's only doing it for money, doesn't like me, isn't turned on by me, etc. , it keeps me from getting turned on by her, too. A2's advice about taking a break has been useful to me in the past because, if nothing else, when I go without long enough, I'll wind up being too horny for my mind to wander off and start thing about all of that when I go and see a provider. At least an appointment or two will go OK before I'm back to being dissatisfied again.
Good Evening Are there ant adventurous AMP's in NkY still open. ?
Or Anywhere close Thanks Anyone have any information on GG /.
SimonPieMan
08-28-16, 19:39
The Gianna posts started in the Bakpage Reviews section of the forum. Since this isn't a review, I moved it here. I attended the Exxotica Expo at the Columbus Convention Center Saturday night. I too contacted Gianna's "assistant" via email. After the first return email confirming pricing, I replied I couldn't make it to Columbus. Her response was that Gianna was staying in Dayton. Uh, yeah. After the Ron Jeremy seminar about some of his experiences in the business, I started to mingle with the stars at the show. It was like any other trade show, only better. Way better. I had my picture taken with Gianna and mentioned that I saw her ad. She told me that I was the sixth person to tell her that. Guess what? She doesn't offer that kind of service. It really was a scam. The show was great with a whole slew of adult film performers. Chaturbate and My Free Cams were doing live web cams, you could buy every kind of sex toy imaginable and they even had a bar in the VIP area. Woke up Sunday wanting a massage. Contacted Britt for a Nuru. Review is in the Columbus forum. I'll be going next year.
SP.
Living in a town with 30,000 sex workers and the hobby being legal I got to say that a couple times a year I just get tired of pussy. I'm also getting older and while I like sex it's not the drive it once was. You said something in your post that would be worth contemplating. "I'm trying to chase a feeling that's no longer there" when I go see one of my regulars there is a feeling of friendship, some of them are really nice chicks, but the feeling I'm mostly chasing is a superior blowjob. I know what you're talking about because I've been there in the past. I went through a difficult time years ago and I was fucking 3-4 chicks a day, it wasn't about sex, it was about something that was missing from my life and I was using sex to fill a different need. Addiction is never about the what, it's always about the why. If you're chasing something more than casual, available, sex then brother your idea about taking a pause and assessing is not the worst idea you have ever had.
I miss the intimacy of more traditional relationships at times but the truth is 3-6 months into every relationship I ever had the only thing I wanted was out so for me, until I find a woman that's looking for the same liberty in a committed relationship that I am overall I'm better (happier) doing what I'm doing. Nobody else can answer this for you, this is a road you need to walk alone and find out what's on it for you.
A2.I want to publicly and humbly thank the seniors who PM'd and those of you who shared your perspectives and helpful input. I am at least taking a break, and walking away if I can. I don't know if I should be here reading or just stay away, but I will probably pop off from time to time despite my best intentions, but for now pay for play is out. Thanks to A2 and everyone who have been doing this and know better than me. In my 4th decade, I would at least like to say that I have learned to recognize good advice, and heed it. Thank you all again.
Craven Morehead
08-28-16, 23:11
After the Ron Jeremy seminar about some of his experiences in the business, I started to mingle with the stars at the show.
SP.Sorry to say this but Ron Jeremy looks old & past his prime. Do you think he has an illness?
SimonPieMan
08-29-16, 08:08
Sorry to say this but Ron Jeremy looks old & past his prime. Do you think he has an illness?He almost died from heart problems three years ago.
Happy Birthday Babe. I hope your day went well. Sorry about the cake, maybe next year. LOL.
MontyCliff
08-29-16, 20:00
I want to publicly and humbly thank the seniors who PM'd and those of you who shared your perspectives and helpful input. I am at least taking a break, and walking away if I can. I don't know if I should be here reading or just stay away, but I will probably pop off from time to time despite my best intentions, but for now pay for play is out. Thanks to A2 and everyone who have been doing this and know better than me. In my 4th decade, I would at least like to say that I have learned to recognize good advice, and heed it. Thank you all again.Whatever your decision, it's the right one.
LoveThyTitties
08-29-16, 20:43
Happy Birthday baby! See you soon!!
Lucky Luke
08-29-16, 23:18
"Living in a town with 30,000 sex workers and the hobby being legal "- This is what Admin quoted. Is this Thailand or some other place?
ChickaAmante
08-29-16, 23:50
It's known fact about A2 . This should be a qualifier question in the rules of the forum. I've had the pleasure of staying at Porto madero and visit a lot of these houses that has the best selection at very affordable prices. I was there for a month and felt physically weak on my flight back home. I don't know how A2 lives there. LOL.
"Living in a town with 30,000 sex workers and the hobby being legal "- This is what Admin quoted. Is this Thailand or some other place?
"I wonder if I am just really looking for company, or companionship more than trying to fulfill an urge. When the hour is up, its time to go back home, feeling empty. ".
About trying to find emotional connection from a provider. A good SP will be seeking a connection with you too, otherwise escorting will just be a miserable job. She will feel empty and it's ust a day to day means to an end. Besides being a good lover, a major component is compassion, empathy, kindness and love (not romantic love, but a love for other human beings). Some of the guys are only looking for a physical release, or don't feel comfortable letting their guards down.
My favorite part of providing is connecting with the guys I meet. That's what makes me happy, being kind, compassionate and empathetic. There's a real joy for me in serving people. I like it better than my job as a social worker, because I feel like I'm making more of a difference with escorting. The money is great! I'm doing well and I'm good at saving for retirement, but if I was self centered and selfish I'd dread escorting. Actually I was in Plymouth Mass heading to the Plymouth Plantation and I really hate doing this sort of stuff alone, so I called a few of my regulars to join me or to be my dinner companion. I wasn't looking for money, I was planning on paying for my own meal. Unfortunately the guy who wanted to go with me wasn't available for a few hours so I went alone. I am hanging out at the beach with Friday with a client of mine. I'm really looking forward to it! It's an escorting / vacation trip to the Cape.
Money isn't everything and it doesn't buy happiness. Either does consumerism.
Xoxo Debbie.
I'm new to USA but been around about a year. I've only seen a couple posts on me. I'm going threw a rough time and really need to get out there. First off if you have seen me please write a review if you haven't please consider it me and my family could use extra help and the way I see it little to no reviews is way better than bad ones so at least in a year I have 0 bad reviews lmao please guys write a few!
Velvet Rayne
09-01-16, 09:21
I want to thank everyone for their birthday wishes! Also the gifts I received thank you everyone so very much.
All most 2 weeks ago I lost about 85 percent of my clothing in a small fire at my house. I want to thank everyone for their caring, understanding, and kindness at that time. Thank you so much it reminds me why I really do enjoy what I do.
Hope to see you soon and PLEASE stay safe.
VR.
Member #5317
09-01-16, 09:57
"I wonder if I am just really looking for company, or companionship more than trying to fulfill an urge. When the hour is up, its time to go back home, feeling empty. ".
About trying to find emotional connection from a provider. A good SP will be seeking a connection with you too, otherwise escorting will just be a miserable job. She will feel empty and it's ust a day to day means to an end. Besides being a good lover, a major component is compassion, empathy, kindness and love (not romantic love, but a love for other human beings). Some of the guys are only looking for a physical release, or don't feel comfortable letting their guards down.
My favorite part of providing is connecting with the guys I meet. That's what makes me happy, being kind, compassionate and empathetic. There's a real joy for me in serving people. I like it better than my job as a social worker, because I feel like I'm making more of a difference with escorting. The money is great! I'm doing well and I'm good at saving for retirement, but if I was self centered and selfish I'd dread escorting. Actually I was in Plymouth Mass heading to the Plymouth Plantation and I really hate doing this sort of stuff alone, so I called a few of my regulars to join me or to be my dinner companion. I wasn't looking for money, I was planning on paying for my own meal. Unfortunately the guy who wanted to go with me wasn't available for a few hours so I went alone. I am hanging out at the beach with Friday with a client of mine. I'm really looking forward to it! It's an escorting / vacation trip to the Cape.
Money isn't everything and it doesn't buy happiness. Either does consumerism.
Xoxo Debbie.I appreciated your perspective as well as what others have shared on this topic. I have found myself asking the same questions and what started out as a quest to fulfill a lifetime of desired experiences it turns out that I have done all that I set out to do yet I keep looking for something more. It turns out just sharing of myself, being kind, compassionate and empathetic and getting to know others that are of the same emotional maturity level can be as rewarding and fulfilling as the other aspects. For me, I need more than a 'session'. I need to share myself in many ways and I enjoy when a SP does the same. Thanks to you and to all who chimed in on the matter.
While as most people do, I have my I-need-to-fuck-someone moments, overall I def need more than just sex. That's why I've found myself gravitating towards sugar babies. Many of them are just in it for the gold, but there are a few that aren't. And those are the treasures I'm finding most fulfilling. Harder to find, that's for sure, though.
I appreciated your perspective as well as what others have shared on this topic. I have found myself asking the same questions and what started out as a quest to fulfill a lifetime of desired experiences it turns out that I have done all that I set out to do yet I keep looking for something more. It turns out just sharing of myself, being kind, compassionate and empathetic and getting to know others that are of the same emotional maturity level can be as rewarding and fulfilling as the other aspects. For me, I need more than a 'session'. I need to share myself in many ways and I enjoy when a SP does the same. Thanks to you and to all who chimed in on the matter.
3-Minute Passion
09-01-16, 13:00
While as most people do, I have my I-need-to-fuck-someone moments, overall I def need more than just sex. That's why I've found myself gravitating towards sugar babies. Many of them are just in it for the gold, but there are a few that aren't. And those are the treasures I'm finding most fulfilling. Harder to find, that's for sure, though.Because I am looking for just the opposite. Don't want to hang out, as they love to put it. Want to get in, get out and have a nice quick visit. My experience with SBs is they want to hold themselves out as something more than they are, give the illusion of a relationship when, in fact, they are probably carrying on the same type of relationship with several other guys. If someone is looking for a relationship, they ought to do it the old fashioned way and just start dating someone, imo.
SBs provide the same services. The only difference is they want a premium to do so.
I agree that a lot of SBs hold themselves out as something more than just an escort. And I agree with you that a good number are two or three or even four timing their SDs. But not all.
In several years of playing in the sugar bowl, I've found a few here and there (like 3 or 4) that don't appear to be that way. It could be that I'm that naive but I've been invited into their personal lives, met their friends and family, etc. Iv'e gotten to know their stories pretty well.
That said, one never really knows. LOL.
Because I am looking for just the opposite. Don't want to hang out, as they love to put it. Want to get in, get out and have a nice quick visit. My experience with SBs is they want to hold themselves out as something more than they are, give the illusion of a relationship when, in fact, they are probably carrying on the same type of relationship with several other guys. If someone is looking for a relationship, they ought to do it the old fashioned way and just start dating someone, imo.
SBs provide the same services. The only difference is they want a premium to do so.
John HandCock
09-01-16, 18:25
I agree that a lot of SBs hold themselves out as something more than just an escort. And I agree with you that a good number are two or three or even four timing their SDs. But not all.
In several years of playing in the sugar bowl, I've found a few here and there (like 3 or 4) that don't appear to be that way. It could be that I'm that naive but I've been invited into their personal lives, met their friends and family, etc. Iv'e gotten to know their stories pretty well.
That said, one never really knows. LOL.Your right, there are girls who want only one. Most would prefer that if that one daddy can provide what they need. Most guys playing the bowl don't want that, they hit it 1-2 times and disappear so girls soon learn they need a rotation of their own for reliable income turning them into utr girls by my standards. A true sb for me has just one and removes her profile. If the profile is active then they are still in the game.
Yup, that's happened to me three times. In each case she removed her profile. At least hid it so I couldn't see it. (I think that the rules changed recently on how the hiding thing works.) In each case we ended up having a very nice time, personal as well as in bed. Available and willing and interested.
That said, quite hard to find!
Your right, there are girls who want only one. Most would prefer that if that one daddy can provide what they need. Most guys playing the bowl don't want that, they hit it 1-2 times and disappear so girls soon learn they need a rotation of their own for reliable income turning them into utr girls by my standards. A true sb for me has just one and removes her profile. If the profile is active then they are still in the game.
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