View Full Version : Alternate Sugar Sites: Secret Benefits, WYP, Etc. Not Seeking or SA
WanderingAbout
02-25-24, 15:37
Profile pictures are interesting and aren't bad on SB. It's the verification video that has prison beat you up man vibes. Watched that and went Pass. Why don't these girls take a moment to glam up a bit for these vids? Most of them don't and the ugly duckling vids destroy their chances in 3 seconds.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2872fa95d98ac67e
Profile pictures are interesting and aren't bad on SB. It's the verification video that has prison beat you up man vibes. Watched that and went Pass. Why don't these girls take a moment to glam up a bit for these vids? Most of them don't and the ugly duckling vids destroy their chances in 3 seconds.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2872fa95d98ac67eI've talked to a few girls about there verification videos and I think a lot don't know that we can see them. A few have told me they thought it was just for SB to confirm they're the ones in the photos and had no idea they were public.
Typically clean and nice profiles like this are scams so I tread slowly. Wanted to see if anyone had any intel?
Stated that she is in Monroe and recently moved from Fort Wayne hence the profile location is not updated. Yup. 100% BS candidate. LOL.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/y1WR8M2zJm64KBE5GPLe7j6K
Thanks.
Ob.Asked for deposit even when in initial convo I had made it clear that I don't need pay for MnG and advance.
Her reasoning was sound though. She only asked to make sure I was serious and not a cop.
LOL.
I wonder but then know so many people fall for these scams.
Ob.
WanderingAbout
02-27-24, 20:57
I've talked to a few girls about there verification videos and I think a lot don't know that we can see them. A few have told me they thought it was just for SB to confirm they're the ones in the photos and had no idea they were public.Thanks for sharing. May explain why a fair many of the girls SB verification videos are so butt ugly compared to their profile pictures.
Approached me first. I wasted credits on private pics and message. She only wants to chat on the phone. Don't waste your time guys.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c7b9c600278e55e7
I had quite a bit of luck 10 years ago on AM. Jumped back on a few months ago and it's been a complete waste of time. A lot of the real women get frightened by the deluge of messages they get and close their accounts pretty quickly. The fake profiles are pretty easy to pick out.Ashley Madison still works and is good for finding something specific: a discreet affair. But it's definitely work, and has gotten harder. No shortage of fake profiles, scammers, catfish, psychopaths and sugarbaby wannabes. 50 dudes for every girl. I'm still finding success though, and waaaay better sex than hookers. Just got to constantly keep at it. Chatting with a cute little red head from Eastside as we speak. Moved it over to KIK last week and hoping to have her lips on my cock next week.
TroublePlay
02-29-24, 12:43
Ashley Madison still works and is good for finding something specific: a discreet affair. But it's definitely work, and has gotten harder. No shortage of fake profiles, scammers, catfish, psychopaths and sugarbaby wannabes. 50 dudes for every girl. I'm still finding success though, and waaaay better sex than hookers. Just got to constantly keep at it. Chatting with a cute little red head from Eastside as we speak. Moved it over to KIK last week and hoping to have her lips on my cock next week.Is this P4 P or are they on there strictly for the thrill and the sex they are not getting at home?
Is this P4 P or are they on there strictly for the thrill and the sex they are not getting at home?It can be any or all of the above.
Just remember the story a few years ago that 95%+ of the female profiles were bots.
Is this P4 P or are they on there strictly for the thrill and the sex they are not getting at home?I've had many affairs / flings via AM over the last 4-5 years. Some short-lived, some years long, and have never paid for anything other than a place to fuck. Most of these woman, the legit ones, just want to fuck someone other than their husband or wife (I've had affairs with bi / lesbians too. Talk about cock worshippers).
WhereDreamsGo
03-01-24, 01:52
Anyone have any info on Kayley513, thanks!
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/ef388c9be4358d5dI have had some texts, but it tends to be sporadic. Part of that is my fault. She can't host, and I haven't been interested enough to try to set anything up otherwise, but I do believe she's real.
WhereDreamsGo
03-01-24, 02:01
As this thread has discussed SB seems to have its share of click bait profiles that get you to use your credits with no return. Many of these profiles have age of 18 and other tells like single picture, short description, etc. Lately, there seems to be an abundance of additional suspect profiles cycling through the Cincinnati listings then disappearing. Has this always been the case?I spent a fair amount of time and too much money on SB in recent months. I did find a few decent ones, but no one I wanted to see regularly in the end. I got to the point of almost never messaging one who hadn't messaged me, because it wasn't necessary. There were plenty of inbound messages, most of which I didn't open because it was obvious it would go nowhere. After a while, they all start seeming like the same girl. It's pretty clear they never read the profiles before they message, since I'm pretty clear that I'm not anyone's mentor and don't have any interest in dinner dates, shopping trips or travel. I mean, I love the ones in their 40's who still want mentors. Too late hon. And there's a fair amount of scamming, or attempted scamming, even among the real ones. I will just take my chances with honest to goodness hookers LOL.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/bfb2d23732f3559b
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/eb84af82a5e20964
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5570535636d3492b
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/cfa1fc1b86767cfc
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/8d93f60226e3260a
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5db9d52fe8299b23
Ones above never responded.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a4c7edf6f97f4f0b
This one responded a couple time long ago. But barely responded. And put no effort into response.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/bfb2d23732f3559b
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/eb84af82a5e20964
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5570535636d3492b
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/cfa1fc1b86767cfc
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/8d93f60226e3260a
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5db9d52fe8299b23
Ones above never responded.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a4c7edf6f97f4f0b
This one responded a couple time long ago. But barely responded. And put no effort into response.Kat is a real and a pro. She once had an ad on Tryst but it is gone now.
Hannah is also real. I have some PII but have never approached her due to distance.
Honey is real and has been reported on. She once had an add on Rub. She was reported as no FS and GPS. Her profile now shows her in LA.
BAM.
EndlessBanquet
03-08-24, 00:55
She is real but never met her. Anyone has any experiences to share?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/9a5b3e943d311037
Layingaround
03-08-24, 22:17
She is real but never met her. Anyone has any experiences to share?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/9a5b3e943d311037Been talking. Period. Sent nudes. Chubby. Nice tits. Fat pussy. Hoping to tap soon.
Layingaround
03-10-24, 22:20
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/e8878c16516929d5
I like the little skinny girls, because they usually have fat pussies. This one reached out. Had it all set up to fuck. Every time we connected to come over chief flaked on me I'm going with drugs due to how tiny she is and her heavily filtered pictures Good luck.
Layingaround
03-16-24, 09:38
Wants half up front. Dumb.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/f599a06752c168ce
Layingaround
03-17-24, 07:17
Anybody?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/83ae54d991fdfe22
https://tryst.link/escort/anneryder69
Offered a lot less than tryst ad.
BlindSquirrel
03-17-24, 07:45
Reached out to me via "Boosted. Message", so I figured I'd reply. She (or whoever) asked for money on the very first exchange. To be honest, I prefer the lazy scammers because they tend to waste less of my time. I kinda knew better because it was in the morning and we all know that most of these girls stay up late, then sleep in. But you've gotta admit, the pic of the dashboard low fuel warning was a nice touch, so not completely lazy but very well prepared.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/ef388c9be4358d5d
Reached out to me via "Boosted. Message", so I figured I'd reply. She (or whoever) asked for money on the very first exchange. To be honest, I prefer the lazy scammers because they tend to waste less of my time. I kinda knew better because it was in the morning and we all know that most of these girls stay up late, then sleep in. But you've gotta admit, the pic of the dashboard low fuel warning was a nice touch, so not completely lazy but very well prepared.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/ef388c9be4358d5dIf it is any consolation: she is real, married and living on the west side with two kids. SM pix hint at heavier than posted pix.
BAM.
Noticed she's been active on.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/f2a92df2ba33d8a6
Used to work under Savanna on listcrawler and skipthegames years ago. Anyone hit her up on here?
Reached out to me via "Boosted. Message", so I figured I'd reply. She (or whoever) asked for money on the very first exchange. To be honest, I prefer the lazy scammers because they tend to waste less of my time. I kinda knew better because it was in the morning and we all know that most of these girls stay up late, then sleep in. But you've gotta admit, the pic of the dashboard low fuel warning was a nice touch, so not completely lazy but very well prepared.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/ef388c9be4358d5dShe actually tried calling me a few times in the middle of text exchanges.
Pic she sent me of her dash was a different car with about the same mileage and a TPS warning along with a bank account snap showing less than a buck in the account.
BlindSquirrel
03-21-24, 16:41
She actually tried calling me a few times in the middle of text exchanges.
Pic she sent me of her dash was a different car with about the same mileage and a TPS warning along with a bank account snap showing less than a buck in the account.That sounds about right. She sent me the same pic 2 days in a row while asking for gas money. Then, when I called her out on it, she sent me a different one (similar mileage) the next day. You've got to admit, the bank account screenshot is a nice touch though.
Do any of these look familiar? It's a shame. BAM said she's at least real. And it looks like she's got a sweet Bush on her in some of the other pics she sent.
Cross-posting to help others avoid her.
Texts, will send video. Wants funds but refuses to meet. Avoid and stay safe.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/MrmO7PXVJeGdEyk0z6gWB8K1
Katie is real. I had a MnG scheduled but too many red flags sent my spidey sense tingling and I cancelled. Red flags: no car (stolen for real.) No job due to losing her car. Behind in her rent and facing eviction. Lives in East Price Hill. Claims to live alone but SM shows a current BF.
Her pics are real and she looks pretty hot but seems Nando1. Asks for 500 but will accept 300. The risk / reward ratio doesn't really work for me. I have PII for contributing seniors.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/93eb38736f7fc5b4
I have been reading a bunch of reddit forums and there are several SB's talking about finding SD's on Hinge. Has anyone tried it? The SA well is pretty dry IMHO.
Can anyone tell me anything about this one? Too pretty and young to accept $100 in my mind. Has to be fake.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/7GBPdRga0r9Wxy95Q2On6DwW
Can anyone tell me anything about this one? Too pretty and young to accept $100 in my mind. Has to be fake.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/7GBPdRga0r9Wxy95Q2On6DwWThe real Lanie Gardner is a Nashville based singer. Those are her pics from her Twitter account.
Looks like she's finally found SB.
She real, a bit high strung and fun.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4e56efdb9beee9d9
https://members.seeking.com/member/981f9c69-820e-4815-b128-29a0fdd98634
BaddenBoy2020
04-21-24, 23:37
Looks like she's finally found SB.
She real, a bit high strung and fun.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4e56efdb9beee9d9
https://members.seeking.com/member/981f9c69-820e-4815-b128-29a0fdd98634Nice! She looks great, what was the damage?
WanderingAbout
04-22-24, 19:13
Nice! She looks great, what was the damage?She's very nice. Yet flakey. Could ghost you one minute then go wild the next. Range 350-500 ppm. Varies with mood. Typical 4. Def a SBpro.
I am chatting with Bambi (Amber?) I know she has been around a long time but she just recently joined SB. I suspect she is a pro. Has anyone had any contact with her?
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/b8be5f817ac1a357
Contacted this one today. Seems real, not asking for anything up front, looking for something casual to help with bills, would prefer an allowance but may be flexible as I haven't got into all those details. Lives somewhere on the westside but I didn't ask where specifically. She's looking for something regular and sooner rather than later, and I'm only in Cincinnati every few weeks. I was just down from last Tuesday to yesterday and she just reached out to me today. Damn my luck.
If she's up your alley, she's ok with me sharing her contact information. I'm me if interested.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/XlOvwWa609PRV3q5ozpZgVeD
Bedtime Story
05-06-24, 20:23
I am chatting with Bambi (Amber?) I know she has been around a long time but she just recently joined SB. I suspect she is a pro. Has anyone had any contact with her?
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/b8be5f817ac1a357I didn't bite.
That sounds about right. She sent me the same pic 2 days in a row while asking for gas money. Then, when I called her out on it, she sent me a different one (similar mileage) the next day. You've got to admit, the bank account screenshot is a nice touch though.
Do any of these look familiar? It's a shame. BAM said she's at least real. And it looks like she's got a sweet Bush on her in some of the other pics she sent.She's sent me plenty of pics from her actual cell number and now four different Google Voice numbers.
I'm guessing she (or whomever) hasn't caught on to the idea that you can tell when its a GV number and that "her phone acting up and killing the little card inside" won't break a GV number.
WanderingAbout
05-09-24, 12:16
She blind messaged. Didn't reply. You can show an imax movie on her forehead.
I am chatting with Bambi (Amber?) I know she has been around a long time but she just recently joined SB. I suspect she is a pro. Has anyone had any contact with her?
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/b8be5f817ac1a357
She blind messaged. Didn't reply. You can show an imax movie on her forehead.That's a fivehead.
She blind messaged. Didn't reply. You can show an imax movie on her forehead.LOL! I think it actually qualifies as a FIVE-head.
BAM.
Member #6847
05-09-24, 14:57
LOL! I think it actually qualifies as a FIVE-head.
BAM.Is that Matt Gaetz's sister?
Is that Matt Gaetz's sister?Matt Gaetz had the bolts on his neck removed. Maybe she's The Bride of Matt Gaetz.
Member #6847
05-09-24, 18:23
Matt Gaetz had the bolts on his neck removed. Maybe she's The Bride of Matt Gaetz.Supposedly, Gaetz only likes jailbait. Someone call Chris Hansen.
WanderingAbout
05-14-24, 18:11
The volume of pop-in pop-out, here now gone tomorrow, where did you come from where did you go, now I see you now I don't, never seen you before oops gone, could this be true not true, real not real profiles as of late on SB is overwhelming.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/lqwMzODaAPjObR35vyV3b61r
Started a conversation with WittyAngel on the site that went quickly to text. Extra pics sent looked really hot. Wanted to meet that night. First red flag. Wanted a percentage upfront via cashapp which was $120. Second red flag. Was really pushing. Even lowered her percentage some to entice me to meet rhird red flag.
Meeting her for lunch for a meet & greet. Will see how that goes. I was hoping to see if any of you crossed paths with her.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/lqwMzODaAPjObR35vyV3b61r
Started a conversation with WittyAngel on the site that went quickly to text. Extra pics sent looked really hot. Wanted to meet that night. First red flag. Wanted a percentage upfront via cashapp which was $120. Second red flag. Was really pushing. Even lowered her percentage some to entice me to meet rhird red flag.
Meeting her for lunch for a meet & greet. Will see how that goes. I was hoping to see if any of you crossed paths with her.You already got three red flags. Why waste more time?? In any case, that picture is all over the place. She's cute; too bad she lives in the Netherlands:
https://www.instagram.com/romyindyvanklei/?hl=en
Whoever shows up at your MnG, it will not be the girl in the picture.
BAM.
BAM. Thanks so much. Your amazing. I did a tineye search but nothing came up. Not sure how you found her on Instagram, but at any rate I need to do more research. Just ate up some more credits on WYP.
Thanks again.
You already got three red flags. Why waste more time?? In any case, that picture is all over the place. She's cute; too bad she lives in the Netherlands:
https://www.instagram.com/romyindyvanklei/?hl=en
Whoever shows up at your MnG, it will not be the girl in the picture.
BAM.
Or you could refer to it as just another turn of the annual monetary cycle.
DeenaD513.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/ec141a7a50176597
You already got three red flags. Why waste more time?? In any case, that picture is all over the place. She's cute; too bad she lives in the Netherlands:
https://www.instagram.com/romyindyvanklei/?hl=en
Whoever shows up at your MnG, it will not be the girl in the picture.
BAM.The pics are of porn star Romy Indy. I would not go to the meet and greet. It may be a set up.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/0ea1c467b6acd98a
Met up with Angel. She is slimmer than the pics but body is nice, especially that ass. Communications were good and she kept me updated while traveling to me. She had a baby about a month ago and shows a slight bump and still producing milk. Non rushed BBBJ and CFS. Menu is pretty open. PM if you have any questions. I am not at liberty to share digits but she was responsive when I hit her on the site before moving to text.
This one seems eager to meet and claims to be able to host.
I'm guessing she's short on rent this month or planning to take a trip.
Anyone have any experience?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/459b8d37aeeb3db2
https://members.seeking.com/member/595f6570-4452-4ed9-a3ec-007cb61604f3
This one seems eager to meet and claims to be able to host.
I'm guessing she's short on rent this month or planning to take a trip.
Anyone have any experience?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/459b8d37aeeb3db2
https://members.seeking.com/member/595f6570-4452-4ed9-a3ec-007cb61604f3She is definitely good Togo. Nice ass. Small tits. Likes a good hard pounding.
BlindSquirrel
05-23-24, 14:24
Kdbaby07 on SB. Can't find anything on here, maybe she uses another name? Anybody know her? She goes by Alyssa.
Message a couple of times. She just gave her number to start texting. Anyone have history with her?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/83ae54d991fdfe22
Message a couple of times. She just gave her number to start texting. Anyone have history with her?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/83ae54d991fdfe22She's a pro. She has an ad on Tryst.
https://tryst.link/escort/anneryder69
Message a couple of times. She just gave her number to start texting. Anyone have history with her?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/83ae54d991fdfe22Comes and goes at random, never discussed an amount.
You'll also find her on Tryst as Anne Ryder (if I got the last name right).
Todd Cincy
05-24-24, 19:35
She messaged me on Seeking months ago, the last time I had a membership. I politely declined.
I've seen her Tryst ad, too.
https://tryst.link/escort/anneryder69
My problems with her:
-She's moderately obese.
-She's not young (31).
-She's asking for $500.
-And now we learn that she's a bad communicator, too.
Hard pass.
Member #6847
05-24-24, 20:12
That's a $200 girl asking for $500. LOL.
She messaged me on Seeking months ago, the last time I had a membership. I politely declined.
I've seen her Tryst ad, too.
https://tryst.link/escort/anneryder69
My problems with her:
-She's moderately obese.
-She's not young (31).
-She's asking for $500.
-And now we learn that she's a bad communicator, too.
Hard pass.
JJSlim,
My apologies: I accidentally deleted your post about Emma. I was trying to hit Reply. I think there are multiple girls on there just panning for gold. They don't really find anything but tell themselves it can't hurt to ask.
BAM.
NP Bam. If someone searches her name they will see that she expects $$ for a meet and greet which she describes as ppm.
JJSlim,
My apologies: I accidentally deleted your post about Emma. I was trying to hit Reply. I think there are multiple girls on there just panning for gold. They don't really find anything but tell themselves it can't hurt to ask.
BAM.
I just got a message form this one. She looks like a pro. Anyone have info before I waste my credits?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/8d7e7abe7232a6e1
There has been a little discussion on her in the past and yes I've read the reports about using the same pic twice and things of that nature. My question is this. Are any of you currently talking to her. By talking, I mean seeing her in person and building a relationship. Or has anyone met her for a private visit, even if it was just once. I'm not interested in things prior to April. Just curious how active she currently is. She has done somethings that go beyond a little picture deception. I'd be cautious for sure if you see her. Feel free to pm with any past or current things that may help shed some light on who she really is.
Thanks in advance.
Smokey Gringo
06-02-24, 23:35
Found on Whatsyourprice.
At least I think that's how you spell it before she blocked me or I blocked her. So I don't have a link. Been branching out, so more profiles will come in the next days.
A couple of okay filtered pics but her legs in fishnets to help you reference. She's real. And at one time when heavier (weirdly enough) attractive, but now is super deflated and gross. Doesn't look bad clothed, but she got naked while I was talking and pouring wine and it was gross. Probably the closest to Arby's roast beef I've ever seen.
Save your credits. You don't want none of that.
I have PII for senior members to make sure it doesn't happen to you.
Smokey Gringo
06-03-24, 00:03
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/RzkMQOgW0NrBwla0o9VYeXb7
Got a great body though and has confidence and was super close mileage wise, but a compete waste of time. You'll lose your credits. Tried to meet up but ghosted both times.
There has been a little discussion on her in the past and yes I've read the reports about using the same pic twice and things of that nature. My question is this. Are any of you currently talking to her. By talking, I mean seeing her in person and building a relationship. Or has anyone met her for a private visit, even if it was just once. I'm not interested in things prior to April. Just curious how active she currently is. She has done somethings that go beyond a little picture deception. I'd be cautious for sure if you see her. Feel free to pm with any past or current things that may help shed some light on who she really is.
Thanks in advance.She's on her 4th phone number now.
1st one was her actual cell and she (or whoever is running this) screwed up by sending a CashApp link tied to her phone with her real name.
2nd one was a GV after asking for money to pay her phone bill (the first number was one of the Fed free pre-paid low income).
3rd was a textNow number which came out of the blue, then she was back to the actual cell.
4th this one is a an actual Verizon owned number, she just flipped to that on May 8.
All along the way she's sent all kinds of pics, based on the appearance in what she texts those see to be 2-3 years out of date if you compare them to her verification video and other pics on SB.
One of the more interesting sets she's got a baby Glock in the waistband in the front of her shorts, butt pic you can see it under her shirt and in another pic there's the Glock, what might be a 1911 and a crack pipe of the table behind her.
She can spin a good story, wants to meet and ghosts (which hey if I give her the benefit of the doubt she got a fish with a higher offer).
At this point my take is that she's a low volume UTR that meets when she needs the cash and day to day nickels and dimes multiple guys for gas, "no food" I'm starving, etc.
I have not met her but the frequent requests for information remind me of another important rule in the sugar bowl. Never fall in love! Any time you catch yourself worrying about who else she might be seeing; or, is she telling me truth about this or that; or, does she really care for me? Any of those is a Triple Red Flag! You should back away slowly and find some others to go see.
I know, from hard won experience, that when you are new it is easy to be overwhelmed with feelings at doing some hot young chick. That makes you vulnerable and you WILL pay eventually. I am not suggesting that anyone treat any woman badly. Just exercise some caution and detachment. I have known some SB's for a year, two years or more who seem like the girl next door. Then suddenly they fall off a cliff in one manner or another.
That's why the rule exists.
All marriages eventually end in death or divorce. Most relationships fare worse. Sugar relationships are at the bottom of the scale. Just DON'T do it!
BAM
She's on her 4th phone number now.
She can spin a good story, wants to meet and ghosts (which hey if I give her the benefit of the doubt she got a fish with a higher offer).
At this point my take is that she's a low volume UTR that meets when she needs the cash and day to day nickels and dimes multiple guys for gas, "no food" I'm starving, etc.
There has been a little discussion on her in the past and yes I've read the reports about using the same pic twice and things of that nature. My question is this. Are any of you currently talking to her. By talking, I mean seeing her in person and building a relationship. Or has anyone met her for a private visit, even if it was just once. I'm not interested in things prior to April. Just curious how active she currently is. She has done somethings that go beyond a little picture deception. I'd be cautious for sure if you see her. Feel free to pm with any past or current things that may help shed some light on who she really is.
Thanks in advance.Do you have a link or pic?
Do you have a link or pic?https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/ef388c9be4358d5d
I have not met her but the frequent requests for information remind me of another important rule in the sugar bowl. Never fall in love! Any time you catch yourself worrying about who else she might be seeing; or, is she telling me truth about this or that; or, does she really care for me? Any of those is a Triple Red Flag! You should back away slowly and find some others to go see.
I know, from hard won experience, that when you are new it is easy to be overwhelmed with feelings at doing some hot young chick. That makes you vulnerable and you WILL pay eventually. I am not suggesting that anyone treat any woman badly. Just exercise some caution and detachment. I have known some SB's for a year, two years or more who seem like the girl next door. Then suddenly they fall off a cliff in one manner or another.
That's why the rule exists.
All marriages eventually end in death or divorce. Most relationships fare worse. Sugar relationships are at the bottom of the scale. Just DON'T do it!
BAMI saw it a lot back in my hobby days, guy starts doing a young hottie that doesn't say no, let's you CIM, maybe swallows and suddenly the little head starts having a say in everything.
If you can't separate play from real world you start getting protective because they're younger, and "don't have a whole lot", etc.
Next thing you know all of the bad parts of a GF relationship start to come out, at that point your choice is to see someone else a few times or end it to break the connection, otherwise you're screwed unless you set up something exclusive with fixed consequences if she strays.
Even then, there have been way too many stories in the news about letting one move in to your place and then not being able to get them out without starting eviction proceedings.
Even then, there have been way too many stories in the news about letting one move in to your place and then not being able to get them out without starting eviction proceedings.Or facing DNA tests and child support.
BAM.
Here is something interesting. Honey_498 joined several months ago but did not seem very active. I got a weak link to a linked-in profile of a Dayton Graphic Designer. Nothing more so I ignored her.
Yesterday, a new profile, Honey4000, was posted using mostly the same pictures and details. On a whim, I sent a message. She denied having more than one profile. I am getting an odd but not scammer or pro vibe. Has anyone else been in touch?
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/590f401583b07955 Honey_944.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/1b04cd80df350f76 Honey4000.
WanderingAbout
06-05-24, 20:41
Here is something interesting. Honey_944 joined several months ago but did not seem very active. I got a weak link to a linked-in profile of a Dayton Graphic Designer. Nothing more so I ignored her. Yesterday, a new profile, Honey4000, was posted using mostly the same pictures and details. On a whim, I sent a message. She denied having more than one profile. I am getting an odd but not scammer or pro vibe. Has anyone else been in touch? BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/590f401583b07955 Honey_944.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/1b04cd80df350f76 Honey4000.
Both profiles are active as in someone was logged in and trigger the online profile icon. She messaged a while back out of blue. Didn't reply. At the time, not enough verified other interests to spur the purchase of credits to message anyone let alone a single person.
Here is something interesting. Honey_498 joined several months ago but did not seem very active. I got a weak link to a linked-in profile of a Dayton Graphic Designer. Nothing more so I ignored her.
Yesterday, a new profile, Honey4000, was posted using mostly the same pictures and details. On a whim, I sent a message. She denied having more than one profile. I am getting an odd but not scammer or pro vibe. Has anyone else been in touch?
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/590f401583b07955 Honey_944.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/1b04cd80df350f76 Honey4000.I traded messages with her a while back, she was looking for online "for a month or so", then platonic only.
My guess is that she'll flesh out the 2nd profile differently to see if she gets more bites.
Online with both at the same time means "she's" either using a phone for one profile and a PC for another or 2 different browsers on the same device.
Todd Cincy
06-05-24, 21:28
I have not met her but the frequent requests for information remind me of another important rule in the sugar bowl. Never fall in love! Any time you catch yourself worrying about who else she might be seeing; or, is she telling me truth about this or that; or, does she really care for me? Any of those is a Triple Red Flag! You should back away slowly and find some others to go see.
I know, from hard won experience, that when you are new it is easy to be overwhelmed with feelings at doing some hot young chick. That makes you vulnerable and you WILL pay eventually. I am not suggesting that anyone treat any woman badly. Just exercise some caution and detachment. I have known some SB's for a year, two years or more who seem like the girl next door. Then suddenly they fall off a cliff in one manner or another.
That's why the rule exists.
All marriages eventually end in death or divorce. Most relationships fare worse. Sugar relationships are at the bottom of the scale. Just DON'T do it!
BAMConfession time:
Early in my sugar daddy career, I met a 24-year-old single mom whom I thought was "the girl next door". I was in my mid-40's at the time.
She came over and did the deed for free, which bolstered my ego, and created the impression that it was a "real" relationship. And I wanted to believe!
Then she asked me for "help" with expenses. Over a few months, she got about $5 K out of me. But I thought I'd found the girl of my dreams.
Now I know better. Any relationship that begins with you handing a woman benjamins probably has limited potential.
It is difficult to draw the line sometimes. I still occasionally see the daughter of a girl I dated in college, back in the 1980's (long story). Think I have a hard time establishing boundaries there? You bet.
But I know that the daughter (whom I met on Seeking) is not the mother. I never paid the mother cash to hang out. I've given the daughter several thousands over the years. Therein lies the difference.
Confession time:
Early in my sugar daddy career, I met a 24-year-old single mom whom I thought was "the girl next door". I was in my mid-40's at the time.
She came over and did the deed for free, which bolstered my ego, and created the impression that it was a "real" relationship. And I wanted to believe!
Then she asked me for "help" with expenses. Over a few months, she got about $5 K out of me. But I thought I'd found the girl of my dreams.
Now I know better. Any relationship that begins with you handing a woman benjamins probably has limited potential.
It is difficult to draw the line sometimes. I still occasionally see the daughter of a girl I dated in college, back in the 1980's (long story). Think I have a hard time establishing boundaries there? You bet.
But I know that the daughter (whom I met on Seeking) is not the mother. I never paid the mother cash to hang out. I've given the daughter several thousands over the years. Therein lies the difference.Some guys work it out in their minds that they are just helping out a friend that they just happen to give money to every time they see them and hookup, they're not paying a hooker, she's not working a bar or a corner. It gets more convoluted it you put them on an allowance, because you gave her cash last week and hooked up, this week you hooked up and didn't give her anything so she's not a hooker. Then there's the other spin where you aren't paying an allowance, or PPM, you're taking care of certain bills and you're hooking up, so she's not a hooker.
Then there's the girl's logic.
I want an allowance because PPM is transactional and I feel like I'm getting paid to hookup which would make me a hooker, but I'm not.
Or he's just a friend that helps me with cash or he covers some bills and we hang out together which usually means we hookup, I'm not a hooker.
If I hookup with 3 or 4 different random guys a month I'm would be a sl_t, but if I have a bf and a SD or SDs, I'm not because those are "relationships".
In the hobby, you book an appointment or "date", fully accept that you're paying for it and call it a day.
Some guys work it out in their minds that they are just helping out a friend that they just happen to give money to every time they see them and hookup, they're not paying a hooker, she's not working a bar or a corner. It gets more convoluted it you put them on an allowance, because you gave her cash last week and hooked up, this week you hooked up and didn't give her anything so she's not a hooker. Then there's the other spin where you aren't paying an allowance, or PPM, you're taking care of certain bills and you're hooking up, so she's not a hooker.
Then there's the girl's logic.
I want an allowance because PPM is transactional and I feel like I'm getting paid to hookup which would make me a hooker, but I'm not.
Or he's just a friend that helps me with cash or he covers some bills and we hang out together which usually means we hookup, I'm not a hooker.
If I hookup with 3 or 4 different random guys a month I'm would be a sl_t, but if I have a bf and a SD or SDs, I'm not because those are "relationships".
In the hobby, you book an appointment or "date", fully accept that you're paying for it and call it a day.There's a few I have from the past that have morphed from PPM to taking them out for dinner / drinks and they rarely ask for anything else. If they do ask for something, it's usually help paying a bill. I'll do it to keep the connection there. Kind of like paying an attorney a retainer. It doesn't cost me much, maybe $50 or $100 here and there. They are working but may need help with an Uber to / from work. They don't have a car and don't work where public transportation goes, and Ubers can be expensive. So the hookup may or may not involve PPM. But it keeps the door open for future visits. I guess YMMV.
WanderingAbout
06-07-24, 12:43
Ditto to the below. Plus, have several former SBs who morphed into friends only, got married, moved into a different life outside the sugar bowl, and we are still connected years later. Just not sugaring. YMMV.
There's a few I have from the past that have morphed from PPM to taking them out for dinner / drinks and they rarely ask for anything else. If they do ask for something, it's usually help paying a bill. I'll do it to keep the connection there. Kind of like paying an attorney a retainer. It doesn't cost me much, maybe $50 or $100 here and there. They are working but may need help with an Uber to / from work. They don't have a car and don't work where public transportation goes, and Ubers can be expensive. So the hookup may or may not involve PPM. But it keeps the door open for future visits. I guess YMMV.
Member #6808
06-07-24, 13:24
This is easy.
I have had I don't know how many women from these sites drop the L bomb on me.
L bomb at worst, wanting to hang out more often or more seriously at best.
I tell them early on, if I think I'm going to be seeing them more than once, or if they hint at anything other than pay for play:
"As long as there is money involved, I will not believe or trust a single thing you say. I am not trying to be rude, just factual and realistic. As long as money is involved, this is 100% emotionless fun for me. I have no feelings for you, nor should you for me. This is a fun-business relationship only."
If you can keep that mindset, you're golden. If you can ignore all their manipulation and bullshit, and always stand by that belief, you'll be fine.
You will have women that want to twist that logic. "I do have feelings for you, but I'm also broke and need to pay these bills. It doesn't mean I don't have feelings for you."
Counter with:
"As long as there is money involved, I will not believe or trust a single thing you say. I am not trying to be rude, just factual and realistic. As long as money is involved, this is 100% emotionless fun for me. I have no feelings for you, nor should you for me. This is a fun-business relationship only."
The experienced ones, the street-savvy ones will play you like a fiddle. They know exactly what to say to pull your heartstrings. Do not succumb to their bullshit.
Also, most of us are middle-aged or worse.
Most of us like hot 20 somethings.
We have nothing in common with them. They live on a different planet.
They're fun to sleep with, but you just try to live in their world. It's exhausting.
And, when they try to live in your world (either as an escape or an experiment) they will be quickly bored to tears.
In other words, the moment it's "real" it's already over.
These are my experiences and not necessarily yours.
This is easy.
I have had I don't know how many women from these sites drop the L bomb on me.
L bomb at worst, wanting to hang out more often or more seriously at best.
I tell them early on, if I think I'm going to be seeing them more than once, or if they hint at anything other than pay for play:
"As long as there is money involved, I will not believe or trust a single thing you say. I am not trying to be rude, just factual and realistic. As long as money is involved, this is 100% emotionless fun for me. I have no feelings for you, nor should you for me. This is a fun-business relationship only."
If you can keep that mindset, you're golden. If you can ignore all their manipulation and bullshit, and always stand by that belief, you'll be fine.
You will have women that want to twist that logic. "I do have feelings for you, but I'm also broke and need to pay these bills. It doesn't mean I don't have feelings for you."
Counter with:
"As long as there is money involved, I will not believe or trust a single thing you say. I am not trying to be rude, just factual and realistic. As long as money is involved, this is 100% emotionless fun for me. I have no feelings for you, nor should you for me. This is a fun-business relationship only."
The experienced ones, the street-savvy ones will play you like a fiddle. They know exactly what to say to pull your heartstrings. Do not succumb to their bullshit.
Also, most of us are middle-aged or worse.
Most of us like hot 20 somethings.
We have nothing in common with them. They live on a different planet.
They're fun to sleep with, but you just try to live in their world. It's exhausting.
And, when they try to live in your world (either as an escape or an experiment) they will be quickly bored to tears.
In other words, the moment it's "real" it's already over.
These are my experiences and not necessarily yours.I had one, a freshman at UC drop the L bomb on me. I just told her not to say that. She knew our agreement, but I think she was just young, immature and impressionable.
I also encouraged her to have a 'normal' college experience. Our arrangement ended when she started dating someone, even though her bio said she was into open relationships. I just told her to be careful.
Sadly as it turns out, he verbally abused her and not sure if there was anything physical.
I had one, a freshman at UC drop the L bomb on me. I just told her not to say that. She knew our agreement, but I think she was just young, immature and impressionable.
I also encouraged her to have a 'normal' college experience. Our arrangement ended when she started dating someone, even though her bio said she was into open relationships. I just told her to be careful.
Sadly as it turns out, he verbally abused her and not sure if there was anything physical.They're young, immature and some have to rationalize having sex with a guy is because they love them not because they're getting paid.
Smokey Gringo
06-16-24, 18:44
What's Your Price is a joke. Expensive and so many fake profiles and bullshit. And if anybody is thinking of join it, DON'T.
Cross-posting from another thread.
https://escortalligator.com.listcraw...nati/171646180
I have never seen her, but she also advertises on SecretBenefits.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/aa3d54ce94091ed4BAM.
There has been a little discussion on her in the past and yes I've read the reports about using the same pic twice and things of that nature. My question is this. Are any of you currently talking to her. By talking, I mean seeing her in person and building a relationship. Or has anyone met her for a private visit, even if it was just once. I'm not interested in things prior to April. Just curious how active she currently is. She has done somethings that go beyond a little picture deception. I'd be cautious for sure if you see her. Feel free to pm with any past or current things that may help shed some light on who she really is.
Thanks in advance.https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/40b75743d509c3f5 popped up this morning.
Her original one showed WVa until yesterday when it got changed to Cinci.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/40b75743d509c3f5 popped up this morning.
Her original one showed WVa until yesterday when it got changed to Cinci.I have her PII and it may be that she was visiting WVA and just returned to Cinti. In any case, I suspect her pictures are old. All her SM tends to be out of date. Both of her profiles are still active.
BAM
What's Your Price is a joke. Expensive and so many fake profiles and bullshit. And if anybody is thinking of join it, DON'T.I've heard the same, but the 3 that intrigue me to possibly buy in are:
Tay Baby (got info from BAM so I trust is, and have her SM, but she hasn't been active since April 3rd and looking at her FB she's a bit ghetto for me, but she can be that all she wants on her knees if I could get her number, but currently not enough to get me to buy in):
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/8qVmx7XNJVK1Qa95KyPw3dg1
AmorJade (who I've seen on seeking, latest pics seem less interesting that what I first saw, and again in itself isn't enough to warrant buy-in but would love her number):
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/PVaoGNqxp5aDjB4JLX4YE23b
BellMB / Mbaby21 (seen on seeking and had a monger reach out saying pics are old but I'm a sucker for a train wreck):
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/VXbpEGOPJoNxdMZAMDkxoB1a
I've heard the same, but the 3 that intrigue me to possibly buy in are:
Tay Baby (got info from BAM so I trust is, and have her SM, but she hasn't been active since April 3rd and looking at her FB she's a bit ghetto for me, but she can be that all she wants on her knees if I could get her number, but currently not enough to get me to buy in):
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/8qVmx7XNJVK1Qa95KyPw3dg1
AmorJade (who I've seen on seeking, latest pics seem less interesting that what I first saw, and again in itself isn't enough to warrant buy-in but would love her number):
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/PVaoGNqxp5aDjB4JLX4YE23b
BellMB / Mbaby21 (seen on seeking and had a monger reach out saying pics are old but I'm a sucker for a train wreck):
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/VXbpEGOPJoNxdMZAMDkxoB1aI've had Mbaby's number before, she talked to me for quite a bit but just went MIA before we could meet, didn't ask for money or anything tho.
This one is eager to meet, took me to text within the first few DMs.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c8926b2aca675b95
I'm guessing she needs fast cash "Time is of the essence".
Smokey Gringo
06-25-24, 09:23
This one is eager to meet, took me to text within the first few DMs.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c8926b2aca675b95
I'm guessing she needs fast cash "Time is of the essence".So much of the essence her profile is gonnnnnne.
This one is eager to meet, took me to text within the first few DMs.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c8926b2aca675b95
I'm guessing she needs fast cash "Time is of the essence".She is doing the same with me. While we were chatting on the site she mentioned needing me to respect her boundaries. When I asked what they were, she immediately took me to text.
She got nuked from the site. All my messages with her are also gone. I am suspecting a scam of some sort but we are still chatting by text (voip number., no PII.)
BAM
She is doing the same with me. While we were chatting on the site she mentioned needing me to respect her boundaries. When I asked what they were, she immediately took me to text.
She got nuked from the site. All my messages with her are also gone. I am suspecting a scam of some sort but we are still chatting by text (voip number., no PII.)
BAMhttps://members.seeking.com/member/c70b7448-e393-4ee2-8697-a463a8b4c9c2
She is doing the same with me. While we were chatting on the site she mentioned needing me to respect her boundaries. When I asked what they were, she immediately took me to text.
She got nuked from the site. All my messages with her are also gone. I am suspecting a scam of some sort but we are still chatting by text (voip number., no PII.)
BAMYou think when she nods up and down, that chin affects the tides?
You think when she nods up and down, that chin affects the tides?Not sure about the tides but there is a distinct risk that she could get stabby with it.
I am chatting with this one. I am seeing some red flags. First, she lives near Lima not Dayton. Second, she seems too eager. She offered to drive two hours to me - - for my normal allowance and seems willing to forgo the MnG. She has sexy secret pictures but the whole thing feels TGTBT. She is offering to do a MnG this Friday near Dayton.
BAM
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/70a1e48431726855
I am chatting with this one. I am seeing some red flags. First, she lives near Lima not Dayton. Second, she seems too eager. She offered to drive two hours to me - - for my normal allowance and seems willing to forgo the MnG. She has sexy secret pictures but the whole thing feels TGTBT. She is offering to do a MnG this Friday near Dayton.
BAM
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/70a1e48431726855She is already on her second profile. She added a third 'u'. When I said I do not offer money at the MnG greet, she ghosted.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/25fb7db7e3dd3e10
BAM
Sweetperfection.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3956431d-3d63-41b5-9f05-a9118f75d70c
AJane12.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/ff4f8e87fc6fb4e8
Anyone chatted with this one?
Claims to be new to the whole scene, SA profile is from 10/2023.
This one got me to waste credits. I did not find her IRL PII but she is all over the internet as Ang3 lbunn3. Her OF account said she is only 1 mile from me. I guess I should not have trusted that. In any case, I bought her secret pics - - a complete waste and then paid to read her message. She was all eager but wanted to go straight to Telegram. When I suggested texting instead, she ghosted. Don't waste your credits.
BAM
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2e3454f731e70d9c
Sweetperfection.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3956431d-3d63-41b5-9f05-a9118f75d70c
AJane12.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/ff4f8e87fc6fb4e8
Anyone chatted with this one?
Claims to be new to the whole scene, SA profile is from 10/2023.Ghosted on the MnG.
Constant texts all the way up to "I should be there in 5 minutes".
Ghosted on the MnG.
Constant texts all the way up to "I should be there in 5 minutes".I wonder why they do that. Are they just toying with us? AJane12 seems to be too old to be playing such games. Is it a sudden panic attack in the parking lot? Didn't like what she saw when walking in?
Has anybody ever gotten an explanation?
BAM.
Member #6847
06-30-24, 13:04
I wonder why they do that. Are they just toying with us? AJane12 seems to be too old to be playing such games. Is it a sudden panic attack in the parking lot? Didn't like what she saw when walking in?
Has anybody ever gotten an explanation?
BAM.Because they're garbage people. It's not hard to send a cancelation text. What's funny is when they want to reschedule after ghosting you. Don't ever agree to that.
Because they're garbage people. It's not hard to send a cancelation text. What's funny is when they want to reschedule after ghosting you. Don't ever agree to that.And its right up there with them using pics that are 10 years old or being 38 and claiming in their profile to be 25.
"Can I / we get somebody to drive x number of miles to meet".
Evidently it isn't only the ladies that do this to the guys, it also goes the other way.
I had a long term a couple of years ago that complained about it happening to both her and a friend of hers that was on SA.
It's a little power trip for some people.
This one got me to waste credits. I did not find her IRL PII but she is all over the internet as Ang3 lbunn3. Her OF account said she is only 1 mile from me. I guess I should not have trusted that. In any case, I bought her secret pics - - a complete waste and then paid to read her message. She was all eager but wanted to go straight to Telegram. When I suggested texting instead, she ghosted. Don't waste your credits.
BAM
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2e3454f731e70d9cShe's hot but personally I found this funny: "Looking for a man that can help me, While im in college".
Grammar / punctuation sucks; don't think college will do this one much good LOL.
But, with a face like that who needs an education? She just has to get on her knees and smile like a donut and life will come to her on a silver platter.
Ghosted on the MnG.
Constant texts all the way up to "I should be there in 5 minutes".WYP now also.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/8DrBaQ1bJ69OkR2A2kXOyeMz
I haven't had much success with WYP, but I occasionally buy $50 credits to try to communicate with someone who appears to be real.
Someone sent me a request to make an offer. When I tried to make one, I got a pop up asking for a First Name / Nickname and annual income, of which neither I'm going to reveal.
Has anyone else run into this problem? I supposed I could make up a fake name and income, but this is getting ridiculous, especially for a site that sketchy at best. It's amazing how I get bombarded with offers any time I log on to check it out.
I haven't had much success with WYP, but I occasionally buy $50 credits to try to communicate with someone who appears to be real.
Someone sent me a request to make an offer. When I tried to make one, I got a pop up asking for a First Name / Nickname and annual income, of which neither I'm going to reveal.
Has anyone else run into this problem? I supposed I could make up a fake name and income, but this is getting ridiculous, especially for a site that sketchy at best. It's amazing how I get bombarded with offers any time I log on to check it out.As far as I can tell it just started today. It happened every time I tried to favorite a profile. I put different answers each time and it allowed me to hit enter and move on. I am out of credits on that site. It took me almost three years to use up the ones I bought. Profiles there that are real, interesting and looking for a normal arrangement are as rare as hens teeth and horses toes.
BAM.
Had to explain this concept to a friend a few weeks back about how things can work for someone in the life that's a sub or slave.
Occasionally you will see a sub / slave that is "wh0 red" out that you'll run across on SD sites.
Usually if you look at the pics you'll see a few clues like a collar or bracelet in most of the pics, so when you run across it you might want to ask about their status.
This one here fav'd me today, if you look you'll see a chain necklace and black cord.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a58d1cd61cbb7ea2
WhereDreamsGo
07-07-24, 23:47
I saw it a lot back in my hobby days, guy starts doing a young hottie that doesn't say no, let's you CIM, maybe swallows and suddenly the little head starts having a say in everything.
If you can't separate play from real world you start getting protective because they're younger, and "don't have a whole lot", etc.
Next thing you know all of the bad parts of a GF relationship start to come out, at that point your choice is to see someone else a few times or end it to break the connection, otherwise you're screwed unless you set up something exclusive with fixed consequences if she strays.
Even then, there have been way too many stories in the news about letting one move in to your place and then not being able to get them out without starting eviction proceedings.One, don't fall in love. Did that once, but at least it cured me of the problem. Two, don't move them into a property you own or even lease. But especially own. Haven't had that problem, but know of one who has done so and has few options for unwinding it, because he doesn't want to go to court to force an eviction, plus he's left way too many incriminating text messages behind. Girl is there for life if she wants to be I think. Just, you know, picture explaining things at the eviction hearing.
WhereDreamsGo
07-10-24, 10:45
I suspect Kitten / Kristin / Kristina is a likely scammer.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/b13356223d8131d9
Member #6847
07-10-24, 12:28
I suspect Kitten / Kristin / Kristina is a likely scammer.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/b13356223d8131d9I believe she is a picture seller / time waster type.
I believe she is a picture seller / time waster type.Sent me a message after I viewed her profile. Not going to waste the credits.
UC coed and a thick girl. Platonic only. Will message you first. She is real and I have some PII or I would not have answered. Don't waste your credits.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/0b9497044a569951
I have her PII and it may be that she was visiting WVA and just returned to Cinti. In any case, I suspect her pictures are old. All her SM tends to be out of date. Both of her profiles are still active.
BAMhttps://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/40b75743d509c3f5
Open menu (as always YMMV), body is trimmer than the site pics which are about 3 years out of date with post baby weight on her, the current profile pic with her in her jean shorts and the ones she'll blast you with are probably 5 years out of date.
Cleans up with her makeup and war paint on, I've heard from a couple of folks that she has sticky fingers so you might want to see her at a hotel and hide your CC / ID (which I did).
Asked $$$$ settled for $$$ on a last minute 9 p text wanting to meet, no makeup pic is below.
Now, when you're texting with her you may find that it seems like you're getting someone else at times, my gut feel is that this is a family business.
Here's the various numbers that "she's" texted with since March.
(513) xxx 1244.
(513) xxx-6855.
(513) xxx-5695.
(513) xxx-2835.
Layingaround
07-21-24, 10:35
Start a texting. She sent pics. Now she's in jail? Her mother calls me? Bullshit.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5738abad0237ac17
Layingaround
07-21-24, 10:37
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/76e67a516748d104
Started good. Ready to fuck. Disappeared. Flake.
Layingaround
07-21-24, 11:03
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/0af92b57285648e3
Never had time. Don't think she wants to pull trigger.
Layingaround
07-21-24, 11:07
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/282e8b520360bc9b
*****. Cash. Bareback. Swallow.
Marie, from Covington, sent me an unsolicited offer. I cross referenced to see if she's on seeking, but I didn't find a like profile. Wondering if it's worth a few credits to contact?
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/blzjDGqrJ4PrYxpJ3Vdgkx7X
I met this girl for a MnG. Contrary to my normal expectations, she is much better looking in person than in her pictures. Unfortunately, she is a no sex SB aspirant. For some reason, I neglected to do my normal full qualification with her. She also lives about an hour south of the river with four dogs and two cats. She is a very pleasant woman and easy to chat with. Perhaps the no sex thing as just for me. <shrug> Don't waste credits if you are not willing to take the chance. I have her PII.
BAM
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/f9f8687e1a4f721c
Marie, from Covington, sent me an unsolicited offer. I cross referenced to see if she's on seeking, but I didn't find a like profile. Wondering if it's worth a few credits to contact?
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/blzjDGqrJ4PrYxpJ3Vdgkx7XI have never chatted with but I am pretty sure she is a UTR pro. If you like that action, she is likely worth the credits.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/76e67a516748d104
Started good. Ready to fuck. Disappeared. Flake.Yeah, Secret Benefits / Sugardaddy. Ca is kind of a scam site IMHO, any site that charges credits to read messages, better to stick with sites like Seeking or SDM.
Lives near Cleveland. Will offer to drive to you if you front her gas money. Don't waste your credits.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/18ba04cebfa16a29
Unfortunately, she is a no sex SB aspirant.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/f9f8687e1a4f721cWhat The Actual Fuck? Does the no sex thing really work?
I have never chatted with but I am pretty sure she is a UTR pro. If you like that action, she is likely worth the credits.
BAM.I spent $3 in credits to text with her. She is a short, plump lady. Not my type. She said she could not host, strike two. As soon as Bam's message appeared, her text string with me disappears from WYP. Weird. Pro, maybe, it doesn't matter now.
Oh, by the way, I agree with others that the WYP site sucks. Paying to message is just bullshit. They get your credits and the girls soon disappear. I think the site is driving some of that. All I know is it is too expensive in the end. I prefer SDM, except, it seems to be dominated by black BBW's. Now, I'm not racist, that just isn't my type. I'm talking with a pretty black girl as I write this. I would love to see her. Anyways, I just needed to get that off my chest.
What The Actual Fuck? Does the no sex thing really work?Don't kid yourself. I have received too many credible reports of guys offering money for just a coffee meet or a dinner date. It works for some but it rarely works for more than one or two dates. Usually, the SB has to lie about their restriction making them a rinser. The ones that don't lie may, like a blind pig, occasionally find an acorn but they never make what the promoters on videos claim.
Indigo is cute but I think she has unrealistic expectations. She said she has some friends who claim to make money on the site without giving anything up. Of course, we know her friends are lying but she does not.
BAM.
Don't kid yourself. I have received too many credible reports of guys offering money for just a coffee meet or a dinner date. It works for some but it rarely works for more than one or two dates. Usually, the SB has to lie about their restriction making them a rinser. The ones that don't lie may, like a blind pig, occasionally find an acorn but they never make what the promoters on videos claim.
BAM.Second this, especially on Seeking there are girls looking for "virtual" (isn't that OnlyFans?) or "platonic" dates and in some cases have a boyfriend / girlfriend. Honestly I prefer the ones who are up-front, long time ago I did get suckered into girls who would comes for drinks, then had to dash to "meet friends" right after. Guess it's one way to get some free drinks and money for the club.
Second this, especially on Seeking there are girls looking for "virtual" (isn't that OnlyFans?) or "platonic" dates and in some cases have a boyfriend / girlfriend. Honestly I prefer the ones who are up-front, long time ago I did get suckered into girls who would comes for drinks, then had to dash to "meet friends" right after. Guess it's one way to get some free drinks and money for the club.When I contact someone and get to communicating off the site, I make my intentions clear. Of all the ones I've chatted with, there were only a few who said they didn't want anything physical. And I make my intentions known up front so it's not a shock to them. The ones who don't want sex, I respect their decision and move on. But a few who I've been with when I told them that I've run into this have remarked that they were incredulous because they were also looking for intimacy as part of our arrangements.
She is not here. She is in Columbia. Don't waste your credits.
BAM.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/XlOvwWa609PdQZO5ozpZgVeD
She claims to have just reently moved from Cinti to Memphis. She wants an online only arrangement. I wished her good luck.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/86a44a413cab47fc
This seems like a generational thing, but these girls need to realize that guys in a position to be a SD ain't going for that.
She claims to have just reently moved from Cinti to Memphis. She wants an online only arrangement. I wished her good luck.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/86a44a413cab47fc
Scammer. Asked me for money in exchange for her phone number. Not a lot: $15 but nope.
BAM.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/nDEo2v9r57L7apZ06jWqempk
Scammer. Can only communicate via What'sApp. Phone does not work. Wifi only. Etc.
Bam.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/MVr93jPpAxVO62w5RdDOxW4n
Pregnant, Nando1, no sex. Don't waste your credits.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/3e63f5788b06f714
She claims to have just reently moved from Cinti to Memphis. She wants an online only arrangement. I wished her good luck.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/86a44a413cab47fcHas anyone actually asked these "online only" girls what it is they think they're bringing to the table that's worth the money they expect to receive? I'm genuinely curious.
I have a lawyer on retainer and what he has to say keeps me out of jail, makes sure any and all contracts I sign says exactly what I think it does, and lowers my tax liability without breaking the law. What does an online only sugar baby retainer get me?
Has anyone actually asked these "online only" girls what it is they think they're bringing to the table that's worth the money they expect to receive? I'm genuinely curious.
I have a lawyer on retainer and what he has to say keeps me out of jail, makes sure any and all contracts I sign says exactly what I think it does, and lowers my tax liability without breaking the law. What does an online only sugar baby retainer get me?This is a questions that often gets asked here. I pledge to henceforth ask it every time I encounter this attitude. I invite you all to join me!
BAM.
Member #6847
08-13-24, 21:58
Has anyone actually asked these "online only" girls what it is they think they're bringing to the table that's worth the money they expect to receive? I'm genuinely curious.Do you think they've even thought that much about it? I suspect some influencer is blowing smoke up their asses as to the possibilities of online-only arrangements.
Do you think they've even thought that much about it? I suspect some influencer is blowing smoke up their asses as to the possibilities of online-only arrangements.Oh, I'm sure that have thought about the transactional nature of the SD / SB relationship. They thought about it enough to know they don't want trade physical intimacy for cash. That shows they are aware of what they're not willing to do; the glass ceiling they won't go past.
With that, the bidding starts at "not sex" for a wad of cash. What is their offer?
Member #6847
08-14-24, 18:47
Oh, I'm sure that have thought about the transactional nature of the SD / SB relationship. They thought about it enough to know they don't want trade physical intimacy for cash. That shows they are aware of what they're not willing to do; the glass ceiling they won't go past.
With that, the bidding starts at "not sex" for a wad of cash. What is their offer?Let's assume for a second that "online only" is a real thing. Why should a SD seeking "only online" pay US prices for an "online only" SB? Might as well go Philippines or whatever then. No reason at all to pay US prices.
Let's assume for a second that "online only" is a real thing. Why should a SD seeking "only online" pay US prices for an "online only" SB? Might as well go Philippines or whatever then. No reason at all to pay US prices.That is a very valid point that you can use when negotiating the terms of the relationship, IF you're open to an online only relationship. "You expect X cash, and provide Z online services. I can get the same Z for (X/5) by using an international call center or through OnlyFans."..
Says her name is Kirina. Uses a TextNow number. I was unable to find any PII. Insists on the allowance before meeting but will compromise for you by getting only half. Don't waste your credits.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/3e3766c1c598c983
Claims she wants to chat online to get comfortable. Eventually tried to sell pictures. Her story has all kinds of holes. Said she going to Xavier for pre-law. Then says she starts "in a few weeks. " Later says she may not attend if she can't get enough money to buy a beater. No PII but pics appear to be local. That's what sucked me in.
My normal rule is that I do not spend credits unless I can establish they are real. I deviated from that rule twice now and wasted my credits. Learn from my mistakes and ignore this person.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/8f46f04459405069
WanderingAbout
08-18-24, 00:22
Chinese time waster? Lets see Asian, mid-30's, a description that reads I am a gentle and considerate person. I care about other people's feelings and try to create happiness and security for them. I believe it is very important to be supportive and inclusive of each other in a relationship. I am willing to invest time and effort to maintain and develop relationships and provide support and understanding during difficult times. Won't waste credits on this profile.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/XdyBZx98JOL3kXd5NYVKQEML
Claims she wants to chat online to get comfortable. Eventually tried to sell pictures. Her story has all kinds of holes. Said she going to Xavier for pre-law. Then says she starts "in a few weeks. " Later says she may not attend if she can't get enough money to buy a beater. No PII but pics appear to be local. That's what sucked me in.
My normal rule is that I do not spend credits unless I can establish they are real. I deviated from that rule twice now and wasted my credits. Learn from my mistakes and ignore this person.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/8f46f04459405069I've actually seen a few show in the last couple of months where if you dig a bit you'll find that while they're from here they are no longer in the area.
One I actually know the family and when her profile popped up on SB she was outside the US and SB was showing an online in the US. I'm beginning to wonder.
If some of these are where someone or a bot has mined that they are from X area and has created a fake account to rinse somebody out of a few bucks.
WanderingAbout
08-19-24, 22:26
SB Pro. Anyone recall her previous SB names? Curious what past posts say?! Thanks.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2be57cf083cee464
SB Pro. Anyone recall her previous SB names? Curious what past posts say?! Thanks.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2be57cf083cee464I am pretty sure I recognize her but I cannot recall the name she was using. I met her in Clifton pre-Covid and she took me back to her place immediately after the MnG for, IIRC, 150. It wasn't a totally bad experience but not worth repeating. She might be better now.
BAM.
I've actually seen a few show in the last couple of months where if you dig a bit you'll find that while they're from here they are no longer in the area.
One I actually know the family and when her profile popped up on SB she was outside the US and SB was showing an online in the US. I'm beginning to wonder.
If some of these are where someone or a bot has mined that they are from X area and has created a fake account to rinse somebody out of a few bucks.It does not happen often but I have seen a few profiles where someone lifted the pictures from the SM of a local girl and tried to use that to lure people in. If their SM show they live in a nice part of town but want to meet in East Price Hill, etc, that's a big red flag whatever the reason.
BAM.
WanderingAbout
08-21-24, 22:20
Attractive is profile name. She gave the lowest of low offers ever received on wyp. Passed. Seemed TGTBT. $5. Wonder what her end game is? Pic seller?
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/myW2ordn5jjVpvQ56wY9ZQlM
Attractive is profile name. She gave the lowest of low offers ever received on wyp. Passed. Seemed TGTBT. $5. Wonder what her end game is? Pic seller?
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/myW2ordn5jjVpvQ56wY9ZQlMThe pictures are of an OF / IG model out of Miami. Likely just a scammer.
https://www.instagram.com/khloekapri/
BAM.
Profile is using the pics of Nikki Leigh.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/bwoaV92O5KQq7K6AkBzevjlr
https://www.instagram.com/missnikkileigh/?hl=en
Don't waste your credits.
BAM.
Profile using pictures of porn star Ellie Leen.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/MVr93jPpAxVNvkY5RdDOxW4n
BAM.
Anyone with experience. She sent me a message, but I'm down to my last 3 credits and don't want to waste any.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/9c4a3c85a949691d
Anyone with experience. She sent me a message, but I'm down to my last 3 credits and don't want to waste any.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/9c4a3c85a949691d
She approached me also. Profile offers PPM making her sound like a pro. She volunteered her number but it is a texting app. No PII so far. I will share what I learn but looking like a pro.
BAM
BlindSquirrel
08-25-24, 07:30
Anyone with experience. She sent me a message, but I'm down to my last 3 credits and don't want to waste any.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/9c4a3c85a949691dI hope I'm not too late for you. I've had interactions with Hannah. She immediately asked me if I was "into content at all". Maybe she does both meetups and sells content, but after I said no, she promptly went ghost. See convo.
I hope I'm not too late for you. I've had interactions with Hannah. She immediately asked me if I was "into content at all". Maybe she does both meetups and sells content, but after I said no, she promptly went ghost. See convo.Thank you, thank you. That's exactly what I needed to know. Although I still wasted credits by accidentally clicking on her private photos. Those photos added absolutely nothing to intel.
Attractive is profile name. She gave the lowest of low offers ever received on wyp. Passed. Seemed TGTBT. $5. Wonder what her end game is? Pic seller?
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/myW2ordn5jjVpvQ56wY9ZQlMI have had some luck with low offers. To me I treat it as just a way to open the conversation. For instance. I was in a hotel in Columbus and bid the $50 low bid to a girl. She accepted, we exchanged numbers, agreed to meet up at my hotel, worked out a deal (150), knocked it out, then went to eat at a restaurant next door. She was open to do it again, and even host on occasion. I didn't take her up because I was leaving town the next morning.
Does Secret Benefits ever send out discount codes for buying credits. I've had an account for a couple years and haven't seen an offer ever.
I hope I'm not too late for you. I've had interactions with Hannah. She immediately asked me if I was "into content at all". Maybe she does both meetups and sells content, but after I said no, she promptly went ghost. See convo.My experience went a bit longer. She asked if I was into content. I declined but she said she was still open to meet. However, as the texting progressed, she eventually asked me to cashapp her $120. When I explained that only newbies would think that an appropriate amount or method, she dropped to $60. When she saw my shocked face, "she" ghosted.
BAM.
Does Secret Benefits ever send out discount codes for buying credits. I've had an account for a couple years and haven't seen an offer ever.They will offer you a 50% discount on the day your credits run out. That is the only discount I have ever seen. If you miss it on that day, they do not offer again.
BAM.
Approached me so I ran her pictures. They match to a porn star named Angel Youngs.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/vw6QkONbJBMB4xXAKERpY9VG
https://x.com/AngelYoungsxxx/status/1594858107217141761
Don't waste your credits.
BAM.
I have had some luck with low offers. To me I treat it as just a way to open the conversation. For instance. I was in a hotel in Columbus and bid the $50 low bid to a girl. She accepted, we exchanged numbers, agreed to meet up at my hotel, worked out a deal (150), knocked it out, then went to eat at a restaurant next door. She was open to do it again, and even host on occasion. I didn't take her up because I was leaving town the next morning.Lower offers also use up fewer credits. I've had some accept the $5 just to get to messaging to work out details.
She plays along then asks to be given money at the MnG. When I explained why that could not happen, she ghosted. She is real and I have her PII for trusted seniors.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/34f726e3e19858eb
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/b051bfd1b3ab1d2e
Truth in advertising?
Ran across this one on SA a bit over a year ago, another content seller.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/fae2155bc691bf65
Secretbenefits says she is online but her funeral was today.
I do not know what happened.
And will not share her name.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/fae2155bc691bf65
Secretbenefits says she is online but her funeral was today.
I do not know what happened.
And will not share her name.
Are you sure?? She is the former porn star turned pro. I have her PII / SM and did not see anything.
BAM
Edit: it's confirmed. I found the obituary. Very sad.
Are you sure?? She is the former porn star turned pro. I have her PII / SM and did not see anything.
BAM
Edit: it's confirmed. I found the obituary. Very sad.I just saw it also. Very sad. I only saw her once but she was a sweet and nice young lady.
BlindSquirrel
09-07-24, 11:16
I just saw it also. Very sad. I only saw her once but she was a sweet and nice young lady.This is very sad. I can confirm. She was a super sweet lady as I put in my report last December. She had 2 young kids that lived with her too. It seemed to me that she was trying to pull things together. RIP.
As for SB, I've always suspected that when the status says "online today" or "7 days ago" or whatever, that it was behind by at least a week after talking to a few girls on there. Now we have definitive proof, as if we needed it.
This is very sad. I can confirm. She was a super sweet lady as I put in my report last December. She had 2 young kids that lived with her too. It seemed to me that she was trying to pull things together. RIP.
As for SB, I've always suspected that when the status says "online today" or "7 days ago" or whatever, that it was behind by at least a week after talking to a few girls on there. Now we have definitive proof, as if we needed it.Still says online today. So either someone is using her account to talk to people. Or Secretbenefits is scamming people. Either way it's not good.
MagicMan1123
09-10-24, 15:27
Still says online today. So either someone is using her account to talk to people. Or Secretbenefits is scamming people. Either way it's not good.I definitely think SB scams people with fake profile and false online status. It's the nature of that site to keep you spending credits. Switch to seeking and it is much better. A lot less ladies showing online and often the same ones but I believe it is real as I get messages when it says they are online. I don't when it doesn't. Also seem to make more connections vs content sellers on seeking.
I definitely think SB scams people with fake profile and false online status. It's the nature of that site to keep you spending credits. Switch to seeking and it is much better. A lot less ladies showing online and often the same ones but I believe it is real as I get messages when it says they are online. I don't when it doesn't. Also seem to make more connections vs content sellers on seeking.Last night the account was showing offline and today it seems to have been "logged into" around 2 p.
Anyone else notice they removed the last online info? No more last one line 2 weeks ago etc.
BlindSquirrel
09-17-24, 17:23
Thank God for the verification pics on SB! I absolutely HATE filters.
Thank God for the verification pics on SB! I absolutely HATE filters.Got a link?
BlindSquirrel
09-18-24, 15:01
Got a link?Sure, why not, since everyone likes a good trainwreck.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/fe9e5be9760dd12e
Smokey Gringo
09-18-24, 15:48
Sure, why not, since everyone likes a good trainwreck.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/fe9e5be9760dd12eI knew something was up. And she would have got thrown straight the fuck out once she arrived and I saw. She sent nude body shots and filtered the face in those too of course, but after seeing this, the lower body matches the upper unfiltered face. Saggy, flabby, and old which is what threw my radar off. Jesus fucking christ, these chicks and these filters. The better the tech gets, the harder it's going to be to tell.
And it wasn't even on SB. I know I said recently that I've been doing norm chicks because the market is out of whack but this shit is getting out of hand too. I'm going to buy a fucking real doll or one of the better Chinese knockoffs.
Member #6847
09-18-24, 21:21
I knew something was up. And she would have got thrown straight the fuck out once she arrived and I saw. She sent nude body shots and filtered the face in those too of course, but after seeing this, the lower body matches the upper unfiltered face. Saggy, flabby, and old which is what threw my radar off. Jesus fucking christ, these chicks and these filters. The better the tech gets, the harder it's going to be to tell.
And it wasn't even on SB. I know I said recently that I've been doing norm chicks because the market is out of whack but this shit is getting out of hand too. I'm going to buy a fucking real doll or one of the better Chinese knockoffs.I think video verification is essential now. Or, better yet, finding another hobby. That one is so gross looking. Send help!
I think video verification is essential now. Or, better yet, finding another hobby. That one is so gross looking. Send help!It works until you have someone that's been on the site for say 6-7 years, an since SB doesn't show "member since" its a roll of the dice as far as when they got verified.
Friend of mine in Lex met one where the video was either her 10 years and 60 lbs younger or she was using her daughter for pics / video.
Member #6847
09-22-24, 12:42
It works until you have someone that's been on the site for say 6-7 years, an since SB doesn't show "member since" its a roll of the dice as far as when they got verified.
Friend of mine in Lex met one where the video was either her 10 years and 60 lbs younger or she was using her daughter for pics / video.I meant requiring a video call before the M&G.
WhereDreamsGo
09-24-24, 11:50
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/fae2155bc691bf65
Secretbenefits says she is online but her funeral was today.
I do not know what happened.
And will not share her name.I don't want to talk a lot about this, because it's extremely sad to me. But just as a way of warning about how real the information on SB really is, I saw her ranked third down my "recently active" list LAST NIGHT! I did send them a report indicating why she could not have been recently active. Don't know if that's possibly someone who had her phone and logged in to see what was up in her messages or not, but those don't get retained very long anyway.
At least now it appears they have taken down her profile.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/fae2155bc691bf65
I don't want to talk a lot about this, because it's extremely sad to me. But just as a way of warning about how real the information on SB really is, I saw her ranked third down my "recently active" list LAST NIGHT! I did send them a report indicating why she could not have been recently active. Don't know if that's possibly someone who had her phone and logged in to see what was up in her messages or not, but those don't get retained very long anyway.
At least now it appears they have taken down her profile.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/fae2155bc691bf65I can still see her profile.
Very sad what happened. And sad that someone is using her account. Weather it someone she know or secretbenefits getting people to spend credits. Just let her rest.
Member #6847
09-24-24, 20:44
I can still see her profile.
Very sad what happened. And sad that someone is using her account. Weather it someone she know or secretbenefits getting people to spend credits. Just let her rest.I wonder if we can report SB to the FTC, because this seems like pretty easy to prove if it's the website abusing her account for credits.
WhereDreamsGo
09-26-24, 06:37
I can still see her profile.
Very sad what happened. And sad that someone is using her account. Weather it someone she know or secretbenefits getting people to spend credits. Just let her rest.After I put in a report on her, it showed up immediately as having been removed. But that's only for my account apparently, so it gives the impression that they did something when really they didn't. This is flat out fraud. I am ending that account and anything to do with SB and others should do likewise.
BlindSquirrel
09-26-24, 14:32
After I put in a report on her, it showed up immediately as having been removed. But that's only for my account apparently, so it gives the impression that they did something when really they didn't. This is flat out fraud. I am ending that account and anything to do with SB and others should do likewise.I get a message that says " This member is not currently active" when I click on the link in Tyler4178's post.
Says her name is Tiffany. She was using the profile name Pleasuresallmine on SA using a profile that is now gone. There were lots of comments about her around September 2021. At that time, she jerked me around scheduling MnG then cancelling at the last minute. Next day wanted to go straight to the hotel. Said no. Then wanted to do MnG and then hotel. Then asked for money at MnG. Finally said we are not a good fit.
Her attempts to avoid a MnG led me to believe her pics might not be fully representative. She gave another member a cash and dash vibe. At a time when most PPM rates were around 200-250, she was asking 500-600. No telling where she is now.
She recently started texting me again. She sent me pictures that were the same as those she was using three years ago. I have better options now and will not be pursuing. I never did a full work up on her. I do not have any PII. I recall she was on the Eastside that last time.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/082b075a696d1458
I wonder if we can report SB to the FTC, because this seems like pretty easy to prove if it's the website abusing her account for credits.Site is not hosted in the US just like this one.
Its exempt from US regulations.
I get a message that says " This member is not currently active" when I click on the link in Tyler4178's post.Looks like they finally took it down.
Yesterday was the first time I couldn't see it.
RandMcNasty
09-29-24, 13:51
Got a link?Her profile headline is "Just look at my eyes. What do you see?
I see an old hag.
Living Colour?
Her profile headline is "Just look at my eyes. What do you see?
I see an old hag.
She is real; I have her PII. However, she told me she is online only. Don't waste your credits - - unless that's what you want.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d904b8662086e6cc
Wants full allowance (may be willing to negotiate) at the MnG. Not from me.
BAM.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/jEwkR6MnA8BlRxm5yWeGx7dQ
Wants full allowance (may be willing to negotiate) at the MnG. Not from me.
BAM.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/jEwkR6MnA8BlRxm5yWeGx7dQDo you get full benefits at the MnG as well?
WanderingAbout
10-02-24, 18:29
Before offering any amount, and if she replies, falling to the impulse to spend credits to messages. Anyone have any intel on 'Attractive' on WYP?
Thanks in advance.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/nDEo2v9r57LwOvD06jWqempk
BreakingBad20
10-02-24, 22:38
I haven't been on SB since earlier this year, does anyone have any recommendations who to concentrate on who will actually meet? My prior experience on SB was lackluster at best. Thanks.
WanderingAbout
10-03-24, 00:42
The choices on SB for Cincinnati Dayton area are extremely limited. Unless you have credits to burn save them for a better day. Try Seeking. The experience there isn't much better but it is better.
I haven't been on SB since earlier this year, does anyone have any recommendations who to concentrate on who will actually meet? My prior experience on SB was lackluster at best. Thanks.
AlanDodson
10-03-24, 12:12
I wish I could tell you, I've been trying to buy credits on there for a week with no luck. Maybe its for the best.
I haven't been on SB since earlier this year, does anyone have any recommendations who to concentrate on who will actually meet? My prior experience on SB was lackluster at best. Thanks.
Before offering any amount, and if she replies, falling to the impulse to spend credits to messages. Anyone have any intel on 'Attractive' on WYP?
Thanks in advance.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/nDEo2v9r57LwOvD06jWqempkShe accepted a $5 offer from me without reading my profile. I fell for it. Tried to get me to move to Telegram. First red flag. I encouraged her to get a smart phone app. She LOL'd. Second red flag. Then says she only has a work phone and cannot use it to communicate. Third red flag. Don't waste your credits.
BAM.
Smokey Gringo
10-03-24, 13:53
She accepted a $5 offer from me without reading my profile. I fell for it. Tried to get me to move to Telegram. First red flag. I encouraged her to get a smart phone app. She LOL'd. Second red flag. Then says she only has a work phone and cannot use it to communicate. Third red flag. Don't waste your credits.
BAM.Is the worst. Seriously I quit it and left credits. I'm amazed guys keep using it including yourself, have you plucked some unicorns among the trash in the last year?
Is the worst. Seriously I quit it and left credits. I'm amazed guys keep using it including yourself, have you plucked some unicorns among the trash in the last year?I have stranded credits that I bought a few years back when I was kicked off Seeking. They go slow when you only offer $5 per date.
BAM.
WanderingAbout
10-04-24, 15:05
I have stranded credits that I bought a few years back when I was kicked off Seeking. They go slow when you only offer $5 per date. BAM.Also attempting to use 5 credits left over from LONG ago. Refuse to purchase more credits just to get rid of these 5. WYP is lame.
WanderingAbout
10-07-24, 19:57
She accepted a $5 offer from me without reading my profile. I fell for it. Tried to get me to move to Telegram. First red flag. I encouraged her to get a smart phone app. She LOL'd. Second red flag. Then says she only has a work phone and cannot use it to communicate. Third red flag. Don't waste your credits. BAM.Good talker. Says she lives on Oakley. Attempted twice for a donation upfront to help. Once for broken pipes at home. Second a bond issue. Third time asked for donation to lock in arrangement. Blocked her. Reported her. Cost 5 credits to chat.
WanderingAbout
10-08-24, 10:20
Anyone know if she is a escort pro, a sugar pro, or dancer? Profile gives off pro vibes.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/f6e6ef427b38499a
WanderingAbout
10-16-24, 20:30
Anyone know if she is a escort pro, a sugar pro, or dancer? Profile gives off pro vibes.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/f6e6ef427b38499aSugar pro. Been around the block for awhile. Will lead you on and eventually deliver. It'll be expensive.
On the Secret Benefits site is something called Top Admirer. Does anyone here know how it works? Do the women get anything out of it?
BAM.
Bedtime Story
10-20-24, 21:19
On the Secret Benefits site is something called Top Admirer. Does anyone here know how it works? Do the women get anything out of it?
BAM.All the girls I have hooked up with from the site have told me that they receive nothing but being able to post a profile, and message for free. I do know that where we have to pay extra credits to open an in message app photo. They do not. They pay for nothing though. I think the secret questions / photos and now the ability to boost a message or become a top admirer is another site means of generating their income.
Anyone familiar with this one? She messaged me, but I'm down to my last couple of credits and by last, I mean I will never buy more. I want to use them wisely.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d69e5b5a8dd1bd8c
Anyone familiar with this one? She messaged me, but I'm down to my last couple of credits and by last, I mean I will never buy more. I want to use them wisely.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d69e5b5a8dd1bd8cI have her blocked. Can you post a picture?
BAM.
I have her blocked. Can you post a picture?
BAM. Here's a couple. Why did you block her?
Here's a couple. Why did you block her?I probably blocked her because I considered her too chunky. I have been block happy lately. I probably block more profiles than I keep.
BAM.
I am not sure what this profile is about. She lives in the Newark, OH area northeast of Columbus. Most of her pics are old. The one in a coat is most accurate. I suspect she is online only or a pic seller. I have PII for contributing seniors.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/1856b3f27612764f
When they start traveling for the holidays and we have new talent in the area or the ones that are trying to raise money for Christmas or their Christmas break trip.
This one used to be in town and moved north last year, she just pinged me that she's back till the end of the month.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/137b3178f6570598
WanderingAbout
11-06-24, 21:16
She's mass messaging both people she has contacted in the past and people who have never encountered her. Didn't spend the credits to interact with this stranger.
When they start traveling for the holidays and we have new talent in the area or the ones that are trying to raise money for Christmas or their Christmas break trip. This one used to be in town and moved north last year, she just pinged me that she's back till the end of the month. https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/137b3178f6570598
When they start traveling for the holidays and we have new talent in the area or the ones that are trying to raise money for Christmas or their Christmas break trip.
This one used to be in town and moved north last year, she just pinged me that she's back till the end of the month.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/137b3178f6570598
She has sent me multiple messages asking me to meet right away. Promised me everything. No allowance mentioned and I didn't ask. When they are that aggressive, I lose interest immediately.
BAM
Layingaround
12-07-24, 09:28
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/cb89715cf9b6e8d0
She swallows. She cream pies. 350. She's in Springdale.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/cb89715cf9b6e8d0
She swallows. She cream pies. 350. She's in Springdale.Would she be comfortable with you sharing her digits? Tried to pm you but your inbox is full.
WhereDreamsGo
12-26-24, 13:50
This one's a scammer and time waster, who's now on her third profile. I check my messages a SB every so often. Not expecting to ever give them any more money.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/90effa001cfaf916
Layingaround
01-04-25, 15:13
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4cc38cd3797bc22e
Kara Skinner scam artist. Said she's moving to blue ash. BEWARE.
BlindSquirrel
01-05-25, 00:37
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4cc38cd3797bc22e
Kara Skinner scam artist. Said she's moving to blue ash. BEWARE.I can confirm she's aggressively seeking takers. She "Priority Messaged" me just today. I didn't respond because I didn't like her look. But she's definitely trying. Thanks for the heads-up!
Layingaround
01-13-25, 22:36
I was just wondering if anybody has seen this woman. She looks thick. Just wondering how freaky she gets. Thanks in advance.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/37de012bb6af59db
WanderingAbout
01-13-25, 23:25
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/EgkDdnNPJD9PPV15Z8XaowWM
In addition to Bluebell's laundry list of items you can gift her she says. In the spirit of this platform, I will start prioritizing meeting those who offer the highest financial incentive for doing so.
And, I don't do casual sex / fwb / hookups, so if you are seeking anything beyond companionship immediately, I am flattered but will refuse.
GPS Rinser Vibes
WanderingAbout
01-14-25, 10:22
Profile has the tells of TGTBT. 35. Just moved from Wisconsin. Only thing missing is her being Asian. Didnt waste credits to find out if she invests in crypto lol
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/ldXPk7LxQAzBwMXA3RqOp9gW
WanderingAbout
01-19-25, 11:24
Found this name on Google search as a virtual gf. This report from BamBam confirmed and prevented the wasting of credits. Almost fell for her game because of the local pics.
Claims she wants to chat online to get comfortable. Eventually tried to sell pictures. Her story has all kinds of holes. Said she going to Xavier for pre-law. Then says she starts "in a few weeks. " Later says she may not attend if she can't get enough money to buy a beater. No PII but pics appear to be local. That's what sucked me in.
My normal rule is that I do not spend credits unless I can establish they are real. I deviated from that rule twice now and wasted my credits. Learn from my mistakes and ignore this person.
BAM.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/8f46f04459405069
DaytonRocky84
01-22-25, 15:10
When they start traveling for the holidays and we have new talent in the area or the ones that are trying to raise money for Christmas or their Christmas break trip.
This one used to be in town and moved north last year, she just pinged me that she's back till the end of the month.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/137b3178f6570598I can definitely say that she is real for sure but definitely unpredictable. She won't reply or acknowledge when you reach out for planning but she definitely will aggressively message any and all contacts she has asking to meet when she needs money. You can plan at risk of 50/50 showing up after planned time for meeting. I have seen her few times in past so each meeting can be hit or miss. PM me if you like more details about. My interaction and how I managed and feel free to share your experiences on what worked and didn't.
I was up wayyy too early today for a 6 a flight and was on SB just in time to see 7 brand new profiles all pop up within 2 minutes, none of them had the profile or wants filled out.
Then saw the same thing happen during a layover for a couple of cities on the left coast.
These fall right under BAM's standard TGTBT flags.
WanderingAbout
02-10-25, 13:23
Real SB, fake, bot, rinser, time waster, TGTBT, pic seller, coin drain, or something else?
Tannhot.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/eea0c3ea69f98528
Goldmp
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/39cebf5380add9c2
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/768450b42e1f7682
https://members.seeking.com/member/eefff015-9b9d-4cb6-b8f6-fff2eb0be01c
In town for a few days, asking $$ strikes me as a UTR.
I know this thread has been pretty dead lately, but I thought I would try to get some intel before I spend my last 10 credits. This one has a picture taken in Cincinnati which makes feel a little more Com comfortable about her being real. Any info will be greatly appreciated.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/38ac885e5df53da8
CrazySteve45
02-17-25, 17:21
I know this thread has been pretty dead lately, but I thought I would try to get some intel before I spend my last 10 credits. This one has a picture taken in Cincinnati which makes feel a little more Com comfortable about her being real. Any info will be greatly appreciated.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/38ac885e5df53da8I was talking to her about a year ago and she wanted $$$ for meet, I never pulled the trigger though. Would be interested in your experience if you see her.
It's that time of year when we see lots pop up looking for short term or P2 P.
And some familiar faces show up as their existing arrangements end due to tax season.
Good hunting and may the odds ever be in your favor.
WanderingAbout
03-18-25, 19:25
WYP used to be full of 30-something Asians into crypto scams. Now it's flooded with slim, model-like women (often blonde) in their early 30s wanting a $50 bid. Avoid these profiles, they're easy to spot. Makes it tough to burn old credits from when sugaring was fun.
Layingaround
03-29-25, 06:31
I know this thread has been pretty dead lately, but I thought I would try to get some intel before I spend my last 10 credits. This one has a picture taken in Cincinnati which makes feel a little more Com comfortable about her being real. Any info will be greatly appreciated.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/38ac885e5df53da8Kels222 is her snap.
Layingaround
03-29-25, 06:33
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a2eff2f809d5ed29
She cannot host. She is looking for regulars $300. Wide open menu!
CrazySteve45
03-31-25, 19:40
Kels222 is her snap.Have yo useen her before? I was in contact and decided not to, I forget why, Was it any good?
RascalRooster
04-01-25, 10:57
That snap appears to be a man.
Have yo useen her before? I was in contact and decided not to, I forget why, Was it any good?
Name is Shania.
https://skipthegames.com/posts/cincinnati/female-escorts/other/seeking-hookups-now-/690039065628
Name is Shania.
https://skipthegames.com/posts/cincinnati/female-escorts/other/seeking-hookups-now-/690039065628I think you meant to put this in Escorts.
WanderingAbout
04-07-25, 11:06
What's her story these days? She's been around in the Sugar bowl a long time. She's well known. Her profile constantly says she's not looking for an arrangement yet she's off and on various sugar sites.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4d7352332394ee5b
What's her story these days? She's been around in the Sugar bowl a long time. She's well known. Her profile constantly says she's not looking for an arrangement yet she's off and on various sugar sites.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4d7352332394ee5bShe's good. Just picky. Has a busy life.
She's good. Just picky. Has a busy life.Super cute, a thin busty Asian is so my speed. What was she like if you don't mind me asking?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a2eff2f809d5ed29
She cannot host. She is looking for regulars $300. Wide open menu!Big girl alert if you click on her link.
What's her story these days? She's been around in the Sugar bowl a long time. She's well known. Her profile constantly says she's not looking for an arrangement yet she's off and on various sugar sites.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4d7352332394ee5bI met her a few years back. Had a fabulous time going back to her place. Great little body. I think she has gotten very expensive but worth exploring.
CooperTown
04-09-25, 11:41
What's her story these days? She's been around in the Sugar bowl a long time. She's well known. Her profile constantly says she's not looking for an arrangement yet she's off and on various sugar sites.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4d7352332394ee5bNever saw her because she's way on the high side. She also has a friend she will work with.
Super cute, a thin busty Asian is so my speed. What was she like if you don't mind me asking?She's fun and energetic.
She's fun and energetic.Has she backed down from the $5-$1 k per meet that she was asking a couple of years ago?
She wants a substantial amount up front. She is real but not very hot. Certainly not worth that kind of request. I have all her PII for contributing seniors.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/ac537e570bd1d841
BAM.
Has she backed down from the $5-$1 k per meet that she was asking a couple of years ago?She knows how many guys just want a one time thing so it's more the first time.
She knows how many guys just want a one time thing so it's more the first time.I've found another Asian. Younger with a great body. Not as much fun as Sadie but looks great while you're going to town and likes it hard.
DrFunkenstein7
04-14-25, 13:39
I've found another Asian. Younger with a great body. Not as much fun as Sadie but looks great while you're going to town and likes it hard.Sounds awesome, any details you're willing to share? Did you meet her through Seeking, SB, etc?
BlindSquirrel
04-16-25, 10:29
This one asked for $100 on the third text off of the SB site. She apparently didn't like the fact that I wouldn't send her $.
I've attached pics including the Secret Album so you can avoid wasting your credits like I did. I seldom use credits for pics unless we've been chatting and I feel it's going somewhere.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/abea26c51a70a951
Sounds awesome, any details you're willing to share? Did you meet her through Seeking, SB, etc?SB. She's on vacation overseas now w family but will be back soon.
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