PPJones
12-13-22, 14:05
So, having a debate with another monger.
My friend has this girl on SM that he's friends with. They haven't met, much less interacted. Only a few comments on a couple of her posts from him. My friend is stating, that if he manages to seek her out and engage her, and it then becomes some sort of a sugar arrangement, that THAT would be considered finding her "in the wild ". I, on the other hand, disagree. I feel that situation would only be considered "finding her online". I feel like "in the wild " is only achieved at an "in person" meeting, such as a grocery store, convenience store, gas station, etc, where you approach and engage in conversation and then you work things from there. In my book, only IN PERSON meetings qualify. Any insight to this? Am I wrong?
My friend has this girl on SM that he's friends with. They haven't met, much less interacted. Only a few comments on a couple of her posts from him. My friend is stating, that if he manages to seek her out and engage her, and it then becomes some sort of a sugar arrangement, that THAT would be considered finding her "in the wild ". I, on the other hand, disagree. I feel that situation would only be considered "finding her online". I feel like "in the wild " is only achieved at an "in person" meeting, such as a grocery store, convenience store, gas station, etc, where you approach and engage in conversation and then you work things from there. In my book, only IN PERSON meetings qualify. Any insight to this? Am I wrong?