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DoctorOlds
11-17-21, 22:54
Ryan's tips are right on. Changing clothes not working out for me as my wife sometimes sniffs my laundry.
Relief, Same concern for me. I am sticking with CBJ not even BBBJ just for the sake of peace of mind. Dealing with drama from wife is not worthy.I'm curious as to what apps, if any, people use for texting to protect your number. I know some use a burner, but I'm not looking to explain an additional phone, should it be found. I recently downloaded an app that I can call, text and receive texts on, all the while using numbers other than my own. It's a bit expensive, but privacy is priceless. Actually helped me track down a provider that previously ripped me off. Lmk what app you use, cost and its abilities. I currently use SpoofCard.
I'm curious as to what apps, if any, people use for texting to protect your number. I know some use a burner, but I'm not looking to explain an additional phone, should it be found. I recently downloaded an app that I can call, text and receive texts on, all the while using numbers other than my own. It's a bit expensive, but privacy is priceless. Actually helped me track down a provider that previously ripped me off. Lmk what app you use, cost and its abilities. I currently use SpoofCard.Just google voice, which many of my favorite providers use too. Good enough for them, good enough for me.
Just google voice, which many of my favorite providers use too. Good enough for them, good enough for me.Just beware that Google voice is connected to your actual phone number and a copy of the texts are sent to your gmail associated w / that google account.
I'm curious as to what apps, if any, people use for texting to protect your number. I know some use a burner, but I'm not looking to explain an additional phone, should it be found. I recently downloaded an app that I can call, text and receive texts on, all the while using numbers other than my own. It's a bit expensive, but privacy is priceless. Actually helped me track down a provider that previously ripped me off. Lmk what app you use, cost and its abilities. I currently use SpoofCard.Textnow and textfree.
Ryan's tips are right on. Changing clothes not working out for me as my wife sometimes sniffs my laundry.
Relief, Same concern for me. I am sticking with CBJ not even BBBJ just for the sake of peace of mind. Dealing with drama from wife is not worthy.Hate to tell you dude, but she's already on to you. Best of luck! But to your point, that's why I was in charge of laundry duties. Hehe.
Hate to tell you dude, but she's already on to you. Best of luck! But to your point, that's why I was in charge of laundry duties. Hehe.Haha yah man. Maybe take a little hiatus possibly.
On another note, one thing to love about daylight savings is that it gets dark sooner, so that helps with lesser visibility #mongerseason.
Haha yah man. Maybe take a little hiatus possibly.
On another note, one thing to love about daylight savings is that it gets dark sooner, so that helps with lesser visibility #mongerseason.I know what you're saying and agree, but technically we're off DST.
RChangDatyKing
11-18-21, 22:19
Ryan's tips are right on. Changing clothes not working out for me as my wife sometimes sniffs my laundry.
Relief, Same concern for me. I am sticking with CBJ not even BBBJ just for the sake of peace of mind. Dealing with drama from wife is not worthy.
Hate to tell you dude, but she's already on to you. Best of luck! But to your point, that's why I was in charge of laundry duties. Hehe.Yeah, it's not good when the SO is sniffing clothes, etc. I agree with Ryan I think she is already suspecting something. I don't think taking over laundry duties at this stage is going to help because she'll be more suspicious.
Maybe lay low for awhile. Sorry, DR!
Arhanhehzi
11-18-21, 23:36
Textnow and textfree.Ditto. Just use a disposable email service when signing up. Also a no-log VPN on your phone doesn't hurt.
MaximusKahn
11-19-21, 16:35
Ryan's tips are right on. Changing clothes not working out for me as my wife sometimes sniffs my laundry.
Relief, Same concern for me. I am sticking with CBJ not even BBBJ just for the sake of peace of mind. Dealing with drama from wife is not worthy.Suspicion can be the first nail in a monger's coffin. Suspicion alone can cause problems. If the SO suspects you, it's time to put the brakes on for a while. Something happened to get her suspicion radar up, so you must now keep your behavior as clean as possible for a while. She may never completely forget her suspicions, but in time it will die down enough so you can go back to the hobby.
In general women have a greater sense of smell than men, and often have a heightened sense of smell when they are pregnant. Unfortunately, women also have a good nose for sensing when something is off.
They can find or even magically stumble on clues that can lead to doom. Like the smell of another woman in your clothes. Or a receipt that stands out or ATM withdrawal you never mentioned. Finding something you left in your pants, even a call you missed at a time you should be able to answer you phone can get their attention. Ever get a random call from her just before you went into an AMP, or right after you left one? How about a text from her with a question while you were in the AMP? These are all signs her radar is working.
Don't forget phones can be tracked, and located. The dead battery excuse for a missed call eventually wears out. Turning it off can also make her wonder why you did that. If you don't answer have a good reason prepared.
Any of these things can raise her radar. Some women deep down know men will be dogs and will eventually be bad, so she is forever expecting that you will be bad sooner or later. No way to change this.
Learn how to keep your activities invisible, and explainable. Definitely know how to and consciously cover your tracks. Don't get lazy about being careful.
Do your extra fun when you have time that is your own. Always use cash that is all your own that she won't wonder where it went. Even coming home too clean after a hard day's work without a logical reason could make her wonder. The Gym plan is a good one, so long as she doesn't show up at the gym one random day looking for you. She might even just happen to drive by the gym doing her errands one day and notice that she does not see your car there when it was the time you say you are there.
Women are natural sleuths when they get suspicious. They are also natural and better stalkers than men are when they think their man is up to something. If she suspects you, you need to turn into the perfect angel for a while. And you have to remain that angel until she is off the trail.
Of course there may be good news about her smelling your clothes.
The sense of smell is strongly connected to sexual attraction and stimulation. Some women love their man's musk so much they wear to bed a shirt he wore so they can have his reassuring smell around them. Or sleep on his side of the bed if he is away. I know women who love to suck morning cock to enjoy the musk. Her smelling your clothes when she does laundry might be a good sign. She might like your smell so much it attracts and activates her sexually. When she sniffs your clothes, do her eyes roll back and does she quiver? LOL.
Suspicion can be the first nail in a monger's coffin. Suspicion alone can cause problems..Big time. If I were suspicious for example I'd go all out. Checking phone when they shower, installing secret trackers, there's a bunch of ways I can get info if I really wanted it. I once installed a key logger to hack into an ex gf ******* account many years ago.
The hardest part is not telling anyone about your exploits, imo. Even your closest friends. It's not fair to burden them with the secrets, and they may tell their SO's. If you want to live this life, you have to 1) be a good partner to your SO, make sure she's getting what she needs from you before you start dipping into extracurriculars and 2), the hard part, you can't tell anyone. That's what this forum is good for, ha.
At one point I was actively dating two independent massage girls in addition to my relationship. Like, dinner, drinks, spending time in their homes, sneaking them into mine. One black, one Chinese. And get this. Both of my "mistresses" had the SAME FUCKING BIRTHDAY. Imagine that coincidence and not being able to tell anyone, not even your mistress! You want to do well in this game you have to be ok keeping secrets.
The hardest part is not telling anyone about your exploits, imo. Even your closest friends. It's not fair to burden them with the secrets, and they may tell their SO's. If you want to live this life, you have to 1) be a good partner to your SO, make sure she's getting what she needs from you before you start dipping into extracurriculars and 2), the hard part, you can't tell anyone. That's what this forum is good for, ha.
At one point I was actively dating two independent massage girls in addition to my relationship. Like, dinner, drinks, spending time in their homes, sneaking them into mine. One black, one Chinese. And get this. Both of my "mistresses" had the SAME FUCKING BIRTHDAY. Imagine that coincidence and not being able to tell anyone, not even your mistress! You want to do well in this game you have to be ok keeping secrets.I think your point number 1 pretty much contradicts everything else relating to this forum. Haha! To make your statement valid, prefix with "Pretend" to be a good partner.
Bunter Hiden
11-24-21, 16:36
The hardest part is not telling anyone about your exploits, imo. Even your closest friends. It's not fair to burden them with the secrets, and they may tell their SO's. If you want to live this life, you have to 1) be a good partner to your SO, make sure she's getting what she needs from you before you start dipping into extracurriculars and 2), the hard part, you can't tell anyone. That's what this forum is good for, ha.
At one point I was actively dating two independent massage girls in addition to my relationship. Like, dinner, drinks, spending time in their homes, sneaking them into mine. One black, one Chinese. And get this. Both of my "mistresses" had the SAME FUCKING BIRTHDAY. Imagine that coincidence and not being able to tell anyone, not even your mistress! You want to do well in this game you have to be ok keeping secrets.You have no way of knowing just how many ways your ass can get busted. Take burner phones. Great solution. Unless you plug it into a recent model vehicle with smart shit dash. True story. My friend got busted when he plugged his untraceable Tiger Woods phone into his charge cord while on his way to see a friend. The car uploaded all of the contacts to the computer and then his wife drove the vehicle later and noticed there was another phone dump. Busted. Also another piece of advice. Don't use emojis nor accept them. Make it clear to the PHD's we all go to see that text communication should always be phrased as if you are getting your oil changed. In a way you are LOL. I spend north of $$$ a year just for personal communication security. There is a reason that Mark Zuckerberg has his camera blocked on his own personal computer.
I think your point number 1 pretty much contradicts everything else relating to this forum. Haha! To make your statement valid, prefix with "Pretend" to be a good partner.You'd be surprised. I have a very understanding and open partner. Something of a don't ask don't tell situation. I know she is emotionally and physically satisfied- but generally, yes, this forum and "good partner" don't go together haha.
RChangDatyKing
11-25-21, 12:00
Happy Thanksgiving all. All the Chinese restaurants and AMPs will be opened today.
RChangDatyKing
11-27-21, 15:50
Man, the girls on the Tinder banner ads for Single Moms are freakin hot. I especially like the dark hair with big boobs, but any of them will do. LOL. I need to limit the amount of times I log on this forum because every time I see those ads I start looking at RR or my contacts to see about making an appointment. Maybe I'll log on before bedtime so Im limited and not as tempted in going out. LOL.
I had two great massage sessions yesterday for Black Friday. Hope why'all had a great day as well.
MilfLoverr
11-27-21, 20:15
Happy Thanksgiving all. All the Chinese restaurants and AMPs will be opened today.Hope you had a good Thanksgiving! Those AMPs did not disappoint on Thursday.
Nice. I had a mistresses (civil gal), SBs, and going for my normal monger activities for 6 years along with SO. One night, Mistress was having perfume lotion on her hands and after our dinner date. Went home and sh! T began from there (that was 4 yrs ago). I never admit anything with SO and gave her an explanation that I was hugging colleagues during dinner time. Well, I am done with mistress and SBs for now as it is too tiring to be alert all the time to avoid being detected by SO.
The hardest part is not telling anyone about your exploits, imo. Even your closest friends. It's not fair to burden them with the secrets, and they may tell their SO's. If you want to live this life, you have to 1) be a good partner to your SO, make sure she's getting what she needs from you before you start dipping into extracurriculars and 2), the hard part, you can't tell anyone. That's what this forum is good for, ha.
At one point I was actively dating two independent massage girls in addition to my relationship. Like, dinner, drinks, spending time in their homes, sneaking them into mine. One black, one Chinese. And get this. Both of my "mistresses" had the SAME FUCKING BIRTHDAY. Imagine that coincidence and not being able to tell anyone, not even your mistress! You want to do well in this game you have to be ok keeping secrets.
Nice. I had a mistresses (civil gal), SBs, and going for my normal monger activities for 6 years along with SO. One night, Mistress was having perfume lotion on her hands and after our dinner date. Went home and sh! T began from there (that was 4 yrs ago). I never admit anything with SO and gave her an explanation that I was hugging colleagues during dinner time. Well, I am done with mistress and SBs for now as it is too tiring to be alert all the time to avoid being detected by SO.Yea I could never have a real relationship on the side, too hectic and more expensive than providers anyway when you really add it up.
RChangDatyKing
11-29-21, 02:38
Nice. I had a mistresses (civil gal), SBs, and going for my normal monger activities for 6 years along with SO. One night, Mistress was having perfume lotion on her hands and after our dinner date. Went home and sh! T began from there (that was 4 yrs ago). I never admit anything with SO and gave her an explanation that I was hugging colleagues during dinner time. Well, I am done with mistress and SBs for now as it is too tiring to be alert all the time to avoid being detected by SO.
Yea I could never have a real relationship on the side, too hectic and more expensive than providers anyway when you really add it up.I do not have a SO and am not currently in a "real" relationship. I go out on dates here and there, sometimes with massage girls. LOL. I can't even imagine how I can balance being in a relationship and mongering. Having to be on alert all the time, and having to make excuses. I tried it when I was dating this girl. It worked for several months, luckily it was football season so I was able to use the excuse that I was meeting the boys to watch football. I'm glad she wasn't a football fan. It ended one day when during sex I called her by a different name. Yes, a name of an escort I had seen. LOL.
I agree. Its waaay more expensive and stressful. Married now 45 years. And a Girlfriend / SO / Business Partner (Mei) for 7 years. Actually today is our 7 yr anniversary. We met in Chicago and I got her an apartment and a massage parlor. Probably the only legit massage parlor in Chicago. Anyway Wife and I moved to SD area in 2019 and I brought Mei here a couple months later. Rented a new apartment and sold the Chicago AMP. Hopefully, now that the COVID is over we'll open a new shop. I can't even tally the amount of money I've spent. Or the difficulty keeping the two lives separate. On the other hand I'm happy. Just a little tired.
Bob.
I do not have a SO and am not currently in a "real" relationship. I go out on dates here and there, sometimes with massage girls. LOL. I can't even imagine how I can balance being in a relationship and mongering. Having to be on alert all the time, and having to make excuses. I tried it when I was dating this girl. It worked for several months, luckily it was football season so I was able to use the excuse that I was meeting the boys to watch football. I'm glad she wasn't a football fan. It ended one day when during sex I called her by a different name. Yes, a name of an escort I had seen. LOL.
If you don't want two phones, get a dual SIM phone. Use prepaid SIM for the second line. Keep the second one always silent. I also have multiple Google Voice Phone numbers and I use WeChat stored in a hidden folder. WeChat is used by a billion Chinese folks and is a great way to keep in touch with Chinese women. It also has a translation feature so you can have a relationship with someone who speaks very little English.
Bob.
Textnow and textfree.
RChangDatyKing
11-29-21, 05:55
I agree. Its waaay more expensive and stressful. Married now 45 years. And a Girlfriend / SO / Business Partner (Mei) for 7 years. Actually today is our 7 yr anniversary. We met in Chicago and I got her an apartment and a massage parlor. Probably the only legit massage parlor in Chicago. Anyway Wife and I moved to SD area in 2019 and I brought Mei here a couple months later. Rented a new apartment and sold the Chicago AMP. Hopefully, now that the COVID is over we'll open a new shop. I can't even tally the amount of money I've spent. Or the difficulty keeping the two lives separate. On the other hand I'm happy. Just a little tired.
Bob.Congratulations to you and Mei on your anniversary. I thought you guys already own a spa in Temecula?
KingOfTheCrop8
11-29-21, 06:02
Just beware that Google voice is connected to your actual phone number and a copy of the texts are sent to your gmail associated w / that google account.You can change this in the settings so that texts and calls don't get forwarded to your email.
I agree. Its waaay more expensive and stressful. Married now 45 years. And a Girlfriend / SO / Business Partner (Mei) for 7 years. Actually today is our 7 yr anniversary. We met in Chicago and I got her an apartment and a massage parlor. Probably the only legit massage parlor in Chicago. Anyway Wife and I moved to SD area in 2019 and I brought Mei here a couple months later. Rented a new apartment and sold the Chicago AMP. Hopefully, now that the COVID is over we'll open a new shop. I can't even tally the amount of money I've spent. Or the difficulty keeping the two lives separate. On the other hand I'm happy. Just a little tired.
Bob.Will be waiting for Ad_Erotica like _1 o8.
Member #6555
12-06-21, 01:09
Anyone ever have any luck in theaters such as Jolar, Barnette, or Adult Depot? I've never been before but curious. Are they mainly sausage fests?
I call all the girls I date "Baby" or "Sweetie. " Even my ex when I was married so I never worry about getting the name wrong. Booyah!
I do not have a SO and am not currently in a "real" relationship. I go out on dates here and there, sometimes with massage girls. LOL. I can't even imagine how I can balance being in a relationship and mongering. Having to be on alert all the time, and having to make excuses. I tried it when I was dating this girl. It worked for several months, luckily it was football season so I was able to use the excuse that I was meeting the boys to watch football. I'm glad she wasn't a football fan. It ended one day when during sex I called her by a different name. Yes, a name of an escort I had seen. LOL.
I do not have a SO and am not currently in a "real" relationship. I go out on dates here and there, sometimes with massage girls. LOL. I can't even imagine how I can balance being in a relationship and mongering. Having to be on alert all the time, and having to make excuses. I tried it when I was dating this girl. It worked for several months, luckily it was football season so I was able to use the excuse that I was meeting the boys to watch football. I'm glad she wasn't a football fan. It ended one day when during sex I called her by a different name. Yes, a name of an escort I had seen. LOL.I can't be as prolific and successful as I am banging hot young girls if I was married. I don't envy you married dudes.
I guess you folks can just live vicariously thru me and RCDK. I fuck any chick whenever or however I want, without having to constantly look over my shoulder and praying to the baby Jesus that my wife does not catch my extramarital shenanigans.
JohnnyLovesIt
12-09-21, 22:39
Anyone ever have any luck in theaters such as Jolar, Barnette, or Adult Depot? I've never been before but curious. Are they mainly sausage fests?I've had some luck at the Adult Depot near Sport Arena. It doesn't happen often but if you go enough times, you're bound to get lucky. Since the pandemic started I haven't had much luck. It's hot when a woman is surrounded by guys and you patiently wait your turn. Most of the time though, it is a sausage fest. I've had some luck at Jolar and Barnett but not like the Adult Depot.
I've had some luck at the Adult Depot near Sport Arena. It doesn't happen often but if you go enough times, you're bound to get lucky. Since the pandemic started I haven't had much luck. It's hot when a woman is surrounded by guys and you patiently wait your turn. Most of the time though, it is a sausage fest. I've had some luck at Jolar and Barnett but not like the Adult Depot.My luck is the reverse. I have had luck in Jolar and in Barnett. Jolar just made a separate VIP theater (separate theater fee) and I have watched a few couple go at it in the VIP, with one giving me a nice BJ while her husband went to town on her. Barnett some fun there too. However, I have never seen a female at Adult Depot. So zero luck there for me.
What's her number? I would like to try my luck with her.
I was banging this really cute redhead at the Rodeway Inn on Adobe Falls Road near SDSU. I mean this chick is just so cute. Freckles from head to toe. Amazing plump tits. Nice ass. Pale white skin and firecrotch ginger pussy. I convinced her to give me her real phone number and I told her I wanted to see her as a "sugar baby" instead of thru her ad. I was actually serious.
As soon as I peeled out of the Rodeway Inn, my burner phone rings and it's some dude totally yelling at me and cussing me out. Warns me to stay away from his girl and if I ever try to contact her again, he would kill me LOL. I have no idea how he was able to replay word for word what I told this girl. He must have had a listening device inside the motel room, or she just fessed up and told him. I believe he thought I was stealing his source of income ha ha ha!
I really wanted to pound that redhead pussy again! Don't get me wrong, I have a CCW and been carrying my Walther 380 for the last 10 years but I leave that shit in my car and have ZERO intention of being in any kind of fight with a pimp or BF. Even when I got robbed, I just shrug my shoulders and move on with no desire for payback. Fuck what's 200 bucks to me? That's less than nothing for me but not for these desperate fools!
Moral of the story. These chicks are always being constantly monitored!
What's her number? I would like to try my luck with her.Are you talking about this freckled redhead with the pissed off BF slash handler slash booker slash pimp?
Loved stretching out her tiny mouth and her tight pink bald pussy!
PoonWrangler84
12-15-21, 17:06
Are you talking about this freckled redhead with the pissed off BF slash handler slash booker slash pimp?
Loved stretching out her tiny mouth and her tight pink bald pussy!Also interested in fucking her.
Sure! Got a fetish for a real red head #firecrouch.
Are you talking about this freckled redhead with the pissed off BF slash handler slash booker slash pimp?
Loved stretching out her tiny mouth and her tight pink bald pussy!
Been hobbying since the old ***** days in mid-2000's. I loved the wealth of information for my hobbying pleasure. I know who to go for the knob gobblers, cum guzzlers and cum dumpsters. The one I haven't read are who are the DATO experts, the one who eats your ass like you eat pussy 😂. I had a couple (1 retired) go to but I need someone to call up from AAA ball to the show 😂.
Sarah is a mature (probably pushing 60) woman with big fake tits and outstanding body for her age. She will flick the alphabet on your ass; Greek is always on the menu, CIM. CONS: hard to find off street parking before / after work hours, kinda hard to get a hold off, ditzy and not a looker.
https://www.eroticmonkey.ch/sarah-escort-san-diego-32925
Teal (retired last month) was my Michael Jordan (seeking her since early 2000's). Exciting CFS, Greek, CIM, eating ass was her art form. Mature (probably pushing 60 also), Blonde with big natural tittles. Looking hard to replace her.
The old Sandag ladies (Asian Sofie was a fav; Kandi), rimming was part of their Repertoire. Round 1 used to be BBBCTC CIM and while you're resting, they massage your back and the rim session proceeds from there to CFS round 2.
Oh memories! Wish I can create more..
Sarah was such a submissive freak I loved seeing her. I remember the first time she DATO'd me, then the next minute she wanted to DFK but I was very apprehensive to do so because I didn't want to taste my ass. I haven't seen her since before Covid. I do occasionally text her in hopes she'd tell me to come over. I miss this gem.
Sarah is a mature (probably pushing 60) woman with big fake tits and outstanding body for her age. She will flick the alphabet on your ass; Greek is always on the menu, CIM. CONS: hard to find off street parking before / after work hours, kinda hard to get a hold off, ditzy and not a looker.
https://www.eroticmonkey.ch/sarah-escort-san-diego-32925
Sarah was such a submissive freak I loved seeing her. I remember the first time she DATO'd me, then the next minute she wanted to DFK but I was very apprehensive to do so because I didn't want to taste my ass. I haven't seen her since before Covid. I do occasionally text her in hopes she'd tell me to come over. I miss this gem.Any current contact info on Sara, I don't subscribe to Monkey.
Any current contact info on Sara, I don't subscribe to Monkey.You don't have to subscribe to view the ad, but you're limited to viewing a maximum of like 5 or 6 profiles.
https://escortbabylon.net/image_list/6192061830
Her number is in one the pics. I don't have an alternate number. I'd love to see her again but she never replies to my texts.
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DrPornDawger
01-12-22, 19:28
Everyone has been describing body types of different providers, some say no ass and not tits, some say too big. It rather seems we are Goldilocks in terms of finding the right body type for our sexual pleasure.
This eurasian girl seen on twitter and Pornhub.
https://vimeo.com/manage/videos/665388300
https://twitter.com/BigTittyGothEgg
https://www.instagram.com/goth__egg/
I'd fuck her in a heart beat, but I don't know if she adverts that, do like her vids though.
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5ee2a620590e7
Anyone else.
Maldini 11
01-12-22, 20:48
Not sure if this is the best place to ask, but any of yall have experience with TS escorts?
I'm straight, but wouldn't mind trying it once. My only concern is that I don't really want anything in my back door or give oral. I feel like it would be too selfish of me. Anyone got any experience?When I see a provider I'm always selfish, they do get donation, so I only do whatever I want. I have no experience with TS, but whatever floats your boat, and a provider is a provider.
Cobra Comander
01-13-22, 00:23
Not sure if this is the best place to ask, but any of yall have experience with TS escorts?
I'm straight, but wouldn't mind trying it once. My only concern is that I don't really want anything in my back door or give oral. I feel like it would be too selfish of me. Anyone got any experience?I do. I had a regular that I saw for a few years before she moved up north. I'm surprised the admin allowed this post to stay, generally they are removed because this forum is supposed to be talk about WOMEN only LOL. I actually think it's because there are too many guys who flip out about it and crate drama and the admin doesn't want to deal with it. I have a little bit of info if you PM me. Here in San Diego and in TJ too. What do you want to know?
CC.
Does TER no longer give 2 weeks of VIP for reviews?
I uploaded a review recently and it was accepted, that usually comes with VIP status for a couple weeks, but it did not seem to be the case this time.
Does TER no longer give 2 weeks of VIP for reviews?
I uploaded a review recently and it was accepted, that usually comes with VIP status for a couple weeks, but it did not seem to be the case this time.Since I have not reviewed in a while, apparently it takes 2 approve reviews.
I don't think that they give VIP for AMP reviews. Also,
If this is your first, you need one more.
Does TER no longer give 2 weeks of VIP for reviews?
I uploaded a review recently and it was accepted, that usually comes with VIP status for a couple weeks, but it did not seem to be the case this time..
DragonWolf
01-18-22, 03:23
I don't think that they give VIP for AMP reviews. Also,
If this is your first, you need one more.
.Here's the relevant FAQ item.
"I reviewed a massage parlor girl and it was posted, why didn't I get VIP credit?
Massage Parlor reviews are accepted and posted in the Massage Parlor section, due to their popularity with our members. However, these reviews will not receive membership credit because the majority of Massage Parlors don't advertise on the web, with the names of their girls on the web advertisement (internet advertising is a TER must for posting). MP enthusiasts usually choose to share their experiences with other members, despite the fact that they won't receive credit for their submission. The choice is up to you. ".
RChangDatyKing
01-20-22, 01:14
Chinese New Year 2022 starts on February 1st. Most Chinese-American will probably start celebrating it on January 31st in the U.S. because it will already be February 1st in China.
Giving Red Envelopes with money is always good, but make sure the amount does not break the 6 Unspoken Chinese New Year Gift Giving Etiquette Rules.
https://www.chinahighlights.com/festivals/chinese-new-year-gift-giving-etiquette.htm
AeroStartC
01-20-22, 01:23
Chinese New Year 2022 starts on February 1st. Most Chinese-American will probably start celebrating it on January 31st in the U.S. because it will already be February 1st in China.
Giving Red Envelopes with money is always good, but make sure the amount does not break the 6 Unspoken Chinese New Year Gift Giving Etiquette Rules.
https://www.chinahighlights.com/festivals/chinese-new-year-gift-giving-etiquette.htmGreat tip, thanks.
I'll be visiting from Austin next week on my 50th birthday. One of my Austin ATFs moved there last year (NatLoveOG). I want to be able to spend a lot more time with her and in her.
I don't have trouble getting hard but my recovery time is measured in hours not minutes. Anyone know of a local source to get a low dose of Viagra or Cialis? I don't want to go through a doc or have it show up where the wife might see it. She knows I don't need for the once every couple weeks she gives in.
Thanks Gents!
I'll be visiting from Austin next week on my 50th birthday. One of my Austin ATFs moved there last year (NatLoveOG). I want to be able to spend a lot more time with her and in her.
I don't have trouble getting hard but my recovery time is measured in hours not minutes. Anyone know of a local source to get a low dose of Viagra or Cialis? I don't want to go through a doc or have it show up where the wife might see it. She knows I don't need for the once every couple weeks she gives in.
Thanks Gents!I went online and used Roman. It worked out pretty well, however, I only used a few of the pills to see how they worked and didn't renew for a second shipment.
I wasted a lot of time looking for other sources, should have just gone there first.
RChangDatyKing
01-28-22, 21:32
Fellow mongers, hope you all have a Happy Chinese New Year in San Diego.
Chinese New Year Celebration Starts Tomorrow for lots of Chinese Americans. There are some fun events scheduled in San Diego. I am taking one of my favorite Chinese hotties on a road trip tomorrow to celebrate and probably won't be able to be online or post much the next 3-7 days 😜.
Stay safe everyone!
I'll be visiting from Austin next week on my 50th birthday. One of my Austin ATFs moved there last year (NatLoveOG). I want to be able to spend a lot more time with her and in her.
I don't have trouble getting hard but my recovery time is measured in hours not minutes. Anyone know of a local source to get a low dose of Viagra or Cialis? I don't want to go through a doc or have it show up where the wife might see it. She knows I don't need for the once every couple weeks she gives in.
Thanks Gents!Just walk across the PedEast border crossing to Tijuana, there is a pharmacy right as you pop out, can get 10 pills for $12, then just walk back across. I can do the whole thing in under 30 min, but I have Global Entry to make coming back fast. You will probably want to have a passport at least to make it easy.
NutterHoeMan
01-28-22, 22:14
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Mr MuffMan
01-28-22, 23:42
Fellow mongers, hope you all have a Happy Chinese New Year in San Diego.
Chinese New Year Celebration Starts Tomorrow for lots of Chinese Americans. There are some fun events scheduled in San Diego. I am taking one of my favorite Chinese hotties on a road trip tomorrow to celebrate and probably won't be able to be online or post much the next 3-7 days 😜.
Stay safe everyone!Have a great trip King! 3-7 days with a Chinese hottie sounds amazing! A bit jealous to be honest LOL. Have a great time!
Mr MuffMan.
ADwightSchrute
01-29-22, 01:52
Enjoy sir! Any tips on if we should bring any items to our favorite spas as gifts / celebration?
Fellow mongers, hope you all have a Happy Chinese New Year in San Diego.
Chinese New Year Celebration Starts Tomorrow for lots of Chinese Americans. There are some fun events scheduled in San Diego. I am taking one of my favorite Chinese hotties on a road trip tomorrow to celebrate and probably won't be able to be online or post much the next 3-7 days 😜.
Stay safe everyone!
RChangDatyKing
01-29-22, 10:20
Chinese New Year 2022 starts on February 1st. Most Chinese-American will probably start celebrating it on January 31st in the U.S. because it will already be February 1st in China.
Giving Red Envelopes with money is always good, but make sure the amount does not break the 6 Unspoken Chinese New Year Gift Giving Etiquette Rules.
https://www.chinahighlights.com/festivals/chinese-new-year-gift-giving-etiquette.htm
Enjoy sir! Any tips on if we should bring any items to our favorite spas as gifts / celebration?Thank you! I had posted a link to CNY gift giving etiquette.
Red envelopes with money is always good. Just make sure the amount does not start with 4. Tea, a fruit box / basket, or gift cards are nice.
Thank you! I had posted a link to CNY gift giving etiquette.
Red envelopes with money is always good. Just make sure the amount does not start with 4. Tea, a fruit box / basket, or gift cards are nice.Aren't you the charmer. Haha! First it's worth noting that many Asian cultures celebrate the Chinese New Year. Koreans, Vietnamese, Thai, Cambodian and Filipinos amongst others. Japanese, not so much. Having dated many Asian women, these are my personal experience's as to what they appreciate on CNY:
- Red Envelopes. I give at least $88 with crisp new bills I order from the bank. ($20 x 4) + ($2 x 4). Note the number of bills equals 8 and $2 bills are also considered lucky.
- Chinese pastries. Asian women generally do not like sweets, but very mild sweets such as the small Asian pineapple cakes and other delicacies sold at 85 C are usually appreciated. Pineapple is a universal lucky fruit.
- Gift cards to a Korean bathhouse or taking your FWB to a Korean bath house. A body scrub for the ladies will be very appreciated.
I'm at a bath house now and my girl is getting a body scrub. Afterwards, the world is your oyster! Speaking of which, seafood and raw oysters are also a favorite of many Asian ladies.
BillyIsTheOne
01-30-22, 02:49
Just walk across the PedEast border crossing to Tijuana, there is a pharmacy right as you pop out, can get 10 pills for $12, then just walk back across. I can do the whole thing in under 30 min, but I have Global Entry to make coming back fast. You will probably want to have a passport at least to make it easy.Another way is to get your doctor to write a prescription for 20 mg sildenafil. Its normally prescribed this way for pulmonary hypertension. The 100 mg pills are branded with viagra and are way more expensive. I had to convince my dr that 20 mg was available as he had never heard of it. Anyway its MUCH cheaper when delivered this way and you can just take 2 or 3 to firm things up.
RChangDatyKing
01-31-22, 03:59
Aren't you the charmer. Haha! First it's worth noting that many Asian cultures celebrate the Chinese New Year. Koreans, Vietnamese, Thai, Cambodian and Filipinos amongst others. Japanese, not so much. Having dated many Asian women, these are my personal experience's as to what they appreciate on CNY:
- Red Envelopes. I give at least $88 with crisp new bills I order from the bank. ($20 x 4) + ($2 x 4). Note the number of bills equals 8 and $2 bills are also considered lucky.
- Chinese pastries. Asian women generally do not like sweets, but very mild sweets such as the small Asian pineapple cakes and other delicacies sold at 85 C are usually appreciated. Pineapple is a universal lucky fruit.
- Gift cards to a Korean bathhouse or taking your FWB to a Korean bath house. A body scrub for the ladies will be very appreciated.
I'm at a bath house now and my girl is getting a body scrub. Afterwards, the world is your oyster! Speaking of which, seafood and raw oysters are also a favorite of many Asian ladies.I agree and also give Red Envelopes with $88. I avoid giving anything in sets of 4's though because 4 in Chinese is bad luck as the pronunciation of the number 4 is very close to death. I usually give a 50,20, 10,5 and 3-1's =88.
Oysters are excellent natural aphrodisiac. Just no fried fish before hitting the bedroom. LOL. A piece of dark chocolate and some strawberries are nice after a light meal.
RChangDatyKing
01-31-22, 04:02
Have a great trip King! 3-7 days with a Chinese hottie sounds amazing! A bit jealous to be honest LOL. Have a great time!
Mr MuffMan.Thanks my friend! My Chinese hottie and I are still enjoying each other's company. LOL.
MaximusKahn
01-31-22, 12:28
It is good to see the interest in the Chinese New Year and the chance to reward our favorites.
It is easy for us who have just a few ATF's we like to spoil, but if you are one of the super mongers who knows a lot of girls at a lot of places giving each of them $88 might break the bank.
Don't forget, they all talk, so if you spoil one, you might have to be prepared to spoil them all when they learn you are giving red envelopes with $88 in them.
Good luck, and may you find your year of the Tiger to include, wealth, and health. Happy Mongering to you all.
It is good to see the interest in the Chinese New Year and the chance to reward our favorites.
It is easy for us who have just a few ATF's we like to spoil, but if you are one of the super mongers who knows a lot of girls at a lot of places giving each of them $88 might break the bank.
Don't forget, they all talk, so if you spoil one, you might have to be prepared to spoil them all when they learn you are giving red envelopes with $88 in them.
Good luck, and may you find your year of the Tiger to include, wealth, and health. Happy Mongering to you all.I spoil them all and more. The talk is what I'm hoping for and believe me when I say that the lucky red envelope works both ways. I receive red envelopes from the ladies as well. Gong xi fa cai!
Sir Bishop
01-31-22, 19:12
fellow mongers, hope you all have a happy chinese new year in san diego.
Chinese new year celebration starts tomorrow for lots of chinese americans. There are some fun events scheduled in san diego. I am taking one of my favorite chinese hotties on a road trip tomorrow to celebrate and probably won't be able to be online or post much the next 3-7 days 😜.
Stay safe everyone!
wish you a happy new year and good health
RChangDatyKing
02-01-22, 12:36
wish you a happy new year and good healthThanks my friend! Wishing you good health and a Happy CNY as well.
RChangDatyKing
02-01-22, 12:38
I spoil them all and more. The talk is what I'm hoping for and believe me when I say that the lucky red envelope works both ways. I receive red envelopes from the ladies as well. Gong xi fa cai!I agree completely. An $88 per ATF is a small investment when the rewards are given back in spades for the new year.
FeedHerNut
02-01-22, 14:11
Just walk across the PedEast border crossing to Tijuana, there is a pharmacy right as you pop out, can get 10 pills for $12, then just walk back across. I can do the whole thing in under 30 min, but I have Global Entry to make coming back fast. You will probably want to have a passport at least to make it easy.I have a connection I have used for 5 yrs. Her name is Kaia and she delivers 150 generic viagra or kamagra (your choice) for $175. It takes 6 weeks but she is like clockwork. I have referred several friends to her as well.
SirJizAlot
02-01-22, 20:31
I agree and also give Red Envelopes with $88. I avoid giving anything in sets of 4's though because 4 in Chinese is bad luck as the pronunciation of the number 4 is very close to death. I usually give a 50,20, 10,5 and 3-1's =88.
Oysters are excellent natural aphrodisiac. Just no fried fish before hitting the bedroom. LOL. A piece of dark chocolate and some strawberries are nice after a light meal.The number four is considered an unlucky number in Chinese culture because it sounds very similar to "death" in Mandarin, but something tells me if you give these girls 4, C-notes in a red envelope or whatever they aren't going to refuse it. LOL.
RChangDatyKing
02-03-22, 21:11
The number four is considered an unlucky number in Chinese culture because it sounds very similar to "death" in Mandarin, but something tells me if you give these girls 4, C-notes in a red envelope or whatever they aren't going to refuse it. LOL.You are probably right that our massage ladies won't care what amount are in the red envelopes. The etiquette was something I found when I did a Google search to understand proper gift giving for Chinese New Year. The ladies will understand that non Asian mongers just don't know any better. LOL.
SirJizAlot
02-04-22, 00:23
You are probably right that our massage ladies won't care what amount are in the red envelopes. The etiquette was something I found when I did a Google search to understand proper gift giving for Chinese New Year. The ladies will understand that non Asian mongers just don't know any better. LOL.With all due respect, I've dated many Asian women and 4 is considered unlucky, depending on its context. Money isn't one of them unless it's related to gambling.
On a similar note, while some of you chaps were giving red envelopes to your favorite ladies, you may have forgotten about the lady that literally hooks us up. The mamasan.
The girls come and go, but MMS is usually a fixture. Moral of the story is, don't forget to take care of our favorite mamasans. I sure didn't and it was very appreciated by Korean and Chinese mamasans. You still have time.
Chinese New Year celebrations traditionally end after 15 days, starting on Chinese New Year's Eve and continuing till the Lantern Festival. This year, the Lunar New Year celebrations are being held between January 31 and February 15.
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I'll be visiting from Austin next week on my 50th birthday. One of my Austin ATFs moved there last year (NatLoveOG). I want to be able to spend a lot more time with her and in her.
I don't have trouble getting hard but my recovery time is measured in hours not minutes. Anyone know of a local source to get a low dose of Viagra or Cialis? I don't want to go through a doc or have it show up where the wife might see it. She knows I don't need for the once every couple weeks she gives in.
Thanks Gents!
MaximusKahn
02-04-22, 12:12
Taking care of the Mamasans is a very good idea. I love an excuse to visit my favorites again. And they always get excited to see me return so quickly. Thanks for bringing up that we have until the 15th, I don't think that was mentioned before.
As for 88 in the envelope which has attracted a lot of comments and advice. 8 tens, 8 ones, and bingo 88. All those fresh bills makes the envelope feel fat! As for sharing the envelopes with my favorites and returning so soon, I'm sure I'll reap the rewards for my kindness and generosity right away. Call it a wise investment for the year of the Tiger.
Happy Mongering.
With all due respect, I've dated many Asian women and 4 is considered unlucky, depending on its context. Money isn't one of them unless it's related to gambling.
On a similar note, while some of you chaps were giving red envelopes to your favorite ladies, you may have forgotten about the lady that literally hooks us up. The mamasan.
The girls come and go, but MMS is usually a fixture. Moral of the story is, don't forget to take care of our favorite mamasans. I sure didn't and it was very appreciated by Korean and Chinese mamasans. You still have time.
Chinese New Year celebrations traditionally end after 15 days, starting on Chinese New Year's Eve and continuing till the Lantern Festival. This year, the Lunar New Year celebrations are being held between January 31 and February 15.
SirJizAlot
02-04-22, 12:35
8 $10 and 8 $1. Genius!
Taking care of the Mamasans is a very good idea. I love an excuse to visit my favorites again. And they always get excited to see me return so quickly. Thanks for bringing up that we have until the 15th, I don't think that was mentioned before.
As for 88 in the envelope which has attracted a lot of comments and advice. 8 tens, 8 ones, and bingo 88. All those fresh bills makes the envelope feel fat! As for sharing the envelopes with my favorites and returning so soon, I'm sure I'll reap the rewards for my kindness and generosity right away. Call it a wise investment for the year of the Tiger..
Have any of you made the trip up to OC to visit these Vietnamese cafes? Are they full service, or any service at all? They sound like a Starbucks / Strip club hybrid. Are they worth the trip?
Have any of you made the trip up to OC to visit these Vietnamese cafes? Are they full service, or any service at all? They sound like a Starbucks / Strip club hybrid. Are they worth the trip?Depends.
I highly doubt it, but you might as well do your research and check the OC boards, esp for the drive and just let us know.
Have any of you made the trip up to OC to visit these Vietnamese cafes? Are they full service, or any service at all? They sound like a Starbucks / Strip club hybrid. Are they worth the trip?Haven't heard of anything happening in the shop. You might be able to find someone willing to do something outside, but most of the girls have boyfriends.
When I've gone, sometime you get topless and / or bottomless shows. They come and sit and chat if it's not too busy and they're not already with the regulars.
VeryHandsome
02-10-22, 22:55
Have any of you made the trip up to OC to visit these Vietnamese cafes? Are they full service, or any service at all? They sound like a Starbucks / Strip club hybrid. Are they worth the trip?Yeah, I've visited Cafe Lu (Santa Ana) about 4 times and tried a couple others that weren't worth me trying to remember the name of. However, none of them provide any "services", definitely not FS unless you can talk up one of the Ladies to meet after work. It's basically a coffee shop with decent music and the option for a hottie in stripper attire to give you a lap dance. I was there a couple months ago and they raised the lap dance price from $25 to $40 "to be in line with the local strip clubs" was the lame excuse they gave me. I guess they have a Union too. LOL. I follow them on IG for the eye candy. They post the talent that will be working everyday. I am not really into strip clubs anymore so I definitely wouldn't make a trip up there just for that. But if you are in the area, it's has much better views than Starbucks!.
RChangDatyKing
02-12-22, 13:15
Hope you all had time to enjoy some fun and quality time with your close friends, favorite masseuses and providers during this year's CNY. From what I've read February 15th is an important day as part of the CNY celebration. On the 15th the Lantern Festival is celebrated. Everyone regardless of age or gender go out onto the streets to celebrate. Though the Lantern Festival symbolizes reunions, it's also a time of socializing and freedom.
Also, Valentines Day is Monday and is celebrated by everyone throughout the world. Treat your favorite hotties right. I’m taking a few days off to take a couple short road trips with a couple of my favorites.
Enjoy your weekend everyone!
Always get a good laugh from perusing the ads on listcrawler! Especially recently, there seem to be more fakes, pimps obviously in the pictures with their ladies, sissy dudes posting and ED or drug ads. This one may be one of the better and weirder ones I've seen yet though. Anyone ever get a cuddle session??
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ADwightSchrute
02-18-22, 06:03
LOL. This reminds me of the meme or similar "imma cuddle you so hard. " I haven't personally done one, but at times after an AMP session the girls will cuddle with you. Does that count LOL.
Always get a good laugh from perusing the ads on listcrawler! Especially recently, there seem to be more fakes, pimps obviously in the pictures with their ladies, sissy dudes posting and ED or drug ads. This one may be one of the better and weirder ones I've seen yet though. Anyone ever get a cuddle session??
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DrPornDawger
02-18-22, 18:50
I don't mind the Bush or trimmed, or bare. I don't like pronounced labias. I'll fuck all of them on the photo
PoonTangJohnny
02-18-22, 19:25
I don't mind the Bush or trimmed, or bare. I don't like pronounced labias. I'll fuck all of them on the photoYou are most def 1 of the most enjoyable entertaining guys here. I closely scrutinized every single vagina pic in that large group shot, LOL, & while I agree I might possibly fuck them all. Dining down on every single 1 of those, might be a whole different story.
ADwightSchrute
02-19-22, 03:57
You are most def 1 of the most enjoyable entertaining guys here. I closely scrutinized every single vagina pic in that large group shot, LOL, & while I agree I might possibly fuck them all. Dining down on every single 1 of those, might be a whole different story.100% agree with this. Maybe you can gather us an AMP collection of vagina pics LOL. Will probably fuck them all, but dining out I would need to really into her.
DragonWolf
02-19-22, 16:46
100% agree with this. Maybe you can gather us an AMP collection of vagina pics LOL. Will probably fuck them all, but dining out I would need to really into her.Presentation matters greatly, when it comes to fine dining. LOL.
Hello,
I was wondering how often you guys get tested? Any discreet trusted spots to get the test done or just thru your physician?
DragonWolf
02-20-22, 23:47
Hello,
I was wondering how often you guys get tested? Any discreet trusted spots to get the test done or just thru your physician?I get bloodwork done on a regular basis for blood sugar management, through my healthcare provider, so I just have them tack on the full STD panel, since they're already drawing blood. They've never given me a hard time about it.
ADwightSchrute
02-21-22, 07:16
Presentation matters greatly, when it comes to fine dining. LOL.Yes presentation does matter. It might be a nice med rare Wagyu steak, but dress it up wrong and it'll ruin everything. IMO I'm more inclined to dine in the morning or as early of a session as possible.
I get bloodwork done on a regular basis for blood sugar management, through my healthcare provider, so I just have them tack on the full STD panel, since they're already drawing blood. They've never given me a hard time about it.I just ask my primary to add the STD panel since I get labs done every six months. They're not the morality police and are forbidden by law to tell your wife (if you use the same primary doc). I straight up tell my doc that I've had sex with sex workers and would like to get tested. No questions asked.
MaximusKahn
02-21-22, 11:47
LOL. This reminds me of the meme or similar "imma cuddle you so hard. " I haven't personally done one, but at times after an AMP session the girls will cuddle with you. Does that count LOL.Went to visit one of my favorites, and after our usual fun, I got on my back as she lied next to me gently working my Johnson. She made me have an absolutely amazing orgasm. Then the real fun started. Instead of jumping up to clean me up she kept playing with my cock as she lied next to me "cuddling. " She play with with Johnny, rubbing my tip as I twitched and shook from the sensory overload in my highly sensitive condition, with a beautiful naked woman next to me.
She did this for a good ten minutes playing with me and cuddling. It was a very enjoyable experience and I really wanted to stay there that way all damn day!
There is something good to say about cuddling, especially if you have great chemistry and she's playing with you the whole time. I can't wait till next time!
Michelle from 7 Spa and 108 would lay next to me to cuddle and play with my cock after I'd cum and if she didn't have another customer round two would ensue. Kinda miss Michelle for that extra attention she provided me.
Went to visit one of my favorites, and after our usual fun, I got on my back as she lied next to me gently working my Johnson. She made me have an absolutely amazing orgasm. Then the real fun started. Instead of jumping up to clean me up she kept playing with my cock as she lied next to me "cuddling. " She play with with Johnny, rubbing my tip as I twitched and shook from the sensory overload in my highly sensitive condition, with a beautiful naked woman next to me.
She did this for a good ten minutes playing with me and cuddling. It was a very enjoyable experience and I really wanted to stay there that way all damn day!
There is something good to say about cuddling, especially if you have great chemistry and she's playing with you the whole time. I can't wait till next time!
Hello,
I was wondering how often you guys get tested? Any discreet trusted spots to get the test done or just thru your physician?I use https://www.healthlabs.com.
Tye use the same Labcorp and or Quest Labs that all the medical providers use. Then you get an email in a few days letting you know you are in the clear.
DragonWolf
02-21-22, 16:22
I just ask my primary to add the STD panel since I get labs done every six months. They're not the morality police and are forbidden by law to tell your wife (if you use the same primary doc). I straight up tell my doc that I've had sex with sex workers and would like to get tested. No questions asked.My labs are quarterly and they've never given me pushback over adding the STD panel to the tests.
I'd actually be concerned if someone's doctor was pushing back on it.
Now, I will say that insurance's coverage of the tests will vary. In that regard, I'm fortunate to have a beefy health insurance plan, whereas years ago I remember being charged for the testing through my primary (dif insurance).
If I use a phone app, that works through the Internet on my cell phone will it show up on my months bill?
If I use a phone app, that works through the Internet on my cell phone will it show up on my months bill?Nope. Just log in on your browser.
Nope. Just log in on your browser.I use the TextNow app. Don't want my old lady checking the phone bill.
I use Talkatone app. Just create a discreet hobby email.
If I use a phone app, that works through the Internet on my cell phone will it show up on my months bill?
ADwightSchrute
02-25-22, 05:25
Nope. Just log in on your browser.Been using google voice.
ArrogantBstrd
03-01-22, 00:20
Random question: My Google (burner) phone is saying that they can't verify my account. Is this happening to anyone else? It just started a few minutes ago. I was literally logged in earlier this morning.
Yes, I've been typing my username and password correctly as I have been for the past few years. It's just a pain since I was in the middle of coordinating a new event. LOL.
Best case scenario is that Google's database is down.
Worst case is that Russia got me, man. It was a pleasure working with you all.
Random question: My Google (burner) phone is saying that they can't verify my account. Is this happening to anyone else? It just started a few minutes ago. I was literally logged in earlier this morning.
Yes, I've been typing my username and password correctly as I have been for the past few years. It's just a pain since I was in the middle of coordinating a new event. LOL.
Best case scenario is that Google's database is down.
Worst case is that Russia got me, man. It was a pleasure working with you all.Strange. Mine is working fine right now as I type this FWIW. Just sent a text to myself and it went through no problem. Also still have all my saved messages / files.
MaximusKahn
03-04-22, 21:03
There is no wonder that the Gold in the latest praised and well reported on AMP Gold Mine is eventually going to change. It is very difficult for even the best providers to be at 100% of their game for 100% of their customers 100% of the time. Especially when they are well advertised, very popular, busy, and hailed as the latest greatest hot spot. It is even difficult for them to perform a perfect visit every time with the same Monger who is obviously going back for more of the magic.
The special talent and chemistry everyone has been raving about can't possibly be for every Monger who enters their domain. This why it is easy to understand why some Mongers are talking about lesser experiences, and even disappointment in rare cases.
Consider what's happening. A stellar review comes to the forum. Mongers line up to enjoy the offerings. More mongers show up and the place gets very busy. Is anyone really surprised with all this action, attention, and business, that the service is going to change a little, or even just be different depending on the Monger? Fame, fortune, and success changes everyone, even providers.
Already Mongers are worried their favorites will be rotated out to other locations. One reason the talented girls are rotated is to avoid burn out. Another reason is that Mongers eventually get bored with the same girls and start going somewhere else. Yes, even the amazing ones can get boring once you've had the greatest experience of your life many times. I think some mongers would agree that we are mongers for the variety. The providers know, Mongers will come and go. The not so good ones and the even the great ones too. Some mongers will be consistent and maybe even loyal, but many will stop coming and never go back because they're moving onto the next hot spot.
And as soon as the reports come in about the next gold mine discovered, the Mongers will flock to get in on the action there too. The MMSs and the providers know they have a limited time to enjoy the business and the attention of the Monger community. They will always do what they can to make the most of it.
All this really means is for us to make the most of it too, and enjoy all the Gold we can, till the mother lode runs out.
DrPornDawger
03-04-22, 21:37
There is no wonder that the Gold in the latest praised and well reported on AMP Gold Mine is eventually going to change. It is very difficult for even the best providers to be at 100% of their game for 100% of their customers 100% of the time. Especially when they are well advertised, very popular, busy, and hailed as the latest greatest hot spot. It is even difficult for them to perform a perfect visit every time with the same Monger who is obviously going back for more of the magic.
The special talent and chemistry everyone has been raving about can't possibly be for every Monger who enters their domain. This why it is easy to understand why some Mongers are talking about lesser experiences, and even disappointment in rare cases.
Consider what's happening. A stellar review comes to the forum. Mongers line up to enjoy the offerings. More mongers show up and the place gets very busy. Is anyone really surprised with all this action, attention, and business, that the service is going to change a little, or even just be different depending on the Monger? Fame, fortune, and success changes everyone, even providers.
Already Mongers are worried their favorites will be rotated out to other locations. One reason the talented girls are rotated is to avoid burn out. Another reason is that Mongers eventually get bored with the same girls and start going somewhere else. Yes, even the amazing ones can get boring once you've had the greatest experience of your life many times. I think some mongers would agree that we are mongers for the variety. The providers know, Mongers will come and go. The not so good ones and the even the great ones too. Some mongers will be consistent and maybe even loyal, but many will stop coming and never go back because they're moving onto the next hot spot.
And as soon as the reports come in about the next gold mine discovered, the Mongers will flock to get in on the action there too. The MMSs and the providers know they have a limited time to enjoy the business and the attention of the Monger community. They will always do what they can to make the most of it.
All this really means is for us to make the most of it too, and enjoy all the Gold we can, till the mother lode runs out.For me, being with the providers that treat me well, I can never get tired of, missing them once they are out of the rotation is another thing, but the "gold" I'm referring to is my discretionary funds, extra disposable income. Kind of like the later Vanderbilts, they spent all their money without making more that will supplement their lifestyles. I have to find residual income to offset my hobbies.
DrPornDawger
03-04-22, 21:40
For anyone looking for an alternate GILF:
Here's one that I remembered.
She had pretty good entertaining ads with music videos.
https://sumosear.ch/images/webpage/samantha-619-4565501-140-80/18943666
I just ask my primary to add the STD panel since I get labs done every six months. They're not the morality police and are forbidden by law to tell your wife (if you use the same primary doc). I straight up tell my doc that I've had sex with sex workers and would like to get tested. No questions asked.But using your primary means it's part of your medical records. With all the online access / portals available you risk your wife seeing you got tested for stds. If you don't have online access all it takes is your insurance I'd, an email and your personal DOB / info which you wife will have and they can see all your records.
It's best just to spend the $100-$200 and get it done discreetly. Or you can always use the city and just pay $40.
MaximusKahn
03-05-22, 12:08
But using your primary means it's part of your medical records. With all the online access / portals available you risk your wife seeing you got tested for stds. If you don't have online access all it takes is your insurance I'd, an email and your personal DOB / info which you wife will have and they can see all your records.
It's best just to spend the $100-$200 and get it done discreetly. Or you can always use the city and just pay $40.If you get a STD panel by your primary doctor that you share with wife or significant other and it comes up positive, then your Dr. Has to test her too. Your Dr. Has to tell her what she's testing for too, and why!
DragonWolf
03-05-22, 13:04
If you get a STD panel by your primary doctor that you share with wife or significant other and it comes up positive, then your Dr. Has to test her too. Your Dr. Has to tell her what she's testing for too, and why!Fair enough concern and good thoughts for the married folks. I, for better or worse, am free from such attachments. Haha.
If you get a STD panel by your primary doctor that you share with wife or significant other and it comes up positive, then your Dr. Has to test her too. Your Dr. Has to tell her what she's testing for too, and why!The doctor is legally not allowed to share any info with other patients, even spouses or relatives. The doctor cannot order a test for the spouse unless the spouse asks for it.
This one provider I was banging a lot, and a few others too, said that Saturday & Sunday are her slowest days, and at first I wondered how could that be as I love a weekend brunch time romp. Then it dawned on me that its likely because all the married mongers are home with the wife and fam on weekends. What percentage of mongers are married? I'm extremely thankful I don't have a wife or committed partner.
The doctor is legally not allowed to share any info with other patients, even spouses or relatives. The doctor cannot order a test for the spouse unless the spouse asks for it.
I miss this one. She totally disappeared from radar at the onset of COVID. Loved her goofy videos.
For anyone looking for an alternate GILF:
Here's one that I remembered.
She had pretty good entertaining ads with music videos.
https://sumosear.ch/images/webpage/samantha-619-4565501-140-80/18943666
This one provider I was banging a lot, and a few others too, said that Saturday & Sunday are her slowest days, and at first I wondered how could that be as I love a weekend brunch time romp. Then it dawned on me that its likely because all the married mongers are home with the wife and fam on weekends. What percentage of mongers are married? I'm extremely thankful I don't have a wife or committed partner.I've always wondered what the slowest times are for AMPs, etc. I've asked a few ladies and they always give the generic "it depends". I'm not married nor am I seeing anyone so my time is wide open. Couple that with work being super flexible and I can hit up all the places at the "right" (slowest) times. Trouble is, when is that? Right when they open? Friday nights? Sunday morning when everyone is at church? Who knows.
ADwightSchrute
03-07-22, 06:37
I've always wondered what the slowest times are for AMPs, etc. I've asked a few ladies and they always give the generic "it depends". I'm not married nor am I seeing anyone so my time is wide open. Couple that with work being super flexible and I can hit up all the places at the "right" (slowest) times. Trouble is, when is that? Right when they open? Friday nights? Sunday morning when everyone is at church? Who knows.IMO I like going in the morning as soon as they open or a few minutes after. I've gone towards the evening and it just seems busier with other mongers being there and the provider having to stop to check them in if MMS isn't available.
MaximusKahn
03-07-22, 11:27
IMO I like going in the morning as soon as they open or a few minutes after. I've gone towards the evening and it just seems busier with other mongers being there and the provider having to stop to check them in if MMS isn't available.I agree, I like to visit in the mornings too, being the first customer. The girls are fresh and awake, and there is seldom a "line" to contend with.
If you call the day before you might be able to set up a special early time with a favorite if she is willing to come in earlier. Some spas open at 10 but she may see you at 9 or 9:30 guaranteeing uninterrupted sessions.
You are right about the girls saying it all depends on the time, But I do know if they like you they'll always tell you their day or days off so you will only come when they are working.
Don't know about all areas but in Kearny Mesa, lunch time, and right at the end of the work day seems to be the busiest. I rarely do evenings but if the girls had a slow day, they are very eager to get you in so they can make some money and they'll treat you right.
The best way to avoid the "line" is to call ahead. A walk in is always hit or miss.
For anyone looking for an alternate GILF:
Here's one that I remembered.
She had pretty good entertaining ads with music videos.
https://sumosear.ch/images/webpage/samantha-619-4565501-140-80/18943666Always wanted to see her. Wonder if she's still active or seeing prior clients.
JackeRouac
03-08-22, 17:14
Is Rubmd down now also? That didn't last long.
Is Rubmd down now also? That didn't last long.If you're referring to RubMaps I just checked and it's working just fine, or at least the free access is.
Is Rubmd down now also? That didn't last long.Works for me, just checked.
RChangDatyKing
03-08-22, 18:27
Is Rubmd down now also? That didn't last long.RubMD is working fine for me.
DrPornDawger
03-16-22, 14:10
I'd like to collect them all as well, anyone know of Filipinos in the area that are great providers?
I've had latinas, lebaneses, Koreans, Chinese, and Japanese, Thai, VIetnamese.
Not yet a Filipino in the states.
I'd like to collect them all as well, anyone know of Filipinos in the area that are great providers?
I've had latinas, lebaneses, Koreans, Chinese, and Japanese, Thai, VIetnamese.
Not yet a Filipino in the states.I'd recommend her. She's recently just returned with new upgrade on top. Though inflation hit her current rates, but still the same sweet provider nonetheless.
https://www.humaniplex.com/profiles/MIA619Filipina
I'd like to collect them all as well, anyone know of Filipinos in the area that are great providers?Mia has already been mentioned. She's a true sweetheart and loved every time I've met up with her on many occassions. She dissappeard, but saw her last year with another provider I follow on IG, and mentioned to her to that I miss her. We keep distance because of mutual civi friendships. Think I might have to hit her up sometime.
There's also Vanessa. Limited menu, but she was always worth my time. She doesn't host down where I'm at that often anymore, but I have made to trip towards the Kearny area and have had multiple hours with her many times.
https://privatedelights.ch/USA/California/San-Diego/vanessaxo27
Those are the only 2 that I know of, and some others I've met through HX have been just meh or outright bullshit, and was just available to scratch an itch, and was much cause of dissappointment or rage.
EDIT: I lied there's 4...my bad!
Grace...she's a looker, just haven't reached out to book. very very tempting though...on tour, but SD is home...Has an apt Downtown that she hosts out of.
https://privatedelights.ch/USA/Texas/Dallas/miograce
then there's Rosie....Gorgeous smile...met her and was like old friends with benefits...on tour a lot, but does make stops in SD often...
https://privatedelights.ch/USA/California/Eastvale/Rosealie143
I heard there were a lot of Filipina women that would hang out at Mr. D's in Chula Vista at night looking for Mr. Goodbar or their soulmate. Can anyone confirm?
Mia has already been mentioned. She's a true sweetheart and loved every time I've met up with her on many occassions. She dissappeard, but saw her last year with another provider I follow on IG, and mentioned to her to that I miss her. We keep distance because of mutual civi friendships. Think I might have to hit her up sometime.
There's also Vanessa. Limited menu, but she was always worth my time. She doesn't host down where I'm at that often anymore, but I have made to trip towards the Kearny area and have had multiple hours with her many times.
https://privatedelights.ch/USA/California/San-Diego/vanessaxo27
Those are the only 2 that I know of, and some others I've met through HX have been just meh or outright bullshit, and was just available to scratch an itch, and was much cause of dissappointment or rage.
EDIT: I lied there's 4...my bad!
Grace...she's a looker, just haven't reached out to book. very very tempting though...on tour, but SD is home...Has an apt Downtown that she hosts out of.
https://privatedelights.ch/USA/Texas/Dallas/miograce
then there's Rosie....Gorgeous smile...met her and was like old friends with benefits...on tour a lot, but does make stops in SD often...
https://privatedelights.ch/USA/California/Eastvale/Rosealie143
So the story I got from one of the ladies who work at a parlor that is mentioned all too often on here (Daily) located in Spring Valley. On March 13th a wife came in the Parlor in tears, she says her husband has an STD and claims he does not know where he got it from? Supposedly The daughter found the parlors address on his GPS history along with websites in history on his computer that led her to the Parlor. Wife demanded too see video of date and time of GPS info. She was denied and very upset.This is a separate issue from the police raid that was a planned coordinated effort according to additional information I've been told. 3-spas with a dozen LE's storming in.
So much for the "under construction" story. Where's Poontang-J with his bogus reports when we need him?
The DudeInSd
03-20-22, 22:24
Actually, I heard there were multiple spas raided in Spring Valley along with a very popular spa on this forum.Is this recent? When anything is good to be true it probably is.
MaximusKahn
03-22-22, 20:31
Do You Know if Your Favorite Providers Read Your Posts and Know It's You Posting it?
I've see posts where the monger makes a statement right to the providers as if he knows they are reading it and knows they know it's him posting it. It's been a thank you for something, or a glowing compliment written right to them. Praising your favorites, and sharing intel is great, but do the women know it's you posting it?
I think many guys who Hobby are like me and try to keep a low profile and remain anonymous.
We know providers read posts, but I myself don't discuss this site with my ladies. I've read enough posts about a good thing being ruined because a provider read a post they didn't like and knew who posted it. I avoid giving clues to my identity in my posts, so I have to wonder how anyone gets by being well known by the ladies and manages to post a lot of details and still remain anonymous?
I'll ask those of you who seem to be popular with the women, who posts a lot in these forums. Do the women know your handle, and do they read your posts knowing it's you writing about them?
If they know the positive reports, and recommendations are coming from you, there must be rewards. How do you avoid a back lash if you give anything but a good recommendation about someone who knows it's you? Or what if they notice you visited them and they know you regularly post, but don't post anything at all? Is there back lash there?
What about your last All Time Favorite, now reading all about your praise and compliments about your New All Time Favorite? Any problems there?
How do you enjoy the benefits of being known and still avoid the pitfalls?
I'm very interested to know how the popular and well known mongers handle this. You can PM me if you don't want to post your replies in the open forum.
Your wisdom and maturity are apparent. Your way is the best way. I'll PM you some additional thoughts.
Do You Know if Your Favorite Providers Read Your Posts and Know It's You Posting it?
I've see posts where the monger makes a statement right to the providers as if he knows they are reading it and knows they know it's him posting it. It's been a thank you for something, or a glowing compliment written right to them. Praising your favorites, and sharing intel is great, but do the women know it's you posting it?
I think many guys who Hobby are like me and try to keep a low profile and remain anonymous.
We know providers read posts, but I myself don't discuss this site with my ladies. I've read enough posts about a good thing being ruined because a provider read a post they didn't like and knew who posted it. I avoid giving clues to my identity in my posts, so I have to wonder how anyone gets by being well known by the ladies and manages to post a lot of details and still remain anonymous?
I'll ask those of you who seem to be popular with the women, who posts a lot in these forums. Do the women know your handle, and do they read your posts knowing it's you writing about them?
If they know the positive reports, and recommendations are coming from you, there must be rewards. How do you avoid a back lash if you give anything but a good recommendation about someone who knows it's you? Or what if they notice you visited them and they know you regularly post, but don't post anything at all? Is there back lash there?
What about your last All Time Favorite, now reading all about your praise and compliments about your New All Time Favorite? Any problems there?
How do you enjoy the benefits of being known and still avoid the pitfalls?
I'm very interested to know how the popular and well known mongers handle this. You can PM me if you don't want to post your replies in the open forum.
I heard there were a lot of Filipina women that would hang out at Mr. D's in Chula Vista at night looking for Mr. Goodbar or their soulmate. Can anyone confirm?Not I. I stopped hanging out at these type of bars. Especially the reputation of Trophy Lounge back in the day, as well as a few other bars around CV / IB. But I haven't been down that area in years. If you don't count my visits AtoZ.
Not I. I stopped hanging out at these type of bars. Especially the reputation of Trophy Lounge back in the day, as well as a few other bars around CV / IB. But I haven't been down that area in years. If you don't count my visits AtoZ.A to Z looks promising as a nice addition to the San Diego area full menu AMP scene. Google "Dreadlock Salon" in Chula Vista and it's in the same plaza. It's where I get my dreadlocks, but I sure miss my Jerry Curls.
RChangDatyKing
03-25-22, 14:39
Happy Spring Break everyone! I will be entertaining some friends / doing some staycations and taking some nearby coastal road trips during spring break. Please take care of all the lovely SD ladies.
DeeeezNutss
03-25-22, 15:22
Have fun brother, the 101 would be a nice drive.
You'll be nicely recharged after to see all the SD ladies! LOL.
Take care man.
Happy Spring Break everyone! I will be entertaining some friends / doing some staycations and taking some nearby coastal road trips during spring break. Please take care of all the lovely SD ladies.
RChangDatyKing
03-25-22, 15:30
Have fun brother, the 101 would be a nice drive.
You'll be nicely recharged after to see all the SD ladies! LOL.
Take care man.Thanks brother! I'm actually taking a female friend / UTR who only works when she's here visiting SD. I might have a kink neck (LOL) after the week long spring break and will need a thorough massage. LOL.
MilfLoverr
03-25-22, 15:31
Happy Spring Break everyone! I will be entertaining some friends / doing some staycations and taking some nearby coastal road trips during spring break. Please take care of all the lovely SD ladies.Have a good time man! Maybe you'll get a chance to explore some new territory.
Thanks brother! I'm actually taking a female friend / UTR who only works when she's here visiting SD. I might have a kink neck (LOL) after the week long spring break and will need a thorough massage. LOL.I took one of my most memorable motorcycle rides up US-1 from San Diego to Portland, then part of the 101 back south. Phenomenal roads and views! Personally, I consider that a solo trip, but more power to you if you can ride with a woman for that long. Haha!
A to Z looks promising as a nice addition to the San Diego area full menu AMP scene. Google "Dreadlock Salon" in Chula Vista and it's in the same plaza. It's where I get my dreadlocks, but I sure miss my Jerry Curls.I've been to AtoZ several seperate times over the past 2-4 months, including the visits to VIP and 108/107.
Last visit was with Mia. Paid for the hr, got 1/2. Same MO as the other visits. Mask stays on, no LFK / DFL, okayish massge, kinda of a sub par HJ / BJ below that. Mia was older than mentioned. Stated 30, I'd say closer to mid 40's. Another isit was supposed to be new girl, but was the same girl from my 2nd visit. Again was not anything to write home about, or even tip extra for services. Was extremely dissappointed, but was in need everytime. I did have high hopes with my first visit with Crystal, but with every girl after that, was nothing to write home about, and was so dissppointed, I called on a past escort just to feel satisfied. Fortunately, and unfortunately, it was the last time I got to see my ATF before she moved out of state permanently. And I just don't want to go visit other places to be dissappointed. VIP and 108 were never like that. Not everytime, but every visit was good enough for me that I came back (pun intended).
I actually know a few cuties that have passed through A to Z, but many working girls are impatient and if they aren't making their goal per day, they're gone. As the business improves, their talent will to. It's on my hit list if I'm in the area, but that doesn't mean I'm going to stay.
Also close by is Bluegreen Spa at the corner of Bonita Rd and Lynwood Dr. Fun fact. . . 3 sisters work there, all look completely different from each other. If any of them like you, the world is your oyster. Hehe!
I've been to AtoZ several seperate times over the past 2-4 months, including the visits to VIP and 108/107.
Last visit was with Mia. Paid for the hr, got 1/2. Same MO as the other visits. Mask stays on, no LFK / DFL, okayish massge, kinda of a sub par HJ / BJ below that. Mia was older than mentioned. Stated 30, I'd say closer to mid 40's. Another isit was supposed to be new girl, but was the same girl from my 2nd visit. Again was not anything to write home about, or even tip extra for services. Was extremely dissappointed, but was in need everytime. I did have high hopes with my first visit with Crystal, but with every girl after that, was nothing to write home about, and was so dissppointed, I called on a past escort just to feel satisfied. Fortunately, and unfortunately, it was the last time I got to see my ATF before she moved out of state permanently. And I just don't want to go visit other places to be dissappointed. VIP and 108 were never like that. Not everytime, but every visit was good enough for me that I came back (pun intended).
I actually know a few cuties that have passed through A to Z, but many working girls are impatient and if they aren't making their goal per day, they're gone. As the business improves, their talent will to. It's on my hit list if I'm in the area, but that doesn't mean I'm going to stay.
Also close by is Bluegreen Spa at the corner of Bonita Rd and Lynwood Dr. Fun fact. . . 3 sisters work there, all look completely different from each other. If any of them like you, the world is your oyster. Hehe!MMS occassionaly texting me "Miss you" is nice, but every visit brought down the quality level. They were all attractive, but the service went down. AtoZ is waaaay further south than I'm willing to add to my daily / end of day commute, especially off Palomar during the rush hours. And the "paid for 60/ recieved 30" was the last straw for me. I just hugged MMS afterwards, said thank you, kissed MMS her on her cheek, and left dissappointed. Didn't even get a hug or kiss from any of the other girls. Only Crystal. I enjoyed my visits, but it wasn't enough to keep me there, or even worth it to keep going that direction.
BlueGreen sounds promising, but that will be left on how they stack up to VIP /108/107. They really set the bar high unless BG does something that can really sway the scales in their favor. Seriously, I get picky, but I'm fairly easy. Thank you for the info.
{after I kiss the girl / s and hug MMS and thank them for their time, I put on my mask, head to my ride, and slowly leave the parking lot of the place. I turn up the car stereo, and do a slow clap build up to whatever song I have my iPod playing on the stereo, and keep singing like no one's watching}.
If the service gets me to do this (Almost EVERYTIME when I leave either VIP, or 108 with Eva. No joke, no lie, no cap), I definitely return.
Sorry this is long.
No doubt the girls at 108, VIP are more beautiful across the board along with a few other popular spas, but I do prefer the more laid back atmosphere of these less popular spas. Also, I tend to like a bit of a challenge getting a thrill by persuading a girl to push their boundaries. I'm sure a few of you can can relate to that.
MMS occassionaly texting me "Miss you" is nice, but every visit brought down the quality level. They were all attractive, but the service went down. AtoZ is waaaay further south than I'm willing to add to my daily / end of day commute, especially off Palomar during the rush hours. And the "paid for 60/ recieved 30" was the last straw for me. I just hugged MMS afterwards, said thank you, kissed MMS her on her cheek, and left dissappointed. Didn't even get a hug or kiss from any of the other girls. Only Crystal. I enjoyed my visits, but it wasn't enough to keep me there, or even worth it to keep going that direction.
BlueGreen sounds promising, but that will be left on how they stack up to VIP /108/107. They really set the bar high unless BG does something that can really sway the scales in their favor. Seriously, I get picky, but I'm fairly easy. Thank you for the info. . .
DrPornDawger
04-08-22, 13:42
I'd like to share what I saw on another board.
I too see myself as DATY connoisseur and love it when I can get the women to squirt all over my face and convulse (as some of you might have had TAZ, she can do it on her on) multiple times and the bed is soaked, not with pee.
RCDK is the king of it and might chime in.
From another user K-.
Going Down? (tutorial).
I consider myself a lover of oral and like many of the posters here. Getting a great blow job is one of the best feelings in the world, so loving, so relaxing, such a nice feeling to receive such pleasure. That being said, there is nothing I like better than going down on a sexy girl.
I love love love getting girls off, and I think the fact that I have been in several LTRs has really helped me gather some pretty good tricks of the trade.
{smile}
First of all, I tease a girl to death before I go NEAR her clit. I repeat, stay away form the clit! Focus on her tits, neck, ears, stomach, illicit crest, I use my hands as well as my mouth I love that nook where the leg meets the vagina absolutely sexy! Much like the neck. I lick and suck gently not eagerly but teasingly, all around her vagina, explore the folds, the hole (with your tongue only at this point) run your tongue down to her knee and back up around the belly button. Spending even a small time teasing will save you time in the end. DO NOT seem anxious or in a hurry no matter how excited you are. You'll know that you really have them going when they are arching and trying to grind the air before you even touch their clit.
Once I do begin to lick their pussy I start with soft wet long licks from top to bottom, focusing more on the clit as I go along, softly, slowly, circling. It took me a long time to realize that being patient will save you so much work. Try not to "flick" or "smack" her clit or vagina, from my experience it is more annoying than anything. I alternate between touching her with my tongue only and using my whole mouth and lips to suck, the variety is key.
If you're doing this right her clit should begin to get harder and poke out a bit, I test her sensitivity by sucking lightly and judging her reaction. Once I have her preference figured out I begin to tease her with my fingers. If you can't tell what she likes, freaking ask her if it feels good or not! Don't be a dumbass and assume!
Now for the fingers.
There is the most special spot right inside the hole on the top. I know you're thinking it's the g-spot which is a little further inside and is kind of rough and spongy. No, I'm talking about the really smooth part at the very opening, it's really small and soft an sensitive and perfect for teasing. Since I have discovered this spot every girl since then has commented that I knew where it was. I play with it by rubbing it and applying pressure until she is trying to fuck my finger deeper inside her, again teasing her until she needs it. Once I have her practically begging to be penetrated, I slide my finger deep and hold it there, letting her fuck my hand. As a side note, I only use one finger, if you get the girl excited enough one finger is all you need, plus it will make your dick feel even bigger once you fuck her and yes I am fucking that tight hole when I am done making you cum with my mouth.
I insert my finger all the way, mind you I am still using my tongue on her clit and surrounding area, alternating speed and pressure based on her reactions. I begin to finger her slowly and using rythem, gauging her response. If you are doing everything right, you will feel her pussy begin to get puffy and full especially on the top near the opening. Viola! The G-Spot is coming to life! Angle your finger to apply pressure to this area, it IS NOT about the in and out! It's about the pressure. Sometimes I keep my fingers stiff and still and let her grind her G-Spot on my finger, amazing orgasms this way! Especially if she can stand having her clit sucked.
Once you have her at this point, she is all yours, you have her right where you want her, alternate sucking and licking her clit while you massage her g spot, again, make her want it, beg for it, be patient not aggressive. When she cums do not stop, let her finish which can take longer than you think. When she done, simply start over. Light touches and licks and stay away from the clit until she is ready. If she is anything like the girls I've been with, you could make her cum again and again, and the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th orgasms are much easier to make happen.
Have fun!
Oh, and don't forget to tell her how much you love licking her pussy!
MaximusKahn
04-09-22, 11:06
Excellent Tutorial!
Long live DrPornDawger the King of Cunnin Linguists!
The connoisseur of pleasing women!
I'd like to share what I saw on another board.
I too see myself as DATY connoisseur and love it when I can get the women to squirt all over my face and convulse (as some of you might have had TAZ, she can do it on her on) multiple times and the bed is soaked, not with pee.
RCDK is the king of it and might chime in.
From another user K-.
Going Down? (tutorial).
I consider myself a lover of oral and like many of the posters here. Getting a great blow job is one of the best feelings in the world, so loving, so relaxing, such a nice feeling to receive such pleasure. That being said, there is nothing I like better than going down on a sexy girl.
I love love love getting girls off, and I think the fact that I have been in several LTRs has really helped me gather some pretty good tricks of the trade.
{smile}
First of all, I tease a girl to death before I go NEAR her clit. I repeat, stay away form the clit! Focus on her tits, neck, ears, stomach, illicit crest, I use my hands as well as my mouth I love that nook where the leg meets the vagina absolutely sexy! Much like the neck. I lick and suck gently not eagerly but teasingly, all around her vagina, explore the folds, the hole (with your tongue only at this point) run your tongue down to her knee and back up around the belly button. Spending even a small time teasing will save you time in the end. DO NOT seem anxious or in a hurry no matter how excited you are. You'll know that you really have them going when they are arching and trying to grind the air before you even touch their clit.
Once I do begin to lick their pussy I start with soft wet long licks from top to bottom, focusing more on the clit as I go along, softly, slowly, circling. It took me a long time to realize that being patient will save you so much work. Try not to "flick" or "smack" her clit or vagina, from my experience it is more annoying than anything. I alternate between touching her with my tongue only and using my whole mouth and lips to suck, the variety is key.
If you're doing this right her clit should begin to get harder and poke out a bit, I test her sensitivity by sucking lightly and judging her reaction. Once I have her preference figured out I begin to tease her with my fingers. If you can't tell what she likes, freaking ask her if it feels good or not! Don't be a dumbass and assume!
Now for the fingers.
There is the most special spot right inside the hole on the top. I know you're thinking it's the g-spot which is a little further inside and is kind of rough and spongy. No, I'm talking about the really smooth part at the very opening, it's really small and soft an sensitive and perfect for teasing. Since I have discovered this spot every girl since then has commented that I knew where it was. I play with it by rubbing it and applying pressure until she is trying to fuck my finger deeper inside her, again teasing her until she needs it. Once I have her practically begging to be penetrated, I slide my finger deep and hold it there, letting her fuck my hand. As a side note, I only use one finger, if you get the girl excited enough one finger is all you need, plus it will make your dick feel even bigger once you fuck her and yes I am fucking that tight hole when I am done making you cum with my mouth.
I insert my finger all the way, mind you I am still using my tongue on her clit and surrounding area, alternating speed and pressure based on her reactions. I begin to finger her slowly and using rythem, gauging her response. If you are doing everything right, you will feel her pussy begin to get puffy and full especially on the top near the opening. Viola! The G-Spot is coming to life! Angle your finger to apply pressure to this area, it IS NOT about the in and out! It's about the pressure. Sometimes I keep my fingers stiff and still and let her grind her G-Spot on my finger, amazing orgasms this way! Especially if she can stand having her clit sucked.
Once you have her at this point, she is all yours, you have her right where you want her, alternate sucking and licking her clit while you massage her g spot, again, make her want it, beg for it, be patient not aggressive. When she cums do not stop, let her finish which can take longer than you think. When she done, simply start over. Light touches and licks and stay away from the clit until she is ready. If she is anything like the girls I've been with, you could make her cum again and again, and the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th orgasms are much easier to make happen.
Have fun!
Oh, and don't forget to tell her how much you love licking her pussy!
The DudeInSd
04-09-22, 13:33
I'd like to share what I saw on another board.
I too see myself as DATY connoisseur and love it when I can get the women to squirt all over my face and convulse (as some of you might have had TAZ, she can do it on her on) multiple times and the bed is soaked, not with pee.
RCDK is the king of it and might chime in.
From another user K-.
Going Down? (tutorial).
I consider myself a lover of oral and like many of the posters here. Getting a great blow job is one of the best feelings in the world, so loving, so relaxing, such a nice feeling to receive such pleasure. That being said, there is nothing I like better than going down on a sexy girl.
I love love love getting girls off, and I think the fact that I have been in several LTRs has really helped me gather some pretty good tricks of the trade..Thanks for sharing, like your style.
Cheers.
RChangDatyKing
04-09-22, 21:33
I'd like to share what I saw on another board.
I too see myself as DATY connoisseur and love it when I can get the women to squirt all over my face and convulse (as some of you might have had TAZ, she can do it on her on) multiple times and the bed is soaked, not with pee.
RCDK is the king of it and might chime in.
From another user K-.
Going Down? (tutorial).
I consider myself a lover of oral and like many of the posters here. Getting a great blow job is one of the best feelings in the world, so loving, so relaxing, such a nice feeling to receive such pleasure. That being said, there is nothing I like better than going down on a sexy girl.
I love love love getting girls off, and I think the fact that I have been in several LTRs has really helped me gather some pretty good tricks of the trade.
{smile}
First of all, I tease a girl to death before I go NEAR her clit. I repeat, stay away form the clit! Focus on her tits, neck, ears, stomach, illicit crest, I use my hands as well as my mouth I love that nook where the leg meets the vagina absolutely sexy! Much like the neck. I lick and suck gently not eagerly but teasingly, all around her vagina, explore the folds, the hole (with your tongue only at this point) run your tongue down to her knee and back up around the belly button. Spending even a small time teasing will save you time in the end. DO NOT seem anxious or in a hurry no matter how excited you are. You'll know that you really have them going when they are arching and trying to grind the air before you even touch their clit.
Once I do begin to lick their pussy I start with soft wet long licks from top to bottom, focusing more on the clit as I go along, softly, slowly, circling. It took me a long time to realize that being patient will save you so much work. Try not to "flick" or "smack" her clit or vagina, from my experience it is more annoying than anything. I alternate between touching her with my tongue only and using my whole mouth and lips to suck, the variety is key.
If you're doing this right her clit should begin to get harder and poke out a bit, I test her sensitivity by sucking lightly and judging her reaction. Once I have her preference figured out I begin to tease her with my fingers. If you can't tell what she likes, freaking ask her if it feels good or not! Don't be a dumbass and assume!
Now for the fingers.
There is the most special spot right inside the hole on the top. I know you're thinking it's the g-spot which is a little further inside and is kind of rough and spongy. No, I'm talking about the really smooth part at the very opening, it's really small and soft an sensitive and perfect for teasing. Since I have discovered this spot every girl since then has commented that I knew where it was. I play with it by rubbing it and applying pressure until she is trying to fuck my finger deeper inside her, again teasing her until she needs it. Once I have her practically begging to be penetrated, I slide my finger deep and hold it there, letting her fuck my hand. As a side note, I only use one finger, if you get the girl excited enough one finger is all you need, plus it will make your dick feel even bigger once you fuck her and yes I am fucking that tight hole when I am done making you cum with my mouth.
I insert my finger all the way, mind you I am still using my tongue on her clit and surrounding area, alternating speed and pressure based on her reactions. I begin to finger her slowly and using rythem, gauging her response. If you are doing everything right, you will feel her pussy begin to get puffy and full especially on the top near the opening. Viola! The G-Spot is coming to life! Angle your finger to apply pressure to this area, it IS NOT about the in and out! It's about the pressure. Sometimes I keep my fingers stiff and still and let her grind her G-Spot on my finger, amazing orgasms this way! Especially if she can stand having her clit sucked.
Once you have her at this point, she is all yours, you have her right where you want her, alternate sucking and licking her clit while you massage her g spot, again, make her want it, beg for it, be patient not aggressive. When she cums do not stop, let her finish which can take longer than you think. When she done, simply start over. Light touches and licks and stay away from the clit until she is ready. If she is anything like the girls I've been with, you could make her cum again and again, and the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th orgasms are much easier to make happen.
Have fun!
Oh, and don't forget to tell her how much you love licking her pussy!Hey Dr! Definitely my favorite activity when I'm enjoying / being entertained by the ladies.
Excellent tutorial! Yes, you never want to assume that the ladies are enjoying themselves. Most probably are, but I want them all to enjoy it as much as I enjoy doing / performing it! ALWAYS make the ladies cum first!
So far I've had 100% success rate. Hehehe.
I always start out by giving the ladies a massage first. Massage relaxes the ladies and will get them in the mood. Similar to DATY don't assume they like soft or hard pressure. Ask what they like and if they have any areas that they would like for you to focus on. Give a true legit massage first. If the ladies immediately respond to your touches with sexual advances then you can slowly start your tease and into your DATY session. If they are enjoying the massage, then I continue with it, but tease with light kissing all over. Body, neck, ears, inner thighs, buttocks, etc. And her kitty every 5 minutes or so. When she is ready she'll start spreading her legs, raising her buttocks. That's when you focus more on the inner thighs and her kitty. Ask her to flip shortly after and resume the massage. She's probably already sexually ready so you don't need to spend too much on the massage, but a quick work on her legs, stomach and breasts then get on the table / bed between her legs and slowly start your DATY session. I go straight to her kitty to let her know what she will be experiencing. I do this for about a minute, then tease around her kitty with kissing every where around it, while using one hand to squeeze her breasts or fingering her kitty (unless you are with someone you are in a LTR with, make sure your fingernails are cut and clean- it's probably good if it's with a LTR person. It's good hygiene and they'll appreciate it).
Again not all girls like it done the same way, so ask what / how she likes it done. I also pay close attention to how they respond where my tongue goes / is. Make them cum first. Unless they are pushing your head away when they are cumming I keep my tongue on her until she is done. When / after she releases the death grip of your head with her legs then you can do it again. After her 2nd or 3rd O, I then tease her with junior with some P2 P. This will drive her crazy before the main event. I've been able to make the ladies cum during P2 P. If not go back to DATY once more until she is close to cum. When she is already ready is when I'll enter her with junior. Of course this'll have to be in at least an hour or 90 minutes session. LOL.
Yes, don't forget to let the ladies know how much you like licking her pussy.
Great topic, Dr!
Have fun fellas. I have an appointment tonight. Hehehe.
AeroStartC
04-10-22, 13:47
Great work from the Dr. and the King. Thanks guys.
RChangDatyKing
04-12-22, 19:37
Thai New Year is April 13th-15th. Reach out to your favorite Thai provider (s) and wish her / them HNY.
I hear people saying they're doing this to check the validity of an ad; if someone doesn't mind, could you post on here how to do this? Might be trivial but could also save a lot of us some time on questionable ads. TIA.
NineInches
04-16-22, 06:23
I hear people saying they're doing this to check the validity of an ad; if someone doesn't mind, could you post on here how to do this? Might be trivial but could also save a lot of us some time on questionable ads. TIA.https://www.howtogeek.com/318012/how-to-reverse-look-up-a-phone-number/
RChangDatyKing
04-17-22, 17:56
Happy Easter All!
Lots of ladies are texting me and inviting me over, offering specials, etc. LOL.
I know with it being Easter Sunday many mongers are probably with family, GF, SO, etc.
It's a great hobbying days for us "single guys. " I've already been to 2 nonFS AMPs today. Excellent massages and lots of fun play. Going to go see one of my favorite independent with an offer I couldn't pass up on later tonight, after meeting an UTR for some tasty Hot Pot. LOL.
Have fun and be safe all!
JiggyPants
04-23-22, 00:37
Geez I need to get to get on this level. Just curious- what is your weekly fun budget? I've gotten a few numbers from spa girls and had much better success with independent girls. With all the turnover how do you maintain those connections? You mainly sticking to the gals that stay local?
Happy Easter All!
Lots of ladies are texting me and inviting me over, offering specials, etc. LOL.
I know with it being Easter Sunday many mongers are probably with family, GF, SO, etc.
It's a great hobbying days for us "single guys. " I've already been to 2 nonFS AMPs today. Excellent massages and lots of fun play. Going to go see one of my favorite independent with an offer I couldn't pass up on later tonight, after meeting an UTR for some tasty Hot Pot. LOL.
Have fun and be safe all!
CuriousJo8
04-23-22, 10:23
It's not worth asking, Bro.
Everyone has their own individual budget and capability. You do what you can with the resources you have.
Focus on your career, keep your income stable, and see how you can improve yourself to increase the money flow. Also, look at where your spending priorities are. If you love the beautiful women enthusiastically sucking your cock, put your financial priority there. Cook for yourself, prepare your own coffee, minimize the takeout to save on expenditure.
You can ask the ladies how balling their more affluent customers can get, and some guys' spending ability will simply humble us peasants.
I am aware that there are some gentlemen who are just fucking ballers but they put a premium on discretion and don't post anything at all. The guys I am jealous of are the business travelers. I have an ATF who, after her San Diego assignment, went to work in Arizona. I am told some guys are able to do business with her there. Then I overheard she's currently working up in Sacramento. Just jealous of those with itinerant capability.
If you want beautiful women on a budget, load your wallet and go to town at HK Tijuana. Supermodel quality and affordable.
To each their own, Bro.
Cheers.
Geez I need to get to get on this level. Just curious- what is your weekly fun budget? I've gotten a few numbers from spa girls and had much better success with independent girls. With all the turnover how do you maintain those connections? You mainly sticking to the gals that stay local?
RChangDatyKing
04-23-22, 13:47
Yes, I agree with CuriousJo8 that everyone has their own individual budget so do what works best for you. I spend most of my resources on non FS spas. When I can confirm there are great talents at FS spas like at 108,7, Diamond, NLBC, etc. Then I will make my visits.
Curious has some great suggestions that I also do to help with budgeting for this pricey hobby. Instead of buying coffee at Starbucks, I either go to 7-11 because their coffee is just as good and you get it for 1/3 of the cost. Plus they give you rewards. Better yet, buy a Keurig coffee maker and make your coffee at home or at the office. Prepare your own lunches for work, or find good lunches on a budget. I only do sit down lunches once a week to avoid having to pay for them sit down restaurant prices, tips, etc. I do mainly take outs and bring it back to the office. I'm single so it is easier because I just have to worry about my needs so take outs work for me. I go to happy hour here and there but we only go to places that have specials.
Yes, I've gone to Mexico when I was younger, and it's less costly but I prefer our local ladies now that I'm older.
It's not worth asking, Bro.
Everyone has their own individual budget and capability. You do what you can with the resources you have.
Focus on your career, keep your income stable, and see how you can improve yourself to increase the money flow. Also, look at where your spending priorities are. If you love the beautiful women enthusiastically sucking your cock, put your financial priority there. Cook for yourself, prepare your own coffee, minimize the takeout to save on expenditure.
If you want beautiful women on a budget, load your wallet and go to town at HK Tijuana. Supermodel quality and affordable..
Geez I need to get to get on this level. Just curious- what is your weekly fun budget? I've gotten a few numbers from spa girls and had much better success with independent girls. With all the turnover how do you maintain those connections? You mainly sticking to the gals that stay local?Bro, you know I'm a huge fan of non FS spas. You and I have shared and talked about some of our favorite spots. Remembered the 20 something model like we kept a secret. LOL. Just because she moved, left the business (boyfriend) that doesn't mean she won't come back. She and I still text each other.
Another thing I do is buy 10 massages and I get one free. Some places give you a card and put a stamp on it after each visit and you get the 11th massage for free after 10 visits are complete. Instead of doing it that way some spas will (still only) charge me $400 if I pay for 10 massages in advance; other will charge me $500 for 10. I only have this arrangement with 4 - 5 spas that I like to frequent. This way I get the HF out of the way. Tips will be between $50-$100 depending on the services offered. Because I'm a regular the girls do not demand for high tips. They also all love my massages so they don't care as much for a huge tip. There are many unicorns at these non FS spas and the menu expands when becoming a regular. The initial investments can be pricey at first, but once the ladies are comfortable with you they will okay with the $50, $70/$80 or $100 tip included in the expanded menu.
There are also still many $50/ hour or $50 for 45 minutes massage places that I frequent so that helps with cost.
Find and do what's comfortable for you!
JiggyPants
04-23-22, 16:29
I appreciate the wisdom fellas. I guess I'm more interested in how you break down the wall of an AMP chick to get her on the side. I have the income to be kinda reckless haha but I seem to have a solid track record in converting independent gals to go on dates, or bare FS when I'm there for a massage. But the parlor is a different thrill and challenge.
Same tactics aren't working on the AMP girls. But I will be the first to admit I never know who the mms is so it's hard to build a rapport unless a girl is local and I know it. I'm newish to the game lots to learn.
Yes, I agree with CuriousJo8 that everyone has their own individual budget so do what works best for you. I spend most of my resources on non FS spas. When I can confirm there are great talents at FS spas like at 108,7, Diamond, NLBC, etc. Then I will make my visits.
Curious has some great suggestions that I also do to help with budgeting for this pricey hobby. Instead of buying coffee at Starbucks, I either go to 7-11 because their coffee is just as good and you get it for 1/3 of the cost. Plus they give you rewards. Better yet, buy a Keurig coffee maker and make your coffee at home or at the office. Prepare your own lunches for work, or find good lunches on a budget. I only do sit down lunches once a week to avoid having to pay for them sit down restaurant prices, tips, etc. I do mainly take outs and bring it back to the office. I'm single so it is easier because I just have to worry about my needs so take outs work for me. I go to happy hour here and there but we only go to places that have specials.
Yes, I've gone to Mexico when I was younger, and it's less costly but I prefer our local ladies now that I'm older.
Bro, you know I'm a huge fan of non FS spas. You and I have shared and talked about some of our favorite spots. Remembered the 20 something model like we kept a secret. LOL. Just because she moved, left the business (boyfriend) that doesn't mean she won't come back. She and I still text each other.
Another thing I do is buy 10 massages and I get one free. Some places give you a card and put a stamp on it after each visit and you get the 11th massage for free after 10 visits are complete. Instead of doing it that way some spas will (still only) charge me $400 if I pay for 10 massages in advance; other will charge me $500 for 10. I only have this arrangement with 4 - 5 spas that I like to frequent. This way I get the HF out of the way. Tips will be between $50-$100 depending on the services offered. Because I'm a regular the girls do not demand for high tips. They also all love my massages so they don't care as much for a huge tip. There are many unicorns at these non FS spas and the menu expands when becoming a regular. The initial investments can be pricey at first, but once the ladies are comfortable with you they will okay with the $50, $70/$80 or $100 tip included in the expanded menu.
There are also still many $50/ hour or $50 for 45 minutes massage places that I frequent so that helps with cost.
Find and do what's comfortable for you!
InstinctGoku
04-23-22, 17:22
Yes, I agree with CuriousJo8 that everyone has their own individual budget so do what works best for you. I spend most of my resources on non FS spas. When I can confirm there are great talents at FS spas like at 108,7, Diamond, NLBC, etc. Then I will make my visits.
Curious has some great suggestions that I also do to help with budgeting for this pricey hobby. Instead of buying coffee at Starbucks, I either go to 7-11 because their coffee is just as good and you get it for 1/3 of the cost. Plus they give you rewards. Better yet, buy a Keurig coffee maker and make your coffee at home or at the office. Prepare your own lunches for work, or find good lunches on a budget. I only do sit down lunches once a week to avoid having to pay for them sit down restaurant prices, tips, etc. I do mainly take outs and bring it back to the office. I'm single so it is easier because I just have to worry about my needs so take outs work for me. I go to happy hour here and there but we only go to places that have specials.
Yes, I've gone to Mexico when I was younger, and it's less costly but I prefer our local ladies now that I'm older.
Bro, you know I'm a huge fan of non FS spas. You and I have shared and talked about some of our favorite spots. Remembered the 20 something model like we kept a secret. LOL. Just because she moved, left the business (boyfriend) that doesn't mean she won't come back. She and I still text each other.
Another thing I do is buy 10 massages and I get one free. Some places give you a card and put a stamp on it after each visit and you get the 11th massage for free after 10 visits are complete. Instead of doing it that way some spas will (still only) charge me $400 if I pay for 10 massages in advance; other will charge me $500 for 10. I only have this arrangement with 4 - 5 spas that I like to frequent. This way I get the HF out of the way. Tips will be between $50-$100 depending on the services offered. Because I'm a regular the girls do not demand for high tips. They also all love my massages so they don't care as much for a huge tip. There are many unicorns at these non FS spas and the menu expands when becoming a regular. The initial investments can be pricey at first, but once the ladies are comfortable with you they will okay with the $50, $70/$80 or $100 tip included in the expanded menu.
There are also still many $50/ hour or $50 for 45 minutes massage places that I frequent so that helps with cost.
Find and do what's comfortable for you!Agreed with RCDY.
I started taking my own lunches to work. I buy some tea bags and use my keurig at home for some hot water + tea / coffee. The money you save will add up. Also, If I'm feeling for a SDAG special then I'll work a per diem shift to make up for it.
RChangDatyKing
04-23-22, 19:38
Agreed with RCDY.
I started taking my own lunches to work. I buy some tea bags and use my keurig at home for some hot water + tea / coffee. The money you save will add up. Also, If I'm feeling for a SDAG special then I'll work a per diem shift to make up for it.This hobby can definitely be addictive especially when there are great talents in our city, but it should never set us back or make us go into debt. Paying for the house fees ahead of time (buying the 10 massage offers) when I have the funds has helped with how I managed my hobbying. Because my HF is already covered, tipping $150-$200 per week is doable for me. Yes, some months I'll need the additional $1,000 to keep my HF current and get the package.
Yes, going to / using SDAG, FEC and FS spas is when I want to treat myself from my "normal. " But I am selective and will only see my ATFs when they are in town. I'm not TOFTT as much as I used to when I first started hobbying.
ADwightSchrute
04-24-22, 00:40
Geez I need to get to get on this level. Just curious- what is your weekly fun budget? I've gotten a few numbers from spa girls and had much better success with independent girls. With all the turnover how do you maintain those connections? You mainly sticking to the gals that stay local?Like everyone else has said focus on your career / job. Minimize where you can, less take out, less Starbucks coffee, subscriptions to Netflix, Spotify, etc. Cook at home more often, then meal prep, buy in bulk, coupon what you can. There is no shame in saving money. Also picking up an extra shift of OT so you can play is always nice. Pick up a side hustle to fund your "fun" expenses. If you prioritize having this hobbie then you could make an excel sheet to see where your budget is going monthly (I know if you google excel finance sheet it'll give free) and what funds you can allocate. I myself will sometimes go 2-3 times in a month or skip a month and make it up the next month. It really depends, I skipped part of April as uncle Sam has me owing him a significant amount. I make sure all my bills and obligations are handled before I budget a visit and look for intel from fellow members on whom I should spend my money and time with. This hobby is expensive and comes with risk. Take everyone's advice with a grain of salt and only do what you feel comfortable doing, I. E. "stay in your lane. " If you can only budget once a month then that's it until you can find more income. Hope this helps and it doesn't offend you or any fellow mongers.
DrPornDawger
04-25-22, 00:16
Like everyone else has said focus on your career / job. Minimize where you can, less take out, less Starbucks coffee, subscriptions to Netflix, Spotify, etc. Cook at home more often, then meal prep, buy in bulk, coupon what you can. There is no shame in saving money. Also picking up an extra shift of OT so you can play is always nice. Pick up a side hustle to fund your "fun" expenses. If you prioritize having this hobbie then you could make an excel sheet to see where your budget is going monthly (I know if you google excel finance sheet it'll give free) and what funds you can allocate. I myself will sometimes go 2-3 times in a month or skip a month and make it up the next month. It really depends, I skipped part of April as uncle Sam has me owing him a significant amount. I make sure all my bills and obligations are handled before I budget a visit and look for intel from fellow members on whom I should spend my money and time with. This hobby is expensive and comes with risk. Take everyone's advice with a grain of salt and only do what you feel comfortable doing, I. E. "stay in your lane. " If you can only budget once a month then that's it until you can find more income. Hope this helps and it doesn't offend you or any fellow mongers.This hobby like any hobby is quite expensive.
Heck I was going out on the traditional date during the normal times (not the pandemic). Dinner and dancing (nightclubs) $60-200 meals and drinks, sometimes a ball game, theatre play or concert (upto $1000 depends if I get a deal on tickets). And that's just the date, no frigging action. Usually takes about 3-5 dates. Costing to about $3000+ to get some action.
With the escorts or AMPs 140-200/ hhr or 120-400+/ hr. Some have reported 1 k+/ hr. (The ones with deep pockets). You can also watch the 60 min australian version.
https://youtu.be/xQF7RDSjQYQ
Golf, video games, or just plain traveling is expensive.
I know a guy, again before the pandemic, he would spend 3-4 months in Thailand, he works remote and a software engineer. Another guy lives and works in Argentina, comes to the states as a vacation, probably just to check in. Or even fly to the Philippines, Cambodia, Vietnam.
I agree with everyone, budget what you can and live on. I do get envious with others who can play more than I can, but I live vicariously through their stories.
The most inexpensive way is:
I use the imagination reading their adventures, pretend to be in their shoes and wank off.
Just like the MasterCard commercial.
Priceless and one big round number: 0 cost.
DrPornDawger
04-26-22, 12:45
Was I taken advantage of or seduced?
Here's the situation.
Went to a ballroom dance party with my woman friend who I admire and feel very attracted to in New York. I know she likes me as a friend (the infamous friend zone). I got the courage to discuss with her about our relationship and would like to see if we become more than friends.
Politely she was clear that it wasn't going anywhere and I respected that. (Heart breaking) Our flight was later that night, but she encouraged me to stay and have fun.
Back to the party dancing with different women and (I don't want to brag, I'm a pretty good dancer) and lots of women wanted to dance with me especially one lady who kept asking me to dance.
I felt down and I was drinking with my friends, even when my dancing was not in tune and I've turned down some great dances, that certain lady kept asking me throughout the night.
As the party ended and the music stopped, I found myself too drunk to drive my car. I told my roommates that I will walk around a bit to get sober and be able to drive. As I'm walking about and enjoying the people pass by, that specific woman that was pursuing me all night came over. We started to make small talk and I told her I'm trying to sober up a bit before I drive.
She knew that I was drunk and chatted with me, probably to help me get sober.
What I remember was she was asking me questions and it went to the path of the sexual nature and flirtatiousness, of course I flirted back, why not.
She asked me," want to see my boobs. " Who would dare say no to an attractive woman (well nowadays we all have to be careful).
Heck of course I would and she exposed them right there in public. (There was hardly anyone around).
One thing led to another and we ended up in the back of my car. (I asked if I can touch them, she said yes, and then suckled on those pretty nips).
She unzipped my pants, luckily I wasn't too funky down there after all that dancing. Went down on me, and in turn I remember going under her dress and sliding her panties off.
I passed out after the intense romp and she cuddled with me until it was time for us to go.
Just intense sex. Wow did it sober me up.
And that was that. Never saw her again.
Was I used for pleasure?
Pete The Great
04-26-22, 23:52
Pick up a side hustle to fund your "fun" expenses.Drive Uber or Lyft. Or do Door Dash or Uber Eats. Make a few extra bucks to help fund the hobby, plus perfect excuse to get out of the house and away from the Old Hag for a few hours.
Jaguar300ZX
04-27-22, 00:15
One thing led to another and we ended up in the back of my car.
(I asked if I can touch them, she said yes, and then suckled on those pretty nips).
She unzipped my pants, luckily I wasn't too funky down there after all that dancing. Went down on me, and in turn I remember going under her dress and sliding her panties off.
I passed out after the intense romp and she cuddled with me until it was time for us to go.
Just intense sex. Wow did it sober me up.
And that was that. Never saw her again. Was I used for pleasure?You recalled the entire affair in great detail, so you weren't 'Black-Out' drunk.
And no one screamed 'Rape'.
So, I'd say that it was just two Consenting Adults enjoying each other's company (in the Biblical Sense).
I'm guessing we will hear the next chapter of ‘How I met your Mother’ in 9-months from now, Dr. PornDaddy.
MaximusKahn
04-27-22, 09:39
Was I taken advantage of or seduced?
Was I used for pleasure?Yes you were seduced, yes you were used for pleasure. Not sure what the problem is here, but I'd say lucky you.
And lets not forget you seduced her with your magnificent dance moves, and used her for pleasure too.
Sounds like a great arrangement to me.
DrPornDawger
04-27-22, 12:49
You recalled the entire affair in great detail, so you weren't 'Black-Out' drunk.
And no one screamed 'Rape'.
So, I'd say that it was just two Consenting Adults enjoying each other's company (in the Biblical Sense).
I'm guessing we will hear the next chapter of How I met your Mother in 9-months from now, Dr. PornDaddy.I got a surprising text from her, didn't remember I gave her the number.
She said drum roll.
Not pregnant.
DrPornDawger
04-27-22, 13:24
Yes you were seduced, yes you were used for pleasure. Not sure what the problem is here, but I'd say lucky you.
And lets not forget you seduced her with your magnificent dance moves, and used her for pleasure too.
Sounds like a great arrangement to me.I guess I was just looking for validity, and an ego boost.
Wish it happened to me more often. LOL.
I guess I was just looking for validity, and an ego boost.
Wish it happened to me more often. LOL.Used to have a sb in sd.
She would always text me praising me and the chemistry between us.
It was a good ego booster.
I'd always pay her for dates.
I paid many times and she was happy and so was I.
One day I told her. Per you we have good chemistry and I am pretty good in bed and you love my company. So why don't you spend some time like always but with no money I asked only 1 date with no money involved.
She never replied back 😀.
Jaguar300ZX
04-27-22, 15:07
I got a surprising text from her,
didn't remember I gave her the number.
She said drum roll. Not pregnant.Weak Sperm.
DrPornDawger
04-27-22, 16:06
Weak Sperm.Plus I pulled out of her.
I don't want no kids coming back to me for child support.
https://www.wbur.org/onlyagame/2015/03/07/wilt-chamberlain-son-aaron-levi#:~:text=Though%20he%20maintained%20in%20his,had%20not%20fathered%20any%20children.
DrPornDawger
04-27-22, 16:16
Anyone out there wanting to break the.
"That’s 2.3 girls per day"
https://www.basketballnetwork.net/old-school/the-origin-of-wilt-chamberlains-20000-women-story-thats-2-3-girls-per-day#text=Podcast-,The%20 origin%20 of%20 Wilt%20 Chamberlain's%2020%2 C000%20 women%20 story, That's%202.3%20 girls%20 per%20 day%22&text=Wilt%20 Chamberlain%20 claimed%20 to%20 have, came%20 up%20 with%20 that%20 number.
https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/sex-world-records
1. The Longest Masturbation Session.
In 2009, Masanobu Sato won the endurance competition at the annual Masturbate-a-thon fundraiser hosted by San Francisco's Center for Sex & Culture, an event that first surfaced in the '90's to destigmatize solo sex and self-pleasure. What was Sato's time, you ask? A whopping nine hours and 33 minutes.
Today, however, Sato faces some stiff competition. According to Mel Magazine, 43-year-old Drake Hardy, a "bisexual man with a master's degree in physical sciences," is gearing up to break the world record, which has since increased to 10 hours and 10 minutes. Workin' hard or hardly workin', eh Drake?
2. The Most Orgasms In One Hour.
According to a blog post from sex toy manufacturer Lelo, doctors from the Center for Marital and Sexual Studies in California once observed 134 orgasms from a single woman in one hour the most ever documented. By contrast, the record for men stands at a measly 16 orgasms in the same length of time.
Similarly, in 1966, a woman experienced the longest orgasm on record. It reportedly lasted for 45 seconds and resulted in 25 individual contractions. Sounds like she came for a good time and a long time.
3. The Oldest Pair Of Twin Sex Workers.
In 2012, Martine and Louise Fokken, then 70-year-old identical twin sisters and long-time sex workers in Amsterdam's Red Light District, released their memoirs and a documentary film about their lives entitled Meet The Fokkens, according to the BBC. The Fokken sisters are widely considered to be the oldest twin sex workers in the business, not only in Amsterdam, where prostitution is legal, but anywhere in the world. BRB, buying tickets for Sister Act 2: Fokken Me Up, coming to a theater near you.
Additional elderly escorts include a Taipei woman in her 80's nicknamed "Grandma" and Sheila Vogel-Coupe, considered to be Britain's oldest prostitute, who is now in her early 90's.
4. The Largest Natural Breasts.
One of the sex world records includes world's largest breasts, held by Annie Hawkins-Turner.
SUSANA RAMREZ.
Annie Hawkins-Turner, better known as Norma Stitz (aka enormous t*ts), is the Atlanta-based fetish model and entrepreneur who's held the Guinness world record for largest breasts since 1999. Now in her 60's, Hawkins-Turner's bra size is a 102 ZZZ and it's speculated that each breast weighs anywhere between 55 and 85 pounds. In 2011, Hawkins-Turner appeared on the UK's This Morning to speak about her experience growing up with such a prominent chest, for which she's been the victim of relentless bullying and teasing from strangers practically all her life. Of her work in the fetish industry, she told the show's hosts, "I've shown people that big is beautiful and you can be sexy in your own way. " Team Norma forever.
5. Most Sexual Partners In A 24-Hour Period.
The holder of this record is widely considered to be porn star Lisa Sparks (also known as Lisa Sparxxx), who at an event in Warsaw, Poland reportedly had sex with 919 individual men back-to-back within a period of 24 hours. No one seems to have been able to out-bang Sparxxx since that fateful day in 2004, so she remains the reigning champ. And frankly, it's a tall order there's not enough lube in the entire solar system to keep the chafing from 900+ partners at bay. We salute you and your steel vagina, Ms. Sparxxx.
6. The Oldest Male Pornstar.
At 60, Tokyo-born Shigeo Tokuda retired from his desk job as a travel agent and took up something a little more stimulating: Porn. Now well into his 80's, Tokuda has starred in more than 350 adult films and is widely considered the "undisputed king of Japanese mature porn. " Flex, king.
7. The Oldest Virgin.
In 2011, UK-born secretary Clara Meadmore died a proud virgin just before turning 108. During a public celebration of her 107th birthday, Meadmore reportedly told the press that the key to her longevity was her abstinence. To Meadmore, sex and intimate relationships seemed like "a lot of hassle. " Maybe she was onto something. *texts ex*.
8. The Biggest Collection of Penises.
If you've got a yen for general erotic art, The World Erotic Art Museum, located in Miami Beach, has thousands of works for you to browse. But if you're looking specifically for a collection of more than 200 penises, you're going to need to head to the Icelandic Phallological Museum in Reykjavik, Iceland. You'll see whale penises, you'll see fox penises, you'll see penises belonging to characters from Icelandic folklore. This is your one-stop phallus shop. Bring your own condoms.
9. The Largest Orgy.
The world record for the largest orgy was broken back in 2006 when 500 naked, writhing bodies came together (in more ways than one) for a sex session in Japan. Since then, the record-holders have proven difficult to de-throne. According to Men's Health, "Menage Life's Sin City 8 sex festival endeavored to hold the world's largest orgy" in 2018, but logistical difficulties resulted in a sub-par total of 375 people. Better luck next time.
10. The Longest Marriage (Who Really Cares about this).
Warning: Painfully sweet content ahead! Zelmyra Fisher, born in 1907, and her husband Herbert Fisher, born in 1905, sealed the deal on May 13,1924 in North Carolina and remained married until Fisher's death in 2015. According to the Guinness Book of World Records, the two had been married 86 years, 9 months, and 16 days as of February 27,2011. Mawwiage indeed!
11. Most Queefs In 30 Seconds.
For those who are less literate in yonic expulsions, a queef is a form of vaginal flatulence, usually accompanied by a fart sound, that escapes the vagina when built-up air pressure is released, especially after or during sex.
In 2009, Howard Stern held a queefing championship, and the results seem to defy all logic and scientific principles. Abby, the winner, reportedly let 93 queefs rip in just one minute for an average of three per second. Truly, an amazing feat. All hail Chief Queef.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IeJxu-1bzgM
Not bad looking either.
12. The Strongest Vagina.
Also in 2009 (such a cursed year), Russian gymnast Tatyana Kozhevnikova reportedly lifted a 31-pound kettlebell using nothing but the strength of her vagina. My kegels could never.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/video/femail/video-1001785/Woman-lift-14kg-vagina.html
13. The Largest Penis.
There's a bit of a dispute about who is the true holder of this coveted record. For many years, New Yorker Jonah Falcon was considered to have the world's largest penis, clocking in at 9. 5 inches flaccid and 13.5 inches when erect. However, in recent years, a challenger from Mexico has come forth named Roberto Esquivel Cabrera, who claims to be the proud owner of a 19-incher. Go long, boys.
FAke?
https://www.the-sun.com/news/us-news/5137080/roberto-esquivel-cabrera-penis-size-disabled/
14. World's Longest Kiss.
According to Guinness, the longest kiss on record lasted a staggering 58 hours, 35 minutes, and 58 seconds. The love birds in question? Thailand's own Ekkachai Tiranarat and Laksana Tiranarat. They completed the smooch at an event organized by Ripley's Believe It or Not! In Pattaya, Thailand in 2013. Talk about a marathon makeout sesh.
15. Longest Ejaculation By Distance.
The official number on record is 18 feet, 9 inches, reportedly spewed from an American man by the name of Horst Schultz. However, according to a recent Mel Magazine article, these numbers are completely unsubstantiated. It's not even clear if this Horst Schultz character is a real person or just an urban legend an Abominable Sperm-man, if you will.
Whether or not he and his record are legit, the lore of Schultz's ejaculate has inspired one anonymous 35-year-old North Hollywood man to shoot for the stars or at least the other side of the room. The man, whom Mel Magazine called "Matthew," is nothing if not dedicated to his craft. His training has whipped his pelvic floor into "prime shape," through "various exercises. " He's also employed "electrical muscle stimulation machines that work via anal probe. " To date, Matthew has passed the 5-foot mark with his sperm. When he reaches six, he reportedly plans to contact the Guinness Book of World Records to finally set the record straight. Far out, dude.
16. Greatest Speed Of Ejaculation.
This is another record reportedly held by Mr. Schultz, of ejaculation legend. If the numbers are correct, Schultz is responsible for a jet stream of semen traveling at 42.7 miles per hour. Sir, we're going to need to see some license and registration, please.
From octogenarian prostitutes to heavy-lifting vaginas, there's no shortage of amazing things we can do with our bodies. Clearly, that old saying is true: Everybody really is good at something even if your special talent is rocketing your semen into space.
This article was originally published on 03.26. 17.
UncleSammy96
04-29-22, 23:29
Wow. This is invaluable step by step. Can't wait to get working with this technique. Thanks, Doc!
I'd like to share what I saw on another board.
I too see myself as DATY connoisseur and love it when I can get the women to squirt all over my face and convulse (as some of you might have had TAZ, she can do it on her on) multiple times and the bed is soaked, not with pee.
RCDK is the king of it and might chime in.
From another user K-.
Going Down? (tutorial).
I consider myself a lover of oral and like many of the posters here. Getting a great blow job is one of the best feelings in the world, so loving, so relaxing, such a nice feeling to receive such pleasure. That being said, there is nothing I like better than going down on a sexy girl.
I love love love getting girls off, and I think the fact that I have been in several LTRs has really helped me gather some pretty good tricks of the trade.
{smile}
First of all, I tease a girl to death before I go NEAR her clit. I repeat, stay away form the clit! Focus on her tits, neck, ears, stomach, illicit crest, I use my hands as well as my mouth I love that nook where the leg meets the vagina absolutely sexy! Much like the neck. I lick and suck gently not eagerly but teasingly, all around her vagina, explore the folds, the hole (with your tongue only at this point) run your tongue down to her knee and back up around the belly button. Spending even a small time teasing will save you time in the end. DO NOT seem anxious or in a hurry no matter how excited you are. You'll know that you really have them going when they are arching and trying to grind the air before you even touch their clit.
Once I do begin to lick their pussy I start with soft wet long licks from top to bottom, focusing more on the clit as I go along, softly, slowly, circling. It took me a long time to realize that being patient will save you so much work. Try not to "flick" or "smack" her clit or vagina, from my experience it is more annoying than anything. I alternate between touching her with my tongue only and using my whole mouth and lips to suck, the variety is key.
If you're doing this right her clit should begin to get harder and poke out a bit, I test her sensitivity by sucking lightly and judging her reaction. Once I have her preference figured out I begin to tease her with my fingers. If you can't tell what she likes, freaking ask her if it feels good or not! Don't be a dumbass and assume!
Now for the fingers.
There is the most special spot right inside the hole on the top. I know you're thinking it's the g-spot which is a little further inside and is kind of rough and spongy. No, I'm talking about the really smooth part at the very opening, it's really small and soft an sensitive and perfect for teasing. Since I have discovered this spot every girl since then has commented that I knew where it was. I play with it by rubbing it and applying pressure until she is trying to fuck my finger deeper inside her, again teasing her until she needs it. Once I have her practically begging to be penetrated, I slide my finger deep and hold it there, letting her fuck my hand. As a side note, I only use one finger, if you get the girl excited enough one finger is all you need, plus it will make your dick feel even bigger once you fuck her and yes I am fucking that tight hole when I am done making you cum with my mouth.
I insert my finger all the way, mind you I am still using my tongue on her clit and surrounding area, alternating speed and pressure based on her reactions. I begin to finger her slowly and using rythem, gauging her response. If you are doing everything right, you will feel her pussy begin to get puffy and full especially on the top near the opening. Viola! The G-Spot is coming to life! Angle your finger to apply pressure to this area, it IS NOT about the in and out! It's about the pressure. Sometimes I keep my fingers stiff and still and let her grind her G-Spot on my finger, amazing orgasms this way! Especially if she can stand having her clit sucked.
Once you have her at this point, she is all yours, you have her right where you want her, alternate sucking and licking her clit while you massage her g spot, again, make her want it, beg for it, be patient not aggressive. When she cums do not stop, let her finish which can take longer than you think. When she done, simply start over. Light touches and licks and stay away from the clit until she is ready. If she is anything like the girls I've been with, you could make her cum again and again, and the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th orgasms are much easier to make happen.
Have fun!
Oh, and don't forget to tell her how much you love licking her pussy!
RChangDatyKing
05-01-22, 21:02
I appreciate the wisdom fellas. I guess I'm more interested in how you break down the wall of an AMP chick to get her on the side. I have the income to be kinda reckless haha but I seem to have a solid track record in converting independent gals to go on dates, or bare FS when I'm there for a massage. But the parlor is a different thrill and challenge.
Same tactics aren't working on the AMP girls. But I will be the first to admit I never know who the mms is so it's hard to build a rapport unless a girl is local and I know it. I'm newish to the game lots to learn.Patience and many repeat visits. It took me almost 18 months with one, after seeing her on and off and letting her know I was attracted to her. I didn't see her as a regular like with some, maybe once every few months until she became more comfortable. She had a boyfriend, got engaged, and started opening up her menu after she took a break / broke up with him. I don't think he was providing what she needed sexually and he didn't want her to do massages. NonFS spa girls also have more to lose and don't want to be known as "famous" to their bosses and coworkers when they open their menu for mongers and they write reviews about them after getting extras. They are call famous because their names and the spas they work at are on review sites. LOL. The girls then have to change spas or their name to avoid all the appointment requests. NonFS Spa girls do not want to be reviewed for this main reason.
From my experience, less "tactics" are required with independents. They are their own boss so they can make their own hours, able to meet for lunches, dinners, and upgrades can easily come with repeat visits and or $$.
For me the thrill is to find these unicorns at nonFS spas. I rotate between my top 10-15 spas and go to two spas per week. Also sex with these ladies can be so much more intense because they are enjoying and wanting the love making session as much as I do. Their moans are more real and there are less acting, I think. LOL. There is never a rush. Sometimes I have a full hour of love making, sometimes 30 minutes depending on how the ladies respond to my massages. Yes, I always start by giving the ladies a massage. When they start spreading their legs, grabbing and stroking junior, rubbing my legs (yes, just like what we do to them. LOL), then I respond to those clues.
Patience and time. I repeat often and quickly with someone I'm attracted to. If they don't reciprocate or respond playfully after 3-5 visits, then I move on, or try again after several months. The initial cost may be pricey to "win them over" but the rewards is worth it for me.
MaximusKahn
05-03-22, 19:14
A lifestyle club like Thads is not for everyone.
Lifestyle clubs are not always what outsiders think. It's not necessarily going to be a wild orgy with everyone doing everyone, nor is it generally an event with women just being there for any man who wants her. These things "can" happen, but generally it's not like that and I've never seen either of these things occur at Thads. Usually it is a social event where sex might happen. Might being the operative word.
Thads is not necessarily there for the single guys, but it is one of the very few Lifestyle clubs that will allow single men to come in. And men are allowed in regularly not just on special nights. Naturally they allow single women to attend almost freely but that should not surprise anyone.
The lifestyle really focuses on couples but singles are involved too and that is pretty cool. It also includes the kinky and those who like to sexually explore, but in the heterosexual world it is about couples who like to have sex with other people beyond their relationship. Singles are invited, but almost always in a controlled way. And this is because single men who don't understand the lifestyle and its rules, or have limited or offensive social skills, or have ego issues, can be a problem.
Swinger couples usually want to find another swinger couple they can connect with and explore sex. This usually comes about after getting to know each other. Couples can be very selective with their playmates and in reality spend time getting to know each other before any action is offered. How quickly that happens is up to the couples.
Couples who do like mfm action or gang bangs are part of the swinger lifestyle, but every woman who is a swinger may not be into either of those activities. A single man being invited to join such fun should be courteous and show appreciation. Generally speaking, in such cases it's about the woman's pleasure, and in the swinger world the woman has the final say to anything.
Quite often her man, is very near by making sure any guys who get out of hand are reeled in quickly. How rough, or kinky they want it will be communicated as the event unfolds. Learn to start slow and easy and see where it can go from there. Obey instructions and do as you are told. Expect to wear a condom. Safe sex is a strong theme at Thads. If you prefer a special type or size bring your own hats.
Single guys should be aware that the guy sharing his women might want some of them too. So if gay or bi action really freaks you out, it might be a good idea to be cautious about mfm, and gang bangs offers. Nobody gives something away for free. The single guy can always say "no thank you" but expect to leave the situation if you do. I've mainly seen straight Hetero action, but you never know what can happen in a sex club.
Thads has a unique format that tips the game in favor of the women. Men must be naked all the time, so you won't be hiding anything, while the women can wear anything or nothing depending on her choice. Any guy who's insecure about his age, fitness, or southern dimensions may not want to go because there could be on any giving night some well hung young studs roaming around very eager to please the women. Thads offers Military and student discounts to bring in the eye candy and boy toys for the women. From what I've seen, these inked up young studs do get chosen for the rodeo quite often.
Now and then some young women do show up, but it is more realistic to expect older couples. In fact, older people in general are more common in the lifestyle. Some will be in good shape, some will not. There are some younger sexy couples who show up, but that all depend on if you are there when they are. As far as attendance, it all depends on the night. It could be awesome, or it could be a boring bust.
On any given night, expect to see way more naked men than women, some old, some young. Again if you are weirded out being around a bunch of naked horny guys, all trying to get some pussy, Thads may not be for you.
If you have a bit of nudist, and swinger in you, it can be great place to exercise your libido. You may get some great sex, or you just may get to talk to some new friends. And anything in between can happen. It all depends on who's there and how well you connect with them. You will meet all kinds. And each will have their own way of being in the life style.
Be friendly and approachable. And I mean be friendly to "everyone," the bartenders, the ugly fat women you'd never think of being with, the old couple who looks a million years old, and especially the men whose lady you're hoping to get. Don't just to charm the women you want to seduce, be sure to chat up her man too. If both of them like you, there is a better chance you'll get somewhere with them. And if you want to fuck his woman it's very respectful to acknowledge him with a sincere conversation. Even be friendly to the naked guys all around you. People want this to be a fun, comfortable, and safe environment to get freaky. Assholes, are noticed, and are not appreciated.
This is a social event, treat it as such. Laid back and relaxed works well. If you act like you're only there to fuck somebody's woman, it will show and very likely kill your chances of fucking anyone but Rosy Palm. Don't follow, tail gate, stalk, or be creepy, if you do, you'll be noticed and not have good results.
Be aware that if you are friendly to everyone, there might be that large girl who is taking a liking to you and makes you an offer, or a very old couple who asks you to join them. If you are not going to be with her or joining them, be very kind about how you reject them. My thing is as you are being friendly, if you notice them hinting of some action, before they officially ask, excuse yourself to the bar or bathroom and then avoid them so you don't have to openly reject their offer. People mill and move around all the time. Very likely they'll get the hint you're not interested because you didn't return, but it will save them the feeling of being rejected after they went out on a limb to offer. Especially for the large girl. Women take rejection more to heart and there is no need to hurt her feelings. If you want to do it, accept their offer and see what comes of it.
There is a lot of open space where wild things can happen, but Thads does have rooms where doors lock for privacy. Respect a closed door, if people want you in the room the door will be open. There is also a couple's area for couples only. No single guys are allowed and there is often a guard to be sure the jerks who don't respect that won't be able to walk in. Horny desperate single guys lurking about, or being pushy can be very uncomfortable for couples so this is a safe area just for them.
If you want to be in the couple's area, bring a woman with you, or better yet, seduce one at Thads who will go in there with you. Sometimes you can even just ask a female there if she'll go with you to show you the couples area. Never know till you ask.
The best way to get to play with a couple is to come with your own female. Girlfriend, wife, fuck buddy, or even a female who will just come with you. This puts you way ahead of the single guys trolling around hoping to be noticed. And if she's into swinging or swapping all the better for everyone!
Always ask for permission before you do anything. If you get permission enjoy it, if you get rejected, take it like an adult and politely leave the situation. Any time you are told no, it is no, and if you are told to back off, just back off without issue. Spoiled childish tantrums never succeed in this environment. If you do get invited, be a giver and not a taker. Work for their enjoyment, and follow the rules they set. This reinforces their choice for selecting you. Suddenly becoming dominant, abusive, or some other undesirable ass and you will find out the event goes south and you're out.
Should you be in a mfm, a mmfmm, or a gang bang, recognize that you are one of many, expect to share. Take turns like an adult, becoming the guy who takes over will likely have negative consequences.
Best rule to follow. Since you are the invited guest, it is best to be a good guest, and make them happy they invited you. Always compliment her, and thank both of them.
Thads isn't for everyone, as everyone doesn't have a swinger's mind set. Rewards for going to Thads are not guaranteed.
If you expect to get sex because you paid, don't go.
If you think it will be one big awesome orgy, don't go.
If you expect to see a bunch of horny young spinners waiting for your cock, don't go.
If you expect getting sex to be easy and freely handed to you, don't go.
If talking and being friendly is too much of a burden, don't go.
If being naked around naked horny men, isn't for you, don't go.
If you expect everyone to be Hollywood beautiful, don't go.
If old naked people, or large people gross you out, don't go.
If you spend the whole night, don't get laid and will feel it was a waste of time, don't go.
Go if you want to meet new people with a very open attitude about sex and see what it is all about. Who knows if you handle yourself right, and are there on the right night, it might be the best experience of your life.
I'm just a naturalist, nudist, swinger, exhibitionist, extraverted hobbyist who likes Thads, so I want you to enjoy it if you decide to go. Oh, and, bring your girlfriend I'll have something for her.
JiggyPants
05-03-22, 21:00
A great breakdown indeed thank you. I never really considered the difference between the FSgirls and massage, really makes you reconsider some things. I also go for the massage to kind of prod and see what they're comfortable with.
Thanks King.
Patience and many repeat visits. It took me almost 18 months with one, after seeing her on and off and letting her know I was attracted to her. I didn't see her as a regular like with some, maybe once every few months until she became more comfortable. She had a boyfriend, got engaged, and started opening up her menu after she took a break / broke up with him. I don't think he was providing what she needed sexually and he didn't want her to do massages. NonFS spa girls also have more to lose and don't want to be known as "famous" to their bosses and coworkers when they open their menu for mongers and they write reviews about them after getting extras. They are call famous because their names and the spas they work at are on review sites. LOL. The girls then have to change spas or their name to avoid all the appointment requests. NonFS Spa girls do not want to be reviewed for this main reason.
From my experience, less "tactics" are required with independents. They are their own boss so they can make their own hours, able to meet for lunches, dinners, and upgrades can easily come with repeat visits and or $$.
For me the thrill is to find these unicorns at nonFS spas. I rotate between my top 10-15 spas and go to two spas per week. Also sex with these ladies can be so much more intense because they are enjoying and wanting the love making session as much as I do. Their moans are more real and there are less acting, I think. LOL. There is never a rush. Sometimes I have a full hour of love making, sometimes 30 minutes depending on how the ladies respond to my massages. Yes, I always start by giving the ladies a massage. When they start spreading their legs, grabbing and stroking junior, rubbing my legs (yes, just like what we do to them. LOL), then I respond to those clues.
Patience and time. I repeat often and quickly with someone I'm attracted to. If they don't reciprocate or respond playfully after 3-5 visits, then I move on, or try again after several months. The initial cost may be pricey to "win them over" but the rewards is worth it for me.
MaximusKahn
05-05-22, 09:39
When You Finally Get Your Favorite One-hour massage AMP Provider to offer FS to You.
Once you formed that trusting bond with one of your favorite AMP providers and she opens her menu for you be sure you reward her trust. Remember she is discrete with your activities; you should be discrete with hers.
Be sure to keep her secret from her fellow Providers and the MMS. Assume FS is not normal or allowed, and, if the wrong people find out, it can get her fired in a heartbeat, or worse.
When having fun be quiet, sex can be uniquely noisy where anyone and everyone who hears it, knows what's going on. When it's not a FS place and you don't hear other mongers going at it, always assume you have to be very quiet. Her putting her finger up to her lips, like "shhhhhh" should be a clue.
Bring condoms, and be prepared to take the trash with you to be disposed of off premises. Do your part to help her out and leave no evidence left at the Spa.
Pay attention to her lead with public displays of affection. If she doesn't kiss or hug you anywhere except in the room, don't try to hug or kiss her where others might see. Especially true if she walks you to the door and doesn't initiate any physical contact. Just smile and say good bye without any contact.
Make sure the monger you tell about her is cool and trustworthy.
A great breakdown indeed thank you. I never really considered the difference between the FSgirls and massage, really makes you reconsider some things. I also go for the massage to kind of prod and see what they're comfortable with.
1) The ones who will give you for free what other men have to pay for; and.
2) The ones who will give you what other men cannot even buy.
Don't tell anyone about the second kind, not even your buddies on here. Pussy is stronger than any online friendship!
ADwightSchrute
05-06-22, 19:16
"This is the way".
Mando reference.
1) The ones who will give you for free what other men have to pay for; and.
2) The ones who will give you what other men cannot even buy.
Don't tell anyone about the second kind, not even your buddies on here. Pussy is stronger than any online friendship!
I've been unemployed, sabbatical, for about 6 months now. Income is minimal and with just a little left over to spend on extras (weed and women) I'm often forced to choose between weed or pussy. Weed usually wins out because it brings pleasure for a far longer period of time than a shag with an escort or AMP. $100 of weed for me and I'm high all week. $100 qv pussy and I'm buzzed for an hour or two. Time for my Sunday morning wake and bake.
Quoting the infamous song lyrics of Afroman:
I was going to make love to you but then I got high (ooh) (I'm serious).
I was going to eat your pussy too (ohhh) but then I got high.
Now I'm jackin' off (ahh) and I.
Know why (turn this shit off, ha ha ha).
'Cause I got high.
Because I got high.
Because I got high.
RChangDatyKing
05-08-22, 12:57
I've been unemployed, sabbatical, for about 6 months now. Income is minimal and with just a little left over to spend on extras (weed and women) I'm often forced to choose between weed or pussy. Weed usually wins out because it brings pleasure for a far longer period of time than a shag with an escort or AMP. $100 of weed for me and I'm high all week. $100 qv pussy and I'm buzzed for an hour or two. Time for my Sunday morning wake and bake.
Quoting the infamous song lyrics of Afroman:
I was going to make love to you but then I got high (ooh) (I'm serious).
I was going to eat your pussy too (ohhh) but then I got high.
Now I'm jackin' off (ahh) and I.
Know why (turn this shit off, ha ha ha).
'Cause I got high.
Because I got high.
Because I got high.For ME, pussy (ies) wins every time over weed.
Now if you said a football game or pussy that might be a tie.
A UFC event, 3-days fishing trip or pussy, UFC and fishing trip might take a slight edge over pussy. LOL.
For ME, pussy (ies) wins every time over weed.
Now if you said a football game or pussy that might be a tie.
A UFC event, 3-days fishing trip or pussy, UFC and fishing trip might take a slight edge over pussy. LOL.Nothing beats fresh tuna.
ADwightSchrute
05-09-22, 05:09
For ME, pussy (ies) wins every time over weed.
Now if you said a football game or pussy that might be a tie.
A UFC event, 3-days fishing trip or pussy, UFC and fishing trip might take a slight edge over pussy. LOL.Have why'all tried a track day / event?
MaximusKahn
05-09-22, 14:10
Along with what you wrote I think in the professional provider world there are a few types of unicorns to consider.
The one you find and think it's a secret.
The one a few people know about, which is sort of a secret.
The one everyone knows about, and like to pretend it's a secret. Mina from VIP would be a fine example of this.
Of course we all cherish the unicorns we find in our private life, we either marry them, enjoy them as a girlfriend, fuck buddy, or mistress, or kick ourselves in the ass for letting them get away.
1) The ones who will give you for free what other men have to pay for; and.
2) The ones who will give you what other men cannot even buy.
Don't tell anyone about the second kind, not even your buddies on here. Pussy is stronger than any online friendship!
Mr MuffMan
05-09-22, 16:09
I've been unemployed, sabbatical, for about 6 months now. Income is minimal and with just a little left over to spend on extras (weed and women) I'm often forced to choose between weed or pussy. Weed usually wins out because it brings pleasure for a far longer period of time than a shag with an escort or AMP. $100 of weed for me and I'm high all week. $100 qv pussy and I'm buzzed for an hour or two. Time for my Sunday morning wake and bake.
Quoting the infamous song lyrics of Afroman:
I was going to make love to you but then I got high (ooh) (I'm serious).
I was going to eat your pussy too (ohhh) but then I got high.
Now I'm jackin' off (ahh) and I.
Know why (turn this shit off, ha ha ha).
'Cause I got high.
Because I got high.
Because I got high.
For ME, pussy (ies) wins every time over weed.
Now if you said a football game or pussy that might be a tie.
A UFC event, 3-days fishing trip or pussy, UFC and fishing trip might take a slight edge over pussy. LOL.Football? Fishing? Weed? Over a hot chick with a tight pussy? Come on guys, I thought you were hornier that that. LOL.
Mr MuffMan.
RChangDatyKing
05-09-22, 19:49
Football? Fishing? Weed? Over a hot chick with a tight pussy? Come on guys, I thought you were hornier that that. LOL.
Mr MuffMan.What's up Mr. Muffman!
I'm talking about a real football game, not on TV. I dated a girl in college who was a cheerleader in HS so when we get together she always bring her cheer outfits. Cheerleaders always get me horny so it's a win, win for the date I see after a football game. LOL.
The thrill of the hunt and landing a nice size tuna gets my adrenaline going. The date I see after a fishing trip gets to experience some of that remaining adrenaline during love making. It's a win, win for the both of us. Plus who does not love fresh tuna. LOL.
No weed for me brother! Pussy wins all the time if I had to pick between the two.
Weed has never let me down, whereas some of these escorts are straight up regrettable.
Football? Fishing? Weed? Over a hot chick with a tight pussy? Come on guys, I thought you were hornier that that. LOL.
Mr MuffMan.
MaximusKahn
05-09-22, 21:13
I guess when you can have it at the snap of your fingers or the crack of your wallet you lose appreciation for fine tight pussy.
This is what happens when getting something is too easy. It loses it's value.
This also happens when you're getting it too often. Other things start to look like they would be more exciting to do.
Like the guy who fucks the Unicorn 1000 times, eventually he's telling his friends it is no big deal. Soon after that he looking for "different" pussy or just decides to do something else.
It would be interesting to see how they talked about if they were not able to get it on command.
DrPornDawger
05-09-22, 21:32
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VppLkcCpdo0
I hope you guys can listen to the lyrics.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7SNAg2ials
Mr MuffMan
05-09-22, 22:05
What's up Mr. Muffman!
I'm talking about a real football game, not on TV. I dated a girl in college who was a cheerleader in HS so when we get together she always bring her cheer outfits. Cheerleaders always get me horny so it's a win, win for the date I see after a football game. LOL.
The thrill of the hunt and landing a nice size tuna gets my adrenaline going. The date I see after a fishing trip gets to experience some of that remaining adrenaline during love making. It's a win, win for the both of us. Plus who does not love fresh tuna. LOL.
No weed for me brother! Pussy wins all the time if I had to pick between the two.No need to explain yourself King. I was just kidding, well kinda LOL.
Mr MuffMan.
Mr MuffMan
05-09-22, 22:12
Weed has never let me down, whereas some of these escorts are straight up regrettable.Well The MuffMan lives a clean and sober life, so can't really relate to your first point. But yes, there's nothing worse than leaving an appointment with a provider, or an AMP, and having the immediate regret of "why did I do that?" or "I just wasted $200 on that? Might as well just flushed the $$ down the toilet". So I hear you there.
Mr MuffMan.
RChangDatyKing
05-10-22, 10:07
No need to explain yourself King. I was just kidding, well kinda LOL.
Mr MuffMan.Don't get me wrong Mr. Muffman, nothing can ever replace good pussy. I spent 2 hours with a new friend last night and we just explored each other's bodies until we were both satisfied. I think I'm hungry again though, LOL.
Mr MuffMan
05-10-22, 13:16
Don't get me wrong Mr. Muffman, nothing can ever replace good pussy. I spent 2 hours with a new friend last night and we just explored each other's bodies until we were both satisfied. I think I'm hungry again though, LOL.There you go King. Now you're talking! LOL.
Mr MuffMan.
RChangDatyKing
05-11-22, 23:40
A great breakdown indeed thank you. I never really considered the difference between the FSgirls and massage, really makes you reconsider some things. I also go for the massage to kind of prod and see what they're comfortable with.
Thanks King.Hey JPants!
Yes, when trying to find unicorns I definitely differentiate between FS girls and masseuses at nonFS spas. For me I don't really consider FS girls as unicorns because there's not much more to "chase" that already isn't being offered during a session. Maybe getting the girls to do BBFS, but that's not important to me. Yes, there are some FS girls that I have bare sessions with and it's been amazing because they organically happened. I don't ask for it or pursue it so when it does happen it's special. I don't get too excited about it though because I have to assumed others might also be getting the same service. That's why I spend more time at the nonFS spas.
Now with girls / masseuses at nonFS spas, there are lots to look forward to: Topless, nude, mutual touch, kissing, oral, mutual oral, FS (covered, then maybe bare FS), dinner dates, travel dates, etc. This is where I have the most fun, finding sexy and beautiful unicorns. Developing friendships, then becoming lovers. Plus I love a good massage now and then, and so do the ladies. One "friend" says I'm sculpting her body when I give her massages. LOL.
It's also important IMO that there's- Chemistry, trust, mutual attraction for one another that must also exist for these ladies to consider opening themselves up. As I stated the nonFS spa girls have lots to loose so they will be cautious and it may take many repeat visits if it's going to happen.
Just my 2 cents and what's worked for me.
Oh two more things- know how to give a legit massage and DATY.
RChangDatyKing
05-21-22, 12:08
There was a great post yesterday about the significance of 520 and it's meaning in China. 520 originally started as a slang word used by Chinese lovers online as a shortcut to say I love you in Chinese, like ILY in English. It then came to be associated with the date May 20th (5.20), which became a very romantic day! Show your love with 520!
I had a great day with a Chinese lady friend celebrating 520 yesterday. We had a nice lunch, did massages and hung out at the bay / beach for a fun and relaxing and romantic day.
Today, May 21st also has significance for lovers in China. Following the recognition of 520 as a symbol of romance, the number 521 also gradually became associated with love. Lovers in China have now bestowed the number 521 with the meaning "I am willing", and both May 20 and May 21 are celebrated as Online Valentine's Days in China every year.
I had sent some texts to several of my favorite ladies wishing them happy 520 yesterday. All were excited receiving the messages and thanked me for thinking about and remembering them. This morning, I received a couple of texts from 2 ladies I am gradually developing a friendship and playful relationship with. The wanted to wish me happy 521 and told me they want to try something new next time I see them and both said, 'I am willing' in the happy 521 wish. I love all these love traditions and celebrating them.
Happy 521 to all the lovely Chinese ladies in my life. I too am willing. Wink, wink.
Heywood858
05-21-22, 18:31
Hey JPants!
Yes, when trying to find unicorns I definitely differentiate between FS girls and masseuses at nonFS spas. For me I don't really consider FS girls as unicorns because there's not much more to "chase" that already isn't being offered during a session. Maybe getting the girls to do BBFS, but that's not important to me. Yes, there are some FS girls that I have bare sessions with and it's been amazing because they organically happened. I don't ask for it or pursue it so when it does happen it's special. I don't get too excited about it though because I have to assumed others might also be getting the same service. That's why I spend more time at the nonFS spas.
Now with girls / masseuses at nonFS spas, there are lots to look forward to: Topless, nude, mutual touch, kissing, oral, mutual oral, FS (covered, then maybe bare FS), dinner dates, travel dates, etc. This is where I have the most fun, finding sexy and beautiful unicorns. Developing friendships, then becoming lovers. Plus I love a good massage now and then, and so do the ladies. One "friend" says I'm sculpting her body when I give her massages. LOL.
It's also important IMO that there's- Chemistry, trust, mutual attraction for one another that must also exist for these ladies to consider opening themselves up. As I stated the nonFS spa girls have lots to loose so they will be cautious and it may take many repeat visits if it's going to happen.
Just my 2 cents and what's worked for me.
Oh two more things- know how to give a legit massage and DATY.Well said and I totally agree!
Happy Hunting 😃.
Biggest anxiety may have come to fruition. My girl said it hurts to pee a little bit. I have no symptoms, and it's been a while since I've mongered, but I'm scared. Going to get tested this week.
I was wondering if y'all have ever passed something onto your person, and how you saved that situation. Or am I just fucked if I'm positive.
Anybody know the name of this latina porn princess? She looks a lot like my friend's daughter who I want to fuck every time I see her.
There's no way to explain yourself out of this if you're positive. Unless she has her own hobby going on. Just hope it's a UTI and you're negative.
Biggest anxiety may have come to fruition. My girl said it hurts to pee a little bit. I have no symptoms, and it's been a while since I've mongered, but I'm scared. Going to get tested this week.
I was wondering if y'all have ever passed something onto your person, and how you saved that situation. Or am I just fucked if I'm positive.
Mr MuffMan
05-29-22, 16:05
Biggest anxiety may have come to fruition. My girl said it hurts to pee a little bit. I have no symptoms, and it's been a while since I've mongered, but I'm scared. Going to get tested this week.
I was wondering if y'all have ever passed something onto your person, and how you saved that situation. Or am I just fucked if I'm positive.Check out the safe sex information part of this site for more tips and advice. But I've read great things about this service. https://www.callondoc.com/en/consultation. I've never used them, but from what I understand, you can do an online consultation and they'll prescribe antibiotics for you right then and there. Maybe tell them you have symptoms and get some antibiotics into your system right away. This way if you do have something it should clear it. Then if your girl tests positive, you can go get tested and will probably be negative, so you'll have some believable deniability at that point. Not the greatest solution I know. But the only thing I can think of. Otherwise you're pretty much fucked and best to tell the truth. Of course if you can get tested right away and you're negative, you have nothing to worry about. Good luck.
Mr MuffMan.
Are there sex shops that do peep shows / live girl shows or is that not a thing anymore?
Are there sex shops that do peep shows / live girl shows or is that not a thing anymore?Most closed due to state law requiring the dancers be paid minimum wage rather than as "independent contractors". Jolars and Barnett got rid of their booths entirely. I have read that Adult Emporium at 5101 Convoy still has booths / dancers.
Fantasy Shots was closed down and out of business so those type of Jack Shacks are gone too.
MongerSeeker
06-02-22, 17:18
The adult store on Main st used to have live shows. Not sure if they have them any more. Personally I rare go into adult stores. Or strip clubs. I figure it is better to spend on money on sex.
Are there sex shops that do peep shows / live girl shows or is that not a thing anymore?
MaximusKahn
06-03-22, 15:00
Many posts include the caveat, YMMV, which is the famous "your mileage may vary. " And this is because we know that to be a true statement. What is amazing to one, may be completely forgettable to another.
I've taken it to be even more realistic to say YMWV or "your mileage will vary. " No two mongers are going to have exactly the same experience even if they are close. There are many factors that go into our experiences with a provider.
Here are some to consider.
Chemistry.
You both put out a good vibe, or a good feeling towards each other. But chemistry works against us sometimes too. You or she gets a bad vibe, and it just doesn't feel right after that.
Personal Attraction.
You are her type, she is your type, feeling attracted to each other is as easy as it gets, and perfect when it's mutual. Generally, a provider will work with you even if you are not her "type" but it is more fun when you are.
Looks Count.
If she thinks you are good looking, and in good shape, for your age or at any age, it helps. Of course if she feels you are not so good looking, or in poor shape, it can affect her enthusiasm. Just as her "looks" affect us too. Everyone has a type, if you are her type or close to it, all the better, if you are not her type, that just is what it is.
Age is a Factor.
Makes sense that younger women are more likely to be attracted to younger guys and may perform better for them simply do to that attraction. Fortunately, some do like the more mature clients to play with. Mongers have a preferred age for our providers too.
Attitude can sometimes be the most important thing.
Are you agreeable, respectful, easy going, easy to like? Or something else? Of course her "attitude" matters to us too and can ruin a good thing.
Your behavior is important.
Are you respectful, even courteous, operate with permission, and stay in the boundaries they set. Do you put forth an effort to please here? Or do you treat her like she's now your property to use because you paid for it?
Is there a Pre-established relationship?
A lot of mongers get extras because they are good repeat customers. She knows and trusts them, they know her and she's willing to do more to please them and keep them coming back. Repeat customers who make them feel comfortable, even good about themselves, are valued. Even if you say and do everything right, and have good intel, one time visits can be hit or miss.
Do you manage your Hygiene, Cleanliness, and Grooming Well?
These are very important to a good experience. If you are clean and smell nice, they are more likely to want to touch you. Take notice of your hands. Are your fingernails clean and trimmed? Are your hands soft or rough like sand paper?
Do you touch her like she is delicate?
As a general rule, the softer and gentler you touch, the more you may get to touch. The more they enjoy your touch, the better for you. Touch her like a delicate woman, if she wants it rougher, she'll let you know. Anything that hurts like rough squeezing, pinching, or jamming probably will works against getting what you want.
Timing in the Day matters too.
Are you hitting the last hour of the day when she may be tired and ready to close shop? Some say they get the best when they are last, especially if it was a slow money making day for the spa. But they also might be tired and worn out from making many mongers happy through the day. How inspired about work are you in the last hour of your long work day? Imagine a 10 am to an 11 pm shift, and your last client walked in at 10:35 pm expecting a full half hour, or even an hour session!
Compensation and Tips Matter.
We know it's about money to get what you want on the menu, but not always how well they deliver what's on the menu. That can be determined by some of the other things listed here. Tips are important. Tight wads, cheap skates, and swindlers don't get too far for too long. Always tip fairly, but I suggest if you want the best results over and over again, tip generously.
Consider that it might be a bad day, or just bad timing for her.
She's having a bad day, maybe going through tough times, or just had an asshole customer right before you. She might be having her period (or about to, PMS). Try to take this into consideration if you can.
Don't assume just because one Monger posts that he just had the most amazing experience of his life that it's going to be the same for you. And by the same notion, if a Monger gives a horrendous review about someone he never plans to see again, don't assume that is what you'll experience with her too. This is why we read several reviews and do our research. All Mongers are not created equal, and so all Monger experiences will not be equal either. And thus with many providers, because there are no guarantees, you will see that YMWV!
Every post is just one man's opinion, where some opinions are shared, some aren't. That said, agree or disagree, take every post with a grain of salt and do your own homework.
Not able to access rubmd today. Did it get taken down or is it just me?
RChangDatyKing
06-03-22, 19:31
Not able to access rubmd today. Did it get taken down or is it just me?I'm not able to access it either.
BlueSkyBlue
06-03-22, 22:06
Very well said, doubt I could've said it better myself.
Many posts include the caveat, YMMV, which is the famous "your mileage may vary. " And this is because we know that to be a true statement. What is amazing to one, may be completely forgettable to another.
I've taken it to be even more realistic to say YMWV or "your mileage will vary. " No two mongers are going to have exactly the same experience even if they are close. There are many factors that go into our experiences with a provider.
Here are some to consider.
Chemistry.
You both put out a good vibe, or a good feeling towards each other. But chemistry works against us sometimes too. You or she gets a bad vibe, and it just doesn't feel right after that.
Personal Attraction.
You are her type, she is your type, feeling attracted to each other is as easy as it gets, and perfect when it's mutual. Generally, a provider will work with you even if you are not her "type" but it is more fun when you are.
Looks Count.
Very well said, doubt I could've said it better myself.Add this one to YMWV.
*Cock Hardness, Size, etc. Let's face it. Even if you are a stud, sometimes the session sucks. They are always looking to control their mileage and want easy money. If they like you then you will know. If you have a limp dick they might seem to like you better. They don't like hard customers. Take it all with a grain of salt. GPS always kicks in and I've found most just can't perform like they once did unlike a non pro. The less you give them the better they perform and I will always believe that. Tip doesn't matter.
Very well said, doubt I could've said it better myself.Just wanted to add that I love this YMWV post. And tips do matter. But when they don't matter it's usually because no matter what you tip they have GPS and we don't want them. But they might be good too. Of course if your bankroll is big.
The DudeInSd
06-04-22, 22:37
Anybody have any idea on what's going on with all of these advertising websites? Definitely going to make it tough with no place to advertise, how can we choose?
DrPornDawger
06-08-22, 16:06
No longer going to have access to free reviews.
Damn.
No longer going to have access to free reviews.
Damn.I never trusted PD.
Most of the girls have all 5 star reviews.
MaximusKahn
06-08-22, 19:25
I've noticed that a lot of the hobbyists who consistently post having a great time with the ladies seem to be the same guys who show respect, compassion, and a genuine interest in the ladies' wellbeing and their connection to them.
Hmmmmm. Imagine that. Maybe something to consider as we are out there trying to enjoy the hobby.
I've noticed that a lot of the hobbyists who consistently post having a great time with the ladies seem to be the same guys who show respect, compassion, and a genuine interest in the ladies' wellbeing and their connection to them.
Hmmmmm. Imagine that. Maybe something to consider as we are out there trying to enjoy the hobby.Shh. The dickheads make us look good by comparison haha. Can't have the sweet without the sour!
DrPornDawger
06-09-22, 21:11
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ky3D6Mjxi0w
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JkTrJ7b4gvM
Just had to wank off to some of these women.
I've noticed that a lot of the hobbyists who consistently post having a great time with the ladies seem to be the same guys who show respect, compassion, and a genuine interest in the ladies' wellbeing and their connection to them.
Hmmmmm. Imagine that. Maybe something to consider as we are out there trying to enjoy the hobby.The secret is out!
Jaguar300ZX
06-10-22, 02:39
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ky3D6Mjxi0w
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JkTrJ7b4gvM
Just had to wank off to some of these women.Why do small chested women even think they need to wear a Bra?
That's like putting a rear-wing spoiler on a Ford Pinto!
P.S. Reviews were mainly bs anyhow. They only allow positive reviews and no writes for the audience. When I write reviews I start from the beginning and go through to the end. I can't tell you how many ****** changed by something I said during the date, just as many Positive changes as well as negative. I want to know if she is a kisser; gives incredible head, or all teeth, covered or BBBJ; even bbbfs (including cip or pull and shoot, pas). We should be here to help each other spend our money more efficiently and weed out the shitty chicks who hate life. I'd love to know if the old woman is not attractive but great in bed. If the young chick only talks about her boyfriend trouble while you are balls deep in her troubled little pussy. I want to know if she is into being there and doing this or not. The nots we can all pass on. The chicks that dig men need to have their schedules fully loaded so in a years time they walk bowlegged.
AeroStartC
06-11-22, 11:55
I've noticed that a lot of the hobbyists who consistently post having a great time with the ladies seem to be the same guys who show respect, compassion, and a genuine interest in the ladies' wellbeing and their connection to them.So true. Thanks for posting this.
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Does anyone know how to pay for RM outside of a debit card or crypto? I tried a $200 vanilla gift card (vanillagift.com) for a year subscription and it was denied. Those things used to work for SA too but now they don't seem to work anywhere. Anyone have an leads on what does? Cheers.
RChangDatyKing
06-19-22, 08:23
To all the fathers, hope you all have a fantastic Father's Day!
Potentially another great hobbying day for the single guys. LOL.
BillyBatson
06-19-22, 20:15
Does anyone know how to pay for RM outside of a debit card or crypto? I tried a $200 vanilla gift card (vanillagift.com) for a year subscription and it was denied. Those things used to work for SA too but now they don't seem to work anywhere. Anyone have an leads on what does? Cheers.You get 1 month free for uploading a new massage parlor location. Go on google in another state and just look up massage spots that haven't been uploaded yet.
I'm sure this has probably been discussed.
Like most I use a burner number from any one of those apps out there. I don't like having the apps on my phone so I use ones that allow web based login. Well, last week it stopped working unless I verified with a number and when I tried using another burner number to verify it wouldn't let me. Anyone have a work around that doesn't require me to verify with my real number?
Thanks for any feedback.
Ill.
DrPornDawger
06-20-22, 16:44
I'm sure this has probably been discussed.
Like most I use a burner number from any one of those apps out there. I don't like having the apps on my phone so I use ones that allow web based login. Well, last week it stopped working unless I verified with a number and when I tried using another burner number to verify it wouldn't let me. Anyone have a work around that doesn't require me to verify with my real number?
Thanks for any feedback.
Ill.It uses burner emails.plus will allow you to change number if not in use
It uses burner emails.plus will allow you to change number if not in useI used burner emails as well and have been using burner numbers for years, but for some reason it's asking me for a number to verify before I can send / receive anymore text. Just asking around to see if anyone else is dealing with this.
Running errands today and this lady was out before noon. Initially passed her when she was walking toward me but I couldn't stop. On my way back into the area I see her walking back where I first saw her at and tried to talk to her but was a no go. Looked like a streetwalker or potentially homeless as I've been seeing more homeless show up in the area. Just none that look like this. Did seem like she was talking to herself quite a bit. Hours later I go through the area again and see her walking the same road but with pajama pants on this time.
BillyBatson
06-22-22, 23:57
Running errands today and this lady was out before noon. Initially passed her when she was walking toward me but I couldn't stop. On my way back into the area I see her walking back where I first saw her at and tried to talk to her but was a no go. Looked like a streetwalker or potentially homeless as I've been seeing more homeless show up in the area. Just none that look like this. Did seem like she was talking to herself quite a bit. Hours later I go through the area again and see her walking the same road but with pajama pants on this time.LOL at the Sonic backpack. Where did you spot this lady? Is that Dalbergia?
FyreControl
06-23-22, 01:09
Running errands today and this lady was out before noon. Initially passed her when she was walking toward me but I couldn't stop. On my way back into the area I see her walking back where I first saw her at and tried to talk to her but was a no go. Looked like a streetwalker or potentially homeless as I've been seeing more homeless show up in the area. Just none that look like this. Did seem like she was talking to herself quite a bit. Hours later I go through the area again and see her walking the same road but with pajama pants on this time.What is "the area" you are referring to?
Looking for gloryhole fun. Seeing if there is a way to connect with couples. I am interested in gloryholes and group sex? Thoughts? Suggestion's?
MaximusKahn
06-28-22, 09:25
As I've posted about a few times, Thads is a swingers club right here in beautiful San Diego where the 15 and 94 meet.
There you have a good chance to meet swingers, and they have a glory hole.
To find it, just Google Thads and view their web site.
Be mindful of your manners, turn on your charm and check it out. Good hunting.
Looking for gloryhole fun. Seeing if there is a way to connect with couples. I am interested in gloryholes and group sex? Thoughts? Suggestion's?
MaximusKahn
06-28-22, 11:31
Shh. The dickheads make us look good by comparison haha. Can't have the sweet without the sour!Your post is funny, and so amazingly true.
But don't worry, the DK-heads will always be DK-heads, and they'll always make us look good by comparison!
To paraphrase an old German proverb when it comes to giving unsolicited advice. Wise men don't need it and fools won't heed it. And I would add, that the rest of us listen carefully and use it to our advantage!
I'm hoping to help the smart and / or the new guys who are trying to increase their mileage and are interested in hearing a tip or two to learn the game and better their score.
Besides, IMHO, the more mongers we encourage to treat our women well, the better it is for all of us. Especially the women, and that's important to me.
SantaaClaus
06-28-22, 15:16
I normally just visit AMPs but I would like a break down of why people tend to use different types of services. If you were to generalize the different experiences you would receive or the best categories for experience you are looking for how would it go. Ill go first but my experience is limited so take it with a grain of salt. I'm trying to grasp why people use escorts.
AMP -most convenient, middle of the road in terms of price and service. Knockouts are available but rare?
SW. Cheap, thrill of the hunt. Highest risk of legal issues, and risk of bad experience.
Sugar baby- expensive top tier women. Longer term relationships but experience can vary. The worst for the amount of time and effort.
Aamp. Best odds of having a great experience, low key, shower, non rushed. Less convenient than AMP and more money.
?Escorts. More ethnicities available. More options in term of price and time. Photos posted online. High risk of getting scammed, legal issue, catfished, and risk of a bad experience of service. ? (I have no experience with escorts).
I normally just visit AMPs but I would like a break down of why people tend to use different types of services. If you were to generalize the different experiences you would receive or the best categories for experience you are looking for how would it go. Ill go first but my experience is limited so take it with a grain of salt. I'm trying to grasp why people use escorts.
AMP -most convenient, middle of the road in terms of price and service. Knockouts are available but rare?
SW. Cheap, thrill of the hunt. Highest risk of legal issues, and risk of bad experience.
Sugar baby- expensive top tier women. Longer term relationships but experience can vary. The worst for the amount of time and effort.
Aamp. Best odds of having a great experience, low key, shower, non rushed. Less convenient than AMP and more money.
?Escorts. More ethnicities available. More options in term of price and time. Photos posted online. High risk of getting scammed, legal issue, catfished, and risk of a bad experience of service. ? (I have no experience with escorts).Rub and tug: It can vary greatly from very affordable (Chinese massage places) to into the 200's. My fave for this category is Michelle.
AMP: So many to choose from right now and so many different girls coming and going it's the easiest way to go.
Latin MP: Similar to AMP but less establishments to choose from. Favorite: Sophia at Moon.
AAMP: Don't know if Cris' crew in UTC counts but been there done that. Would like to try SDAG but too many requirements for screening.
Sugar baby: Never done it because it does seem like a lot of work and time.
Escorts: Although it gets a lot of hate on this site, I use private delights often. Never used HX. Only used listcrawler a couple of times. Too many fake pics and obvious scam ads.
The DudeInSd
06-28-22, 22:43
Rub and tug: It can vary greatly from very affordable (Chinese massage places) to into the 200's. My fave for this category is Michelle.
AMP: So many to choose from right now and so many different girls coming and going it's the easiest way to go.
Latin MP: Similar to AMP but less establishments to choose from. Favorite: Sophia at Moon.
AAMP: Don't know if Cris' crew in UTC counts but been there done that. Would like to try SDAG but too many requirements for screening.
Sugar baby: Never done it because it does seem like a lot of work and time.
Escorts: Although it gets a lot of hate on this site, I use private delights often. Never used HX. Only used listcrawler a couple of times. Too many fake pics and obvious scam ads.Michelle and Sophia. Okay thank you very much.
Rub and tug: It can vary greatly from very affordable (Chinese massage places) to into the 200's. My fave for this category is Michelle.
AMP: So many to choose from right now and so many different girls coming and going it's the easiest way to go.
Latin MP: Similar to AMP but less establishments to choose from. Favorite: Sophia at Moon.
AAMP: Don't know if Cris' crew in UTC counts but been there done that. Would like to try SDAG but too many requirements for screening.
Sugar baby: Never done it because it does seem like a lot of work and time.
Escorts: Although it gets a lot of hate on this site, I use private delights often. Never used HX. Only used listcrawler a couple of times. Too many fake pics and obvious scam ads.What shop is Michelle located at? I've heard her name pop up more than a few times but have never seen that mentioned. Cheers.
Member #6468
07-02-22, 00:39
I normally just visit AMPs but I would like a break down of why people tend to use different types of services. If you were to generalize the different experiences you would receive or the best categories for experience you are looking for how would it go. Ill go first but my experience is limited so take it with a grain of salt. I'm trying to grasp why people use escorts.
AMP -most convenient, middle of the road in terms of price and service. Knockouts are available but rare?
SW. Cheap, thrill of the hunt. Highest risk of legal issues, and risk of bad experience.
Sugar baby- expensive top tier women. Longer term relationships but experience can vary. The worst for the amount of time and effort.
Aamp. Best odds of having a great experience, low key, shower, non rushed. Less convenient than AMP and more money.
?Escorts. More ethnicities available. More options in term of price and time. Photos posted online. High risk of getting scammed, legal issue, catfished, and risk of a bad experience of service. ? (I have no experience with escorts).AMPs: Never tried them. I would definitely love to though. Some recommendations that are African-Americans friendly would be dope, please and thank you LOL.
SWs: I go to them because they have the body type that I prefer: legitimately thick and above-average height ( 5'7). I've gotten burned a few times (figuratively and literally), but women with that body type don't really look my way outside of this hobby, so SWs (that fit the mold) are a way to quench my thirst. I can get a skinny / slim girl easy, but I usually just get bored of them quickly.
Sugar babys: Nah. I make under 40 K a year, so that's a hell no for me LOL.
AAMP: What's that?
Escorts: I have a few go-tos due to escort-hunting being more dangerous than just grabbing a SW off the street, in my opinion. I used to frequently escort-hunt because of the convenience of going on LC or EB as opposed to having to drive 10 minutes to Dalb. , with there being a high probability of wasting gas due to a multitude of factors.
I believe most of the FS spas being reported relentlessly daily are AA friendly, but I can tell you for sure that my AA buddies are now regulars of 108. They are younger dudes thirties or less, super cool and generous so maybe it's just that, but give them a try and let us know how it goes. My AA buddies love the MMS Mimi.
AMPs: Never tried them. I would definitely love to though. Some recommendations that are African-Americans friendly would be dope, please and thank you LOL.
SWs: I go to them because they have the body type that I prefer: legitimately thick and above-average height ( 5'7). I've gotten burned a few times (figuratively and literally), but women with that body type don't really look my way outside of this hobby, so SWs (that fit the mold) are a way to quench my thirst. I can get a skinny / slim girl easy, but I usually just get bored of them quickly.
Sugar babys: Nah. I make under 40 K a year, so that's a hell no for me LOL.
AAMP: What's that?
Escorts: I have a few go-tos due to escort-hunting being more dangerous than just grabbing a SW off the street, in my opinion. I used to frequently escort-hunt because of the convenience of going on LC or EB as opposed to having to drive 10 minutes to Dalb. , with there being a high probability of wasting gas due to a multitude of factors.
Just came across this on youtube. Pretty interesting, and apparently was going on around San Diego.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9DIiA_4kFos
MaximusKahn
07-13-22, 20:07
For those of you who enjoyed learning about the romantic significance of 520 and 521 in China, here is another chance to show your Chinese provider how deeply you feel about her.
Chinese Valentine's Day is rapidly approaching so all you mongers who feel you are in love should get ready.
This year August 4th is the official Chinese Valentine's Day. So if you really took the emotional plunge and fell in love with your amazing provider, or two, or three, now you can express more of the magic happening between you.
Gifts and flower or candy would no doubt be appreciated by your beloved, but just knowing about it and acknowledging your interest in them would definitely get you points.
Remember that you fall in love at your own peril.
Buena suerte, Bonne chance, Veil gluck, Zhu ni hao yun, Good luck!
For those who intend keep their hobbying uncomplicated, carry on as usual.
Member #6468
07-13-22, 22:52
I believe most of the FS spas being reported relentlessly daily are AA friendly, but I can tell you for sure that my AA buddies are now regulars of 108. They are younger dudes thirties or less, super cool and generous so maybe it's just that, but give them a try and let us know how it goes. My AA buddies love the MMS Mimi.What's the actual name for 108? A PM of the address would be dope!
What's the actual name for 108? A PM of the address would be dope!Lookup Ocean on RubMaps.
Member #6293
07-14-22, 18:46
Couldn't have said it better myself! I generally have a great experience with most clients as I'm in pretty good shape, good looking (as most providers have told me) and respectful. But I have had bad experiences and seen good reviews online and I've had amazing experiences but have seen bad reviews online. Generally if I see more than 2-3 bad reviews I'll steer clear.
Many posts include the caveat, YMMV, which is the famous "your mileage may vary. " And this is because we know that to be a true statement. What is amazing to one, may be completely forgettable to another.
I've taken it to be even more realistic to say YMWV or "your mileage will vary. " No two mongers are going to have exactly the same experience even if they are close. There are many factors that go into our experiences with a provider.
Here are some to consider.
Chemistry.
You both put out a good vibe, or a good feeling towards each other. But chemistry works against us sometimes too. You or she gets a bad vibe, and it just doesn't feel right after that.
Personal Attraction.
You are her type, she is your type, feeling attracted to each other is as easy as it gets, and perfect when it's mutual. Generally, a provider will work with you even if you are not her "type" but it is more fun when you are.
Looks Count.
I was planning to post this Chinese date and fable. Nicely done.
For those of you who enjoyed learning about the romantic significance of 520 and 521 in China, here is another chance to show your Chinese provider how deeply you feel about her.
Chinese Valentine's Day is rapidly approaching so all you mongers who feel you are in love should get ready.
This year August 4th is the official Chinese Valentine's Day. So if you really took the emotional plunge and fell in love with your amazing provider, or two, or three, now you can express more of the magic happening between you.
Gifts and flower or candy would no doubt be appreciated by your beloved, but just knowing about it and acknowledging your interest in them would definitely get you points.
Remember that you fall in love at your own peril.
Buena suerte, Bonne chance, Veil gluck, Zhu ni hao yun, Good luck!
For those who intend keep their hobbying uncomplicated, carry on as usual.
Member #6293
07-15-22, 11:26
I'm new to the game and addicted. But fuck it's expensive. Anyway, I wanted to ask you guys what is the most amount of visits you've done in a week? Or a month? What's like a healthy average? Since last Friday I've seen 6 different girls. Today two of my ATF's finally came back into town and both hit me up wanting to see me. I saw one early AF this morning but wasn't able to finish. She was nice enough to extend my time, only paid for a quickie but she let me hit it for like damn near 40 min. I literally had to fake a nut because I felt bad. My other ATF wants to see me this afternoon. Had to pass. Think I'm going to take a long break from this. But FR I need to scale back on this.
RolfTorren
07-16-22, 00:53
My best effort has been twice a week on a couple of occasions. Normally its about once a month or every six weeks. Now when VIP was in full swing it was about once a week. I couldn't keep away and I kind of knew it wouldn't last. Once recently I got a legit massage at Sakura and then headed over to Diamond in Hillcrest for some real fun. Budget and libido keep me to these limits. And for sure this hobby is not cheap. On the other hand its a lot of fun.
I'm new to the game and addicted. But fuck it's expensive. Anyway, I wanted to ask you guys what is the most amount of visits you've done in a week? Or a month? What's like a healthy average? Since last Friday I've seen 6 different girls. Today two of my ATF's finally came back into town and both hit me up wanting to see me. I saw one early AF this morning but wasn't able to finish. She was nice enough to extend my time, only paid for a quickie but she let me hit it for like damn near 40 min. I literally had to fake a nut because I felt bad. My other ATF wants to see me this afternoon. Had to pass. Think I'm going to take a long break from this. But FR I need to scale back on this.
MaximusKahn
07-16-22, 17:37
Generally speaking, you've reached too much when you question if it's too much.
Everyone has different capacities, different resources, different ambitions. You might get a gage of what is excessive from just reading posts and wondering wow, how do they afford it, or where do they get the time, but that still doesn't really tell you what your limits are. Only you know them.
The hobby is great, but it is also addictive, and with any addiction, you're probably addicted in a negative way when you your self question if you're really addicted and doing it too much.
On the other side, you're doing too much if it impacts other important aspects of your life in a negative way. Blowing a budget, missing time at work, or neglecting important people in your life, would be some examples.
You can always ask about others but in the end, it will all depend on you, as to what is too much for you.
I'm new to the game and addicted. But fuck it's expensive. Anyway, I wanted to ask you guys what is the most amount of visits you've done in a week? Or a month? What's like a healthy average? Since last Friday I've seen 6 different girls. Today two of my ATF's finally came back into town and both hit me up wanting to see me. I saw one early AF this morning but wasn't able to finish. She was nice enough to extend my time, only paid for a quickie but she let me hit it for like damn near 40 min. I literally had to fake a nut because I felt bad. My other ATF wants to see me this afternoon. Had to pass. Think I'm going to take a long break from this. But FR I need to scale back on this.
My best effort has been twice a week on a couple of occasions. Normally its about once a month or every six weeks. Now when VIP was in full swing it was about once a week. I couldn't keep away and I kind of knew it wouldn't last. Once recently I got a legit massage at Sakura and then headed over to Diamond in Hillcrest for some real fun. Budget and libido keep me to these limits. And for sure this hobby is not cheap. On the other hand its a lot of fun.In my experience at Sakura, you don't need to head over to diamond.
MongerSeeker
07-16-22, 20:28
For myself there it really depends on what girls I find. Normally I see one girl a week. I primarily see SW's in the US & TJ so it is a different these days. But I usually see the same girls. I would like to find some new girls. The problem is that the good ones are hard to find these days.
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I'm new to the game and addicted. But fuck it's expensive. Anyway, I wanted to ask you guys what is the most amount of visits you've done in a week? Or a month? What's like a healthy average? Since last Friday I've seen 6 different girls. Today two of my ATF's finally came back into town and both hit me up wanting to see me. I saw one early AF this morning but wasn't able to finish. She was nice enough to extend my time, only paid for a quickie but she let me hit it for like damn near 40 min. I literally had to fake a nut because I felt bad. My other ATF wants to see me this afternoon. Had to pass. Think I'm going to take a long break from this. But FR I need to scale back on this.
MongerSeeker
07-17-22, 10:41
The other factor is that I am only paying $40 for the girls that I am seeing. This keeps the price affordable. My regulars ars as good or better than most of SW's. This just goes to show that if you are persistent & patient you can still find a good looking girl at a reasonable price.
For myself there it really depends on what girls I find. Normally I see one girl a week. I primarily see SW's in the US & TJ so it is a different these days. But I usually see the same girls. I would like to find some new girls. The problem is that the good ones are hard to find these days.
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Member #6293
07-18-22, 01:38
I got a question. What's up with these hoes always wanting to leave the TV on in their hotel rooms? I swear 90% of the incalls I go to these women have their TV on and it's always a little distracting honestly. And it's always infomercials or some shit. I'm getting my CBJ and I'm listening to this guy on TV pitching a life changing mattress to help my bad back. Last one I went to the girl was trying to get the TV working and couldn't figure it out and asked if I could help her. Ummm, no! I'm not here to watch TV! Lmao anybody else notice this?
I got a question. What's up with these hoes always wanting to leave the TV on in their hotel rooms? I swear 90% of the incalls I go to these women have their TV on and it's always a little distracting honestly. And it's always infomercials or some shit. I'm getting my CBJ and I'm listening to this guy on TV pitching a life changing mattress to help my bad back. Last one I went to the girl was trying to get the TV working and couldn't figure it out and asked if I could help her. Ummm, no! I'm not here to watch TV! Lmao anybody else notice this?Maybe it's a sign that they don't like what they're doing and are trying to distract themselves from the act, like a form of self soothing? Logical to think the ones who really like their job would be more likely to give you their full attention.
Member #6293
07-18-22, 10:49
Maybe it's a sign that they don't like what they're doing and are trying to distract themselves from the act, like a form of self soothing? Logical to think the ones who really like their job would be more likely to give you their full attention.That actually makes a lot of sense. My best ones have been the ones who had the TV off. They actually got into it and weren't dead fishes.
MaximusKahn
07-18-22, 11:02
They TV might provide a background noise to cover the sounds of sex.
Go along with, ask for your favorite show, or maybe suggest music.
You could also be an assertive customer and ask for the TV to be off.
I got a question. What's up with these hoes always wanting to leave the TV on in their hotel rooms? I swear 90% of the incalls I go to these women have their TV on and it's always a little distracting honestly. And it's always infomercials or some shit. I'm getting my CBJ and I'm listening to this guy on TV pitching a life changing mattress to help my bad back. Last one I went to the girl was trying to get the TV working and couldn't figure it out and asked if I could help her. Ummm, no! I'm not here to watch TV! Lmao anybody else notice this?
CuriousJo8
07-18-22, 11:23
Hahaha, these ladies are not even my worst vice!
Regarding my record, I've fucked 8 ladies starting from one Thursday morning and ending the following Monday morning. I did take a break on Tuesday, and I did a repeat follow up session with Angel that Wednesday night. But yeah, I tally my record at 8. I regard that as the wildest weekend of my life.
My previous record was 3. A couple years back, I went to A Spa one Friday night. ATF Michelle greeted me and welcomed me into a room. However, I opted to go forward with Amy. She introduced me to the Happy Beginning, where you do the boom boom first, followed by the massage. Amy is not as attractive as Michelle, but, whoa, her massage skills are legit! After releasing my load, I was just butter under her professional care. Even now, I want to do a follow up with Amy, but I was informed that she has returned back to China and is completely out of the game. The following evening, I went to Hong Kong for the first time. Mariellos from Sinoloa beckoned me to come hither, and despite the sheer stimulus overload of that place, I was able to single out and take a girl arriba. However, I was too overwhelmed with her natural 36 D tits, and I was a little nervous. Despite her best efforts, I still had my mojo when I regressed back to the club. Then, I met ATF Susanna. She has a wonderful attitude and smile. She smiled at me, grabbed my crotch, and I was later able to complete the deed with her arriba. She is still working in Hong Kong. Look for the nerdy girl with a great smile. She has angel wing tattoos on her back. Oh, and Friday morning, I did a skydiving training jump, which I failed. I redid it Monday morning with an extremely enthusiastic instructor and passed. But yeah, legs felt like bricks when I climbed out for the floating exit. Such a great feeling though when he radioed me saying I passed my evaluation while I was still airborne, about to enter my landing pattern. Up until I did the 8 lady streak, I considered that weekend of having sex with 3 ladies and getting 2 skydives in as the wildest weekend of my life.
Anyway, I don't really keep track of totals. I see that I have the resources, and I go and have fun.
Regarding healthy average, I think that number is 0. You are better off spending your money investing in yourself or investing in more meaningful and intimate relationships. But hey, we play this game because of our own individual reasons.
Regarding scaling back, I recommend you eliminate aspects of the game that you don't like. Cut out the fat, so you are happy where your money is going.
I made the decision to eliminate half hour sessions from my game.
For me, personally, I got addicted to the half hour sessions. Flanders is seriously great for that. When you text their number, you get a list of sexy names who are either at MRC or the Ronson shop. Before, you also saw who was at Lusk. So you get a who-to-fuck menu, when you text that number. Oh man, that entire process was so addictive. However, the entire session was done before you know it, and you are down a little more than $200, and I want to know a little more about the pretty lady I am sticking my penis into.
Like it was great when the text reply said, "Emma and Lily. " My cock seriously started to perk up in anticipation of the awesome BBBJ and enthusiastic fucking I was going to get. However, I wanted to get to know these ladies a little better.
That's why I eliminated half hour sessions from my game.
I do half hour sessions from time to time. A few months back, I saw Tina at Flanders, Mimi at Super Spa, and Amber at NLBC. Tina and Mimi were fun quickies but the high quickly wore off. Same deal with Amber. She provided an excellent conversation, decent massage, and an excellent BBBJCIM, but the satisfaction wore off fast.
I mainly stick to one hour sessions, and I feel that the lady and I have the adequate time to go on a sexual adventure together.
Just ask yourself, what are you spending money on? Are you spending money on simply getting your dickload released just for short term satisfaction? Or are you spending money on an epic sexual adventure whose memories you will value for a lifetime?
In other words, are you buying help for someone to help you release or are you buying experiences?
You saw six different ladies. Was the experience epic, proving that you are indeed a sexual stallion and hence, money well spent? Or were they all just quickies, immediately satisfying at first, but wears off way too quickly?
Where do you want your money going in this game?
Work hard in your job and make as much money as you can. Have specific, personal goals of where you want to go with this game.
Hope you don't mind my long rant, but your inquiry was definitely worth entertaining. I hope my anecdotes help. Feel free to PM me.
Cheers.
I'm new to the game and addicted. But fuck it's expensive. Anyway, I wanted to ask you guys what is the most amount of visits you've done in a week? Or a month? What's like a healthy average? Since last Friday I've seen 6 different girls. Today two of my ATF's finally came back into town and both hit me up wanting to see me. I saw one early AF this morning but wasn't able to finish. She was nice enough to extend my time, only paid for a quickie but she let me hit it for like damn near 40 min. I literally had to fake a nut because I felt bad. My other ATF wants to see me this afternoon. Had to pass. Think I'm going to take a long break from this. But FR I need to scale back on this.
AeroStartC
07-18-22, 12:39
Just ask yourself, what are you spending money on? Are you spending money on simply getting your dickload released just for short term satisfaction? Or are you spending money on an epic sexual adventure whose memories you will value for a lifetime?
In other words, are you buying help for someone to help you release or are you buying experiences?
You saw six different ladies. Was the experience epic, proving that you are indeed a sexual stallion and hence, money well spent? Or were they all just quickies, immediately satisfying at first, but wears off way too quickly?
Where do you want your money going in this game?
Work hard in your job and make as much money as you can. Have specific, personal goals of where you want to go with this game.
Hope you don't mind my long rant, but your inquiry was definitely worth entertaining. I hope my anecdotes help. Feel free to PM me.
Cheers.Great analysis and reply. Thanks.
Member #6293
07-18-22, 14:15
Damn! What a great response! Thank you for sharing your stories too! Definitely got me thinking deeper on this. Some of it were quickies for release. I've found that hhr is kind of a glorified quickie. It's a little bit better but not much of an experience either. They are addicting though. I have one ATF that I only use for $100 quickies but of the 4 times I've used her I probably could've had a bad ass 1 hr experience with a girl way out of my league.
Thank you for putting this into great perspective for me!
Hahaha, these ladies are not even my worst vice!
Regarding my record, I've fucked 8 ladies starting from one Thursday morning and ending the following Monday morning. I did take a break on Tuesday, and I did a repeat follow up session with Angel that Wednesday night. But yeah, I tally my record at 8. I regard that as the wildest weekend of my life.
My previous record was 3. A couple years back, I went to A Spa one Friday night. ATF Michelle greeted me and welcomed me into a room. However, I opted to go forward with Amy. She introduced me to the Happy Beginning, where you do the boom boom first, followed by the massage. Amy is not as attractive as Michelle, but, whoa, her massage skills are legit! After releasing my load, I was just butter under her professional care. Even now, I want to do a follow up with Amy, but I was informed that she has returned back to China and is completely out of the game. The following evening, I went to Hong Kong for the first time. Mariellos from Sinoloa beckoned me to come hither, and despite the sheer stimulus overload of that place, I was able to single out and take a girl arriba. However, I was too overwhelmed with her natural 36 D tits, and I was a little nervous. Despite her best efforts, I still had my mojo when I regressed back to the club. Then, I met ATF Susanna. She has a wonderful attitude and smile. She smiled at me, grabbed my crotch, and I was later able to complete the deed with her arriba. She is still working in Hong Kong. Look for the nerdy girl with a great smile. She has angel wing tattoos on her back. Oh, and Friday morning, I did a skydiving training jump, which I failed. I redid it Monday morning with an extremely enthusiastic instructor and passed. But yeah, legs felt like bricks when I climbed out for the floating exit. Such a great feeling though when he radioed me saying I passed my evaluation while I was still airborne, about to enter my landing pattern. Up until I did the 8 lady streak, I considered that weekend of having sex with 3 ladies and getting 2 skydives in as the wildest weekend of my life..
Member #6293
07-18-22, 19:44
One experience I've been dying to try is a double BBBJ. Two women serving a quality BBBJ at the same time. I've tried double dates with escorts / SW's a bunch of times but it's always CBJ / CFS and they'll only take turns and I have to switch condoms everytime. One will do the job while the other is twerking their ass in my face. But I want a true 3 way experience and a double BJ is at the top of the list.
Does anyone have any awesome recommendations on who I can experience this with?
CuriousJo8
07-19-22, 00:05
You're welcome.
If you want hot and way out of your league, go to Hong Kong in Tijuana, if you haven't done so already.
There are a hundred hot girls to choose from.
Damn! What a great response! Thank you for sharing your stories too! Definitely got me thinking deeper on this. Some of it were quickies for release. I've found that hhr is kind of a glorified quickie. It's a little bit better but not much of an experience either. They are addicting though. I have one ATF that I only use for $100 quickies but of the 4 times I've used her I probably could've had a bad ass 1 hr experience with a girl way out of my league.
Thank you for putting this into great perspective for me!
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