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Is anyone else having problems hearing back from ladies especially on stg? Been lobbying for a long time, all of a sudden seems I cannot get a return call from ladies who advertise.
HooDat1234
09-16-21, 13:29
Is anyone else having problems hearing back from ladies especially on stg? Been lobbying for a long time, all of a sudden seems I cannot get a return call from ladies who advertise.Same here. And anyone who does reply is a flake. Or a dude. Or wants a deposit. Or sometimes I'll ask "can we meet today?" and I get a response two days later. LOL.
Frustrated with CL replies. I get initial reply to add, I answer them but never hear back. Just seems to be a tease. Anyone else experience that?
Frustrated with CL replies. I get initial reply to add, I answer them but never hear back. Just seems to be a tease. Anyone else experience that?I think that this has been a growing trend over the last years. Certainly, the no-replies. But I want to ad that of the ones that reply and engage with texts, they will cut you off if you're not committing to a meet. One girl on STG, Summer, became rude. Tread carefully with enquiries in nature and number. There is a built-in chance factor that is unavoidable, I think, if you are in it for the long run. Conversely, some of the best providers don't elaborate on their list of services or mention many at all. Keep questions brief and few.
I'm sure you've noticed that it's not just providers who are shit at communicating. It's so many people these days. Probably because everyone is connected to social media and their phones, people are constantly seeing messages and just choosing not to reply. Either because they think they will do it later (then forget) or they just don't feel like it.
I think that this has been a growing trend over the last years. Certainly, the no-replies. But I want to ad that of the ones that reply and engage with texts, they will cut you off if you're not committing to a meet. One girl on STG, Summer, became rude. Tread carefully with enquiries in nature and number. There is a built-in chance factor that is unavoidable, I think, if you are in it for the long run. Conversely, some of the best providers don't elaborate on their list of services or mention many at all. Keep questions brief and few.
Sadinhaverhill
04-24-25, 09:05
Every few months I recycle my digital # for a new one, I find a fresh phone number gets the ladies to reply more. Sometimes if you've seen a few of them, or snubbed the ones who demand too much, they share your number on a few places to "warn" the others about you. (Allegedly, I've never seen such lists myself, only heard 2nd hand).
I'm sure you've noticed that it's not just providers who are shit at communicating. It's so many people these days. Probably because everyone is connected to social media and their phones, people are constantly seeing messages and just choosing not to reply. Either because they think they will do it later (then forget) or they just don't feel like it.I wanted to add that, but I'm often on a soap box here about the trend you mention, among others. It is pervasive and most of us are guilty. All of us are in this modern, western family. Short attention spans, a constant stream of stimuli and a disconnect from others that allow us to think that it is OK, everyone else is doing it. It is gold if you find a provider with old school communication skills. I have one on the way. First meet.
I get a bit of interest in an ad, reply nicely, not fresh or scary, always start with "thank you for replying to my ad" but once in a while I'll communicate a few times then they disappear. Not sure if they're just playing or are newbies and get cold feet.
I get a bit of interest in an ad, reply nicely, not fresh or scary, always start with "thank you for replying to my ad" but once in a while I'll communicate a few times then they disappear. Not sure if they're just playing or are newbies and get cold feet.I don't have kids, but I hear about how skiddish and snowflakey they are today. Another aspect of modernity, the disconnect and lack of effort in building a relationship with a client.
One question too many and click. And a question remotely about BB service, click, with no chance after that. Hard times that compel us to say eff it or just take a gamble and go with.
Less info than we used to get, or would like.
I don't have kids, but I hear about how skiddish and snowflakey they are today. Another aspect of modernity, the disconnect and lack of effort in building a relationship with a client.
One question too many and click. And a question remotely about BB service, click, with no chance after that. Hard times that compel us to say eff it or just take a gamble and go with.
Less info than we used to get, or would like.I can't even get close enough to discuss details at all. I get a quick response, I acknowledge it and just try to continue the conversation and, nothing. Besides the fact that posts get flagged almost immediately, not sure why some a lot more flagrant than mine go forever, mine nada. Just frustrating!
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