View Full Version : Using WeChat with providers.
I'm hoping that others Join This Thread. I thought it would be interesting. WeChat is a useful way to cut through some of the BS what kind of communicate with these girls. It has a built-in translator. It's an easy download and easy to set up.
I'll start the thread with this one:
My ATF left town. It has been sad. We stay in contact. Of course she knows I like spas. She could be a little jealous hard to tell though.
She also knows I like to get to know the girls and sometimes get a connection with some feelings.
She want she warned me. "don't date Hot Spring girls!" . She said it's okay for me to get a "massage' though. I asked her to clarify the difference between a 'spa girl' and a 'hot spring girl'.
I never got a straight answer from her. I think maybe it's because she considers her self a 'hot spring girl' LOL.
Or maybe she doesn't? She claims since we are good friends I'm the only one he has given HE's to. We've all heard that before.
From what I can understand asking around they're one in the same. So I wonder what she means?
If this thread gets going out share some of my funny stories with the translator. It's not perfect that's for sure.
She want she warned me. "don't date Hot Spring girls!" . She said it's okay for me to get a "massage' though. I asked her to clarify the difference between a 'spa girl' and a 'hot spring girl'.
I never got a straight answer from her. I think maybe it's because she considers her self a 'hot spring girl' LOL.I consulted the guys at the Urban Dictionary and they never heard of it except for the town in Arkansas. If you ever find out what it means, be sure to add it to the Urban Dictionary.
Does the We Chat thing cost money to use? Can you use it on a computer? If so, do you need video capabilities?
I consulted the guys at the Urban Dictionary and they never heard of it except for the town in Arkansas. If you ever find out what it means, be sure to add it to the Urban Dictionary.I looked on youtube. There seems to be a video series featuring Hot-Spring Girls.
"Follow idol-unit "Onsen Jyoshi" (Hot-spring Girls) on a 2 D1 N trip as they visit various hot springs in Japan and enrich viewers with information on sightseeing, food and desserts!
This one looks enticing. HOT SPRING GIRLS: Gravure Preview.
I'm hoping that others Join This Thread. I thought it would be interesting. WeChat is a useful way to cut through some of the BS what kind of communicate with these girls. It has a built-in translator. It's an easy download and easy to set up.
I'll start the thread with this one:
My ATF left town. It has been sad. We stay in contact. Of course she knows I like spas. She could be a little jealous hard to tell though.
She also knows I like to get to know the girls and sometimes get a connection with some feelings.
She want she warned me. "don't date Hot Spring girls!" . She said it's okay for me to get a "massage' though. I asked her to clarify the difference between a 'spa girl' and a 'hot spring girl'.
I never got a straight answer from her. I think maybe it's because she considers her self a 'hot spring girl' LOL.
Or maybe she doesn't? She claims since we are good friends I'm the only one he has given HE's to. We've all heard that before.
From what I can understand asking around they're one in the same. So I wonder what she means?
If this thread gets going out share some of my funny stories with the translator. It's not perfect that's for sure.I've always wondered about WeChat. Have heard a lot of guys using it to keep in touch with their favorites. Wondering how safe it would be for me though. As an app on my phone, I would assume it would show history and I'm worried about getting a message at the wrong time and / or my SO seeing it on my phone and asking me about it. Sure would allow for a more personal connection with providers.
I consulted the guys at the Urban Dictionary and they never heard of it except for the town in Arkansas. If you ever find out what it means, be sure to add it to the Urban Dictionary.
I think it's a translation because in the old days a spa was usually located on top of a hot spring. Where people could take hot baths and things like that. So I think the translation from hot spring is to Spa and hot spring girls I just Spa girls.
Does the We Chat thing cost money to use? Can you use it on a computer? If so, do you need video capabilities?I think it's a translation because in the old days a spa was usually located on top of a hot spring. Where people could take hot baths and things like that. So I think the translation from hot spring is to Spa and "hot spring girls" are just spa girls.
Does the We Chat thing cost money to use? Can you use it on a computer? If so, do you need video capabilities?It's free to use. If you've got an Apple phone you can go to the App Store and if you have a Android phone you can get it from the Play Store.
One cool thing about it is you can made it directly to your phone so that if there's a security issue they can send you a number directly to your phone without having to wait for an email which is another matter if somebody's got your account settings.
It's free to use and there's virtually no advertising. It's not as versatile as Facebook and you videos are limited to 15 seconds.
You can post something about yourself to that all your friends can see but nobody else can see. You can't see who other people's friends are either like you can with Facebook.
But it's a great communication app because it translates for you and it's 95% accurate. It was also a video calling feature that works pretty well as long as you have good internet connection.
It's free to use. If you've got an Apple phone you can go to the App Store and if you have a Android phone you can get it from the Play Store.
One cool thing about it is you can made it directly to your phone so that if there's a security issue they can send you a number directly to your phone without having to wait for an email which is another matter if somebody's got your account settings.
It's free to use and there's virtually no advertising. It's not as versatile as Facebook and you videos are limited to 15 seconds.
You can post something about yourself to that all your friends can see but nobody else can see. You can't see who other people's friends are either like you can with Facebook.
But it's a great communication app because it translates for you and it's 95% accurate. It was also a video calling feature that works pretty well as long as you have good internet connection.
I've always wondered about WeChat. Have heard a lot of guys using it to keep in touch with their favorites. Wondering how safe it would be for me though. As an app on my phone, I would assume it would show history and I'm worried about getting a message at the wrong time and / or my SO seeing it on my phone and asking me about it. Sure would allow for a more personal connection with providers.Well, you can hide it put. I hide it in my unused app folder which is on the last page of all my screens on my phone there will be no email notification. The notifications can come up on your screen but you can just turn that off.
You know if you're waiting for a message anyhow you just have to keep checking the app. You can close the app too when you're not using it.
Unless you're trying to schedule an appointment, or having a conversation, you can go days or hours before seeing anything from them. They seem to understand that you may not respond to their messages right away. They don't always respond to mine right away.
You can say good morning and you might not hear back from them until the afternoon for various reasons. Which is amazing because they're on their phones all day!
JustAMonger
07-01-19, 12:20
That's my favorite response. "Yes, I am". You can say something like wow, the weather is really hot out today and she will respond with "yes, I am". It usually means I agree. Somehow the translator change is it to "yes I am".
Recently wall on WeChat I told the girl it's been a long time and I miss her she came back with "yes, I am", LOL!
RedPontiacX
07-01-19, 16:20
I'm hoping that others Join This Thread. I thought it would be interesting. WeChat is a useful way to cut through some of the BS what kind of communicate with these girls. It has a built-in translator. It's an easy download and easy to set up.
I'll start the thread with this one:
My ATF left town. It has been sad. We stay in contact. Of course she knows I like spas. She could be a little jealous hard to tell though.
She also knows I like to get to know the girls and sometimes get a connection with some feelings.
She want she warned me. "don't date Hot Spring girls!" . She said it's okay for me to get a "massage' though. I asked her to clarify the difference between a 'spa girl' and a 'hot spring girl'.
I never got a straight answer from her. I think maybe it's because she considers her self a 'hot spring girl' LOL.
Or maybe she doesn't? She claims since we are good friends I'm the only one he has given HE's to. We've all heard that before.
From what I can understand asking around they're one in the same. So I wonder what she means?
If this thread gets going out share some of my funny stories with the translator. It's not perfect that's for sure.I'm guessing "Hot Spring Girls" are the FS girls that are no longer around. I really miss the days of Hot Spring Girls! Hahaha.
That's another one that translator doesn't seem to get right.
I'll send a text off to one of my hot spring girls: 'Hello, are you busy now?
"There's no hurry" comes back. What the hell does that mean? Does it mean she's busy, so don't hurry?
So then, I send a message 'can you massage me right now?
"can" comes back, LOL! .
I always confirm it with her. 'See you in 10 minutes'.
I have to make sure I do that, otherwise, the next one through the door gets your appointment.
JustAMonger
07-04-19, 14:32
Sometime when you're on WeChat just compliment them on their service or their looks. They will answer with "to thank".
Sometimes when you tell them something that's exciting for them they will answer with "to chant".
I've talked to a couple of legit providers on WeChat. They told me they'd never worked in a "Yellow Spa".
Has anyone heard that term before?
I've talked to a couple of legit providers on WeChat. They told me they'd never worked in a "Yellow Spa".
Has anyone heard that term before?I would guess that Yellow Spa would be a code for an AMP.
I would guess that Yellow Spa would be a code for an AMP.This is 100% accurate. Chinese spa's will say this about korean spas. Or they used to.
JustAMonger
07-08-19, 13:13
This is 100% accurate. Chinese spa's will say this about korean spas. Or they used to.One girl told me recently that yellow Spa is a name for a spa that does happy endings. They all know what type of shop it is before they even start working there.
I'm sure they figure it out quickly due to reputation and the the girls that know each other talk.
I asked her if there are any other names for spas, like the ones that do FS. She said she didn't know because she's never worked outside of a legit spa.
I was thinking an FS box could be called a red spa, but that would be a guess.
JustAMonger
04-22-20, 13:09
I am trying to get with my FS girl, she has been off of work for several weeks now. She replies but doesn't want contact, they are way more careful than we are. I don't push it. Anybody else staying in contact with your favorites?
RedPontiacX
04-25-20, 12:05
I am trying to get with my FS girl, she has been off of work for several weeks now. She replies but doesn't want contact, they are way more careful than we are. I don't push it. Anybody else staying in contact with your favorites?I have been staying in contact with several. Remember the virus originated in China and that's where they get all their information, news, and entertainment. They are very careful some more then others.
I have been staying in contact with several. Remember the virus originated in China and that's where they get all their information, news, and entertainment. They are very careful some more then others.Yes, and many Chinese are very defensive about the origins of the virus. I have had many WeChat's with the girls and they are still fairly patriotic about their homeland, even though they are here for a better life. Many don't want to believe that Covid 19 is a Chinese Virus. I simply play stupid and that helps keep the conversation going.
My FS girls are completely off the radar.
Mr LoudMonger
08-07-20, 20:50
This article states Pres. Trump is banning TikTok, and WeChat.
https://www.reuters.com/article/us-usa-wechat-trump/trump-issues-bans-on-chinas-tiktok-wechat-stoking-tension-with-beijing-idUSKCN25304R?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=twitter
Suggest exchanging phone numbers or Facebook or whatever else you use with your favorite providers. If this indeed does go down, it's going be massively inconvenient for all Chinese people in America, plus us Mongers. Grrr! I hope this fails to happen.
I posted this in a couple other places also.
This article states Pres. Trump is banning TikTok, and WeChat.
https://www.reuters.com/article/us-usa-wechat-trump/trump-issues-bans-on-chinas-tiktok-wechat-stoking-tension-with-beijing-idUSKCN25304R?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=twitter
Suggest exchanging phone numbers or Facebook or whatever else you use with your favorite providers. If this indeed does go down, it's going be massively inconvenient for all Chinese people in America, plus us Mongers. Grrr! I hope this fails to happen.
I posted this in a couple other places also.Well, I hope they don't ban WeChat as it is a important method of communication although they all have phone numbers. If need be, they will be able to reach each other.
But us? We need the translator. It's much more convenient than using Google.
I first heard about the Tik Tok thing a couple of months ago that they are somehow stealing information. That's the Chinese thing to do. Chinese business executives are probably the most dishonest people on the planet.
I noticed a lot of them have a Facebook page but they don't use it much at all. Maybe they'll start using Messenger. The ones that have some command of the English language will do well with that. But without the WeChat translator, it will make it much more difficult.
This first happened to a friend of mine recently. Here's how it started.
A young Chinese girl, beautiful and well-dressed (of course) contacted him in on WeChat. Too good to be true? Probably. At least that's what it looks like. Her English is almost perfect. Much better than some English speakers I know. She doesn't appear to be using the WeChat translator. And it doesn't look like she's using the Google translator before either as it just comes out too good. Good punctuation, wording and sentence structure Etc.
She has worked in a couple stages. First there was the stage 1 where she appeared genuinely interested in him, contacting him several times a day, asking about him and his marriage status, just small talk, etcetera. But, she wants him to switch over to WhatsApp for communication. We'll call that stage 2. She sends him pictures and generally sounds like she's looking for a significant other.
Soon she began to tell him about her career. She's a manager of a large hotel business based in Chicago. She's highly successful and she works all day and Into the night. From the pictures I've seen, she is Drop Dead Gorgeous. So what does she want to do with him? He's excited. This could be what he's been looking for although he's wondering why she picked him? Oh well, don't look a gift horse in the mouth, right? At least she's not working in an AMP. Maybe.
Stage 3, she tells him she also has a side job of high-return Investments. She brings it up in almost every conversation. She knows she's trying to get his interest in her investment strategies. However, She never asked him directly. This guy is no dummy, he knows now that this girl is more than likely trying to bring him in as a "customer". His suspicions grow.
He thinks her strategy is get him interested just by talking about it, never asking him correctly. It's up to him to ask. I mean who doesn't want a beautiful young Chinese girl handling their financials? She could be the perfect wife, hahaha. He does some research. He finds her Facebook page, she seems real. So, a few days into this I'm curious as to what her next move will be with my friend.
Suddenly, I get contacted on my own WeChat by a different Chinese girl, Monica. She sent me her picture. Very cute girl. This one claims to be from Taiwan and wants me to switch off of WeChat also and move to WhatsApp. Sound familiar? I asked her what the difference was and she said there's a problem with tension between Taiwan and China. Of course, she doesn't want China to cut off her WeChat and lose track of me forever, hahaha! Of course, her WeChat is still active.
Okay, whatever. We switch over to WhatsApp. She sends me a couple of pictures. Beautiful, young and almost perfect English. She didn't send me anything in Chinese even on WeChat and as far as I know there is no translator app on WhatsApp.
Back to my friend. She continually sends him messages and always drops a hint that she's doing well with her Investments. My friend intentionally never even asked her and since he was suspicious, he just let her ramble. She asked her if she wants to meet. She doesn't answer. Finally, when my friend hinted to her that she may have contacted him for other reasons she suddenly stopped talking. It's been a couple days now.
Now back to "my girl" Monica. She tells me her real. She owns a Beauty Supply firm in Taiwan. She has told me she lives in a "high-end apartment" in Chicago somewhere and also has a "holiday home in Zurich Village in Chicago". Nice and close right? Then in a few messages later, the next day she said she's hardly ever in Chicago! Then she made sure that she told me she "closed the deal with Dior". I guess I'm supposed to ask about it but I haven't. I've sent her a couple things on WhatsApp but she hasn't replied and I can see that she's been active.
Anyhow, I think she's gone silent on me probably because like my friend, I didn't ask the right questions. She's probably moved on to easier marks. For now I just going to observe and I'll report back. I already knew it was too good to be true so I'm just having fun with it.
One thing I've noticed, she has a short attention span like much of her Sisterhood. Have you ever noticed that? You can ask a question or make a comment and wonder if it was even read. Or they answer a question you didn't ask? I think that's because they're juggling guys and even the best can't keep track of everything.
The purpose of this post is to warn some of you guys who might have a soft spot in your heart for Chinese girls especially when they're young and beautiful. My friend did some research and found out that indeed some guys have been getting scammed for hundreds of thousands of dollars!
Now, one of the reasons I posted this here. Not long ago there was a provider here in K-town that was asking me questions about investing. More or less, if I was interested, I thought it was unusual since I had been seeing her for some time. She seemed a little apprehensive. Many of you know this girl.
Just be wary. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is.
1) "You OK?
2) "Next Time."
3) "You wait 20 minutes, okay?
4) "Oh, so big!
5) "Oh, so beautiful!
6) "Oh, so much!
7) "Chinese man not so strong."
8) "You tip good this time, okay?
9) "You shoot the airplane!
10) "You my 60-minute boyfriend:
1) "You OK?
2) "Next Time."
3) "You wait 20 minutes, okay?
4) "Oh, so big!
5) "Oh, so beautiful!
6) "Oh, so much!
7) "Chinese man not so strong."
8) "You tip good this time, okay?
9) "You shoot the airplane!
10) "You my 60-minute boyfriend:Haven't heard no 9 or no 10. But Yuyu told me I'm number one for what that's worth. I feel special.
Haven't heard no 9 or no 10. But Yuyu told me I'm number one for what that's worth. I feel special.Care to make your own list?
Mr LoudMonger
01-27-22, 16:03
Care to make your own list?1. You Number 1! (Yuyu, also the older lady from Mighty Wash).
2. You wait 5 minutes (30 minutes goes by).
3. I Love you Honey!
4. We get married!
5. Do you have wife?
6. Do you have girlfriend?
7. Do you have house?
8. So handsome!
9. Too much hair! Like Monkey!
10. We buy massage store together, okay?
1. You Number 1! (Yuyu, also the older lady from Mighty Wash).
2. You wait 5 minutes (30 minutes goes by).
3. I Love you Honey!
4. We get married!
5. Do you have wife?
6. Do you have girlfriend?
7. Do you have house?
8. So handsome!
9. Too much hair! Like Monkey!
10. We buy massage store together, okay?Perfect! I've heard all of those. Your list is probably better than mine!
RedPontiacX
02-26-23, 14:41
I'm not too concerned that CCP may be spying on me though WeChat app. Not a lot of information I can offer that would be considered intel. Unless of course they want to know where to get the best rub and tug and so on. WeChat used to provide me a direct communication with the source while bypassing the typical appointment process. On the other hand, I have found it to problematic on a few occasions. I have learned over time that many of the girls we connect with on WeChat are in fact connected. Having experienced this personally and seeing it with my own eyes having common WeChat friends. On rare occasions I have had some friends with benefits with these girls outside of their place of work. Some would agree these girls can easily become possessive and jealous even in a monger / provider situation whereas, they think you are their customer. Well in any type of relationship the possessiveness is only magnified especially if there is no $$$ involved. Long story short I had a good thing blow up in my face. Now more often than not I am making appointments by calling the number and getting a time. Moving forward, my WeChat account will be minimally utilized with discretion.
Mr LoudMonger
02-26-23, 15:45
I'm not too concerned that CCP may be spying on me though WeChat app. Not a lot of information I can offer that would be considered intel. Unless of course they want to know where to get the best rub and tug and so on. WeChat used to provide me a direct communication with the source while bypassing the typical appointment process. On the other hand, I have found it to problematic on a few occasions. I have learned over time that many of the girls we connect with on WeChat are in fact connected. Having experienced this personally and seeing it with my own eyes having common WeChat friends. On rare occasions I have had some friends with benefits with these girls outside of their place of work. Some would agree these girls can easily become possessive and jealous even in a monger / provider situation whereas, they think you are their customer. Well in any type of relationship the possessiveness is only magnified especially if there is no $$$ involved. Long story short I had a good thing blow up in my face. Now more often than not I am making appointments by calling the number and getting a time. Moving forward, my WeChat account will be minimally utilized with discretion.I've had this happen as well. One of my girls wanted me to take her from the suburbs, to her place in Chinatown (a typical Chinese family-hotel as they are called) basically an apartment that has been primitively modified to have many tiny bedrooms. Anyway, she took me out to eat as a thank you. Later, I'm busted by the main one I was dating, complete with a picture of me and the other girl, eating together. D'oh!
If you're interested you can Google it there's plenty of information about it. This is a big Chinese holiday. Unlike us they pay attention to the moon and this has some effect on their psyche. They celebrate and have mooncakes. I've had some good moon cakes and I've had some pretty bad ones. They're like Little Debbie spice cakes or something.
And I don't know if you're going to get any better service or not, but try to surprise them and let them know that you know about their holiday if I put you on better footing with them.
The Banger
04-07-25, 10:09
I always wondered to myself, what forces these women to come to America, lower their dignity and become "massage girls ?" And yes, I realize that they're coming in all shapes and sizes and all services rendered will be different. The better the service, the higher the tips and the faster the return to China. Some are disillusioned by the promises by their sponsors. They realize there's no way out so they have to do this job. Eventually they become numb.
We've all seen it. They close their eyes, turn their head to the side, and dream about that Gucci handbag or that $500 rhinestone baseball cap. Or think about putting their kid through dentistry school. "Finished yet? OK, me get hot towel!" They all have different reasons, some of them turn out to be gamblers. Those are generally the ones that take up residency, citizenship and there with no plans to return "home".
I've actually done a lot of research. Apparently if you are to believe this video the employment situation in China is not good, women over 30 have to take menial jobs, food delivery or working nightclubs. Basically models turning to prostitutes. They head to Singapore where of course the tourist trade brings them a lot of customers and big money. The video is long but it's very eye-opening.
I think most of the girls that are here now will try to hang on as long as they can before they repatriate to China. There's probably no hope to find a job there unless they open their own business.
I don't know if this is anti China propaganda or if this is really what's going on. I hope the video opens. It's definitely not an advertisement.
https://youtu.be/HI7cpLUWAB8?si=PocR7NW14UN2Pobp
DeepLover1
04-07-25, 10:51
I always wondered to myself, what forces these women to come to America, lower their dignity and become "massage girls ?" And yes, I realize that they're coming in all shapes and sizes and all services rendered will be different. The better the service, the higher the tips and the faster the return to China. Some are disillusioned by the promises by their sponsors. They realize there's no way out so they have to do this job. Eventually they become numb.
We've all seen it. They close their eyes, turn their head to the side, and dream about that Gucci handbag or that $500 rhinestone baseball cap. Or think about putting their kid through dentistry school. "Finished yet? OK, me get hot towel!" They all have different reasons, some of them turn out to be gamblers. Those are generally the ones that take up residency, citizenship and there with no plans to return "home".
I've actually done a lot of research. Apparently if you are to believe this video the employment situation in China is not good, women over 30 have to take menial jobs, food delivery or working nightclubs. Basically models turning to prostitutes. They head to Singapore where of course the tourist trade brings them a lot of customers and big money. The video is long but it's very eye-opening.
I think most of the girls that are here now will try to hang on as long as they can before they repatriate to China. There's probably no hope to find a job there unless they open their own business.
I don't know if this is anti China propaganda or if this is really what's going on. I hope the video opens. It's definitely not an advertisement.
https://youtu.be/HI7cpLUWAB8?si=PocR7NW14UN2PobpI've become extremely close to a number of girls the last few years and dated a couple. Finding out their real story though is really sad. Most of these girls DO NOT want to be massage girls. They hate being touched, and more. Eventually some give in as they make more money. Then there are some girls that do love the work and stay longer as the story states. The reasons they do this work;.
1. To take care of aging parents.
2. Still married in China and support husband and kids.
3. Many support parents where the fathers are drunks and gamblers, give them money, yet trying to help the mother to get out.
4. Some have their kids here and putting through school to get a better life.
5. Have had a few tell me that their husbands are here in Chicago and don't work and just drink and gamble off of them.
These are just some, there are more examples that most of us have heard.
I believe most of the girls are here at their own will. Sometimes I wonder though?
Feel sad for them.
The Banger
04-07-25, 12:27
I've become extremely close to a number of girls the last few years and dated a couple. Finding out their real story though is really sad. Most of these girls DO NOT want to be massage girls. They hate being touched, and more. Eventually some give in as they make more money. Then there are some girls that do love the work and stay longer as the story states. The reasons they do this work;.
1. To take care of aging parents.
2. Still married in China and support husband and kids.
3. Many support parents where the fathers are drunks and gamblers, give them money, yet trying to help the mother to get out.
4. Some have their kids here and putting through school to get a better life.
5. Have had a few tell me that their husbands are here in Chicago and don't work and just drink and gamble off of them.
These are just some, there are more examples that most of us have heard.
I believe most of the girls are here at their own will. Sometimes I wonder though?
Feel sad for them.
I agree, most of them are here out of their own free will. They are not trafficked, but they could be deceived. They have their own version of coyotes. The smart ones come here on a work visa, and usually overstay. I'm sure they still have to pay a fee unless they know somebody who will sponsor them and or at least give them a place to be until they are ready to go out in the working world. The nicest thing about this job for them is most of them already know how to get a guy off. And they don't need tools or any type of training. This is why they move around so much. The only job requirement is hand, mouth or pussy?
Having a massage license is a bonus. 90% of them will never get that. It's just too hard. They'll just move. There are cities that require a license but overlook that requirement all the time. In fact, I think the license thing is more or less a way to shut them down when they don't want to do a prostitution investigation. That's just another excuse to bust these places because some housewive's husband put a massage on his credit card along with the tip and wrote a scalding email to the alderman for that location. It's easier just have the license people come in and shut the place down like they did at Seme & 906.
Here's my biggest question. Do they know the job they will be doing? Or not? I'll bet you most of them do know, how could they be so naive? I'm 100% sure they are told they will make big money, but do they understand how the "good money" is made? The best thing is these are cash jobs, either doing nails, Chinese restaurants, and of course massage girls. Of course the more they step outside of their dignity zone, the more money they will make. So I really don't think they are actually trafficked.
90% of them don't want to do this job. This is why they have to fake it, And tell guys incredible lies. And, by the way, the other 10% make the best providers. Those are the ones that aim to please. They've already given up on thinking about their own dignity. You can tell the ones, they smile back at you while you're pounding away and pretend they like it, because it gets you there faster. They've learned, the more you fake it the more money you will make. Money is the only thing that matters.
The only thing I disagree with you on, is never get close to these girls. They can't be trusted. Taking a girl to the ATM to make a deposit is not dating. Taking her grocery shopping is not dating. Unless you are regularly spending time with a girl outside of the spa it's not dating. And that time is sparse when they work 7 days a week 12 hours a day. You might find one and marry one. She will most likely be doing it to get her green card. Pretty soon she will realize life in America is completely different. These two cultures couldn't be more different. The only thing we have in common is they want money and we have money. She will stray eventually and possibly leave you with a credit card bill. After a few days you will find out that she's back in China.
"Sorry. ".
Midnightpass
04-07-25, 13:44
This first happened to a friend of mine recently. Here's how it started.
A young Chinese girl, beautiful and well-dressed (of course) contacted him in on WeChat. Too good to be true? Probably. At least that's what it looks like. Her English is almost perfect. Much better than some English speakers I know. She doesn't appear to be using the WeChat translator. And it doesn't look like she's using the Google translator before either as it just comes out too good. Good punctuation, wording and sentence structure Etc.
She has worked in a couple stages. First there was the stage 1 where she appeared genuinely interested in him, contacting him several times a day, asking about him and his marriage status, just small talk, etcetera. But, she wants him to switch over to WhatsApp for communication. We'll call that stage 2. She sends him pictures and generally sounds like she's looking for a significant other.
Soon she began to tell him about her career. She's a manager of a large hotel business based in Chicago. She's highly successful and she works all day and Into the night. From the pictures I've seen, she is Drop Dead Gorgeous. So what does she want to do with him? He's excited. This could be what he's been looking for although he's wondering why she picked him? Oh well, don't look a gift horse in the mouth, right? At least she's not working in an AMP. Maybe.
Stage 3, she tells him she also has a side job of high-return Investments. She brings it up in almost every conversation. She knows she's trying to get his interest in her investment strategies. However, She never asked him directly. This guy is no dummy, he knows now that this girl is more than likely trying to bring him in as a "customer". His suspicions grow...I had something similar happen. She wanted me to put a thousand dollars in a crypto account so she could show me her uncle's money making skills. It shocked me how close I came and how much I really wanted to believe.
I went to the Federal Trade Commission website and they narrated her scam virtually verbatim.
I had something similar happen. She wanted me to put a thousand dollars in a crypto account so she could show me her uncle's money making skills. It shocked me how close I came and how much I really wanted to believe.
I went to the Federal Trade Commission website and they narrated her scam virtually verbatim.And the thing about that is, it's not even the girl in the picture. It's probably some sweaty dude sitting at a computer screen, sending photos, that he got off the internet. He could be in China or he could be anywhere.
No kidding, I've gotten at least 20 random texts on my phone from "girls" who are pretending to have the wrong number. And suddenly, they wonder who you are and they want to make friends. Next thing you know you're getting pictures. Incredibly young and beautiful models. They also profess to be some sort of manager or owner of a clothing store or boutique. Or some sort of CFO or CEO of a company. Looking for a companion. Can't seem to find one in New York City!
It might take 20 or 30 texts but eventually they'll start asking you about your investments. Then they'll start bragging about Bitcoin profits. After all, why wouldn't you want a beautiful Chinese model to make your investments for you?
Powered by vBulletin® Version 4.1.4 Copyright © 2025 vBulletin Solutions, Inc. All rights reserved.