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Spaniard21
09-12-23, 15:54
Hey guys. I'll be in your fine city soon and trying to meet up with some ladies. I've had lots of interaction and wanted to see if any of you have met with any of them. Thanks in advance for your input.

GloriaRise.

https://members.seeking.com/member/30085f43-d69e-44e2-b47d-3d76de678610

Moved to text, seems DTF asking 400 per meet.

DesirableMiss.

https://members.seeking.com/member/be0b85f9-252a-48d4-8544-621cb6ad4e28

Texted, seems DTF, but asked for 600 per WEEK.

Laylaaa.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fe689018-cdc8-43a8-8865-4183aaa5eef1

Texted, Says she is not DTF but into intimacy (I might try), says she would meet for 300, but that's a lot for heavy make out session.

Rosiva.

https://members.seeking.com/member/94679377-6c85-433a-acce-8b73cd8c3713

Moved to text quickly, DTF but not sure if she is real. Started blowing up my phone, pushed to meeting immediately (even though I told her several times I didn't live in MN) tried to start selling me pics and vids, finally asked me for $73. Good luck if you try her, she seems desperate.

Fitbarbiegirl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/85c25839-18ef-440c-b4ff-0fafc286e7f1

Texted, smoking body (if real) Seems DTF, asked for 650.

Nikki Bikki.

https://members.seeking.com/member/49214e39-fee9-4842-bce5-6483f48d6152

Texted, smoking body (if real) Seems DTF, asked for 500.

Chlo21.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f1cec177-a52e-4b50-8e1d-6ee22deb965d

Texted, smoking hot, seems DTF, 300.

AdorableSiren.

https://members.seeking.com/member/35f7d8a1-ab56-470b-9e57-52485bc12eac

Texted. Curvy, seems DTF, I offered 300 and will see what she says.

Any feedback is greatly appreciated. I'll keep you all updated if I meet anyone.Adorable Siren is crazy. Avoid avoid LOL.

Freakin69
09-12-23, 16:29
Hey guys. I'll be in your fine city soon and trying to meet up with some ladies. I've had lots of interaction and wanted to see if any of you have met with any of them. Thanks in advance for your input.

GloriaRise.

https://members.seeking.com/member/30085f43-d69e-44e2-b47d-3d76de678610

Moved to text, seems DTF asking 400 per meet.From the photos and description in that profile, GloriaRise looks like the Ameenah that was mentioned a few posts back. Same chick based on photos, but different age in profile.

Natefarwell
09-17-23, 10:26
Gents: Work will be bringing me to your fine are soon. I have been talking to these ladies recently and am looking to see what the vibe is from all you locals. Thank you in advance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fbe8c7bd-86d3-4939-8d1a-cccbe01b8207- Wants $2500 per month for 3-4 meets. Wants public and private. Se seems a bit stuffy to me as I like the easy going personality type.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3ef6d314-50e1-4fa7-845d-d678ab7b7864- She was talked about on here recently. Very reasonable ppm (starts high but will quickly lower) but and is easy going. She is very flexible in what you want but it just needs to be talk about before. She has a BF that loves her doing this. He is told everything.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c2b8b8c6-b606-4a6a-8bfd-ac0400812f14-This one would be my #1 choice but she is so sporadic in replies. When we do message it is very pleasant. Says she is busy a lot and hard to nail down a time to meet. May not be real but she has not asked for anything yet so who knows.

https://members.seeking.com/member/464db252-dd86-4760-a586-b57c4f937817- This one is another fav. Great pics and a few vids over snap. Very sexy to me. I think she is real and is open about needing to do this in private as she has a BF.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/3e1975a4-78b4-4be4-b6e5-a8afabbe1421-She is very clear on her expectations. Go to dinner and drinks, see our vibe and take it from that point. If we click she wants 400-500 per meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/be0b85f9-252a-48d4-8544-621cb6ad4e28-Very friendly over messaging. We talked on the phone and is sweet. One guy on here said she wanted a lot for meeting but she told me a reasonable ppm of 400.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fc7b88ca-fe5f-4471-986d-869b44f36a9c-She is HOT but wants 700 ppm. Ouch.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1a1b9add-d7c9-46f5-aadc-83aa9c19181b-We are texting but have not talked an amount.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2172c51a-5d89-456d-82b3-775502a252a3-Amazing conversation, easy going and great pics and vids. No talk of ppm or allowance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e69b4971-ac7d-4a16-ab0e-d5019ce1bddf-She is a natural red. Send amazing vids over snap. Has a reasonable ppm bit seems to be a secretive about life stuff.

Zipp531
09-17-23, 14:52
Gents: Work will be bringing me to your fine are soon. I have been talking to these ladies recently and am looking to see what the vibe is from all you locals. Thank you in advance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fbe8c7bd-86d3-4939-8d1a-cccbe01b8207- Wants $2500 per month for 3-4 meets. Wants public and private. Se seems a bit stuffy to me as I like the easy going personality type.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3ef6d314-50e1-4fa7-845d-d678ab7b7864- She was talked about on here recently. Very reasonable ppm (starts high but will quickly lower) but and is easy going. She is very flexible in what you want but it just needs to be talk about before. She has a BF that loves her doing this. He is told everything.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c2b8b8c6-b606-4a6a-8bfd-ac0400812f14-This one would be my #1 choice but she is so sporadic in replies. When we do message it is very pleasant. Says she is busy a lot and hard to nail down a time to meet. May not be real but she has not asked for anything yet so who knows.

https://members.seeking.com/member/464db252-dd86-4760-a586-b57c4f937817- This one is another fav. Great pics and a few vids over snap. Very sexy to me. I think she is real and is open about needing to do this in private as she has a BF.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/3e1975a4-78b4-4be4-b6e5-a8afabbe1421-She is very clear on her expectations. Go to dinner and drinks, see our vibe and take it from that point. If we click she wants 400-500 per meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/be0b85f9-252a-48d4-8544-621cb6ad4e28-Very friendly over messaging. We talked on the phone and is sweet. One guy on here said she wanted a lot for meeting but she told me a reasonable ppm of 400.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fc7b88ca-fe5f-4471-986d-869b44f36a9c-She is HOT but wants 700 ppm. Ouch.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1a1b9add-d7c9-46f5-aadc-83aa9c19181b-We are texting but have not talked an amount.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2172c51a-5d89-456d-82b3-775502a252a3-Amazing conversation, easy going and great pics and vids. No talk of ppm or allowance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e69b4971-ac7d-4a16-ab0e-d5019ce1bddf-She is a natural red. Send amazing vids over snap. Has a reasonable ppm bit seems to be a secretive about life stuff.Is it me or does every link in this post lead to "Profile Not Available"?

Spaniard21
09-17-23, 16:26
Is it me or does every link in this post lead to "Profile Not Available"?Me too, same thing.

Spaniard21
09-17-23, 16:37
https://members.seeking.com/member/7eee1b84-a61d-4077-84c3-261cd8c26d85

Sent me this:

"I'd like an ongoing casual relationship. I'd prefer to do a monthly allowance, but am open to PPM to start. I have two options when it comes to PPM.

$600 for vaginal & oral.

Or for a little bit more. The Girlfriend Experience. The GFE includes kissing, no condom, anal, you can cum in me, and the option to record our encounter for you to enjoy later on 🥵.

LOL.

Natefarwell
09-17-23, 18:25
Me too, same thing.That is very odd and my apologies to all. I just copied all the links on the profiles. I just looked on the site and they are all still active. I didn't do anything different than I normally do. You are correct that every link I posted leads to "Not Active". Yet on the web site they are active. Can someone possibly know what I did wrong?

Ccbb1
09-17-23, 23:23
Gents: Work will be bringing me to your fine are soon. I have been talking to these ladies recently and am looking to see what the vibe is from all you locals. Thank you in advance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fbe8c7bd-86d3-4939-8d1a-cccbe01b8207- Wants $2500 per month for 3-4 meets. Wants public and private. Se seems a bit stuffy to me as I like the easy going personality type.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3ef6d314-50e1-4fa7-845d-d678ab7b7864- She was talked about on here recently. Very reasonable ppm (starts high but will quickly lower) but and is easy going. She is very flexible in what you want but it just needs to be talk about before. She has a BF that loves her doing this. He is told everything.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c2b8b8c6-b606-4a6a-8bfd-ac0400812f14-This one would be my #1 choice but she is so sporadic in replies. When we do message it is very pleasant. Says she is busy a lot and hard to nail down a time to meet. May not be real but she has not asked for anything yet so who knows.The links have extra stuff on the ends.

Here is the first link provided.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fbe8c7bd-86d3-4939-8d1a-cccbe01b8207-

It should be this.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fbe8c7bd-86d3-4939-8d1a-cccbe01b8207

So when you try to open it go to the link bar and delete the " and anything after.

One of the links is to his inbox and that won't work as previously talked about.

PhlipJ11
09-18-23, 13:53
Yeah, must be copied and pasted. GPS for sure.


https://members.seeking.com/member/7eee1b84-a61d-4077-84c3-261cd8c26d85

Sent me this:

"I'd like an ongoing casual relationship. I'd prefer to do a monthly allowance, but am open to PPM to start. I have two options when it comes to PPM.

$600 for vaginal & oral.

Or for a little bit more. The Girlfriend Experience. The GFE includes kissing, no condom, anal, you can cum in me, and the option to record our encounter for you to enjoy later on 🥵.

LOL.

Zipp531
09-18-23, 14:59
The links have extra stuff on the ends.

Here is the first link provided.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fbe8c7bd-86d3-4939-8d1a-cccbe01b8207-

It should be this.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fbe8c7bd-86d3-4939-8d1a-cccbe01b8207

So when you try to open it go to the link bar and delete the " and anything after.

One of the links is to his inbox and that won't work as previously talked about.I have talked to a couple of these:

JBear. I don't remember what her ask was, but it was high.

Sofi-Angel. Met her for drinks last Winter. She was working as a nanny in St Paul and originally from Brazil. She is beautiful but also wanted 600 per meet and meetings needed to be at a hotel.

Amor_fati. Where do redheads land on the hot / crazy matrix. Seriously, we had a meeting set up. She got her days mixed up and we never got around to rescheduling.

Spaniard21
09-18-23, 15:18
I have talked to a couple of these:

JBear. I don't remember what her ask was, but it was high.

Sofi-Angel. Met her for drinks last Winter. She was working as a nanny in St Paul and originally from Brazil. She is beautiful but also wanted 600 per meet and meetings needed to be at a hotel.

Amor_fati. Where do redheads land on the hot / crazy matrix. Seriously, we had a meeting set up. She got her days mixed up and we never got around to rescheduling.JBear is a GPS, I stopped talking to her, there are gems out there that will meet for much less.

WiseTraveler
09-20-23, 13:56
I reluctantly renewed premium after months of letting it languish since I have some travel coming up and really don't see many options in MN. I usually can find 5-10 potentials in the sub-$300 range who are 'cute enough' for me. I'm just not willing to put in the grind this time when so many have red flag phrases like 'know my worth', 'not an escort', 'read my bio' (I've never messaged after reading the bio of someone who has that), or 'allowance only'.

I've had better luck on cuddle, WYP or other sites so will likely take at least six months off before trying again. Similar to how the lower end escort / indy massage scene consolidated, shrunk, and saw rising prices, the SB scene is going the same way with the added fun of delusional 'I'll text / chat with you' TikTokkers or SnapChat sellers and scammers.

Natefarwell
09-24-23, 23:01
Gents: Work will be bringing me to your fine are soon. I have been talking to these ladies recently and am looking to see what the vibe is from all you locals. Thank you in advance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fbe8c7bd-86d3-4939-8d1a-cccbe01b8207- Wants $2500 per month for 3-4 meets. Wants public and private. Se seems a bit stuffy to me as I like the easy going personality type.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3ef6d314-50e1-4fa7-845d-d678ab7b7864- She was talked about on here recently. Very reasonable ppm (starts high but will quickly lower) but and is easy going. She is very flexible in what you want but it just needs to be talk about before. She has a BF that loves her doing this. He is told everything.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c2b8b8c6-b606-4a6a-8bfd-ac0400812f14-This one would be my #1 choice but she is so sporadic in replies. When we do message it is very pleasant. Says she is busy a lot and hard to nail down a time to meet. May not be real but she has not asked for anything yet so who knows.Sorry guys: Here are the corrections.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fbe8c7bd-86d3-4939-8d1a-cccbe01b8207

https://members.seeking.com/member/3ef6d314-50e1-4fa7-845d-d678ab7b7864

https://members.seeking.com/member/c2b8b8c6-b606-4a6a-8bfd-ac0400812f14

https://members.seeking.com/member/464db252-dd86-4760-a586-b57c4f937817

https://members.seeking.com/member/be0b85f9-252a-48d4-8544-621cb6ad4e28

https://members.seeking.com/member/fc7b88ca-fe5f-4471-986d-869b44f36a9c

https://members.seeking.com/member/1a1b9add-d7c9-46f5-aadc-83aa9c19181b

https://members.seeking.com/member/2172c51a-5d89-456d-82b3-775502a252a3

https://members.seeking.com/member/e69b4971-ac7d-4a16-ab0e-d5019ce1bddf

Tribeca67
09-27-23, 13:59
Any info on this one?

ZadeGuy
09-27-23, 16:38
Any info on this one?I typically am not on the site regularly as I prefer longer term arrangements. I talked to her a few times, but she seems to be active almost every time I'm out there looking. She wanted a lot ($5 k / month+) and while I have that budget, she just wasn't my type enough to justify it.

PhlipJ11
09-27-23, 17:07
Hey folks. I have been weeding out some crazies and GPS. I have a couple that are interesting but wanted to see if anyone has met them.

MissSaucyPants.

https://members.seeking.com/member/92ba6067-2d65-4155-bd61-c086f4d0c9b2

Seems DTF, 300, but she had a little bit of a crazy eyes look. She't pretty cool on text.

UniqueDesire.

https://members.seeking.com/member/405b5867-2541-4c98-84b2-e1aef8ee0be4

Took her about 20 days to respond on Seeking, Seems DTF, during texting she started asking me to pay her for pics and vids as a deposit before meeting. I may have talked her out of it, but don't want to waste my time with her if anyone can confirm that she is a pic seller.

Thanks!

Stay safe.

HardWoodsman
09-29-23, 19:26
Hey folks. I have been weeding out some crazies and GPS. I have a couple that are interesting but wanted to see if anyone has met them.

MissSaucyPants.

https://members.seeking.com/member/92ba6067-2d65-4155-bd61-c086f4d0c9b2

Seems DTF, 300, but she had a little bit of a crazy eyes look.She is crazy but a lot of fun. I saw her a few years ago and she ended up staying the entire weekend. She's a former dancer and has a lean body with big man made. Fucks like a porn star. If she likes your dick, all holes are open and she ask for greek.

PhlipJ11
09-30-23, 00:55
Selling pics. Asking for deposit.

https://members.seeking.com/member/405b5867-2541-4c98-84b2-e1aef8ee0be4

PhlipJ11
10-06-23, 14:35
Holy Shit guys! I just chatted with both of these ladies. Everything going well, good chit chat. Went to text and bam! $5 for both of them. It's just not worth it. I'll just stay in my room and jerk off.

https://members.seeking.com/member/cbd18b1b-661a-4dca-a3b1-f507e98e5630

https://members.seeking.com/member/8df252e5-b3a5-434a-b2f7-42be0284a527

LolBoat
10-15-23, 19:01
Whats up with the GPS in the twin cities? I don't think the wages are that high here are they?? I can understan in places like NYC or seattle but.

Pppeeter
10-15-23, 19:32
I've been a long time member / lurker here and am just getting back in the swing of things. I have a couple girls on seeking I am trying to set arrangements up with. One is being flakey with responses, while the other one responds right away, however she is not living in her listed city, as she's now 2. 5 hours away for college. I'll be honest in that I currently have 2 accounts on seeking to see if I can get different interactions / responses from the various women on the site based on which account they are speaking too. The most challenging part is weeding out the obvious fake accounts and messages. Either way its good to be back.

Zipp531
10-16-23, 09:38
Whats up with the GPS in the twin cities? I don't think the wages are that high here are they?? I can understan in places like NYC or seattle but.It's ridiculous. Whether it is SBs or Pros they will tell you that everything is more expensive. Yes, everything is more expensive which means my budget for recreational activities is less than what it was even a year ago. A year ago I was seeing a 25 year old Asian woman for 3 per meet. I cut it off when she wanted to renegotiate. I see she is now advertising on one of the escort sites for 7/ hr, I laughed out loud. Are there suckers out there paying those rates? If they are, they are idiots.

Like PhlipJ11 said below, once I move to text with a new pot, they almost always say they want 5+ per meet. I simply tell them, "Your number is a little over my usual budget, around 3 per meet. I won't insult you by asking you to meet my range. Good luck in your search. " Surprisingly a few have said they are fine with that and we have moved forward. The ones that are not willing to come down either don't reply or say no thank you.

WiseTraveler
10-17-23, 18:18
Whats up with the GPS in the twin cities? I don't think the wages are that high here are they?? I can understan in places like NYC or seattle but.Depends on the details. Are they hosting? Are you getting a nice hotel? Are you expecting 1 hr, 2 hrs, or a 5 hour all you can bang special? Do you expect or care about them being arm candy? Glamming up costs more. I prefer discreet GND.

So yeah, I've been told 5+ but when I clarify that I'm usually one and done, not into anything extreme, prefer to go slow, won't take up more than 90 min of their time, they'll come down to 2. 5. If I'm getting the room, then I ask for 2 hours /2 rounds. $500 is fair if you're hate / gonzo fucking them over 3+ hours.

Ryan33
10-19-23, 06:52
Depends on the details. Are they hosting? Are you getting a nice hotel? Are you expecting 1 hr, 2 hrs, or a 5 hour all you can bang special? Do you expect or care about them being arm candy? Glamming up costs more. I prefer discreet GND.

So yeah, I've been told 5+ but when I clarify that I'm usually one and done, not into anything extreme, prefer to go slow, won't take up more than 90 min of their time, they'll come down to 2. 5. If I'm getting the room, then I ask for 2 hours /2 rounds. $500 is fair if you're hate / gonzo fucking them over 3+ hours.As he always does, Wisetraveler has a good perspective.

Anonyminn
10-20-23, 15:08
Wondering if any of you made contact with Lillie (SA: sweetlillil) back in 2019-2020. She was a 19 y/o freshman at the U, lived on campus, from out of state, and spent only a year here. Interested in comparing notes and updates.

Pppeeter
10-21-23, 17:20
I have been communicating with a few girls on the site but haven't been able to nail down a meeting or anything more than messages back and forth. Does anyone have more info on any of these ladies?

https://members.seeking.com/member/45026444-52b3-4dee-a6b0-c59ac27f4931

Messaged a lot for a while, seems fun and friendly, but then she goes a week without logging in or messaging back.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9fa23211-3fe7-4d13-a5db-eef1202028c9

Incredibly flirtatious, can't host, very chatty but hasnt committed to meeting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/94ec7993-cca4-4396-87b6-8791e4e5775e

Slow to respond, and a bit combative at first, but she's got a pretty face and a thin body so I am interested.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2e7a23f6-7030-4007-ae66-975b3e0a67a6

Not in the cities, down in marshal for school. Wants $$$ for BJ and more than double that for FS. Also tries to sell you pics.

Happtrav
10-22-23, 06:04
Selling pics. Asking for deposit.

https://members.seeking.com/member/405b5867-2541-4c98-84b2-e1aef8ee0be4My experience with this Crazy was worse. Apparently she will do anything I want, as long as I cashapp her before meeting.

When I refused, she got abusive on text. Sending me screenshots of what sugaring means.

Her area code starts with 319, ends in 7887.

Stay away from this headcase.

Happtrav
10-22-23, 06:15
SN: FriendlyDiva.

Sorry no link. Her phone area code is 415. I also have her snapchat.

She is non-responsive on the phone. But responds on Snap.

Wants 4 for a first meeting. Will not meet out in public. Says I should show up at a home for a first meeting.

Sounds like a rob to me. DM me if you want to TOFTT.

WiseTraveler
10-23-23, 11:50
SN: FriendlyDiva.

Sorry no link. Her phone area code is 415. I also have her snapchat.

She is non-responsive on the phone. But responds on Snap.

Wants 4 for a first meeting. Will not meet out in public. Says I should show up at a home for a first meeting.

Sounds like a rob to me. DM me if you want to TOFTT.SC = scam or rinser. They'll never meet in public and just want idiots to send deposits or buy content.

Never send money in advance. If she wants $400 for a first meeting, confirm what that means. To just show up? Hell no. That means intimacy will cost at least double if not over $1,000.

Meet and greets are dual interviews. You can cover transportation and all expenses and even hint / promise at a good gift if she shows up with positive intent. If it doesn't work out, fine, but if she barely engages, doesn't ask questions, is rudely on her phone, and just feels entitled for $ for her gracing you with her bitchy presence, give her a $10 chuckie cheese gift card and cut it short fast.

If she shows up on time, sincerely engages / answers Qs but just isn't interested, that's fine. You can appreciate the effort, give her a Sephora gift card and wish her the best.

If she insists on money in advance, I'll always pass because 99% of the time it's a scam.

Edit: Approach suggestion: Acknowledge she's probably had to deal with scammers, time wasters, and little boys. You understand that her time is valuable but note the #1 scam by far is women asking for deposits in advance. Doesn't matter how legit the concern is, 19/20 times it's a scam so sending $ simply isn't going to happen.

What you can do is communicate clearly and share your sincere intent. Make a reservation that she can confirm. Promise to send a pic of you there to prove you're sincere, e.g. if meet is at 4, get there 3:40 and send selfie with whatever reasonable pose she wants. Gas $? Uber her there.

If that's not enough, there's zero chance for a good arrangement so stop wasting your time and move on. It's a numbers game. Being consistent, patient, and organized will serve you well but's not for the easily discouraged. If I get ghosted, I'm still at a place I can enjoy and often will have a second option ready. I'm at least still not out $, just time/gas.

Happtrav
10-25-23, 06:26
SN: DesirableAphrodite.

I asked for her phone number, and she give me her WhatsApp, google chat and kik contacts.

Lmao.

Another one to block and move on.

PhlipJ11
10-26-23, 12:57
Thanks to everyone who gave me info prior to my visit. I had some fun. Only one dud out of 3 ladies.

Ginger Juliette.

My favorite of the week. Met her twice. She's a real MILF and loves to bang. Open to just about anything. Very Sexy! She does not like to be a sub. I would repeat in a heartbeat. Cost $$.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1e26fc74-d3d2-4f52-9175-f02136595ef9

MysteriousOne.

Very nice MILF. She is married which is kind of a turn on. She's about an our out from MSP and only available 1-2 days during the week. Can't host, can't stay late. A little heavier than her pics, but very sweet and sensual. I would probably repeat if the woman above is not available. Cost $$.

https://members.seeking.com/member/76a5112d-b3b8-439f-b1ee-3052b2098bae

Vibinandthrivin.

Will not repeat and caution you to not try her out. She talks a big game but does not perform well. Showed up to meet me in pajama bottoms and slippers. Should have known right off the bat. Arm pits stank of BO. Not a very good smelling Vag. Wouldn't kiss, just wanted to get it over with. Also, immediately asked for $ up front. Not a good experience and I should have known. There were a lot of signs. Cost $$.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ef04de18-7969-4271-b584-33bc1ef79c49

All of my Go-To women in Indianapolis are through an agency where you have to get verified, so I probably won't be able to help you if you are heading our way. But hit me up if you are and I will try. Stay safe out there Gents!

ShortDaddy2828
10-26-23, 13:51
I have been communicating with a few girls on the site but haven't been able to nail down a meeting or anything more than messages back and forth. Does anyone have more info on any of these ladies?

https://members.seeking.com/member/45026444-52b3-4dee-a6b0-c59ac27f4931

Messaged a lot for a while, seems fun and friendly, but then she goes a week without logging in or messaging back.I met her once, had a great time and thought there was a good connection.

We planned on starting a regular thing so I gave a first MA and then all of a sudden she was cagey and couldn't meet up or kept delaying things (got to go to the grocery, I'll message when I'm home) and then eventually ghosted me completely.

PhlipJ11
10-29-23, 16:19
Sorry guys. Not sure why my original post is missing $s.

In order it was 3, 3, 4.


Thanks to everyone who gave me info prior to my visit. I had some fun. Only one dud out of 3 ladies.

Ginger Juliette.

My favorite of the week. Met her twice. She's a real MILF and loves to bang. Open to just about anything. Very Sexy! She does not like to be a sub. I would repeat in a heartbeat. Cost $$.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1e26fc74-d3d2-4f52-9175-f02136595ef9

MysteriousOne.

Very nice MILF. She is married which is kind of a turn on. She's about an our out from MSP and only available 1-2 days during the week. Can't host, can't stay late. A little heavier than her pics, but very sweet and sensual. I would probably repeat if the woman above is not available. Cost $$.

https://members.seeking.com/member/76a5112d-b3b8-439f-b1ee-3052b2098bae

Vibinandthrivin.

Will not repeat and caution you to not try her out. She talks a big game but does not perform well. Showed up to meet me in pajama bottoms and slippers. Should have known right off the bat. Arm pits stank of BO. Not a very good smelling Vag. Wouldn't kiss, just wanted to get it over with. Also, immediately asked for $ up front. Not a good experience and I should have known. There were a lot of signs. Cost $$.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ef04de18-7969-4271-b584-33bc1ef79c49

All of my Go-To women in Indianapolis are through an agency where you have to get verified, so I probably won't be able to help you if you are heading our way. But hit me up if you are and I will try. Stay safe out there Gents!

Wanderlust Exp
10-29-23, 19:22
https://members.seeking.com/member/f4bdff20-1128-4e5a-bb58-64d53014960f

Good companion in public with an open menu in private.

ToledoRocket52
10-29-23, 20:20
Thanks for the report. I am actually messaging Ginger to set something up.


Thanks to everyone who gave me info prior to my visit. I had some fun. Only one dud out of 3 ladies.

Ginger Juliette.

My favorite of the week. Met her twice. She's a real MILF and loves to bang. Open to just about anything. Very Sexy! She does not like to be a sub. I would repeat in a heartbeat. Cost $$.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1e26fc74-d3d2-4f52-9175-f02136595ef9

MysteriousOne.

Very nice MILF. She is married which is kind of a turn on. She's about an our out from MSP and only available 1-2 days during the week. Can't host, can't stay late. A little heavier than her pics, but very sweet and sensual. I would probably repeat if the woman above is not available. Cost $$.

https://members.seeking.com/member/76a5112d-b3b8-439f-b1ee-3052b2098bae

Vibinandthrivin.

Will not repeat and caution you to not try her out. She talks a big game but does not perform well. Showed up to meet me in pajama bottoms and slippers. Should have known right off the bat. Arm pits stank of BO. Not a very good smelling Vag. Wouldn't kiss, just wanted to get it over with. Also, immediately asked for $ up front. Not a good experience and I should have known. There were a lot of signs. Cost $$.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ef04de18-7969-4271-b584-33bc1ef79c49

All of my Go-To women in Indianapolis are through an agency where you have to get verified, so I probably won't be able to help you if you are heading our way. But hit me up if you are and I will try. Stay safe out there Gents!

Nashorn
11-05-23, 23:10
Stuff in minecraft.

Sofi Angel. Has been discussed before. Want 100 for the meet. If she likes you then you have to get a room and the fun stuff is 700.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fc7b88ca-fe5f-4471-986d-869b44f36a9c

Sunshine. Had everything set up. She could host, 500 for 3 times BBFS. Ghosted while I was driving to meet her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e2492d24-ea12-496c-ae58-7e7e225460ad

Svetlana. Can't host, want 500 ppm. Got all righteous at the suggestion of BBFS.

https://members.seeking.com/member/aebfd0af-425e-40c5-beab-5a95ed77f0f4

Kynyyy Can't host 400 per meet. Stopped comms when I asked about BBFS.

https://members.seeking.com/member/707500d7-5b18-4d29-9732-a8909b8b82de

Colombiana. Did a meet 500 ppm 3 times bbfscip. We had agreed to split the room. At the end, she wanted me to pay for her share of the room. Really turned me off.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5edfc3b7-cc26-49e9-9c0f-a84dea0d29ca

Lexisexi. Want 500 for an hour. Never met. Is getting more crazy looking over time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/358e9293-5735-47a2-8eb7-fe42422d7488

Foxymadame. Has another profile with her location in Grand Forks which is where she actually is located. Wants 800 per meet. Have been talking sporadically on snapchat. No interest in 800. But see if she comes down.

https://members.seeking.com/member/cec79b7b-7ba8-49c2-a39b-d13e7d39fbf6

Mdm4 psxoly no meetups, sends only fans link. LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ba293441-d13a-4bee-a338-9234864f2b4f

Maria218. She is the winner of GPS. More like diamond pussy syndrome. Wants 500 for a massage and happy ending or 5 k for sex. Anyone want her number? / sarcasm LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1bf03091-8254-4827-a833-78f40c6f6cdf

TomTomav
11-06-23, 12:22
Stuff in minecraft.

Sofi Angel. Has been discussed before. Want 100 for the meet. If she likes you then you have to get a room and the fun stuff is 700.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fc7b88ca-fe5f-4471-986d-869b44f36a9c

Sunshine. Had everything set up. She could host, 500 for 3 times BBFS. Ghosted while I was driving to meet her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e2492d24-ea12-496c-ae58-7e7e225460ad

Svetlana. Can't host, want 500 ppm. Got all righteous at the suggestion of BBFS.

https://members.seeking.com/member/aebfd0af-425e-40c5-beab-5a95ed77f0f4

Kynyyy Can't host 400 per meet. Stopped comms when I asked about BBFS.These rates are unbelievable. The attitudes are ridiculous as well. We should all refuse to play. Maybe I am just getting old and crabby, but I have not had pussy that was worth more than $300, and that was an amazing time. But if guys are willing to pay these rates, they will never come down. Isn't it demeaning enough to pay for it to begin with?

Freakin69
11-06-23, 17:03
These rates are unbelievable. The attitudes are ridiculous as well. We should all refuse to play. Maybe I am just getting old and crabby, but I have not had pussy that was worth more than $300, and that was an amazing time. But if guys are willing to pay these rates, they will never come down. Isn't it demeaning enough to pay for it to begin with?Yeah! And I have been in some of the sugar baby forums and read a lot of threads. The way all these woman talk about us is ridiculous! They have ZERO respect for any of us. They openly talk about milking guys for as much money as they can. (and I'm not talking about the fun kind of milking LOL). Not to mention, most of these women are 5-6's at best, demanding top dollar, for nothing but dead fish service, and bad attitudes. No thanks. I'd rather whack it, than give these delusional woman a single dime!

I certainly won't give in to those rates, but not everyone out there has the same self-control.

Stay strong brothers. Resist!

Pppeeter
11-06-23, 21:26
Yeah! And I have been in some of the sugar baby forums and read a lot of threads. The way all these woman talk about us is ridiculous! They have ZERO respect for any of us. They openly talk about milking guys for as much money as they can. (and I'm not talking about the fun kind of milking LOL). Not to mention, most of these women are 5-6's at best, demanding top dollar, for nothing but dead fish service, and bad attitudes. No thanks. I'd rather whack it, than give these delusional woman a single dime!

I certainly won't give in to those rates, but not everyone out there has the same self-control.

Stay strong brothers. Resist!That is more the problem than any of us guys actually paying that much for their services. They get in these groups together and talk each other up about how much they should be getting from guys, cause they are all goddesses that deserve so much money. I think most of them lie on those forums about how much they actually do charge, just so they don't sound like complete WGs. Then they all one up each other. I don't think have the girls on seeking are even serious about being SB's. In my opinion most of them are on their to sell pics, and IF the guy is willing to pay a crazy high price, they might consider meeting them. Otherwise they are happy just selling other content if they can.

Nashorn
11-07-23, 21:35
Could I negotiate a little more. Perhaps.

Please show me where I can meet up with young attractive SB's and do BBFS for 300? I would be happy to see them instead of the ones I listed. Or escorts or cuddlers?

Yes, prices have increased, but so has everything else. Live under a rock much. 500 will only get you an hour with a decent looking escort.

So please do share your 300 ladies that you see so myself and others can avoid these higher priced ladies.

Happtrav
11-08-23, 08:00
Stuff in minecraft.

Svetlana. Can't host, want 500 ppm. Got all righteous at the suggestion of BBFS.

[https://members.seeking.com/member/aebfd0af-425e-40c5-beab-5a95ed77f0f4
I have been communicating with Svetlana for a while. Her operation is the same, she asks for a picture right away.

Then acts cold and calculating. Almost to blackmail.

Various Sources have told me it might have to do with a mafia. And she still continues to have a profile on Seeking.

I have found out a lot of profiles on Seeking are actually guys located in Africa.

After I call them out on it, they try to beg for money, by telling me how bad things are in Africa.

I have said before, I am not a charity organization.

Be safe out there.

Ryan33
11-09-23, 08:05
LoveSarah wants minimum of 3 K per month.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fbe8c7bd-86d3-4939-8d1a-cccbe01b8207

Really not sure if Laceyfun is scammer or legit but seems likely to be a scammer. She said she only accepts Cash App and I said I don't do electronic payments only cash and that was the end of that.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/06a939e6-d1b8-43fc-83e5-3d73c017dd36

WaldoJnk
11-09-23, 10:15
I have been chatting with Asianbbygirl and we are planning to meet later this week. There aren't any real red flags for me. She seems pretty cool over text, doesn't ask me to advance any money and is willing to meet. However, considering it is becoming a coin toss for some of these SBs on whether they are real or worth it I thought I'd reach out to all of you if you have had any experience.

https://members.seeking.com/member/16d6bc27-d4c9-4696-a52a-8d5353ecd179

Thanks!

Zipp531
11-09-23, 19:15
Really not sure if Laceyfun is scammer or legit but seems likely to be a scammer. She said she only accepts Cash App and I said I don't do electronic payments only cash and that was the end of that.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/06a939e6-d1b8-43fc-83e5-3d73c017dd36Not sure what her deal is. She wants to keep chat on-site and not move to text. She sends a message saying she wants to meet tonight and then goes offline for a couple days. Did you get her to agree to ppm?

Ryan33
11-09-23, 22:39
Not sure what her deal is. She wants to keep chat on-site and not move to text. She sends a message saying she wants to meet tonight and then goes offline for a couple days. Did you get her to agree to ppm?She said she was okay with $400, but overall my experience was similar to yours with her wanting to chat on-site and disappear after asking to meet later in the day. When we finally agreed to meet she insisted on cash app for payment and once I said cash only she stopped responding. My guess is she would eventually ask for payment up front on the cash app and never show. I would love to be wrong about her as she is attractive, but feel she is a scammer. Seriously, who doesn't want cash. Maybe someone will connect with her and prove I am incorrect.

HotCoffeeCake4
11-10-23, 13:26
Hope I did this link right. Yet another scammer / thief you guys. Used to meet up a few times started to notice things missing and recently I tested it. Very flaky and will ask for money before hand usually. Just proceed with caution. She has probably 5 different accounts and different locations around Minnesota and Wisconsin. The names are usually those auto populated names but her tattoos are very noticeable all along her neck, and goes by the name Emma.

https://members.seeking.com/member/45f1f676-6400-475d-8702-e9be5927a25d

Happtrav
11-10-23, 19:18
SN: KindPlayer.

Wants to chat on whatapp, telegram or kik.

I do not know anyone in the United States that uses Telegram.

There is an epidemic of these scammers on Seeking. Watch out.

Freakin69
11-10-23, 20:27
Hope I did this link right. Yet another scammer / thief you guys. Used to meet up a few times started to notice things missing and recently I tested it. Very flaky and will ask for money before hand usually. Just proceed with caution. She has probably 5 different accounts and different locations around Minnesota and Wisconsin. The names are usually those auto populated names but her tattoos are very noticeable all along her neck, and goes by the name Emma.

https://members.seeking.com/member/45f1f676-6400-475d-8702-e9be5927a25dThis kinda looks like someone who has been discussed in here before. Search for Annika in this forum. She's known for robbing people, cash-and-dash, etc. She hangs out with other shady women that do similar things. There seems to be a gang of them that are friends out here doing this stuff.

Happtrav
11-13-23, 05:28
Thanks for the report. I am actually messaging Ginger to set something up.Sorry, I have never paid to meet anyone older than 32 years old.

Times are not that desperate.

WoozerBuck
11-13-23, 19:28
Any 411 on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3c91292e-cc5f-47c2-bfd1-5304401a88af

Nashorn
11-13-23, 20:39
Any 411 on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3c91292e-cc5f-47c2-bfd1-5304401a88afFake.

Do a google image search. There have been a good amount of these lately.

Nashorn
11-13-23, 21:52
May. Platonic, sends * link.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ec0e16c9-b211-4fd8-aea0-e79084e09946

Honestsinger. Google image search shows some chick in England. Fake.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0091e814-8700-4316-a4a4-d6f0afa6496a

Boosbodyart Can't host, Wants 400 per meet. Always covered. Didn't meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a500047c-8db0-4bb2-9488-9d573cbfbaa6

Kate Wants an allowance. Won't give me a number. Didn't pursue further.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4710fdaa-5359-4e68-a94f-e28cc5f63be3

Hill. Wants to google chat or skype. Won't give number. Pretty sure a scammer.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1b1ba74a-9a48-4e75-b8cd-3566d569c27e

Fiercemizz Most likely fake. Google image search, some chick on IG. Not likely to be in MN.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8edc6c16-28ef-49ce-9510-d35eae750b58

Chiclover. Gave a 424 area code number. Probably a scammer. Never texted her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a13c0e14-5eb4-4377-bff2-1938c9535253

WaldoJnk
11-14-23, 13:40
I have been chatting with Asianbbygirl and we are planning to meet later this week. There aren't any real red flags for me. She seems pretty cool over text, doesn't ask me to advance any money and is willing to meet. However, considering it is becoming a coin toss for some of these SBs on whether they are real or worth it I thought I'd reach out to all of you if you have had any experience.

https://members.seeking.com/member/16d6bc27-d4c9-4696-a52a-8d5353ecd179

Thanks!I'll answer my own question on this one. She completely ghosted me after making plans. Sometimes got the impression that I wasn't actually talking to her, but a handler. Asked me when I wanted to meet after telling me she was busy until a specific time and then gave me a line "Oh right. I confused myself".

Ryan33
11-15-23, 01:21
With all the fakes / scammers on the site and mentioned here, thought I would put out a few that are real. I am not going to provide any additional information about them, including allowance or phone numbers, so don't ask. Just way to many assholes reading these boards so if you are interested in any of them you will need to do the work yourself.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f06639a2-50f5-4b1b-accc-1c03bdc7e8c6

https://members.seeking.com/member/22db117c-13bd-46e3-9753-2487364a4ce1

https://members.seeking.com/member/62733326-ccb0-499d-9afd-3afa5fe27b25

https://members.seeking.com/member/28eb67db-f0ce-40ec-b074-6d619c051d1b

https://members.seeking.com/member/2d97a649-b864-4ead-b92b-4e62e9469574

https://members.seeking.com/member/c99538de-b4c9-4a4b-8f2e-1c43c9eb0542

Happtrav
11-15-23, 06:34
May. Platonic, sends * link.

Boosbodyart Can't host, Wants 400 per meet. Always covered. Didn't meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a500047c-8db0-4bb2-9488-9d573cbfbaa6

Her name is Boo. Her profile last week had a different name. She is local to Minnesota. has no intention of meeting. But she will blackmail you.


Chiclover. Gave a 424 area code number. Probably a scammer. Never texted her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a13c0e14-5eb4-4377-bff2-1938c9535253ChicLover is a scammer. Phone area code is 423. Says her name is Mandy, and claims to be from Tennessee, but just moved to Minneapolis. She only accepts Cashapp and PayPal.

Vindar10
11-16-23, 11:58
Any intel on her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/1b2211d6-a04e-4dad-8308-23c1d7f28a8e

We made plans, she no-showed, then she texted a few minutes after I had left the meeting spot, apologizing profusely. She didn't ask for anything up front, her messages have been coherent and engaged, and I haven't seen any obvious red flags except for the no-show. I'm wondering whether to try again.

Ryan33
11-17-23, 21:16
Any intel on her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/1b2211d6-a04e-4dad-8308-23c1d7f28a8e

We made plans, she no-showed, then she texted a few minutes after I had left the meeting spot, apologizing profusely. She didn't ask for anything up front, her messages have been coherent and engaged, and I haven't seen any obvious red flags except for the no-show. I'm wondering whether to try again.I have chatted with her in the past and seemed to be legit. She did ask me for $100 for a meet and greet, so I passed. If she is willing to meet without anything up front, I think it would be worth giving her another a shot.

ZadeGuy
11-18-23, 01:54
Any intel on her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/1b2211d6-a04e-4dad-8308-23c1d7f28a8e

We made plans, she no-showed, then she texted a few minutes after I had left the meeting spot, apologizing profusely. She didn't ask for anything up front, her messages have been coherent and engaged, and I haven't seen any obvious red flags except for the no-show. I'm wondering whether to try again.She is legit. Smart, albeit slightly delusional. All covered. Hot, real, warm, a bit crazy.

Brian333
11-18-23, 15:12
She is legit. Smart, albeit slightly delusional. All covered. Hot, real, warm, a bit crazy.I agree that she's smart, real and enjoyable to talk with. She was a bit out of my range though. What was she requesting?

Happtrav
11-23-23, 06:20
If you have been successful in getting phone numbers from POTS on Seeking, you will soon notice a whole bunch of phone numbers with area code 262.

This is a PSA, to avoid the 262 girls.

I have met the ring leader of the 262 girls. It all started about 2 years ago, when the ring leader moved to the Twin Cities and found out she can use, abuse and make money off men exclusively using Seeking.

So she went back to Racine, WI and spread the word. And now her and her friends, are playing games, and rinsing money from men on Seeking.

Do yourself a favor. Stay away from anyone with a 262 area code.

DrSuess
11-25-23, 14:00
Met this one in person.

Expectations are good amount ppm plus monthly allowance of three grand. Those who have extra free money can try her out and IM for more details.

DrSuess
11-25-23, 21:57
This one wants money upfront for baby sitter to meetup, anyone wants her digits I'm.

DrSuess
11-25-23, 21:58
Met her in person, she can't drive and not the person in pic or could be ages old pic. Not worth to meet and she can't host either.

DrSuess
11-25-23, 22:01
Wants upfront money before we meet in person, I'm for digits.

DrSuess
11-25-23, 22:03
Wants $ to meet in person for drinks.

DrSuess
11-25-23, 22:06
She can't drive and can't host. Kept me waiting and never turned up. I'm for digits.

DrSuess
11-25-23, 22:10
Its been a week and no response may be ditched me post lunch meeting.

DrSuess
11-25-23, 22:12
Sounds liek she is broke and yet to meet this one. May be some time this week let me report back.

DrSuess
11-25-23, 22:17
This one is not my type and I usually like someone with meat on bone but she is HUGE.

Happtrav
11-26-23, 18:51
If you are looking to meet right now, stay away from Seeking.

Seeking requires lots of work. 90% of the profiles on Seeking are scammers.

Out of the 10% I would say most are GPS. I have phone numbers of woman asking 300-500 for a vanilla meet.

It is a lot of work finding a sane, reasonable SB on Seeking.

If you are looking for instant gratification, stay away from Seeking.

Ryan33
11-26-23, 19:15
If you are looking to meet right now, stay away from Seeking.

Seeking requires lots of work. 90% of the profiles on Seeking are scammers.

Out of the 10% I would say most are GPS. I have phone numbers of woman asking 300-500 for a vanilla meet.

It is a lot of work finding a sane, reasonable SB on Seeking.

If you are looking for instant gratification, stay away from Seeking.What would you recommend as an alternative?

WiseTraveler
11-26-23, 20:17
What would you recommend as an alternative?Seeking and has sunk greatly in terms of finding short-term fun at a reasonable price. Granted, that's what they've been advertising / trying to move towards so it's not surprising but my hit / conversion rate is easily down 80% from 18 months ago. More scammers, far far more GPS, and the rest have been around for years.

Secret Benefits is better for quick hookups as long as you know how to spot bots.

Don't reply to unsolicited messages (bots / scammer / or site autogenerated message).

Don't pay to see hidden pics or boost messages (if you connect, just ask her to send via text).

Watch for city / country changes (usually scammers).

Build your own list of potentials. Don't use favorite button, just copy / paste their profile link to a spreadsheet or draft email.

Customize your messages (make an effort).

Never send money in advance. Ever. Offer to cover drinks, food, transport (she just has to show up). Offer to meet near her. If they need babysitter / gas / whatever it's a scam. Always.

What's Your Price can be okay but most are going to be on one of the other sugar sites anyways. If you have game, it can be good while traveling but in the Twin Cities, pickings are slim.

HotCoffeeCake4
11-27-23, 14:32
Curious if anyone has intel or met up with her?

HotCoffeeCake4
11-27-23, 18:08
Curious if anyone has intel or met up with her?https://members.seeking.com/member/17d60240-85a2-4e4e-93fb-0012afc158ee

Happtrav
11-28-23, 09:33
This one wants money upfront for baby sitter to meetup, anyone wants her digits I'm.Besides being a major headcase, she wants 400 for a vanilla meet. 800 for any physical activity.

Block her and move on.

DrSuess
11-29-23, 11:19
Besides being a major headcase, she wants 400 for a vanilla meet. 800 for any physical activity.

Block her and move on.Thanks for the heads up, ill stay away.

DrSuess
11-29-23, 11:29
Looking for any inputs on this one. She wants all covered. Lots of attitude towards other ethnicities. Expecting half grand ppm.

Spaniard21
11-29-23, 17:56
Goes by Bri, is a scammer from Wisconsin, she likes to do a duo with her friends. Will only do a duo. Met up with her friend and they tried to get me to pay right away. I kicked them out.

One of her friends is: (HoneyGirl).

https://members.seeking.com/member/f1df1a29-0a93-40f8-a8b3-c47f1a6b602c

You've been warned.

JwJohnson6666
11-29-23, 21:59
I am sure I won't be the only one to say this but just say no. There is no way its worth it and until we say no to ridiculousness the worse things will get.


Looking for any inputs on this one. She wants all covered. Lots of attitude towards other ethnicities. Expecting half grand ppm.

DrSuess
11-29-23, 22:35
Adorable Siren is crazy. Avoid avoid LOL.What's the deal with Siren?

Spaniard21
11-30-23, 10:52
I am sure I won't be the only one to say this but just say no. There is no way its worth it and until we say no to ridiculousness the worse things will get.AMEN! The more we all say no to these crazy/entitled women the better it will be in the long run.

Spaniard21
11-30-23, 10:53
What's the deal with Siren?The conversations seemed to be all over the place, I gave up on her quick. Then she started asking me for money. I blocked her.

DrSuess
11-30-23, 12:54
The conversations seemed to be all over the place, I gave up on her quick. Then she started asking me for money. I blocked her.Ok, she kept texting me asking for a date reducing her initial quoted price.

Spaniard21
11-30-23, 12:56
Ok, she kept texting me asking for a date reducing her initial quoted price.She changed the dates on me, but then she started texting me about random stuff, I think she is on meds or bi-polar.

Tribeca67
12-01-23, 01:45
Any info on this one?

Vindar10
12-01-23, 09:31
Any info on this one?She wrote to me a week ago out of the blue, with a short message and request for my photos. I wrote back and gave her access. Then nothing.

Tribeca67
12-01-23, 14:26
She wrote to me a week ago out of the blue, with a short message and request for my photos. I wrote back and gave her access. Then nothing.A fellow pm me saying he asked her to verify but she didn't.

DrSuess
12-01-23, 14:29
https://members.seeking.com/member/c798c483-202c-46b5-93dd-f1531ef7653c

Any intel, she wants a date this weekend.

PhillipPlein
12-01-23, 15:57
A fellow pm me saying he asked her to verify but she didn't.She is real. I talked to her maybe two years ago which is a telling sign because she's still actively on the site. She strings you along and never actually wants to setup time to meet up in person or she will continue to cancel on you. Big waste of time.

Ryan33
12-01-23, 17:37
Any info on this one?She is really, originally from Florida and was active there before moving to the area. Believe she currently lives in western Wisconsin. Little heavier than photos and what she will allow depends how she feels about you. In my experience she was a really nice woman, but didn't repeat as I had some other options that I was pursuing at the time.

AnomBox
12-03-23, 06:10
Anyone take this one for a spin? Looking to scratch a MILF itch and she is open to a particular scenario I'm looking for.

https://members.seeking.com/member/dabbdcaa-d06b-444f-80ed-0de19f530c88

Vindar10
12-03-23, 09:37
Goes by Bri, is a scammer from Wisconsin, she likes to do a duo with her friends. Will only do a duo. Met up with her friend and they tried to get me to pay right away. I kicked them out.

One of her friends is: (HoneyGirl).

https://members.seeking.com/member/f1df1a29-0a93-40f8-a8b3-c47f1a6b602c

You've been warned.Another one of her friends is BarbieDoll1 / Tiffany:

https://members.seeking.com/member/41b74715-1144-46b9-8901-9eb0427803ed

Happtrav
12-05-23, 08:00
SN: Girlypop.

She said her name is Tyann. Phone Number ends in 3504.

Says she is an experienced sb. No sex offered at all.

To save everyone some time, I will type her last text message.

My last sd would give me 4000 a month and then 700 every time I went and saw him.

LastsLonger
12-05-23, 11:41
Anyone take this one for a spin? Looking to scratch a MILF itch and she is open to a particular scenario I'm looking for.

https://members.seeking.com/member/dabbdcaa-d06b-444f-80ed-0de19f530c88I speak for us all, what's the scenario?

PhillipPlein
12-05-23, 11:57
She is really, originally from Florida and was active there before moving to the area. Believe she currently lives in western Wisconsin. Little heavier than photos and what she will allow depends how she feels about you. In my experience she was a really nice woman, but didn't repeat as I had some other options that I was pursuing at the time.How much was she looking for per meet?

Vindar10
12-05-23, 13:37
Scammer. She told me that she is a single mom living in Princeton, Minn. , looking for in-person meets, and wanted to meet up this week. But her phone number has an Atlanta area code, and her profile now says Lake Geneva, Wis. And she is really interested only in selling photos online; when I told her that I wasn't looking for photos, she went radio silent.

https://members.seeking.com/member/edeca78a-f547-47c4-9613-27257d99402d

Ryan33
12-05-23, 22:48
How much was she looking for per meet?I actually don't remember what I gave her as it was a while back, but It was $400 or less.

DrSuess
12-06-23, 10:25
Any intel on this one, she responded for a meet and greet.

DrSuess
12-06-23, 10:33
Any intel would help, chatting with this.

DrSuess
12-06-23, 11:04
NOt sure if she is already reported here but I met this girl in person for meet and greet in saint paul tap and she was in hurry. Some black guy dropped her and post meet she texted me she wants to meet at a hotel and needs money to book it and shared her cashapp, which I reported to cashapp team as scammer hope this is ok with moderator here.

She went by name Sienna and her profile name was Loverbunny, she looked like a brown skinned latina and has a tattoo as shown in the pic. her digits 313-XXX-0689...Keep your eyes open.

Tribeca67
12-06-23, 23:31
Any info on this one? Also pm to trade videos from girls on seeking only. No ugly girls please.

Happtrav
12-07-23, 08:36
SN: BrilliantGurl.

Big time game player. Will send you screenshots of your text messages, and will create unneeded drama.

Phone number with area code 702, ends in 8898.

Finally, got her to talk numbers. Hope you are sitting down:

500 for the first dinner meeting.

1000-2000 for any intimacy.

DrSuess
12-07-23, 11:27
Went by name Amber, she sent pics and videos without faces but the tattoos are point on same as shown on this profile pics. She also sent a cashapp to send $ before meet.

$amberjanet1 which I reported already. Be safe guys.

Freakin69
12-07-23, 16:45
Yeah! I think this is the one I see creating a new profile just about every day for a long time now!


Went by name Amber, she sent pics and videos without faces but the tattoos are point on same as shown on this profile pics. She also sent a cashapp to send $ before meet.

$amberjanet1 which I reported already. Be safe guys.

Spaniard21
12-07-23, 18:00
Another one of her friends is BarbieDoll1 / Tiffany:

https://members.seeking.com/member/41b74715-1144-46b9-8901-9eb0427803edShe's even more crazy and bold than the other 2.

Happtrav
12-14-23, 14:20
SN: UrbanFlora.

Calls herself Angel. Has a phone number that ends in 8096.

This 29 year old will play lots of mind games.

And in after a while she will say her expectations are 500 for a dinner date, 1000 for any intimacy.

AnomBox
12-19-23, 05:57
I speak for us all, what's the scenario?"Loose lips sink ships".

She went silent once I posted. Can read through my previous posts and infer how I was going to enjoy her but on the hunt once again.

Spaniard21
12-19-23, 12:10
"Loose lips sink ships".

She went silent once I posted. Can read through my previous posts and infer how I was going to enjoy her but on the hunt once again.That's too bad, it makes it hard to share info, when there are so many that will abuse the info that is shared!

Zipp531
12-29-23, 20:17
DreamyGirl. Messaged me with a generic "Hey, how are you? I played along. After some conversation, she asked for a ppm of 500. I said I wasn't interested at that number. The next evening she sent me a text asking if she could give me oral. Asked to pick her up for a little car fun. She doesn't have a car.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/ca0d7fdc-a552-48da-9d8b-10ebd33291fc

Oolllliviaaaaa. Chatted for a couple days. Agreed to meet at her place and a ppm of 350 this afternoon. Then came a message asking for half upfront to get her address. I countered with some advice I got from another member here. I offered to meet her for a drink or coffee near her place. I would hand her 100 for showing up, then the rest once we completed our date. Radio silence since.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a071b05d-ac92-4f3a-8c40-948a6f73d3b7

MiscWrite
12-30-23, 17:13
You posted a message, not the link for DreamyGirl. Do you have her link so we can watch out for her? Searching on the site is a bit of a pain in the ass. Haha.


DreamyGirl. Messaged me with a generic "Hey, how are you? I played along. After some conversation, she asked for a ppm of 500. I said I wasn't interested at that number. The next evening she sent me a text asking if she could give me oral. Asked to pick her up for a little car fun. She doesn't have a car.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/ca0d7fdc-a552-48da-9d8b-10ebd33291fc

Oolllliviaaaaa. Chatted for a couple days. Agreed to meet at her place and a ppm of 350 this afternoon. Then came a message asking for half upfront to get her address. I countered with some advice I got from another member here. I offered to meet her for a drink or coffee near her place. I would hand her 100 for showing up, then the rest once we completed our date. Radio silence since.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a071b05d-ac92-4f3a-8c40-948a6f73d3b7

Zipp531
12-31-23, 09:07
You posted a message, not the link for DreamyGirl. Do you have her link so we can watch out for her? Searching on the site is a bit of a pain in the ass. Haha.Here.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9de8f45d-1575-4ea5-a1d7-9239133b055b

FunGuySeattle
01-01-24, 08:41
Anyone have experience with this girl on Secret Benefits? Any info would be appreciated either pm or post. Thanks!

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/63fae7e83d20d296

WiseTraveler
01-03-24, 17:22
DreamyGirl. Messaged me with a generic "Hey, how are you? I played along. After some conversation, she asked for a ppm of 500. I said I wasn't interested at that number. The next evening she sent me a text asking if she could give me oral. Asked to pick her up for a little car fun. She doesn't have a car.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/ca0d7fdc-a552-48da-9d8b-10ebd33291fc

Oolllliviaaaaa. Chatted for a couple days. Agreed to meet at her place and a ppm of 350 this afternoon. Then came a message asking for half upfront to get her address. I countered with some advice I got from another member here. I offered to meet her for a drink or coffee near her place. I would hand her 100 for showing up, then the rest once we completed our date. Radio silence since.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a071b05d-ac92-4f3a-8c40-948a6f73d3b7The good old days of finding 150-300 PPM range are pretty much done. Maybe you can still sift through on SecretBenefits or WYP but on seeking? Nada. I went through my usual approach of setting up filters and noting potentials. I usually message 10-30 potentials that through the triage process end up setting 3-8 meets. Went through every non-trans, non-duo who's been active in last month and not looking for platonic or online and found only two I'd even consider messaging. There are several super active ones I just know enough to immediately block which cuts down on potentials.

Oh well, I'll wait longer (or for a downturn in the economy) and try again.

Nashorn
01-03-24, 21:47
Quality has gone down a decent amount as of late in Minecraft.

Sweetlover. Immedialtely asked for my number. (715) Then got a random message. Didn't know who it was from, she had her profile hidden, said she had another one, couldn't find. Works at a strip club DT. Can't host wants 600 per hr. Passed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3b41d5da-0704-4140-a283-28378aeb469f

Another girl I can't find worked at same strip club. Wanted 600 per hr, can't host.

Forest fairy. Saw her a year ago, under a different name. 400 hr BBFS, can't host. Others have given reviews, so so at best.

https://members.seeking.com/member/aded389a-5f84-47dd-9806-d34534ee735c

Kristinamckee. Talked. Is only looking for online.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3549d391-8344-493d-aa5a-f566d1ad0991

Lhaskell13. Responds at times, tries to hit up for cash. Wants 500 hr, maybe can host. Seems flaky.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ff979f0b-6692-4606-869f-f8f1bae80b12

SlitsNTits
01-07-24, 01:55
Anybody have info on dollyduchess87 on seeking. I msg it and nothin. Definitely looks like a real girl just a flake?

TomTomav
01-19-24, 10:56
About 4 months ago I connected with a sexy Asian SB in the Shakopee / Savage area. Only did the meet and greet at Caribou and couldn't get our schedule right to connect. Her profile is gone now, and I cannot find her number. Anyone have any leads?

Happtrav
01-19-24, 12:57
If you spend enough time on Seeking, you will come across SN's with it in them. These are mostly scammers or headcases. Here is an example:

SN: russianitgirl.

Phone area code 763 ends in 4916.

I don't think this is a girl at all. But a bored guy, who has setup a fake profile.

Does dates for ppm. Its a date that it. Allowance expectation 200-400.

Any intimate activities? No. My account literally says platonic.

And the abusive texting begins.

So I blocked this one, and moved along.

BigStud47
01-21-24, 21:37
So I came to visit my son in the Monticello area. Made a connection with naughtily after I booked my trip. She texted me week before I arrived. Made arrangements to meet up last night at a dayuse hotel. Arrived when she said she would be there. We chatted for a bit then off to the races. Great BBBJ lots of attention to the boys then she mounted me and after a few minutes was reverse cg she's an ex strip so she treated me like a customer in a club. All postions and multiple rounds played very nice provider had a blast with her. Plan on seeing her again in the near future trip to the twin cities. She does have a friend who's on site also which I was talking to also. So my next trip will be a threesome. Man I can't wait!

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/nDEo2v9r57LrzK406jWqempk

LastsLonger
01-22-24, 10:57
So I came to visit my son in the Monticello area. Made a connection with naughtily after I booked my trip. She texted me week before I arrived. Made arrangements to meet up last night at a dayuse hotel. Arrived when she said she would be there. We chatted for a bit then off to the races. Great BBBJ lots of attention to the boys then she mounted me and after a few minutes was reverse cg she's an ex strip so she treated me like a customer in a club. All postions and multiple rounds played very nice provider had a blast with her. Plan on seeing her again in the near future trip to the twin cities. She does have a friend who's on site also which I was talking to also. So my next trip will be a threesome. Man I can't wait!

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/nDEo2v9r57LrzK406jWqempkI am not a member of whatsyourprice.

Would you mind sharing the digits or asking if you can share? Would value the ability to reach out.

What was the damage for you?

Answers is PM work please.

WiseTraveler
01-22-24, 11:58
So I came to visit my son in the Monticello area. Made a connection with naughtily after I booked my trip. She texted me week before I arrived. Made arrangements to meet up last night at a dayuse hotel. Arrived when she said she would be there. We chatted for a bit then off to the races. Great BBBJ lots of attention to the boys then she mounted me and after a few minutes was reverse cg she's an ex strip so she treated me like a customer in a club. All postions and multiple rounds played very nice provider had a blast with her. Plan on seeing her again in the near future trip to the twin cities. She does have a friend who's on site also which I was talking to also. So my next trip will be a threesome. Man I can't wait!

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/nDEo2v9r57LrzK406jWqempkBigStud47 - your inbox is full.

At Lasts. I have WYP so can look up any potentials you want.

RandMcNasty
01-28-24, 18:39
WTF is up with these women posting on sugar sites? And maybe more importantly, WTF is up with the men that must for some reason be putting up with it?

OK, some men may only be looking for things like a night out with an attractive woman, platonically. And if this is a significant number I will accept that I am wrong on this. But some of these profiles have women saying things like "they want to be wined and dined and taken out to interesting sites etc" which I'm fine with if we are DATING and she is PUTTING OUT. I'm not going to on top of all of this pay just for the privilege of setting this all up and paying for her.

The old cliche goes we don't pay for the sex, we pay for them to leave. Again, I know not everybody is like this but gees, I have plenty of friends, male and female and I go out plenty. If I'm paying any cash directly for her, it is for one thing and one thing only.

ALSO (yes, I'm on a roll), I use Secret Benefits which isn't the preferred site around here but there we are. "Let Me Be Your Secret". It is actually a great way to instantly filter these women. It is amazing how many despite their glowing photos reveal their dead eyes and attitudes by how they deliver that message. Of course, half of the profiles are full of duck-face and half of the ones that aren't also have all sorts of app scribbled dog ears and mouse whiskers or whatever the fuck they think is attractive? Playful?

Most of these women I wouldn't take out or fuck for free.

That said, I've had some reasonable meetups, enough to keep me browsing a bit. It still is kind of interesting and fun but I have better success just with cold approaches and game. But they don't want to leave.

Anyway sorry for the rant why'all. I had absolutely no reason to do this other than to just put down some of the random thoughts I've been having about the sugar thing lately!

Tang07
01-29-24, 11:48
WTF is up with these women posting on sugar sites? And maybe more importantly, WTF is up with the men that must for some reason be putting up with it?

OK, some men may only be looking for things like a night out with an attractive woman, platonically. And if this is a significant number I will accept that I am wrong on this. But some of these profiles have women saying things like "they want to be wined and dined and taken out to interesting sites etc" which I'm fine with if we are DATING and she is PUTTING OUT. I'm not going to on top of all of this pay just for the privilege of setting this all up and paying for her.

The old cliche goes we don't pay for the sex, we pay for them to leave. Again, I know not everybody is like this but gees, I have plenty of friends, male and female and I go out plenty. If I'm paying any cash directly for her, it is for one thing and one thing only.

ALSO (yes, I'm on a roll), I use Secret Benefits which isn't the preferred site around here but there we are. "Let Me Be Your Secret". It is actually a great way to instantly filter these women. It is amazing how many despite their glowing photos reveal their dead eyes and attitudes by how they deliver that message. Of course, half of the profiles are full of duck-face and half of the ones that aren't also have all sorts of app scribbled dog ears and mouse whiskers or whatever the fuck they think is attractive? Playful?

Most of these women I wouldn't take out or fuck for free.Good old female nature. If anything, it's reliable. Most women in this business have nothing but contempt for men. So, they get their rocks off on "one upping" men. Men who follow their rules and are nice to them are pay pigs and they'll what they have to to string them along. Women are not what they seem to simp men. Simp men are looking for a "good" girl to have a long-term relationship with. But they don't understand that the "good" girl is simply more attracted to them. Simp men have no game, they rely on money, or some kind of luck of the draw with women. For context, a Chad can simply walk into a place and attract girls with his looks. Those women will do anything for Chad, lie, cheat, steal, for him. Just like a Pimp and his stable. If Chad has game, those women will likely never leave his side. But if the women don't like you like that, you're just another sucker she can drain resources from until a better man walks into her life. For these men, she will have boundaries, rules, be busy and won't have time for you, doesn't initiate talking / texting, etc. If you find yourself in the latter, I hope you don't take it seriously and be prepared for the incoming breakup via ghosting, text, or hearing about her other relationship (s).

My advice. If your pimp game isn't strong, you're going to be a sucker for life. All women are good women. If you're the right man. Never ever try to control a woman, make her ponder her choices and make sure you know how to deliver her choices to her so that your choices are the most benefit to her at the time. Give her the illusion that she's always in competition. And most importantly, whenever she fucks up, make sure the consequences fit the bill and take away your presence. Lastly, be a man of your word. If your word is done and done is done, you won't need to say much. Just give her a look and she'll comply. The moment she doesn't means that she's up to no good again and it's time for you to check her and / or leave.

Good luck pimpin out there fellas. As they say, "pimpin ain't easy."

WiseTraveler
01-29-24, 13:48
WTF is up with these women posting on sugar sites?

Anyway sorry for the rant why'all. I had absolutely no reason to do this other than to just put down some of the random thoughts I've been having about the sugar thing lately!It's a slog now. If you're just venting, I get it. I've pretty much stopped using Seeking though it could pick up if the economy gets worse. Secret Benefits works if you only send messages. Never open ones you get or pay to see pics, prioritize messages. The avg attractiveness is lower but PPM is the default. WYP and SDM are owned by Seeking.

Take a longer view and occasionally take a break to let the pool replenish. I can vet all potential SBs in 2-4 weeks, meaning from the time I go premium and filter appropriately, I can go through everyone who's been active in the last 3-4 weeks, choose potentials, reach out, get #s, and set up meets. After that you're paying to be able to consider 3-5 new SBs each month (more join but most log in a few times then abandon their profiles). I avoid the ones I've seen super active for a long time. They've self-corrected to their market and always want more than I'm willing to pay.

Rambo21
01-29-24, 13:51
WTF is up with these women posting on sugar sites? And maybe more importantly, WTF is up with the men that must for some reason be putting up with it?

OK, some men may only be looking for things like a night out with an attractive woman, platonically. And if this is a significant number I will accept that I am wrong on this. But some of these profiles have women saying things like "they want to be wined and dined and taken out to interesting sites etc" which I'm fine with if we are DATING and she is PUTTING OUT. I'm not going to on top of all of this pay just for the privilege of setting this all up and paying for her.

The old cliche goes we don't pay for the sex, we pay for them to leave. Again, I know not everybody is like this but gees, I have plenty of friends, male and female and I go out plenty. If I'm paying any cash directly for her, it is for one thing and one thing only.

ALSO (yes, I'm on a roll), I use Secret Benefits which isn't the preferred site around here but there we are. "Let Me Be Your Secret". It is actually a great way to instantly filter these women. It is amazing how many despite their glowing photos reveal their dead eyes and attitudes by how they deliver that message. Of course, half of the profiles are full of duck-face and half of the ones that aren't also have all sorts of app scribbled dog ears and mouse whiskers or whatever the fuck they think is attractive? Playful?Does Secret Benefits require payment via cryptocurrency? Sugar dating is a tricky thing emotionally. You don't want to feel like you are paying an escort, but on the other hand you are not looking for a girlfriend that cling to you. Or as you said won't go home ha ha. If you are the kind of person that enjoys a good conversation then perhaps some patience with sugar babies is warranted until things progress. If not, then proceed directly to an AMP or escort, right?

WiseTraveler
01-30-24, 12:48
Does Secret Benefits require payment via cryptocurrency? Sugar dating is a tricky thing emotionally. You don't want to feel like you are paying an escort, but on the other hand you are not looking for a girlfriend that cling to you. Or as you said won't go home ha ha. If you are the kind of person that enjoys a good conversation then perhaps some patience with sugar babies is warranted until things progress. If not, then proceed directly to an AMP or escort, right?They don't require it but they do accept some forms of crypto. With SBs it's all about communication and being clear what you both want / don't want. Patience is important but be careful not to get rinsed. Covering expenses and maybe giving a small gift should be enough to show your interest. If they want full PPM to meet and then work your way up to intimacy, chances are nothing will happen or you'll be paying triple rate.

Rambo21
01-30-24, 19:12
They don't require it but they do accept some forms of crypto. With SBs it's all about communication and being clear what you both want / don't want. Patience is important but be careful not to get rinsed. Covering expenses and maybe giving a small gift should be enough to show your interest. If they want full PPM to meet and then work your way up to intimacy, chances are nothing will happen or you'll be paying triple rate.Good advice! That said, my most satisfying arrangements have moved fairly slowly. And I will admit I am hesitant to be clear on what I want when I first meet a sugar baby. For some reason I feel like if they trust me and like me, I will get what I want ha ha.

WoozerBuck
01-30-24, 23:16
Does Secret Benefits require payment via cryptocurrency? Sugar dating is a tricky thing emotionally. You don't want to feel like you are paying an escort, but on the other hand you are not looking for a girlfriend that cling to you. Or as you said won't go home ha ha. If you are the kind of person that enjoys a good conversation then perhaps some patience with sugar babies is warranted until things progress. If not, then proceed directly to an AMP or escort, right?Agree on the video to filter. I am just shocked at how poorly these girls come off on the video. They must wake up and decide to bun their hair, put on some attitude and glasses and think we don't notice how casual and lazy they are. The videos are generally terrible.

W Buck.

Nashorn
01-31-24, 00:56
Just started looking on SB. Much more interesting profiles in my area. Even a few that are active on SB that were on seeking. But used there profile for like a week and never logged back in.

How many credits do you guys usually buy? I am thinking the 500 credits.

Rambo21
01-31-24, 10:14
Agree on the video to filter. I am just shocked at how poorly these girls come off on the video. They must wake up and decide to bun their hair, put on some attitude and glasses and think we don't notice how casual and lazy they are. The videos are generally terrible.

W Buck.Yes, the videos are show that the ladies can hide behind their edited pics. Some of the videos make the ladies look plain, and many of the videos give off a bad vibe where you sense negative things about the lady.

MiscWrite
01-31-24, 15:43
Just started looking on SB. Much more interesting profiles in my area. Even a few that are active on SB that were on seeking. But used there profile for like a week and never logged back in.

How many credits do you guys usually buy? I am thinking the 500 credits.I do 100 credits at a time. Whenever I get close to running out, I get a "special" offer for a pretty big discount on buying more credits. For me, 100 lasts a while, so unless you are messaging a bunch of sbs, asking to see private pics, answering their questions, then you don't need a lot. FYI, I don't open private pics, answer their questions, anything that costs extra other than the initial message.

LolBoat
02-01-24, 12:17
Good old female nature. If anything, it's reliable. Most women in this business have nothing but contempt for men. So, they get their rocks off on "one upping" men. Men who follow their rules and are nice to them are pay pigs and they'll what they have to to string them along. Women are not what they seem to simp men. Simp men are looking for a "good" girl to have a long-term relationship with. But they don't understand that the "good" girl is simply more attracted to them. Simp men have no game, they rely on money, or some kind of luck of the draw with women. For context, a Chad can simply walk into a place and attract girls with his looks. Those women will do anything for Chad, lie, cheat, steal, for him. Just like a Pimp and his stable. If Chad has game, those women will likely never leave his side. But if the women don't like you like that, you're just another sucker she can drain resources from until a better man walks into her life. For these men, she will have boundaries, rules, be busy and won't have time for you, doesn't initiate talking / texting, etc. If you find yourself in the latter, I hope you don't take it seriously and be prepared for the incoming breakup via ghosting, text, or hearing about her other relationship (s).

My advice. If your pimp game isn't strong, you're going to be a sucker for life. All women are good women. If you're the right man. Never ever try to control a woman, make her ponder her choices and make sure you know how to deliver her choices to her so that your choices are the most benefit to her at the time. Give her the illusion that she's always in competition. And most importantly, whenever she fucks up, make sure the consequences fit the bill and take away your presence. Lastly, be a man of your word. If your word is done and done is done, you won't need to say much. Just give her a look and she'll comply. The moment she doesn't means that she's up to no good again and it's time for you to check her and / or leave.

Good luck pimpin out there fellas. As they say, "pimpin ain't easy."What you're saying is we are all simps when the truth is, most of us on here are tricks. I don't consider myself a simp at all. Simps pay with money, energy, attention and time and get nothing out of it where as a trick gets those cheeks for cash.

Largely agree with the Chad thing but these guys get played out too once they want to "settle down".

Tricking is the new dating in 2024 unless you're "chad" or "tyrone".

WiseTraveler
02-02-24, 14:08
I do 100 credits at a time. Whenever I get close to running out, I get a "special" offer for a pretty big discount on buying more credits. For me, 100 lasts a while, so unless you are messaging a bunch of sbs, asking to see private pics, answering their questions, then you don't need a lot. FYI, I don't open private pics, answer their questions, anything that costs extra other than the initial message.Exact right approach. Pay only to send that first message. Never pay to see more pics, prioritize your message (what a scam LOL), etc. The video intros are hilarious. They'll have model or Instagram-like pics then look like a troglodyte in the video. Sometimes though you'll see more of their body and get a vibe.

The SB SBs tend to be more open to PPM. Just know the site autogenerates messages from SBs that they're not even aware of with the goal of getting guys to burn credits.

Don't even bother with new profiles with just one magazine / pro looking pic and a site generated name. BeautifulHeiress, etc. Always wait a week and you'll see them suddenly in a different city. Scammers.

WoozerBuck
02-02-24, 23:57
What you're saying is we are all simps when the truth is, most of us on here are tricks. I don't consider myself a simp at all. Simps pay with money, energy, attention and time and get nothing out of it where as a trick gets those cheeks for cash.

Largely agree with the Chad thing but these guys get played out too once they want to "settle down".

Tricking is the new dating in 2024 unless you're "chad" or "tyrone".Guys I have been dating or whatever this may be since 1977 and have zero idea what you are talking about.

Nashorn
02-03-24, 23:41
Horry sheet. Auto generated messages. No wonder I am getting a ton of messages. Didn't think the ladies were that thirsty yet. Especially on a profile with no pics. Not that it is a big deal as most message I get on seeking that the lady sends first is to see private pics or "hey".

LolBoat
02-04-24, 12:14
Guys I have been dating or whatever this may be since 1977 and have zero idea what you are talking about.Please clarify what you need clarification with?

WiseTraveler
02-04-24, 13:24
Horry sheet. Auto generated messages. No wonder I am getting a ton of messages. Didn't think the ladies were that thirsty yet. Especially on a profile with no pics. Not that it is a big deal as most message I get on seeking that the lady sends first is to see private pics or "hey".The only time I've used tokens to open a message was when I already had the SB favorited and was planning to message her anyways. If any SBs message me before I even have a profile up, I block them. Always scammers or rinsers. I've subscribed enough times that there are at least 20-30 I recognize on sight and just block when I create a new profile. They're either too high volume, scammers, pics are misleading, or have GPS.

WiseTraveler
02-04-24, 13:29
Guys I have been dating or whatever this may be since 1977 and have zero idea what you are talking about.Simps (from simpering idiot): Weak guys who are easily controlled / awed by women.

Tricks: Johns, hooker customers.

Chads: Rich, usually white buff guys who attract women though also used for dim, ignorant, entitled white rich kids. Tyrones: AA equivalent.

GPS: Golden pussy syndrome. SBs who ask for ridiculous amounts of $.

Freakin69
02-10-24, 17:54
Chatted with this one this past week.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3ef6d314-50e1-4fa7-845d-d678ab7b7864

She seems EAGER to meet, went to text quickly.

Right away, after connecting on text she went right to prices! Barely a conversation yet.

She immediately says: 300 for BJ, 500 covered full. Oh. But she did say she loves to please.

And she can't host.

I think its a pass for me. She seems pro.

Freakin69
02-10-24, 18:05
So, about a week ago, I reactivated my SA profile, after being out of a 2 1/2 year arrangement for a few months. I was ready to get back into something.

Had to hide my profile visibility within a few days, because the inbox was going crazy. That at least stopped the flow so I could sort through messages.

So far, out of all the messages I have gotten to, and interacted with, I have gone to text with about a dozen of them. Most, if not all, are super eager to meet, and get started. And interestingly, only maybe 2 of them had Minnesota phone numbers. One even had a Puerto Rico number. And in her profile / photos, she is NOT Puerto Rican hahaha!

Most of them are so eager to meet immediately, that they are not happy when I say I am not free at the moment, and I'll look at my schedule.

Not sure what's up. Probably some scammers in there, but haven't got to the scam part yet. Some may just be broke desperate women needing money asap.

At any rate. It's crazy out there. Keep your head on a swivel, and keep those spidey senses sharp!

As soon as I get through this latest batch, I should have a list and some info compiled to share.

Freakin69
02-10-24, 19:27
Still working through all of my messages and chats. But this one. I believe she just blocked me hahaha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5dfd946f-46b9-48e3-86dd-c0d5ea2896aa

We were texting. She was looking for allowance, but I told her I don't do weekly / monthly at the start of an arrangement, and per meet only. She ultimately agreed to 300.

Then was very pushy about meeting right away. It's a new account that was just created today, so a bit fishy, or desperate. And this is the one I mentioned that had the phone number with a Puerto Rico area code.

At any rate, when I wasn't ready to meet immediately, she seemed mad, so I think she blocked me. Oh well, on to the 50+ other messages I have!

SlitsNTits
02-11-24, 20:22
Wow https://members.seeking.com/member/0082eb0e-2375-4d5d-bbdd-304671116a59.

LastsLonger
02-12-24, 16:29
Wow https://members.seeking.com/member/0082eb0e-2375-4d5d-bbdd-304671116a59.She's on CC, overpriced though IMO.

Freakin69
02-12-24, 17:47
Quick update on this piece of work. She reached out again via text, and wanted to meet. By this point, I had already figured things out. I had thought she blocked me on SA. But the strange part was the message history was gone. If you get blocked, or the girl deactivates or deletes her profile, the message history stays. But if her account gets removed due to abuse / fraud, everything is removed including all message history. So. Red flag!

So I played along. Chatted a bit, and she wanted to meet asap. So, sure. Lets meet. I set a time, told her I would book a hotel. A few hours later I told her be ready to go by 3 pm. At 2:45 pm, I texted her the name and address of a hotel and said I would be checking in soon. She immediately comes back with the classic question. "Can you send me money for my sitter before I head that way". Hmmm. RED FLAG #2. I responded that I could give her some extra when we meet. Then she lashed out, and said "If you can't send just a few bucks to the sitter to keep her baby, then you're never ready". BINGO! We have a winner!

Then of course she continued to be hostile, and I can't force her to meet up, etc. Etc. I responded that SHE was the one pushing so hard for a meet, and I only agreed.

Overall. Just another scammer.

I wish I would have screenshotted her profile before it got removed, but I did save the photos.

If you see a new profile pop up with these photos. It's a scammer.


Still working through all of my messages and chats. But this one. I believe she just blocked me hahaha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5dfd946f-46b9-48e3-86dd-c0d5ea2896aa

We were texting. She was looking for allowance, but I told her I don't do weekly / monthly at the start of an arrangement, and per meet only. She ultimately agreed to 300.

Then was very pushy about meeting right away. It's a new account that was just created today, so a bit fishy, or desperate. And this is the one I mentioned that had the phone number with a Puerto Rico area code.

At any rate, when I wasn't ready to meet immediately, she seemed mad, so I think she blocked me. Oh well, on to the 50+ other messages I have!

SlitsNTits
02-13-24, 01:01
She's on CC, overpriced though IMO.That's a lot of filter my guy. She does not look like that in the flesh.

SlitsNTits
02-15-24, 15:23
That's a lot of filter my guy. She does not look like that in the flesh.https://members.seeking.com/member/8cc1bbe6-0be8-49b4-a26a-4ae6bfce2f34

LolBoat
02-20-24, 16:00
Anyone got her most recent #?

SitbacRelax
02-22-24, 01:22
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/nDEo2v9r57LrzK406jWqempk

You all have a wonderful gem in your area. Treat her good fellows. One of my friends from Florida found this GEM and passed on the info to me, since nobody here helped out a fellow monger. Met this gem in the evening at my hotel first time ever hosting. Made it really exciting. As beautiful as Pic if not better in person. We had alot of fun. We started with a nice drink from the bar worked our way to the room then to DFK to getting down to several positions she O'd alot from her mouth. Then when it was my turn she asked why I didn't make a noise haha. We sat down a chit chatted some more. She interested in meeting a few more guys that are true mongers. Respectful and loyal. Take care of this one as I will see her everytime I'm up which will be alot now since my family is not doing well up here anymore. Be safe all and have fun.

SBR.

SitbacRelax
02-22-24, 16:33
Well the lady Natalie that I meet last night had a friend Justine who came over this morning to blow me away on my trip home. Let me tell you boys she blew me good. Sexy woman early 40's beautiful tight and tasty pussy. If any of you all want to meet her let me know she is pricy compared to Nat. But is worth it. Be safe all.

SBR.

BigStud47
02-22-24, 18:11
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/nDEo2v9r57LrzK406jWqempk

You all have a wonderful gem in your area. Treat her good fellows. One of my friends from Florida found this GEM and passed on the info to me, since nobody here helped out a fellow monger. Met this gem in the evening at my hotel first time ever hosting. Made it really exciting. As beautiful as Pic if not better in person. We had alot of fun. We started with a nice drink from the bar worked our way to the room then to DFK to getting down to several positions she O'd alot from her mouth. Then when it was my turn she asked why I didn't make a noise haha. We sat down a chit chatted some more. She interested in meeting a few more guys that are true mongers. Respectful and loyal. Take care of this one as I will see her everytime I'm up which will be alot now since my family is not doing well up here anymore. Be safe all and have fun..Dude I told you I had the time of my life last month when I visited. She is on my repeat list when I return again. And I spoke to her today to get her to visit us in Florida. I can't wait for our Florida friends to see this gem.

Bs.

Happtrav
03-03-24, 19:08
So the Prepaid CC from giftcardmall that I used to buy membership on Seeking, is no longer being accepted by Seeking.

Can anyone recommend any other Prepaid CC that works to buy a membership on Seeking?

Rambo21
03-03-24, 21:01
This site has been discussed before. Some good advice was given. Don't pay to see private pics, don't reply to messages (from bots?) unless you have sent a message first.

About a year ago I purchased credits and the response rate to my messages was very low.

I am thinking of purchasing credits again, but curious to hear from others what your response rate is?

I have been requesting private picture access assuming that a real sugar baby must approve that. What is interesting / concerning is that many of the babies that have given me access to their private pics have not viewed my profile. I am thinking I should message the babies that have viewed my profile, favorited me, and given me access to pics.

Should I buy credits or no?

Ryan33
03-08-24, 17:12
These 3 all asked for $1,000 ppm. I actually saw one of them multiple times a fews year back at half that and we had a great time, but apparently am not grandfathered in at that old rate. Not going to disclose which one as someone would probably message her and say I was talking shit about her on here. That is way too much for me although they all could be fun time if you want to spend the money. Doesn't seem that long ago that $400 or $500 was considered a high asking amount.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fbe8c7bd-86d3-4939-8d1a-cccbe01b8207

https://members.seeking.com/member/65dbea44-9a34-44a0-96b3-5d849b4a09d1

Natalie in Edina, not currently active but activates and deactivates her profile regularly.

https://members.seeking.com/member/097e010c-b6ed-4cd1-8e45-685a6debada5

Rambo21
03-10-24, 21:28
This site has been discussed before. Some good advice was given. Don't pay to see private pics, don't reply to messages (from bots?) unless you have sent a message first.

About a year ago I purchased credits and the response rate to my messages was very low.

I am thinking of purchasing credits again, but curious to hear from others what your response rate is?

I have been requesting private picture access assuming that a real sugar baby must approve that. What is interesting / concerning is that many of the babies that have given me access to their private pics have not viewed my profile. I am thinking I should message the babies that have viewed my profile, favorited me, and given me access to pics.

Should I buy credits or no?Ok so today I spend around $80 to buy credits to send message to 10 ladies. My profile is short and sweet, and my fake pic is very handsome. My profile should have fish jumping into the boat.

But so far not a single bite. Not a single reply. The only thing I didn't do was to message an older overweight lady.

This is consistent with results I had about a year ago.

WTF?

Freakin69
03-10-24, 23:22
There isn't a single pussy on this planet that is worth $1 K. I'll refer to a comment that was posted a couple years ago in this forum, goes something like "There are 4 billion pussies on this planet, and they all feel about the same". Good luck wasting money on those!


These 3 all asked for $1,000 ppm. I actually saw one of them multiple times a fews year back at half that and we had a great time, but apparently am not grandfathered in at that old rate. Not going to disclose which one as someone would probably message her and say I was talking shit about her on here. That is way too much for me although they all could be fun time if you want to spend the money. Doesn't seem that long ago that $400 or $500 was considered a high asking amount.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fbe8c7bd-86d3-4939-8d1a-cccbe01b8207

https://members.seeking.com/member/65dbea44-9a34-44a0-96b3-5d849b4a09d1

Natalie in Edina, not currently active but activates and deactivates her profile regularly.

https://members.seeking.com/member/097e010c-b6ed-4cd1-8e45-685a6debada5

Happtrav
03-13-24, 06:34
So I had a an encounter with an Ex-Stripper. Expects 400-500 an hour.

But she claims to be Utr.

Only in the land of 10,000 games.

Smh.

Traveler87
03-19-24, 12:54
Live up by Duluth and get to the cities often.

Been looking for that toned rocking bodied UTR.

Any one got any leads they are willing to share?

Dr SugarD
03-27-24, 15:19
Just a heads up for you Minneapolis guys. Ang44 moves around selling pics for the "chance" to meet. She talks a good game but that's all it is, TALK. She has been in NC, then Nashville, now Minnesota running her little scam.

https://members.seeking.com/member/85804874-a845-4a7a-9c35-8f58ded84e77

Rambo21
03-29-24, 15:50
Anybody had any luck on that site? Do they take gift credit cards? My credit card is banned because I made a complaint, and they refunded my credits.

MrBreeder2
03-29-24, 18:45
Anybody had any luck on that site? Do they take gift credit cards? My credit card is banned because I made a complaint, and they refunded my credits.Use a different card.

WoozerBuck
03-30-24, 17:15
This site has been discussed before. Some good advice was given. Don't pay to see private pics, don't reply to messages (from bots?) unless you have sent a message first.

About a year ago I purchased credits and the response rate to my messages was very low.

I am thinking of purchasing credits again, but curious to hear from others what your response rate is?

I have been requesting private picture access assuming that a real sugar baby must approve that. What is interesting / concerning is that many of the babies that have given me access to their private pics have not viewed my profile. I am thinking I should message the babies that have viewed my profile, favorited me, and given me access to pics.

Should I buy credits or no?Produces almost nothing and I wonder if they are real. They just don't respond.

Rambo21
03-30-24, 20:57
Produces almost nothing and I wonder if they are real. They just don't respond.Yes, that has been my experience.

WiseTraveler
03-31-24, 09:23
Use a different card.They'll still match the name and card. I didn't even complain. Just asked a question and they banned / returned credits. You could use a crypto wallet / card to bypass.

Secret Benefits 101: Never pay to read a message or see private pics. Chat, get #, get pics then. Only use tokens to reach out to potentials on your fav list. Fewer SBs and generally lower quality but higher chance of easy / reasonable PPM. Used mainly when traveling. Never send deposit. Offer to reimburse for travel, pay for food / drink but deposit = scam or GPS. Always.

WYP is pretty similar and is good if you target 6-7's. Hotties tend to be rinsers or see it as a 'meet and greet fee' which is fair given the site's purpose. Sometimes you actually find lonely ladies who just want to have fun.

Rambo21
04-02-24, 15:45
They'll still match the name and card. I didn't even complain. Just asked a question and they banned / returned credits. You could use a crypto wallet / card to bypass.

Secret Benefits 101: Never pay to read a message or see private pics. Chat, get #, get pics then. Only use tokens to reach out to potentials on your fav list. Fewer SBs and generally lower quality but higher chance of easy / reasonable PPM. Used mainly when traveling. Never send deposit. Offer to reimburse for travel, pay for food / drink but deposit = scam or GPS. Always.

WYP is pretty similar and is good if you target 6-7's. Hotties tend to be rinsers or see it as a 'meet and greet fee' which is fair given the site's purpose. Sometimes you actually find lonely ladies who just want to have fun.Response rate to messages is very low.

Vindar10
04-04-24, 00:09
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/97efb89d-7558-4c5b-9aeb-b3e95f4898dd

Has anyone met her? We have exchanged numbers and been texting, but haven't set up a meet yet.

Pppeeter
04-05-24, 14:02
Anyone else given a free "boost" last night? I woke up to about 80 different interactions (50% from foreign girls) but still. I'm assuming it was a free boost, as I've never had that much action in one 12 hour span. Got a few messages responding to something in my profile that makes them prove they aren't a spam bot. So we will see if things progress.

MrBreeder2
04-12-24, 23:02
https://members.seeking.com/member/a6ff2a6a-432f-456c-ae75-e2f1a632b5f7

Offers bbfscip for $250. Too good to be true?

Pppeeter
04-13-24, 15:53
https://members.seeking.com/member/a6ff2a6a-432f-456c-ae75-e2f1a632b5f7

Offers bbfscip for $250. Too good to be true?Never met up with her, so I can't say for certain. However, those pictures have been associated with atleast 5 different profiles that are up for 2 to 3 months at a time, and then get deleted. So fair warning.

Vcurv2
04-13-24, 21:33
Response rate to messages is very low.Just to clarify, how do you 'chat' without ever paying to read a message?

Vcurv2
04-14-24, 09:34
Sorry, I quoted the incorrect message below. Also, I read the original message with the SB advice more carefully, and I understand now that you meant only use tokens to start a message with others, and not to open the messages you receive.

Alchy505
04-24-24, 06:01
https://members.seeking.com/member/b066dd4c-12ef-624e-63b4-a7e6ab9a5be1

This one wants 500 ppm. Can anyone vouch she is worth that much and what services are like?

Alchy505
04-24-24, 06:09
https://members.seeking.com/member/c94fdb65-a605-07e9-54bb-6c806cd4470d

This one reached out but not my cup of tea.

Alchy505
04-24-24, 06:12
https://members.seeking.com/member/5f54f378-8a04-4973-ab93-42b72969cb5f

This one reached out, says all the right things. Quickly goes to snap / telegram. Told her I don't have either and got her text number.

Asks for 400 ppm.

Can anyone vouch that she is real?

MrBreeder2
04-24-24, 12:14
Never met up with her, so I can't say for certain. However, those pictures have been associated with atleast 5 different profiles that are up for 2 to 3 months at a time, and then get deleted. So fair warning.TOFT and she's a lot bigger than in the profile pics. I didn't even answer the door.

ScotchYoke
04-27-24, 11:33
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/okY13bKlJlGz2dYAneVE27Ma

Anyone seen her? I'm talking to her now. Wants 300 but she hasn't said specifically what that will include. I'm new at this so not sure how to broach the subject of making sure my balls get drained.

ScotchYoke
04-28-24, 00:36
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/okY13bKlJlGz2dYAneVE27Ma

Anyone seen her? I'm talking to her now. Wants 300 but she hasn't said specifically what that will include. I'm new at this so not sure how to broach the subject of making sure my balls get drained.Scammer. Wanted a deposit and her pics belonged to someone on IG.

TomTomav
05-07-24, 14:58
Out of an abundance of curiosity, I signed up for the recent price reduction they were offering me through Seeking. The state of the SB market seems to still be a waste of time and money. I am seeing 4's and 5's out of 10 wanting 5 bills per meet along with obviously fake / AI accounts that reply with seemingly AI generated responses in messages, and when the texting offline begins the picture and video sales start. I try and remind them as politely as possible that porn is FREE on the internet.

C'est le vie.

FunGuySeattle
05-08-24, 16:46
Anyone else on here currently using Secret Benefits? Most people posting about seeking but would love to trade info with anyone else on SB.

LolBoat
05-11-24, 16:19
Out of an abundance of curiosity, I signed up for the recent price reduction they were offering me through Seeking. The state of the SB market seems to still be a waste of time and money. I am seeing 4's and 5's out of 10 wanting 5 bills per meet along with obviously fake / AI accounts that reply with seemingly AI generated responses in messages, and when the texting offline begins the picture and video sales start. I try and remind them as politely as possible that porn is FREE on the internet.

C'est le vie.I get the impression that Minneapolis is a small town and alot of these girls marry younger. I am sure there are strags are out there but its not like in other cities.

Alchy505
05-12-24, 10:06
In town again and met up with Nora River, wanted 400 but told her 300 is the most I'd do on a firat date and willing to do 4 to 5 if the right requested activities are done for me.

She was only ok with bbbjdt, cfs. Very vanilla, ended up giving her 350. Will most likely never repeat.


I get the impression that Minneapolis is a small town and alot of these girls marry younger. I am sure there are strags are out there but its not like in other cities.

PhillipPlein
05-28-24, 16:54
It's been awhile since I've been on SA or have done any sugaring dates. Seems like the scene is all but dead in MN at this point?

ChiILGuy33
05-28-24, 20:34
I am. Met this one the other day. Negotiated for 350 ppm: https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/bbfb28d66c1b2f23.

She hosts downtown at her apartment, and was open to anything I was hoping for.


Anyone else on here currently using Secret Benefits? Most people posting about seeking but would love to trade info with anyone else on SB.

DrSuess
06-02-24, 14:42
I am. Met this one the other day. Negotiated for 350 ppm: https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/bbfb28d66c1b2f23.

She hosts downtown at her apartment, and was open to anything I was hoping for.Over priced now. , she offered bare for 150 couple of months back at her high rise apt.

ChiILGuy33
06-03-24, 13:08
Wow really? I mean, she's gorgeous and still does bare. I thought 350 was a bargain given so many other girls are asking ridiculous prices these days.


Over priced now. , she offered bare for 150 couple of months back at her high rise apt.

Rambo21
06-03-24, 19:12
I met many times with a 27-year-old Asian lady that I met on What Is Your Price. She was on the site for several years and took down her profile in March of this year. She listed her location as Minneapolis, but she lived in Duluth.

She has big eyes brown eyes and looks schoolgirl cute. Very cute face, slightly thick body. I have pictures of her but won't post them here. Her What is Your Price Profile said, " ethnicity or race doesn't matter to me as long as you are willing to share" She listed her location as Minneapolis, but she lived in Duluth.

I think she has gone back to her home in China. I really liked her. We talked on WeChat until she went silent on me about a month ago. I have learned that some things she told me were not true. , but I do think her heart was true.

If any of you guys dated her, I would love to share information. If you have legit info, I might even send you a gift card for your time.

Post here or PM me.

May we all live and learn.

Traveler87
06-05-24, 11:23
Got to clean out your inbox Chill.


Wow really? I mean, she's gorgeous and still does bare. I thought 350 was a bargain given so many other girls are asking ridiculous prices these days.

ChiILGuy33
06-05-24, 17:21
Cleaned out. Received quite a few messages about Flirty.


Got to clean out your inbox Chill.

TheMongR
06-07-24, 11:00
I am. Met this one the other day. Negotiated for 350 ppm: https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/bbfb28d66c1b2f23.

She hosts downtown at her apartment, and was open to anything I was hoping for.Flirty is really good at flirting. Spends hours getting your expectations high. Even setup an appointment for Thursday noon. All of a sudden stops responding. Never answered a call or text.

Asked if I would post here on escort board? Maybe looking for folks to rally for her. Maybe over booking or a scammer.

Report back your experiences folks! Do yourself a favor, Save your time and energy!

TM.

Pppeeter
06-19-24, 21:54
Anyone have any dealings with this one?

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/3c890096-32d0-4f6d-bd42-4b11d4262d17

Interested in making arrangements with her, but she's hard to get a hold of. Feel free to PM me if you want.

TheMongR
06-20-24, 09:50
Anyone have any dealings with this one?

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/3c890096-32d0-4f6d-bd42-4b11d4262d17

Interested in making arrangements with her, but she's hard to get a hold of. Feel free to PM me if you want.The link you posted is broken!

Zipp531
06-21-24, 10:56
Anyone have any dealings with this one?

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/3c890096-32d0-4f6d-bd42-4b11d4262d17

Interested in making arrangements with her, but she's hard to get a hold of. Feel free to PM me if you want.This link goes to your messages, not her profile. Post her profile link or her username and maybe someone can provide some info on her.

Pppeeter
06-21-24, 14:29
https://members.seeking.com/member/5afcb9ca-16e6-4b08-9356-bc897a2e8bc5

Hopefully that works this time.

Nashorn
06-26-24, 21:17
I saw her about 15 months ago. Decent time. BBFS. 2 x for 400. Couldn't host. No bbfscip. Decent time. Not very talkative. In minecraft.

DrSuess
07-06-24, 12:26
She goes by Winter on SA and per her profile she is on the site from 2018. Looks Latina and check pics and please share if you have any intel.

https://members.seeking.com/member/16a3202f-8986-4a5c-b4b4-e07d3372d317

DrSuess
07-06-24, 18:17
She goes by Winter on SA and per her profile she is on the site from 2018. Looks Latina and check pics and please share if you have any intel.

https://members.seeking.com/member/16a3202f-8986-4a5c-b4b4-e07d3372d317I took the bullet. , stay away. Pics are a different girl and the actual girl is a bbw. And all covered no kissing.

DrSuess
07-07-24, 11:27
I took the bullet. , stay away. Pics are a different girl and the actual girl is a bbw. And all covered no kissing.Turned out this one is escort based on her digits search 507-519-.

DrSuess
07-07-24, 11:28
https://members.seeking.com/member/75afef30-d0aa-4b70-904f-fec6a8a81cd5

TheMongR
07-07-24, 13:14
https://members.seeking.com/member/75afef30-d0aa-4b70-904f-fec6a8a81cd5Tall bond! Smart girl that's a little paranoid. Will meet up at the mall first and prefer your place rather than a hotel. She cannot host. She does bbfscip. No repeat for me.

Vindar10
07-07-24, 19:07
https://members.seeking.com/member/75afef30-d0aa-4b70-904f-fec6a8a81cd5Formerly fun in mn. She's been discussed in this forum before (see posts 1113-14,1120, 1131).

DrSuess
07-08-24, 15:05
https://members.seeking.com/member/f5caf32a-adbc-4296-b72b-87b73ea0f7fb

DrSuess
07-08-24, 15:11
Tall bond! Smart girl that's a little paranoid. Will meet up at the mall first and prefer your place rather than a hotel. She cannot host. She does bbfscip. No repeat for me.Thank you and she has shared her snap to reach out not sure if she did same for you guys.

DrSuess
07-08-24, 15:27
https://members.seeking.com/member/3ca6b060-f1b4-4e3c-8197-87d88baa6977

Says she is from shakope area and no further details yet.

TheMongR
07-08-24, 15:32
Thank you and she has shared her snap to reach out not sure if she did same for you guys.Yes, snap only! No digits.

Pppeeter
07-22-24, 20:02
I've been very active on seeking the last few weeks, and I've never seen it this bad before. I probably get 3 or 4 messages from different girls each day I log in to check. When I write back to them, its insane how many of them suddenly change their location from the twin cities area, to somewhere completely out of state. Its crazy. Literally just write "hi" back to them, and suddenly they are now located in Chicago, or Las Vegas, or Orlando. I don't know what they are trying to accomplish, because as soon as I see the location change they immediately get blocked by me. Its getting harder and harder to find actual local women that are interested in getting together, that are attractive, LOL.

Anonyminn
07-22-24, 21:04
Formerly fun in mn. She's been discussed in this forum before (see posts 1113-14,1120, 1131).Agree that she's the former FuninMN. She's definitely had a makeover (for the better) since I saw her; I didn't recognize her from her primary pic. See this meet report for my past impressions: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?31073-MSP-Sugar&p=6377302#post6377302.

BeNewAgain
07-31-24, 16:22
Does anyone have experience with this one? I think her name is Raissa or something. I've chatted with her the last time I was in the cities and she seemed real and DTF for a fun private hotel arrangement. I wasn't able to pull the trigger cause of work obligations, but she's got a great body and exotic look that I like. Anyone have experience with her? Feel free to DM me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fcc018a0-a82d-4993-a7fb-6f3bb07d774c

Ryan33
08-07-24, 12:44
This one is a total scammer and goes by Grace, but claims real name is Lina. This is a new profile she recently created and is not the one I originally message, but everything is the same. It felt like something was little off from the start but decided to take a slight risk. I am only out $50, which isn't any more than I used to pay for drinks and appetizers for first meeting when that was more of the standard protocol. Not really upset about the money, just a lot of wasted time. Her two phone number are:

910-xxx-3106.

612-xxx-1961.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fff34c59-1b5d-4c92-8601-3cf9e665e34b

Booger2020
08-16-24, 16:32
Hello mongers,

I've never upgraded at Seeking before, but it's 30 % off now so I'm thinking about giving it a try. Advice?

Pppeeter
08-17-24, 15:12
Hello mongers,

I've never upgraded at Seeking before, but it's 30 % off now so I'm thinking about giving it a try. Advice?Its worth a try at 30% off, but I'd never pay full for it. Way to many fake profiles and want to be e-girl friends.

Ryan33
08-17-24, 18:36
Hello mongers,

I've never upgraded at Seeking before, but it's 30 % off now so I'm thinking about giving it a try. Advice?For a variety of reasons, it is not nearly what is was 4-5 yrs ago. Much higher percentage of scammers / fakes than ever before and women who expect over $800 to hang out with you for few hours. Fortunately, I have a couple on going arrangements that I still see, but I am addicted to the site and still renew my membership every few months to see what is out there. I really haven't had much luck meeting anyone new in a while, but I don't have the patience or put in the effort I once did.

Certainly worth giving a try if you want to check it out, just be prepared for a lot of BS. Also, save the code as you can use it anytime.

TossAway7
08-19-24, 02:17
Any info on this one?

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/MrmO7PXVJeGXOlD0z6gWB8K1

Alchy505
08-19-24, 07:11
Heather. Hopkins - No vehicle, seems real.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6417b4a6-66a3-44fb-a699-2a35958bdcc8

Sasha. Shokapee - no vehicle. Seems real.

https://members.seeking.com/member/30fb31c3-a243-4abf-acf7-11a55f596b26

Caskitten. No vehicle. Bloomington - seems real, dtf, by the airport.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ea92deb9-c9e9-42d7-b739-a659cf861f72

Amanda. Minneapolis - seems fake.

https://members.seeking.com/member/973bee38-269f-484c-8b73-80706ab6a409

Thank you in Advance.

Can share experience and reliable contacts in Illinois Chicago suburbs area in exchange or just see my post history.

Vindar10
08-19-24, 14:51
Amanda. Minneapolis - seems fake.

https://members.seeking.com/member/973bee38-269f-484c-8b73-80706ab6a409She wrote to me and I agree: fake: None of her photos look like Minnesota. Her entire About Me is, "My approach to challenges is describe your approach. " I mean, come on.

Rambo21
09-03-24, 17:33
Does anyone know of a currently active sugar baby who works at that bank with the stagecoach?

I did a stint there, and want to learn about current culture.

BurgDude
09-11-24, 09:10
Hello mongers,

I've never upgraded at Seeking before, but it's 30 % off now so I'm thinking about giving it a try. Advice?I'm in Dayton Ohio but was in Minneapolis the last two days. I started talking to women in your area on seeking a few weeks ago and you guys are so lucky. So many more women on there than in my area and yes, most of them are fake but over the years I've figured out how to weed out a lot of those. I managed to find 5 or 6 attractive women willing to meet at my hotel for fun and met with two of them. Both were a lot of fun and the second one I saw actually came back the next day for a very reduced amount. I would be broke if I lived in your area.

LastsLonger
09-11-24, 11:23
I'm in Dayton Ohio but was in Minneapolis the last two days. I started talking to women in your area on seeking a few weeks ago and you guys are so lucky. So many more women on there than in my area and yes, most of them are fake but over the years I've figured out how to weed out a lot of those. I managed to find 5 or 6 attractive women willing to meet at my hotel for fun and met with two of them. Both were a lot of fun and the second one I saw actually came back the next day for a very reduced amount. I would be broke if I lived in your area.You know what would be helpful sharing who they were? Just a thought!

BurgDude
09-12-24, 07:40
You know what would be helpful sharing who they were? Just a thought!It would except part of my process on seeking is once I have them off the site I block them and then tell them in text or snap that I cancelled my SA account since I found them and don't need it anymore. Then I ask them if they could send a pic or two since I can't see them on SA anymore. It helps me keep them straight who each of them are. I also always ask them if they want me to review them or share their info and in most cases since I'm looking for real women with real lives not pros the answer is almost always no as it was for these two. Sorry I could not be more help but if you do the work on SA you will be rewarded.

Happtrav
09-23-24, 10:16
With the economy the way it is, is Seeking worth it anymore?

If you are ok with paying 4 $+ for 40+ year olds. Then you probably will say, Yes.

But, I am having lots of fun with 18-21 yr olds I am meeting close to college campus's.

No need for the games on Seeking.

Rambo21
09-27-24, 09:42
With the economy the way it is, is Seeking worth it anymore?

If you are ok with paying 4 $+ for 40+ year olds. Then you probably will say, Yes.

But, I am having lots of fun with 18-21 yr olds I am meeting close to college campus's.

No need for the games on Seeking.How are you finding and approaching them?

Tang07
09-28-24, 18:17
Alluringbabe.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d372f21c-f4b0-4430-b4d4-9387442d23e2

Wanted to meet. Scheduled it and right before the time she was supposed to come, she says "can you send me $50? I need it for gas and to buy vape. " I told her I wasn't born yesterday and blocked her.

Berol Loz
09-28-24, 19:00
With the economy the way it is, is Seeking worth it anymore?

If you are ok with paying 4 $+ for 40+ year olds. Then you probably will say, Yes.

But, I am having lots of fun with 18-21 yr olds I am meeting close to college campus's.

No need for the games on Seeking.I'd also would love to hear some details how you're pulling this off? Are you just chatting up random girls or using another site like Tinder or something?

For those without your game, I'd still say that sugar sites are a good investment from time to time. Just join and get a few names and contact info, then cancel. Repeat when necessary :)

Berol Loz
09-28-24, 19:32
The end of the month is usually a good time to look as rent / bills are coming due. I usually look for girls with something in their profile that sounds like they are willing to meet and have a few photos, ideally full body. I tend to look for 20-28 age range as that seems to be the sweet spot.

Poisonivy446,22, Savage.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=71242395&nsp=1

"I'm looking for a sugar daddy to spoil me. I'm up for meeting in person when we both have time too. ".

Fruitypebble, 21, Minneapolis.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72770631&nsp=1

"have been told by many I'm good with my mouth If you like blunt and straightforward. You'll like me. ".

Amberrrose, 19, F, Albertville.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73201219&nsp=1

"Looking to be spoiled, and for something quick and easy. ".

Xoquinn, 20, Albany.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72489581&nsp=1

"Down for fun what I'm looking for in a match is honesty, consistency, companionship".

I find on SDM they are pretty open to talking PPM as well, though don't bring it up first, let them use whatever language they prefer. If they think you're used to hookers you'll probably end up overpaying.

Tang07
09-28-24, 20:43
Alluringbaby.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d372f21c-f4b0-4430-b4d4-9387442d23e2

Upon agreeing at a scheduled meet, right when they were leaving they did the old I need some gas money trick. I told her no and then she never responded. Be safe fellas.

Happtrav
09-29-24, 10:01
Go hangout at a College Bar.

Buy them drinks and you will get their phone numbers.

Girls will walk up to you and ask you what an older guy is doing at a college bar. Have some game. Have fun.


I'd also would love to hear some details how you're pulling this off? Are you just chatting up random girls or using another site like Tinder or something?

For those without your game, I'd still say that sugar sites are a good investment from time to time. Just join and get a few names and contact info, then cancel. Repeat when necessary :)

Rambo21
09-29-24, 13:12
Go hangout at a College Bar.

Buy them drinks and you will get their phone numbers.

Girls will walk up to you and ask you what an older guy is doing at a college bar. Have some game. Have fun.This sounds way more efficient than seeking. Only issue is that you give up your privacy. Lots of stares as you talk with and flirt with the younger ladies, right?

Berol Loz
10-02-24, 17:12
Go hangout at a College Bar.

Buy them drinks and you will get their phone numbers.

Girls will walk up to you and ask you what an older guy is doing at a college bar. Have some game. Have fun.Thanks for that, I guess it's really up to how much game you have.

MrBreeder2
10-04-24, 11:48
Go hangout at a College Bar.

Buy them drinks and you will get their phone numbers.

Girls will walk up to you and ask you what an older guy is doing at a college bar. Have some game. Have fun.+1.

I agree 100% There's no substitute for social skills. Money only goes so far.

HappynLucky
10-04-24, 11:56
Being sick of the game is what drove me here, boy howdy was I shocked to learn it's just another game that's actually more of a pain the ass at times.


+1.

I agree 100% There's no substitute for social skills. Money only goes so far.

WiscoMN
10-09-24, 02:05
Got robbed yesterday.

Messaged a woman off Seeking, our communication moved to text, and we spoke briefly on the phone. She invited me over to her apartment. Once there, she came down to let me in the secured entrance. In her room room we carried on some small talk, she seemed nice and genuine. I put the donation on a table, we talked some more, she put the donation away in a purse, explaining that a guy ran off with the money from her prior meets. She said I could turn on the TV and that she was going to go to the bathroom. After about a minute of waiting, I thought what sounded like a door opening and I looked to the side and there was a man slowly walking toward me with one hand in a fanny pack. She either stayed in the bathroom or, more likely, went outside the room. I was scarred and assumed he had a gun. I really have no idea if he had one or not, but wasn't about to take chances. He was as calm as could be as he walked with 15 feet or so. I explained to him that I wasn't going to do anything, had my hands up, and that I was just going to leave, which I did. I had never been in a situation quite like that.

It's quite brazen for them to to something like this at their place. Even if he didn't walk over with one hand in the fanny pack, I probably wouldn't have done anything, unless I was attacked. I would have just got the heck out of there. It's just not worth it, especially for just $$. 2, and I have too much to lose. Sooner or later though, these clowns will probably fuck with someone who doesn't have anything to lose, and will suffer consequences. They are too stupid to do a risk reward analysis.

I've skipped the meet and greet on Seeking meets 3 times in the past with no problems. I rolled the dice here and learned my lesson. I will never skip a meet and greet again. I didn't vet properly. She blocked me on Seeking so I don't know her username. It's now clear to me that the picture she used was just of a very similar looking woman.

PenilePerson15
10-09-24, 10:53
That's too bad, fortunately you ended up safe but certainly a jarring encounter.

Are you able to share details on location, building type, etc. So others are aware? Do you get the sense this was actually where the person lived, or just using another criminal's space to conduct the robbery?


Got robbed yesterday.

Messaged a woman off Seeking, our communication moved to text, and we spoke briefly on the phone. She invited me over to her apartment. Once there, she came down to let me in the secured entrance. In her room room we carried on some small talk, she seemed nice and genuine. I put the donation on a table, we talked some more, she put the donation away in a purse, explaining that a guy ran off with the money from her prior meets. She said I could turn on the TV and that she was going to go to the bathroom. After about a minute of waiting, I thought what sounded like a door opening and I looked to the side and there was a man slowly walking toward me with one hand in a fanny pack. She either stayed in the bathroom or, more likely, went outside the room. I was scarred and assumed he had a gun. I really have no idea if he had one or not, but wasn't about to take chances. He was as calm as could be as he walked with 15 feet or so. I explained to him that I wasn't going to do anything, had my hands up, and that I was just going to leave, which I did. I had never been in a situation quite like that.

It's quite brazen for them to to something like this at their place. Even if he didn't walk over with one hand in the fanny pack, I probably wouldn't have done anything, unless I was attacked. I would have just got the heck out of there. It's just not worth it, especially for just $$. 2, and I have too much to lose. Sooner or later though, these clowns will probably fuck with someone who doesn't have anything to lose, and will suffer consequences. They are too stupid to do a risk reward analysis.

I've skipped the meet and greet on Seeking meets 3 times in the past with no problems. I rolled the dice here and learned my lesson. I will never skip a meet and greet again. I didn't vet properly. She blocked me on Seeking so I don't know her username. It's now clear to me that the picture she used was just of a very similar looking woman.

WiscoMN
10-09-24, 11:59
It's a apartment complex off Nathan Ln in Plymouth. She said she lived there, but could have been lying. Phone # ended in 6166.


That's too bad, fortunately you ended up safe but certainly a jarring encounter.

Are you able to share details on location, building type, etc. So others are aware? Do you get the sense this was actually where the person lived, or just using another criminal's space to conduct the robbery?

FunGuySeattle
10-09-24, 13:31
Anyone else here using Secret Benefits instead of seeking? Want to trade some successes?

Berol Loz
10-10-24, 22:18
That's messed up, glad you are ok. I've never had that happen to me, but I've had girls disappear with the money.


Got robbed yesterday.

Messaged a woman off Seeking, our communication moved to text, and we spoke briefly on the phone. She invited me over to her apartment. Once there, she came down to let me in the secured entrance. In her room room we carried on some small talk, she seemed nice and genuine. I put the donation on a table, we talked some more, she put the donation away in a purse, explaining that a guy ran off with the money from her prior meets. She said I could turn on the TV and that she was going to go to the bathroom. After about a minute of waiting, I thought what sounded like a door opening and I looked to the side and there was a man slowly walking toward me with one hand in a fanny pack. She either stayed in the bathroom or, more likely, went outside the room. I was scarred and assumed he had a gun. I really have no idea if he had one or not, but wasn't about to take chances. He was as calm as could be as he walked with 15 feet or so. I explained to him that I wasn't going to do anything, had my hands up, and that I was just going to leave, which I did. I had never been in a situation quite like that..

Tang07
10-16-24, 21:10
It's a apartment complex off Nathan Ln in Plymouth. She said she lived there, but could have been lying. Phone # ended in 6166.I'm talking to her right now. She wants me to meet her in her apt. Thanks for the heads up. Her profile is no longer in SA.

Nashorn
10-22-24, 23:49
I'm talking to her right now. She wants me to meet her in her apt. Thanks for the heads up. Her profile is no longer in SA.Just started talking to her today on SDM. Tessa. Want to move fast to meet. Only wants 3-4 which is low for age and attractiveness compared to others. Thanks for the number. Still located in Plymouth. But her profile just went missing as we are discussing meeting.

Tang07
10-23-24, 12:58
Just started talking to her today on SDM. Tessa. Want to move fast to meet. Only wants 3-4 which is low for age and attractiveness compared to others. Thanks for the number. Still located in Plymouth. But her profile just went missing as we are discussing meeting.I've attached some of the pics she uses. Be safe everyone.

WiscoMN
10-26-24, 18:10
Anyone seen danilover85? She's I'd verified at 18 on SA, but her page says she joined back in 2022.

https://members.seeking.com/member/72b45d40-ee5a-48b2-a209-4ddde2f60b25??locale=en_USS

Pppeeter
10-27-24, 19:40
Anyone seen danilover85? She's I'd verified at 18 on SA, but her page says she joined back in 2022.

https://members.seeking.com/member/72b45d40-ee5a-48b2-a209-4ddde2f60b25??locale=en_USSNever met her, but had talked to her last spring. And I stopped talking to her because her location was constantly changing. Sure sign of a rip off artist if you ask me. Oh, and when we talked she said she had just turned 19 (which still didn't make sense at the time).

ToledoRocket52
10-27-24, 20:15
Anyone seen danilover85? She's I'd verified at 18 on SA, but her page says she joined back in 2022.

https://members.seeking.com/member/72b45d40-ee5a-48b2-a209-4ddde2f60b25??locale=en_USSWants money before meet.

WiscoMN
10-28-24, 17:36
I thought I'd share some things I do to vet SB's, along with some lessons I learned. Hopefully it will be helpful.

Never send any money upfront and use a burner phone (but we all know this, right). I've been hit up at the last minute for money for Uber rides, childcare, etc. These are scams. Never verify via video chat. They can screen capture images and threaten to "blow up your life. " A genuine sugar relationship is legal, but there's a stigma.

Tools I sometimes use: Facecheck ID, Pimeyes, Google including reverse image search, Whitepages dot you know the rest, Spydialer, social media.

Free online Civil / criminal record lookup.

Using AI to get info based on their pics can reveal a ton of info. Recently I used AI to search for one of their photos and up popped her orange-suited mugshots. Snipping the photo the mugshot and using google image search led to a local newspaper write-up about how she got busted for narcotics. I'll add that through AI searching I have came across LinkedIn profile pics which I screen snipped to do a google image search for, finding her LinkedIn. I've also busted fakes that use Instagram porn sites. I actually had a good meet with someone who, as I learned prior to meet, was a webcam woman but she was well-reviewed.

If they don't use a voip phone you can sometimes find a lot about a person including their name. I've encountered scenarios where they're tied to businesses and that can give you something to go off of, and whitepages website can reveal age range and other info. Eventually if you get their name it's often possible to run it through court databases.

Before meeting for a meet and greet, I will ask what their standard ppm rate is to see if it works. If they say too high number I won't waste our time. I confirm their age to make sure they are adults. If they text message explicitly it's bye because that's bad news.

One thing I've started to do is, I will ask for them to send a selfie with them holding up a book / pencil / pen and 4 fingers or whatever. This will typically scare scammers away. Although in one instance a scammer but have used really good AI because the photo did the custom pic, although the AI wasn't good enough and I could still spot it. Personally, I will send a mirror selfie with my phone obscuring ½ my face. This helps prevent extortion and AI isn't good enough to search off of it yet. Also if you get a custom from her it reduces the chances of a scammer just not showing up. On 2 occasions I showed up expecting to meet for coffee but was ghosted. Scammer was pissed I said I would only pay in person and just wanted to waste my time, apparently.

After having about 5 successful 1st time meetings at their place / hotel, I will never do this again since I got robbed on one occasion. I will never, ever skip the meet and greet unless there's a lot of feedback on a person from trusted reviewers. The meet and greet for me is at a public venue like a coffee shop. This is basically a vibe check that a lot of scammers won't do, but some do anyways. There's controversy on this point, but I don't mind spoiling $40-60 (tops) on a meet and greet. It shows her I'm a serious SD, and I consider the payment token.

Subsequent dates occur at a hotel of my choosing. I don't mind dropping $80 for peace of mind knowing that I control the environment, and not having to worrying about a dude popping in. Cheap insurance in my book. If I eventually wanted to meet at here place, assuming I knew a lot about her and had many hotel dates, I may consider it, but there's even reports of SB's deciding to become thieves after many hotel dates so you really can't fully trust them ever.

Avoid drug users. You just never know he might OD is your presence or be completely unpredictable. I also wouldn't want to try and explain to LE about how drugs wound up in the hotel room if things got out of control, she OD'ed ect.

In my early days, I wasted money on rinsers who wanted me to spoil large sums for just dinner / coffee meets. Never again. 1-2 dates like that at most for me.

For hotel meets I am very careful about when I hand over the money. That's when the power dynamic changes. She must be in the room, and I try to pay after saying I've been cash and dashed and then when she invariably says no I say half upfront. Usually that won't work and I pay the full donation, which I am okay with because that is standard, but doesn't hurt to ask IMO.

Back when I first started I fell for the let me pay for the hotel room out of your donation scam. Via text, she said she said she had a friend who worked at the front desk, and that she could get a discount off the room and let the room charge be applied against the total donation. I picked her up in my car, skipping the meet and greet, and she directed me to a hotel. She said to wait in my car and then she would take care of the room at text me the number. After 5 minutes, she texted me the number to a top floor room. Sure enough, when I went to the room she wasn't there and she blocked my number. You live and you learn.

I've started to experiment with turning the video camera of my phone on and then turning it off after 2 seconds or so of talking upon meeting, claiming that I am wrapping up an important text message. That way if things go south, I at least have the image of what she really looks like. Being in a genuine sugar relationship is not illegal, or else most couples would be criminals, LOL, as women demand their partner to have more money and spend significantly on them.

Nothing of course is perfectly safe. If a woman were to give me trouble in a hotel I'd exit the room to get into the video recorded hallways right away, letting her do the cash and dash. Sometimes you just meet a bad person and there's nothing you can do outside of physically not letting her leave, which I would never do. If it came to needing a defense attorney, well, they can easily cost $500 not to mention the associated issues.

If there is a LE issue stay silent even though they will pester. Again being in a true sugar relationship isn't illegal but who knows how things can get spun. Also might be a good idea to have a burner phone that is not activated and but can just be used for photo video. No need to have the real burner phone stolen if it comes to that. If she acts weird in the hotel start recording her while leaving toward the door.

Hopefully this info is helpful. Be careful out their folks, you just never know. Can't really trust anyone.

Rambo21
10-29-24, 10:44
I thought I'd share some things I do to vet SB's, along with some lessons I learned. Hopefully it will be helpful.

Never send any money upfront and use a burner phone (but we all know this, right). I've been hit up at the last minute for money for Uber rides, childcare, etc. These are scams. Never verify via video chat. They can screen capture images and threaten to "blow up your life. " A genuine sugar relationship is legal, but there's a stigma.

Tools I sometimes use: Facecheck ID, Pimeyes, Google including reverse image search, Whitepages dot you know the rest, Spydialer, social media.

Free online Civil / criminal record lookup.

Using AI to get info based on their pics can reveal a ton of info. Recently I used AI to search for one of their photos and up popped her orange-suited mugshots. Snipping the photo the mugshot and using google image search led to a local newspaper write-up about how she got busted for narcotics. I'll add that through AI searching I have came across LinkedIn profile pics which I screen snipped to do a google image search for, finding her LinkedIn. I've also busted fakes that use Instagram porn sites. I actually had a good meet with someone who, as I learned prior to meet, was a webcam woman but she was well-reviewed.

If they don't use a voip phone you can sometimes find a lot about a person including their name. I've encountered scenarios where they're tied to businesses and that can give you something to go off of, and whitepages website can reveal age range and other info. Eventually if you get their name it's often possible to run it through court databases.

Before meeting for a meet and greet, I will ask what their standard ppm rate is to see if it works. If they say too high number I won't waste our time. I confirm their age to make sure they are adults. If they text message explicitly it's bye because that's bad news.I used Been Verified. Unlimited searches for about $25 a month. You get lots of information. Does a reverse phone search. Has kept me from a bad meet many many times.

Berol Loz
10-30-24, 16:26
I thought I'd share some things I do to vet SB's, along with some lessons I learned. Hopefully it will be helpful.

Never send any money upfront and use a burner phone (but we all know this, right). I've been hit up at the last minute for money for Uber rides, childcare, etc. These are scams. Never verify via video chat. They can screen capture images and threaten to "blow up your life. " A genuine sugar relationship is legal, but there's a stigma.
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Hopefully this info is helpful. Be careful out their folks, you just never know. Can't really trust anyone.Thaks for this, very useful.

Tang07
11-07-24, 20:14
Chocolatedream.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d988840d-1903-4396-902a-14f2720b2319

This one had an elaborate scheme. I fell for it.

Met her at a restaurant. Told this story about how she was abused. How I was her first meet on seeking. Everything was going well until we agreed to meet up at her place. She asked for money before we head out to her place. I assumed it was legit. I should have known better. I gave her the $$.

I went to her apt and she arrived before I did. I was at the intercom and asked her to let me in. She asked for more $$$ because she was "nervous" before she let me in. Shame on me! I left the scene.

Be careful boys! They getting creative!

Nashorn
11-09-24, 21:40
The Bad:

LovelyPink on SDM. Located in Rochester. Very attractive blond, slim, 5 ft 9 inches. Cash and dash. Gave her money for the room. Dumb I know, but for how attractive she is, was worth a shot. Obviously did not work out. Blocked me on SDM. Number 507-XXX-0306.

The Good:

Got in contact with girl from ChilLguy post about an "UTR" in the escort section, where he posted 2 pictures with her number. She is real and decent service, 450 for an hour, bbfscip x2. She said she is on seeking. Can't find her profile for he life of me.

In minecraft of course.

WiscoMN
11-10-24, 09:41
I'm not on SDM, but that same woman did the same thing to me when I met her on Seeking a while back (this was when I was newer to sugar and learned money should only be given once both are in the room and after a meet and greet to vet). I recognize the number you listed and her description.

I picked her up in the evening outside of a residence. She wreaked of weed. Very attractive gal though. Earlier via text she told me she had a friend who worked at the front desk and she could get us a discount on the room and she would use the cost of the room towards the meet fee we agreed on earlier. Once we parked at the La Quinta, she told me she would get the room and text me the room number. I got the text for a room on the top floor, went up, and sure enough she wasn't there. You live and you learn. The pic she used, I now realize, was of a look-a-like.

I propose we set up fake meetings with her using different numbers to waste her time. She may not verify them with a screenname.


The Bad:

LovelyPink on SDM. Located in Rochester. Very attractive blond, slim, 5 ft 9 inches. Cash and dash. Gave her money for the room. Dumb I know, but for how attractive she is, was worth a shot. Obviously did not work out. Blocked me on SDM. Number 507-XXX-0306.

The Good:

Got in contact with girl from ChilLguy post about an "UTR" in the escort section, where he posted 2 pictures with her number. She is real and decent service, 450 for an hour, bbfscip x2. She said she is on seeking. Can't find her profile for he life of me.

In minecraft of course.

Nashorn
11-10-24, 12:40
I'm not on SDM, but that same woman did the same thing to me when I met her on Seeking a while back (this was when I was newer to sugar and learned money should only be given once both are in the room and after a meet and greet to vet). I recognize the number you listed and her description.

I picked her up in the evening outside of a residence. She wreaked of weed. Very attractive gal though. Earlier via text she told me she had a friend who worked at the front desk and she could get us a discount on the room and she would use the cost of the room towards the meet fee we agreed on earlier. Once we parked at the La Quinta, she told me she would get the room and text me the room number. I got the text for a room on the top floor, went up, and sure enough she wasn't there. You live and you learn. The pic she used, I now realize, was of a look-a-like.

I propose we set up fake meetings with her using different numbers to waste her time. She may not verify them with a screenname.I was half tempted to just ask before I left to meet, to just let me know if she was a scammer and I would just send her 100. Would have been worth it for not wasting my time. The pictures on her profile are of her.

Two ways one could scam the scammer is try to do stuff in the car with her before going to the hotel. Second would be to give her prop money when she goes in to get the hotel room. If things work out, you can always give her real money in minecraft.

WiscoMN
11-13-24, 12:50
LovelyPink, scammer, operates out of southern MN: Mankato and Rochester area.


The Bad:

LovelyPink on SDM. Located in Rochester. Very attractive blond, slim, 5 ft 9 inches. Cash and dash. Gave her money for the room. Dumb I know, but for how attractive she is, was worth a shot. Obviously did not work out. Blocked me on SDM. Number 507-XXX-0306.

The Good:

Got in contact with girl from ChilLguy post about an "UTR" in the escort section, where he posted 2 pictures with her number. She is real and decent service, 450 for an hour, bbfscip x2. She said she is on seeking. Can't find her profile for he life of me..

Booger2020
11-14-24, 00:04
Hey fellas.

I've been on WYP for a year and have met with two girls, neither turned out be keepers, and most of my coins have now been burned on bots and OF gals that want me to buy online porn. I won't be reupping there any time soon. I signed up for SDM and immediately got contacted by our scammer, LovelyPink. I think I'll string her along a bit and if any of you guys have an idea for a long-con we can use to give her back a bit of frustration I'd be interested.

My question today: is Secret Benefits fairly legit? If a gal has "verified" status does that means she's more likely to be legit and not a bot or scammer? If not SB, which sites are worth the investment?

Also, thanks Wisco for the sage advice. I intend to use your ideas.

Rambo21
11-14-24, 10:30
Hey fellas.

I've been on WYP for a year and have met with two girls, neither turned out be keepers, and most of my coins have now been burned on bots and OF gals that want me to buy online porn. I won't be reupping there any time soon. I signed up for SDM and immediately got contacted by our scammer, LovelyPink. I think I'll string her along a bit and if any of you guys have an idea for a long-con we can use to give her back a bit of frustration I'd be interested.

My question today: is Secret Benefits fairly legit? If a gal has "verified" status does that means she's more likely to be legit and not a bot or scammer? If not SB, which sites are worth the investment?

Also, thanks Wisco for the sage advice. I intend to use your ideas.Secret Benefits is not legit. It has many fake profiles, very few legit responses, and is a waste of time and money. Seeking is the biggest site. I have experienced a higher response rate on SDM.

WiscoMN
11-14-24, 11:17
I've only used Seeking, so I'm not that knowledgeable about the other sites. I'm taking a break for a while from sugar sites but I think next time around I may try SB. I think with Seeking it only makes sense to sign up for 1 month at a time, for maybe twice a year. The rooster of legit women don't come and go all that often from the site. Discount codes can be found online. I don't believe they expire. Or if you sign up, but do not actually pay, within a couple weeks or so they will send an offer for 20% off since they don't think they'll hook you with the higher price. The site was worth it for me but it is very very time consuming, lots of scammers to sift through, flakes, and those with unrealistic financial expectations. In addition to sugar babies on the site, there are straight up escorts. I've had quite a bit of success on there (3 months spread out over the course of a year). I think I had about 9 meet ups that eventually led to intimacy. For me the site is addictive. Good response rate from women compared to normal dating apps. Before my account expired, and I'd lose the ability to message, I sent a canned email out to many women giving them my burner number so they could reach me that way.


Hey fellas.

I've been on WYP for a year and have met with two girls, neither turned out be keepers, and most of my coins have now been burned on bots and OF gals that want me to buy online porn. I won't be reupping there any time soon. I signed up for SDM and immediately got contacted by our scammer, LovelyPink. I think I'll string her along a bit and if any of you guys have an idea for a long-con we can use to give her back a bit of frustration I'd be interested.

My question today: is Secret Benefits fairly legit? If a gal has "verified" status does that means she's more likely to be legit and not a bot or scammer? If not SB, which sites are worth the investment?

Also, thanks Wisco for the sage advice. I intend to use your ideas.

WiseTraveler
11-14-24, 14:49
Hey fe

I've been on WYP for a year and have met with two girls, neither turned out be keepers, and most of my coins have now been burned on bots and OF gals that want me to buy online porn. I won't be reupping there any time soon. I signed up for SDM and immediately got contacted by our scammer, LovelyPink. I think I'll string her along a bit and if any of you guys have an idea for a long-con we can use to give her back a bit of frustration I'd be interested.

My question today: is Secret Benefits fairly legit? If a gal has "verified" status does that means she's more likely to be legit and not a bot or scammer? If not SB, which sites are worth the investment?

Also, thanks Wisco for the sage advice. I intend to use your ideas.Secret Benefits: Tons of bots / scammers and the site will spam messages from SB accounts to try to get SDs to burn credits. Never pay to see unsolicited messages unless you would have reached out to them first. Never pay to see hidden pics. Just message and if you are interested, move comms to text and get them for free. Never pay to highlight / promote your message. Total fool's gold.

Only pay to send messages to those you are interested in. That's it. I also work in 'not interested in virtual, OF, or flying people in' and 'I will bend over backwards if we meet to go close to you in a safe, public place, and will cover costs within reason once we actually meet. I will NEVER send $ in advance for gas, security, to show I'm serious, etc. If that is your requirement, let's not waste each other's time.'

I find SB best for PMP and when traveling. Lower avg hotness but more open minded. Smaller pool than Seeking though. WYP is okay. I've had some luck but I target a specific type and price point. They've since required a face pic which undermines 'seeking discretion / discreet affairs' - completely ridiculous so closed that shit down.