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DarkClouds
10-12-22, 22:11
You're asking folks to share their secret sauce with you? Would you like fries with that? .


When you locate these women, do you have a standard message that you send them? Is it the same message to each or are you taking the time to create unique messages to each one?

Steve 99
10-13-22, 08:14
Talked to this one while back:

https://members.seeking.com/member/7d46161c-c9c3-4aad-97a5-87e7f7ddeb03

Hot body. Some whale gave her 500 a meet in the past. She refused 300. I see her online now all the time. Just an example of these girls trying to find the whales. There arent that many so the girls have to work at it to find them.

Hot body. Those yiddies are nice. If anyone scored let us know.

Joenct
10-13-22, 08:34
Talked to this one while back:

https://members.seeking.com/member/7d46161c-c9c3-4aad-97a5-87e7f7ddeb03

Hot body. Some whale gave her 500 a meet in the past. She refused 300. I see her online now all the time. Just an example of these girls trying to find the whales. There arent that many so the girls have to work at it to find them.

Hot body. Those yiddies are nice. If anyone scored let us know.Do you have to post a pic to use the site?

Big Mac Daddy
10-13-22, 08:50
Do you have to post a pic to use the site?I never did. I had a few stored and their system allowed me to reveal to the girl, then hide it again.

BMD.

TopGun9
10-13-22, 15:13
I was bored so I recently rejoined SA, .PM you, check your inbox.

FireBalls420
10-13-22, 20:13
https://members.seeking.com/member/2fe38a60-fd38-42ad-9bf5-6c88f9a32587

Posts on.

https://megapersonals.eu/public/post_detail/35763349

She looks hot but seems to b an escort.

Gridge
10-13-22, 21:27
I never did. I had a few stored and their system allowed me to reveal to the girl, then hide it again.

BMD.How are you able to talk to them without a picture being there? I was under the impression if I didn't pay the subscription price then a picture would need to be used in order to send messages to the ladies.

Big Mac Daddy
10-13-22, 21:33
How are you able to talk to them without a picture being there? I was under the impression if I didn't pay the subscription price then a picture would need to be used in order to send messages to the ladies.Unless their system has changed, you're not required to post your picture when you join. If you do, you can set it to private then only reveal it briefly to a girl checking your profile. You would be doing this in real time as you message each other on the SA chat system.

BMD.

MaxieMac
10-15-22, 14:43
https://members.seeking.com/member/b4155c99-ab17-4b35-b8eb-461915bb9ea1

She's asking for 1 k per hour.

Steve 99
10-17-22, 10:48
https://members.seeking.com/member/b4155c99-ab17-4b35-b8eb-461915bb9ea1

She's asking for 1 k per hour.Delusional. Ugly and old. LOL.

TopGun9
10-17-22, 13:27
Talked to this one while back:

https://members.seeking.com/member/7d46161c-c9c3-4aad-97a5-87e7f7ddeb03

Hot body. Some whale gave her 500 a meet in the past. She refused 300. I see her online now all the time. Just an example of these girls trying to find the whales. There arent that many so the girls have to work at it to find them.

Hot body. Those yiddies are nice. If anyone scored let us know.Profile deleted?

You got pics of her?

Steve 99
10-17-22, 13:51
Profile deleted?

You got pics of her?She blocked you. Coming up for me.

TopGun9
10-17-22, 19:18
She blocked you. Coming up for me.Impossible! I just created a brand new account today to browse.

Edit: NVM, she's showing up now. I did messaged her from a prior paid account, she's def GPS. Waste of time, I don't she bee any good in the FC even if you're willing to paid the premium $$$ for her.

Gridge
10-17-22, 21:38
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/blzjDGqrJ4P4EWXJ3Vdgkx7X

This one here is looking for half of the money upfront before meeting. Hard pass for me. Sent a picture of stacks of benjamins saying she isn't hard up for money, just that guys don't pay when they meet her. Seems like a scam to me.

ILoveThatPoo
10-18-22, 07:10
Profile deleted?

You got pics of her?And I had to negotiate her down to 300. She's a bartender and can get laid anytime she wants. She's good looking nice personality but a little bit too tall for my taste. She's clean she's sexy and she's worth the 300, I guess, considering what's out there an available presently. Poo.

Big Mac Daddy
10-18-22, 08:00
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/blzjDGqrJ4P4EWXJ3Vdgkx7X[/URL]

This one here is looking for half of the money upfront before meeting. Hard pass for me. Sent a picture of stacks of benjamins saying she isn't hard up for money, just that guys don't pay when they meet her. Seems like a scam to me.While she does appear to be normal, stay correct in Not sending any amount in advance. It's a bottom dweller tactic to get anything for free, whether $300 or $3.

BMD.

JackTaggart
10-19-22, 23:43
So I've been getting into seeking both inside the US and outside the US and having a ton of fun. Will start to post results.

This one wanted $ to meet to video before chatting. When I clarified that I only will help in person, she stopped responding. Not a big surprise.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c3b2f154-7e11-4bb3-a377-ebb585bceffb

TopGun9
10-20-22, 11:49
This is a time waster.

Texted back and forth over several days discussing PPM and expectations, etc. Finally come back with a "I only sell contents these days". *****, why don't you just said so in the first place.

Maybe if you're willing to offer her 500 ppm, she might be DTF.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8fef45f5-21b0-4db9-993b-1966f0a436a4

OldPup
10-20-22, 13:06
So I've been getting into seeking both inside the US and outside the US and having a ton of fun. Will start to post results.

This one wanted $ to meet to video before chatting. When I clarified that I only will help in person, she stopped responding. Not a big surprise.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c3b2f154-7e11-4bb3-a377-ebb585bceffbI agree that SA is a lot of fun. Unfortunately there is also a ton of this bs but it's not that hard to weed through them.

OppLife28
10-20-22, 17:47
Has anyone been in contract with a blond girl that moves you to snap chat and then finds out who you are and who your wife is on facebook and threatens to send the conversation and SA account and her family and friends? I just dealt with this all afternoon and ended up sending the ransom with my cc via moneygram which I hope I can fight. Would these people really send it? It looks so legit like literally about to message my wife in a screen shot on snap. I am so dumb, never again will I fall for what seemed real (as in meeting up). Happy to chat with anyone about this. I can give you my text free number.

TwinSnow99
10-20-22, 18:36
Has anyone been in contract with a blond girl that moves you to snap chat and then finds out who you are and who your wife is on facebook and threatens to send the conversation and SA account and her family and friends? I just dealt with this all afternoon and ended up sending the ransom with my cc via moneygram which I hope I can fight. Would these people really send it? It looks so legit like literally about to message my wife in a screen shot on snap. I am so dumb, never again will I fall for what seemed real (as in meeting up). Happy to chat with anyone about this. I can give you my text free number.I know you were probably scared, but you should have never sent any money to them. They will threaten you again in a few days unless you send more money.

People get spammed bullshit all day on social media. Random friend requests / messages that don't even make sense half the time. Scams are super common and if you deny everything then nobody will bat an eye.

Do a chargeback on your card and tell them to pound sand.

Steve 99
10-20-22, 19:02
Has anyone been in contract with a blond girl that moves you to snap chat and then finds out who you are and who your wife is on facebook and threatens to send the conversation and SA account and her family and friends? I just dealt with this all afternoon and ended up sending the ransom with my cc via moneygram which I hope I can fight. Would these people really send it? It looks so legit like literally about to message my wife in a screen shot on snap. I am so dumb, never again will I fall for what seemed real (as in meeting up). Happy to chat with anyone about this. I can give you my text free number.Us single guys have advantage. Go ahead. Tell my wife and mother. LOL.

Just word of advice to everyone. Don't bother with any of the foreign girls unless you traveling there. Why bother. Unless you in to video sex. Waste of energy. Immediately delete anyone from Venezuela, Phillipines, etc. When you see their location data. That is real helpful the location tracking on SA.

Steve 99
10-20-22, 19:06
This is a time waster.

Texted back and forth over several days discussing PPM and expectations, etc. Finally come back with a "I only sell contents these days". *****, why don't you just said so in the first place.

Maybe if you're willing to offer her 500 ppm, she might be DTF.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8fef45f5-21b0-4db9-993b-1966f0a436a4Same same. She texted me randomly after a few weeks. Only a few messages for me. I get to point quick LOL. Seems like Hartford hood rat. I would bang her in second though. Haha.

OppLife28
10-20-22, 21:17
Us single guys have advantage. Go ahead. Tell my wife and mother. LOL.

Just word of advice to everyone. Don't bother with any of the foreign girls unless you traveling there. Why bother. Unless you in to video sex. Waste of energy. Immediately delete anyone from Venezuela, Phillipines, etc. When you see their location data. That is real helpful the location tracking on SA.The girl was white looked like a normal 20 year old from USA.

OppLife28
10-20-22, 21:20
I know you were probably scared, but you should have never sent any money to them. They will threaten you again in a few days unless you send more money.

People get spammed bullshit all day on social media. Random friend requests / messages that don't even make sense half the time. Scams are super common and if you deny everything then nobody will bat an eye.

Do a chargeback on your card and tell them to pound sand.Yea I will talk to my card company and say I was held for ransom, which basically it felt that way. Holy crap never talk to someone on snap even though I heard people have success. They stated they were hosting in New Haven also. Whole situation seemed ok until it went south with the threats to tell all these people and ruin my life.

Chudakkad
10-20-22, 21:24
Has anyone been in contract with a blond girl that moves you to snap chat and then finds out who you are and who your wife is on facebook and threatens to send the conversation and SA account and her family and friends? I just dealt with this all afternoon and ended up sending the ransom with my cc via moneygram which I hope I can fight. Would these people really send it? It looks so legit like literally about to message my wife in a screen shot on snap. I am so dumb, never again will I fall for what seemed real (as in meeting up). Happy to chat with anyone about this. I can give you my text free number.I was threatened by a new Haven Woman right after M&G, she was like she knows my number, she has seem my car and knows where I work, said she was underage, though her profile said 22, she texted several times in a threatening manner asking me to send money after I blocked her, she started using other numbers, blocked her so do not have the link but it was stressful her screen name is Astute Temptress.

DonnnyBravo
10-20-22, 23:46
Has anyone been in contract with a blond girl that moves you to snap chat and then finds out who you are and who your wife is on facebook and threatens to send the conversation and SA account and her family and friends? I just dealt with this all afternoon and ended up sending the ransom with my cc via moneygram which I hope I can fight. Would these people really send it? It looks so legit like literally about to message my wife in a screen shot on snap. I am so dumb, never again will I fall for what seemed real (as in meeting up). Happy to chat with anyone about this. I can give you my text free number.Dude. Don't trust SA or any girls on a sugar baby site or an Escort. You should always make a separate persona and keep your real life and this life separated. I don't use my real name or phone number. These girls never go to my house. They never see my cards. If I cashapp, it's not my name. If you're married you have more to lose. Sugar babies are there for your money. Some are legit and just want something so they can enjoy life and not work, and some are there to scam you. Even if you can tell the difference, stay anonymous.

A girl tried to blackmail me before, but I knew she never knew who I really was and just blocked her and no money sent. You know what? I never heard back and she was no longer an issue.

I know some of you are gullible and want to trust some of these girls, but don't. I admit over the time I've been in this, I've had to change the way I did things but now I know better. Most of the time. I make it my purpose if I decide to meet a girl to know more about her than she knows about me. Some have used their real number. Some put their real name on their cashapp. Some are willing to give me their real first name. I can usually find their social media and criminal past within the first 24 hrs of meeting if not before. One girl had an abusive sugar daddy. I never asked her about his info, but she unknowingly gave me his info one piece at a time. Let's just say I contacted him, and now he supposedly got a gun just bc I text him. (He's also on this forum) Moral of the story, stay anonymous bc you don't know who these girls are or who they are talking to. You already know they want your money.

FireBalls420
10-21-22, 14:01
This one is a stripper works in B'port and stamford strip club Mystique https://members.seeking.com/member/c99e95ff-f226-4d34-97c6-b37f74e65907.

But available at the price to cost an arm and a leg.

JoeSchlosser1
10-23-22, 09:59
I was threatened by a new Haven Woman right after M&G, she was like she knows my number, she has seem my car and knows where I work, said she was underage, though her profile said 22, she texted several times in a threatening manner asking me to send money after I blocked her, she started using other numbers, blocked her so do not have the link but it was stressful her screen name is Astute Temptress.https://members.seeking.com/member/7b0f35fb-fb31-4ee0-a685-edad8a890a91

Kwagmire
10-25-22, 20:37
This one seems real, but we never got past her GPS at 1 k / date.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a1f30151-2490-475d-8a2f-df31a10b8c55

FireBalls420
10-25-22, 22:42
This one is dtf for. 25. All covered.

https://members.seeking.com/member/767bf20e-97d3-40d6-b03e-6bce74f01ef5

Tried her. She's less exiting. Dead fish with lot's of rules. Not worth an arrangement.

BBFreak
10-26-22, 03:13
This one seems real, but we never got past her GPS at 1 k / date.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a1f30151-2490-475d-8a2f-df31a10b8c55Yes, I think she's real. She'll begin the bidding with that 1 k line about her last sugar daddy but quickly came down to 600.

FireBalls420
10-26-22, 08:34
https://members.seeking.com/member/fabac536-7347-455a-a239-d25585005ef3

Hey guys, any idea about this one? She's insisting on a meet but not giving much insight on her expectations.

XxMarkXx
10-26-22, 12:06
https://members.seeking.com/member/fabac536-7347-455a-a239-d25585005ef3

Hey guys, any idea about this one? She's insisting on a meet but not giving much insight on her expectations.She was mentioned in a post recently. 400 ppm, non committal revirw, but fair enough in that she / him just may not have clicked as opposed to any issues with her per se. Proving the YMMV statement we all use.

MPCreeper
10-26-22, 13:15
https://members.seeking.com/member/45aba0c5-c145-4e2f-b008-6713a06bb4cc

Hate to ask but I'm in northern MA and coming down for work. Trying to set up a sure thing.

FireBalls420
10-26-22, 21:23
https://members.seeking.com/member/7b0f35fb-fb31-4ee0-a685-edad8a890a91https://members.seeking.com/member/a6f04202-2716-4486-8e23-4f2a185962eb

Do you think this is a same person with different profile?

SlackerInMsn
10-27-22, 00:11
https://members.seeking.com/member/a6f04202-2716-4486-8e23-4f2a185962eb

Do you think this is a same person with different profile?I don't think so. I've met the one you posted and they look totally different. To review, very flattering photos, lots of rules and very mechanical.

BlueFox141
10-27-22, 01:09
https://members.seeking.com/member/a6f04202-2716-4486-8e23-4f2a185962eb

Do you think this is a same person with different profile?Not at all. They don't look like, one's Hispanic one's white, one is 20 years old we have the other 22. One's a light smoker a social drinker the other one doesn't drink or smoke. I don't think there's much chance that they're the same young lady.

Blue.

TopGun9
10-29-22, 14:09
I wouldn't touch this profile with a 10,000 ft pole.

Looks like jail baits.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c8991169-e3c2-4d5d-9cbe-b6451205c457

FireBalls420
10-29-22, 15:19
https://members.seeking.com/member/d0970231-7267-4e2f-812f-a1afb3571ab1

This one seems real. But too very uncertain about meetups. She talks about arrangements and all but not really DTF. Not sure anyone of you got her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c30bd3dd-06f5-42bd-9321-f0427a536b7f

This one needs to meet first for dinner, coffee and talk about arrangement at that time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a1f30151-2490-475d-8a2f-df31a10b8c55

This one is real too, slim nice body. Quoted 1 k but then negotiated down to. 5. Felt it's not worth for the price. You'll get better ones at Pleasent moment for that price.

Sutigel2
10-31-22, 11:11
Has anyone ever had contact with this one? She logs in frequently and has had at least one other profile. My guess is fake, but I do wonder.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4383beb8-08b8-4549-9af4-cc7dbe7c51bc

Here's a couple that are friends of actual friends of mine. (Not seeking related. I'm not going to contact them for fear of outing myself. I can see both being willing to play).

This first one has pretty eyes and is an athletic girl. I feel as if she put on a bunch of weight during Covid, and quite a bit of the weight gain could be muscle.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c93e9718-a1f8-4999-b0ff-196e0f78153b

Another friend of a friend, this next one is using heavily filtered pictures and is really quite heavy. Last I checked, she looked almost nothing like her pics.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2681a47d-195b-4092-9f3d-8e0782df991d

TopGun9
11-01-22, 20:41
Content seller and a fake. Maybe a dude behind the screen.

(475) 449-0760.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7c384daf-0f55-4a3c-8567-73eb0aec0d1e

Big Mac Daddy
11-01-22, 21:40
Content seller and a fake. Maybe a dude behind the screen.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7c384daf-0f55-4a3c-8567-73eb0aec0d1eI avoid the ones like this pointing out their 'wish list'. There's no focus on our 'wish lists'! Next!

BMD.

Buck Cock
11-02-22, 00:12
Content seller and a fake. Maybe a dude behind the screen.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7c384daf-0f55-4a3c-8567-73eb0aec0d1eShe's real. Put a are in front of that screen name and that's her real name. Had interactions with her a few years ago through a different app but she was in Bridgeport and that's out of my travel range.

TopGun9
11-02-22, 16:03
She's real. Put a are in front of that screen name and that's her real name. Had interactions with her a few years ago through a different app but she was in Bridgeport and that's out of my travel range.Don't think she's down to fuck. Wanted to sell contents only. Told her to get f* lost.

Next.

Ilsw203
11-04-22, 06:57
https://members.seeking.com/member/f27de220-a844-461e-89b6-5d47a8f043be Found her through a recommendation of a member on here. Saw her a couple times and all were great. She's a fun, wet and wild time. Suddenly disappeared off the map. Anyone ever see her or still keep in touch with her? Would love to reconnect.

JackTaggart
11-04-22, 23:13
So I have been on an off looking for fun on seeking in CT the last 9 months or so. The last 2 weeks that I have been felt a bit different. I am pretty immune to scams (knock on wood) and have a lot of experience going back to craigslist. I am noticing a much higher volume of new accounts. Quite a few are very well written and enticing I must say I have my method down and quickly move to chat off of seeking. Completely non sexual conversation and pretty quick move (on my part) to try and meet for a drink before figuring anything else out.

Other than the scams or non responses (which are most) I am more used to is them straight up proposing a specific arrangement up front or someone happy to meet for a drink and go from there. I only go for the latter.

These feel much different because with these new ones I end up having a lot more friendly dialog back and forth with them first and it just seems like normal college girl chat. And then when on the way to the meet however many days later she's asking to specifically get a gift card at like a gas station and give it to her in person. It has been 6 that have gone this way and the chatting is very similar. Jokes on LEO though since I have actually met a couple of seeking girls that are just into fun and enjoy regular date stuff for no money. I guess I am lucky.

Anyways. Just kinda thinking out loud. Probably nothing since it seems like a ton of effort for them to go through with very little possibility of return. Maybe I have not taken it far enough to really understand the angle of the scam.

OldPup
11-07-22, 12:17
So I have been on an off looking for fun on seeking in CT the last 9 months or so. The last 2 weeks that I have been felt a bit different. I am pretty immune to scams (knock on wood) and have a lot of experience going back to craigslist. I am noticing a much higher volume of new accounts. Quite a few are very well written and enticing I must say I have my method down and quickly move to chat off of seeking. Completely non sexual conversation and pretty quick move (on my part) to try and meet for a drink before figuring anything else out.

Other than the scams or non responses (which are most) I am more used to is them straight up proposing a specific arrangement up front or someone happy to meet for a drink and go from there. I only go for the latter.

These feel much different because with these new ones I end up having a lot more friendly dialog back and forth with them first and it just seems like normal college girl chat. And then when on the way to the meet however many days later she's asking to specifically get a gift card at like a gas station and give it to her in person. It has been 6 that have gone this way and the chatting is very similar. Jokes on LEO though since I have actually met a couple of seeking girls that are just into fun and enjoy regular date stuff for no money. I guess I am lucky.

Anyways. Just kinda thinking out loud. Probably nothing since it seems like a ton of effort for them to go through with very little possibility of return. Maybe I have not taken it far enough to really understand the angle of the scam.I think that the angle on that scam is that they will ask you to send a picture of the gift card from which they try to extract the money by going online.

There are many in CT, a bunch of them go by the name Lucy once you move to text, WhatsApp or Telegram, that use that scam.

I agree that the benefits outweigh the hassles. If you suck enough oysters, there are many pearls out there. I just had the most amazing vacation thanks to SA. Two college girls that met me at the beach for sunset, fed them dinner and lots of booze and then had a few hours of dessert in bed. Another woman in her forties but with an incredible body, who was insatiable and who's still begging me to come back, and a 27 year old that wouldn't let me give her any gifts, just two nights of dinner and along with two blissful sleepovers.

Big Mac Daddy
11-07-22, 13:46
So I have been on an off looking for fun on seeking in CT the last 9 months or so. The last 2 weeks that I have been felt a bit different. I am pretty immune to scams (knock on wood) and have a lot of experience going back to craigslist. I am noticing a much higher volume of new accounts. Quite a few are very well written and enticing I must say I have my method down and quickly move to chat off of seeking. Completely non sexual conversation and pretty quick move (on my part) to try and meet for a drink before figuring anything else out.

Other than the scams or non responses (which are most) I am more used to is them straight up proposing a specific arrangement up front or someone happy to meet for a drink and go from there. I only go for the latter.

These feel much different because with these new ones I end up having a lot more friendly dialog back and forth with them first and it just seems like normal college girl chat. And then when on the way to the meet however many days later she's asking to specifically get a gift card at like a gas station and give it to her in person. It has been 6 that have gone this way and the chatting is very similar. Jokes on LEO though since I have actually met a couple of seeking girls that are just into fun and enjoy regular date stuff for no money. I guess I am lucky..The gift card girls (likely men) likely catch more newbies than folks like you or me.

They are likely working on multiple people at a time and have stock or generic canned answers which they can easily copy / paste into a chat window. If they catch 2% or 20 per thousand or more, it's worth their time. It must pay off since there are so many scammers and suckers out there.

BMD.

Yuk Phu
11-08-22, 15:56
The gift card girls (likely men) likely catch more newbies than folks like you or me.

They are likely working on multiple people at a time and have stock or generic canned answers which they can easily copy / paste into a chat window. If they catch 2% or 20 per thousand or more, it's worth their time. It must pay off since there are so many scammers and suckers out there.

BMD.When someone asks me for one of those cards, I'll send a pic but with the last block of numbers blocked out. It kinda pisses them off so all the more fun.

Big Mac Daddy
11-08-22, 17:05
When someone asks me for one of those cards, I'll send a pic but with the last block of numbers blocked out. It kinda pisses them off so all the more fun.Brilliant!

Steve 99
11-09-22, 08:32
Have a few days left on sub. Current batch of girls in CT very average. Most of these girls not worth paying. Maybe closer to Christmas it will get better.

Chudakkad
11-09-22, 14:14
Have a few days left on sub. Current batch of girls in CT very average. Most of these girls not worth paying. Maybe closer to Christmas it will get better.Percentage of scammers has gone up exponentially, I gave up, as someone else had said after meeting several women.that value is not there, you may get lucky occasionally, not worth the effort IMO

Kwagmire
11-11-22, 12:26
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b9f1ecd-ba73-415e-b468-c00b989cf67d

This one appears to be real. Had a very pleasant phone conversation and agreed to make plans to meet. As we were texting to schedule the meet she said she was looking for $400 for dinner and drinks. When I explained I was looking first for a quick unpaid drink to meet publicly to discuss an arrangement and to see if we thought we would click, she disappeared. Appears to be a gold digger who wants to get paid for the privilege of buying her a fancy meal. NEXT!

If anyone has had a different experience with this one I'd love to hear.

DaReal86
11-11-22, 19:51
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b9f1ecd-ba73-415e-b468-c00b989cf67d

This one appears to be real. Had a very pleasant phone conversation and agreed to make plans to meet. As we were texting to schedule the meet she said she was looking for $400 for dinner and drinks. When I explained I was looking first for a quick unpaid drink to meet publicly to discuss an arrangement and to see if we thought we would click, she disappeared. Appears to be a gold digger who wants to get paid for the privilege of buying her a fancy meal. NEXT!

If anyone has had a different experience with this one I'd love to hear.Newbies take some notes this is how it's done. Either discuss it through text or a FREE meet and greet no deposit bullshit. These b!tches don't deserve shit until the job is done. I am not speaking bad on members on the board but a lot men in general have turned into simps! Don't simp for no women besides your wife or GF. These women want whats in your wallet and you want to make a sperm deposit. NEXT!

SlackerInMsn
11-11-22, 20:00
Newbies take some notes this is how it's done. Either discuss it through text or a FREE meet and greet no deposit bullshit. These b!tches don't deserve shit until the job is done. I am not speaking bad on members on the board but a lot men in general have turned into simps! Don't simp for no women besides your wife or GF. These women want whats in your wallet and you want to make a sperm deposit. NEXT!While all the "let's meet for $" are a NEXT! I've definitely had a few dates where it was, "you didn't value my time, if you did, you would've paid me extra after dinner and drinks and we could have fun next time. ".

As BMD says, NEXT!

Big Mac Daddy
11-11-22, 20:34
While all the "let's meet for $" are a NEXT! I've definitely had a few dates where it was, "you didn't value my time, if you did, you would've paid me extra after dinner and drinks and we could have fun next time.Thank you.

She now knows, because she didn't value your time, there is no next time.

BMD.

DaReal86
11-11-22, 21:05
As BMD says, NEXT!LOL was trying to figure out whose quote this was on here. Thanks for reminding me it was the BigMacDaddy.

Kwagmire
11-12-22, 09:31
Newbies take some notes this is how it's done. Either discuss it through text or a FREE meet and greet no deposit bullshit. These b!tches don't deserve shit until the job is done. I am not speaking bad on members on the board but a lot men in general have turned into simps! Don't simp for no women besides your wife or GF. These women want whats in your wallet and you want to make a sperm deposit. NEXT!Thanks, DR86.

It's too bad. She's super cute, and we truly had a great, easy, intelligent and flowing conversation on the phone. Because she's short sighted and wouldn't accept a free drink and maybe free dinner as I thoroughly enjoyed talking with her, instead wanting to be paid for same, she potentially (provided she was "feeling it" too, with me) left many thousands, over the course of an ongoing sugar relationship, on the table.

Ah, women.

Big Mac Daddy
11-12-22, 09:50
LOL was trying to figure out whose quote this was on here. Thanks for reminding me it was the BigMacDaddy.I stole it from the "soup Nazi" character from the old Seinfeld show. If you don't know it, check it on You Tube.

BMD-feld.

PopPoppy70
11-12-22, 17:09
Most SB's I move to texting after a day or so, otherwise it's just too much hassle and a waste of time. In texting I quickly I discuss my past arrangements and tell them this is what I offer as ppm. I also say I've been scammed before in the past by sending money to girls ahead of time (haven't BTW) for uber / giftcard / whatever and that I don't do that anymore.

It sets where I'm at and that I don't tolerate any bullshyt. They can take it or leave it. Plenty of girls out there to be had without the BS, you just have lay down your rules.

BlueFox141
11-12-22, 23:40
Most SB's I move to texting after a day or so, otherwise it's just too much hassle and a waste of time. In texting I quickly I discuss my past arrangements and tell them this is what I offer as ppm. I also say I've been scammed before in the past by sending money to girls ahead of time (haven't BTW) for uber / giftcard / whatever and that I don't do that anymore.

It sets where I'm at and that I don't tolerate any bullshyt. They can take it or leave it. Plenty of girls out there to be had without the BS, you just have lay down your rules.I have been off SA for at least 6 months, but I found that telling them that I would never send any money prior to meeting in person and don't prepay for anything, ever, weeded out a lot of the scammers. Although, once in awhile I would get one who would set up a meet and ask for something an hour or two beforehand. It's still the best way to go. Been thinking about going back because, although it was a lot of work, I did find some gems. Not sure if it's worth it now.

Blue.

JackTaggart
11-13-22, 13:44
I think that the angle on that scam is that they will ask you to send a picture of the gift card from which they try to extract the money by going online.

There are many in CT, a bunch of them go by the name Lucy once you move to text, WhatsApp or Telegram, that use that scam.

I agree that the benefits outweigh the hassles. If you suck enough oysters, there are many pearls out there. I just had the most amazing vacation thanks to SA. Two college girls that met me at the beach for sunset, fed them dinner and lots of booze and then had a few hours of dessert in bed. Another woman in her forties but with an incredible body, who was insatiable and who's still begging me to come back, and a 27 year old that wouldn't let me give her any gifts, just two nights of dinner and along with two blissful sleepovers.Ah, sending the photo makes sense now. Thanks!

ArchitexOne
11-13-22, 20:55
Any information? Sent me a message but I am not a paid subscriber but she is just my type https://members.seeking.com/member/3a4be657-384f-4f30-8473-97f6ca0e06c6?&locale=en_US&utm_source=sa-system&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=PrivatePhotoAccessGranted#.

Kwagmire
11-14-22, 10:31
Any information? Sent me a message but I am not a paid subscriber but she is just my type https://members.seeking.com/member/3a4be657-384f-4f30-8473-97f6ca0e06c6?&locale=en_US&utm_source=sa-system&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=PrivatePhotoAccessGranted#.I've been talking with her but comms have been sporadic / inconsistent. Hard to nail down any sort of logistics for an initial meet and greet, so the jury's still out for me.

Kwag.

Steve 99
11-15-22, 14:33
This is a time waster.

Texted back and forth over several days discussing PPM and expectations, etc. Finally come back with a "I only sell contents these days". *****, why don't you just said so in the first place.

Maybe if you're willing to offer her 500 ppm, she might be DTF.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8fef45f5-21b0-4db9-993b-1966f0a436a4This one hit me up after the content only line last week. Says she is now down to meet. She doesn't have car. She wants to meet at capital grill. Yeah right. Lets go to dunkin donuts honey. LOL.

Didn't get any numbers and didn't try to meet. It is always pain in ass when they don't drive. Anyone land her? How was it? Cost?

Gridge
11-15-22, 14:53
I stole it from the "soup Nazi" character from the old Seinfeld show. If you don't know it, check it on You Tube.

BMD-feld.No soup for you! Come back one year!

Big Mac Daddy
11-15-22, 15:30
I messaged an older (50) woman there, decent looking and divorced. Took it offline and she wanted $200 for a dinner date. Here ya go, "No and next"!

BMD.

Buck Cock
11-16-22, 05:37
https://members.seeking.com/member/4d798598-9988-4c9d-8ed1-7d814965dfe6

This one started sending me messages last month. Gave some basic banter for about 2 weeks then I asked her to upload a full body pic to the site. Wouldn't do it so I cut contact. Body type says Slim but I'm convinced she's fat.

Yuk Phu
11-16-22, 18:24
https://members.seeking.com/member/4d798598-9988-4c9d-8ed1-7d814965dfe6

This one started sending me messages last month. Gave some basic banter for about 2 weeks then I asked her to upload a full body pic to the site. Wouldn't do it so I cut contact. Body type says Slim but I'm convinced she's fat.For deffo she's "fluffy". Maybe her fingers are slim.

JackTaggart
11-16-22, 22:48
For deffo she's "fluffy". Maybe her fingers are slim.I spent a lot of time in South America this year. At first I was filtering out all the curvy girls on seeking because here it usually means morbidly obese / rolls. There it usually means slim but with a nice ass.

TopGun9
11-17-22, 10:25
https://members.seeking.com/member/4d798598-9988-4c9d-8ed1-7d814965dfe6

This one started sending me messages last month. Gave some basic banter for about 2 weeks then I asked her to upload a full body pic to the site. Wouldn't do it so I cut contact. Body type says Slim but I'm convinced she's fat.She's definitely fat.

Talked to her several times many years ago, she's def been on SA way before 2020. And over the years, I can see she has been putting on additional weights.

She has always been a time waster, but maybe other guys had better luck and actually fucked her. She's on my ignore list.

JackTaggart
11-19-22, 18:33
Has anyone met with her? I have been chatting with her on Snapchat for a few weeks on and off. We keep making plans and then she flakes. One time she said she got her period, so it wouldn't be good to meet. But then keeps messaging. No request for money.

She also has her location on full time, so I see where she is all the time between Hamden and Branford. Same typical locations.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0578fbc7-19bd-4aa8-ab7c-ec9c1e97ff6c

BlueFox141
11-20-22, 06:52
Has anyone met with her? I have been chatting with her on Snapchat for a few weeks on and off. We keep making plans and then she flakes. One time she said she got her period, so it wouldn't be good to meet. But then keeps messaging. No request for money.

She also has her location on full time, so I see where she is all the time between Hamden and Branford. Same typical locations.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0578fbc7-19bd-4aa8-ab7c-ec9c1e97ff6cI posted about her July of 2020 post #2561. She seemed to be playing games with me, and a couple others posted the same thing. I think I recall someone had said they had seen her, but I could not find it in the thread. She's been on seeking for quite a while. I think it strokes her ego too lead guys on.

Blue.

JackTaggart
11-20-22, 12:33
I posted about her July of 2020 post #2561. She seemed to be playing games with me, and a couple others posted the same thing. I think I recall someone had said they had seen her, but I could not find it in the thread. She's been on seeking for quite a while. I think it strokes her ego too lead guys on.

Blue.Thanks. I forgot that seeking profiles had usernames that I could use to search.

The location being on 24/7 really confuses me. Oh well.

BBFreak
11-20-22, 16:03
Don't waste your time with this one. Been talking with her on SA but today I noticed she has an ad on STG asking for deposits.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fd62a1bc-3c83-4e15-964a-4b5562043f8a

https://hartford.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/want-to-see-me-get-fucked-squi/739350668781

TopGun9
11-20-22, 17:36
Don't waste your time with this one. Been talking with her on SA but today I noticed she has an ad on STG asking for deposits.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fd62a1bc-3c83-4e15-964a-4b5562043f8a

https://hartford.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/want-to-see-me-get-fucked-squi/739350668781Report her to SA, shut her down.

LouisHernandez
11-20-22, 18:18
https://members.seeking.com/member/4d798598-9988-4c9d-8ed1-7d814965dfe6

This one started sending me messages last month. Gave some basic banter for about 2 weeks then I asked her to upload a full body pic to the site. Wouldn't do it so I cut contact. Body type says Slim but I'm convinced she's fat.Rule #1: don't respond to any girls who don't post full body pics in their profile. They are fat 100% of the time. Really fat.

BlueFox141
11-21-22, 06:55
Rule #1: don't respond to any girls who don't post full body pics in their profile. They are fat 100% of the time. Really fat.I haven't been an SA member for maybe 10 months, but was on for over two years prior to that and can think of two girls who didn't have full body photos, but weren't even close to being fat, let alone very fat. The first there was no mutual interest so we never met. The second, had a number of face shots only. I had dinner with her three times, but she was just too scared to pull the trigger. I really would have loved to hook up with her. Texted her a few times after that but she stopped responding. I very well possibly had more, but that standard wasn't anything I was concerned about, so I'm not sure. Now as far as #1 Rule, I would say it would have to be about money, specifically "Never prepay for anything, ever- Cashapp, Venmo, PayPal. That would be my opinion based on my meager experience, as opposed to yours.

Be careful out there.

Blue.

Sutigel2
11-22-22, 12:18
A longtime UTR / SB recently tried to change the time of one of our meetings (this happens often with her) but then (for the first time) pulled the Venmo crap. Keep in mind that this is someone I have seen maybe 25 times. (Maybe more).

I told her we were meeting at the arranged time and that I do not Venmo.

The appointment went on as initially scheduled.

OldPup
11-22-22, 14:33
Has anyone met with her? I have been chatting with her on Snapchat for a few weeks on and off. We keep making plans and then she flakes. One time she said she got her period, so it wouldn't be good to meet. But then keeps messaging. No request for money.

She also has her location on full time, so I see where she is all the time between Hamden and Branford. Same typical locations.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0578fbc7-19bd-4aa8-ab7c-ec9c1e97ff6cOn SA I have experienced many 'almost' last minute cancellations due to them being on the rag. I always respond that if it doesn't bother them it doesn't bother me. They seem to appreciate that attitude and most of the time we meet as planned and have a great time.

JackTaggart
11-22-22, 17:59
On SA I have experienced many 'almost' last minute cancellations due to them being on the rag. I always respond that if it doesn't bother them it doesn't bother me. They seem to appreciate that attitude and most of the time we meet as planned and have a great time.I thought of doing that just to see, but probably over half of my enjoyment is going down on a woman for a long period of time, so it's kinda an inefficient use of money for me if I will only have sex and get a BJ. I won't go down on a random woman on her period.

Chudakkad
11-22-22, 22:23
A longtime UTR / SB recently tried to change the time of one of our meetings (this happens often with her) but then (for the first time) pulled the Venmo crap. Keep in mind that this is someone I have seen maybe 25 times. (Maybe more).

I told her we were meeting at the arranged time and that I do not Venmo.

The appointment went on as initially scheduled.You the man!!

DaReal86
11-28-22, 06:54
https://members.seeking.com/member/bbd16dd0-efa0-4f4e-9717-6a017eb82f57 Anyone hit this recently? PM me, I want to confirm the digits I have.

McBright
11-29-22, 16:57
Anyone have any experience with this one.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/565fd22a-c445-43ce-aa71-80da072425b0

Seeing her later this week. DM and I'll swap stories.

Rhodey
11-29-22, 22:08
Anyone have any experience with this one.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/565fd22a-c445-43ce-aa71-80da072425b0

Seeing her later this week. DM and I'll swap stories.I've been messaging her back and forth, was suppose to meet up today to go for a walk at a park in Fairfield. Didn't get the impression she was ppm.

Hapcj7
11-30-22, 09:41
Anyone have any experience with this one.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/565fd22a-c445-43ce-aa71-80da072425b0

Seeing her later this week. DM and I'll swap stories.Your link is sending us to your inbox messages.

PopPoppy70
11-30-22, 10:52
Any reports on this one? Benn messaging back and forth for a week or so and looks like its a go:

https://members.seeking.com/member/044781b0-7c5c-4aba-802a-9f8a054a7c91

CasinoGuy66
11-30-22, 18:59
So I signed up for secret benefits. I see they have a few model based on credits, where you pay to unlock the ability to talk with the women.

I've already joined seeking a while ago.

So my question is does anyone actually use secret benefits? I am very skeptical because within 3 days of signing up, I have 3 messages in my inbox from decent looking ladies looking to connect. All from within 30 miles of the location I used in my profile. I am looking to see if this is the general experience of others, or if it is part of the websites strategy to get people to pay the $59.99 for the least expensive credit package.

Sitteb36
11-30-22, 23:15
So I signed up for secret benefits. I see they have a few model based on credits, where you pay to unlock the ability to talk with the women.

I've already joined seeking a while ago.

So my question is does anyone actually use secret benefits? I am very skeptical because within 3 days of signing up, I have 3 messages in my inbox from decent looking ladies looking to connect. All from within 30 miles of the location I used in my profile. I am looking to see if this is the general experience of others, or if it is part of the websites strategy to get people to pay the $59.99 for the least expensive credit package.I had the same thing happen on the site. Don't bother if they are initiating the conversation. You use your credits to open the conversation and never get a reply.

BigBoss203
12-01-22, 09:45
https://members.seeking.com/member/bbd16dd0-efa0-4f4e-9717-6a017eb82f57 Anyone hit this recently? PM me, I want to confirm the digits I have.Ends in 21.

WilliamArthur
12-01-22, 09:52
So I signed up for secret benefits. I see they have a few model based on credits, where you pay to unlock the ability to talk with the women.

I've already joined seeking a while ago.

So my question is does anyone actually use secret benefits? I am very skeptical because within 3 days of signing up, I have 3 messages in my inbox from decent looking ladies looking to connect. All from within 30 miles of the location I used in my profile. I am looking to see if this is the general experience of others, or if it is part of the websites strategy to get people to pay the $59.99 for the least expensive credit package.Definitely had good luck there. Hooked up with 7 or 8 different gals. All very cute. But you will find the same number of flakes and phonies as on SA.

But I do hate the way they charge for everything. I never end up paying for the secret photos, but ask the gals to text them to me after we start chatting off site.

The best bet for purchasing more credits is to wait until you have only 20 left and then they next time you use 10 credits you'll have 10 minute to purchase at 2 for 1. I usually buy 1000 credits for the price of 500 that way.

DaReal86
12-01-22, 10:16
Ends in 21.Got it! Thanks!

DaReal86
12-01-22, 10:27
So I signed up for secret benefits. I see they have a few model based on credits, where you pay to unlock the ability to talk with the women.

I've already joined seeking a while ago.

So my question is does anyone actually use secret benefits? I am very skeptical because within 3 days of signing up, I have 3 messages in my inbox from decent looking ladies looking to connect. All from within 30 miles of the location I used in my profile. I am looking to see if this is the general experience of others, or if it is part of the websites strategy to get people to pay the $59.99 for the least expensive credit package.I have been using SB for a while and have scored more on there than on seeking. It is a bit harder to use since you are limited on messages. But a couple beginner tips:

1. Message who you want to message. Don't go using your credits to read a message from non verified member either. Which brings me to
2. Only try to message verified members. They will usually have video verification on their profile page. Try sticking to these profiles at first. Although I've met girls that haven't been verified, I still stick to this rule somewhat.
2A. Actually read through a profile of a girl that interests you. Look for keywords such as “mutual beneficial friendship”, “FWB” “Daddy issues” etc…
3. Be smart with your credits, this is somewhat related to number 2 but don't go using your credits to request private pics or unlocking picture messaging. It's simply not worth it because you could be messaging more girls to increase your odds.
4.Last but not least. Be patient. I know a member that signed up for SB and blew all his credits in one day messaging a whole bunch of profiles, some of which were probably fake. There have been some girls that I chat up with and am able to hook up within the same week.

All in all actually prefer secretbenefits over seeking. Simply due to the fact that the girls on there know what you want and won't waste your time.

CasinoGuy66
12-01-22, 18:53
I have been using SB for a while and have scored more on there than on seeking. It is a bit harder to use since you are limited on messages. But a couple beginner tips:

1. Message who you want to message. Don't go using your credits to read a message from non verified member either. Which brings me to
2. Only try to message verified members. They will usually have video verification on their profile page. Try sticking to these profiles at first. Although I've met girls that haven't been verified, I still stick to this rule somewhat.
2A. Actually read through a profile of a girl that interests you. Look for keywords such as mutual beneficial friendship, FWB Daddy issues etc
3. Be smart with your credits, this is somewhat related to number 2 but don't go using your credits to request private pics or unlocking picture messaging. It's simply not worth it because you could be messaging more girls to increase your odds.
4.Last but not least. Be patient. I know a member that signed up for SB and blew all his credits in one day messaging a whole bunch of profiles, some of which were probably fake. There have been some girls that I chat up with and am able to hook up within the same week.

All in all actually prefer secretbenefits over seeking. Simply due to the fact that the girls on there know what you want and won't waste your time.This is valuable insight much appreciated!

Rhodey
12-01-22, 21:45
https://members.seeking.com/member/e39acdc1-c0f5-43b1-ba33-f3e66e18b181

Anyone have experience with this baby?

TopGun9
12-02-22, 11:02
Another cashapp scammers. Gas money to get to you, hungry and need food to prove you real daddy. LMFAO.

Don't be an IDIOT for fall for these scammers.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ac28b075-4c1a-4180-a76e-55a0989a87b1

DaReal86
12-02-22, 11:39
https://members.seeking.com/member/e39acdc1-c0f5-43b1-ba33-f3e66e18b181

Anyone have experience with this baby?Based on the pics alone, I can bet she wants nothing less than 5.

toddywaddy
12-02-22, 13:05
Based on the pics alone, I can bet she wants nothing less than 5.400.

400.

Rhodey
12-02-22, 14:40
Based on the pics alone, I can bet she wants nothing less than 5.Yea I think that's what she usually does, but we talked about 350. So I might.

Rhodey
12-02-22, 14:41
Based on the pics alone, I can bet she wants nothing less than 5.It's just my first time using SA, so I don't know how legit it is.

SlackerInMsn
12-02-22, 19:28
Yea I think that's what she usually does, but we talked about 350. So I might.I never got to hear her expectations because she wanted to discuss ppm on SA chat so I left it at that to avoid getting banned.

Big Mac Daddy
12-03-22, 11:32
A word to the wise concerning the WYP site.

I've been on that site, off and on for 5 years with no prior issues, but a few weeks ago I edited a typo on my profile. After saving it, my account was immediately suspended with no reason given.

I wrote to them and got a reply days later that they noticed 'suspicious activity'. I replied that 'editing my profile is NOT suspicious. What's the problem?

To get back in, I'm supposed to supply front & back pics of my DL, with nothing blocked.

My last message to them was, 'You'll get my DL when you freeze over in hell'. DONE & NEXT!

BMD.

Steve 99
12-03-22, 13:04
I never got to hear her expectations because she wanted to discuss ppm on SA chat so I left it at that to avoid getting banned.Smart move. If the girl is not going to go to text she is getting too many offers. Not worth it. Never discuss money on the site. I have had girls say just tell me here. Tell me here. NO.

LolBoat
12-03-22, 15:22
The tri-state sugar scene is more or less dead unless you're in NYC and want to pay big prices. The golden years from 2012-2017 are more or less overwith.

The young girls today are on cam sites and social media apps making tons of $$ and have no reason to meet up in person. This really, really sucks.

Rhodey
12-03-22, 17:54
Any recommendations for sa in the new haven through Stamford area. I've been talking to a couple but haven't pulled the trigger.

JackTaggart
12-03-22, 23:55
The tri-state sugar scene is more or less dead unless you're in NYC and want to pay big prices. The golden years from 2012-2017 are more or less overwith.

The young girls today are on cam sites and social media apps making tons of $$ and have no reason to meet up in person. This really, really sucks.So just a different experience for me. I've met a few girls that I would put in top 10 and I've fucked probably 250+( 245 not on seeking, but I'm just saying in terms of comparison that I am not a novice) in the last 11 years. However, perhaps it's because of what I am after and my situation might be different. That's why I am posting because I'm curious. I'm single, under 40, average at best looking, probably 35 pounds overweight, and have no problems going out in public doing real date stuff. I do not appear to be wealthy and really am not due to starting my business. I have traveled a lot in Europe, USa, and South America and have pretty good life experience. I drive a 10 year old dirty car and dress sorta ok. I also legit am looking for intelligent conversation and hanging out. Otherwise it's just not worth my time since I can either jerk off, go to lifestyle events for free or essentialy free, or travel outside the US for more favorable condtions due to my work. For me the goal of seeking in the US is get the benefits of a girlfriend without the commitment or having to constantly stay in contact. I need to have it be ok that I disapear for 2 months and fuck other woman.

So I've found a few in CT this year that meet my critera. One I ppm for 400 for 3 to 4 hours / whatever. One I don't pay other than just paying for normal boyfriend stuff. And hotel rooms due to my living situation. And if things continue to go well I'll pay for her to travel with me. But no shopping trips, no allowance, no extras. Well, other than bdsm gear and lingerie. She wants to go to cultural things and I have the interest and knowledge to make it happen. Doing a weekend day trip is no problem for me.

They are 23 and 24, college degree, petite but with a butt, super hot (for me, but both conventually attractive) and insanely smart. One has done sex work for years casually on and off and the other does not at all. Money was not discussed with either up front and obviously the 2nd it's never come up. I approched it as a first date for both and didn't even try to get sexual with either the first time.

So yeah, I'm curious to compare situations and approaches because my happyness with seeking in CT is amazing.

And yes, I've had some time wasters and others where my approach does not work. So it's not like I make it happen everytime.

LouisHernandez
12-04-22, 00:24
I haven't been an SA member for maybe 10 months, but was on for over two years prior to that and can think of two girls who didn't have full body photos, but weren't even close to being fat, let alone very fat. The first there was no mutual interest so we never met. The second, had a number of face shots only. I had dinner with her three times, but she was just too scared to pull the trigger. I really would have loved to hook up with her. Texted her a few times after that but she stopped responding. I very well possibly had more, but that standard wasn't anything I was concerned about, so I'm not sure. Now as far as #1 Rule, I would say it would have to be about money, specifically "Never prepay for anything, ever- Cashapp, Venmo, PayPal. That would be my opinion based on my meager experience, as opposed to yours.

Be careful out there.

Blue.I think your Rule 1 and my Rule 1 can be combined.

LouisHernandez
12-04-22, 00:27
So I signed up for secret benefits. I see they have a few model based on credits, where you pay to unlock the ability to talk with the women.

I've already joined seeking a while ago.

So my question is does anyone actually use secret benefits? I am very skeptical because within 3 days of signing up, I have 3 messages in my inbox from decent looking ladies looking to connect. All from within 30 miles of the location I used in my profile. I am looking to see if this is the general experience of others, or if it is part of the websites strategy to get people to pay the $59.99 for the least expensive credit package.It's a total scam site now. Any real girls on there will be on SA anyway.

LouisHernandez
12-04-22, 16:13
So just a different experience for me. I've met a few girls that I would put in top 10 and I've fucked probably 250+( 245 not on seeking, but I'm just saying in terms of comparison that I am not a novice) in the last 11 years. However, perhaps it's because of what I am after and my situation might be different. That's why I am posting because I'm curious. I'm single, under 40, average at best looking, probably 35 pounds overweight, and have no problems going out in public doing real date stuff. I do not appear to be wealthy and really am not due to starting my business. I have traveled a lot in Europe, USa, and South America and have pretty good life experience. I drive a 10 year old dirty car and dress sorta ok. I also legit am looking for intelligent conversation and hanging out. Otherwise it's just not worth my time since I can either jerk off, go to lifestyle events for free or essentialy free, or travel outside the US for more favorable condtions due to my work. For me the goal of seeking in the US is get the benefits of a girlfriend without the commitment or having to constantly stay in contact. I need to have it be ok that I disapear for 2 months and fuck other woman.

So I've found a few in CT this year that meet my critera. One I ppm for 400 for 3 to 4 hours / whatever. One I don't pay other than just paying for normal boyfriend stuff. And hotel rooms due to my living situation. And if things continue to go well I'll pay for her to travel with me. But no shopping trips, no allowance, no extras. Well, other than bdsm gear and lingerie. She wants to go to cultural things and I have the interest and knowledge to make it happen. Doing a weekend day trip is no problem for me.

They are 23 and 24, college degree, petite but with a butt, super hot (for me, but both conventually attractive) and insanely smart. One has done sex work for years casually on and off and the other does not at all. Money was not discussed with either up front and obviously the 2nd it's never come up. I approched it as a first date for both and didn't even try to get sexual with either the first time.

So yeah, I'm curious to compare situations and approaches because my happyness with seeking in CT is amazing.

And yes, I've had some time wasters and others where my approach does not work. So it's not like I make it happen everytime.Interesting. I've been on and off SA for 6 years and have had a few unicorn types (they were all under 24 years old, the older ones are always pay to play) but there's always been a monetary exchange except a few times. Only one girl specially didn't accept money out of the 50 or so I've hooked up with on there. Most required it either directly or indirectly. Point is, I consider the site a prostitution site and have given up looking for anything vanilla, b / c that's what bumble or other vanilla dating sites are for. I don't order seafood at a steak house restaurant.

BoredinCT12
12-04-22, 21:37
So I signed up for secret benefits. I see they have a few model based on credits, where you pay to unlock the ability to talk with the women.

I've already joined seeking a while ago.

So my question is does anyone actually use secret benefits? I am very skeptical because within 3 days of signing up, I have 3 messages in my inbox from decent looking ladies looking to connect. All from within 30 miles of the location I used in my profile. I am looking to see if this is the general experience of others, or if it is part of the websites strategy to get people to pay the $59.99 for the least expensive credit package.Tried it after seeing a few girls that I recognized from WYP on there. Sent several messages zero replies. Total ripoff.

Tomb8871
12-04-22, 22:57
Tried it after seeing a few girls that I recognized from WYP on there. Sent several messages zero replies. Total ripoff.Yes SB a ripoff. There are all manner of fake profiles there which will send you msg so you answer and burn credits. Think it owner putting all those profiles and bots out there.

Gridge
12-05-22, 15:06
A word to the wise concerning the WYP site.

I've been on that site, off and on for 5 years with no prior issues, but a few weeks ago I edited a typo on my profile. After saving it, my account was immediately suspended with no reason given.

I wrote to them and got a reply days later that they noticed 'suspicious activity'. I replied that 'editing my profile is NOT suspicious. What's the problem?

To get back in, I'm supposed to supply front & back pics of my DL, with nothing blocked.

My last message to them was, 'You'll get my DL when you freeze over in hell'. DONE & NEXT!

BMD.WTF really? What a trash move by that site. I have actually had some decent success on that site. Took some time weeding out the flakes, but that comes with the territory.

BlueFox141
12-07-22, 09:11
I think your Rule 1 and my Rule 1 can be combined.I don't know how. I just explained how I have found your Rule 1 to be wrong sometimes.

MustangGuy
12-09-22, 19:23
I've been talking with her but comms have been sporadic / inconsistent. Hard to nail down any sort of logistics for an initial meet and greet, so the jury's still out for me.

Kwag.I'm having the same issue. I'll report back if I get anywhere.

McBright
12-10-22, 10:22
Anyone have any experience with this one? She's been around, this is her 2nd or 3rd profile. Coms have been great. Would like to trade stories if you've have any experience with her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/bac5b961-6cef-4757-8533-4412f019ccf8

McBright
12-10-22, 10:25
I've been talking with her but comms have been sporadic / inconsistent. Hard to nail down any sort of logistics for an initial meet and greet, so the jury's still out for me.

Kwag.Same here, any updates on your end? Seems nice enough and fun. But not sure she will follow through in person. If she does I definitely think she would be DTF.

McBright
12-11-22, 23:50
Another one with great coms, traded numbers and have been texting. Seems like she's been on for a while but her profile says Nov of this year. Meeting her Tuesday and will swap stories with anyone that has partaken.

Happy Hunting!

MC.

Steve 99
12-12-22, 14:46
Here is one for you guys who willing to go to 4. I will not. Not bad. Could be a wild one in bed. Bi. I just won't go over 3. Call me stubborn old school SA days. 400 seems to be the new 300 or 250. No car so you have to pick up. After first meet down to 3 she says but who know. You guys think worth 4? She had a couple long term guys who gave 4 every time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e6372a95-9a90-47d3-9ad9-63336fccbdd4

PopPoppy70
12-12-22, 17:26
Here is one for you guys who willing to go to 4. I will not. Not bad. Could be a wild one in bed. Bi. I just won't go over 3. Call me stubborn old school SA days. 400 seems to be the new 300 or 250. No car so you have to pick up. After first meet down to 3 she says but who know. You guys think worth 4? She had a couple long term guys who gave 4 every time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e6372a95-9a90-47d3-9ad9-63336fccbdd4Good choice in declining 4 IMO. 33 year old who although is fit, doesn't have a pretty face at least for me. Hard to tell from those pics.

PopPoppy70
12-12-22, 17:34
Been chatting with this 23 year old for a while. After some back and forth she wanted 3. However, I not going to pull the trigger yet as she's a bit too chunky for me and I like more petite girls. Plus I'm juggling too many at the moment so I'll put her on my reserve list for now. But go ahead and contact her if you're so inclined but promise to report back to me:

https://members.seeking.com/member/f070929f-cb25-4df8-841b-7b68bc8b9f8c

Steve 99
12-12-22, 17:39
She is in Greenwich. That is always trouble with all money down there. 800 ppm. Pass. These girls must have to talk to 50 guys to finally find a dummy to pay these amounts. Or they never really do get it and are dreaming.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/0f604927-166a-41ae-85b0-e372d56fcd00

TopGun9
12-12-22, 19:40
Been chatting with this 23 year old for a while. After some back and forth she wanted 3. However, I not going to pull the trigger yet as she's a bit too chunky for me and I like more petite girls. Plus I'm juggling too many at the moment so I'll put her on my reserve list for now. But go ahead and contact her if you're so inclined but promise to report back to me:

https://members.seeking.com/member/f070929f-cb25-4df8-841b-7b68bc8b9f8cYou're not the only guy actively talking to her, I am sure there are a dozen other guys out there talking to her.

Some might even be fucking her while you're still in the talking stage. LOL.

But yeah, I agreed with you. She's not worth 300. Fuck, I even passed her for 200; while I fuck UConn and CCSU coeds for 150.

TopGun9
12-12-22, 19:41
Here is one for you guys who willing to go to 4. I will not. Not bad. Could be a wild one in bed. Bi. I just won't go over 3. Call me stubborn old school SA days. 400 seems to be the new 300 or 250. No car so you have to pick up. After first meet down to 3 she says but who know. You guys think worth 4? She had a couple long term guys who gave 4 every time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e6372a95-9a90-47d3-9ad9-63336fccbdd4Hell NO!

400 is reserved for the hot young 18/19 yr old white spinners.

TopGun9
12-12-22, 19:42
Another one with great coms, traded numbers and have been texting. Seems like she's been on for a while but her profile says Nov of this year. Meeting her Tuesday and will swap stories with anyone that has partaken.

Happy Hunting!

MC.Good luck.

Seen her profile online all the time. For some reason, she never interested me.

Report back after you give her a nice creampie.

Brennan1138
12-18-22, 01:24
You're not the only guy actively talking to her, I am sure there are a dozen other guys out there talking to her.

Some might even be fucking her while you're still in the talking stage. LOL.

But yeah, I agreed with you. She's not worth 300. Fuck, I even passed her for 200; while I fuck UConn and CCSU coeds for 150.Where are this so call coeds for 150. I want some LOL.

TopGun9
12-19-22, 10:18
She's back boys. Go get her LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2710bb9c-cd5e-4093-8bb2-bdc79beab4ab

TopGun9
12-19-22, 10:19
Where are this so call coeds for 150. I want some LOL.They're out there, go find them.

BigBoss203
12-19-22, 16:06
Has Katie improved?


She's back boys. Go get her LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2710bb9c-cd5e-4093-8bb2-bdc79beab4ab

TopGun9
12-19-22, 17:14
Has Katie improved?Never got with her. Looks like she might got a bit too much traffic for my liking.

TopGun9
12-19-22, 17:15
Any of you mongers in here talked to or met with her before?

Looks like she got some GPS bs going on.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2f093824-1072-44bf-9519-8e02b26cbda7

JonMels
12-20-22, 00:28
Any of you mongers in here talked to or met with her before?

Looks like she got some GPS bs going on.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2f093824-1072-44bf-9519-8e02b26cbda7When a girl has an adjective / noun combination like that, it's a fake / scam. AttractiveIngenue, AdorableChick, IntelligentAdventurer, etc.

Brennan1138
12-20-22, 07:17
She's back boys. Go get her LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2710bb9c-cd5e-4093-8bb2-bdc79beab4abI used to work with her. She is an ok lay and will have tons of excuses to blow you off.

Sutigel2
12-20-22, 09:13
When a girl has an adjective / noun combination like that, it's a fake / scam. AttractiveIngenue, AdorableChick, IntelligentAdventurer, etc.Usually the two words aren't something a young woman would use as her profile name, either. And they often just don't fit. ObscureTemptress. Artistic Socialite. Surprised Diva.

Obscure? LOL.

Kwagmire
12-20-22, 10:23
When a girl has an adjective / noun combination like that, it's a fake / scam. AttractiveIngenue, AdorableChick, IntelligentAdventurer, etc.Totally agree. I have NEVER had a connection with someone with that naming convention go anywhere. Either it's just a waste of time or eventually you find out that they want $$ upfront or gift cards or some other scam.

Not saying it's not possible that someone with that naming convention could be real, but my real-world experience has been that it should be a red flag that you're wasting your time or, if not careful, about to be scammed.

PopPoppy70
12-20-22, 11:57
Totally agree. I have NEVER had a connection with someone with that naming convention go anywhere. Either it's just a waste of time or eventually you find out that they want $$ upfront or gift cards or some other scam.

Not saying it's not possible that someone with that naming convention could be real, but my real-world experience has been that it should be a red flag that you're wasting your time or, if not careful, about to be scammed.Hmm. I had a great time with one of these adjective-noun girls just last week.

Gridge
12-20-22, 22:36
This one seems ok when you initially talk to her, but then starts asking for money and claims she's too busy to meet up. As BMD says Next!

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/bwoaV92O5KQPj9XAkBzevjlr

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/RkpZeDoYAM8ym770OaN6Wwx3

This one wouldn't stop texting. I kept asking her when she wanted to meet but she would dodge it. She finally asked for money for a pizza. Not entertaining that idea.

Sutigel2
12-21-22, 11:10
Hmm. I had a great time with one of these adjective-noun girls just last week.Which one?

TopGun9
12-21-22, 17:40
How fucking dumb are these bitches?

You out here looking for a sugar daddy, with another dude in your photo?

Who the fuck is going to waste their time on you?

https://members.seeking.com/member/47372df6-4a9d-4ea0-8952-dfaa7f9687e8

WilliamArthur
12-21-22, 20:18
Totally agree. I have NEVER had a connection with someone with that naming convention go anywhere. Either it's just a waste of time or eventually you find out that they want $$ upfront or gift cards or some other scam.

Not saying it's not possible that someone with that naming convention could be real, but my real-world experience has been that it should be a red flag that you're wasting your time or, if not careful, about to be scammed.I've had a long-term thing with one, which is still on-going and has included travel and days away. And numerous meet-ups with others who are using those "fake names. " So. Just saying. Don't judge a SB by her SA name.

PoonHound1969
12-21-22, 20:24
How fucking dumb are these bitches?

You out here looking for a sugar daddy, with another dude in your photo?

Who the fuck is going to waste their time on you?

https://members.seeking.com/member/47372df6-4a9d-4ea0-8952-dfaa7f9687e8Looks like she is advertising three sums with her dude.

Chudakkad
12-22-22, 05:11
Any of you mongers in here talked to or met with her before?

Looks like she got some GPS bs going on.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2f093824-1072-44bf-9519-8e02b26cbda7She setup an appointment to meet at Starbux few months back, kept on texting and then ghosted me while I sat there waiting for her, starts texting again few weeks later and I ignored her, out of blue on Thanksgiving she texts me at around 11 pm and asks if I would like to go for drinks, I ignored, she texted few days later and I told her since she ghosted me so I was not interested she apologized and begged to give her a second chance, she is not my type anyways.

DaReal86
12-22-22, 07:03
Quick rant about deposits. As of recently a lot of these girls want a small deposit to schedule with them. To which I have to say. Go fuck yourself! And to the guys that comply. You guys can go fuck yourself twice as much for enabling this type of behavior. Met a girl on SA that required a deposit for her time for her "own safety. " What a dumb b!tch for thinking I would fall for that. You're the one selling pu $$why, you have to be willing to take all the risks. As the great BMD would say, Next!

And to any man that does put a deposit. You're probably a cuck and deserved to get scammed. And then I hope that after you get scammed you come on here and read what I say about you and what a dumb cuck you are.

It's all about the money with these girls. You know, the money that's in YOUR bank account and YOUR wallet. It's about time we took control back.

Rant over! If this doesn't belong in this section please have it moved somewhere else.

Sutigel2
12-22-22, 07:13
I've had a long-term thing with one, which is still on-going and has included travel and days away. And numerous meet-ups with others who are using those "fake names. " So. Just saying. Don't judge a SB by her SA name.What are their names? Do they include ridiculous adjectives such as "obscure?

Sutigel2
12-22-22, 07:14
How fucking dumb are these bitches?

You out here looking for a sugar daddy, with another dude in your photo?

Who the fuck is going to waste their time on you?

https://members.seeking.com/member/47372df6-4a9d-4ea0-8952-dfaa7f9687e8Profile gone. Hmmm "clever" "actress". That combo of names sounds a little odd.

Big Mac Daddy
12-22-22, 09:47
You've hit a key point, also, concerning cash app usage: "It's all about the money with these girls. You know, the money that's in YOUR bank account and YOUR wallet. ".

For the girls, they love it because they're always on the receiving end. No risk.

You, as the sender, take on extra risk with your bank in addition to the girl doing the 'cashapp dance and dash'.

Like a casino, if you use it; be prepared to lose it.

BMD.

PopPoppy70
12-22-22, 12:55
Which one?Not about to divulge this information yet as I may still see her again next week.

PopPoppy70
12-22-22, 12:57
You've hit a key point, also, concerning cash app usage: "It's all about the money with these girls. You know, the money that's in YOUR bank account and YOUR wallet. ".

For the girls, they love it because they're always on the receiving end. No risk.

You, as the sender, take on extra risk with your bank in addition to the girl doing the 'cashapp dance and dash'.

Like a casino, if you use it; be prepared to lose it.

BMD.Also I just tell them I don't use venmo / cashapp etc. Just cash in hand always and definitely no prepays.

Gridge
12-22-22, 14:24
Quick rant about deposits. As of recently a lot of these girls want a small deposit to schedule with them. To which I have to say. Go fuck yourself! And to the guys that comply. You guys can go fuck yourself twice as much for enabling this type of behavior. Met a girl on SA that required a deposit for her time for her "own safety. " What a dumb b!tch for thinking I would fall for that. You're the one selling pu $$why, you have to be willing to take all the risks. As the great BMD would say, Next!

And to any man that does put a deposit. You're probably a cuck and deserved to get scammed. And then I hope that after you get scammed you come on here and read what I say about you and what a dumb cuck you are.

It's all about the money with these girls. You know, the money that's in YOUR bank account and YOUR wallet. It's about time we took control back.

Rant over! If this doesn't belong in this section please have it moved somewhere else.I never understand why anyone would give cash up front. It is a 100% guarantee they are going to scam you. Any girl that gets offended by the idea of us declining sending them a deposit should get a reality check. Meeting in a public place should be enough for them to not worry about anything happening. If they don't like the date they can just walk out. No one should be sending money. We all waste enough time just trying to get them to respond and be a real person to us.

WilliamArthur
12-23-22, 08:57
What are their names? Do they include ridiculous adjectives such as "obscure?They have silly adjective / noun names. But not going to divulge, as I'm still seeing one, and the other no longer want to be on SA. Sorry.

And TBH, wouldn't divulge names here anyway. I see way too much disrespect on the various posts. (And I don't mean you, I just mean in general.).

TopGun9
12-23-22, 10:27
Another scammer. Want Cashapp to prove you real and serious. Told her / him to go fuck a horse dick.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/2f9d2b83-c31d-4a7c-b994-0569e83feab8

JoeSchlosser1
12-23-22, 12:00
Hmm. I had a great time with one of these adjective-noun girls just last week.Those names are auto generated by the site. They can change them if they want, but some do, some don't. I wouldn't take it as a hard rule, but maybe an indication if they put some thought into their profile.

JackTaggart
12-25-22, 11:49
Those names are auto generated by the site. They can change them if they want, but some do, some don't. I wouldn't take it as a hard rule, but maybe an indication if they put some thought into their profile.Yeah, it's auto generated. I've found that judging a book / girl by the cover / picture works really well. Fakes are pretty easy to catch at this point. I have great luck with petite 22 to 26 year old ones that do not have perfect pictures. Also that have profiles older than a couple of weeks.

Gridge
12-25-22, 21:44
Found another one that seems good when you first start talking with her, but then she wants money upfront so she "feels safe" to meet. This was after we had talked about meeting in a public place. I made it clear before that I don't give out money before meeting. She claims she wasted a month with a guy who paid her nothing before trying to meet with her. Again just another sob story.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/XdyBZx98JOLMRyP5NYVKQEML

DecLoki
12-27-22, 17:59
Where are this so call coeds for 150. I want some LOL.Yeah seriously, care to PM some of them man? I just made a seeking and it's taking forever. I'd love to see what women you're taking about because I'm tired of the waiting and combing through profiles.

BigBoss203
12-28-22, 12:40
Out of curiosity, did anyone not get robbed by Natalia?

As I stated earlier this year, this chick took the money and ran away. Learned my lesson.

JackTaggart
12-28-22, 20:18
I forgot to post about Hayley.

Korean girl that recently moved to Hartford from MA. We talked a bit and transitioned to text. Seemed sincere and open minded. Said typically 500 ppm. I suggested just a quick intro, she bumped it down quite a bit. I agreed. Then she told me to pick her up later and said she is around Trinity college. Later, I confirmed with her. Then when it came to leave to pock her up. Crickets. I then got a random "hey" text late at night that I saw in the morning. I asked her what happened but no excuse or reason. Asked if I wanted to try again, and I agreed. I then confirmed 15 min before leaving, and she confirmed. Asked for address or location for pickup. Ghosted again.

Never asked for deposit or anything. Just ghosting 2 days in a row. Not sure if she's real, has anxiety, or maybe under the age she posted. Not worth a 3rd try. Blocked her.

Hayley.

413-xxx-2236.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0d0097d4-c79e-46db-b328-586b773ff2b6

X335.Sort of an update. Chatted on text on and off last 45 days. She followed up with me a few times over a few weeks but I was not around. We finally agreed on meeting in a public place and then taking things from there. About 90 minutes before the time I confirmed with her again and she asked if I would pick her up in Cheshire. She also wanted to confirm if 500 was good. I don't talk money and services online and it was also super high amount for not having met her. She offered 400 but I'm by no means desperate so I didn't want to proceed anymore.

I'd be curious if any one has met with her.

TopGun9
12-29-22, 15:29
Yeah seriously, care to PM some of them man? I just made a seeking and it's taking forever. I'd love to see what women you're taking about because I'm tired of the waiting and combing through profiles.LOL.

This game takes work. Good pussies take great efforts to find. They're out there.

Either you're not working hard enough, or need to work smarter.

Or if you can make it rain like Mayweather, then work won't be needed.

TopGun9
12-29-22, 15:53
This scammer is really bad at what she / he does.

Will send you explicit pics to get to get you to send them cashapp / venmo, etc.

https://members.seeking.com/member/bff3b958-fe60-4366-9cfb-45e978304b8f

If you have time to waste, blow up their number: ‪(203) 613-1214‬.

https://members.seeking.com/member/bff3b958-fe60-4366-9cfb-45e978304b8f

BigBoss203
12-30-22, 11:33
Since Messi won the world cup, has anyone been talking to this girl?

https://members.seeking.com/member/65910576-43f6-4491-8484-f995f29b95f5

Potholes774
12-30-22, 14:00
Hey guys, do any of you have info on this girl. I had to book a hotel to meet her but when I book hotels I never give out my room number just to verifying it was the really girl LOL but anyways I never saw her arrive. I did see 2 silver cop cars arrive and they just stood there in the parking lot. She asked me for a room number but I never gave it to her. I don't know if it was a coincidence or I was tripping so if anyone knows if she's legit I would appreciate it. I left before the cops did so I'm not sure if they stayed or looked around.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2f093824-1072-44bf-9519-8e02b26cbda7

Potholes774
12-30-22, 18:34
Hey guys, I just want to apologize for all the grammar errors I made in my recent post. My adrenaline was out the roof LOL I was going to blow job. I got nervous. But I hope you guys understood what I was asking.

Gridge
12-30-22, 20:21
LOL.

This game takes work. Good pussies take great efforts to find. They're out there.

Either you're not working hard enough, or need to work smarter.

Or if you can make it rain like Mayweather, then work won't be needed.Exactly this. Those that say they had overnight success are full of it. Those of us that have worked hard at it and had some good fortune have been able to have some fun. As for the girls we like and are seeing, most don't want to have a ton of guys chasing after them, so giving out their number wouldn't lead anywhere anyways. I'm sure we all have some who we had fun with but no longer see for various reasons. Those are the ones to ask about.

ILoveThatPoo
12-31-22, 08:53
Hey guys, I just want to apologize for all the grammar errors I made in my recent post. My adrenaline was out the roof LOL I was going to blow job. I got nervous. But I hope you guys understood what I was asking.1. I do not travel overly far to meet a new female because when she doesn't show or turns into a scam, I've wasted the hour one way trip. I limit myself to 30 minutes one way for a new female.

2. I never get a room ahead of time, unless I already know her and she is reliable.

3. SA insulates you from a sting. It was probably a coincidence but ALWAYS go with your gut instinct. It will save you more times, and the worst thing you lose out on as a piece of ass.

4. Vet your dates ahead of time more thoroughly through simple, fun, questioning. If she is so into you in the beginning she's fake. If she asks for a few bucks for any reason she's fake.

5. Always treat SA dates as if you were meeting a woman from a "regular " dating site. If she doesn't want to meet for a quick coffee or lunch or drink, she's either a professional or she's a fake. It's easy to go and get a room after having a cup of coffee or a glass of wine. Worst case scenario she doesn't show up for the date. You have a glass of wine by yourself and talk to the other ladies in the bar!

Poo.

Kwagmire
01-01-23, 14:14
1. I do not travel overly far to meet a new female because when she doesn't show or turns into a scam, I've wasted the hour one way trip. I limit myself to 30 minutes one way for a new female.

2. I never get a room ahead of time, unless I already know her and she is reliable.

3. SA insulates you from a sting. It was probably a coincidence but ALWAYS go with your gut instinct. It will save you more times, and the worst thing you lose out on as a piece of ass.

4. Vet your dates ahead of time more thoroughly through simple, fun, questioning. If she is so into you in the beginning she's fake. If she asks for a few bucks for any reason she's fake.

5. Always treat SA dates as if you were meeting a woman from a "regular " dating site. If she doesn't want to meet for a quick coffee or lunch or drink, she's either a professional or she's a fake. It's easy to go and get a room after having a cup of coffee or a glass of wine. Worst case scenario she doesn't show up for the date. You have a glass of wine by yourself and talk to the other ladies in the bar!

Poo.I would definitely "second" ALL of this advice, and especially #4 and #5. And never, ever pay her in any form to have coffee or a drink with you. Pick up the coffee or drink, of course (you're a gentleman, right? The more you can make the meet and greet feel like a friendly date helps most young non-pros with the cognitive dissonance they're experiencing when they're about to be paid to fuck) but there is no compensation for her time for the meet and greet. This time is the interview for BOTH of you see if the other is an ax murderer or otherwise misrepresented themselves. If you both choose to move forward and start the arrangement right away, then paying would be expected but NEVER until after the panties hit the floor.

Happy New Year, gents. My resolution is to raise my pussy standards!

JackTaggart
01-03-23, 20:54
If you meet up with this girl, use your big head instead of your little head like I did. I didn't take the value of the previous posts to heart. I only saw this pics and all the ones she kept sending me in snap. First flag. She said she lives in Wallingford, but when I ask where to pick her up, she says at her apt in Windsor.

I said I was 30 min away. She changed meeting spots a couple times but just across the street from each other. She started calling me on snap every 2 min to see how close I was. (Why didn't I turn around) I get there. She starts asking if I'm like Ted Bundy and going to kill her. I took it as a joke until she asked multiple tomes (around 15 no joke). We drive off, and she says she's freaked by the neighborhood. We drive away and she talks and talks and repeated the same things. Personal issues, self identity issues, locked out of her phone, jealous over sibling successes, and on and on. She starts to cry at one point. Said maybe we should turn around and she said no bc she wants to be a "bad girl" for once. Said she hadn't had sex in like 5 mo (seriously? I thought others met her).

Get to the hotel and into the room. She walks into the bathroom and then re-emerges wearing a sexy black garter and stockings. Holy shit she's hott. I forgot everything that happened up to that point. Asked me how she looked. Amazing. Then she started talking again. Pushed her on the bed and she shut up. Bra off. Panties and garter off. Got down to biz. Dfk, nipple play, daty and she had her hands all over my head. Switched to BBBJ. Average. But she went down to gag a couple times. Told me we can't go further without the cover. Covered up and went to town on her. Various positions mosh, k9, cg, etc. A good 45 min went by and blew in the bag.

We cleaned up. And I knew it was too good to be true. She said it was a mistake. She felt like a *****. She said I'm cute and she fell in love with me. WTF. Just said let's go. Went back to drop her off since I was short on time. All the way back she kept saying she's in love with me mixed with her repeated stories from before. Then a couple exits away, she says that I have serious problems. That she has a psych degree and she just knows and says I need counseling. We get to her spot, she says she loves me then starts to cry when she gets out.

Thought that was it. Then she snaps me all a bunch how she misses me and loves me and that we should go to the trampoline park tonight (I just left). Later she asks to came over to my place. Then she flips. Saying I have problems and used her and blah blah blah. Block.

Do yourself a favor. Don't bother with this one unless this is the craziness you crave in your life. No signs of demons but definitely deep mental health issues here.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c6727d4e-6e97-483d-9bc5-cd16905a5936Just had a date with her. More or less same experience. With her explanations for things I think I understand the different locations. She wanted my to drive her to Windsor from Wallingford after. I said no and we settled on dropping her off at the Meriden mall. I'd repeat, but I'm a little nutty, Much much better than anything I am seeing on stg.

Gridge
01-04-23, 14:51
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/ablzjDGqrJ4pq7VJ3Vdgkx7X

This girl wants $600 ppm. I tried negotiating and she cut me off instantly and that was that.

On to the next.

DozerDude
01-05-23, 18:12
I couldn't get my usual gift cards to work with Seeking anymore so I ended up paying using Google Play to join for a month. Everything seemed awesome. Next day my account was suspended because they say I disputed the charge, which I never did. The money came back to my google play account but I never disputed anything.

When I log in I get a message that in order to get my account back I need to contact support. I filled out their online form to create a case and have received replies a few times saying I need to call them. When calling them I get a voicemail so I leave a message and have yet to receive a call back. This has been going on for almost a month!

The good thing is that I'm not out any money, but I want my account back, I've had great success on that site.

Any ideas?

Kwagmire
01-07-23, 16:06
This one's real and responsive in conversation and seems to be DTF in a PPM kind of way, but then her GPS showed up and she wanted $1400 PER MEET and wouldn't budge.

Okayyyy. NEXT!

https://members.seeking.com/member/0e56f4a4-a77f-47f3-a3f6-a5422d17ca69

Sutigel2
01-10-23, 10:43
A number of years ago, there was a NY based "cuddling" agency with several girls in western mass. Because it was discussed on this board, I'll bring it up here. Basically the girls offered everything from nude cuddling to FS. Girls tended to be good looking.

One in particular, a thin and pretty blonde from Amherst, gave mind numbing porn worthy BBBJ. Alyssa was immensely skilled with gagging deep throat. Saliva everywhere. Just amazing sloppy head. She was supposedly BJ only (though I did fuck her once) and it was a pricey $200. Way too expensive, but looking back, I wish it were still available. I believe I saw her once on seeking, but other than that I have not seen her in several years. Perhaps she has cleaned herself up and moved on with her life. If anyone has info, and if she is still in the game, I'd love to hear.

ArchitexOne
01-11-23, 17:02
Been talking with this one all day and seems pretty cool. She has been on SA for a few years so does anyone have an info to share before I pull the trigger.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8f7e7e15-8cdc-4f3f-bc1a-ff97cfe3abfb

JackTaggart
01-11-23, 21:51
I couldn't get my usual gift cards to work with Seeking anymore so I ended up paying using Google Play to join for a month. Everything seemed awesome. Next day my account was suspended because they say I disputed the charge, which I never did. The money came back to my google play account but I never disputed anything.

When I log in I get a message that in order to get my account back I need to contact support. I filled out their online form to create a case and have received replies a few times saying I need to call them. When calling them I get a voicemail so I leave a message and have yet to receive a call back. This has been going on for almost a month!

The good thing is that I'm not out any money, but I want my account back, I've had great success on that site.

Any ideas?Can't help you with your actual question. But I did see elsewhere on the fourm that a "Green Dot" prepaid card has been working. Link is below. I am going to try in the next 30 days to switch my billing over to that, so will post if I get a positive result. Let us know if you end up trying one way or another though. I am thinking you would need to create a new account with a new email address, and maybe even connecting to a VPN or from your phone to sign up after clearing you cache.

https://www.greendot.com/

DarkClouds
01-11-23, 22:04
She was incredible. DM me if you'd like to share a few stories.


A number of years ago, there was a NY based "cuddling" agency with several girls in western mass. Because it was discussed on this board, I'll bring it up here. Basically the girls offered everything from nude cuddling to FS. Girls tended to be good looking.

One in particular, a thin and pretty blonde from Amherst, gave mind numbing porn worthy BBBJ. Alyssa was immensely skilled with gagging deep throat. Saliva everywhere. Just amazing sloppy head. She was supposedly BJ only (though I did fuck her once) and it was a pricey $200. Way too expensive, but looking back, I wish it were still available. I believe I saw her once on seeking, but other than that I have not seen her in several years. Perhaps she has cleaned herself up and moved on with her life. If anyone has info, and if she is still in the game, I'd love to hear.

TopGun9
01-12-23, 09:48
Can't help you with your actual question. But I did see elsewhere on the fourm that a "Green Dot" prepaid card has been working. Link is below. I am going to try in the next 30 days to switch my billing over to that, so will post if I get a positive result. Let us know if you end up trying one way or another though. I am thinking you would need to create a new account with a new email address, and maybe even connecting to a VPN or from your phone to sign up after clearing you cache.

https://www.greendot.com/Texted with her before. It didn't go anywhere, don't remember exactly why. Maybe she just wanted to do the dinner dates and stuffs before she let you fuck her. I am not on the site for dates LOL.

Good luck!

TG9.

TopGun9
01-12-23, 09:50
Can't help you with your actual question. But I did see elsewhere on the fourm that a "Green Dot" prepaid card has been working. Link is below. I am going to try in the next 30 days to switch my billing over to that, so will post if I get a positive result. Let us know if you end up trying one way or another though. I am thinking you would need to create a new account with a new email address, and maybe even connecting to a VPN or from your phone to sign up after clearing you cache.

https://www.greendot.com/I was banned from SA a few times.

The best way for me to get around this was to go to a Dunkin Donuts or Starbucks and use their public wifi to connect, when upgrading to premium membership.

Obviously, you want to use a new email and credit / prepaid card.

Hapcj7
01-12-23, 10:20
I was banned from SA a few times.

The best way for me to get around this was to go to a Dunkin Donuts or Starbucks and use their public wifi to connect, when upgrading to premium membership.

Obviously, you want to use a new email and credit / prepaid card.Hi there, Good info. I too was banned. When you say use a new email and does have to be from a different browser?. Like if I have AOL, can I use a different email from AOL, I do I have to use, say Yahoo, or gmail?. Also, when you say you upgraded at DD or Starbucks, how does it work afterwards?. Do you always go to those public places to check your account or do you check your account from your home once again?. I think they will see your IP addy if you check in from why our home wifi. And get banned?.

TopGun9
01-13-23, 18:15
Hi there, Good info. I too was banned. When you say use a new email and does have to be from a different browser?. Like if I have AOL, can I use a different email from AOL, I do I have to use, say Yahoo, or gmail?. Also, when you say you upgraded at DD or Starbucks, how does it work afterwards?. Do you always go to those public places to check your account or do you check your account from your home once again?. I think they will see your IP addy if you check in from why our home wifi. And get banned?.You can try a new AOL email. But I would suggest creating new Yahoo or Gmail emails.

It's only critical during the upgrade step, when they try to process your payment. This is where you want to connect using a public wifi so they can't track back to your IP and stuff.

So here's what I did:

1 - created new Gmail address.

2 - sign up to SA again with the new email, use different profile name, use different profile pic.

3 - browse around for a few weeks.

4 - went to Starbucks. Connect to their public wifi, downloaded the SA app, and upgraded to Premium using a new debit card I got from my bank. I never use this debit card with SA before.

5 - after I successfully upgraded to premium. I've been logging in to SA on both my app and my laptop from home with my home wifi, no issue.

Good luck!

Hapcj7
01-13-23, 20:54
You can try a new AOL email. But I would suggest creating new Yahoo or Gmail emails.

It's only critical during the upgrade step, when they try to process your payment. This is where you want to connect using a public wifi so they can't track back to your IP and stuff.

So here's what I did:

1 - created new Gmail address.

2 - sign up to SA again with the new email, use different profile name, use different profile pic.

3 - browse around for a few weeks.

4 - went to Starbucks. Connect to their public wifi, downloaded the SA app, and upgraded to Premium using a new debit card I got from my bank. I never use this debit card with SA before.

5 - after I successfully upgraded to premium. I've been logging in to SA on both my app and my laptop from home with my home wifi, no issue.

Good luck!Hi there,

Perfect, priceless info- Thank why ou.

Member #6467
01-22-23, 12:05
Hey guys, do any of you have info on this girl. I had to book a hotel to meet her but when I book hotels I never give out my room number just to verifying it was the really girl LOL but anyways I never saw her arrive. I did see 2 silver cop cars arrive and they just stood there in the parking lot. She asked me for a room number but I never gave it to her. I don't know if it was a coincidence or I was tripping so if anyone knows if she's legit I would appreciate it. I left before the cops did so I'm not sure if they stayed or looked around.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2f093824-1072-44bf-9519-8e02b26cbda7Ever try her again? What did she quote you?

Member #6467
01-25-23, 15:46
Outcall Enfield.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2710bb9c-cd5e-4093-8bb2-bdc79beab4ab

DarkClouds
01-25-23, 15:47
She's legit. Been around for years.


Outcall Enfield.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2710bb9c-cd5e-4093-8bb2-bdc79beab4ab

Deffekt
01-26-23, 01:40
Just had a date with her. More or less same experience. With her explanations for things I think I understand the different locations. She wanted my to drive her to Windsor from Wallingford after. I said no and we settled on dropping her off at the Meriden mall. I'd repeat, but I'm a little nutty, Much much better than anything I am seeing on stg.Saw her awhile ago. Went to dinner just could not stop talking. Fucked her twice real rough bareback cip and in mouth. Does anyone have any Indian sbs they want to share? I have a ton of white and Hispanic info to trade.

DarkClouds
01-26-23, 10:15
The location on her profile currently says California?


Saw her awhile ago. Went to dinner just could not stop talking. Fucked her twice real rough bareback cip and in mouth. Does anyone have any Indian sbs they want to share? I have a ton of white and Hispanic info to trade.

Member #6467
01-26-23, 10:58
Just had a date with her. More or less same experience. With her explanations for things I think I understand the different locations. She wanted my to drive her to Windsor from Wallingford after. I said no and we settled on dropping her off at the Meriden mall. I'd repeat, but I'm a little nutty, Much much better than anything I am seeing on stg.She's listed as California.

Techno2021
01-26-23, 11:11
Just had a date with her. More or less same experience. With her explanations for things I think I understand the different locations. She wanted my to drive her to Windsor from Wallingford after. I said no and we settled on dropping her off at the Meriden mall. I'd repeat, but I'm a little nutty, Much much better than anything I am seeing on stg.I saw her too, personally I would warn everyone not to see her at all. She is a disaster. She is mentally challenged. She keeps talking rubbish and she keeps blabbering things you won't understand. I took her to the hotel and then she suddenly stared a sod story about some other guy and then suddenly started saying she doesn't want to be raped here etc.

I immediately stopped and did not do the act at all. I decided to drop her back. Then she started shouting for money in the car. I threw cash at her and asked her to get off.

I bet she is ill, seriously ill and someone is going to go to jail because of her.

Steve 99
01-30-23, 23:01
Any of you guys get anywhere with her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3efd5245-bebe-499a-b2f5-ab3c339dd959

Kinda big. And those young ones can be trouble. She texted me her number when I was away. Haven't pursued.

DonnnyBravo
01-31-23, 12:35
I saw her too, personally I would warn everyone not to see her at all. She is a disaster. She is mentally challenged. She keeps talking rubbish and she keeps blabbering things you won't understand. I took her to the hotel and then she suddenly stared a sod story about some other guy and then suddenly started saying she doesn't want to be raped here etc.

I immediately stopped and did not do the act at all. I decided to drop her back. Then she started shouting for money in the car. I threw cash at her and asked her to get off.

I bet she is ill, seriously ill and someone is going to go to jail because of her.That's Rachel. Says "Woodland Hills" because she was in rehab for legal issues. She's been back since Christmas and the same self. At any given time, she could be in Wallingford, Windsor, Bristol, or Westbrook depending on what family member she's staying with.

She def has the issues. I saw her just the once, and she still hits me up on snap from time to time. Always asking to take her shopping at LV at the mall. She's always flipping different numbers at me from 4 to 7 for shopping and to get a room. Ill get a msg late at night asking for me to come see her. I say I can't and then she says she's getting ready and for me to send an uber. Then sends me pics in whatever outfit she just put on.

If you need some crazy in your life, she's dtf. Too much hassle for me.

TopGun9
01-31-23, 14:46
Any of you guys get anywhere with her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3efd5245-bebe-499a-b2f5-ab3c339dd959

Kinda big. And those young ones can be trouble. She texted me her number when I was away. Haven't pursued.I texted her months ago, never meet up.

I doubt that she's really 19. Might want to tread very cautiously here.

Eblan
02-03-23, 12:41
Any info on her? Profile is relatively new but the pics look familiar, thinking she might have had a profile under another name. Thanks!

https://members.seeking.com/member/26d82f9e-dd6a-41fa-9c52-8071bfc43fe5

OldPup
02-03-23, 13:22
Any info on her? Profile is relatively new but the pics look familiar, thinking she might have had a profile under another name. Thanks!

https://members.seeking.com/member/26d82f9e-dd6a-41fa-9c52-8071bfc43fe5Sadie is real, she's been on SA since October but she put up a new picture this week. She's fantastic, I highly recommend. She's a young college coed, very smart, magnetic personality, and a lot of fun.

I'd prefer not to kiss and tell anything more on here (sorry but I guess a real SB is different than a pro to me) but if you want more info maybe we can discuss over DM.

OldPup
02-03-23, 14:15
https://members.seeking.com/member/c5b0876e-5b18-4059-9cf1-0b2c7204f8be

99.66% sure this one is not real. Ten minutes after we were supposed to meet she / he texted me that she / he was at a gas station and needed me to cashapp $20 for gas.

She / he had already said that she / he was local so I offered to go the gas station and fill up the car. I did see a guy that I suspect was texting me but definitely not the girl in the pictures.

Be careful out there!

TopGun9
02-03-23, 14:46
Any info on her? Profile is relatively new but the pics look familiar, thinking she might have had a profile under another name. Thanks!

https://members.seeking.com/member/26d82f9e-dd6a-41fa-9c52-8071bfc43fe5Can you post her SA profile photo?

Link doesn't work for me.

Eblan
02-03-23, 15:00
Can you post her SA profile photo?

Link doesn't work for me.Sure, attached.

MyHobby
02-03-23, 17:48
https://members.seeking.com/member/c5b0876e-5b18-4059-9cf1-0b2c7204f8be

99.66% sure this one is not real. Ten minutes after we were supposed to meet she / he texted me that she / he was at a gas station and needed me to cashapp $20 for gas.

She / he had already said that she / he was local so I offered to go the gas station and fill up the car. I did see a guy that I suspect was texting me but definitely not the girl in the pictures.

Be careful out there!Some amazing camel toe right there.

Sutigel2
02-04-23, 19:51
https://members.seeking.com/member/c5b0876e-5b18-4059-9cf1-0b2c7204f8be

99.66% sure this one is not real. Ten minutes after we were supposed to meet she / he texted me that she / he was at a gas station and needed me to cashapp $20 for gas.

She / he had already said that she / he was local so I offered to go the gas station and fill up the car. I did see a guy that I suspect was texting me but definitely not the girl in the pictures.

Be careful out there!There are many reasons to believe that profile is fake.

MateoCast98
02-05-23, 01:24
She Prefered it raw. That was one kinky girl, probably the best head I ever had. Definitely one of the hottest girls I've ever banged. Emotionally unstable unfortunately, had her go off the rails on me a few times. She had a very romanticized view of what she was doing and felt she had to play the sexy, naughty, hooker part to the hilt.

I agree she had perfect tits before the enhancement. She always told me it was her dream to get them and I'd always recommend against it. Have to say that's a really nice pair.

Damn, I miss hittin that!Dude, can't believe I found this. I use to bang her too. She was incredible. I have her number, she said she doesn't work anymore. I'm hoping she breaks up with her bf so I can get that pussy one last time. She prob be super expensive. Mr Hobby any chance you can open up space in your inbox. I really want to ask something.

DarkClouds
02-05-23, 08:25
You would think that a girl like her would be brimming with confidence. But nope. Saw a video of her recently where was she was talking about all her problems.


Dude, can't believe I found this. I use to bang her too. She was incredible. I have her number, she said she doesn't work anymore. I'm hoping she breaks up with her bf so I can get that pussy one last time. She prob be super expensive. Mr Hobby any chance you can open up space in your inbox. I really want to ask something.

Eblan
02-05-23, 11:26
You would think that a girl like her would be brimming with confidence. But nope. Saw a video of her recently where was she was talking about all her problems.It's a shame her OF is so tame, she's pornstar level hot.

MyHobby
02-06-23, 10:25
Dude, can't believe I found this. I use to bang her too. She was incredible. I have her number, she said she doesn't work anymore. I'm hoping she breaks up with her bf so I can get that pussy one last time. She prob be super expensive. Mr Hobby any chance you can open up space in your inbox. I really want to ask something.Inbox cleaned up.

MyHobby
02-06-23, 10:27
You would think that a girl like her would be brimming with confidence. But nope. Saw a video of her recently where was she was talking about all her problems.There is an hour long interview on YouTube with her by some unknown podcaster.

Jason1910
02-06-23, 15:33
This scammer is really bad at what she / he does.

Will send you explicit pics to get to get you to send them cashapp / venmo, etc.

https://members.seeking.com/member/bff3b958-fe60-4366-9cfb-45e978304b8f

If you have time to waste, blow up their number: ‪(203) 613-1214‬.

https://members.seeking.com/member/bff3b958-fe60-4366-9cfb-45e978304b8fI met her in person down in Stamford. Just hold the line, follow your safety rules.

TopGun9
02-06-23, 17:22
I met her in person down in Stamford. Just hold the line, follow your safety rules.Nice. Glad you had fun with her.

TopGun9
02-06-23, 17:29
Sure, attached.I did chat with her before. Never went anywhere.

Was trying to set up day / time to meet and she went silence.

ArchitexOne
02-08-23, 10:30
I recently re joins SA after a year off and it seems everyone that I talk to the going rate is 400 per visit. That seems a bit high as just a few years ago it was 200-250. I know inflation is crazy but still seems a lot. Is that what everyone else is seeing.

JackTaggart
02-08-23, 11:48
I recently re joins SA after a year off and it seems everyone that I talk to the going rate is 400 per visit. That seems a bit high as just a few years ago it was 200-250. I know inflation is crazy but still seems a lot. Is that what everyone else is seeing.I am seeing both prices but very different experiences. 400 to 500 is getting me a very long date usually with overnight with mid 20's very petite educated with no drug issues. Take out, hanging out, and other fun. 200 is getting me a more quick date.

I am pretty picky, but that's been my experience.

MateoCast98
02-08-23, 17:58
It's a shame her OF is so tame, she's pornstar level hot.I would do anything to get her back. She could legit be a top pornstar in 3-6 months if she took that route. She is completely in love with her bf tho. Thus looks like there is no chance atm.

MateoCast98
02-08-23, 18:00
There is an hour long interview on YouTube with her by some unknown podcaster.It really explained alot about her. She was somewhat reserved personality-wise. But, sexually this girl was. A freak and down to try anything.

MyHobby
02-08-23, 20:52
I would do anything to get her back. She could legit be a top pornstar in 3-6 months if she took that route. She is completely in love with her bf tho. Thus looks like there is no chance atm.She shot some porn while in Connecticut. Some type of casting video. I never got to see it but she told me all about it.

MateoCast98
02-09-23, 09:29
She shot some porn while in Connecticut. Some type of casting video. I never got to see it but she told me all about it.Looking back now, I really should have filmed some stuff, taken her on trips like a sugarbaby and really enjoyed her. Damn, I would love to see that, her OF stuff is kinda boring.

PopPoppy70
02-11-23, 18:17
I was bored and my partner was away for a few days so I joined seeking to see what's going on. Met up with two lovely ladies and had good times, names withheld as I will probably see them again.

But get a load of this one. I suspected it wouldn't get far but we got to texting and she says 3 k. I thought 3 k per month is a little steep so I double checked with her. Actually its 3 k per meet. I had a good laugh at the one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fd806972-d887-4fb0-bd75-21ceb218c7ed

Sutigel2
02-12-23, 10:09
I am seeing both prices but very different experiences. 400 to 500 is getting me a very long date usually with overnight with mid 20's very petite educated with no drug issues. Take out, hanging out, and other fun. 200 is getting me a more quick date.

I am pretty picky, but that's been my experience.Pretty accurate. I have seen two girls from seeking over the last year.

One, whom is now in another state, was $400 ppm. She was working on an advanced degree and graduated. Very smart, great conversation. She hosted. Hung out. Drank. GFE. All bare. Great sex. GFE. Multiple pops. Extended visits. She enjoyed herself, for sure. The $400 ppm was worth it for the experience.

The other is $150 ppm, recently bumped to $200. (Inflation) Also hosts. Sometimes the visits can be a bit longer, but often not a lot of small talk. I sit on her couch, watch a little tv. Try to make some small talk. After a couple minutes she's rubbing junior, then it's BBBJ. Then she turns around for cfs. Out in 30 minutes, more often than not!

ArchitexOne
02-12-23, 11:11
Avoid this one she will just take your money and then no show when you make arrangements. I made the rookie mistake by paying a portion up front but the text communication was really good and I didn't get the rip off vibe. Live and learn.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9532c90c-6b9f-4f96-826b-242dc312aa38

https://members.seeking.com/member/c2378c45-7bb1-433c-94b6-a3aad302f6c2

ArchitexOne
02-12-23, 11:32
Anyone have any info on her. Been texting and seems legit but have learned that lesson the hard way.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ff06a391-d0ec-4a23-b70f-2c00eba396a3

Kwagmire
02-12-23, 13:14
I have an SA girl I've been seeing for almost two years at $200.

Most of the new girls I've been hitting up seem to want 4-500. It's going to take someone really special to get me to commit to that kind of change on the regular.

I wish these girls would think more long term My $200 girl has made literally THOUSANDS from me and I have no interest in stopping anytime soon. The girls who are charging 500/ meet, with all the BS of being paid for the meet and greet etc. Are getting exactly $0 from me. Maybe they're getting $500 from some stupid guys, but I bet it's not long term.

Think about it, she has to reinvent the wheel with every guy: Reply on SA, move to text, chat for a while (and most of the time those conversations fizzle out with no payoff, so she must start over), maybe go on the meet and greet, negotiate with the guy (who may just want to fuck her once at that rate), set up the logistics of the meeting and then hang out, go through all the first date shenanigans, nervousness and jitters (i.e. am I meeting up with an ax murderer?), eventually have sex and get paid. Sounds like a lot of work over and over.

Compare that to my 200 girl. One first meeting, reasonable price, and now that's out of the way it's just shoot over a text, agree on a time, get together and we both have great sex for a few hours with great orgasms (they do get better once you know someone, especially for women). Two years later, thousands of extra dollars in the bank for literally zero work except for the pleasure of getting laid with a guy she knows and trusts.

I've also learned the 6's and 7's on SA are most of the time WAY better options than the hot ones. Hot ones are most of the time either entitled, have GPS or fake. Exceptions exist, of course (Emma Kotos, I am so sad I never had the chance to get with her, especially pre-boob job).

Girls are dumb, LOL but I love them!

TopGun9
02-13-23, 16:13
Girls are dumb, LOL but I love them!LOL.

Many of these girls on SA are not that bright to begin with. They don't think long term like that, nor are they capable of thinking logically and rationally most of the times.

But hey, I love fucking them too.

Yuk Phu
02-14-23, 09:56
LOL.

Many of these girls on SA are not that bright to begin with. They don't think long term like that, nor are they capable of thinking logically and rationally most of the times.

But hey, I love fucking them too.When you're able to find their personal details (FB, etc.) with only minimal effort, that tells you something about their intelligence. But that also is a clue that they're probably the most fun to plow. The smarter ones can be fun but they can also just be manipulators that may not be worth the effort.

Sutigel2
02-15-23, 11:44
When you're able to find their personal details (FB, etc.) with only minimal effort, that tells you something about their intelligence. But that also is a clue that they're probably the most fun to plow. The smarter ones can be fun but they can also just be manipulators that may not be worth the effort.Some good points. There is SOME truth to this but not absolute. I have had four girls from seeking that I have spent extensive time with over the past four years or so. I think a 7 point smart / crazy matrix could be useful. All four were easy to find on social media and find other info on (arrests, etc.) Sometimes the smart ones are the best in bed! Crazy also helps there.

Girl 1: Intelligence 3:7 crazy 5/7. Was above average looking, has lost some looks. Very good in bed. Almost no limits, but not always genuinely enthusiastic. Fantastic head. Substance abuse and legal issues.

Girl 2: intelligence 6, crazy 4. Had just graduated from an elite university. Not great looking. Solid performance in bed. Very willing.

Girl 3: intelligence 6, crazy 4. A bit older. Above average face and body. Was pursuing an advanced degree. Fantastic in bed, but had some limits (no butt stuff), but one of the best lays I ever had. Fantastic dirty talker. Liked it rough, too. Very enthusiastic.

Girl 4: intelligence 6, crazy 5. College freshman and hot with low self esteem. A satisfactory lay, prob not as good as it could have been due to lack of experience. Her profile was actually her name b.

All were easy to verify. Some of these girls are very, very smart. Just not a lot of common sense. Or they were a bit crazy and didn't care. All were somewhat manipulative, but who isn't. The one who barely graduated high school sent the same texts as the brainiacs. "I miss you! When are you coming to visit me?" One difference is that it's possible that girl 3 maybe was somewhat sincere (at least for a bit), while girl 4 was very sincere when she texted that she missed me. Way too sincere! The manipulation came later in the relationship and in other ways.

Sorry if rambling. The point is: I saw some "dumb" behavior from people who were very high functioning. I saw manipulation from all of them. They were all fun to plow, but I'd say enthusiasm and experience factored into that more than intelligence.

Next I might need to come up with a 7 point hotness / good in bed matrix.

Sutigel2
02-15-23, 11:53
Joined for the first time in two years. Thankfully I have some numbers left over from the past, and have been able to survive off of those. I have a business trip coming up in a couple weeks and decided to make some connections in another city, so I joined the site again. While researching the other city, I, of course, decided to check out what is going on locally. Not much!

A lot has changed in two years! It was getting bad before, now it is REALLY bad. In about a week, I have only felt the urge to message three locals (one of whom I messaged and texted with in the past). I had only messaged one local prior to yesterday. (That was the girl I had talked to before. She hadn't logged in for two weeks) Both girls I messaged yesterday have said they would text. Only one has, and she's not been extremely talkative.

The site is filled with scammers and bots. Moreso than before. I get a ton of messages from the fakes. There are also obvious fakes that I don't message.

Really limited out there, at least for the girls who interest me.

ArchitexOne
02-15-23, 14:39
Anyone have any info on her. Been texting and seems legit but have learned that lesson the hard way.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ff06a391-d0ec-4a23-b70f-2c00eba396a3Forget about this one. For 400 I would just get to have sex and that it. BJ was extra, Titty fucking those massive tits were extra. If I wanted to go down on her it was extra. For 500-700 it was unlimited including anal. Not even close to being worth it. Passed.

FireBalls420
02-15-23, 22:39
https://skipthegames.com/posts/fairfield/female-escorts/caucasian_w/-lets-have-some-rated-x-down-a/957148372101

https://members.seeking.com/member/53bc26cd-2742-4a05-9d29-616b665392c6

This is an escort. B careful.

DarkClouds
02-15-23, 22:53
No need to join unless you wish to blaze your own trail. I could connect you to the 5-10 good ones I know of in the area. Others could probably do the same.


Forget about this one. For 400 I would just get to have sex and that it. BJ was extra, Titty fucking those massive tits were extra. If I wanted to go down on her it was extra. For 500-700 it was unlimited including anal. Not even close to being worth it. Passed.

Kwagmire
02-16-23, 06:37
I think a 7 point smart / crazy matrix could be useful. <snip> Next I might need to come up with a 7 point hotness / good in bed matrix.Somebody on the internet has already gotten a good start on this kind of thing (funny, but also actual good mindset info):

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pInk1rV2VEg

Sutigel2
02-16-23, 07:23
Somebody on the internet has already gotten a good start on this kind of thing (funny, but also actual good mindset info):

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pInk1rV2VEgYes LOL. That's where I got the idea. Fuck around / Find out, matrix too. I fucked around, I found out.

Sutigel2
02-16-23, 09:37
https://members.seeking.com/member/e0fe861c-0ee9-4b1b-a2c1-877bd3cd17e9

I always get a laugh when I see this crew appear on my feed. Anyone ever contact them? Are they actually real? WTF are they looking for? 32 years old? Look closer to 62! And how posed all the pictures are! Especially the one where they are standing together. Such an awkward pose by the dude, he is tending up his right arm so much. 😂.

BigBoss203
02-16-23, 20:37
I went up as much as $600, still wants $50 to be dropped off for a babysitter.

Scammer.


Anyone have any info on her. Been texting and seems legit but have learned that lesson the hard way.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ff06a391-d0ec-4a23-b70f-2c00eba396a3

BigBoss203
02-16-23, 20:41
She shared her pics and I expected something else.

Seems legit and is down to meet but I'm passing.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fd2f4564-4239-44d3-8a4b-0b62a6a91366

Sutigel2
02-17-23, 10:36
She shared her pics and I expected something else.

Seems legit and is down to meet but I'm passing.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fd2f4564-4239-44d3-8a4b-0b62a6a91366I don't need to see her awful pics! Her attitude in the profile is enough for me. Who does she think she is? Terrible attitude.

Brennan1138
02-17-23, 13:56
No need to join unless you wish to blaze your own trail. I could connect you to the 5-10 good ones I know of in the area. Others could probably do the same.I wouldn't mind a connect with one who is reliable that I could see on the regular.

BigBoss203
02-20-23, 12:23
If you want a regular, reach out to Veebug. BBFS, BBBJ, civ, etc.

Treat her well.

https://members.seeking.com/member/bbd16dd0-efa0-4f4e-9717-6a017eb82f57


I wouldn't mind a connect with one who is reliable that I could see on the regular.

Jjags88
02-20-23, 15:04
If you want a regular, reach out to Veebug. BBFS, BBBJ, civ, etc.

Treat her well.

https://members.seeking.com/member/bbd16dd0-efa0-4f4e-9717-6a017eb82f57What's her going rate?

BigBoss203
02-20-23, 17:05
$200-$300. Pretty sure you can negotiate it as you wish.


What's her going rate?

Tommy13
02-20-23, 22:27
If you want a regular, reach out to Veebug. BBFS, BBBJ, civ, etc.

Treat her well.

https://members.seeking.com/member/bbd16dd0-efa0-4f4e-9717-6a017eb82f57I could never get her to text me back or firm up plans.

Yuk Phu
02-21-23, 10:10
I could never get her to text me back or firm up plans.Ditto. Sent her a chat and crickets. What's her club? Maybe show up and work something out.

Tommy13
02-21-23, 18:35
Ditto. Sent her a chat and crickets. What's her club? Maybe show up and work something out.I am betting it's Keepers given her location but who knows. Not sure if showing up out of the blue is a great idea, but that's just me. Maybe that's a good way to link up with her.

Yuk Phu
02-21-23, 19:52
I am betting it's Keepers given her location but who knows. Not sure if showing up out of the blue is a great idea, but that's just me. Maybe that's a good way to link up with her.Thanks. Doubt she'd recognize me anyway. I do get up that way enough so worth a shot.

DaReal86
02-22-23, 22:04
If you want a regular, reach out to Veebug. BBFS, BBBJ, civ, etc.

Treat her well.

https://members.seeking.com/member/bbd16dd0-efa0-4f4e-9717-6a017eb82f57"if you want a regular" LOL, yes if you want to regularly jerk off because she will constantly ghost you after setting a time and date. Jokes aside though what's the secret password? I've seen her a total of about 3-4 times over the past couple years and this was with about 10 dates set.

PopPoppy70
02-23-23, 11:16
I was seeing Tempting Girl for a while but I've decided to end and move on to a new hot chickie. BBFS, CIM, 300 ppm all good but she's just not my type.

https://members.seeking.com/member/044781b0-7c5c-4aba-802a-9f8a054a7c91

BigBoss203
02-23-23, 21:55
You're not the only one.


"if you want a regular" LOL, yes if you want to regularly jerk off because she will constantly ghost you after setting a time and date. Jokes aside though what's the secret password? I've seen her a total of about 3-4 times over the past couple years and this was with about 10 dates set.

ThatWhiteGuy12
02-24-23, 09:37
I'm about to join. I'm looking for a regular, with a rando here and there. Is that going to be possible to find on SA? I see the profiles you guys post and they look decent. I just want to make sure I find what I'm looking for. TIA.

BigBoss203
02-24-23, 20:04
Look for Veebug.


I'm about to join. I'm looking for a regular, with a rando here and there. Is that going to be possible to find on SA? I see the profiles you guys post and they look decent. I just want to make sure I find what I'm looking for. TIA.

BigBoss203
02-24-23, 20:04
I guess I came on to strong to her. She left me on read.


I was seeing Tempting Girl for a while but I've decided to end and move on to a new hot chickie. BBFS, CIM, 300 ppm all good but she's just not my type.

https://members.seeking.com/member/044781b0-7c5c-4aba-802a-9f8a054a7c91

ThatWhiteGuy12
02-26-23, 22:11
Look for Veebug.Awesome thank you. Can chance for her number? If not I'll wait till I sign up.

Yuk Phu
02-27-23, 10:49
I guess I came on to strong to her. She left me on read.Saw her once and am good. She's OK but thicker than a snicker. Her pics are misleading. At least there's no belly hang which is a definite turnoff. She said no to BBFS but said it could be an option after getting to know me. Overall decent service but not something I'd keep as a first option. But that's just me.

DaReal86
02-27-23, 21:28
https://members.seeking.com/member/f2186a32-7fd0-4d30-a0b5-4c984280192e Noticed she is back on SA. Could be had for $$$ or double that and have a fun threesome with a friend from her stable (she has all sorts of friends).

Hapcj7
02-27-23, 22:44
Dareal, can you claer your inbox please?. Tried to message you).

DaReal86
03-01-23, 20:27
Dareal, can you claer your inbox please?. Tried to message you).Cleared. Try now.

Hapcj7
03-02-23, 12:07
Cleared. Try now.PM sent to inbox. TY.

CTGucci
03-05-23, 18:39
Can someone please PM me veebugs #?

JoeSchlosser1
03-05-23, 18:41
https://members.seeking.com/member/f2186a32-7fd0-4d30-a0b5-4c984280192e Noticed she is back on SA. Could be had for $$$ or double that and have a fun threesome with a friend from her stable (she has all sorts of friends).Can you comment on the price?

Batman203
03-06-23, 08:34
Cleared. Try now.Hey Dareal86. Just sent a PM. Could you reply back? Thanks.