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[PussyPumper]

A regular topic is how SA track users, so as to enforce bans. Indeed I have posted on the subject several times previously.

We have always known for sure that SA track the obvious stuff; IP addresses, credit card numbers, etc.

Today I can confirm for certain that SA employ Canvas Fingerprinting, which they attempt whenever you upload a photo. This fingerprinting technique is described in this Wiki article.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Canvas_fingerprinting

[SeaTownGuy]

Joined on New Year's Eve.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6d64e11d-b378-4ee0-91b3-46d0508d5467

Mature former porn star. I think she is also on one or both of the Rub site, or PD at present. Well known on the former local site.

Interesting to finally see what she looks like - face was censored on previous/other sites.She was on the site a couple months ago. She lives in a recovery center. Talks about 'sneaking out'.

[HelloYouAre]

https://www.seeking.com/member/98880570-7e81-4f5a-b660-e429603fe274

Anyone have any info or experience with this sugar baby? Asking for a friend of course. LOL.

[HelloYouAre]

This one always gets banned and comes back. She's pretty blunt on her messages and to me that's a red flag. Any intel on this one gentlemen?

https://www.seeking.com/member/ee5d4c73-a7fe-4509-86a4-88273ae2e18f

[JcelChakas]

I've been thinking of finally meeting one up over there, but the excitement hasn't been more than the calculated risk for me. I heard Musas agency is a great way to meet young hotties, but I'd like to meet up with a non pro. Let me know if you have any luck.What's that and how do I get in touch?

[HelloYouAre]

What's that and how do I get in touch?http://www.scortads.com/

Here's the link to that. Try using Google Search for answers to things like this in the future. I found it myself very easily after typing, "Musas Escort" on Google and boom, first link at the Top. Best of luck out there!

[PussyPumper]

This one always gets banned and comes back. She's pretty blunt on her messages and to me that's a red flag. Any intel on this one gentlemen?

https://www.seeking.com/member/ee5d4c73-a7fe-4509-86a4-88273ae2e18fNever contacted her. All her photos are of the type used by women trying to disguise just how big they are. Fat.

[PussyPumper]

What's that and how do I get in touch?Just use duckduckgo.

[Waxxon]

Decided to re-up and:

https://www.seeking.com/member/35e164cd-71d1-4234-8827-1eff96164b08

This one starts texting, a bit spotty and then wants to meet. Said her past SDs gave her 500, I said that's too much so she says she is ok with 250. Get her to agree to 200 and wants to meet up. During my drive over, she asks for cashapp because she got in trouble with counterfeit bills. First off that is bs, I would never pay in advance. I don't have cashapp so I cancel our meet up. Then says she'll accept visa gift card. She won't give me her address, only a street intersection and won't come out until I take a picture of the card. I don't fall for this scam and head home. Be careful with this one.

https://www.seeking.com/member/54d23e14-5ec6-43e5-8663-4ec6c0d5bb4d

Had some contact with this sb, actually reconnected from 3 yrs ago since I saw her profile reappear recently. We had some fun times back then and she couldn't recall why we stopped our arrangement. My recollection was she was more of a hit and run sb. We get together, take care of business and see you next time. Was semi tolerable at 200, but other SBs gave much more time effort companionship etc. Now she's asking for 450, case closed. Maybe someone else here can give her what she wants.

One last pot sb, got to texting and set up a date. Then she wants me to send 100 to buy game cards and groceries for her son. Not a chance. She goes off on a tirade about how selfish I am etc etc etc. That was enough, I block her number. I don't have a link because she either blocked my profile or closed her acct.

Overall, nothing good to report. Have a few other POT I'm texting with but it's been spotty, they send a text, I respond and then I don't hear back for hours or days.

[PussyPumper]

Decided to re-up and:
............

Overall, nothing good to report. Have a few other POT I'm texting with but it's been spotty, they send a text, I respond and then I don't hear back for hours or days.You Sir, are obviously a gentleman of refinement and taste. Nice looking SBs, I would hit those myself!

Did you have to pay the increased fee when re-signing up?

As for the quality of the women having declined, unfortunately I have to agree. I will never forget the spring of my first year as a member, it seemed that every freshman sorority sister in San Diego had signed up on SA! I seriously believe it must have been a sorority hazing ritual or initiation test that year.

But the current line up does not look at all like that. Now full of Instagram posers, Cashapp scamers and OnlyFans wanabees – not the real-deal coeds I lust after.

[Waxxon]

Managed to upgrade before the first of the year. Quality has definitely taken a nose dive. Could be a combo of factors. Social media wannabe darlings, Wuhan, colleges aren't fully operational, BS advisors on you tube saying guys will pay to watch them stuff their pie holes or be a good listener etc. There still are some SBs out there, but much harder to track down.

[JcelChakas]

I just signed, and I remember it being better a few years ago. How much better was it precovid and how good do you think it's going to get once lock down is over?

[SDsd619]

Long time lurker, first time poster. Have been using SA for 3 years with no problems until tonight. Got a message from a QT, starting texting, first red flag was she wanted to meet tonight, like immediately, but after seeing her pics and determining she was down for CIP for 3 bills, I let my drive get the better of me. Meet her outside "Her place" in mission valley, we start walking, she asks me for the $ first which is red flag #2, I should've known better, no cash up front, but it had been awhile I had a CIP, so ya know. Anyway here's pics since her profile might be deleted since I reported her ass. Profile name she was going by is RefillsAreFree, says her name is "Steph". Stay frosty out there fellas, this veteran SD just got finessed for 3 bills. Ugh.

[SDsd619]

Forgot to say what exactly happened, after she asked for the allowance, I hesitated, saying I'd give it to her inside, then she's giving some sob story about how SHE had been robbed from the site before, I blew right thru that warning sign too. I handed her the envelope, started to trail behind a little bit then did a runner and hopped into a waiting get away car. Car was too far away to get license #. Cautionary tale, fellas.


Long time lurker, first time poster. Have been using SA for 3 years with no problems until tonight. Got a message from a QT, starting texting, first red flag was she wanted to meet tonight, like immediately, but after seeing her pics and determining she was down for CIP for 3 bills, I let my drive get the better of me. Meet her outside "Her place" in mission valley, we start walking, she asks me for the $ first which is red flag #2, I should've known better, no cash up front, but it had been awhile I had a CIP, so ya know. Anyway here's pics since her profile might be deleted since I reported her ass. Profile name she was going by is RefillsAreFree, says her name is "Steph". Stay frosty out there fellas, this veteran SD just got finessed for 3 bills. Ugh.

[JcelChakas]

Long time lurker, first time poster. Have been using SA for 3 years with no problems until tonight. Got a message from a QT, starting texting, first red flag was she wanted to meet tonight, like immediately, but after seeing her pics and determining she was down for CIP for 3 bills, I let my drive get the better of me. Meet her outside "Her place" in mission valley, we start walking, she asks me for the $ first which is red flag #2, I should've known better, no cash up front, but it had been awhile I had a CIP, so ya know. Anyway here's pics since her profile might be deleted since I reported her ass. Profile name she was going by is RefillsAreFree, says her name is "Steph". Stay frosty out there fellas, this veteran SD just got finessed for 3 bills. Ugh.How do we report scammers?

[SDsd619]

On SA, it's next to the heart icon on the person's profile page, the 3 dots dropdown box. In general, posting their profiles here.


How do we report scammers?

[PussyPumper]

Says it straight out on her profile.

https://www.seeking.com/member/df7821fa-34e9-4786-a28f-cd7f0c35366e

Perhaps some kind gentleman can take care of her needs?

[NDaniels14]

Long time lurker, but first time really posting. I've been on SA for sometime now over the last 3 years but unfortunately I'm not sure why I've been banned quite a few times. Every time I ask its because of what I post. Now even when I use another account to sign up and including use a VPN on my phone with wifi off I still get banned instantly as soon as I input a payment information using a brand new vanilla gift card.

I take all the additional precautions I believe but if theres another way to make it work, please let me know!

[HelloYouAre]

Says it straight out on her profile.

https://www.seeking.com/member/df7821fa-34e9-4786-a28f-cd7f0c35366e

Perhaps some kind gentleman can take care of her needs?Yeah, I saw that too. My scam sensors are on full alert haha I doubt she posted that. Woman don't talk like that on seeking arrangements.

[SeaTownGuy]

Best to just browse past GingerGrrly. Sent a message and said she only is seeking extremely successful and physically fit. I asked to clarity and she said she only talks with people who make over $1 m a year.

She pretty much is looking for an actor or a model.

[RogerOver]

Best to just browse past GingerGrrly. Sent a message and said she only is seeking extremely successful and physically fit. I asked to clarity and she said she only talks with people who make over $1 m a year.

She pretty much is looking for an actor or a model.That's funny. She looking for bank statements or something? Like they say: Show me a super hot chick, and I'll show you some guy that's sick of her bullshit.

[JWalker350]

Long time lurker, first time poster. Have been using SA for 3 years with no problems until tonight. Got a message from a QT, starting texting, first red flag was she wanted to meet tonight, like immediately, but after seeing her pics and determining she was down for CIP for 3 bills, I let my drive get the better of me. Meet her outside "Her place" in mission valley, we start walking, she asks me for the $ first which is red flag #2, I should've known better, no cash up front, but it had been awhile I had a CIP, so ya know. Anyway here's pics since her profile might be deleted since I reported her ass. Profile name she was going by is RefillsAreFree, says her name is "Steph". Stay frosty out there fellas, this veteran SD just got finessed for 3 bills. Ugh.She is no longer on SA.

[DanteHaversham]

https://www.seeking.com/member/e4cb2171-d650-478a-ae5f-9ad184958b21

Well planned scam. Has you get lyft. Acts nervous. Gets money or in my case part up front. Says left purse at home. Call from lyft driver has her purse. Go to retrieve she bolts.

And before the flaming comes I know what I'm doing. Got stung this is a public service announcement.

[PussyPumper]

https://www.seeking.com/member/e4cb2171-d650-478a-ae5f-9ad184958b21

Well planned scam. Has you get lyft. Acts nervous. Gets money or in my case part up front. Says left purse at home. Call from lyft driver has her purse. Go to retrieve she bolts.

And before the flaming comes I know what I'm doing. Got stung this is a public service announcement.Wow, you were fast, she only joined yesterday!

- Was she the girl in the photos?

- For reference, can you say what sum you agreed on? Important to understand what amount they / she will take the risk for.

But in general, I think the more explicit they are, the bigger the chance they are a scam of some sort. In this case, she says she is open to double anal (DAP), and wants your last drop. Never, ever seen DAP on SA before! How come SA are allowing that? They banned me more than once for much softer allusions.

I guess I should say that the girl down for a gangbang and DP (my post #1767) is likely also a scam of some sort.

[HelloYouAre]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f3617a78-3f70-4fa2-bf3b-b00caa9de17c

Had a very nice experience with this 19 yo, tall, long legs and all natural. She was a bit far from me since she's up in North San Diego but was able to travel to me. She was well worth the price of admission!.

[PussyPumper]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f3617a78-3f70-4fa2-bf3b-b00caa9de17c

Had a very nice experience with this 19 yo, tall, long legs and all natural. She was a bit far from me since she's up in North San Diego but was able to travel to me. She was well worth the price of admission!.She lists 40 as an upper age limit. I know, I know, may not mean much, but I tend to take women at their word.

[HelloYouAre]

She lists 40 as an upper age limit. I know, I know, may not mean much, but I tend to take women at their word.Good morning. How old are you if you don't mind me asking?

[KingBaby]

Good morning. How old are you if you don't mind me asking?


https://www.seeking.com/member/f3617a78-3f70-4fa2-bf3b-b00caa9de17c

Had a very nice experience with this 19 yo, tall, long legs and all natural. She was a bit far from me since she's up in North San Diego but was able to travel to me. She was well worth the price of admission!.More importantly: How much was the admission? ;)

[HelloYouAre]

More importantly: How much was the admission? ;)Four of my Benjamin Franklin buddies. Yeah I'm on the younger side so I'm sure her ad that says 40 or under is what she's looking for too. I just enjoy sharing the good ones I find. I might give her a call this week for round 2.

[Waxxon]

Was in contact with another Pot this weekend. Got to negotiating, I inquired how much is she asking for. Her response, whatever I can afford. What? She can't be serious. I offer 150 and she says "awesome" Now I'm really suspicious of the situation. We set up a date and then she hits me up for cashapp. Haha. I don't have cashapp and ask what's wrong with cash. Gives me the same sob story I heard a couple weeks ago. Someone gave her counterfeit money and men can't be trusted. She asks for half up front before meeting. LOL with that, ghosts me and blocks me. User I'd is xlaxvidaxlocax beware of this scam. Never give $ up front before meeting unless you like throwing money away.

[Waxxon]

Got a response, some texting and set up a meet up with https://www.seeking.com/member/a49ddd79-10b4-4bd5-a122-11807cd5fed1 Started to discuss details, and she is asking for 450/ mo for 2 dates. Not bad, not bad. As I clarify the terms, I ask about FC. She says after a month or so when she is comfortable and there is a connection. OK, sure and I'm not comfortable giving allowance until you are comfortable earning it. No hunny, no munny. Starts complaining that guys always give her ppm just for dinner dates. Then go ahead, go to all those other guys. Hit her up guys and let her know how the bowl works.

[RyanE36]

Getting a bunch of girls with hot pics messaging me and asking for my number saying they want to meet up tonight. I respond back with something other than my number and they start trying to entice me to give them my number saying they'll start texting me pics and stuff if I send it to them, or that they'll be able to meet tonight if I send them their number. Some look pretty hot, but I'm assuming they're fake pics? I've got a second phone number, but it's not exactly a burner phone that I don't mind throwing away the number for.

Am I right to assume it's some sort of scam? Especially since some of these girls are a good distance aways?

[PussyPumper]

Getting a bunch of girls with hot pics messaging me and asking for my number saying they want to meet up tonight. I respond back with something other than my number and they start trying to entice me to give them my number saying they'll start texting me pics and stuff if I send it to them, or that they'll be able to meet tonight if I send them their number. Some look pretty hot, but I'm assuming they're fake pics? I've got a second phone number, but it's not exactly a burner phone that I don't mind throwing away the number for.

Am I right to assume it's some sort of scam? Especially since some of these girls are a good distance aways?Either.

A. Scam, or.

B. Desperate. It is start of month, and rent is due or overdue! But beware, the desperate can often turn out to be robs (typically runners).

You really should get a burner number. Textfree and Google voice are both free options, though I personally avoid Google, as they are too good at connecting dots. If you give them a burner number, you can then sit back and see if they ask for cashapp or money in advance, in which case it is a scam for sure. If not then may be desperate - but they are notorious for robs.

In general, I tend to avoid the meet today types, as probably either scam or robs. However, I do talk to them, both to improve my knowledge base, and who knows, if there are no other red flags, you may have found a genuine girl who simply needs some assistance right away.

You can also post links to profiles here, for a second opinion.

[Pay to Play]

Was in contact with another Pot this weekend. Got to negotiating, I inquired how much is she asking for. Her response, whatever I can afford. What? She can't be serious. I offer 150 and she says "awesome" Now I'm really suspicious of the situation. We set up a date and then she hits me up for cashapp. Haha. I don't have cashapp and ask what's wrong with cash. Gives me the same sob story I heard a couple weeks ago. Someone gave her counterfeit money and men can't be trusted. She asks for half up front before meeting. LOL with that, ghosts me and blocks me. User I'd is xlaxvidaxlocax beware of this scam. Never give $ up front before meeting unless you like throwing money away.If it sounds to good to be true it likely is. What you have described here are common scams. Never give money before you meet and I don't pay until we are naked or after the deed. You learn the hardway in this game and you will be burned. Accept that as a risk. But try to protect yourself and limit your exposure. That's why I would never invite a new girl to my place. Be smart and be willing to walk away if it doesn't feel right. I have turned and walked a few times even after entering the room.

[PussyPumper]

Got a response, some texting and set up a meet up with https://www.seeking.com/member/a49ddd79-10b4-4bd5-a122-11807cd5fed1 Started to discuss details, and she is asking for 450/ mo for 2 dates. Not bad, not bad. As I clarify the terms, I ask about FC. She says after a month or so when she is comfortable and there is a connection. OK, sure and I'm not comfortable giving allowance until you are comfortable earning it. No hunny, no munny. Starts complaining that guys always give her ppm just for dinner dates. Then go ahead, go to all those other guys. Hit her up guys and let her know how the bowl works.Profile not available.

[RyanE36]

Either.

A. Scam, or.

B. Desperate. It is start of month, and rent is due or overdue! But beware, the desperate can often turn out to be robs (typically runners).

You really should get a burner number. Textfree and Google voice are both free options, though I personally avoid Google, as they are too good at connecting dots. If you give them a burner number, you can then sit back and see if they ask for cashapp or money in advance, in which case it is a scam for sure. If not then may be desperate - but they are notorious for robs.

In general, I tend to avoid the meet today types, as probably either scam or robs. However, I do talk to them, both to improve my knowledge base, and who knows, if there are no other red flags, you may have found a genuine girl who simply needs some assistance right away.

You can also post links to profiles here, for a second opinion.Thanks for the tip Textfree was super easy to set up.

And yeah, not sure if it was a scam or not, but wanted $550 plus uber. Could bring a friend for another 550.

What is everyone's thoughts on the girls that don't talk about money, they tend to be a little flirty, and after a few days of chatting say they want to meet. No mention of money / allowance or anything. In my mind, they put on the appearance that they're actually interested in you. My guess, not being a pro at SA, is that they're realistic about how this works. I'm decent looking, so I got that going for me I guess. But at least one of these girls is all like "you seem like a great guy, I don't get why you're on this site". "I'd love to meet you sometime. " That last message was yesterday, I responded back interested in meeting as well, but she hasn't been online since.

Anyone ever meet & greet and just have a nice time, paid for the coffee or whatever, but nothing else came out of it and no other money lost? I've seen a few profiles saying they're interested in something leading to marriage, and one girl said her best friend just got engaged from the site, so she's also hoping to find a long term relationship. I have no plans on meeting up with ether of them.

[Koolbeans]

Thanks for the tip Textfree was super easy to set up.

And yeah, not sure if it was a scam or not, but wanted $550 plus uber. Could bring a friend for another 550.

What is everyone's thoughts on the girls that don't talk about money, they tend to be a little flirty, and after a few days of chatting say they want to meet. No mention of money / allowance or anything. In my mind, they put on the appearance that they're actually interested in you. My guess, not being a pro at SA, is that they're realistic about how this works. I'm decent looking, so I got that going for me I guess. But at least one of these girls is all like "you seem like a great guy, I don't get why you're on this site". "I'd love to meet you sometime. " That last message was yesterday, I responded back interested in meeting as well, but she hasn't been online since.

Anyone ever meet & greet and just have a nice time, paid for the coffee or whatever, but nothing else came out of it and no other money lost? I've seen a few profiles saying they're interested in something leading to marriage, and one girl said her best friend just got engaged from the site, so she's also hoping to find a long term relationship. I have no plans on meeting up with ether of them.I am sure you could find someone and they might be genuinely interested in you, but don't get married in CA. Community property state and divorce is half plus child support if you have any. I'm going through it at the moment and going to cost mid 6 figures. I've been on dates for lunch and dinner to gauge interest, but most seem to be interested in just talking. No money out of my pocket other than paying for the meal and time. I would never pay them in advance or just to meet like another poster mentioned that he doesn't pay until panties are off or after deed as another one had a runner. I've found that it takes too much of my time to coordinate on SA and have my regulars that offer GFE and are available with no games. I'll keep trying to find an ideal arrangement, but it is just a dream in my head at the moment. I can't wait to get the vaccine and travel again. I might try out Medellin in the future.

[Waxxon]

Profile not available.Just another fake who was trying to stiff anyone foolish enough to give her $.

[Waxxon]

Received some responses from these Pot. Haven't closed deal, or ironing out details, playing some message tag.

https://www.seeking.com/member/23a1594d-dd0a-4cf4-88eb-99b7f8cd9a29

https://www.seeking.com/member/cb5d6080-f389-48b7-8ad9-28553d8c49cb

https://www.seeking.com/member/d4575500-39a1-4e76-8025-60598a47e15b

https://www.seeking.com/member/8af1d05a-8624-4ee1-9024-80913eeafb3f

[KingBaby]

Received some responses from these Pot. Haven't closed deal, or ironing out details, playing some message tag.

https://www.seeking.com/member/23a1594d-dd0a-4cf4-88eb-99b7f8cd9a29

https://www.seeking.com/member/cb5d6080-f389-48b7-8ad9-28553d8c49cb

https://www.seeking.com/member/d4575500-39a1-4e76-8025-60598a47e15b

https://www.seeking.com/member/8af1d05a-8624-4ee1-9024-80913eeafb3fThe 1st 1, Alicat619, seems like she's spamming lots of people.

[PussyPumper]

Received some responses from these Pot. Haven't closed deal, or ironing out details, playing some message tag.

https://www.seeking.com/member/23a1594d-dd0a-4cf4-88eb-99b7f8cd9a29

https://www.seeking.com/member/cb5d6080-f389-48b7-8ad9-28553d8c49cb

https://www.seeking.com/member/d4575500-39a1-4e76-8025-60598a47e15b

https://www.seeking.com/member/8af1d05a-8624-4ee1-9024-80913eeafb3f1st. She rules herself out, I don't have photos.

2nd. I loath tattoos.

3rd. Has cats.

4th. Says nothing, nothing a all, about herself or what she wants.

[PussyPumper]

And yeah, not sure if it was a scam or not, but wanted $550 plus uber. Could bring a friend for another 550.

What is everyone's thoughts on the girls that don't talk about money, they tend to be a little flirty, and after a few days of chatting say they want to meet. No mention of money / allowance or anything. In my mind, they put on the appearance that they're actually interested in you. My guess, not being a pro at SA, is that they're realistic about how this works. I'm decent looking, so I got that going for me I guess. But at least one of these girls is all like "you seem like a great guy, I don't get why you're on this site". "I'd love to meet you sometime. " That last message was yesterday, I responded back interested in meeting as well, but she hasn't been online since.
This is all quite usual.

Key $$ point is that asks are just that. An opening bid, in hopes of catching a whale. Most of these women will settle for at least half off of list price. (Not all, but most).

As for those that don't talk money straight off. Those are the best ones, the real, traditional SBs! Any girl who talks money in first or second message is obviously pro or semi-pro.

[FarFarAway]

1st. She rules herself out, I don't have photos.

2nd. I loath tattoos.

3rd. Has cats.

4th. Says nothing, nothing a all, about herself or what she wants.I looked at that last profile, I'd consider her a good prospect (for what I am looking for). The lack of content is not a problem. To me that indicates pliability. When I am messaging with a girl, I can tell her what I am looking for / or persuade her that what I typically do is good for her. Pliability to me means fun in the sack, so many of the real SBs are submissive, they want to know what will please you. Even when they don't say that in their profiles. This one doesn't have any of the real strong tells for subs that I look for, but still, I'd definitely spend some time on that one if I were in SD county. She's cute, just that one tat, she's not out on the stroll.

[RyanE36]

This is all quite usual.

Key $$ point is that asks are just that. An opening bid, in hopes of catching a whale. Most of these women will settle for at least half off of list price. (Not all, but most).

As for those that don't talk money straight off. Those are the best ones, the real, traditional SBs! Any girl who talks money in first or second message is obviously pro or semi-pro.One wants to meet up this weekend. I've read stories here about some guys doing a meet and greet that turns into them going back to her place or a hotel. And in some cases they give the girl a gift even if she doesn't ask, and in other cases they say they just paid for coffee. If I'm lucky and end up with someone that doesn't ask, is it best to not offer anything? Or do you offer? Like I don't want to offend, at the same time if she's awesome and kind of expect a gift, perhaps not giving might make her never come back?

What do why'all think?

[AJaxer11]

One wants to meet up this weekend. I've read stories here about some guys doing a meet and greet that turns into them going back to her place or a hotel. And in some cases they give the girl a gift even if she doesn't ask, and in other cases they say they just paid for coffee. If I'm lucky and end up with someone that doesn't ask, is it best to not offer anything? Or do you offer? Like I don't want to offend, at the same time if she's awesome and kind of expect a gift, perhaps not giving might make her never come back?

What do why'all think?I've dipped my finger in the sugar world a few times in the past. I think it honestly depends on the intention. If I was just trying to hit her up for booty calls or hookups, I wouldn't really bother. But if I was meeting with a girl who I wanted more than that (hanging out, dinners, parties, clubs, whatever) I would bring something. It just depends on what you are aiming to do. But even something simple as a candle, bottle of wine, is always going to put you in their good side. Nothing to lose there.

[DerekDaKid]

Signed up for SA on Monday of this week and by this Sunday I had already fucked the shit out of two chicks and met about four different ones. Loving the sheer number of options on this site as well as the PSE level treatment I've been getting at rates I would normally pay for escorts.

Chick #1 - 22 why / o Hispanic Chick 5'7 (7/10).

Indicated she was looking for fun on her profile. Promptly messaged her regarding a PPM arrangement. She very quickly responded saying she was indeed interested. Exchanged numbers and shared photos. After seeing my photos she quickly called me handsome and called me twice getting me to agree to a meet the same night and I agreed after my other much hotter POTs were unavailable.

Met up at the mall and she very quickly took the PPM ($300) and sucked / fucked me in the parking lot in the back of my car. Everything covered so it was lame. Had her ride me and suck me with a condom on, finished in her mouth with a condom on. Forgettable experience. She left after I came to "take care of her child". I blocked her as she was not only on the lower end (maybe a 6. 5-7) but she just left and wasn't honest about her intentions of leaving and not coming back. First bang off SA I'd give it a solid 5/10.

Chick #2 - 22 why / o POT (8. 5/10) Hispanic.

Met up for a M&G at night no compensation, smoked a joint with her and spit some game at her. She really enjoyed my company and hung out with me for about 4 hours until I called the night announcing I was leaving. Had to flake on her because I met a much younger and hotter chick, might bang later.

Chick #3 - 19 why / o SB (9/10) Hispanic.

Spoke to her on the phone and we really vibed since we were the same horoscope and she seemed to think I was funny. Arranged a M&G the next day and ended up taking longer than I expected. She kept me waiting and wasn't ready until a whole three hours after scheduled M&G time. With that being said I was about to call it quits until she gave me her address and I came and swooped. We shot the shit and walked around, with me holding her by the waist. After a bunch of flirting she hinted that she was curious as to what it would be like to kiss me and how she has never had a younger SD. Made out with her in the car and she indicated she doesn't fuck on the first sugar date, basically shit testing me. I ignored and kept making out with her, she eventually gave in and wanted to ride me but first wanted to agree on a PPM number. I offered 300 and she said astounded "you really want to fuck me for only $300"? After some negotiating I get her to agree to $400 and by then she says ok. I go to get more money from my ATM and leave her in my car once I come back she complains that I left her there by herself so she hailed an uber home. She was acting really bratty and I put her in her place telling her I have so many options I don't have to deal with her shit. We proceed to have wild sex in the back of my car as she was so surprised that I genuinely did not give a fuck. She tried to get me to put non a rubber but I replied I didn't have any because the costco Trojan pack I kept in my car ran out from fucking too many SBs. She proceeded to let me BBBJ, BBFS and CIP in her was a really wild fuck. I licked her asshole at the end of it and she was so fucking turned on by it, pretty sure next time I'll be able to CIA with 99.9% confidence. Real PSE level experience with an SB for 4 bills which got me 3. 5 hours of her time.

[Pay to Play]

Interesting with only one post here you leave such a glowing review of a specific site with actually no specifics except for you bragging. Yes SA can yield results and I do use it often. But reality is you will pay on average 300-400 for a date and you have to host or provide a room. There are tons off scams. So you have to weed through that. There are women who have no idea that they will be expected to put out. There are women who are just looking to have their ego groomed with no intent to meet. There are women who expect 1000+ per date. There are scams who want you to wire them money. And yes if you make it through all of that, there are women who will give you BBFS. I have dates ranging from 200 to 450. I have been burned a few times. But I get wiser and play the long game. But my skeptical hat off to you for being so successful and resourcefull in only one weekend.


Signed up for SA on Monday of this week and by this Sunday I had already fucked the shit out of two chicks and met about four different ones. Loving the sheer number of options on this site as well as the PSE level treatment I've been getting at rates I would normally pay for escorts.

Chick #1 - 22 why / o Hispanic Chick 5'7 (7/10).

Indicated she was looking for fun on her profile. Promptly messaged her regarding a PPM arrangement. She very quickly responded saying she was indeed interested. Exchanged numbers and shared photos. After seeing my photos she quickly called me handsome and called me twice getting me to agree to a meet the same night and I agreed after my other much hotter POTs were unavailable.

Met up at the mall and she very quickly took the PPM ($300) and sucked / fucked me in the parking lot in the back of my car. Everything covered so it was lame. Had her ride me and suck me with a condom on, finished in her mouth with a condom on. Forgettable experience. She left after I came to "take care of her child". I blocked her as she was not only on the lower end (maybe a 6. 5-7) but she just left and wasn't honest about her intentions of leaving and not coming back. First bang off SA I'd give it a solid 5/10.

Chick #2 - 22 why / o POT (8. 5/10) Hispanic.

Met up for a M&G at night no compensation, smoked a joint with her and spit some game at her. She really enjoyed my company and hung out with me for about 4 hours until I called the night announcing I was leaving. Had to flake on her because I met a much younger and hotter chick, might bang later.

Chick #3 - 19 why / o SB (9/10) Hispanic.

Spoke to her on the phone and we really vibed since we were the same horoscope and she seemed to think I was funny. Arranged a M&G the next day and ended up taking longer than I expected. She kept me waiting and wasn't ready until a whole three hours after scheduled M&G time. With that being said I was about to call it quits until she gave me her address and I came and swooped. We shot the shit and walked around, with me holding her by the waist. After a bunch of flirting she hinted that she was curious as to what it would be like to kiss me and how she has never had a younger SD. Made out with her in the car and she indicated she doesn't fuck on the first sugar date, basically shit testing me. I ignored and kept making out with her, she eventually gave in and wanted to ride me but first wanted to agree on a PPM number. I offered 300 and she said astounded "you really want to fuck me for only $300"? After some negotiating I get her to agree to $400 and by then she says ok. I go to get more money from my ATM and leave her in my car once I come back she complains that I left her there by herself so she hailed an uber home. She was acting really bratty and I put her in her place telling her I have so many options I don't have to deal with her shit. We proceed to have wild sex in the back of my car as she was so surprised that I genuinely did not give a fuck. She tried to get me to put non a rubber but I replied I didn't have any because the costco Trojan pack I kept in my car ran out from fucking too many SBs. She proceeded to let me BBBJ, BBFS and CIP in her was a really wild fuck. I licked her asshole at the end of it and she was so fucking turned on by it, pretty sure next time I'll be able to CIA with 99.9% confidence. Real PSE level experience with an SB for 4 bills which got me 3. 5 hours of her time.

[KingBaby]

Signed up for SA on Monday of this week and by this Sunday I had already fucked the shit out of two chicks and met about four different ones. Loving the sheer number of options on this site as well as the PSE level treatment I've been getting at rates I would normally pay for escorts.

Chick #1 - 22 why / o Hispanic Chick 5'7 (7/10).
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Chick #2 - 22 why / o POT (8. 5/10) Hispanic.
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Chick #3 - 19 why / o SB (9/10) Hispanic.
...Glad to hear your success. SA is a great, we all love it & we all know it. Please post links or their I'd Handles so that we all can get better together.

[DanteHaversham]

https://www.seeking.com/member/390ddc59-aa0b-4a2f-9e44-d5d7293e6d23

We were talking seemed to be vibbing brought up a meet and greet, then the I need cahs app to make sure you're serious bs.

[FarFarAway]

Interesting with only one post here you leave such a glowing review of a specific site with actually no specifics except for you bragging. Yes SA can yield results and I do use it often. But reality is you will pay on average 300-400 for a date and you have to host or provide a room. There are tons off scams. So you have to weed through that. There are women who have no idea that they will be expected to put out. There are women who are just looking to have their ego groomed with no intent to meet. There are women who expect 1000+ per date. There are scams who want you to wire them money. And yes if you make it through all of that, there are women who will give you BBFS. I have dates ranging from 200 to 450. I have been burned a few times. But I get wiser and play the long game. But my skeptical hat off to you for being so successful and resourcefull in only one weekend.If it was me at that age and had any game at all, I'd be ashamed. Now, I'm in Medicare but I have done several of those 19 and 20 YO girls too. LOL. It's my kink to have younguns, it's their kink to have a 'daddy'. That's one important part of the dynamic on SA.

[DerekDaKid]

If it was me at that age and had any game at all, I'd be ashamed. Now, I'm in Medicare but I have done several of those 19 and 20 YO girls too. LOL. It's my kink to have younguns, it's their kink to have a 'daddy'. That's one important part of the dynamic on SA.Hahaha shots fired, well it all depends on the circumstances of course. With covid it's a bit hard to go out to go and party / go clubbing not to mention that this all takes hours and hours of time with no guarantee of getting any action. I'm way too busy to go through spending all that time with no guaranteed results so the premium of a sugar baby is worth it. SA vs vanilla hooking up to me is like ordering DoorDash vs going out catching your own fish, gutting it, cleaning it, and frying it -the former is way more convenient and saves so much time there's a buffet of young hot girls way out of my league just waiting to have a good time.

The best thing about SA I noticed is although you have to deal with some people leaving you on read or wanting absurdly high PPM, scammers, etc like everyone else mentioned you just next them and keep moving on and after sending maybe 10 messages within a couple of hours you can find at least 2-3 good ones who are down to meet up the same / next day so it's addicting instant gratification.

[DerekDaKid]

https://www.seeking.com/member/98880570-7e81-4f5a-b660-e429603fe274

Met this one up for hot times last night. Damage was three benjis. Picked her up from her house and parked my range rover in a park before we went at it. Hung out from like 9 PM-3 AM. It was even more wild than my last experience as soon as I gave her the cash she just yanked my pants down and went to town on a sloppy wet BBBJ. She did that for a solid 15 minutes and it took everything in me to not just explode in her little mouth. She then got on top of me and started riding me uncovered, she had told me in advance that she had test results and she did not want to get fucked with a condom on because she said it ruins the sensation. I happily obliged and let her ride me uncovered, she was a real freak holding the back of my head screaming out "papi" and all kinds of shit in Spanish. We hit it in doggy and then mish after, during mish I just couldn't take it anymore and just dumped my load in her tight little pussy.

Quickly realized that was a fuck up as she told me she wasn't on BC and she was planning on swallowing my cum and not taking a load up her so we frantically drove around trying to find a 24/7 CVS so I could get her plan B. Once that was settled we found another spot and agreed that I would give her a chance to taste my cum so then went for round 2 more BBBJ and CG she is like a fuck machine and just pumps your cock raw. This time I knew I wasn't going to dump my second load in her pussy so I pulled her off right before I was about to splooge and pulled her by her hair onto my cock and she sucked me super sloppy spit flying everywhere stroking my cock and just full on swishing my balls with her tongue before going back onto the shaft and deep throating me no hands until CIM. I came way harder the second time around right into her waiting mouth and tongue. She didn't immediately swallow, once I finished cumming in her mouth she sat up and scooted up right onto my chest / arm looking up before gargling "look daddy" and slowly pushing the cum out of her mouth to where it flowed a bit out of her mouth past her lips until she sucked it all right back and swallowed it, proudly opening her mouth right after and sticking her tongue out with not a drip still in there.

[Koolbeans]

https://www.seeking.com/member/98880570-7e81-4f5a-b660-e429603fe274

Met this one up for hot times last night. Damage was three benjis. Picked her up from her house and parked my range rover in a park before we went at it. Hung out from like 9 PM-3 AM. It was even more wild than my last experience as soon as I gave her the cash she just yanked my pants down and went to town on a sloppy wet BBBJ. She did that for a solid 15 minutes and it took everything in me to not just explode in her little mouth. She then got on top of me and started riding me uncovered, she had told me in advance that she had test results and she did not want to get fucked with a condom on because she said it ruins the sensation. I happily obliged and let her ride me uncovered, she was a real freak holding the back of my head screaming out "papi" and all kinds of shit in Spanish. We hit it in doggy and then mish after, during mish I just couldn't take it anymore and just dumped my load in her tight little pussy.

Quickly realized that was a fuck up as she told me she wasn't on BC and she was planning on swallowing my cum and not taking a load up her so we frantically drove around trying to find a 24/7 CVS so I could get her plan B. Once that was settled we found another spot and agreed that I would give her a chance to taste my cum so then went for round 2 more BBBJ and CG she is like a fuck machine and just pumps your cock raw. This time I knew I wasn't going to dump my second load in her pussy so I pulled her off right before I was about to splooge and pulled her by her hair onto my cock and she sucked me super sloppy spit flying everywhere stroking my cock and just full on swishing my balls with her tongue before going back onto the shaft and deep throating me no hands until CIM. I came way harder the second time around right into her waiting mouth and tongue. She didn't immediately swallow, once I finished cumming in her mouth she sat up and scooted up right onto my chest / arm looking up before gargling "look daddy" and slowly pushing the cum out of her mouth to where it flowed a bit out of her mouth past her lips until she sucked it all right back and swallowed it, proudly opening her mouth right after and sticking her tongue out with not a drip still in there.

She cuddled and just chilled for a bit chatting about what her past experiences on the site were like and how by pure coincidence how we both ended up both knowing two girls that I had met through tinder years ago.

With that being said YMMV she said she absolutely hates older white men and always blocks them immediately upon seeing their picture.Damn that is what I call a report. I chat with her through an app, but never set anything up as she was vague on her expectations. I prefer women that know what they want even though it might be out of my price range. She has a phat booty and shares vids of her 420 all day, everyday. I might have to hit her up one day. I love CIP and when it gets wet and wild hard to pull out. I'll have to see if she wants to do a hotel since the car / truck seems kind of risky and don't want my vehicle smelling like perfume and badussy.

[DerekDaKid]

Damn that is what I call a report. I chat with her through an app, but never set anything up as she was vague on her expectations. I prefer women that know what they want even though it might be out of my price range. She has a phat booty and shares vids of her 420 all day, everyday. I might have to hit her up one day. I love CIP and when it gets wet and wild hard to pull out. I'll have to see if she wants to do a hotel since the car / truck seems kind of risky and don't want my vehicle smelling like perfume and badussy.Haha you have her on Snapchat too? I find it odd that's what you think about her as she was very direct when I first spoke to her over the phone about wanting bare cock and one of the first things she asked me when we met up was where we were going to fuck.

[DRaj123]

Signed up in seeking 3 days back.

Saw this last night https://www.seeking.com/member/3090774b-0060-4871-a2ac-d65422e31706.

2 hours for 3 benjies. OK time.

No great time. All covered.

She is bit germophobic so any kissing or oral not allowed.

She looks better than her pics though.

Good to talk to though.

I was expecting better but may be next one.

[FarFarAway]

Signed up in seeking 3 days back.

Saw this last night https://www.seeking.com/member/3090774b-0060-4871-a2ac-d65422e31706.

2 hours for 3 benjies. OK time.

No great time. All covered.

She is bit germophobic so any kissing or oral not allowed.

She looks better than her pics though.

Good to talk to though.

I was expecting better but may be next one.You got what I'd call a UTR escort. A real sugar baby doesn't have a menu or a time limit. You can do so much better. Hold your fire.

[GoldenBooy102]

Hahaha shots fired, well it all depends on the circumstances of course. With covid it's a bit hard to go out to go and party / go clubbing not to mention that this all takes hours and hours of time with no guarantee of getting any action. I'm way too busy to go through spending all that time with no guaranteed results so the premium of a sugar baby is worth it. SA vs vanilla hooking up to me is like ordering DoorDash vs going out catching your own fish, gutting it, cleaning it, and frying it -the former is way more convenient and saves so much time there's a buffet of young hot girls way out of my league just waiting to have a good time.

The best thing about SA I noticed is although you have to deal with some people leaving you on read or wanting absurdly high PPM, scammers, etc like everyone else mentioned you just next them and keep moving on and after sending maybe 10 messages within a couple of hours you can find at least 2-3 good ones who are down to meet up the same / next day so it's addicting instant gratification.She looks good as hell. She's definitely right up my alley.

[RogerOver]

Signed up in seeking 3 days back.

Saw this last night https://www.seeking.com/member/3090774b-0060-4871-a2ac-d65422e31706.

2 hours for 3 benjies. OK time.

No great time. All covered.

She is bit germophobic so any kissing or oral not allowed.

She looks better than her pics though.

Good to talk to though.

I was expecting better but may be next one.


You got what I'd call a UTR escort. A real sugar baby doesn't have a menu or a time limit. You can do so much better. Hold your fire.Meh. If the girls sell / rent their coochie for cash, regardless of the time limit, they're hookers. I know we like to pretend it's not the same thing, but it is. You have a naive hooker on your hands and should enjoy it while you can. I agree you should shop around for the best option, though.

I'd submit that a "real" (if you want to call it that) sugar baby is one that you're keeping exclusively set up and paying her living expenses. But even then, they're still a well-kept hooker.

[Jedi69]

Signed up in seeking 3 days back.

Saw this last night https://www.seeking.com/member/3090774b-0060-4871-a2ac-d65422e31706.

2 hours for 3 benjies. OK time.

No great time. All covered.

She is bit germophobic so any kissing or oral not allowed.

She looks better than her pics though.

Good to talk to though.

I was expecting better but may be next one."Someone who is not looking for an escort and can afford a sugar baby. You get all my loving baby".

I bet she said that to you, and her 12 other sugar daddies. You are all exclusively fucking a sugar baby and not an escort LOL.

[DRaj123]

Meh. If the girls sell / rent their coochie for cash, regardless of the time limit, they're hookers. I know we like to pretend it's not the same thing, but it is. You have a naive hooker on your hands and should enjoy it while you can. I agree you should shop around for the best option, though.

I'd submit that a "real" (if you want to call it that) sugar baby is one that you're keeping exclusively set up and paying her living expenses. But even then, they're still a well-kept hooker.Most of the girls asking for 500 ppm.

Most of the pics are misleading.

I hunt for beautiful girls only and difficult to find.

Also I am looking for ppm not allowances as I don't repeat girls usually.

[DRaj123]

Most of the girls asking for 500 ppm.

Most of the pics are misleading.

I hunt for beautiful girls only and difficult to find.

Also I am looking for ppm not allowances as I don't repeat girls usually.Most of the girls are basically whoring their body. In one way or another but they want to feel good hence are in seeking.

I totally understand this and I am not mistaken about this fancy term sugar baby.

[DerekDaKid]

Signed up for SA on Monday of this week and by this Sunday I had already fucked the shit out of two chicks and met about four different ones. Loving the sheer number of options on this site as well as the PSE level treatment I've been getting at rates I would normally pay for escorts.

Chick #1 - 22 why / o Hispanic Chick 5'7 (7/10).

Indicated she was looking for fun on her profile. Promptly messaged her regarding a PPM arrangement. She very quickly responded saying she was indeed interested. Exchanged numbers and shared photos. After seeing my photos she quickly called me handsome and called me twice getting me to agree to a meet the same night and I agreed after my other much hotter POTs were unavailable.

Met up at the mall and she very quickly took the PPM ($300) and sucked / fucked me in the parking lot in the back of my car. Everything covered so it was lame. Had her ride me and suck me with a condom on, finished in her mouth with a condom on. Forgettable experience. She left after I came to "take care of her child". I blocked her as she was not only on the lower end (maybe a 6. 5-7) but she just left and wasn't honest about her intentions of leaving and not coming back. First bang off SA I'd give it a solid 5/10.

Chick #2 - 22 why / o POT (8. 5/10) Hispanic.

Met up for a M&G at night no compensation, smoked a joint with her and spit some game at her. She really enjoyed my company and hung out with me for about 4 hours until I called the night announcing I was leaving. Had to flake on her because I met a much younger and hotter chick, might bang later.Still in the sharing mode, I'm going to share this one this is chick #3.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f9f690d2-edd9-41a0-b2cb-c23cfff90324

[HelloYouAre]

Still in the sharing mode, I'm going to share this one this is chick #3.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f9f690d2-edd9-41a0-b2cb-c23cfff90324Have you tried babies up there? Some have agreed to travel to Oceanside. Anyone try Tijuana sugar babies? I've get to hear a success story in tj.

[DerekDaKid]

Have you tried babies up there? Some have agreed to travel to Oceanside. Anyone try Tijuana sugar babies? I've get to hear a success story in tj.I have a POT in the Valley I have yet to meet up with, also some POTs in TJ but seems language barrier is real with them.

[PussyPumper]

Still in the sharing mode, I'm going to share this one this is chick #3.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f9f690d2-edd9-41a0-b2cb-c23cfff90324Given that it is closed to Mexicans during the pandemic?

Beginning to jingle my spidey sense.

[KingBaby]

Given that it is closed to Mexicans during the pandemic?

Beginning to jingle my spidey sense.The border is open, it's just taking a long time to cross. Someone passed away while waiting to cross back in the summer.

[RyanE36]

Do people actually pay $1000 a week for a once weekly online only arrangement? Or pay to be financially dominated? I've seen some interestign profiles on here. I got a message from an 19 why / o chick, not really even that good looking, claiming how she's had like 6 SDs in the past, it was all online arrangments only, they paid her at least $1000 a week (some more), in exchange they would give her mentorship.

I'm assuming no guys are that dumb, but I figure there's got to be some if the girls are trying such things.

And to the person that said everything is negotiable, definitely found that to be true. Got one girl down from 500 to 150 extremely easily. Wish I had started at $100. Kinda cute, but I ended up not doing it because her time inbetween messages was pretty poor, so it wouldn't surprise me if she would've not shown up at the hotel because I think she was shopping around inbetween texting me.

[DerekDaKid]

Given that it is closed to Mexicans during the pandemic?

Beginning to jingle my spidey sense.She didn't cross the border idk why her location says Mexico. I met up her in Imperial Beach.

[DerekDaKid]

Do people actually pay $1000 a week for a once weekly online only arrangement? Or pay to be financially dominated? I've seen some interestign profiles on here. I got a message from an 19 why / o chick, not really even that good looking, claiming how she's had like 6 SDs in the past, it was all online arrangments only, they paid her at least $1000 a week (some more), in exchange they would give her mentorship.

I'm assuming no guys are that dumb, but I figure there's got to be some if the girls are trying such things.

And to the person that said everything is negotiable, definitely found that to be true. Got one girl down from 500 to 150 extremely easily. Wish I had started at $100. Kinda cute, but I ended up not doing it because her time inbetween messages was pretty poor, so it wouldn't surprise me if she would've not shown up at the hotel because I think she was shopping around inbetween texting me.That online arrangements is a bunch of bullshit she's obviously a scammer or finesser. There are some older guys who do fall for that but you have to be really simpy and creepy to need that. Ever heard of David from 90 day fiance? Prime example of the simps who fall for it.

[PussyPumper]

The border is open, it's just taking a long time to cross. Someone passed away while waiting to cross back in the summer.Border closed to all but essential traffic.

https://www.usatoday.com/story/travel/news/2021/01/14/us-canada-border-us-mexico-border-closures-extended-through-february/4156343001/

And Mexicans have to be far more "essential" than US citizens.

[PussyPumper]

Do people actually pay $1000 a week for a once weekly online only arrangement? I usually don't talk to these types. But whenever I have, they have ALWAYS claimed that they had previous SDs who had no problems in giving them mucho $$ per week for no sugar, etc etc.

I quickly concluded two things:

1. This story line has to be part of a playbook they are following. It is too standard to be otherwise.

2. The intention is somewhat obvious. It is to make you feel that this is normal and reasonable, that you aren't a player unless you can afford this.

I usually tell these women that it is wonderful that they had such success, and wish them best of luck getting back with their previous paypigs, because they might regret letting them go.

[Pay to Play]

100% Agree. No point in continuing the conversation. I will usually tell them politely best of luck in their search and mark their profile as a no and move on. Dosent meet if real or not but no amount of negotiation is going to bridge the gap between 1000 and reasonable.


I usually don't talk to these types. But whenever I have, they have ALWAYS claimed that they had previous SDs who had no problems in giving them mucho $$ per week for no sugar, etc etc.

I quickly concluded two things:

1. This story line has to be part of a playbook they are following. It is too standard to be otherwise.

2. The intention is somewhat obvious. It is to make you feel that this is normal and reasonable, that you aren't a player unless you can afford this.

I usually tell these women that it is wonderful that they had such success, and wish them best of luck getting back with their previous paypigs, because they might regret letting them go.

[KingBaby]

Border closed to all but essential traffic.

https://www.usatoday.com/story/travel/news/2021/01/14/us-canada-border-us-mexico-border-closures-extended-through-february/4156343001/

And Mexicans have to be far more "essential" than US citizens.

?!?!
You are making the assumption of her being a Mexican national

Plenty of US citizen live both sides of the border.

[JWalker350]

She didn't cross the border idk why her location says Mexico. I met up her in Imperial Beach.As I understood, some Mexican girls are controlled by Mexican pimps o gangsters. They login to SA from TJ. They chat with Johns and hook the girls up in the US.

[PussyPumper]

She didn't cross the border idk why her location says Mexico. I met up her in Imperial Beach.It is not just that the location says Mexico. I noticed that first time I looked at her profile. But some of the photos are clearly on Mexican side of the border.

[PussyPumper]

As I understood, some Mexican girls are controlled by Mexican pimps o gangsters. They login to SA from TJ. They chat with Johns and hook the girls up in the US.Precisely why I avoid all of them! Bad for life expectancy.

[HelloYouAre]

Precisely why I avoid all of them! Bad for life expectancy.Everything has its risk boys. I always use the head on top before using the bottom one. I assess the arrangement they always pick out for me, then if acceptable, proceed. Learn from mistakes quickly and move on.

Thinking of this arrangement, has anyone partaken in this dynamic duo? Asking for a friend of course.

Stay frosty.

https://www.seeking.com/member/470f582f-9676-4638-9ad5-65cf2d074033

[JaySdMac]

BabyGirlM14.

Started to message this one. She acted like she wanted to meet up. Asked me to add her on Snapchat to send a current pic. Did so and then got the I'm hungry and broke can you send me money for food in exchange for pics. But she wouldn't send me a current pic of her so I don't even know for sure it would be her. I told her that and she said you saw my pics on the site. I said I'll come get you and take you to dinner. Then got the I'm not going to just meet up with anyone. I have to make sure you'll spend money. I said I'm down to hang out and buy you food but not to just give you money for nothing. She said that's fine plenty of other guys will. So hopefully it's not one of you guys just giving these girls money for nothing.

[JcelChakas]

Before you'd get a cute and and bbcip within a couple weeks, now I couldn't get a single meet after a full month. How does SA premium compare to just a premium tinder account?

[HelloYouAre]

Before you'd get a cute and and bbcip within a couple weeks, now I couldn't get a single meet after a full month. How does SA premium compare to just a premium tinder account?I've had it for 3 months, and every day I get better at impressing woman with my bio and way I Chat it up with them. I am also 30 and the ladies think I'm "handsome". It's definitely a numbers game, which means you need to improve your close ratio by improving your game. My first messages when I started are nothing like they are now.

Stay Frosty.

[PussyPumper]

Before you'd get a cute and and bbcip within a couple weeks, now I couldn't get a single meet after a full month. How does SA premium compare to just a premium tinder account?I take it you are saying that you were on SA previously, and were successful, but not this time?

Any idea why?

You are making low offers?

Covid-19, and lots wanting online only?

Some other change?

[GoldenBooy102]

Before you'd get a cute and and bbcip within a couple weeks, now I couldn't get a single meet after a full month. How does SA premium compare to just a premium tinder account?I've had a lot more success on SA than I ever did on tinder. Good bio, pictures, and an opening message can carry you.

[Pay to Play]

I've had a lot more success on SA than I ever did on tinder. Good bio, pictures, and an opening message can carry you.On SA money talks. There is an inverse relationship between your hotness factor and how much it will take. Less hot = more cash. And you have to still play the game to some extent. I have never used Tinder simply because of the lack of ananimity and lack of control. That being said, for those who have used Tinder curious if you have had good experiences on a pay to play basis.

[KingBaby]

Before you'd get a cute and and bbcip within a couple weeks, now I couldn't get a single meet after a full month. How does SA premium compare to just a premium tinder account?


On SA money talks. There is an inverse relationship between your hotness factor and how much it will take. Less hot = more cash. And you have to still play the game to some extent. I have never used Tinder simply because of the lack of ananimity and lack of control. That being said, for those who have used Tinder curious if you have had good experiences on a pay to play basis.Since Fall of 2020, I have not returned. Main reason being mainly - Out of the 5 major colleges / universities in town, only 1 (some might say 1/2) returned back to campus. The majority of students are online. We as a city have no tourists, business people, students. I personally blame COVID & its response, in all levels.

On another note. Premium Tinder is a racket. If you want regular dates, you can try bumble.

[BearD]

Since Fall of 2020, I have not returned. Main reason being mainly - Out of the 5 major colleges / universities in town, only 1 (some might say 1/2) returned back to campus. The majority of students are online. We as a city have no tourists, business people, students. I personally blame COVID & its response, in all levels.

On another note. Premium Tinder is a racket. If you want regular dates, you can try bumble.Same here. I recently rejoined the bowl and I'm getting way fewer responses than before. I also forgot how much more effort this is compared to HX / other listings ha.

[Pay to Play]

Since Fall of 2020, I have not returned. Main reason being mainly - Out of the 5 major colleges / universities in town, only 1 (some might say 1/2) returned back to campus. The majority of students are online. We as a city have no tourists, business people, students. I personally blame COVID & its response, in all levels.

On another note. Premium Tinder is a racket. If you want regular dates, you can try bumble.I kept my SA membership all of 2020. Although I agree things have become more competitive, I managed to find new dates regularly. Although COVID gave birth to a whole new scam. 'Due to COVID, not meeting anyone until over" along with the promise that you help her out now she will help you at later.

Thanks for the Bumble suggestion.

[GoldenBooy102]

On SA money talks. There is an inverse relationship between your hotness factor and how much it will take. Less hot = more cash. And you have to still play the game to some extent. I have never used Tinder simply because of the lack of ananimity and lack of control. That being said, for those who have used Tinder curious if you have had good experiences on a pay to play basis.I've never really used tinder for p4 p. I have used it with varying success for normal dates. Bumble is definitely the way to go these days. It was recommended to me by a girl I know a while ago. Tinder is too much of a hit miss for me to consider it for p4 p. Most of the girls that seem down for that are scams, and the others are real pros ime. I would just look for quickies on there. I check most of the county in SA. I'm pretty annoyed with the online only due to COVID bs. No way I'm paying for that bs.

[PussyPumper]

Exposes "blacklisted" SDs.

https://sugardaddysexposed.******.com/

Anyone know of other such sites. I believe there must be others, from comments I have seen.

Any equivalent site for scammer babies?

[Pay to Play]

I've never really used tinder for p4 p. I have used it with varying success for normal dates. Bumble is definitely the way to go these days. It was recommended to me by a girl I know a while ago. Tinder is too much of a hit miss for me to consider it for p4 p. Most of the girls that seem down for that are scams, and the others are real pros ime. I would just look for quickies on there. I check most of the county in SA. I'm pretty annoyed with the online only due to COVID bs. No way I'm paying for that bs.The problem with Tinder or Bumble is that you have to keep a face picture on your profile which defeats the point of being discrete. As opposed to SA you control what pics are available for public view and who sees your private photos. Otherwise it's just online dating. For most the SB hobby is about discretion.

[Pay to Play]

Exposes "blacklisted" SDs.

https://sugardaddysexposed.******.com/

Anyone know of other such sites. I believe there must be others, from comments I have seen.

Any equivalent site for scammer babies?I thought that is what this forum is for. Most of us won't share a good SB, but I think we are all down for sharing the bad ones. Also the challenge is that they rebrand themselves frequently. Start with a new profile and even new pics. I have reconnected with a few over the years that I even dated previously, didn't repeat, and didn't recognize them from new pics.

[PussyPumper]

I thought that is what this forum is for. Most of us won't share a good SB, but I think we are all down for sharing the bad ones. Also the challenge is that they rebrand themselves frequently. Start with a new profile and even new pics. I have reconnected with a few over the years that I even dated previously, didn't repeat, and didn't recognize them from new pics.Of course, and this place is a great resource. My query as to whether there is a comparable site for SBs is just looking for diversion in these pandemic times. Again, there are several sites out there exposing "scammer" and "predator" daddies. Unlike here, they typically come complete with names, photos, telephone numbers, screengrabs of conversations and profiles, etc. Some of the predator sites are basically blackmail operations, where you have to pay to get your name, photo and number removed. Seems that search engines may be deliberately suppressing results for those sites now?

[DRaj123]

https://www.seeking.com/member/4367d657-304f-49a1-888a-affb3999fc00

She wants 300 just to meet for a normal date so that you can talk to her and see her.

[KingBaby]

I kept my SA membership all of 2020. Although I agree things have become more competitive, I managed to find new dates regularly. Although COVID gave birth to a whole new scam. 'Due to COVID, not meeting anyone until over" along with the promise that you help her out now she will help you at later.

Thanks for the Bumble suggestion.I also see that every fu*king where. I called my Audi dealership for a wait time estimate of a simple oil change, they said not only there is going to be a price hike, because it's "hazardous," they are not going to do a carwash because it's "safe for me." Bit*h, taking over 200 out of my pocket for an oil change doesn't seem to be "hazardous" to you.

I just saw the news on teachers are on strike because it's "hazardous" to teach. Yeah, no sh*t! When you have been getting full pay for doing 1/2, if any, of the work for the past 18 months.

[Pay to Play]

I also see that every fu*king where. I called my Audi dealership for a wait time estimate of a simple oil change, they said not only there is going to be a price hike, because it's "hazardous," they are not going to do a carwash because it's "safe for me." Bit*h, taking over 200 out of my pocket for an oil change doesn't seem to be "hazardous" to you.

I just saw the news on teachers are on strike because it's "hazardous" to teach. Yeah, no sh*t! When you have been getting full pay for doing 1/2, if any, of the work for the past 18 months.I second that. COVID has been used as an excuse to lower customer service in nearly every industry and increase prices while hiding under a veil of "for your protection", I. E. , home internet prices and bandwidth consumption.

But I digress from our real purpose here which is an exchange of information to get more quality pussy.

[RyanE36]

https://www.seeking.com/member/b50ca17b-5363-45ba-9be0-c8f1bb5ec8a4

Starts out at like 500, but drops pretty quick. Sounds like she's not getting asking price. That being said, she ghosted me after agreeing to a lot less. Luckily I didn't get the hotel room yet, so nothing actually lost.

https://www.seeking.com/member/455c9bea-3078-43eb-aeaf-c5f0bb53a674

Really hot body, will come to you for 600.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0464b4b1-487c-4e73-b9b6-b90c70be588d

500 plus Uber. Has a friend that can come for another 500. Has huge tits (assuming pics are real), cute face. However all pics cover the belly, and I think she has a bit of a ponch.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e5fdcffa-a843-408b-9991-00e63348308c

Never got a price, but she's down. Asked what I was willing to pay, but I wasn't interested.

Did manage to get to 3rd base with a MILF. She asked me to come over and had her hands on me pretty quickly. Seemed she was using me more than I was her, was wound so tight, hadn't gotten any in a while. She just kept having O after O. Reminded me of that scene in that Seth Rogan movie where he has sex with the Secretary of State (Charlize Theron), who apologizes because she came to quickly.

Reciprocated with a handy. We'll see if it goes any farther next time. Keeping this one to myself for now.

I have talked with a lot of younger girls. They give me their number and say we should meet up, and then the next day (or a few days later) they start ghosting.

[PussyPumper]

https://www.seeking.com/member/0464b4b1-487c-4e73-b9b6-b90c70be588d

500 plus Uber. Has a friend that can come for another 500. Has huge tits (assuming pics are real), cute face. However all pics cover the belly, and I think she has a bit of a ponch.
She is 2+ hours away in Maria Del Ray! Uber there and back will cost you!
As for photos/ponch - you mean you did not do due diligence by asking for additional photos to resolve that obvious question?

[Admin2]

Of course it's a scam, every reason a hooker gives you for giving them money without sucking your dick is a scam, full fucking stop.

There is no further need for team lockdown to use this as an excuse to fucking fingerwag guys about "staying home."

There are two "numbers" you need to know.

93% of the people who have died were over 55 and 94% of them had an average of 2.9 life threatening illnesses or conditions before getting covid.

Yes, get vaccinated, why not? Yes, masks are flattening the curve, that's just plain to see. No covid isn't ebola. 99.74% of the people who get it recover.

A2

[DRaj123]

I am in sa for last weeks with wild degree of success.

Its a gold mine and here are my observations.

1. A well crafted message is needed. It should be respectful to the point and also direct but nothing explicit.

2. A decent pic works but I didn't hbe any pics. Girls are there not to daye handsome man but for $$.

3. You must be able to host and do it promptly when needed.

4. Numbers matter. Ie send your well crafted message to 100's of girls.

5. Follow up matter. If you like pics of girls make sure you follow up.

6. Girls ask outrageous prices. I banged a pron star for 350 but she asked initially 1 k.

7. Don't give into paying too much or even paying for meet and greet. A lot of girls would ask you to meet to have coffee dinner and ask you to pay for it.

8. Stay safe and happy hunting.

9. I usually pay 300 to 400 per meeting which can last 2 to 4 hours depending.

[FarFarAway]

Someone mentioned girls must be getting their ideas and txts from the same place. This is one that I have seen hundreds of times, it must be on a canned profile that is either provided by SA or one of the other sites for girls (letstalksugar).

I respectfully would like to meet a person with the actual means and the integrity of Intentions to provide for my lifestyle.

The other one I HATE is.

'here for a good time, not for a long time'.

A girl puts that up, she's as dumb as a brick. Someone might like that type, but not me.

[KingBaby]

Someone mentioned girls must be getting their ideas and txts from the same place. This is one that I have seen hundreds of times, it must be on a canned profile that is either provided by SA or one of the other sites for girls (letstalksugar).

I respectfully would like to meet a person with the actual means and the integrity of Intentions to provide for my lifestyle.

The other one I HATE is.

'here for a good time, not for a long time'.

A girl puts that up, she's as dumb as a brick. Someone might like that type, but not me.There is a template on Reddit. They just copy & paste.

[Waxxon]

This one starts messaging me and want to meet for lunch. Ok, and we decide to play it by ear and see how it goes. Then I get the "I've never been to Georges at the cove, I hear it has awesome views" After I inform her that's not going to work, it's prepaid reservations only we agree to meet somewhere else. A few more texts and then I get the sophisticated blockbuster question. "what are you looking for" My answer: I'm looking for mutually beneficial fwb. How do you guys answer this? She goes off about how she's worth a prepaid reservation and guys give her 300 just to M&G. I tell her go right ahead, you're better off with all those guys because I'm not one of them, and good luck in your search. Ghosts me? No. She messages back and wants to restart the convo and follows back up with the "what are you looking for" More back and forth and she tells me it's a competition and I'm auditioning for her time. No thank you, I don't need a BSC wannabe sb.

https://www.seeking.com/member/dff235bb-8ee7-41fe-8d6a-222ac24be359

[DRaj123]

This one starts messaging me and want to meet for lunch. Ok, and we decide to play it by ear and see how it goes. Then I get the "I've never been to Georges at the cove, I hear it has awesome views" After I inform her that's not going to work, it's prepaid reservations only we agree to meet somewhere else. A few more texts and then I get the sophisticated blockbuster question. "what are you looking for" My answer: I'm looking for mutually beneficial fwb. How do you guys answer this? She goes off about how she's worth a prepaid reservation and guys give her 300 just to M&G. I tell her go right ahead, you're better off with all those guys because I'm not one of them, and good luck in your search. Ghosts me? No. She messages back and wants to restart the convo and follows back up with the "what are you looking for" More back and forth and she tells me it's a competition and I'm auditioning for her time. No thank you, I don't need a BSC wannabe sb.

https://www.seeking.com/member/dff235bb-8ee7-41fe-8d6a-222ac24be359Never pay for m&g.

Just say looking for intimate fun time behind closed doors.

[PussyPumper]

A few more texts and then I get the sophisticated blockbuster question. "what are you looking for" .... How do you guys answer this? She messages back and wants to restart the convo and follows back up with the "what are you looking for" More back and forth and she tells me it's a competition and I'm auditioning for her time.
https://www.seeking.com/member/dff235bb-8ee7-41fe-8d6a-222ac24be359Oh I hate that "what are you looking for" question, it really sets my teeth on edge!

My usual answer is - "An intimate arrangement".
My next most common answer is - "Have you read my profile?"
Or a combination of the above.
Rarely, I may answer in more detail, but never explicitly, if I feel it is an at-sea newbie (who might be worth it).

As for her repeating the same question, there are really only two possibilities:
(a) She is fielding so many responses at once that she lost track (I have made this mistake myself!). In which case she could well view it as a competition, but is very unwise to say so explicitly. Or,
(b) She is on drugs or drunk, and can't recall from one minute to the next.

[KingBaby]

This one starts messaging me and want to meet for lunch. Ok, and we decide to play it by ear and see how it goes. Then I get the "I've never been to Georges at the cove, I hear it has awesome views" After I inform her that's not going to work, it's prepaid reservations only we agree to meet somewhere else. A few more texts and then I get the sophisticated blockbuster question. "what are you looking for" My answer: I'm looking for mutually beneficial fwb. How do you guys answer this? She goes off about how she's worth a prepaid reservation and guys give her 300 just to M&G. I tell her go right ahead, you're better off with all those guys because I'm not one of them, and good luck in your search. Ghosts me? No. She messages back and wants to restart the convo and follows back up with the "what are you looking for" More back and forth and she tells me it's a competition and I'm auditioning for her time. No thank you, I don't need a BSC wannabe sb.

https://www.seeking.com/member/dff235bb-8ee7-41fe-8d6a-222ac24be359I get that question so often that I actually have an "FAQ," LOL, no joke, I just direct them to my profile and read.

Now, about George's, they now do "Prepaid reservation!?" Another money grabbing, COVID Excused BS, just like my dealership

[HelloYouAre]

This one starts messaging me and want to meet for lunch. Ok, and we decide to play it by ear and see how it goes. Then I get the "I've never been to Georges at the cove, I hear it has awesome views" After I inform her that's not going to work, it's prepaid reservations only we agree to meet somewhere else. A few more texts and then I get the sophisticated blockbuster question. "what are you looking for" My answer: I'm looking for mutually beneficial fwb. How do you guys answer this? She goes off about how she's worth a prepaid reservation and guys give her 300 just to M&G. I tell her go right ahead, you're better off with all those guys because I'm not one of them, and good luck in your search. Ghosts me? No. She messages back and wants to restart the convo and follows back up with the "what are you looking for" More back and forth and she tells me it's a competition and I'm auditioning for her time. No thank you, I don't need a BSC wannabe sb.

https://www.seeking.com/member/dff235bb-8ee7-41fe-8d6a-222ac24be359Sorry to hear that my guy. I was going to hit her with the 1 , 2 combo, but something about her conservative pictures screamed out, " I don't know what I'm doing " to me. Thanks for the info. Let's keep this thread busy? I'm sure laying a pretty penny having my premium account so info is much appreciated gentlemen.

Stay frosty.

[HelloYouAre]

I get that question so often that I actually have an "FAQ," LOL, no joke, I just direct them to my profile and read.

Now, about George's, they now do "Prepaid reservation!?" Another money grabbing, COVID Excused BS, just like my dealershipKeep in mind gentleman, woman do these "shit test" to see our integrity. Play it cool just like how you're doing and have a solid, calm and collective response to these nonsense questions. I always respond, and never react to these questions. I answer the "what are you looking for" question very similar. I say "I'm looking for a fwb, someone I can spoil and have fun with on my little time off from my busy schedule. Do you know of anyone that might be interested? ".

They either check out there, or anything moving forward is working towards that goal. Keep it fun out there guys, get creative.

[RyanE36]

Anyone ever get asked for dick pics or other pics of you being "sexy. " Talking to a chick, and she says she wants to meet up this upcoming week, has been pretty flirty and stuff, and then out of the blue wants some sexy pics. I don't think I've ever sent anyoen dick pics before. I don't have anything worth bragging about anyways.

[KingBaby]

Anyone ever get asked for dick pics or other pics of you being "sexy. " Talking to a chick, and she says she wants to meet up this upcoming week, has been pretty flirty and stuff, and then out of the blue wants some sexy pics. I don't think I've ever sent anyoen dick pics before. I don't have anything worth bragging about anyways.Nobody has asked me before either.

Anyway, sounds like an extortion ploy down the road.

[PussyPumper]

Anyone ever get asked for dick pics or other pics of you being "sexy. " Talking to a chick, and she says she wants to meet up this upcoming week, has been pretty flirty and stuff, and then out of the blue wants some sexy pics. I don't think I've ever sent anyoen dick pics before. I don't have anything worth bragging about anyways.Never ever asked for such.

I think KingBaby is correct.

This is probably a guy in a basement.

Maybe just a perv, but the basement could be in Nigeria, and could be setting you up as next Weiner.

[RyanE36]

Never ever asked for such.

I think KingBaby is correct.

This is probably a guy in a basement.

Maybe just a perv, but the basement could be in Nigeria, and could be setting you up as next Weiner.Yeah, Anthony Weiner was the first thing that came to mind. I can't imagine I'm important enough to be extorted, but definitely odd. I think I will be refraining. If they do actually want to meet up, probably some place nice and public, as long as nothing incriminating is in my chats (which I don't think there is).

[Dudeonthecouch]

Anyone ever get asked for dick pics or other pics of you being "sexy. " Talking to a chick, and she says she wants to meet up this upcoming week, has been pretty flirty and stuff, and then out of the blue wants some sexy pics. I don't think I've ever sent anyoen dick pics before. I don't have anything worth bragging about anyways.Yes I have, everytime it turned out to be bullshit. One regular girl I already knew has asked it for while I was on vacation. She shared sexy videos with me while I was away.

[Pay to Play]

Anyone else notice a large decrease in SA members? Seems they are purging members. I am showing only a few women who have been recently active. Most last activity weeks ago.

[Cubico]

Anyone else notice a large decrease in SA members? Seems they are purging members. I am showing only a few women who have been recently active. Most last activity weeks ago.Not sure if that is what is happening to you, but to say the least this site is buggy as hell. Sometimes I will only see profiles that were connected a while ago, and what I will have to do is reset my search completely, try it to see if that helps. I see a lot of online profiles today.

[FarFarAway]

I periodically browsed SA during lockdown, even had a tryst or two w / girls I had contacted before, but was mostly laying low. I luckily got vaccinated so I rejoined for March. I am seeing the normal distribution and amount of girls of all sort. One thing I've noticed throughout my time, there are a lot of nurses and nursing students. IDK if these means there are a lot who are submissive, or what, but its definitely a thing. This works out well, I am messaging with two 30's nurses, both of whom have gotten vaccinated. All fears of the virus (and possible risk to those in my house who haven't been vaccinated) are abated with them. I am definitely still intrigued by the 20's babes, and I do ask them what their practices during the pandemic have been. As hot as they are, the risk might keep me away.

[Pay to Play]

Not sure if that is what is happening to you, but to say the least this site is buggy as hell. Sometimes I will only see profiles that were connected a while ago, and what I will have to do is reset my search completely, try it to see if that helps. I see a lot of online profiles today.When searching by recently active I am only seeing woman whose last active status is days or weeks old. Showing nothing for current within 50 miles distance. Something is amiss.

[PussyPumper]

When searching by recently active I am only seeing woman whose last active status is days or weeks old. Showing nothing for current within 50 miles distance. Something is amiss.Not what I see, pretty normal mix.

[PussyPumper]

I periodically browsed SA during lockdown, even had a tryst or two w / girls I had contacted before, but was mostly laying low. I luckily got vaccinated so I rejoined for March. I am seeing the normal distribution and amount of girls of all sort. One thing I've noticed throughout my time, there are a lot of nurses and nursing students. IDK if these means there are a lot who are submissive, or what, but its definitely a thing. This works out well, I am messaging with two 30's nurses, both of whom have gotten vaccinated. All fears of the virus (and possible risk to those in my house who haven't been vaccinated) are abated with them. I am definitely still intrigued by the 20's babes, and I do ask them what their practices during the pandemic have been. As hot as they are, the risk might keep me away.Looking forward to many reports from the front!

I am still behind the lines, safe in my dugout.

[PussyPumper]

When searching by recently active I am only seeing woman whose last active status is days or weeks old. Showing nothing for current within 50 miles distance. Something is amiss.In my earlier post I neglected to make the following suggestion:

Change your location within SA, not just reset your search. I think that worked when I had a similar issue years ago. Then change back again.

And SA is buggy as someone commented.

[PussyPumper]

There are always a few profiles where the location is listed as 'California, California".

I don't understand this. Is it a real place?

Why do they it show up within a local San Diego search?

Is is a preferred spammer / fake location?

Thanks!

[RyanE36]

There are always a few profiles where the location is listed as 'California, California".

I don't understand this. Is it a real place?

Why do they it show up within a local San Diego search?

Is is a preferred spammer / fake location?

Thanks!I want to say that's somewhere north of here. Possibly the Palm Springs or Inland Empire area. I remember searching up there since I would be going on a trip there, and I saw a lot of people with that location. Perhaps it's how the system translates their zip code?

[HelloYouAre]

I want to say that's somewhere north of here. Possibly the Palm Springs or Inland Empire area. I remember searching up there since I would be going on a trip there, and I saw a lot of people with that location. Perhaps it's how the system translates their zip code?Sounds suspect to me! LOL I've messaged a few from there and they seemed to not make sense in there respond, not respond at all, or simply not like me haha.

I've been trying to reach out to SB in Tijuana, and they seem to only want $100-$150 to meet up at a hotel. I'm working on booking a double but they seem to all be "Pros". Anyone have a link to a non Pro TJ sugar baby? PM me.

[PussyPumper]

I want to say that's somewhere north of here. Possibly the Palm Springs or Inland Empire area. I remember searching up there since I would be going on a trip there, and I saw a lot of people with that location. Perhaps it's how the system translates their zip code?So I did a search. There is a California City here in California. It is 100 miles north of LA, in Kern County!

So why does it keep showing up in local searches?

Must be some sort of scam that they figured out.

[KingBaby]

First of all, I love Latina ladies.

That being said, I personally would not date anyone from SA that's south of the border. Not because I hold any "political / racial" bias, it's more of an "economic decision" coming from experience.

Before COVID, like many, because of our location, I used to frequent TJ. I am no expert, like many members from our local "TJ Reports" Forum, but I am no stranger to the "Bar / club Protocol. " Needless to say, they have some gorgeous, model like women. Many of the girls who are on SA are at least, part timing at bars & clubs around the area. Many of them are using social media platforms like IG, SC, Tinder to "advertise. " So SA, to them, it's just 1 additional venue.

I can speak for myself that I go on SA and try to seek out ladies that are "low volume / Non Pro," otherwise, what's the point? Sure, they usually ask for a less PPM / Allowance. However, unless you live & work in TJ, you can't really tell what her volume is like and before you know it, you are just her "5:30 pm appointment. ".

[HelloYouAre]

First of all, I love Latina ladies.

That being said, I personally would not date anyone from SA that's south of the border. Not because I hold any "political / racial" bias, it's more of an "economic decision" coming from experience.

Before COVID, like many, because of our location, I used to frequent TJ. I am no expert, like many members from our local "TJ Reports" Forum, but I am no stranger to the "Bar / club Protocol. " Needless to say, they have some gorgeous, model like women. Many of the girls who are on SA are at least, part timing at bars & clubs around the area. Many of them are using social media platforms like IG, SC, Tinder to "advertise. " So SA, to them, it's just 1 additional venue.

I can speak for myself that I go on SA and try to seek out ladies that are "low volume / Non Pro," otherwise, what's the point? Sure, they usually ask for a less PPM / Allowance. However, unless you live & work in TJ, you can't really tell what her volume is like and before you know it, you are just her "5:30 pm appointment. ".That makes sense. I was asking because my business was going slow for a bit over a week. Almost two weeks of no bites, but that changed today. A bunch just messaged back that are locals and few had let me know they are on birth control so I have 3 CIP dates lined up for the next few days. Good luck gentleman. I can share as soon as the deed is done. Stay tuned.

[RyanE36]

That makes sense. I was asking because my business was going slow for a bit over a week. Almost two weeks of no bites, but that changed today. A bunch just messaged back that are locals and few had let me know they are on birth control so I have 3 CIP dates lined up for the next few days. Good luck gentleman. I can share as soon as the deed is done. Stay tuned.How does the topic of birth control come up over messaging, unless they're pro / semi-pro?

[HelloYouAre]

How does the topic of birth control come up over messaging, unless they're pro / semi-pro?I have a few ways of working that question in. PM and I can go into more details. I developed a solid system, slightly inspired by Based Zeus on YouTube. LOL.

[Boobman76]

How does the topic of birth control come up over messaging, unless they're pro / semi-pro?Once I get their number and begin texting them, I just outright ask "Are you on birth control?" It let's them know right of the bat what my expectations are. I haven't had anyone act offended yet. They know what the site is for even if, at times, they pretend not to.

[Chulit0]

Saw this curvy goddess last night.

We smoked and had good convo before fucking.

She reminded me why I like curvy girls so much.

Damage: 200 and we got to do everything bare which is a fair trade if you ask me.

That being said this was my first date of seeking so I my pm's are open for any advice you gentlemen have for me and I am down to exchange information I've got from chatting with the ladies on SA because I chat on there A LOT.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8002cb09-b6cb-4f22-aa9c-4b5138102718

[Pay to Play]

Saw this curvy goddess last night.

We smoked and had good convo before fucking.

She reminded me why I like curvy girls so much.

Damage: 200 and we got to do everything bare which is a fair trade if you ask me.

That being said this was my first date of seeking so I my pm's are open for any advice you gentlemen have for me and I am down to exchange information I've got from chatting with the ladies on SA because I chat on there A LOT.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8002cb09-b6cb-4f22-aa9c-4b5138102718My advice is to never talk money or anything referencing PPM on the site. You will get banned. I have been banned many times. You have to create a new email, use a different credit card and different pics and you loose any subscription you paid for at the time.

[Chulit0]

My advice is to never talk money or anything referencing PPM on the site. You will get banned. I have been banned many times. You have to create a new email, use a different credit card and different pics and you loose any subscription you paid for at the time.I guess I already made the rookie mistake of being too straightforward PPM wise. I have not gotten deleted yet but do you think it just takes a few days? Also bro do you know how the whole banning process works cux I would hate to already lose my account that I barely created and paid for.

[HelloYouAre]

Saw this curvy goddess last night.

We smoked and had good convo before fucking.

She reminded me why I like curvy girls so much.

Damage: 200 and we got to do everything bare which is a fair trade if you ask me.

That being said this was my first date of seeking so I my pm's are open for any advice you gentlemen have for me and I am down to exchange information I've got from chatting with the ladies on SA because I chat on there A LOT.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8002cb09-b6cb-4f22-aa9c-4b5138102718Good for you man! I'm glad you had your fun. I personally only enjoy SB that smoke 420. To me, if they don't smoke 420, they're too uptight for my taste.

[Pay to Play]

I guess I already made the rookie mistake of being too straightforward PPM wise. I have not gotten deleted yet but do you think it just takes a few days? Also bro do you know how the whole banning process works cux I would hate to already lose my account that I barely created and paid for.Sometimes can be result of a girl reporting you. I try not to report anyone because people in glass houses don't through stones. But if you say something over the line and reported you will be gone. I believe they randomly audit accounts and look for suspicious activity. Likely they have to show effort to ensure they stay off DOJ radar and not get shut down like BackPage asked many others. I have been banned at least 6 times. Longest account I had lasted a year.

Bottom line is best to stay off radar and take things private as quickly as possible. Also a way to check if she's legit. If they play some game that they don't text, then good possibility they are not looking for a real meetup and just want up keep things online, which I won't waste my time.

[PussyPumper]

My advice is to never talk money or anything referencing PPM on the site. You will get banned. I have been banned many times. You have to create a new email, use a different credit card and different pics and you loose any subscription you paid for at the time.SA are very trigger happy. I have been banned multiple times also. Usually they won't even hint as to why. The one time they did say explicitly, they said my very humorous profile for applicants for a "ladies finishing school" was "engaging in commercial activities"! That proved to me that they are completely, utterly brain dead, and are not to be trusted.

All the SA banning brings up the point that purchasing a long-term subscription is way too risky. You can pay hundreds of dollars, and loose it all within a few days or weeks, on the random whim of some idiot at SA.

[Chulit0]

SA are very trigger happy. I have been banned multiple times also. Usually they won't even hint as to why. The one time they did say explicitly, they said my very humorous profile for applicants for a "ladies finishing school" was "engaging in commercial activities"! That proved to me that they are completely, utterly brain dead, and are not to be trusted.

All the SA banning brings up the point that purchasing a long-term subscription is way too risky. You can pay hundreds of dollars, and loose it all within a few days or weeks, on the random whim of some idiot at SA.Oh wow. So either I have not gotten reported yet by a female or I am just having a short streak of beginner's luck. Thank you for informing me bro I really appreciate it. I do feel stupid as I did purchase a long term subscription right off the bat, guess I was too excited when I signed up for SA.

[Chulit0]

Sometimes can be result of a girl reporting you. I try not to report anyone because people in glass houses don't through stones. But if you say something over the line and reported you will be gone. I believe they randomly audit accounts and look for suspicious activity. Likely they have to show effort to ensure they stay off DOJ radar and not get shut down like BackPage asked many others. I have been banned at least 6 times. Longest account I had lasted a year.

Bottom line is best to stay off radar and take things private as quickly as possible. Also a way to check if she's legit. If they play some game that they don't text, then good possibility they are not looking for a real meetup and just want up keep things online, which I won't waste my time.Alrighty man I already set up a whole separate TextMe # and snapchat for my potential sugar babies. I feel a lot better knowing what I know now, thanks for your reply.

[Chulit0]

Good for you man! I'm glad you had your fun. I personally only enjoy SB that smoke 420. To me, if they don't smoke 420, they're too uptight for my taste.Thanks dude. This was first SB experience but I think I want to stick to stoner chicks too down the road.

[Holocaust]

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.

[Pay to Play]

Often you have to trust your gut. It's the little things that add up to warnings. This one for example:

https://www.seeking.com/member/ea901fc1-887e-4f26-b774-200b1d447720

She sent the first message. That's unusual and can be sign of a scam or pro girl looking for a higher paying date.

Moves to texting quickly when we start talking money.

Then texting is followed by long delays in her response followed by "hey what's up, want to come over to my place". This is a bigger warning. Bottom line she sends a few photos and man, if one doesn't look familiar from a girl who use to post elsewhere. Can't quite place it but too many warning signs for me. And her pics she sent via text look like a screen shot capture from some other site. A few of her comments in text also sound like a good way to part with cash and not get anything for it.

If anyone has personal experience please share or if someone recognizes the pics. This is where it comes down to experience and your risk adversion in this hobby. No risk you don't ever find the unicorn. But at the same time, that inner voice might keep you out off trouble.

[Habeed]

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.I don't think any "natural" relationship exists that is actually "free".

Rich guy with a young hot girlfriend? She wants him to take care of her by paying for everything and potentially making her his next wife.

Young hot guy with a young hot girlfriend? She knows that because he's young and hot (muscular and tall and ripped) he has a long working lifespan remaining, and wants good dna and parental support.

Older women unfortunately have little reproductive value and so they become cheap.

Anyways in my case I have seen sugar relationships reach where she snuggles with me and spends the night, is kind to my pets, lets me cum in her, and her rate drops over time and she stays longer. And we go on dates and watch movies together.

Is this more like a "natural" relationship? You tell me.

[RyanE36]

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.I have no tips or advice. But one girl I was chatting with for a while said she signed up because one of her friends got married to someone from the site. Was also talking to another chick who made it pretty clear in her profile and in chatting with her that she was not interested in anything other than a real relationship and was just trying out this site since she hasn't had luck on any of the other more traditional dating sites / apps.

So I suppose it's possible, and people obviously do it.

[The Ass Man]

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.Be honest and transparent about it, demand the same from her and be prepared for insecurities to arise from it.

If you haven't been honest about everything to up to this point you're going to have to reset that bar.

Good luck.

[RogerOver]

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.I'd advise against it. I've had girls that have sort of naturally moved into a non-transactional relationship, but it never really works out. I urge you to remember you met this girl when she was selling her cooter for cash. She's a hooker at heart, and I don't see it as any different than marrying / girlfriending a regular escort.

Not picking on the girls. I pay for pussy, so that says all they need to know about my character too. If you want an organic relationship, go hit a grocery store and meet your future sweetheart squeezing the melons.

[Dudeonthecouch]

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.I've done it 5 times so far. It never works in the end. Benefit is arrangements stop. However, they will look at you the same. I'm still seeing one now. I see the end coming. It's best not invest much emotionally in girls on SA. Best way to avoid this happening is keeping seeing other girls.

They ask you to be exclusive while still having other sugar daddy's. There are no angels on that website.

[HelloYouAre]

Often you have to trust your gut. It's the little things that add up to warnings. This one for example:

https://www.seeking.com/member/ea901fc1-887e-4f26-b774-200b1d447720

She sent the first message. That's unusual and can be sign of a scam or pro girl looking for a higher paying date.

Moves to texting quickly when we start talking money.

Then texting is followed by long delays in her response followed by "hey what's up, want to come over to my place". This is a bigger warning. Bottom line she sends a few photos and man, if one doesn't look familiar from a girl who use to post elsewhere. Can't quite place it but too many warning signs for me. And her pics she sent via text look like a screen shot capture from some other site. A few of her comments in text also sound like a good way to part with cash and not get anything for it.

If anyone has personal experience please share or if someone recognizes the pics. This is where it comes down to experience and your risk adversion in this hobby. No risk you don't ever find the unicorn. But at the same time, that inner voice might keep you out off trouble.I got a message from this one too. We moved pretty quickly and I asked for a selfie, "She" sent me the same pics. I called her out on her pics not showing her face and she said she's being private since she was recognized by a friend of her dads. She got kicked out for being on this site, blah blah. That she promised she's the one in the pics. Gave me a scam vibe or even sting? She wanted to meet up right there and then. Good spot man. Keep them coming.

[FarFarAway]

I've done 2 M&Gs with my new crop of POTs. The first was absolutely a stunner, but she turned down my offer of an exclusive at 2 K / mo. I am trying to 'refer' her to someone who can afford her.

Today, I met a 23 YO brainiac, petite and pretty, we had a great connection by phone. She was on her way to grad school but the pandemic killed that so she's living at home this year. She says 'open relationship' but declines to say anything at all about it. She told me her mother suggested she join SA. My suspicion is that she's got a GF. She went on about how much she liked to get oral. Great initial meeting, nearly 2 hours, publicly at a coffee place, privately in my nearby car. We made out a bit and are heading to the FC Friday morning, she gets the room so I have no risk.

[Chulit0]

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.Congrats man! I think this is pretty awesome considering that this is my goal on SA. I say just go for it dude! Like someone else replied to you, just make sure to be transparent and honest. If you guys are really straightforward about what you guys want from this, there is not much that could go wrong. I really want to make things official like you once I find the right gal ofc. Also fuck what others say bc we all know the girls on SA are way sexier and more fun that the girls at the grocery story, kuddos to you even though I am kinda jealous LOL.

[Chulit0]

Often you have to trust your gut. It's the little things that add up to warnings. This one for example:

https://www.seeking.com/member/ea901fc1-887e-4f26-b774-200b1d447720

She sent the first message. That's unusual and can be sign of a scam or pro girl looking for a higher paying date.

Moves to texting quickly when we start talking money.

Then texting is followed by long delays in her response followed by "hey what's up, want to come over to my place". This is a bigger warning. Bottom line she sends a few photos and man, if one doesn't look familiar from a girl who use to post elsewhere. Can't quite place it but too many warning signs for me. And her pics she sent via text look like a screen shot capture from some other site. A few of her comments in text also sound like a good way to part with cash and not get anything for it.

If anyone has personal experience please share or if someone recognizes the pics. This is where it comes down to experience and your risk adversion in this hobby. No risk you don't ever find the unicorn. But at the same time, that inner voice might keep you out off trouble.Damn she is sexy, kind of worth the potential "risk" don't you think? You are correct on the warning signs you peeped so far. The "red flags" I saw upon looking at her profile is how she is a very new member which is something I am not too fond of (even though I just joined SA). As I personally at least want to see that the girl I am talking too has been on SA for either a couple of months which kin of makes me feel more comfy. Second and last red flag I see is how the individual sexy pics of her self are a whole different vibe, style, and quality from the ones on the SA profile link.

Let us know on what you decide man & check PMs because I pmd you.

[Pay to Play]

Damn she is sexy, kind of worth the potential "risk" don't you think? You are correct on the warning signs you peeped so far. The "red flags" I saw upon looking at her profile is how she is a very new member which is something I am not too fond of (even though I just joined SA). As I personally at least want to see that the girl I am talking too has been on SA for either a couple of months which kin of makes me feel more comfy. Second and last red flag I see is how the individual sexy pics of her self are a whole different vibe, style, and quality from the ones on the SA profile link.

Let us know on what you decide man & check PMs because I pmd you.Everyone has their own risk tolerance. I have only had three SB's invite me to their place. It's a huge red flag. After I posted yesterday she sent me message asking if she sent me her address could I come now. Again another red flag. Woman on this site have plenty of men willing to see them. No reason for desperation unless there is something non-legit. Trust the gut not the little man. I'll pass.

[Pay to Play]

I got a message from this one too. We moved pretty quickly and I asked for a selfie, "She" sent me the same pics. I called her out on her pics not showing her face and she said she's being private since she was recognized by a friend of her dads. She got kicked out for being on this site, blah blah. That she promised she's the one in the pics. Gave me a scam vibe or even sting? She wanted to meet up right there and then. Good spot man. Keep them coming.I am betting she is in a hotel and doing tricks on the side for half or less then SA prices. I have seen a few SB's like that. They figure with a few pics they can rebrand and sell Walmart products at Nordstrom prices.

[Holocaust]

I don't think any "natural" relationship exists that is actually "free".

Rich guy with a young hot girlfriend? She wants him to take care of her by paying for everything and potentially making her his next wife.

Young hot guy with a young hot girlfriend? She knows that because he's young and hot (muscular and tall and ripped) he has a long working lifespan remaining, and wants good dna and parental support.

Older women unfortunately have little reproductive value and so they become cheap.

Anyways in my case I have seen sugar relationships reach where she snuggles with me and spends the night, is kind to my pets, lets me cum in her, and her rate drops over time and she stays longer. And we go on dates and watch movies together.

Is this more like a "natural" relationship? You tell me.Right I guess what you are describing as transition step between transactional arrangement turning more "natural". Natural relationship is more traditional dating but I get your point.

[Holocaust]

I'd advise against it. I've had girls that have sort of naturally moved into a non-transactional relationship, but it never really works out. I urge you to remember you met this girl when she was selling her cooter for cash. She's a hooker at heart, and I don't see it as any different than marrying / girlfriending a regular escort.

Not picking on the girls. I pay for pussy, so that says all they need to know about my character too. If you want an organic relationship, go hit a grocery store and meet your future sweetheart squeezing the melons.Definitely is an excellent point and something I do wary of.

[KingBaby]

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.I think many members have shared their thoughts already. I just want to add that because this started as a SR, then if you change the term of such, it will not likely to go well.

I am seeing other women on Bumble. Because we started as regular relationship, so of course we are just vanilla dating.

Best of luck tho.

[DrPornDawger]

I think many members have shared their thoughts already. I just want to add that because this started as a SR, then if you change the term of such, it will not likely to go well.

I am seeing other women on Bumble. Because we started as regular relationship, so of course we are just vanilla dating.

Best of luck tho.I'd like to address the elephant in the room.

Can we just call it casual no strings attached (NSA) fucking. WTF is dating. Dating multiple people.

Just call it what is, plain as Fucking.

[The Ass Man]

I'd like to address the elephant in the room.

Can we just call it casual no strings attached (NSA) fucking. WTF is dating. Dating multiple people.

Just call it what is, plain as Fucking.Fucking is more hun than dating anyways. Isn't that why we're all here.

[PussyPumper]

Anyone fancy a pair of lesbian step-sisters?

https://www.seeking.com/member/7333cf1e-a994-4a24-86f8-2f32d0530f42

[ArrogantBstrd]

https://www.seeking.com/member/94b22038-f7c5-41ed-b558-090b4cb3a31a

Any intel on her? She's been trying to reach out to me, but our schedules never matched.

[PussyPumper]

https://www.seeking.com/member/94b22038-f7c5-41ed-b558-090b4cb3a31a

Any intel on her? She's been trying to reach out to me, but our schedules never matched.I talked to her years back. Certainly willing, a pro or semi-pro SB. I am pretty sure there were posts about her years back somewhere, maybe here?

Photos are old by now. I did not end up seeing her. Something about the conversation we had just did not jibe with me. Maybe the pro / semi-pro approach, all business. I tend to look for SBs who are more innocent (or some that are not so innocent, such as a few porn stars). Oh, and she held out for more than I was willing to give her.

[The Ass Man]

Agree with PP on this one. I passed a few years back too. Came across as really high maintenance, pretty open to things but everything I had a price to the point where I sarcastically asked if there was an additional charge if I actually cum. She didn't get it. Unless you're attracted to her so much you need to see her there are better ones out there.


I talked to her years back. Certainly willing, a pro or semi-pro SB. I am pretty sure there were posts about her years back somewhere, maybe here?

Photos are old by now. I did not end up seeing her. Something about the conversation we had just did not jibe with me. Maybe the pro / semi-pro approach, all business. I tend to look for SBs who are more innocent (or some that are not so innocent, such as a few porn stars). Oh, and she held out for more than I was willing to give her.

[NickD]

https://www.seeking.com/member/94b22038-f7c5-41ed-b558-090b4cb3a31a

Any intel on her? She's been trying to reach out to me, but our schedules never matched.Like the others are saying, seemed very semi-pro / high maintenance and a little bit GPS. Had a late night car date with her on the street near her place. I think my timing was good because I talked her down a little but it was still higher than the standard rate, BBFS. Maybe CIP. Years back. Definitely older than advertised. Worth it for the excitement of new vag but haven't bothered to repeat.

[Poksman]

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.I've been in the sugar bowl for 5 years at least and been with many. In the last year and half, I've been with the same 2 women (a 22 yo and a 20 yo) and it is like a serious relationship although they don't know each other exist. I also see them as the hottest I've been with (and I've been with a lot) . It's serious for "now" but also monogamous and exclusive on their parts. 1 I'm sure is loyal, the other I have trust issues if she's loyal. But who am I to judge.

I do get introduced as "my BF" . And met friends family.

Yeah I pay both their rents and allowance.

[PussyPumper]

https://www.seeking.com/member/20fcd868-09c7-4429-a75f-054088a4935f

I talked to this MILF a few years ago. Unlike "Diana O", I had a good feeling, and was willing to see her, but could not make schedule work.

She has been on SA for years, so I feel sure someone has seen her! Any feedback, as her schedule may have changed?

Thanks,

- PP.

[JDeller]

Have you obtained any hint or clues that she has the same interest? If she doesn't, then you may mess up a good thing. If she has dropped hints, then I say go for it if you want a girlfriend more than a SB.


So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.

[RyanE36]

https://www.seeking.com/member/20fcd868-09c7-4429-a75f-054088a4935f

I talked to this MILF a few years ago. Unlike "Diana O", I had a good feeling, and was willing to see her, but could not make schedule work.

She has been on SA for years, so I feel sure someone has seen her! Any feedback, as her schedule may have changed?

Thanks,

- PP.We exchanged some texts. She's super hot, and it sounds like when you're with her you get several hours of relaxation, flirting, and fun together. Seems like this is a side-gig for her, and it was a bit out of my price range. Although I bet it's probably worth it. But, given that it sounds like she's in an "open relationship" right now, I typically don't play around with that either.

[FarFarAway]

I've done 2 M&Gs with my new crop of POTs. The first was absolutely a stunner, but she turned down my offer of an exclusive at 2 K / mo. I am trying to 'refer' her to someone who can afford her.

Today, I met a 23 YO brainiac, petite and pretty, we had a great connection by phone. She was on her way to grad school but the pandemic killed that so she's living at home this year. She says 'open relationship' but declines to say anything at all about it. She told me her mother suggested she join SA. My suspicion is that she's got a GF. She went on about how much she liked to get oral. Great initial meeting, nearly 2 hours, publicly at a coffee place, privately in my nearby car. We made out a bit and are heading to the FC Friday morning, she gets the room so I have no risk.This is why we do this. So, our first FC was top-notch, and I project more greatness to come. She had all sorts of kinky interests reflected in her wish list (I posted about using those for intel on girls in the Richmond sugar thread). We met at a place I told her to book through hotelsbyday. It's nice, near the airport, and $100 for 9 am - 3 pm. We spent 3 hours together. This girl has a brain and something to say, and I was in no big hurry. We did eventually get down to it, when I unwrapped the present, she's in a matching black string bra and panty set. She knows that this is about setting a mood, for both of us. Once I got her naked, she's got lovely pale skin and a puss that would make anyone's mouth water. Pretty lips and tastes sweet as can be. Happily, she also is super responsive, so just making out and fingering her, she gets off. OK, DATY, and another explosion. I try a little domination, making her hang her head off the side of the bed while she blew me. I didn't really drive it into her mouth, that's for another time. I am playing with her puss while she sucks, yet another O for her. This is really my ideal. Girls who can get off pretty easily, I really enjoy that. I wrap up and we start in missionary, we discuss positions and she's good with that, we just went for it that way, but more diversity to come in the future. Our genitals were a perfect match, even though she's petite and I am tall, it was Goldilocks. I want to see her weekly with a bi-monthly allowance, still have to get her reaction to my figure, 1 K.

[FarFarAway]

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.I have a long-time bowl buddy, living in Georgia. He is mid-40's, married, 3 kids, hooked up w / a 20 YO coed 3+ years ago. They truly fell in love. He went totally honest with her about his identity, they stuck together for all this time. Traveled together, etc. He in general knew that she wanted to get married and have kids, that wasn't in his future as he wasn't interested / is snipped. They, with great difficulty, distanced themselves, and she got a BF. He obviously didn't know details about that, but was blindsided when she got engaged to the BF. He's in a lot of pain about it. So, while there's no doubt the bowl can be a source of a lot of pleasure, it is intrinsically the case that it isn't designed to be a way to find someone you're going to end up with, long term.

[Sir Bishop]

I'm considering signing up for that premium subscription but it's kinda high. Being the miser and waiting for my 1400 in the mail. What are the plus and minus in the premium subscription? What's the success rate of finding a regular on SA? What major rookie tips do you have for a newcomer on SA?

[RyanE36]

I'm considering signing up for that premium subscription but it's kinda high. Being the miser and waiting for my 1400 in the mail. What are the plus and minus in the premium subscription? What's the success rate of finding a regular on SA? What major rookie tips do you have for a newcomer on SA?I dunno, if you're truly a miser, then you might not have great success. But it also depends what you want. I will say that I have had some success with MILFs that don't want anything in return, and don't need as much $$ to get warmed up. A lot of the younger girls seemed like a lot more work, but I'm sure the reward is probably better as well. I have gotten plenty of numbers from young ones and have been slowly cultivating a relationship over text for a few, so that hopefully when we do finally meet it might be a more affordable time.

I think if you look like a decent guy, are a gentlman, with a little bit of game, it's not hard to go far with less than what you'd pay with a pro.

[PussyPumper]

To SA or Not SA?
I'm considering signing up for that premium subscription but it's kinda high. Being the miser and waiting for my 1400 in the mail. What are the plus and minus in the premium subscription? What's the success rate of finding a regular on SA? What major rookie tips do you have for a newcomer on SA?
On SA the girls want to date "real daddies", not "salt daddies". If you think the SA premium is "high", and qualify for the 1400, you probably can't afford to be a real daddy.

[RogerOver]

I have a long-time bowl buddy, living in Georgia. He is mid-40's, married, 3 kids, hooked up w / a 20 YO coed 3+ years ago. They truly fell in love. He went totally honest with her about his identity, they stuck together for all this time. Traveled together, etc. He in general knew that she wanted to get married and have kids, that wasn't in his future as he wasn't interested / is snipped. They, with great difficulty, distanced themselves, and she got a BF. He obviously didn't know details about that, but was blindsided when she got engaged to the BF. He's in a lot of pain about it. So, while there's no doubt the bowl can be a source of a lot of pleasure, it is intrinsically the case that it isn't designed to be a way to find someone you're going to end up with, long term.This is exactly what can happen when you lose perspective on this shit. It always amazes me when this happens, and no disrespect to your friend, I think it tends to affect guys that haven't had a lot of success with women in their lives. You'd expect the sugar daddies to be the adult in the room. Sadly, not so much.

Thanks for sharing.

[RogerOver]

On SA the girls want to date "real daddies", not "salt daddies". If you think the SA premium is "high", and qualify for the 1400, you probably can't afford to be a real daddy.Yeah, and we want to date real sugar babies, not the vinegar babies, UTRs or Pros. Fuck the chicks and their cutesy names they assign dudes that don't want to pay their GPS bullshit.

They like to convince themselves they aren't hookers. You don't have to let on to them that you know they are, but they know, deep inside that they are selling that hoohoo for cash.

[FarFarAway]

This is exactly what can happen when you lose perspective on this shit. It always amazes me when this happens, and no disrespect to your friend, I think it tends to affect guys that haven't had a lot of success with women in their lives. You'd expect the sugar daddies to be the adult in the room. Sadly, not so much.

Thanks for sharing.You're welcome. This guy, he's a master too. He must have quite the patter, and look like Clooney + Pitt, b / c he could get all sorts of girls and bed them for small money. A seducer. But yes, don't ever think, even with a girl that you've spent a lot of time with, that it's real. The intrinsic element of unreality is what makes it work. As soon as you make her your regular GF and you have to see her with dirty hair, it's over. All that kinky sex you've both been enjoying. It's out the window. This is why we need to have the bowl *and* our SOs. Even if she was interested, I could never do w / my SO what I do w / my babies. And if I tried, she's look at me like 'where TF did you learn that!' LOL.

[Poksman]

On SA the girls want to date "real daddies", not "salt daddies". If you think the SA premium is "high", and qualify for the 1400, you probably can't afford to be a real daddy.You are 100% correct. From experience, I don't mind " negotiating" and asking price is not an issue in general but have had hot girls who don't ask much (eg lunch, dinner or uber money) and plain Jane's who were not worth the allowance. Supply and demand. But you are the customer.

[Chulit0]

https://www.seeking.com/member/4a14a62b-e912-4a25-bee7-e8cc2a94bb0f

What do you guys know about this curvalicious gal?

[PussyPumper]

https://www.seeking.com/member/4a14a62b-e912-4a25-bee7-e8cc2a94bb0f

What do you guys know about this curvalicious gal?For several reasons:

- Primary location is LA. Usually means SD is higher cost. You have to cover cost of 4+ hours travel (up / down).

- Wants gift from wishlist, absent which she says she may be too busy to respond.

- Knows her "value", which is always a bad sign.

With all those potential issues, why bother? If you like them with some meat/flab, then there are plenty of locals that fit the bill!
e.g. Honey Pot https://www.seeking.com/member/56e76dce-793b-4a6e-9d56-7c7ca62718d9
or https://www.seeking.com/member/12faf464-644d-44fd-8165-c26bfd04fd9f

[RogerOver]

For several reasons:

- Primary location is LA. Usually means SD is higher cost. You have to cover cost of 4+ hours travel (up / down).

- Wants gift from wishlist, absent which she says she may be too busy to respond.

- Knows her "value", which is always a bad sign.

With all those potential issues, why bother? If you like them with some meat/flab, then there are plenty of locals that fit the bill!
e.g. Honey Pot https://www.seeking.com/member/56e76dce-793b-4a6e-9d56-7c7ca62718d9
or https://www.seeking.com/member/12faf464-644d-44fd-8165-c26bfd04fd9fThose are some honest pics. Not my typical goto either, but I've had a curvy girl throw some awesome pussy on me. Never know.

[PussyPumper]

On the bench due to the pandemic, but here are three gals I got to enjoy via SA. Just to show what you can do (so to speak). Anyone else got some to share?

Leila. Awesome fuck! Last saw her on SA maybe 6-9 months ago.

http://www.sxyprn.net/post/6043a1160d290?sk=Girls-Do-Porn-E103&so=0&ss=latest

Tiina K, Eurobabe, available for kink / BDSM video / photo shoots, and much more.... Into anal. On SA within last few weeks - easy to find off of SA also.

https://txxx.com/videos/4008679/tiina-k-bryan-da-ferro-in-the-ghost-of-the-pool-mmm100/?promo=10376

Christy. All over the web these days. Saw her before she became famous. On SA pretty constantly.

https://www.pornhub.com/pornstar/christy-love

[PussyPumper]

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/seeking-arrangement-secret/id1522286546

[FarFarAway]

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/seeking-arrangement-secret/id1522286546PP. Please clean out your messages. I tried to DM you, it won't accept the message. FFA.

[PussyPumper]

Two new profiles today:

- Created at same time.

- Use same phrase about "looking for a nice, rich, older man".

- Both actually logged in from Japan.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0446a64a-aa1c-43b8-a888-1754846982c9

https://www.seeking.com/member/473d86a9-aa6a-4d5d-97b9-81675d7303f1

[Chulit0]

For several reasons:

- Primary location is LA. Usually means SD is higher cost. You have to cover cost of 4+ hours travel (up / down).

- Wants gift from wishlist, absent which she says she may be too busy to respond.

- Knows her "value", which is always a bad sign.

With all those potential issues, why bother? If you like them with some meat/flab, then there are plenty of locals that fit the bill!
e.g. Honey Pot https://www.seeking.com/member/56e76dce-793b-4a6e-9d56-7c7ca62718d9
or https://www.seeking.com/member/12faf464-644d-44fd-8165-c26bfd04fd9fHey man you ended up being right! Complete waste of my time. Most entitled girl I've chatted with on SA so far, (even for a big girl).

[PussyPumper]

Hey man you ended up being right! Complete waste of my time. Most entitled girl I've chatted with on SA so far, (even for a big girl).When there is more than one red flag, like with this girl, it is always best to save time and effort, and simply skip to the next.

[RyanE36]

Apparently a decent number of girls don't realize that guys have to pay on the site in order to be able to send messages. At least according to the conversations I've had with them online and in person.

Anyone know when SA might do another "deal" like they did for V-day or Saint Paddy's day?

[PussyPumper]

Apparently a decent number of girls don't realize that guys have to pay on the site in order to be able to send messages. At least according to the conversations I've had with them online and in person.

Anyone know when SA might do another "deal" like they did for V-day or Saint Paddy's day?
First point: I agree

Second point/question:
I think it depends how desperate SA are. They seem to be doing more specials, but they probably need to, as they raised prices recently. Years ago, their monthly used to be a level where I did not think about it. But now they want $1,200 a year?!! Not worth that, so the price increase has probably hurt them (my guess).

All that said, I believe they ran specials in the past around the time freshmen students have to decide on college offers. Will be interesting to see if they do so again.

[Hi Rub]

Layla wants 5 for 2 hours and she supplies hotel (escort? I got her down to 3 for an hour and her GPS kicked in when I passed on that offer. She offered BBJ, and protected for other 2 holes. I have 3 in rotation for 1. 2 so pass.

[Chulit0]

https://www.seeking.com/member/3a45ef12-f73c-45c4-95fc-587175a70458

This account messaged me first the other day, any intel?

[Dolemite50]

I should've known to be very skeptical of any of the ones that want your number right away and immediately want to meet that same day. But I was thinking with the wrong head. She wanted. 3 talked her down to. 2. Wasn't even worth. 025. Pics might be her, but are so doctored it's hard to tell. The unmade up face pic is definitely fake. She asked me to get a room. She showed up, got the allowance, spent all of about 10 minutes and was ready to bolt. The experience was so rushed and awful, I wished she had left in 5 minutes. SB's like this one will make you want to cancel your membership. YMMV.

https://www.seeking.com/member/43bb3943-9523-4a43-bc0d-123ab169ccce

[PussyPumper]

I should've known to be very skeptical of any of the ones that want your number right away and immediately want to meet that same day. But I was thinking with the wrong head. She wanted. 3 talked her down to. 2. Wasn't even worth. 025. Pics might be her, but are so doctored it's hard to tell. The unmade up face pic is definitely fake. She asked me to get a room. She showed up, got the allowance, spent all of about 10 minutes and was ready to bolt. The experience was so rushed and awful, I wished she had left in 5 minutes. SB's like this one will make you want to cancel your membership. YMMV.

https://www.seeking.com/member/43bb3943-9523-4a43-bc0d-123ab169ccceAlways think with the big head.

[Dudeonthecouch]

Layla wants 5 for 2 hours and she supplies hotel (escort? I got her down to 3 for an hour and her GPS kicked in when I passed on that offer. She offered BBJ, and protected for other 2 holes. I have 3 in rotation for 1. 2 so pass.She's on Humaniplex.

[SDJaziKing]

https://www.seeking.com/member/0573c023-0037-4a5b-8838-a36674438c3f

Anyone has info on this one? Not sure if she is on heavy side or not, judging from the picture.

[VikTerpentian]

Works in tech, wants $350 PPM. Ready for dinner / drinks and to come over if you have your own place. Rest is YMMV.

https://www.seeking.com/member/da98c682-06d1-4b3a-83ec-56862d4a02e5

[VikTerpentian]

Works in tech, wants $350 PPM. Ready for dinner / drinks and to come over if you have your own place. Rest is YMMV.

https://www.seeking.com/member/da98c682-06d1-4b3a-83ec-56862d4a02e5

[Lid532]

ShaylaLover wants $500 to meet non-intimately and a grand total of $1 k for intimate meetings. Not sure how all these complete newcomers decide on such high prices without any experience in the sugar world.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c0aa4276-a409-41d3-8cd2-3dc9bb43e92f

[PussyPumper]

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80% of guys with the kind of time you have on the forum take this crusade to PM's and tell people what they should or should not share in PM's, if you do that I will find out and I will ban you. Guys like you would destroy this forum, instead of telling guys not to post something because some chick might see it grow a pair of balls and don't give a fuck if some chick sees it. Some of you "SD's" (massive eye roll) simply insist on both paying these chicks and letting them do the worst shit that we all hate about girlfriends.

I will never understand it.

A2

[PussyPumper]

https://www.seeking.com/member/249babab-22ec-4ccb-902e-a1056c4a313d

Are you able to keep going for hours?

[FogHorn1]

ShaylaLover wants $500 to meet non-intimately and a grand total of $1 k for intimate meetings. Not sure how all these complete newcomers decide on such high prices without any experience in the sugar world.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c0aa4276-a409-41d3-8cd2-3dc9bb43e92fDepending on location 1 k per meeting isn't unheard of, just not for this one. Beauty being subjective and all but she doesn't look (to me) like a 1 k per meeting girl. That's typically reserved for the IG model types with very low mileage.

[Pay to Play]

Depending on location 1 k per meeting isn't unheard of, just not for this one. Beauty being subjective and all but she doesn't look (to me) like a 1 k per meeting girl. That's typically reserved for the IG model types with very low mileage.I know there are Sugar Daddy whales out there who drop that type of coin, and if they can afford to do that then great and that woman who have that should hold on tight because nothing is forever. When I talk to a woman who drops a number like that, I wish them well and keep fishing. There are plenty of fish in the sea at 200-400.

[PussyPumper]

Take a look at Alana's PD profile.

https://privatedelights.ch/USA/California/San-Diego/kinkyalanaamor_

600/ hr, which get you **NO** BBBJ, DFK, DATY, FOV, LFK, CIM, FIV, or Greek!

Here she is on SA.

https://www.seeking.com/member/311323a0-a1a1-44c6-9602-d3eb551f52cf

[AJaxer11]

Take a look at Alana's PD profile.

https://privatedelights.ch/USA/California/San-Diego/kinkyalanaamor_

600/ hr, which get you **NO** BBBJ, DFK, DATY, FOV, LFK, CIM, FIV, or Greek!

Here she is on SA.

https://www.seeking.com/member/311323a0-a1a1-44c6-9602-d3eb551f52cfYep I've seen a number of PD / HX / RR providers on SA. I just restarted my membership, sorting through all the fakes and the flakes is a pain LOL.

[RogerOver]

Take a look at Alana's PD profile.

https://privatedelights.ch/USA/California/San-Diego/kinkyalanaamor_

600/ hr, which get you **NO** BBBJ, DFK, DATY, FOV, LFK, CIM, FIV, or Greek!

Here she is on SA.

https://www.seeking.com/member/311323a0-a1a1-44c6-9602-d3eb551f52cfAnd the same username on both. They are so dumb.

[PussyPumper]

I recognize the photo in the garden on this profile.

It is a girl I talked to 2 years ago, when she was 18 and brand new on SA.

IIRC she was reported at the time as a rob. She certainly moved around constantly back then.

So, be careful!

https://www.seeking.com/member/25a96c4d-4705-441d-9a9a-0b1c9896c6ee

[AJaxer11]

I recognize the photo in the garden on this profile.

It is a girl I talked to 2 years ago, when she was 18 and brand new on SA.

IIRC she was reported at the time as a rob. She certainly moved around constantly back then.

So, be careful!

https://www.seeking.com/member/25a96c4d-4705-441d-9a9a-0b1c9896c6eeThanks for the heads up. She's been responding to my messages. Miss me with any sort of drama, screw that.

[KingBaby]

I recognize the photo in the garden on this profile.

It is a girl I talked to 2 years ago, when she was 18 and brand new on SA.

IIRC she was reported at the time as a rob. She certainly moved around constantly back then.

So, be careful!

https://www.seeking.com/member/25a96c4d-4705-441d-9a9a-0b1c9896c6eeGood call PP!

Back in the July of 2019, members have reported her here that she was a total ROB. She went by "Gia or Layla. ".

[Habeed]

Is this normal for the San Diego market? Tijuana is right there. You can probably get some CFS at the AMP right down the street. And of course there's SBs on SA, my current ones charge between 200 and 500 (for a tik tok model on the high end).

I'm just trying to see how 'Alana' has decided on her prices.


Take a look at Alana's PD profile.

https://privatedelights.ch/USA/California/San-Diego/kinkyalanaamor_

600/ hr, which get you **NO** BBBJ, DFK, DATY, FOV, LFK, CIM, FIV, or Greek!

Here she is on SA.

https://www.seeking.com/member/311323a0-a1a1-44c6-9602-d3eb551f52cf

[Habeed]

Take this profile: https://www.seeking.com/member/9d853868-be6a-423b-ac57-3077ae367a65.

"She" lives in Beverly Hills. Why 'interested' in someone so far away?

Well, her profile has the text "I don't meet up before I know you, I don't care how much money you got because I am not meeting up with you until I know who you are".

I think this means that this is just yet another one of the endless scammers clogging up the site. Because, guess how you "get to know" her? Yep, that's right, she will demand you buy her gifts. And once you stop giving her money, she will stop trying to "get to know" you back.

[Habeed]

This one's real: https://www.seeking.com/member/236646c3-fedf-4782-8eae-cc784f4d4066.

I'm still in contact with her so I have to be skimpy on the details. But she's attractive, the pics are accurate, and her attitude is extremely friendly and cheerful. I started to like her almost immediately on meeting her. I was probably overpaying as I didn't negotiate very hard with her. So I don't know what she will go down to.

[JWalker350]

This one's real: https://www.seeking.com/member/236646c3-fedf-4782-8eae-cc784f4d4066.

I'm still in contact with her so I have to be skimpy on the details. But she's attractive, the pics are accurate, and her attitude is extremely friendly and cheerful. I started to like her almost immediately on meeting her. I was probably overpaying as I didn't negotiate very hard with her. So I don't know what she will go down to.I know Haile. She lives in Escondido. I believe if you paid Haile by her asking price, it is probably near the high range.

[AtomicCrab]

Long time lurker here. For the fellow SD's this https://www.seeking.com/member/57670875-1701-42b3-a8ec-38361afca7c4 one is a total rinser. Says she has had sugar relationships before and is looking for long term arrangement. Will insist on meet and greet at high end restaurant and a gift without any intention to take it to a real date. Typical tick tock sugar baby.

[PussyPumper]

Long time lurker here. For the fellow SD's this https://www.seeking.com/member/57670875-1701-42b3-a8ec-38361afca7c4 one is a total rinser. Says she has had sugar relationships before and is looking for long term arrangement. Will insist on meet and greet at high end restaurant and a gift without any intention to take it to a real date. Typical tick tock sugar baby.This is standard rinse and repeat.

Can't repeat often enough to never, ever agree to this sort of meet&greet!

Why should they ever put out, when they have guys giving them gifts and fancy meals just to smile at them?

[Hi Rub]

I recognize the photo in the garden on this profile.

It is a girl I talked to 2 years ago, when she was 18 and brand new on SA.

IIRC she was reported at the time as a rob. She certainly moved around constantly back then.

So, be careful!

https://www.seeking.com/member/25a96c4d-4705-441d-9a9a-0b1c9896c6eeThis is the last text I got from this scammer.

"To keep this conversation going you need to send 50 $ . Oh and I only do cashapp, as you can understand I don't deal with people who just are wasting my time so if you're for real, money wouldn't be a problem. After we set up a date and time, location. ".

[TheCounselor]

https://www.seeking.com/member/b62293b7-41dd-4ff9-81c7-99acf22ad61c

This one was a lot cuter in person. $300 and CIP.Who stole this one from me?

[Mile22]

Take a look at Alana's PD profile.

https://privatedelights.ch/USA/California/San-Diego/kinkyalanaamor_

600/ hr, which get you **NO** BBBJ, DFK, DATY, FOV, LFK, CIM, FIV, or Greek!

Here she is on SA.

https://www.seeking.com/member/311323a0-a1a1-44c6-9602-d3eb551f52cfI met her two weeks ago.

I got BBBJ / CFS for 3 bills.

Even at that rate it was not worth it.

Her pics were flattering and her demeanor was hella business-like. I had no idea prior that she was on PD. Tbh I thought she was an OnlyFans girl. But now it makes too much sense.

If you're talking to her, take a pass. Trust me. There are better fish in the sea.

[Poksman]

I know there are Sugar Daddy whales out there who drop that type of coin, and if they can afford to do that then great and that woman who have that should hold on tight because nothing is forever. When I talk to a woman who drops a number like that, I wish them well and keep fishing. There are plenty of fish in the sea at 200-400.I have dropped 1 k per date but in the exceptional women that are rare. With years of experience on the high end escorts and sugar bowl. 1 k isn't bad. However. There are rare unicorns who are worth that drop but actually don't ask. I've had hotties who gave it up after dinner and Uber.

[AtomicCrab]

This is standard rinse and repeat.

Can't repeat often enough to never, ever agree to this sort of meet&greet!

Why should they ever put out, when they have guys giving them gifts and fancy meals just to smile at them?https://www.seeking.com/member/f42f694e-d82f-4bbd-8586-3cee8953166d She has had multiple accounts over the past couple of months. If you are not an experienced SD, you might fall for her ' trouble for paying rent, help me before we meet' crapp.

[FirstClass1]

Who stole this one from me?The streets owned her long before you did, my guy.

[MrLemon]

This is the last text I got from this scammer.

"To keep this conversation going you need to send 50 $ . Oh and I only do cashapp, as you can understand I don't deal with people who just are wasting my time so if you're for real, money wouldn't be a problem. After we set up a date and time, location. ".I remember this *****, I got scammed by this *****. Picked her up and she asked me to give her money so she can deposit it into her apple pay account. I told her I will only front her 1/2 and give her the other 1/2 after we do the deed.

After I go to the bank with her, and drive to the spot. She starts literally sprinting away from me in this apartment complex. I tried chasing her down, but through some corners she was able to lose track of me. It's the only time I got scamazed in my many years of hobbying. FUCK this *****.

[AJaxer11]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f42f694e-d82f-4bbd-8586-3cee8953166d She has had multiple accounts over the past couple of months. If you are not an experienced SD, you might fall for her ' trouble for paying rent, help me before we meet' crapp.She told me 300 to go over to her house and have some fun. I never replied cause it felt kind of sketch. She's sent me 10 messages over the last 2 days asking me to come play. No thanks!

[Waxxon]

Recall a report a couple years back that wasn't particularly reassuring. This looks like a sb I met several years ago, pretty and nice smile. If this is the same person, my experience was meh, and did not repeat. I wouldn't call her heavy, has a very athletic build. My notes, non GFE, and seemed overly concerned with her hair and makeup getting messed up. Then again, YMMV and maybe she has improved her game.


https://www.seeking.com/member/0573c023-0037-4a5b-8838-a36674438c3f

Anyone has info on this one? Not sure if she is on heavy side or not, judging from the picture.

[AtomicCrab]

She told me 300 to go over to her house and have some fun. I never replied cause it felt kind of sketch. She's sent me 10 messages over the last 2 days asking me to come play. No thanks!https://www.seeking.com/member/1cbcc4b5-0cfb-4848-ad18-757d48b753e7 wants to go for dinner immediately tonight after just exchanging "hi" . She's premium member, so I guess her strategy has been working LOL.

[PussyPumper]

https://www.seeking.com/member/1cbcc4b5-0cfb-4848-ad18-757d48b753e7 wants to go for dinner immediately tonight after just exchanging "hi" . She's premium member, so I guess her strategy has been working LOL.If they use their college email address with SA.

[Dsteezy]

So I'm pretty much retired from SA but I recently was browsing out of interest and I noticed this pregnant girl on SA in SD. Anyone know who I'm talking about? We've been messaging back in forth and I'm considering taking the plunge for a temporary set up.

Always been curious asf about that shit.

[RyanE36]

Anyone know anything about this chick? Messaged me a couple days ago, but my account expired not long before that and I already have a few phone numbers I collected before it expired that I plan on cycling through.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ae137706-fd88-4f11-b6b9-0ca5ac4ec68c

[PussyPumper]

So I'm pretty much retired from SA but I recently was browsing out of interest and I noticed this pregnant girl on SA in SD. Anyone know who I'm talking about? We've been messaging back in forth and I'm considering taking the plunge for a temporary set up.

Always been curious asf about that shit.Curious as to to what?

[RyanE36]

And this one too. I think I actually matched with her on a regular dating app before. https://www.seeking.com/member/aa912e03-da66-4fca-9be4-104ffc9a4395.

[PussyPumper]

And this one too. I think I actually matched with her on a regular dating app before. https://www.seeking.com/member/aa912e03-da66-4fca-9be4-104ffc9a4395.Both gals you just posted about explicitly rule me out with what they say on their profiles. Probably rule many other SDs out as well.

[PussyPumper]

Beware of this profile.

https://www.seeking.com/member/31fe4c13-fde2-4767-89ba-44e66c4b0529

Shows all the hallmarks of following a script.

- Very attractive photos (too pretty).

- Agrees too readily to everything.

- Asks you to send her money when you get to the point of asking to meet.

[PussyPumper]

https://www.seeking.com/member/0fcdb640-0699-4042-a992-b1cdb18ef60f

She asks 3. 5, so can probably negotiate lower.

[Cubico]

Beware of this profile.

https://www.seeking.com/member/31fe4c13-fde2-4767-89ba-44e66c4b0529
.

Shows all the hallmarks of following a script.

- Very attractive photos (too pretty).

- Agrees too readily to everything.

- Asks you to send her money when you get to the point of asking to meet.Is that what you call a rinser? I thought a rinser was a real girl who would meet but was just looking for free meals or drinks, or even shopping sessions but then disappear.

What you describe to me sounds like a scammer, I. E. A fake profile trying to steal money.

But in the end, both types would be thieves in my book, as even the rinser knows that the guy would expect more and she just leads him on to squeeze as much dough as possible from that guy before disappearing.

[PussyPumper]

Is that what you call a rinser? I thought a rinser was a real girl who would meet but was just looking for free meals or drinks, or even shopping sessions but then disappear.

What you describe to me sounds like a scammer, I. E. A fake profile trying to steal money.

But in the end, both types would be thieves in my book, as even the rinser knows that the guy would expect more and she just leads him on to squeeze as much dough as possible from that guy before disappearing.Was late, and I wrote too quickly.

[JWalker350]

Is that what you call a rinser? I thought a rinser was a real girl who would meet but was just looking for free meals or drinks, or even shopping sessions but then disappear.

What you describe to me sounds like a scammer, I. E. A fake profile trying to steal money.

But in the end, both types would be thieves in my book, as even the rinser knows that the guy would expect more and she just leads him on to squeeze as much dough as possible from that guy before disappearing.Girls with only one picture on SA are most likely scammers.

[CPMachine]

Any Intel? Says wants mentorship but open to intimacy. Meeting this week. https://www.seeking.com/member/a88830a8-3ce0-41cf-a0cd-ba9f829e39b7.

New to San Diego and glad to have a board to post to finally! Was in NorCal having a lot of luck but nowhere to share.

[PussyPumper]

https://www.seeking.com/member/ae3f0ead-de27-49f6-88ad-06daed3dcc30

Avoid.

[JWalker350]

Any Intel? Says wants mentorship but open to intimacy. Meeting this week. https://www.seeking.com/member/a88830a8-3ce0-41cf-a0cd-ba9f829e39b7.

New to San Diego and glad to have a board to post to finally! Was in NorCal having a lot of luck but nowhere to share.It was your first post and looked like you have never shared any information in this forum either Northern or Southern California. Looking forward to hear from you after your meeting.

[CPMachine]

It was your first post and looked like you have never shared any information in this forum either Northern or Southern California. Looking forward to hear from you after your meeting.Yes as stated in my post, thanks for the confirmation. There wasn't anywhere to review where I was from- Sacramento area hence no reviews hahaha thanks!

But this one turned out to be a flake. Set up a meet and greet then crickets.

Working 3 others and will follow up if anything good.

[MaxKat]

So I am so disenchanted with the normal HX / AMP / AA / PD scene that I am giving SA a go. I know ugh. I've researched the Richmond board as much as possible so hopefully I'll keep the scammed posts to a minimum. My plan is to contribute as much as I can here but I do have a few newbie questions. These two saw my profile and volunteered their phone # right off the bat. I have my suspicions. I'm not above a straight ppm if not GPS, but does anyone have any intel or experienced opinion on these? I have msg'd but not texted yet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/045a2292-503f-4bd9-961d-fa6987ad7a7e

https://www.seeking.com/member/444eca4e-3d17-e517-bb1f-acdf9834b05f

[CPMachine]

So I am so disenchanted with the normal HX / AMP / AA / PD scene that I am giving SA a go. I know ugh. I've researched the Richmond board as much as possible so hopefully I'll keep the scammed posts to a minimum. My plan is to contribute as much as I can here but I do have a few newbie questions. These two saw my profile and volunteered their phone # right off the bat. I have my suspicions. I'm not above a straight ppm if not GPS, but does anyone have any intel or experienced opinion on these? I have msg'd but not texted yet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/045a2292-503f-4bd9-961d-fa6987ad7a7e

https://www.seeking.com/member/444eca4e-3d17-e517-bb1f-acdf9834b05fI personally would stay clear of the 2nd one. No personal experience with her but she's be on since 2012. Most my experiences with the ones been doing this for awhile are pros mechanical and very transactional, expensive- might as well use Listcrawler. Now if that's what you seeking then hey go for it. But I prefer the newer, undamaged more willing to please.

Just don't over pay and don't pay anything upfront either way.

[CPMachine]

Thought was funny. Matched with her on bumble and ran into her on SA. Bumble says, "not looking for a sugar daddy lolz". Ummmm but your on SA?

https://www.seeking.com/member/127edea5-38f5-408d-b8fe-8a41505b7517

[PussyPumper]

So I am so disenchanted with the normal HX / AMP / AA / PD scene that I am giving SA a go. I know ugh. I've researched the Richmond board as much as possible so hopefully I'll keep the scammed posts to a minimum. My plan is to contribute as much as I can here but I do have a few newbie questions. These two saw my profile and volunteered their phone # right off the bat. I have my suspicions. I'm not above a straight ppm if not GPS, but does anyone have any intel or experienced opinion on these? I have msg'd but not texted yet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/045a2292-503f-4bd9-961d-fa6987ad7a7e

https://www.seeking.com/member/444eca4e-3d17-e517-bb1f-acdf9834b05fWomen on SA who contact you first tend to fall into several quite different categories:

1) Pros. Where by "pro" I mean escorts types with SA profiles. Easy to spot, tend to use escort terminology, quote my hour, have menus, etc. Wants to meet quickly.

2) Semi-pro. Not an escort, but has been in the SB scene for a while, and has become used to it, and now looks for daddies as a matter of course. Very different vibe to 1).

3) The desperate. Rent is due, have lost work, etc. This usually becomes clear, and they often want to meet / get money now!

4) Some genuine interest in something specific you say, or some specific look. But beware of general "I liked your profile" non-specific messages.

5) The bored and / or newbies with nothing better to do. SBs can be bored late at night.

As for the two specific profiles you list.

- First one never responded to messages I sent a few months ago, so probably not case 1). Pros usually respond.

- Second is a semi-pro. But is not at all mechanical or burnt out, or at least was not when I saw her. Very sexual, good body. Nice gal.

[FunWallisD]

So I am so disenchanted with the normal HX / AMP / AA / PD scene that I am giving SA a go. I know ugh. I've researched the Richmond board as much as possible so hopefully I'll keep the scammed posts to a minimum. My plan is to contribute as much as I can here but I do have a few newbie questions. These two saw my profile and volunteered their phone # right off the bat. I have my suspicions. I'm not above a straight ppm if not GPS, but does anyone have any intel or experienced opinion on these? I have msg'd but not texted yet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/045a2292-503f-4bd9-961d-fa6987ad7a7e

https://www.seeking.com/member/444eca4e-3d17-e517-bb1f-acdf9834b05fI literally opened up a new account yesterday and lo behold. "Mandy" decided to message me as well with her phone number.

[MaxKat]

I personally would stay clear of the 2nd one. No personal experience with her but she's be on since 2012. Most my experiences with the ones been doing this for awhile are pros mechanical and very transactional, expensive- might as well use Listcrawler. Now if that's what you seeking then hey go for it. But I prefer the newer, undamaged more willing to please.

Just don't over pay and don't pay anything upfront either way.Yup Mandy was very polite and upfront, wanted 400 per meet. I passed.

[CPMachine]

Anyone have intel? This one checks off some of my "need to do it with type" boxes.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e26278bb-7f7d-a65a-5006-ca940bc5be8b

[MaxKat]

https://www.seeking.com/member/270228bf-3ee2-46c7-8a7c-ca6cc05ad5e2

I wonder how long it took her to perfectly craft these cut and paste responses.

[MaxKat]

https://www.seeking.com/member/aa6477f1-e491-4951-a86f-dac5b37fd491

I guess you would call Rose a semi-pro, very straightforward and to the point, wants 600 per meet. Meh, 4 times a month for 2400 for a basically a day's work. It's funny I could make 10 times what I do now and still balk at that. I know it's my issue to deal with.

[FingerLicking]

https://www.seeking.com/member/aa6477f1-e491-4951-a86f-dac5b37fd491

I guess you would call Rose a semi-pro, very straightforward and to the point, wants 600 per meet. Meh, 4 times a month for 2400 for a basically a day's work. It's funny I could make 10 times what I do now and still balk at that. I know it's my issue to deal with.She is hot. If I was still in the bowl I would talk her down to 500 and probably meet up one time just to see if she is worth it.

[JWalker350]

https://www.seeking.com/member/270228bf-3ee2-46c7-8a7c-ca6cc05ad5e2

I wonder how long it took her to perfectly craft these cut and paste responses.Thanks for the information. It is indeed a scammer.

[JWalker350]

Thought was funny. Matched with her on bumble and ran into her on SA. Bumble says, "not looking for a sugar daddy lolz". Ummmm but your on SA?

https://www.seeking.com/member/127edea5-38f5-408d-b8fe-8a41505b7517I know some girls are looking for both bf and sd.

[MaxKat]

https://www.seeking.com/member/006d4606-ea06-4df3-a03f-228be0f30d67

I am also going to throw this to the Richmond board. I have had several perfectly normal chats with this girl, talking about grad school and what not, but at some point you have to start getting down to brass tacks, right? She is my ideal case, a college student with goals that needs a little help. Although that is not exactly clear from her profile, info is it. Here is a pic of the last few texts I've had with her, and frankly I don't know how to respond to her last text. Is she just playing dumb and jerking me around? She has been a member for a year, seriously acting like you just stumbled onto SA? Am I supposed to spend endless hours chatting up a girl like this to convince her to sell herself? Anyway I'm thinking that I'm wasting my time with this one. Or does anyone think this could moved forward from here?

[RyanE36]

https://www.seeking.com/member/006d4606-ea06-4df3-a03f-228be0f30d67

I am also going to throw this to the Richmond board. I have had several perfectly normal chats with this girl, talking about grad school and what not, but at some point you have to start getting down to brass tacks, right? She is my ideal case, a college student with goals that needs a little help. Although that is not exactly clear from her profile, info is it. Here is a pic of the last few texts I've had with her, and frankly I don't know how to respond to her last text. Is she just playing dumb and jerking me around? She has been a member for a year, seriously acting like you just stumbled onto SA? Am I supposed to spend endless hours chatting up a girl like this to convince her to sell herself? Anyway I'm thinking that I'm wasting my time with this one. Or does anyone think this could moved forward from here?If you think she's worth it, try just going on a normal date with her. No expectations going in and be a gentleman. I've got limited experience in this game, but from what I can tell there are some girls that'll happily open up wide if you're a gentleman, others may lower their "price" substantially if they like you and you make things feel less transactional. So try a date, see how things are going. If you feel there's natural chemistry see if she wants to go back to her place, or offer her a massage at a nearby motel or something. Maybe? Like I said, I've got limited experience in this game.

[JWalker350]

https://www.seeking.com/member/006d4606-ea06-4df3-a03f-228be0f30d67

I am also going to throw this to the Richmond board. I have had several perfectly normal chats with this girl, talking about grad school and what not, but at some point you have to start getting down to brass tacks, right? She is my ideal case, a college student with goals that needs a little help. Although that is not exactly clear from her profile, info is it. Here is a pic of the last few texts I've had with her, and frankly I don't know how to respond to her last text. Is she just playing dumb and jerking me around? She has been a member for a year, seriously acting like you just stumbled onto SA? Am I supposed to spend endless hours chatting up a girl like this to convince her to sell herself? Anyway I'm thinking that I'm wasting my time with this one. Or does anyone think this could moved forward from here?I exchanged messages with her more than 11 months ago. Since our messages were removed from SA server after 6 mos, I am not able to review it. I did not recall why I dropped the ball. Possible she just wanted platonic dates in exchange for allowances. I did not want wasting my time and stopped messaging. I had number of girls played dump like in your case. 99% just want platonic dates.

[PussyPumper]

https://www.seeking.com/member/006d4606-ea06-4df3-a03f-228be0f30d67

I am also going to throw this to the Richmond board. I have had several perfectly normal chats with this girl, talking about grad school and what not, but at some point you have to start getting down to brass tacks, right? She is my ideal case, a college student with goals that needs a little help. Although that is not exactly clear from her profile, info is it. Here is a pic of the last few texts I've had with her, and frankly I don't know how to respond to her last text. Is she just playing dumb and jerking me around? She has been a member for a year, seriously acting like you just stumbled onto SA? Am I supposed to spend endless hours chatting up a girl like this to convince her to sell herself? Anyway I'm thinking that I'm wasting my time with this one. Or does anyone think this could moved forward from here?Big red flag right up front. Last login Germany.

And non-specific, vague profile.

[MaxKat]

Big red flag right up front. Last login Germany.

And non-specific, vague profile.Yeah I didn't know what to make of that. The number she has been texting from has a San Diego area code. So?? Unfortunately most of the profiles on SA are vague, generic, or vapid. Basically like any other dating site LOL. Ladies if you want some $ thrown at you put in a bit more effort.