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Mark Powers
02-25-25, 18:48
Met her a couple weeks ago. Says Boston but she's in Concord, NH area. She's eager to meet and willing to travel. A bit heavier than pics and skin is not very clear, but great huge tits. She pretty much just wanted to meet quickly and go so probably will only be one time for me. We did 250. I think she might take less. PM with questions.
Patriarchist
02-25-25, 23:12
Are you postulating that she went there for WEEKS hoping you'd show up there. . . Only to then (A) not approach you at the venue and (B) delete her profile afterwards??
That sounds 99.99% a coincidence, 0. 01% a stalking situation.
It's human nature to ascribe all sorts of things to mere coincidence. HOWEVER it does point up that coincidences DO happen. . . So if you're married and out somewhere with a SB and think "what are the chances that anyone that knows me will be here" . . . Well the chances are NOT zero. And these low likelihood / high impact coincidences are how people get busted by their wives / gf's / friends-of-wives etc etc etc.Perhaps stalking is not the best word but "bored curiosity. " Never underestimate the boredom, desperation and fear of rejection harbored by post-wall single moms.
To add to my experience, she also waited for me to leave, which was very late at night, left at the exact same time and stood right next to me staring at me the whole time while I took care of administrative business at the venue before exiting.
Perhaps stalkinpg is not tphe best word but "bored curiosity. " Never underestimate the boredom, desperation and fear of rejection harbored by post-wall single moms.
To add to my experience, she also waited for me to leave, which was very late at night, left at the exact same time and stood right next to me staring at me the whole time while I took care of administrative business at the venue before exiting.Profile please.
JClearMan1
02-27-25, 15:18
Met her a couple weeks ago. Says Boston but she's in Concord, NH area. She's eager to meet and willing to travel. A bit heavier than pics and skin is not very clear, but great huge tits. She pretty much just wanted to meet quickly and go so probably will only be one time for me. We did 250. I think she might take less. PM with questions.Seeking doesn't enforce uniqueness for usernames. There could be 100's of profiles called "Jolene". Is this who you're referring to? https://members.seeking.com/member/777f68f5-15c5-48ed-aded-f3179086340f.
Mark Powers
02-27-25, 20:37
Seeking doesn't enforce uniqueness for usernames. There could be 100's of profiles called "Jolene". Is this who you're referring to? https://members.seeking.com/member/777f68f5-15c5-48ed-aded-f3179086340f.Sorry. Meant to include the link.
This one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a33a3fee-4412-4528-a95d-78eba92e4e1d
PoolPlayInTool
02-28-25, 12:11
https://members.seeking.com/member/b83872c4-a9d6-46a8-83a1-7aa098b918b5??locale=en_USS
She wants an allowance, I brought up PPM and I got the attitude and the comment "I know what I am worth".
FYI she contacted me first, our conversation went to Text off seeking. I was very nice with her.
Reversed searched her photos and found the uncensored one of her tits.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b83872c4-a9d6-46a8-83a1-7aa098b918b5??locale=en_USS
She wants an allowance, I brought up PPM and I got the attitude and the comment "I know what I am worth".
FYI she contacted me first, our conversation went to Text off seeking. I was very nice with her.
Reversed searched her photos and found the uncensored one of her tits.Back then she wanted 300 ppm but we could never meet up. She was out in Westfield if I recall. Hasn't updated her pics in like 5 years,. Her tits were magnificent has anyone met up with her .
PoolPlayInTool
02-28-25, 15:06
Back then she wanted 300 ppm but we could never meet up. She was out in Westfield if I recall. Hasn't updated her pics in like 5 years,. Her tits were magnificent has anyone met up with her .I am in Connecticut, she said she works out of Hartford and Mystic as well as Boston. Contact her you ill get the same like I did.
JClearMan1
02-28-25, 15:23
https://members.seeking.com/member/b83872c4-a9d6-46a8-83a1-7aa098b918b5??locale=en_USS
She wants an allowance, I brought up PPM and I got the attitude and the comment "I know what I am worth".
FYI she contacted me first, our conversation went to Text off seeking. I was very nice with her.
Reversed searched her photos and found the uncensored one of her tits.She's either gone, or I'm blocked. Can you post her name and a picture from her account?
I On Da Street
02-28-25, 16:28
She's either gone, or I'm blocked. Can you post her name and a picture from her account?User is JBoombaby, She would contact me, chat very little and then ghost me. I'm on a break from paying and of course she reaches out to me but this game has been going on too long.
User is JBoombaby, She would contact me, chat very little and then ghost me. I'm on a break from paying and of course she reaches out to me but this game has been going on too long.Iif that pic is the same woman. She looks much younger in that picture.
Always make a secondary account so you can see if your blocked.
Iif that pic is the same woman. She looks much younger in that picture.
Always make a secondary account so you can see if your blocked.You can no longer make a new account without using their 'send a pic' system.
I won't be doing that (and had already deleted my account) . . . So absent using a work-around I'll never have a SA account again.
Does anyone else have the issue when clicking a seeking link here, the new tab opens but there is an immediate message of "Profile No Longer Exists"?
I've clicked links I know are active due to other members commenting after me, and yet they don't load a profile. I haven't found any answers online regarding this specific issue. I've also tried to just copy and paste, with no luck.
Does anyone else have the issue when clicking a seeking link here, the new tab opens but there is an immediate message of "Profile No Longer Exists"?
I've clicked links I know are active due to other members commenting after me, and yet they don't load a profile. I haven't found any answers online regarding this specific issue. I've also tried to just copy and paste, with no luck.It means what it says. Either they deactivated or blocked you.
DarkClouds
03-03-25, 17:18
Same. That site is dead for me. Just as well, because I sort of had my fill over the years. My bucket list is completely checked off!
You can no longer make a new account without using their 'send a pic' system.
I won't be doing that (and had already deleted my account) . . . So absent using a work-around I'll never have a SA account again.
PoolPlayInTool
03-03-25, 17:47
You can no longer make a new account without using their 'send a pic' system.
I won't be doing that (and had already deleted my account) . . . So absent using a work-around I'll never have a SA account again.Work around is somewhat easy, I set up another account when asked to take a picture of myself I wore my covid mask, put on a hoodie and looked down.
It took a couple of tries but it worked.
Blocked wouldn't even be an option due to having never talked to anyone using the site yet.
I guess deactivated is possible. Surprising that it's every link in this forum and others.
It means what it says. Either they deactivated or blocked you.
Blocked wouldn't even be an option due to having never talked to anyone using the site yet.
I guess deactivated is possible. Surprising that it's every link in this forum and others.Not that surprising. Interest from this forum may not be what some of them are looking for. There's a lot of churn in general there.
Mark Powers
03-03-25, 19:49
Blocked wouldn't even be an option due to having never talked to anyone using the site yet.
I guess deactivated is possible. Surprising that it's every link in this forum and others.I often find some links load as unavailable like I was blocked but then I can load them later.
I stopped using the site. It kept asking, "Verify with a Selfie". I'm not doing that. If anybody know how to work around it, please let me know.
You can no longer make a new account without using their 'send a pic' system.
I won't be doing that (and had already deleted my account) . . . So absent using a work-around I'll never have a SA account again.
Same. That site is dead for me. Just as well, because I sort of had my fill over the years. My bucket list is completely checked off!This is how I feel. Definitely had a ton of amazing encounters. . . And enough shite that I'm no longer pressing my luck.
And despite this being a HUGE college town, it's pretty clear that college and grad school women are no longer participating. Not nearly to the extent they were 2012 to 2020. There were Wellesley college girls on SA back then; I picked up and dropped off several from in front of their dorms. Bentley too. Nada for quite a while. I guess they learned that it wasn't the easy money they'd hoped for.
DarkClouds
03-03-25, 21:14
Same. Add BC, Suffolk, and UMass to the list. Not sure if it's the ladies backing out or us guys not willing to put in the effort we once did. I know that back in the day I was putting in a lot of effort to secure those gems. It did not come easy. And now I'm satiated. Not as eager to put in the same effort. Moving on to other things. Bucket list is all checked off. At least for now.
This is how I feel. Definitely had a ton of amazing encounters. . . And enough shite that I'm no longer pressing my luck.
And despite this being a HUGE college town, it's pretty clear that college and grad school women are no longer participating. Not nearly to the extent they were 2012 to 2020. There were Wellesley college girls on SA back then; I picked up and dropped off several from in front of their dorms. Bentley too. Nada for quite a while. I guess they learned that it wasn't the easy money they'd hoped for.
Same. Add BC, Suffolk, and UMass to the list. Not sure if it's the ladies backing out or us guys not willing to put in the effort we once did. I know that back in the day I was putting in a lot of effort to secure those gems. It did not come easy. And now I'm satiated. Not as eager to put in the same effort. Moving on to other things. Bucket list is all checked off. At least for now.May be some of both; I did put in HOURS. . .
But in the past couple of years just browsing the profiles frequently led me to see that those college and grad school ladies are just not on the site in nearly the numbers they used to be.
As recently as this fall starting with the return of students to the city I gave it a good try. . . So I think that my data are pretty accurate and thorough to conclude that "sugaring" has largely gone out of style among that crowd, whereas it was pretty hot in the 5 years before covid for example.
But absolutely when we've lost our motivation to put in the time and effort. . . It of course looks grim in any event. I have the time on my hands; I'd do it if I thought the returns outweighed the risks.
JClearMan1
03-04-25, 17:48
User is JBoombaby, She would contact me, chat very little and then ghost me. I'm on a break from paying and of course she reaches out to me but this game has been going on too long.Oh yeah, she's bogus. We discussed an arrangement, made plans agreed on time and place. I sat waiting for her in a hotel lobby for hours. Finally she said she was too busy to come meet, and wanted to reschedule. We rescheduled and she flaked again. That was it for me.
Good morning everyone!
I've been texting with Carolina for a few days now and we have plans to meet up this Friday.
Has anyone met her? Good or bad experience?
https://members.seeking.com/member/4548d7e8-61f5-42bd-97b6-71cd254644ec
Thanks!
JClearMan1
03-07-25, 10:26
Good morning everyone!
I've been texting with Carolina for a few days now and we have plans to meet up this Friday.
Has anyone met her? Good or bad experience?
https://members.seeking.com/member/4548d7e8-61f5-42bd-97b6-71cd254644ec
Thanks!Says she's in Groton? I'm guessing Connecticut. Maybe that board can be of help.
It lists groton ma but she's closer to Nashua.
Says she's in Groton? I'm guessing Connecticut. Maybe that board can be of help.
It lists groton ma but she's closer to Nashua.I'm on social media with her but has been quiet lately. She has been on SB and SA for a while. I never pulled the trigger as she isn't really my type. Works in SNH lives near Groton.
JClearMan1
03-12-25, 11:14
It lists groton ma but she's closer to Nashua.Ohhhh gotcha! Sorry for the confusion.
OptimusSlime
03-20-25, 13:51
She seems real. Texted with her a bit but she proved to be nothing but a huge time waster never actually met even though we made plans to multiple times. Kinda the opposite of what she says in her profile but I am curious if anyone on here had actual luck with meeting her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/643b8efc-1702-4217-a9d6-a6eb99503d22
Actually had a meeting set up which I canceled because you have to pay for a room and 700 is non negotiable.
She seems real. Texted with her a bit but she proved to be nothing but a huge time waster never actually met even though we made plans to multiple times. Kinda the opposite of what she says in her profile but I am curious if anyone on here had actual luck with meeting her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/643b8efc-1702-4217-a9d6-a6eb99503d22
https://members.seeking.com/member/7516059f-62bf-41ca-b8ea-ac8d69384239
She seems real. I offered her $200 ppm and she countered that she has been offered 400 and 600. I told her to take those then as I am attractive and attentive so she can make the decision that bests suits her.
Actually had a meeting set up which I canceled because you have to pay for a room and 700 is non negotiable.She told me 600 recently! I also found her to be a huge time waster, pain in the ass to text with, and never met her, there is no way I am paying 600 for someone over 30, I can meet women over 30 for free at bars (I probably wouldn't pay 600 for anyone, I am usually in the 400-500 range for college girls, this woman intrigued me a little bit but 600? Nope.
PoolPlayInTool
03-21-25, 16:44
https://members.seeking.com/member/7516059f-62bf-41ca-b8ea-ac8d69384239
She seems real. I offered her $200 ppm and she countered that she has been offered 400 and 600. I told her to take those then as I am attractive and attentive so she can make the decision that bests suits her.$200 good luck with that number, sure you can find women that will go that low but they usually do so for a reason.
AcknowledgeMe
03-21-25, 17:22
https://members.seeking.com/member/7516059f-62bf-41ca-b8ea-ac8d69384239
She seems real. I offered her $200 ppm and she countered that she has been offered 400 and 600. I told her to take those then as I am attractive and attentive so she can make the decision that bests suits her.Your on a sugar daddy site with beautiful young woman offering 200 dollars?
Your on a sugar daddy site with beautiful young woman offering 200 dollars?We found whos been pumping up the ugly girls. This girl is a 150-200 at best with those looks and that age. Most 21 year Olds still take 400 if you talk to them nicely.
Mark Powers
03-22-25, 08:56
We found whos been pumping up the ugly girls. This girl is a 150-200 at best with those looks and that age. Most 21 year Olds still take 400 if you talk to them nicely.Agreed. I usually use a combination of age and hotness but have found hot ones in their young 20's will take 400, older 20's / young 30's 300, over 33 and you're in 200-250 territory. If they're not hot just dial those all back by 50-100. If they're in the less than 200 range I'm probably not looking for that.
Agreed. I usually use a combination of age and hotness but have found hot ones in their young 20's will take 400, older 20's / young 30's 300, over 33 and you're in 200-250 territory. If they're not hot just dial those all back by 50-100. If they're in the less than 200 range I'm probably not looking for that.Agreed. I've had early 20's and fucking hot for 400 so the older and less hot someone is form that the lower I'm willing to pay. If older / less hot is holding out for more money I don't care, I can bide my time to connect with another hot early 20's.
That particular profile is 37 yo and "curvy" with only one picture and it hides what her actual figure looks like. If I were interested I'd be offering around 150 just as the OP did.
I don't know how else to say this, but I'm 32, fairly attractive, and I'm fit. I've got a meetup on Tuesday that's only costing me dinner. She wants it terribly bad and didn't once ask to be paid.
I've got another who hit me up in Nashua and after talking, we're meeting up for $250.
A third one wants to go on dates and hasn't once mention being paid. She just wants fun dates and my attention which I would happily give because she's fucking gorgeous.
YMMV.
Your on a sugar daddy site with beautiful young woman offering 200 dollars?
AcknowledgeMe
03-23-25, 12:42
I don't know how else to say this, but I'm 32, fairly attractive, and I'm fit. I've got a meetup on Tuesday that's only costing me dinner. She wants it terribly bad and didn't once ask to be paid.
I've got another who hit me up in Nashua and after talking, we're meeting up for $250.
A third one wants to go on dates and hasn't once mention being paid. She just wants fun dates and my attention which I would happily give because she's fucking gorgeous..I agree with this statement. My buddy who is lets say not fit and overweight. But he meets girls on seeking and takes them on casino dates where everything for him is free at encore. Suites, steakhouse and then they go drinking and ends up nailing chicks for free because its a night out and spent. Personally I'd rather pay and have them fuck and leave then go out of dates. But yeah it does work showing these woman a good time.
OptimusSlime
03-23-25, 14:42
I don't know how else to say this, but I'm 32, fairly attractive, and I'm fit. I've got a meetup on Tuesday that's only costing me dinner. She wants it terribly bad and didn't once ask to be paid.
I've got another who hit me up in Nashua and after talking, we're meeting up for $250.
A third one wants to go on dates and hasn't once mention being paid. She just wants fun dates and my attention which I would happily give because she's fucking gorgeous.
YMMV.So you are "32, fairly attractive, and fit" and you are chasing that fat 37 year old for 200? Suuuuuuuuure dude.
JClearMan1
03-23-25, 15:48
She seems real. Texted with her a bit but she proved to be nothing but a huge time waster never actually met even though we made plans to multiple times. Kinda the opposite of what she says in her profile but I am curious if anyone on here had actual luck with meeting her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/643b8efc-1702-4217-a9d6-a6eb99503d22That matches my experience.
We're all here cause we like to fuck, aren't we?
Grow up, dude. You don't know me or what I like to do. And if you think Jax is fat, you need to visit an eye doctor.
I'm the wingman that will keep a girls 250 lb friend occupied while my buddy takes the hottie. I've legitimately fucked in the middle of a 30+head house party when not a single other person was even getting sexual.
Do you understand the point I'm trying to make?
So you are "32, fairly attractive, and fit" and you are chasing that fat 37 year old for 200? Suuuuuuuuure dude.
You'll probably try and say this photo is photoshopped or something. She's not costing me anything but time and an above average dinner.
So you are "32, fairly attractive, and fit" and you are chasing that fat 37 year old for 200? Suuuuuuuuure dude.
Banjomania
03-23-25, 19:29
Ditto here.
That matches my experience.
You'll probably try and say this photo is photoshopped or something. She's not costing me anything but time and an above average dinner.Definitely a cool text exchange, not photoshopped. BUT.
Usually followed by " Hey Hon, I need a deposit / Gas money / Babysitter money etc".
I sincerely look forward to the after story.
I connected with a girl and took it offline, went back and forth multiple times and discussed meeting for reasonable money. Zero red flags, local number, didn't seem like I was speaking to someone in Nigeria etc. We planned to meet in JP at a neutral spot. She sent me a google link to the location- which came up when I clicked on it. Within 5 minutes, I had a response wit all of my personal info, like all of it and threats to text everyone and anyone I knew that they had found on public search etc. Didn't want wild extortion money but I still ignored. Luckily I have no one that wouldn't just laugh at me for being a dumbass in my life so was no big deal but I can imagine that when they find the right person- this is very effective. I did change all my passwords and closed my account to avoid any access just incase but wanted to give everyone a heads up. I assume it was something within that link that sent my ISP or something along those lines.
MajorJohnson
03-24-25, 13:07
Definitely a cool text exchange, not photoshopped. BUT.
Usually followed by " Hey Hon, I need a deposit / Gas money / Babysitter money etc".
I sincerely look forward to the after story.I've heard them all, babysitter money, gas money, ran out of gas, car broke down. All after a plan was made. Only time I actually met face to face was with this hot curvy blonde, all T and A, looked great. Made plans for a dinner to break the ice, fancy steak place. Got the old I need $100 for babysitter; sister can't watch the kid. I said I'll give it to ya at restaurant when I pay the tab. She showed up, had a great dinner listening to her story, she was built, looked like Jayne Mansfield but bigger tits, everyone was staring at her. Lost track of her, she's off SA now. Her picture there was in a blue cocktail dress that showed off her great figure.
I connected with a girl and took it offline, went back and forth multiple times and discussed meeting for reasonable money. Zero red flags, local number, didn't seem like I was speaking to someone in Nigeria etc. We planned to meet in JP at a neutral spot. She sent me a google link to the location- which came up when I clicked on it. Within 5 minutes, I had a response wit all of my personal info, like all of it and threats to text everyone and anyone I knew that they had found on public search etc. Didn't want wild extortion money but I still ignored. Luckily I have no one that wouldn't just laugh at me for being a dumbass in my life so was no big deal but I can imagine that when they find the right person- this is very effective. I did change all my passwords and closed my account to avoid any access just incase but wanted to give everyone a heads up. I assume it was something within that link that sent my ISP or something along those lines.Were you using your real phone number?
Mark Powers
03-24-25, 16:10
I connected with a girl and took it offline, went back and forth multiple times and discussed meeting for reasonable money. Zero red flags, local number, didn't seem like I was speaking to someone in Nigeria etc. We planned to meet in JP at a neutral spot. She sent me a google link to the location- which came up when I clicked on it. Within 5 minutes, I had a response wit all of my personal info, like all of it and threats to text everyone and anyone I knew that they had found on public search etc. Didn't want wild extortion money but I still ignored. Luckily I have no one that wouldn't just laugh at me for being a dumbass in my life so was no big deal but I can imagine that when they find the right person- this is very effective. I did change all my passwords and closed my account to avoid any access just incase but wanted to give everyone a heads up. I assume it was something within that link that sent my ISP or something along those lines.Were you using a burner or voip number or your real number? Scary that they can hack you with a link. Are you on iOS?
Mark Powers
03-24-25, 21:13
Anyone know if this one is real? Profile seems like she would be, but getting a weird vibe on text.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3ccc36c8-b1f3-4001-aed1-bf72bbb01074
Were you using your real phone number?They do it by facial recognition of the pics. Super easy to do.
I connected with a girl and took it offline, went back and forth multiple times and discussed meeting for reasonable money. Zero red flags, local number, didn't seem like I was speaking to someone in Nigeria etc. We planned to meet in JP at a neutral spot. She sent me a google link to the location- which came up when I clicked on it. Within 5 minutes, I had a response wit all of my personal info, like all of it and threats to text everyone and anyone I knew that they had found on public search etc. Didn't want wild extortion money but I still ignored. Luckily I have no one that wouldn't just laugh at me for being a dumbass in my life so was no big deal but I can imagine that when they find the right person- this is very effective. I did change all my passwords and closed my account to avoid any access just incase but wanted to give everyone a heads up. I assume it was something within that link that sent my ISP or something along those lines.Everyone really needs to learn the risks in 2025 of sending pics that show your face. Whether or not they've ever been posted anywhere online, there are facial recognition websites that'll ID you by comparing the face in the pic to other online pics. I've tried it on myself and it 100% works.
This absolutely is happening on Seeking; fake profiles made by these blackmailers to get access to pics of men they can blackmail. They get the pic, find other pics online of the victim (LinkedIn often) . . . Then to a people search site and get all the identifying info (including your "real" phone number when all you gave them was a burner number) and then onto Facebook etc etc. Can all be done in 5-10 minutes total for sure.
The only way to prevent this is to not send a face pic (or give access to them that are stored on a site such as Seeking). We all get to decide. Because as you write, the "bait" profiles and communication on Seeking looks and sounds 100% normal like any other 20-something woman.
Were you using a burner or voip number or your real number? Scary that they can hack you with a link. Are you on iOS?It's not a hack and given that it's based on face pics, the use of a voip / burner number doesn't help. Once they have your real name it's easy to get your phone number, street address, and names of relatives from a people verification site that costs $10/ month to subscribe to.
I connected with a girl and took it offline, went back and forth multiple times and discussed meeting for reasonable money. Zero red flags, local number, didn't seem like I was speaking to someone in Nigeria etc. We planned to meet in JP at a neutral spot. She sent me a google link to the location- which came up when I clicked on it. Within 5 minutes, I had a response wit all of my personal info, like all of it and threats to text everyone and anyone I knew that they had found on public search etc. Didn't want wild extortion money but I still ignored. Luckily I have no one that wouldn't just laugh at me for being a dumbass in my life so was no big deal but I can imagine that when they find the right person- this is very effective. I did change all my passwords and closed my account to avoid any access just incase but wanted to give everyone a heads up. I assume it was something within that link that sent my ISP or something along those lines.Where does it say he Facetime'd or video chatted? My reading is they were texting off the platform. What got him in trouble was clicking the link. Most likely downloaded what's known as a "drive by" trojan that hacked his phone. Apple claims it cannot happen with iPhone technology but it does. I know someone who had their iPhone hacked a couple months ago and all their accounts with apps installed on the phone were compromised.
Where does it say he Facetime'd or video chatted? My reading is they were texting off the platform. What got him in trouble was clicking the link. Most likely downloaded what's known as a "drive by" trojan that hacked his phone. Apple claims it cannot happen with iPhone technology but it does. I know someone who had their iPhone hacked a couple months ago and all their accounts with apps installed on the phone were compromised.I don't see video chat being accused of being the compromising action in this thread.
It would help if he confirmed that he had pics on his profile, likely hidden like most of us do (did in my case; I've abandoned Seeking for this reason), that show his face. Or he sent face pics otherwise. Because while I don't have the technical wherewithall to send someone a malicious link, I *can* very likely identify you with a face pic that hasn't been posted online by running it through a website that charges $20-40/ month.
Mark Powers
03-25-25, 11:28
I don't see video chat being accused of being the compromising action in this thread.
It would help if he confirmed that he had pics on his profile, likely hidden like most of us do (did in my case; I've abandoned Seeking for this reason), that show his face. Or he sent face pics otherwise. Because while I don't have the technical wherewithall to send someone a malicious link, I *can* very likely identify you with a face pic that hasn't been posted online by running it through a website that charges $20-40/ month.I know it's not fool proof, but I don't have face pics on my profile. I won't send face pics over text. I'll either send them on the site or via snap (snap is best). This way I can delete them after they view them. And on snap you can see if they screenshot or save it. (I know they could still use another device to take the pic but that's an extra step that takes time and I try to delete it right away). Not fool proof but maybe a bit better than just having the pics out there.
I know it's not fool proof, but I don't have face pics on my profile. I won't send face pics over text. I'll either send them on the site or via snap (snap is best). This way I can delete them after they view them. And on snap you can see if they screenshot or save it. (I know they could still use another device to take the pic but that's an extra step that takes time and I try to delete it right away). Not fool proof but maybe a bit better than just having the pics out there.You can see that they screenshot it. . . But then it's too late. Next stop is you get a text on your main (not burner) number from them.
This may sound paranoid but 100% it happens on there. SA is the perfect site on which to find targets for the blackmailers.
Mark Powers
03-25-25, 11:36
You can see that they screenshot it. . . But then it's too late. Next stop is you get a text on your main (not burner) number from them.
This may sound paranoid but 100% it happens on there. SA is the perfect site on which to find targets for the blackmailers.Totally then it's too late. But it means if they didn't screen shot it I have a bit more peace of mind. LOL.
Totally then it's too late. But it means if they didn't screen shot it I have a bit more peace of mind. LOL.I was using a google voice number, it usually switch around from different text apps but wasnt using my VPN. I have Bitdefender app and was using Iphone fwiw. I don't have pics on SA profile (now closed). I think it was the link I clicked sent my ISP and made me searchable. All the info they came back with is in the public domain but was really all my personal and business info.
Mark Powers
03-25-25, 14:05
Seems real based on texting. Sending me to a bit of a random spot to pick her up. She's been around for a couple months. Anyone ever met her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/8592010e-6884-475d-9169-9b290d861280
https://members.seeking.com/member/1bf18780-b917-40d2-a2c1-f5be746a4005
Seems real, she approached me and is putting in solid effort to work with my ridiculous schedule. I offered $350 and she asked for $400 which she is totally worth. She's a total smoke show. I'll report back Sunday after we meet.
PoolPlayInTool
03-25-25, 15:49
Everyone really needs to learn the risks in 2025 of sending pics that show your face. Whether or not they've ever been posted anywhere online, there are facial recognition websites that'll ID you by comparing the face in the pic to other online pics. I've tried it on myself and it 100% works.
This absolutely is happening on Seeking; fake profiles made by these blackmailers to get access to pics of men they can blackmail. They get the pic, find other pics online of the victim (LinkedIn often) . . . Then to a people search site and get all the identifying info (including your "real" phone number when all you gave them was a burner number) and then onto Facebook etc etc. Can all be done in 5-10 minutes total for sure.
The only way to prevent this is to not send a face pic (or give access to them that are stored on a site such as Seeking). We all get to decide. Because as you write, the "bait" profiles and communication on Seeking looks and sounds 100% normal like any other 20-something woman.The reverse photo search only works if your photo is actually searchable on-line otherwise they can search all they want and won't find it. Those facial recognition site such as Tin eye, Google lens, Pim Eyes, Yandex all basically work under the same principal. Now if you have photos on line that are close to the photo you are using then maybe they can figure it out. I reverse photo search every girl I speak with here, I even have other ways to figure out who someone is if and only if they use their real first name and location in their profile.
The reverse photo search only works if your photo is actually searchable on-line otherwise they can search all they want and won't find it. Those facial recognition site such as Tin eye, Google lens, Pim Eyes, Yandex all basically work under the same principal. Now if you have photos on line that are close to the photo you are using then maybe they can figure it out. I reverse photo search every girl I speak with here, I even have other ways to figure out who someone is if and only if they use their real first name and location in their profile.You're using the wrong search tools and you're wrong. At your risk.
DarkClouds
03-25-25, 18:06
The world has changed and the risks of sharing your pic have gone up exponentially. I do a lot of vetting before I share a pic, if at all.
You're using the wrong search tools and you're wrong. At your risk.
PoolPlayInTool
03-25-25, 18:27
You're using the wrong search tools and you're wrong. At your risk.No I am not wrong, if your photo is not posted on-line it can't be found. Simple as that. And seeing that you think I am wrong why don't you tell me what search programs you are using?
Best case is the search can look for similar photos.
No I am not wrong, if your photo is not posted on-line it can't be found. Simple as that. And seeing that you think I am wrong why don't you tell me what search programs you are using?
Best case is the search can look for similar photos.We're saying the same thing I think. . . "Now if you have photos on line that are close to the photo you are using then maybe they can figure it out" is correct, with the caveats that overall the photos themselves don't have to be similar, it's the face in the photos. There are true facial recognition sites which focus in on the face, unlike some other sites (like Google Lens) which appears to me to focus on many aspects of the photo.
Facecheck. I'd is a site I tried on myself; I took a new photo of me (full body) and put it in there and it matched me to my LinkedIn face pic. Whereas Google Lens doesn't seem to be able to match the face on a pic of a woman on the beach to a pic of the same woman at a holiday party. But facecheck could.
Hobbyist420
03-25-25, 19:03
The only way to prevent this is to not send a face pic (or give access to them that are stored on a site such as Seeking). We all get to decide. Because as you write, the "bait" profiles and communication on Seeking looks and sounds 100% normal like any other 20-something woman.More tips: make your facebook, linkedin and other socials private and not available to be on search engines. Don't use these main socials for comms with SBs. Don't use photos on SB sites (and even vanilla dating sites) from your socials. Don't make your photos on the thirst sites public (some claim if public will help you draw more women. Dubious at best). Don't have your main avatar a picture of you.
If you share photos, water mark them (even if you use mspaint to draw an X somewhere in the photo), it will make your photo harder to search (although the AI is getting better).
Take a afternoon. And people search your name and real phone number (you can do your burners too but they will often come up blank, which is why use a burner) and request deletion of your data off those sites. There are also data broker removal websites that do it for a small fee, which can help wipe personal metadata off search engines.
The link clicked may of been the vector. But I agree. They probably reverse AI searched your face pic and got your LinkedIn and then find other info off that after to build their scam.
PoolPlayInTool
03-25-25, 20:47
We're saying the same thing I think. . . "Now if you have photos on line that are close to the photo you are using then maybe they can figure it out" is correct, with the caveats that overall the photos themselves don't have to be similar, it's the face in the photos. There are true facial recognition sites which focus in on the face, unlike some other sites (like Google Lens) which appears to me to focus on many aspects of the photo.
Facecheck. I'd is a site I tried on myself; I took a new photo of me (full body) and put it in there and it matched me to my LinkedIn face pic. Whereas Google Lens doesn't seem to be able to match the face on a pic of a woman on the beach to a pic of the same woman at a holiday party. But facecheck could.Ok I will check this out. I only use photos that are not on any web site. I use Xandex a lot comes up with stuff that other search engines mis.
PoolPlayInTool
03-26-25, 10:45
Ok I will check this out. I only use photos that are not on any web site. I use Xandex a lot comes up with stuff that other search engines mis.I did a bunch of search's with Facecheck both on photos I was able to identify using other image search engines and ones I was not able to find with those engines.
As for the original photos no difference Facecheck did not pick up anything new, however they do provide a lot of "similar" images and I was able to screen cap those and find the actual person
Mark Powers
03-26-25, 11:57
Seems real based on texting. Sending me to a bit of a random spot to pick her up. She's been around for a couple months. Anyone ever met her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/8592010e-6884-475d-9169-9b290d861280I think she's real but I can't deal with the nonsense. We agreed on a price (albeit a low one based on my approach) then 20 min before we meet she says she's 500. I LOL'd. Too much stupidity with this one.
FriendlyKing
03-26-25, 22:28
Would love any insights on the profiles below. Senior members, feel free to DM me—happy to exchange info as I've done before!
Angelina - https://members.seeking.com/member/4c5d1ae3-9e5a-41c2-a79f-ca6f3e8f8934.
Jill - https://members.seeking.com/member/3d1d25cf-3cff-4cdd-b08e-1de9a6d749b8.
Jules - https://members.seeking.com/member/9d8834e5-ff54-4cf0-b5ef-c090476e95a8.
Lexi - https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/320882d9-39aa-471a-8d5d-3ef7af8b4072.
Zoey - https://members.seeking.com/member/b62a3c91-7819-4d7e-ac06-09e37e73e8cd.
I think she's real but I can't deal with the nonsense. We agreed on a price (albeit a low one based on my approach) then 20 min before we meet she says she's 500. I LOL'd. Too much stupidity with this one.Who's paying 500 for that? LOL.
Mark Powers
03-27-25, 14:42
Who's paying 500 for that? LOL.No one I hope! 200 was my max for her.
SalamanderFour
03-27-25, 15:57
What's the best website for an older sidepiece? Someone in their 40's or 50's. Who is more appreciative of the attention (and $), no GPS, and closer to my age. A few years ago I put up with the time wasting and demands of young smoke shows, but not any more.
Banjomania
03-28-25, 07:35
After years on both Seeking and SB it is clear to me that the better action has shifted to SB. Seeking has too many fake profiles and still has not managed to police itself. SB weeds out the fakes with the little verification recording. Overall, SB is a clunky site and you need to watch for spending because it goes up the more people that you chat with, but the sheer volume of real profiles makes it a better hunting ground.
What's the best website for an older sidepiece? Someone in their 40's or 50's. Who is more appreciative of the attention (and $), no GPS, and closer to my age. A few years ago I put up with the time wasting and demands of young smoke shows, but not any more.
What sort of VPN do you guys suggest using for androids?
I was debating either Express or Nord but I'm not sure of the intricacies of either.
Help me out nerds.
PoolPlayInTool
03-28-25, 09:48
What sort of VPN do you guys suggest using for androids?
I was debating either Express or Nord but I'm not sure of the intricacies of either.
Help me out nerds.They are both good I have been using Express VPN for years.
SalamanderFour
03-28-25, 14:01
After years on both Seeking and SB it is clear to me that the better action has shifted to SB. Seeking has too many fake profiles and still has not managed to police itself. SB weeds out the fakes with the little verification recording. Overall, SB is a clunky site and you need to watch for spending because it goes up the more people that you chat with, but the sheer volume of real profiles makes it a better hunting ground.Banjo,
So SB is the the better site, okay. Thanks for that. Now I have to steel myself for the aggravation of dealing with the website.
I use SA because I can pay for a subscription with vanilla cards. SB did not let my do it. Did you pay with your own credit card?
After years on both Seeking and SB it is clear to me that the better action has shifted to SB. Seeking has too many fake profiles and still has not managed to police itself. SB weeds out the fakes with the little verification recording. Overall, SB is a clunky site and you need to watch for spending because it goes up the more people that you chat with, but the sheer volume of real profiles makes it a better hunting ground.
After years on both Seeking and SB it is clear to me that the better action has shifted to SB. Seeking has too many fake profiles and still has not managed to police itself. SB weeds out the fakes with the little verification recording. Overall, SB is a clunky site and you need to watch for spending because it goes up the more people that you chat with, but the sheer volume of real profiles makes it a better hunting ground.It's interesting, my experience has been the opposite, I've had much better luck with SA, on SB I had trouble getting girls to reply to me for some reason, my profile was pretty much the same as SA so I don't know what the problem was.
Banjomania
03-29-25, 08:28
I would have agreed with you until a year or so ago. And I agree that the SB website is stupid and aggravating, but in the demographic I look for (women 30-50) SB has been better by a wide margin for some time, for me at least.
It's interesting, my experience has been the opposite, I've had much better luck with SA, on SB I had trouble getting girls to reply to me for some reason, my profile was pretty much the same as SA so I don't know what the problem was.
I would have agreed with you until a year or so ago. And I agree that the SB website is stupid and aggravating, but in the demographic I look for (women 30-50) SB has been better by a wide margin for some time, for me at least.Perhaps it has something to do with demographic, I am always looking for 20-30 yo women.
Per this Reddit post, blackmailers are using facial recognition on SD pics, and then blackmailing you. https://old.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/1jlcdin/warning_i_just_got_blackmailed_be_careful_out/.
Anyone seen this one? She's pretty fine. Wants $400.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c9c3cd0f-1c60-4d9a-9920-ad78fed48f09
Per this Reddit post, blackmailers are using facial recognition on SD pics, and then blackmailing you. https://old.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/1jlcdin/warning_i_just_got_blackmailed_be_careful_out/.For some reason there is a lot of resistance to acknowledging this. I posted about it here last week and got pushback. And on that Reddit thread, well I read it and there was quite a bit of "Bro you used your real phone number" when obviously he didn't.
It's a numbers game, and I'm out. Someone else can deal with having to go to their spouse with the impact of an "I'm being blackmailed" talk. Or for those who are single, or with a partner who doesn't care. . . It's not very impactful.
DarkClouds
03-30-25, 11:59
Agree. As I have communicated to some of my monger friends, I'm on a (hopefully brief) hiatus from SA until they tone down their requirement for verification and picture verification and improve their ability to accept gift cards. I've had a great run, checked all my boxes, and my bucket list right now is pretty empty. There's no reason for me to invite trouble, which is surely coming. Might be time to go back into the anonymous world of ladies reviewed on the other site and here. Although there's nothing like the amateur world of SA, the price to pay at present is too high for me.
For some reason there is a lot of resistance to acknowledging this. I posted about it here last week and got pushback. And on that Reddit thread, well I read it and there was quite a bit of "Bro you used your real phone number" when obviously he didn't.
It's a numbers game, and I'm out. Someone else can deal with having to go to their spouse with the impact of an "I'm being blackmailed" talk. Or for those who are single, or with a partner who doesn't care. . . It's not very impactful.
It's interesting, my experience has been the opposite, I've had much better luck with SA, on SB I had trouble getting girls to reply to me for some reason, my profile was pretty much the same as SA so I don't know what the problem was.My experience: SA SDM WYP SB.
Most Acct on SB are fake. At least from my experience.
Anyone know if this one is real? Profile seems like she would be, but getting a weird vibe on text.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3ccc36c8-b1f3-4001-aed1-bf72bbb01074Yes, I felt weird too, She claimed in Southie and asked for 5, but changed it to 6 after a few minutes.
Anyone seen this one? She's pretty fine. Wants $400.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c9c3cd0f-1c60-4d9a-9920-ad78fed48f09I posted about her in December '23 when she had a different profile.
I got her for 400, CFS, BBBJ but no CIM, which was disappointing because the BBBJ was actually really good but it was an absolute no on CIM. Her behavior was a bit off, spent a lot of time in the bathroom multiple times, I don't know if it was a result of drug use or what but I wasn't interested in seeing her again.
I also recall she has a child and at the time was still involved with the boyfriend or husband.
For some reason there is a lot of resistance to acknowledging this. I posted about it here last week and got pushback. And on that Reddit thread, well I read it and there was quite a bit of "Bro you used your real phone number" when obviously he didn't.
It's a numbers game, and I'm out. Someone else can deal with having to go to their spouse with the impact of an "I'm being blackmailed" talk. Or for those who are single, or with a partner who doesn't care. . . It's not very impactful.Yeah I might be out too. I'm single, no kids, but still don't want to deal with that shit. I've been thinking I should stop SA anyway and this may be the final push I needed to step away from it.
Hyperion11
03-30-25, 14:58
Anyone seen this one? She's pretty fine. Wants $400.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c9c3cd0f-1c60-4d9a-9920-ad78fed48f09I saw her a while ago, can't remember how much the ppm was. No FK, as far as I recall. She's ok with bare if you look clean, she wasn't on bc though. No erratic behavior when I saw her, but she was quick to leave after.
Agree. As I have communicated to some of my monger friends, I'm on a (hopefully brief) hiatus from SA until they tone down their requirement for verification and picture verification and improve their ability to accept gift cards. I've had a great run, checked all my boxes, and my bucket list right now is pretty empty. There's no reason for me to invite trouble, which is surely coming. Might be time to go back into the anonymous world of ladies reviewed on the other site and here. Although there's nothing like the amateur world of SA, the price to pay at present is too high for me.I have one LONG term utr I see, and two women I met from SA (one 4 yrs ago who's now 26 and one late last year before I quit who's 30) and they will have to keep me satisfied unless I start going back to AMPs (which I've not done in a good 10 yrs). The good thing is all 3 of those women have met each other via me and are down with small group stuff. So life could be worse.
I use SA because I can pay for a subscription with vanilla cards. SB did not let my do it. Did you pay with your own credit card?Does SB reject all vanilla gift cards?
Does SB reject all vanilla gift cards?I tried a few different pre-paid cards and they're all a no go.
I remember there was some feedback on her but I went back 15 or so pages and my search inquiry didn't come up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7139ce83-bfa2-4fe3-b052-eb4cf70d4bd9Against my better judgment I met this one last week or so. Coms were ok. A little slow to reply. We agreed on $400. She eventually met me at the hotel. Immediately disappointed. The pics are old. She's older and has many more miles on her now. Hygiene was not the bestodor etc. BBBJ (not good), CFS. Got job done. It felt like a waste of time and money tho. There are much better options for the money. Also pretty sure she’s a pro.
https://members.seeking.com/member/76252465-8de1-4423-ab53-19940d1507d8
Coms were pretty good. Went quickly to texting. She would only meet in Marshfield at a kind of dumpy hotel which I thought was a red flag but it turned out she just doesn't have a car and won't travel far. She was fine. Nice girl. She's from Kentucky I think originally. Pics are probably a few years old. But she's straight to business and pretty open to a lot. BBFS, BBBJ, Greek, CIA, TUMA. She surprised me actually. Decent time. I won't repeat because the ride sucked for me but she's worth meeting if you're in the area.
https://members.seeking.com/member/07a8b704-c60a-4881-bf5c-1b72a1013d1a
She messaged me which I usually don't even respond to. Those are usually horror shows or pros but she looks cute. Hoping one of you degenerates has seen her and can provide some feedback.
TIA,
-MPC.
I've had my account deactivated for a while and am thinking of reaping. I have an older picture but wonder about verification after I pay the 89. I Do not want to pay and then find out I need to verify.
I've had my account deactivated for a while and am thinking of reaping. I have an older picture but wonder about verification after I pay the 89. I Do not want to pay and then find out I need to verify.You'll need to submit a photo before you get to the paying part of the site. It's quite early on in the process.
Mark Powers
04-04-25, 18:34
I'd go for older 40+ ones on the site but they seem to want the same ppms as the younger 20s ones so I just skip it. Has anyone found a low cost alternative on there that's not a high volume pro?
I'd go for older 40+ ones on the site but they seem to want the same ppms as the younger 20s ones so I just skip it. Has anyone found a low cost alternative on there that's not a high volume pro?Call it inflation or whatever you want but in my experience the lowest you can land a solid girl that's hot, young and fairly clean for is maybe $400. Most of the hotter ones want 500-800. Anything north of 800 should be a pass imo. Basically you get what you pay for usually. If you're trying to find a girl to fuck for 200-300 you're only going to find gross slobs or crusty pros. Everyone is going to say they have some white whale story of a cheaper girl but most of those are lies, one offs or just guys who have a lower standard for hot than I do.
Call it inflation or whatever you want but in my experience the lowest you can land a solid girl that's hot, young and fairly clean for is maybe $400. Most of the hotter ones want 500-800. Anything north of 800 should be a pass imo. Basically you get what you pay for usually. If you're trying to find a girl to fuck for 200-300 you're only going to find gross slobs or crusty pros. Everyone is going to say they have some white whale story of a cheaper girl but most of those are lies, one offs or just guys who have a lower standard for hot than I do.Before corona which was before OF exploded. You can get 8's,9's and tens anywhere from 100 to 300. That's long gone. I think it's easier now to go strip joints or certain restaurants and try to get those girls if they like you. If guys on seeking are trying to find clean models for 1 to 3 Benjamin's. It ain't happening.
Call it inflation or whatever you want but in my experience the lowest you can land a solid girl that's hot, young and fairly clean for is maybe $400. Most of the hotter ones want 500-800. Anything north of 800 should be a pass imo. Basically you get what you pay for usually. If you're trying to find a girl to fuck for 200-300 you're only going to find gross slobs or crusty pros. Everyone is going to say they have some white whale story of a cheaper girl but most of those are lies, one offs or just guys who have a lower standard for hot than I do.Under $400 is very hard to find on Seeking.
Whether it's $400 or $800 I never felt that I "got what I paid for" meaning that an $800 woman was not much better than a $400. The few times I went higher up, when it was over I felt that I didn't get value. But I value performance over looks alone; others differ.
Mark Powers
04-06-25, 15:02
Under $400 is very hard to find on Seeking.
Whether it's $400 or $800 I never felt that I "got what I paid for" meaning that an $800 woman was not much better than a $400. The few times I went higher up, when it was over I felt that I didn't get value. But I value performance over looks alone; others differ.I'm with you. The women I've been seeing for 300-400 have been amazing. I literally cannot imagine how paying more than that would be worth it at all (if anyone knows please tell me! LOL). Under 300 is definitely just a quick variety play and would be rare to actually vibe with anyone at that point. I've never ever gone over 500.
Hyperion11
04-06-25, 17:02
I'm with you. The women I've been seeing for 300-400 have been amazing. I literally cannot imagine how paying more than that would be worth it at all (if anyone knows please tell me! LOL). Under 300 is definitely just a quick variety play and would be rare to actually vibe with anyone at that point. I've never ever gone over 500.I've gone a few times over 500 and I have to say the return of investment is just not there. Then add the hotel, 100 or so.
A few years ago I agreed to 700 for a super hot chick. Complete disappointment. Turned out oral was a no go for her ("I'll only do it with my future husband" LOL). With the hotel, 800 for a lame CFS, sure, with a good looking girl, but I really didn't feel it was worth it.
I've gone a few times over 500 and I have to say the return of investment is just not there. Then add the hotel, 100 or so.
A few years ago I agreed to 700 for a super hot chick. Complete disappointment. Turned out oral was a no go for her ("I'll only do it with my future husband" LOL). With the hotel, 800 for a lame CFS, sure, with a good looking girl, but I really didn't feel it was worth it.I usually aim to pay 300-500 (below 300 is usually not very desirable women in my experience) but I have paid 600-800 several times. In either case I always hash it out before meeting. I ask what she is into, not into and what her rules are. That way we have everything agreed upon in advance. If it's just standard service I'm not paying 500+ no matter how hot she is. But if she got a wide open menu and is young and hot I'll pay 6-8 if need be. Some girls get put off by the line of questioning so be delicate and joke around a little. Keep it light and less transactional. You're not adding options in a car dealership. But at the end of the day it is transactional and money don't grow on trees. So if they won't commit to transparency fuck them. Keep it moving.
Mark Powers
04-08-25, 12:33
Since we were talking about pricing, here's one for you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/147eaa0e-cf34-4914-8ff6-57c9c9affab4
She seems real. She's pretty but if you see her shared pics she's definitely a bigger girl. Can't host. On the south shore. Maybe 300 imo. Had a nice conversation about meeting up with no red flags. Then she drops that she wants 650. That's insane to me. But if one of you is up for it or thinks you can talk her down to your range, go for it!
I'm with you. The women I've been seeing for 300-400 have been amazing. I literally cannot imagine how paying more than that would be worth it at all (if anyone knows please tell me! LOL). Under 300 is definitely just a quick variety play and would be rare to actually vibe with anyone at that point. I've never ever gone over 500.A couple of times I've gone over (up to 800) for someone young (21-22) with a super hot body. It's a treat to experience a body like that, but these 2 times I'm thinking of the performance was just average. So I added to my experience list banging those super fit young women; they would not have slept with me but for me helping them out with their rent so it's ok!
And I've made up for it by seeing a totally UTR professional single mom who answered a CL post I put up in 2012 or so and seeing her up until she ghosted me about 11 months ago for some unknown reason, for $200 the entire 12 years. She hosted, she has a nice body, BB / CIP, and I use (d) her shower afterwards always with a nice clean towel. Maybe she got a "real" bf but I kinda doubt it so who knows?
KangTheMonger
04-08-25, 16:05
A couple of times I've gone over (up to 800) for someone young (21-22) with a super hot body. It's a treat to experience a body like that, but these 2 times I'm thinking of the performance was just average. So I added to my experience list banging those super fit young women; they would not have slept with me but for me helping them out with their rent so it's ok!
And I've made up for it by seeing a totally UTR professional single mom who answered a CL post I put up in 2012 or so and seeing her up until she ghosted me about 11 months ago for some unknown reason, for $200 the entire 12 years. She hosted, she has a nice body, BB / CIP, and I use (d) her shower afterwards always with a nice clean towel. Maybe she got a "real" bf but I kinda doubt it so who knows?Damn that's fucked, you have been seeing her for 13 years then poof, damn these women don't care at all.
Damn that's fucked, you have been seeing her for 13 years then poof, damn these women don't care at all.There's always SOMETHING going on with them. . . Kid issues, ex husband issues. . . I'd probably rather not know nor be drawn into any drama. But you're right and the fact that I haven't gotten ANY communication in so long is very indicative of her true self! One would think that there is / was some basic element of human connection -- she was not a "pro" and we know people professionally in common. Then again, she can't hold down a job for very long (she quits), has complained about every single job / company she's been in since I know her. Maybe it's not them but her? .
KangTheMonger
04-09-25, 14:15
There's always SOMETHING going on with them. . . Kid issues, ex husband issues. . . I'd probably rather not know nor be drawn into any drama. But you're right and the fact that I haven't gotten ANY communication in so long is very indicative of her true self! One would think that there is / was some basic element of human connection -- she was not a "pro" and we know people professionally in common. Then again, she can't hold down a job for very long (she quits), has complained about every single job / company she's been in since I know her. Maybe it's not them but her? .I am fully in agreement with you man, its wack when it happens getting ghosted sucks especially in your case, been messing with her for 10 plus years oof.
Like I felt a certain type of way about the chicks I was seeing for a bit, then poof. But 10 years plus, that's longer than a lot of relationships.
But even with regular relationships whether dating or marriage chicks can just wake up one day, not really be feeling it anymore.
I have not been in the SB arena in years. Have been thinking of getting back in so created a couple accounts, non paid. Was looking at one woman who I favorited and she viewed my profile a couple of days ago. Today she is gone from my saved search, she is gone from my favs and she is gone from my "viewed me " tab. First inclination is she blocked me but she also disappeared from my other account where I never even looked at her profile. Its not a big deal just curious if this means she deleted her profile.
Hobbyist420
04-09-25, 20:08
I have not been in the SB arena in years. Have been thinking of getting back in so created a couple accounts, non paid. Was looking at one woman who I favorited and she viewed my profile a couple of days ago. Today she is gone from my saved search, she is gone from my favs and she is gone from my "viewed me " tab. First inclination is she blocked me but she also disappeared from my other account where I never even looked at her profile. Its not a big deal just curious if this means she deleted her profile.Yes (or she paused it). Confirmation is you can't see her from your burner, which is the way to verify that stuff.
Yes (or she paused it). Confirmation is you can't see her from your burner, which is the way to verify that stuff.Which validates why you should always have a SA burner account half filled out! LOL.
Mark Powers
04-10-25, 07:59
I have not been in the SB arena in years. Have been thinking of getting back in so created a couple accounts, non paid. Was looking at one woman who I favorited and she viewed my profile a couple of days ago. Today she is gone from my saved search, she is gone from my favs and she is gone from my "viewed me " tab. First inclination is she blocked me but she also disappeared from my other account where I never even looked at her profile. Its not a big deal just curious if this means she deleted her profile.More likely seeking identified her as a scammer and deleted the profile. It happens a lot.
BostonKid1234
04-16-25, 10:39
Any one saw this one before? Started chatting with her and seems she's ready to meet. Any information would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c9a71455-c9fe-40cf-85c8-376e7b80cef6
Mark Powers
04-16-25, 13:09
She looks familiar. She has escort ads out there somewhere right?
https://members.seeking.com/member/37c84e43-733e-43b2-af89-72fd5a88ea35
Hobbyist420
04-17-25, 07:26
She looks familiar. She has escort ads out there somewhere right?
https://members.seeking.com/member/37c84e43-733e-43b2-af89-72fd5a88ea35Her escort name was Karina. https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/karina-6174478505-333878.
MinorLeague
04-20-25, 15:21
https://members.seeking.com/member/1bf18780-b917-40d2-a2c1-f5be746a4005
Seems real, she approached me and is putting in solid effort to work with my ridiculous schedule. I offered $350 and she asked for $400 which she is totally worth. She's a total smoke show. I'll report back Sunday after we meet.How'd it go?
The usual pleasant exchange, go to text, plan to meet then she says she needs commitment and gas money. Red flag she is online constantly.
https://members.seeking.com/member/521bd036-aae0-4ec4-aa20-00a488e23433
The usual pleasant exchange, go to text, plan to meet then she says she needs commitment and gas money. Red flag she is online constantly.
https://members.seeking.com/member/521bd036-aae0-4ec4-aa20-00a488e23433Diva says she is in Cambridge. Leads you along nicely.
The usual pleasant exchange, go to text, plan to meet then she says she needs commitment and gas money. Red flag she is online constantly.
https://members.seeking.com/member/521bd036-aae0-4ec4-aa20-00a488e23433Her account is 3 days old the link probably won't even work in another day move on.
MinorLeague
04-23-25, 12:33
https://members.seeking.com/member/0287e863-a9b5-45d0-acef-00eb4c4f3456
Seems to want $800.
Hopelessromant
04-23-25, 16:08
Anyone have any luck lately using a Visa / MasterCard debit / gift card on Seeking. I've been using MC debit cards purchased at Home Depot that are issued by Pathward Bank that are part of the Blackhawk network, but now it keeps getting declined. Anyone using a card that has worked recently?
TIA.
AcknowledgeMe
04-23-25, 18:54
Anyone have any luck lately using a Visa / MasterCard debit / gift card on Seeking. I've been using MC debit cards purchased at Home Depot that are issued by Pathward Bank that are part of the Blackhawk network, but now it keeps getting declined. Anyone using a card that has worked recently?
TIA.Use Google pay. Google pay gift card or load it through a debit card then on seeking go through the google pay option and the money is already there and goes through.
Maybe she meant she has a daughter that is 28!
https://members.seeking.com/member/9ff330e4-f401-442a-806a-ae25f0886237
Mark Powers
04-23-25, 21:29
Maybe she meant she has a daughter that is 28!
https://members.seeking.com/member/9ff330e4-f401-442a-806a-ae25f0886237LOL!
She's also apparently Asian! Ha!
Unfortunately as soon as we switched to texting, she didn't respond much. So either she is a scammer, trying to get my phone number (it's Google Voice) or she needs way more work out of me to get her to meet and she's not going to get that kind of effort from me.
How'd it go?
DarkClouds
04-24-25, 09:11
I see the Google Pay option on the web. Should be anonymous enough if I use an anonymous Google account. The question is which prepaid credit cards does Google Pay support? The Blackhawk/MyGiftCardMall ones that the other user mentioned are the ones I had been using successfully on Seeking until they stopped working a few months back. Being able to register them also stopped working around the same time. So, I wonder if the two problems are connected. The question is, will I be able to add the card to Google Pay without registering the card?
Use Google pay. Google pay gift card or load it through a debit card then on seeking go through the google pay option and the money is already there and goes through.
Longjblues
04-24-25, 12:04
Isabella, 27.
Woburn.
5'7, curvy, single.
"as generous as you are, in Boston tonight".
Ideally would enjoy shopping, dinners, etc. I have bills, you have desires, let's help each other.
Quoted me $700. My guess, bigger than pics. Good luck.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d26a9987-6355-4c02-9f15-50139e98c6db
Isabella, 27.
Woburn.
5'7, curvy, single.
"as generous as you are, in Boston tonight".
Ideally would enjoy shopping, dinners, etc. I have bills, you have desires, let's help each other.
Quoted me $700. My guess, bigger than pics. Good luck.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d26a9987-6355-4c02-9f15-50139e98c6dbShe has been talked about before:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/search.php?searchid=5707551
Hopelessromant
04-24-25, 20:08
I see the Google Pay option on the web. Should be anonymous enough if I use an anonymous Google account. The question is which prepaid credit cards does Google Pay support? The Blackhawk/MyGiftCardMall ones that the other user mentioned are the ones I had been using successfully on Seeking until they stopped working a few months back. Being able to register them also stopped working around the same time. So, I wonder if the two problems are connected. The question is, will I be able to add the card to Google Pay without registering the card?I was able to load a Blackhawk MasterCard onto Google pay but I can't access it for 7 days per google while my account gets verified.
KangTheMonger
04-25-25, 16:05
She has been talked about before:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/search.php?searchid=5707551Doesn't link to the post.
Mark Powers
04-25-25, 16:12
She has been talked about before:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/search.php?searchid=5707551That link didn't work and a search for Isabella didn't come up with anything. Thoughts on a different keyword or post #?
She seems to be friends with the Harleigh King that wants 800 based on their snaps.
She's a bit chunky. Definitely wouldn't be worth 700 to me but almost no one would be.
That link didn't work and a search for Isabella didn't come up with anything. Thoughts on a different keyword or post #?
She seems to be friends with the Harleigh King that wants 800 based on their snaps.
She's a bit chunky. Definitely wouldn't be worth 700 to me but almost no one would be.Not sure what happened, the link worked last night. Anyway, if you do a search for 50139 e98 c6 db on this thread you will find the posts. ( Eliminate the spaces between)
DarkClouds
04-25-25, 20:50
Thanks for responding. Did you register the card? Was it one of those MyGiftCardMall ones?
I was able to load a Blackhawk MasterCard onto Google pay but I can't access it for 7 days per google while my account gets verified.
Hopelessromant
04-25-25, 22:58
Thanks for responding. Did you register the card? Was it one of those MyGiftCardMall ones?The card was not registered. It was part of the Blackhawk network and the site was mcgift. giftcardmall.com. I haven't been able to use it yet though since google requires a 7 day wait to verify.
Hopelessromant
04-29-25, 00:33
The card was not registered. It was part of the Blackhawk network and the site was mcgift. giftcardmall.com. I haven't been able to use it yet though since google requires a 7 day wait to verify.My account was verified. I loaded a Blackhawk network MC to Google Pay then tried to use it to renew my SA account without success. It says the card was declined. Tried again loading a Visa from giftcardmall again without success. I've contacted SA customer service who weren't too helpful either. I ready to give up on SA at this point.
I'm texting with her now. She did not want to host. Is this normal for this first time? She hasn't quoted a price yet, she's waiting for me to make an offer.
Will report back if we meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6896c612-a3b8-4dff-a1d4-416187783964
I can't help but wonder how many of us have fucked this lady. It's wild, she invites you over to her boyfriend's house. I've used his body wash in the shower after filling his girlfriend with multiple loads. I've left $200 every time I see her and never a complaint. She's not great looking, but will let you eat it and fuck it bare. If you're cool, eventually you can fuck her ass and leave a load there too.
Anyone have any experience with this one?:
https://members.seeking.com/member/6d4f28eb-8b47-46ea-881d-7ef3a3ddd8e3
She's quoting $500 ppm, no anal and can't host. That seems high. Any thoughts on what I should counter with?
Thanks in advance for any guidance.
DarkClouds
04-29-25, 08:45
Thanks. Let us know if Google ends up verifying your card.
The card was not registered. It was part of the Blackhawk network and the site was mcgift. giftcardmall.com. I haven't been able to use it yet though since google requires a 7 day wait to verify.
Mark Powers
04-29-25, 10:21
Anyone have any experience with this one?:
https://members.seeking.com/member/6d4f28eb-8b47-46ea-881d-7ef3a3ddd8e3
She's quoting $500 ppm, no anal and can't host. That seems high. Any thoughts on what I should counter with?
Thanks in advance for any guidance.That's crazy high considering what you can get for 500 or even 300. I would have thrown out 250 for her but given she's telling you 500 maybe you can try for 300?
I'd be a pass at 5.
Let us know what happens.
Longjblues
04-29-25, 11:03
A Few that I have started communicating with, recently, Any info?
Loyalty15.
28 · Lynn.
5'7, slim, single.
Indicated no to $200, but won't provide amount that's required. Can host at the moment.
Indicated doesn't enjoy anal or cim.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/041d19ca-2707-4e1c-8487-8a3232b23a6b
Cat, 34.
Methuen.
Lets have fun.
5'1, slim single.
Can't host, $200 good, Says she is worth more than $200.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3a3b64ff-c3ce-45ab-9eef-3563b223adf7
Savannah, 29.
Medford.
Looking for a gentleman I love company.
5'2, athletic, single.
Non respondent so far, other than occasional.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1631523f-af5c-4005-91bb-268ca0e3da09
Any info appreciated.
I realized I forgot to mention that she said she would handle Ubering herself to the meet. She lives north of Boston. Said she was close so I'm thinking Revere or Malden.
I'll report back if we do connect.
That's crazy high considering what you can get for 500 or even 300. I would have thrown out 250 for her but given she's telling you 500 maybe you can try for 300?
I'd be a pass at 5.
Let us know what happens.
That's crazy high considering what you can get for 500 or even 300. I would have thrown out 250 for her but given she's telling you 500 maybe you can try for 300?.Saw her weeks ago. Very underwhelming and would not repeat. Wanted 5, gave her 3. BBBJ was not great and cfs even worse.
I realized I forgot to mention that she said she would handle Ubering herself to the meet. She lives north of Boston. Said she was close so I'm thinking Revere or Malden.
I'll report back if we do connect.Holy shit that is high, she looks at least 10 years older than 44 in her pictures, her profile says she just joined in April 2025 but I'm pretty sure I've seen her on the site before, personally I wouldn't bother with her but if you're really interested my advice would be to counter with 200, maybe even less, I doubt she is getting 500 from anyone so if she turns down your lower offer leave it on good terms with her and loosely stay in touch and she may come around to it, but yeah, you can get way younger and attractive for 500.
Anyone have any experience with this one?:
https://members.seeking.com/member/6d4f28eb-8b47-46ea-881d-7ef3a3ddd8e3
She's quoting $500 ppm, no anal and can't host. That seems high. Any thoughts on what I should counter with?
Thanks in advance for any guidance.I'm pretty sure I researched her in the past and found her escort ad (s). FWIW, she's a pro.
I'm pretty sure I researched her in the past and found her escort ad (s). FWIW, she's a pro.Way overpriced and pics are better than in person. Saw her once, not worth 3 and a room.
Hopelessromant
04-29-25, 18:01
Thanks. Let us know if Google ends up verifying your card.My card was verified and I tried paying again with Google Pay without success. The SA says my card was declined. I'm tried everything without success and giving up on SA for the time being.
Mark Powers
04-30-25, 07:17
A Few that I have started communicating with, recently, Any info?
Loyalty15.
28 Lynn.
5'7, slim, single.
Indicated no to $200, but won't provide amount that's required. Can host at the moment.
Indicated doesn't enjoy anal or cim.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/041d19ca-2707-4e1c-8487-8a3232b23a6b
Cat, 34.
Methuen.
Lets have fun.
5'1, slim single.
Can't host, $200 good, Says she is worth more than $200.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3a3b64ff-c3ce-45ab-9eef-3563b223adf7
Savannah, 29.
Medford.
Looking for a gentleman I love company.
5'2, athletic, single.
Non respondent so far, other than occasional.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1631523f-af5c-4005-91bb-268ca0e3da09
Any info appreciated.Loyalty has been reviewed before. At that time the police were watching her place. Sounds like she's into a lot of stuff.
No way that last girl is 29! LOL.
DarkClouds
05-01-25, 21:59
Same. Based on my experience and research, that site is destined to die, one way or another. I know many who use their real credit cards for membership. That's the dumbest thing you could do. They were the best option. And I know of no alternative. I had a great run for 7 years, thanks to their site. The owner got married and completely changed his tune. Look at the site redesign. Pink? My cup is full and I've never been desperate. So, I've decided to move on to other things, like reading, golf, traveling, and such. Maybe I will come back if they fix themselves.
My card was verified and I tried paying again with Google Pay without success. The SA says my card was declined. I'm tried everything without success and giving up on SA for the time being.
KangTheMonger
05-02-25, 08:07
Same. Based on my experience and research, that site is destined to die, one way or another. I know many who use their real credit cards for membership. That's the dumbest thing you could do. They were the best option. And I know of no alternative. I had a great run for 7 years, thanks to their site. The owner got married and completely changed his tune. Look at the site redesign. Pink? My cup is full and I've never been desperate. So, I've decided to move on to other things, like reading, golf, traveling, and such. Maybe I will come back if they fix themselves.I don't think seeking is going to go away considering, more and more women are going to need bills paid, as the economy gets worse.
Hopelessromant
05-02-25, 12:38
I don't think seeking is going to go away considering, more and more women are going to need bills paid, as the economy gets worse.I agree. During economic downturns in the past, I noticed local agencies would have more coeds and GNDs on their roster. With the advent of SA, I think a lot of them migrated to that platform initially but more recently have become more scarce over the past few years. With another poor economy, I'm hoping they come back to the site. SA needs to update their payment system, however, to make it easier to use anonymous Visa / MC payment cards.
PoolPlayInTool
05-02-25, 13:16
Same. Based on my experience and research, that site is destined to die, one way or another. I know many who use their real credit cards for membership. That's the dumbest thing you could do. They were the best option. And I know of no alternative. I had a great run for 7 years, thanks to their site. The owner got married and completely changed his tune. Look at the site redesign. Pink? My cup is full and I've never been desperate. So, I've decided to move on to other things, like reading, golf, traveling, and such. Maybe I will come back if they fix themselves.Why would you think its dumb to use a credit card?? What exactly are they going to do with my information?
Hobbyist420
05-02-25, 17:22
Why would you think its dumb to use a credit card?? What exactly are they going to do with my information?It's mostly the risk of hackers grabbing, and then dumping, the names they'd find from SA servers on the net where you'd get doxxed essentially being on a sugar thirst site. There is also the credit card info getting out there, but that's an easy annoyance to rectify; one's reputation isn't.
The Ashley Madison situation was the example of this, which blew up because that site is mostly full of married men. If your not married you may not give two shits, but still even some single men would find it embarrassing if co-workers / friends / family found out you were on an SB site.
I mean, look at the Belichick situation: getting more and more clear they didn't meet "on a plane" and people are now talking all types of stuff. Most do look down on these sites and sugaring in general, even though it's existed since the dawn of time.
I don't think seeking is going to go away considering, more and more women are going to need bills paid, as the economy gets worse.
I disagree because now we have multiple digital payment apps and content sites like OnlyFans. The women will just migrate to that to pay bills, especially the younger ones; less work for potentially more passive money.
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